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Non-man?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:00 AM
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I wish you well in your 20 years of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:36 PM
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Straight away or after a series of failed attempts?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:31 PM
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And you found your husband all on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:30 PM
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So, since you know yourself better than your parents, then why are you still single? Wouldn't it be wise to just humble yourself and say, "You know what? I'm trying to find the right man, but my decisions so far have constantly led me to the wrong men. Maybe I should ask mom and dad for advice since they've gone down this road before me, and since they've raised me, they would know what kind of man will suit my personality. Good parents are not just there to raise you. They are there to help you…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:15 PM
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Well, since they have raised you from infancy, they have built a very close to accurate map of who your personality type and temperament and of course that's what they have to do as parents because they are dealing with an individual that needs nurturing, guidance and discipline and the only way they can effectively dispense these parental obligations is if they understand enough of your natural proclivities so that they can effectively shape and mould you to become a functioning member of socie…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:29 PM
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Help me understand why you think that people who have raised you since day one of your life don't know what's best for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:01 PM
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I see. Alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:40 AM
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How exactly is a dating app similar to a singles ad in the newspaper?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:13 AM
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What exactly do they don't know enough about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:09 AM
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Not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:02 AM
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So you believe that people who brought you into this world are totally clueless of who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 10:59 AM
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Alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 06:44 AM
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To me, the issue is that modern society right now is basically broken and the reason is because the people of the west who are of European descent have rejected the Christian heritage of their ancestors, which provided them a strong foundation for successful courtship and marriage which translates to strong communities and ultimately stable societies. We cannot say the same for now. That's why I argued that dating is a fraudulent practice compared to the old-fashioned courtship of our ancestors …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:48 AM
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Time will tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:56 AM
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Good. Keep the momentum going.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:48 AM
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Married long?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:47 AM
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No matter how you want to slice it, society was more stable back then compared to the mess that it's in now. Dating is not evolution. It's devolution and online dating is maybe the final stage, which is the total elimination of face to face socialization.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:46 AM
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Still dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:36 AM
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You sound very bitter. Are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:34 AM
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You can not deny the fact of women as the dependent gender in terms of survival even in modern times. This fact is beyond debate. But you are entitled to your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:32 AM
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Your submission to the authority of the husband as a wife is not a sacrifice. It is your duty just as it is the duty of children to submit to the authority of the parents. If you see your submission to your man as a sacrifice, then you have bigger problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:23 AM
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Those days were good because people were practicing what actually worked. Not like now, where there are more divorces than happy marriages, more single mothers than ever, the increased slutification of young women through hookup culture, increased loneliness of young men by online dating, and the general brokeness seen across modern society. You really thinking you are living in the greatest time in history? Society is in decline because people are rejecting the wisdom of the good old days.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:17 AM
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That's the general sentiment I'm getting. People think I'm imagining this stuff. But really, the past was more of a reference. The main focus of the argument was on the general principles of courtship the non-secular people in the past adhered to that made for successful marriages. But if people press for what exact past I'm referring to, then all I can say is the past where your ancestors were Christians and practiced courtship and marriage based on the Judeo-Christian principles set out in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:59 PM
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I wouldn't know. But your parents would, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:46 PM
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You already made the claim that it's something that is bad. I am simply asking you to justify your claim. How come you are the one who makes the claims but I'm the one who gets to justify myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:28 PM
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I see what you are trying to do. You are trying to back me into a corner by pressing me with being specific about time periods and whatnot with the intention to make me look foolish. I sense that you have done this before. Truthfully, I can not give you a definitive answer save that my reflections regarding the past in the post is not tied to a specific nationality or period in history but more on the ethos of those times in general that contrast so greatly from the secularist times we live in r…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:10 PM
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Is that a wise move to make as a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:56 PM
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They had to come to you first though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:54 PM
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Are you of European descent?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:46 PM
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What is your heritage?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:44 PM
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I am talking about any culture or society from the past who structured their courtship and marriage according to judeo-christian principles.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:42 PM
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It could be Europe during the height of Christianity, the Victorian Era, Colonial America, basically the period in history where secularism wasn't a thing and people still had a culture, idenity, faith and tradition which bound them together as a community. Time period is not what is relevant to me regarding the issue. Maybe for you. But the wisdom that was possessed in the past by our ancestors, which the west has forgotten to their peril is what matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:32 PM
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You asking me?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:22 PM
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Hate to break it to you, but that's not how women actually move. Women would rather be pursued than do the pursuing themselves. It's their feminine nature to be the recievers. That principle is demonstrated clearly in online dating. All men flock to women. Not the other way around. Traditional cultures have always structured courting rituals around these natural masculine and feminine imperatives. This modern way of dating is truly unnatural and weird. Any guy modern or not would never take a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:19 PM
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Was that a personal experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:09 PM
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Oh! You mean it will truly be her choice if she herself gets out there and pursues the man she wants rather than her being in one place just accepting and rejecting men who come offering her marriage proposals.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:07 PM
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Fine. Whatever you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:00 PM
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She does have a choice. She can either turn down or accept a marriage proposal. Or what do you mean by choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:59 PM
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What do you want me to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:55 PM
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Females have always been a gender dependent on men for survival. That fact will always hold true. But I get your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:52 PM
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So the individuals who diapered you, fed you, clothed you, educated you, and grew you to the adult you are now are totally clueless about who you are. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:45 PM
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Actually, 365 days of courting resulting in no marriage is 365 days of your own life wasted and 365 days of her life you stole.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:39 PM
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Are you really taking it there? Cmon now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:34 PM
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Fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:30 PM
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Instead of lambasting the paragraph, just come out and say why you hate it so much. I'll appreciate your input.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:30 PM
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Being part of a family at least gives a human being way better chances of success in life aberration or no aberration.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:27 PM
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We must choose carefully what we sacrifice. A wise man once said.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:24 PM
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That may be so, but the essential elements that must be present for courtship to result in a successful marriage remain the same. But thank you for the historical contexts showing the broader perspective of the topic of courtship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:22 PM
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OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:17 PM
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Could you please distill your question and the rationales behind it into one paragraph, if possible? Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:15 PM
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You've been hanging out with the wrong men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:12 PM
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You can live for yourself. But the problem is when you die, you cannot bury yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:10 PM
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A woman is vetted, offered a marriage proposal, and courted culminating in marriage. Courting without prior confirmation of intent to marry is just dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:08 PM
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I don't know about that. Your parents know you way more than you do yourself most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 03:00 PM
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The joys exist with the sorrows of those times as well you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:58 PM
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What's wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:57 PM
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Vetting in the context of traditional courtship follows the exact meaning of the word, which is; "To make a careful and critical examination of something" which in this case a woman as a potential wife. A man vet's a woman by doing some initial background investigation, and if the results show up promising, then he proceeds to the next stage, which is to approach the woman with a marriage proposal. At this juncture, the woman can either accept or reject the offer. If she rejects, the man moves o…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:55 PM
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Well, whichever the case may be, the woman, in the end, becomes your responsibility not because of her choice but yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:37 PM
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Does the other party care?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:30 PM
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I like your thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:29 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:28 PM
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Well you framed it in the past tense so?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:26 PM
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I'm not making anything the only option. What I'm trying to communicate is marriages succeed and families thrive better when they within the broader context of a community, which is often a feature of traditional societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:23 PM
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Come on now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:15 PM
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What about now?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:14 PM
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Oh! That's where you and I diverge in our understanding of vetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:11 PM
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I see. When I speak of community, I'm talking about the traditional heterosexual communities and how the nuclear family is a micro-cosm of the communities that traditional societies are built from.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:10 PM
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Men and women already know what their gender roles were and fit themselves nicely into those roles. Men will be the providers, so it's their responsibility to vett the women who they deem will be a suitable wife candidate. The women prepare themselves so that they succeed at being the one chosen. Things weren't that complicated back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:03 PM
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One of the major factors why relationships are breaking down in our times is because modern society is more atomized than ever through our hyper individualistic lifestyles. You may not see the value of community backing up your relationship, but that is the wisdom that strengthens all traditional societies. It is not just about you but about the people of whom you are a part of it. Your success in starting and maintaining a family is as much in their best interest as it is yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:56 PM
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Depends on what you mean by fair. Also, I don't think you and I understand vetting in the same sense. But I appreciate the viewpoint anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:43 PM
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Ouch.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:26 AM
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I truly am sorry that you've experienced this. Covert rejection can truly be painful. I hope for your sake that you've healed through therapy and now are ready to face the world once more with a more positive and hopeful outlook.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:23 AM
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OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 08:39 PM
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Glad you asked. To put it as briefly as possible, which is worse? Getting rejected after shooting your shot or getting rejected after "taking" a shot? If you know which one you strongly lean towards, don't argue for that. Try argue for the one you are less sympathetic towards. The purpose is for you to maybe gain some vital comprehension on the difficulties of being in a position you don't sympathize with. The outcome is to hopefully gain a more broader understanding of each sides needs so that …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 08:25 PM
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A man finds his self-worth through his devotion to principles and ideals (aka God) and not in other persons or things. Never commit the sin of idolatry. A woman is a dangerous god to worship. Instead, the masculine imperative demands that you get to work by first finding out what does the world need you for and what ideals and principles you must live by to fulfill your destiny. When you finally fulfill that, women may not love you, want to bear your children, but their memory will fade while th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 11:25 AM
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So you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:53 PM
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Have you truly been rejected to your face by a woman you wanted?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:48 PM
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I understand. Getting rejected to your face is less painful than having your profile page swiped to the left.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:45 PM
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I agree that online dating is harder to be successful in getting the outcomes you want. Not harder because it takes more skill than the direct approach. You may be good on paper, but how you perform out there in the real world is what counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:36 PM
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Yes. I agree that you agree with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:28 PM
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Of course they are hard. That's how they make money by getting you addicted to a fantasy. And besides, those hot ladies are nothing but filter and photoshop magic. So you are not seeing the genuine article. False advertisement all day long.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:25 PM
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I'm talking about dating apps, not insta. Go check out the actual stats about dating app usage to male and female population distribution. And don't ask me for sources. Google or ChatGPT it yourself. You don't need this because there are so many more women out there to meet. Using dating apps is self limiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:18 PM
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No. It's an illusion of a greater dating pool. You do know that the majority of single available women aren't using dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:11 PM
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Then why waste time trying to get with someone online?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:08 PM
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What are you talking about? If you matched with the woman on the app and a guy comes straight to her and sweeps her off her feet with his pickup lines, who was initiating contact? You lost buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:06 PM
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Sure it is. Isn't online dating all about getting the attention of the opposite sex? And isn't that what traps are supposed to do? Get the attention of the prey so that they can be snagged?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:57 PM
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OK. But think of it this way as well. As a hunter, why would you need to set traps when you can shoot down your prey with perfect precision every time? Traps are good, but the problem with traps is that you don't always get the kind of prey you want. But as a marksman, you can choose what you want to catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:47 PM
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If it's easier, you wouldn't need a profile page.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 04:37 PM
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Duh!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:47 PM
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Then, you have severely limited your chances for success because almost all men want children, and as the marriage advances, you will grow to liking your husband less and tolerate him more because he is a flawed human after all. Not a lot of enjoyment there. You sound like a nice person. I suggest you make some concessions because the odds of you finding an eternally likable, enjoyable man who doesn't want kids is extremely low.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/24 03:38 PM
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Fine. You guys are the experts.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/24 02:27 PM
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Just talk dirty. Say ," Put a baby in me" or something like that. And say it like you mean it and not like you're reading it out from the palm of your hand. That should get the job done.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/24 02:00 PM
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The root word from which the word "Patriachy" comes from is the Greek word 'patēr' which means 'father'. So long as there are men in this world, no army, no tyrant, no demagogue, no philosophy, no ideology, however poisonous, can kill patriachy. Because to be a patriach is the birthright of every male. The only way to kill patriachy is to kill all men. Thousands of years of bloody conquests proved that to be beyond impossible because men are still here bringing forth offspring, raising families,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:23 PM
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Biology is what ultimately dictates mating strategies between the sexs. Woman marry up and man marry down because that makes perfect biological sense. But each society has its own cultural norms concerning how mating across age brackets are deemed acceptable. But generally speaking, women are usually free to marry as high up as they can go but there is a threshold where marrying a man who is past a certain age bracket is just considered weird. The same cannot be said for men because marrying up …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:06 PM
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Old school indeed but I don't think young guys these days appreciate the level of skill it takes to get multiple chic's numbers in a single day without the need to disguise yourself behind a profile page. Raw charm and swag is all you needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 12:41 PM
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Do you know what it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 12:23 PM
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Don't trouble yourself with asking that question. You might as well be asking, "What does a one ended stick look like?"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 12:16 PM
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I don't know how to respond to that. We're you offended?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 12:08 PM
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Getting matches on dating apps is lame. Having a Chicionary means you really got game.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 09:01 AM
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It depends on what you really want. Do you want marriage and family or something else because at 28 years old, time is really not on your side to still be undecided. It doesn't sound like you are dating with intention. At this stage of your life, you can't afford craps shooting your fertile years. I would like to make some suggestions. It's just that you don't sound like you want to be someone's wife.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/24 08:08 AM
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No. Just too hard headed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:32 AM
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Which could've made you a perfect wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:28 AM
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I see. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:13 AM
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What the hell have you been doing all this time?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:08 AM
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Not what but how.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:06 AM
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Getting dick is easy. Keeping dick is hard. If you suck at keeping dick, that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:03 AM
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This is a truly sad post OP. Heart breaking stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:56 AM
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Modern men have no clue how to give to a woman, and modern women have no clue know how to get from a man. That's your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:50 AM
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In my opinion, men who should pay child support of the severest kind should be those who willfully deny their parental responsibilities towards the children they produce out of wedlock. Divorced men should never pay child support because they love their children and will still support them no matter what. When baby daddies are severely punished by the law for their carelessness, it creates a social deterrent to such abbarent behavior in young men. But let's be real. Single motherhood is mostly t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:29 AM
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Biologically speaking, at 19 years of age, you are at the height of your sexual attractiveness to men. That means your chances of attracting and locking down the right man who will marry you are really great, but that chance will diminish as you get older the longer you wait. However, your success in attracting a husband now will depend on two things; 1.A correct understanding of men, and 2.Your preparation level for marriage. Having the correct understanding of what makes a guy a man is critica…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/24 12:50 AM
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Nobody's saying you're anything but. However, nature has its scheduled program for humans, and understanding what that is and working with it has made us thrive with successive generations. It's up to you to get with the program or go against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:47 PM
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Sexual Market Place rules are that a woman's value is very high in youth starting at 18 and peaking at 23 years of age, which coincides with peak fertility. A man's value is very high in maturity, starting at 35 and peaking around 45 years of age, which usually coincides with reaching his financial stride. Therefore, ideally, all the girls you went to school with will marry your big brothers, and you will later marry their little sisters. Those who marry their own age are exceptions because it u…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:34 PM
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A successful and happily married man is the O.G high value man.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/24 06:06 AM
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A father's presence is very important in the development of both the son and daughter for their future successes in becoming a husband and a wife respectively to each of their spouses. A son learns how to give love to a woman from his father, and a daughter learns how to receive love from a man from her father. That's why boys who grow up in single mother homes ironically more often become the worst misogynists, and likewise, girls in fatherless homes most always end up becoming victims of said …
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/24 03:43 AM
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Everything in its proper perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:15 AM
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Then we agree. My advice is to just get it out quickly. It's not like they are strangers or anything. And you are right. He is the one who must prove his intentions, not her. She did fumble the relationship by being prematurely physical in the relationship. That is the blunder that hurts a lot of women's chances for a relationship. That's the only thing she needs to fix on her side if she still wants the man.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/24 10:10 PM
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You would agree that women normally enter relationships for marriage and not for testing the waters. Therefore, the advice given is to help her rectify the initial blunder of her being physical with the man she wants way too early by making clear from the beginning of the relationship sequel, that it was a mistake on her part. The man needs to understand that just because he had her so easily in the beginning doesn't mean that she is cheap. Also, she must make her intentions to the man in no unc…
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/24 09:53 PM
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Just be honest. He just might take you seriously this time. Please update us on how things went. Take care.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/24 09:25 PM
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I believe what made your situation become problematic is the 'physical before committing' part. If you become too intimate too soon, any incentive he may have for seriously pursuing you may have diminished. Men value women they feel they've earned. Now that he is not enthusiastic anymore, you feel you are the only one pushing the relationship. But now that there is a chance for you both to pick-up where you left off, you are in damage-control mode. The only way I see you rectifying this situatio…
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/24 08:32 PM
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Having besties plays a very important role in our social development particularly between childhood and young adult. The function of having besties in those early stages of life is to emotionally and psychologically prepare us to properly pair-bond in adulthood. Yes, we learn how to be good husbands and wives by practicing on our besties first. All the qualities that make a successful marriage such as trust, support, truthfulness, sincerity and respect are cultivated as children and become more …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:48 AM
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