| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 11 | What's something irrational that you do? | TailoredSuccess | /r/seduction | 16/08/12 02:30 AM | |
| 3 | Hair, and the image we portray. | TailoredSuccess | /r/seduction | 28/02/14 03:01 AM | |
| 2 | What subreddits are great for inner game / self improvement? | TailoredSuccess | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 02:31 AM | |
| 2 | The feeling we don't want to feel. | TailoredSuccess | /r/seduction | 10/03/14 11:41 PM | |
| 1 | Got her number. Now what? and [FR] | TailoredSuccess | /r/seduction | 12/02/14 01:19 AM |
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| 1 | How to escalate on date without awkwardness?If you are eating at a restaurant with her or grabbing a drink, sit next to her, not across the table. This allows you to sit close enough where you will touch each other without trying. | /r/seduction | 12/08/14 07:30 PM |
| 2 | How to escalate on date without awkwardness?A few things, kind of in order. Meet up. Compliment with hug. Touch her lower back confidently and gently If she says something that you can call her out on or if something is funny lightly backhand her arm or shoulder laugh and smile. High five if a moment merits. Sit next to her, not across from her like you are applying for a job Warm hug when you leave. Watch youtube if you don't feel like you're a good hugger. Good luck | /r/seduction | 12/08/14 05:07 PM |
| 3 | In a new relationship. My confidence SKYROCKETS. What causes this?The subtle difference is believing you are entitled to what you want. Think a lion and a jackal that both want to eat a zebra. The lion will hunt the zebra down. It's aggression and power takes down the zebra and the lion eats it. The jackal lurks in the tall grass waiting for the lion to leave, with its maniacal laughter echoing the night. It wants the food, but can't take what it wants. Take what you want and act like you are entitled to it. Your prey will follow suit. Don't sit in the backgro… | /r/seduction | 29/04/14 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Downplaying features of a girl?Two steps. 1 acknowledge her talent 2 understand the only difference b/t her and you is a dick Edit: 3 approach | /r/seduction | 22/04/14 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Proof that the only thing that matters is facial aestheticsLoL 90% of girls on tinder.. Follow me on Instagram so you can heart pictures of me. Hahaaha | /r/seduction | 22/04/14 12:09 PM |
| 1 | How do you not let external things shape your happiness?Enter the present. The power of now | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 02:13 AM |
| 4 | Basketball & the Art of Approaching WomenOP's point is good. The mind is powerful. Be the change you want to see.. err be the change you see in your head. | /r/seduction | 28/03/14 03:31 AM |
| 1 | How can I stop myself from emotionally invested so early?Dude, you sound like a nice guy. I used to be a nice guy to the T, too. Your thought frame of mind needs to be, wow last night was so much fun, [insert girl here] is lucky to be going out with me. Not wow I have so much more fun with her and she makes me happy, and I like to make her happy, so I can't wait until I get a chance to hang out with her again. Don't go out with her unless it is something you can legitimize to yourself, hey I'm going out to do this because it sounds like fun. Make more… | /r/seduction | 11/03/14 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Just approached a girl. .Great job. | /r/seduction | 11/03/14 07:56 PM |
| 1 | How do I go out alone?There will be plenty of good answers on how to go out alone here. It can be a real a real humbling and introspective experience. Something that would help you progress is making a friend in your new area. You probably know this better than I, but being able to make male friends is just as important as being able to interact with the female gender. It can also be much more dynamic. I find I have a better night when I'm out with one of my friends, than a group of 5 or 6. Two is such a great number… | /r/seduction | 09/03/14 05:30 PM |
| 1 | [FR] She Can't Believe I Made Her PayI wouldn't say consistency, as much as.. Setting expectations in a socially acceptable way with a smile on your face. Setting expectations is a key leadership attribute. From your post, I hear someone who wants to be in control, not a follower. | /r/seduction | 09/03/14 05:12 PM |
| 1 | How the fuck do I learn to dance?Be yourself That makes it funny. Watch videos of Neyo or look up "2 step" That makes you look like you might be able to dance. | /r/seduction | 06/03/14 09:56 PM |
| 5 | ProgressIt was in you the whole time. | /r/seduction | 06/03/14 12:44 AM |
| 2 | "I don't want to start anything because you're leaving soon" A barrier we've all faced. What's your way of going about it?..it's a very fine line to tread. Agreed. No matter how militarized someone may be or great at compartmentalizing their emotions, those subtle nuances that you like about the way she does things will attempt to wash away the line in the sand. Friends and lovers have more similarities than differences. If one can fully compartmentalize the conscious and subconscious desire.. for sex and friendship with someone, they will never be friends with anyone they love more than one night. Edit: and btw, t… | /r/seduction | 03/03/14 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Can some brown guys share their experiences?First, brown here. I've gotten so much confidence lately. Not because I've been reading tips saying, just be more confident. The confidence I've found has been within myself. Being true to who I am and pushing myself in a direction to be nothing else. I've been pressing the boundaries of what I think I'm attracted to. Growing up in a white society, I was only attracted to white girls up until after graduating college. Now I've pushed my interests into southeast Asian and Indian girls. What I've … | /r/seduction | 01/03/14 05:09 PM |
| 0 | Can some brown guys share their experiences?3rd paragraph yes | /r/seduction | 01/03/14 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Hair, and the image we portray.I have to go return some video tapes. | /r/seduction | 28/02/14 04:03 AM |
| 1 | How do you break out of small talk?Dig deeper. Follow the rabbit down the hole. | /r/seduction | 21/02/14 02:29 AM |
| 1 | "Spread Your Legs."Sounds and looks like this. http://youtu.be/vZCSIU1h8Es | /r/seduction | 17/02/14 12:02 AM |
| 1 | When to stop using text only to setup dates (Question)Can you please elaborate on your success with text game? e.g. Content of when, where, how specific a date and time. Do you throw out a general date far in advance, then go in for a more specific time later on? Etc. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 06/02/14 04:29 PM |
| 0 | How can compensate for my silent nature and improve on my conversations?I was always a quiet outlier who didn't chime in unless it seemed relevant. A correction. A flaw in someone else's thinking. An elaboration on someone else's thought. rarely my own and it usually didn't fit in the conversation. I knew people were not my forte, but I decided to become a server. It helped me preclude my nature of thinking other's ideas of being worthless compared to my own. Using incentives of money and the process of learning something new, I became better at acting like I cared … | /r/seduction | 06/02/14 04:23 PM |
| 1 | [Inner Game] So the more "genuine" I become the more I realize I'm kind of cynical and bitter towards women. Any ideas?I had found I wasn't going after the right women. I had no sincere interest in the HBs without the intellect that I need to reflect not only my values but curiosity. Slowly, I have been going after intelligent women that I can intellectually dominate. Originally, when I was setting unrealistic expectations, I found myself upset, frustrated, and angry at the women who//\ were not compatible with myself. Does it make you angry at them because you are not good enough in some way that you perceive? … | /r/seduction | 26/01/14 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Why I was a "nice" guy, why you may be one, and why you need to stop right now.I have been in the same situation as you, having a long term, epiphany. However, mine has slowed down, due to a delay of inner game. Trying to train myself on: - focus on what I want - stop justifying why I am right or others wrong - being decisive and sticking to plan - smiling whenever possible - letting go of the past I'm interested in hearing an [FR]. | /r/seduction | 15/01/14 07:43 PM |
| 5 | The downward spiral of being single for too long (inner game).Dude is your hyperbolic time chamber set to 100x gravity? | /r/seduction | 13/01/14 01:02 AM |
| 11 | What was your very first approach like?Hey uhh... Here's. A mechanical pencil. K bye. | /r/seduction | 24/10/13 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Emotional expression/knowing yourself seems to be the key to connecting. How can I get better at this?Something you have heard a thousand times before, but be who you are. Then find people like you. If you idealize something you want to have and be, you will never be it. You will only act it. If you can improve upon yourself and become a better you. This is best case man. Don't try to act like someone your not. Read no more mr nice guy.. If you haven't already. I found the audiobook free on some website. If you have never heard of it, please check it out. Stay true to yourself. Get more friends.… | /r/seduction | 23/10/13 04:04 AM |
| 1 | I have been single for over 5 years now, and not for lack of trying. Any general advice to help me progress in this part of my life?Write down 5 of your best friends. If ( you can't right down 5) Write down things you can do or places you can go to meet people. Go do those things and meet more people Else Improve yourself in other areas (for yourself: not to impress(get validation from) others) The rest will fall into place assuming you stay true to yourself and stay within social norms. This is only if you are looking for relationships and do not have an issue of only being able to focus on the end result of sex. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 16/10/13 05:13 PM |
| 1 | How to give a compliment for greatest impact1 You look nice in that dress and 2 That dress looks nice on you are basically the same. More important, is how confident you say it. 2 implies that the girl makes that dress look better. 1 implies that the girl only looks nice in the dress OPs is better, confidence and follow up is king. | /r/seduction | 15/10/13 05:47 PM |
| 1 | How I bend reality to live each day to the fullestAnything I can do in my 80s I refuse to do in my 20s. Very good. | /r/seduction | 15/10/13 01:10 PM |
| 1 | 27F says: My brother is in town, can he come [on our first date]?"Force means to deprive of free will." Ok, so im not gonna argue your logic. Its nice and tight. Unfortunately, as tight as ok never mind.. But there it is. You may have looked at the words he said, but despite his poor grammar/spelling, not what he was trying to get across. Getting held up on what people say only hurts us. Listen to what they mean. You're better than that. There's a point you should't justify a woman's actions and should have a sense of self respect for yourself/not fucking ove… | /r/seduction | 10/09/12 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Tips and Tricks to display dominance and project oneself as a leaderYou've probably already read this one. It was that Dale Carnegie book, how to win friends and influence people. The content for me wasn't itself life changing, but how it led me to look at myself and bring me back to the basics of dealing with people, it was the beginning of an organized attempt at altering my life for the better. Have you read any good ones? | /r/seduction | 09/09/12 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Tips and Tricks to display dominance and project oneself as a leaderI agree to the core with Barncore's post, about root cause. We all have bad habits. Some can be managed, but others are more ingrained. Looking at what others do correctly, some people are intelligent enough to realize the root cause of why they may act in some ways. Having different perspectives on life, may lead them to develop more fully as a person in a natural way, before they become complacent in their current thought process for the rest of their life. I myself used to be quick to judge, … | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Tips and Tricks to display dominance and project oneself as a leaderOn the phone it's more about tone of voice and ability of inflection which are harder to control, but can be by doing certain things. Know your material and what you're talking about. Talk with a steady and composed voice. Don't delve on small details. Talk broadly, especially when speaking to people who don't know what they're talking about. My friend put it nicely. He doesn't like to answer people's question directly. He just says a lot of things about something that sound true and are related… | /r/seduction | 06/09/12 07:18 PM |
| 2 | What's something irrational that you do?And in response to the great Seinfeld clip.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O7bn072MiKo&feature=youtube_gdata_player | /r/seduction | 16/08/12 12:42 PM |
| 3 | What's something irrational that you do?Such a heading would be compelling. I cannot disagree with that. My roommate is a gem, cut perfectly into a lousy prism. He drinks all our beer, destroys anything that looks too neat, eats anything and everything as fast as he can, and yesterday, bought a tie for $108, that he couldn't afford. Of course I know on the inside, he is a scared, emotional little girl at heart, so what you say remains true. I apologize this provides little to no value to the conversation, so award me no points and may… | /r/seduction | 16/08/12 11:07 AM |
| 2 | Kino escalation. Sober vs. IntoxicatedI'm just kinda learning what kino is, but we all know alcohol makes your inhibitions go away, so you're less likely to care about saying something offensive and let loose under the spell of alcohol. You saying dumber fun stuff will pull her in toward you, but you just gotta remember to push her away, physically and emotionally to create the attraction. Is this along the lines? If you know a particularly good article on kino as the basic concept let me know. Like I said I'm very new to that word.… | /r/seduction | 12/07/12 02:55 PM |
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