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12

Just don’t try it late at night when the train feels scary. It can be a unnerving place for women, a lot of characters at the train station or on the buss ya know
/r/seduction16/06/25 05:13 PM
3

Hahahahahahaha
/r/seduction05/06/25 09:16 PM
9

So true! Having women as friends will help your life in a lot of other ways too, fwiw 🤙
/r/seduction30/05/25 10:25 PM
0

Nope
/r/seduction26/05/25 02:42 PM
2

Yes but they gotta be extended cuts
/r/seduction21/05/25 08:30 PM
5

Smoke some weed and watch Harry Potter
/r/seduction20/05/25 10:36 PM
2

My sex life improved considerably after going to therapy for awhile. Like it made me feel less insecure so I wasn’t as nervous going into interactions. Lots of other benefits too, of course. You can literally work on this specific issue with a therapist if you were so inclined. Def make sure you vibe with the doc though. And prob don’t flirt with people at work. Those come back to bite you in the ass haha. Good luck!
/r/seduction19/05/25 11:07 PM
1

My dating life improved quite a bit in my thirties (I’m 33). I’ve dated as old as late 30s and as young as early 20s during this time. The availability is there, but I’ve found that dating like exactly my age ends up working out the best. A few years younger has been good too. Older has been very challenging and unrewarding weirdly. Way younger is deeply annoying.
/r/seduction18/05/25 05:29 AM
2

You told me you have no social life and aren’t happy. Those are problems worth addressing. You can feel better, we all need support some times. Cheers ✌️
/r/seduction10/05/25 04:17 PM
0

I don’t think you’re psycho. I don’t know you. Therapy isn’t just a thing for psychos. It’s a thing that helps you solve your problems and feel better. I’m in therapy. There’s no judgement. Chill out.
/r/seduction10/05/25 04:08 PM
0

Just go to therapy first bro we all gotta do it at some point
/r/seduction10/05/25 04:03 PM
2

Hmm
/r/seduction10/05/25 03:19 PM
1

How would you define a “successful dating experience? Maybe that’s a good place to start.
/r/seduction07/05/25 10:36 PM
1

I live in a metro area so that could play a factor
/r/seduction06/05/25 04:42 AM
2

Everyone’s different, but it’s very common for women to date at least slightly older guys, so a decent chunk of the dating pool in your twenties simply isn’t looking as closely in your direction. It’s still tough out here in your thirties as a guy but you’re able to date women in their twenties AND thirties at this age which just gives you a bigger pool of prospective partners. Not a lot of dudes in their twenties are with women in their thirties. Not to say those folks aren’t out there but it j…
/r/seduction06/05/25 03:31 AM
1

Dating in your twenties kinda sucks and you are not alone amigo. It’ll get better though, promise.
/r/seduction05/05/25 10:35 PM
1

Fear won’t kill ya :) Get in there and fail. Accept that you’ll probably fail and that that’s ok. You just might win if you let go of shame, embarrassment, and the idea that you need to control the outcome
/r/seduction02/05/25 08:25 PM
1

I don’t think there’s a way to control how others feel about you or how they behave towards you
/r/seduction01/05/25 09:48 PM
1

Huge Latin population here. It’s great. Lots of pretty humans in general. I’ll think on recs
/r/seduction01/05/25 09:32 PM
4

The city just explodes with life after the cold season passes. Tons of music festivals, street fests, lots of free stuff to do too. Beautiful women, kind people!
/r/seduction01/05/25 08:55 PM
9

Chicago is objectively the best city in the US during the summer. I’m not even talking for dating, just in general. People here are cool!
/r/seduction01/05/25 08:11 PM
1

I get hit on by enough old ladies to confidently answer - no, they freaking love it
/r/seduction01/05/25 07:21 PM
208

Tuck your shirt in and wear a nice pair of slacks
/r/seduction30/04/25 10:50 PM
3

“Do you think your ancestors would be proud of that?” 😂 😂 😂
/r/seduction03/02/25 01:44 PM
1

No bro… you should like the people you have sex with or at least think they are pretty. I’m all for hooking up but you don’t seem like someone that really wants to use women like this
/r/seduction12/12/24 11:58 PM
11

This happened on a boys meets world episode. At one point you’ll accidentally where your blazer to the wrestling match just trust me
/r/seduction26/11/24 03:59 PM
24

So I did this recently and it really went nowhere but I’ll tell you anyways. I saw a pretty woman dancing by herself, I started dancing in the general vicinity. Eventually I walked up to her and held my hand out, she took my hand and we started dancing. I found it pretty hard to talk lol
/r/seduction24/11/24 03:26 AM
26

I don’t fake anything I’m just into girly shit
/r/seduction24/11/24 01:57 AM
1

If they really held themselves accountable and commuted to not doing again, and it was a good relationship, I think I would. But cheating might be a sign of a larger issue in the relationship too so whatever that is would need to be addressed
/r/seduction20/11/24 06:23 PM
13

Uhhhh
/r/seduction08/11/24 08:23 PM
1

“Hey babeh” in an Elvis voice
/r/seduction08/11/24 06:19 PM
3

I don’t think you really need to get men interested. I think you need to find men who are interested. As long as you’re presenting yourself honestly and loving yourself, someone will see it and want in! People come and go. That’s just life. It’s not necessarily indicative of how you’re doing.
/r/seduction06/11/24 01:30 PM
2

Opeeeee
/r/seduction05/11/24 07:23 PM
3

You’re 23 bro bro you’re supposed to be a fucked up little dork! It’s ok. You’re still learning who you are. People will give you advice but ya know, you got this. You’ll figure it out.
/r/seduction04/11/24 11:51 PM
3

Nah verbal consent is great. Think of body language like clues, “maybe” signs…
/r/seduction04/11/24 06:43 PM
1

Clear it up, you’ll feel way better
/r/seduction03/11/24 04:22 PM
1

Sometimes if I’m not sure I’ll just ask “so are we getting along more like friends or more likeeeeee”
/r/seduction03/11/24 02:12 PM
1

Depends on who you’re waking up to lol
/r/seduction03/11/24 02:10 PM
3

Definitely. My anxiety presents itself through physical tension, my chest gets tight and it becomes difficult to breathe, my hands sweat, my posture changes, etc. working through the emotions is super important but the physical side is super important too. It all works together ya know, mind and body.
/r/seduction28/10/24 09:18 PM
14

I used to go swimming before dates or social situations I was stressed about. Stress and anxiety are very physical problems, so dealing with them in a physical way is an incredible way of sublimating
/r/seduction28/10/24 05:41 PM
4

You’re not wrong, I just feel like bro has been striking out with that approach so offering a diff way to think about it
/r/seduction22/10/24 05:56 PM
18

Hey dude! You should stop focusing on hooking up with women the same day you meet them. Just make the connections like you have been, exchange contact info, and get outta there before you screw it up. Schedule a date at low lit half romantic bar (sit at the bar, not at a table.) Approach the conversation with curiosity, you’re trying to get to know her, not trying to get her to like you. Talk about who you are too. Highlight the good parts but don’t be afraid to be real either. Be honest when yo…
/r/seduction21/10/24 11:41 PM
2

You’re waiting for the bartender to take your order and hot guy stands next to you. Ask him what he’s getting because you’re still deciding. Talk about that for a sec. Then ask him how his nights been going, what he was up to before this, if he’s here with friends, etc. Let his responses inspire follow up questions, or talk about related experiences you might have if they come up. When your nerves start feeling like they’re setting fully on fire, say you better get back to meet up with you frien…
/r/seduction19/10/24 05:38 AM
1

Just ask her to get drinks bro, save the face sitting conversation for in-person
/r/seduction16/10/24 10:56 PM
2

?
/r/seduction16/10/24 10:50 PM
1

Just commenting something silly! Ignore me :)
/r/seduction16/10/24 01:45 PM
-3

Hahahaha
/r/seduction15/10/24 06:32 PM
4

Well tweedle dee my fair lady
/r/seduction14/10/24 04:28 PM
0

Friends… with a… GIRL?? So manipulative
/r/seduction12/10/24 03:51 PM
3

Big time
/r/seduction12/10/24 03:50 PM
2

Right?? Like there’s no way what I said was more offensive than what he said 😂
/r/seduction12/10/24 03:49 PM
2

Focus on what you can control and let the rest go. Make sure the place is clean, try to decorate a little, but don’t overstress
/r/seduction12/10/24 03:44 PM
2

Actually already did
/r/seduction12/10/24 03:21 PM
1

This is not it bro
/r/seduction12/10/24 01:37 PM
-3

…
/r/seduction11/10/24 02:49 AM
1

I think it’s great that you’re reflecting on these feelings of disappointment and regret. The more you can connect the behavior of not-trying with the feeling of disappointment, the more you’ll begin to resist the behavior. You’re already on your way 🤙
/r/seduction09/10/24 05:15 AM
3

OP - do you represent yourself differently than who you actually are early on in the dating stages? Maybe there’s a disconnect, where you’re putting on a show for them early on and then returning to your actual self later, someone different than they signed up for. I don’t know you so maybe I’m wrong but I feel like many dudes run into this issue
/r/seduction09/10/24 04:53 AM
1

I appreciate it !
/r/seduction08/10/24 04:25 PM
1

I’m approaching women now more than I was before. Seems way better than dating apps where I get hardly any matches. Past encounters… well I DJ’d a wedding once and then stayed the night with the wedding planner afterwards, that one was pretty notable
/r/seduction08/10/24 02:20 PM
1

Appreciate it bro 🙏
/r/seduction07/10/24 10:46 PM
1

Lol sorry…
/r/seduction07/10/24 07:30 PM
-2

🫡 🫡 😂 😂
/r/seduction07/10/24 07:29 PM
1

Needed to hear this, thank you
/r/seduction07/10/24 07:24 PM
1

Same, but also, the L’s put the W’s in perspective !
/r/seduction07/10/24 05:47 PM
1

Thanks a lot !
/r/seduction07/10/24 01:52 PM
1

Thanks bro 🙏
/r/seduction07/10/24 01:52 PM
2

Aww I appreciate it. Seeing her again tomorrow night.
/r/seduction07/10/24 01:51 PM
1

You got this!
/r/seduction07/10/24 01:50 PM
1

Could you narrow down the question a bit more?
/r/seduction07/10/24 01:50 PM
1

Best of luck dude and happy bday dude!!
/r/seduction07/10/24 02:08 AM
2

I feeeeeel you on that sir. I definitely get rejected, like last week when I talked to a woman, made the worst conversation, and walked away like damn I really got my ass kicked out there. Just gotta move on
/r/seduction07/10/24 02:01 AM
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What is there to lose :)
/r/seduction07/10/24 01:41 AM
2

Thanks dude! And that’s a great question that I was pondering myself. She’s probably the only one that could answer conclusively but I’m thinking, maybe a couple drinks helped? And also just having a little time together to get acquainted and comfortable with one another. But I can’t tell you what she was thinking or how she was feeling, this is all conjecture.
/r/seduction07/10/24 01:07 AM
2

Hahaha glad I could help
/r/seduction07/10/24 12:24 AM
1

It’s actually kind of flattering that you perceive my reality as fantasy. It’s a good life lately
/r/seduction07/10/24 12:05 AM
-11

Meh
/r/seduction07/10/24 12:03 AM
1

Thank you bro!
/r/seduction07/10/24 12:03 AM
22

No way
/r/seduction06/10/24 11:22 PM
2

Thank you dude!
/r/seduction06/10/24 11:22 PM
-6

No I’m wonderful
/r/seduction06/10/24 10:40 PM
1

Very much not fake
/r/seduction06/10/24 10:10 PM
1

Thank you :)
/r/seduction06/10/24 09:24 PM
1

Tuesday!
/r/seduction06/10/24 08:54 PM
67

I appreciate it! She’s awesome I kinda wanna talk about her with everyone
/r/seduction06/10/24 08:47 PM
13

I’d definitely agree
/r/seduction06/10/24 08:45 PM
-9

Like you think it’s made up? Is the story really so unbelievable…?
/r/seduction06/10/24 08:45 PM
1

I am quite verbose
/r/seduction06/10/24 07:18 PM
2

I felt embarrassed until it went well, then I felt like the coolest guy on the train lol
/r/seduction06/10/24 04:34 PM
3

I don’t think so, personally. For me, the act of putting your flag in the sand and saying “this is who I am, take it or leave it” is an energy that can be channeled through all sorts of personality types. But I’m a strong believer that your concept of masculinity should be personal to you, so no shade if your perspective is different.
/r/seduction05/10/24 04:40 AM
3

I think that’s a great move!
/r/seduction05/10/24 01:49 AM
8

She’s 21 years old and has no clue what she wants. I doubt any of us will be able to tell you. If you tried and she denied, move on before things get awkward.
/r/seduction05/10/24 01:09 AM
1

Sounds like you’re doing great bro 🙏
/r/seduction04/10/24 10:03 PM
35

Idk I think masculinity is about honoring who you are, not trying to achieve some random ideal that’s considered masculine. Just be yourself.
/r/seduction04/10/24 09:41 PM
41

Move on, she’s not single
/r/seduction04/10/24 05:37 PM
1

On your way to the bathroom
/r/seduction01/10/24 10:00 PM
1

Thanks! 🙏
/r/seduction28/09/24 07:23 PM
10

Therapy is going to be a way more effective strategy than any “game”. Learning about yourself, your needs, your desires, working through things you struggle with, etc. will make you a happier and more attractive person
/r/seduction28/09/24 05:55 PM
1

Also none of this will work if you message anything remotely sexual
/r/seduction23/09/24 01:49 PM
1

Here’s a thought - exchange Instagram handles instead of numbers. Afterwards, DM her to set up a date. Then it’s not just a number, she can refer back to your pics to get a better sense of your vibe. Trade numbers after first date goes well
/r/seduction23/09/24 01:49 PM
4

The text “hey doing anything Friday” If the date is going well at the end tell her “I really wanna kiss you rn” And then you kiss and you take it from here
/r/seduction14/09/24 04:15 AM
1

You’re too stressed about her it’ll never work because you can’t relax
/r/seduction14/09/24 03:54 AM
1

You’re not ugly you’re just drunk
/r/seduction14/09/24 03:53 AM
1

Ty!
/r/seduction10/09/24 11:02 PM
2

Women seem to love neutral colors for men’s dste fits, or so my women friends have told me
/r/seduction09/09/24 08:25 PM
2

Untucked brown button down with sleeves rolled up. Faded black levi 505 jeans. Small Fjallraven hip pack that I wear like a cross body bag. Grungey black converse. Silver chains on my neck, wrist, and a wallet chain. People say I have a very 90s style but it’s just my vibe I think
/r/seduction09/09/24 08:25 PM
2

Branch out! I wear polos some times but they are very work core and difficult to make look “cool” for anyone. Perhaps you could opt for a button down, sleeves rolled up, white tank underneath…
/r/seduction09/09/24 08:19 PM
2

I feel ya bro. Are you a good dresser? If not, might be a good space to work on. It gave me a lot more confidence. I just thrift all my clothes so don’t need tons of money. PS - Kendrick Lamar is also that height. Maybe shorter. You can still be fly af bro
/r/seduction09/09/24 07:54 PM
2

And yeah I’m pretty fashionable. Really prioritized style this past year
/r/seduction09/09/24 07:49 PM
2

I’m 5’10 she’s 5’4
/r/seduction09/09/24 07:33 PM
16

I don’t approach people who are giving me signals to not approach. Unless it’s for something unromantic like hey where’s the nearest Walgreens who cares if I’m annoying you I need my acid reflux medication
/r/seduction09/09/24 07:19 PM
1

Thank ya!
/r/seduction09/09/24 02:07 PM
1

Maybe something on his profile was a no go for her
/r/seduction09/09/24 02:07 PM
1

Just posted an edit update
/r/seduction09/09/24 02:06 PM
1

I would not say I applied any strategy tbh. Just normal talking to humans
/r/seduction09/09/24 02:05 PM
2

Definitely got shy vibes but like you said, maybe she’ll open up with me with a little more time and connection.
/r/seduction09/09/24 01:28 PM
1

Ty!
/r/seduction09/09/24 01:12 PM
2

I hear you. Just sharing about this particular experience since I’d never approached someone in a train before and I was excited for it to go decently well. I wouldn’t say I have crazy game or skill in this department, I just casually put myself out there when the feeling strikes
/r/seduction09/09/24 01:06 PM
1

Disappointing for me too yall
/r/seduction09/09/24 12:59 PM
1

Gooooood point
/r/seduction09/09/24 12:58 PM
1

Just added a little update
/r/seduction09/09/24 12:57 PM
1

Like very much getting to know each other. Talking about dating history. Growing up. Living in the city. Idk we sorta jumped from topics
/r/seduction09/09/24 12:53 PM
2

Thank you! She’s from western Ukraine so maybe some cultural differences when it comes to dating. Or just her own personal style when it comes to romance… i def want to see her again and see how things develop
/r/seduction09/09/24 12:51 PM
2

Haha that’s real man
/r/seduction09/09/24 03:58 AM
1

Ya just never know when you’ll run into someone who’s open to meeting new people
/r/seduction08/09/24 09:49 PM
1

Ty!
/r/seduction08/09/24 08:53 PM
2

Bahahaha you should do it
/r/seduction08/09/24 07:50 PM
3

Date is in a couple hours I’ll keep you posted haha
/r/seduction08/09/24 07:43 PM
1

Go wash your BMW mr alpha man
/r/seduction08/09/24 07:40 PM
2

Hahaha ok gotcha. Felt like a rom com moment for me while it was happening
/r/seduction08/09/24 07:37 PM
1

Thanks a lot!
/r/seduction08/09/24 07:36 PM
1

Sorry what’s kdrama?
/r/seduction08/09/24 07:35 PM
1

Seriously if you only knew how unmanly I am you would gasp
/r/seduction08/09/24 07:13 PM
1

I am the furthest thing from a Chad 😂 I’m like, a semi-alternative musician type. I don’t know how someone would reject me for paying them a compliment on their sense of fashion. She got closer and clearly gave signals that she wanted to talk more. If she hadn’t, I would have left the compliment there and moved on. I think it’s just about reading people and not forcing yourself on others
/r/seduction08/09/24 07:10 PM
2

“So much” (thank you so much)
/r/seduction08/09/24 06:36 PM
1

I appreciate ya
/r/seduction08/09/24 06:33 PM
2

Her style was on point, impossible to ignore haha. But seriously, I think holding earnest respect for women gives me more confidence going into these interactions. It used to scare me away from approaching but now it’s come around like wait, I’m not a bother, I’m just creating an opportunity for connection that she can say yes or no to
/r/seduction08/09/24 06:29 PM
1

Totally agree with you
/r/seduction08/09/24 06:27 PM
2

Did you get the BMW just to tell me about it after looking at my “c0ck” on Reddit
/r/seduction08/09/24 06:16 PM
1

Stop yucking my yum bruv
/r/seduction08/09/24 06:15 PM
3

😂
/r/seduction08/09/24 05:18 PM
1

Fair question. I wonder if it helps some women to see the profile of the person they randomly met for safety reasons vs a phone number? I think you could fairly interpret it in a couple ways tbh
/r/seduction08/09/24 03:36 PM
1

Hurries up and deletes the post about being ghosted three times in a row 😂
/r/seduction08/09/24 03:14 PM
1

You don’t see me going through anyone’s profile insulting them
/r/seduction08/09/24 03:11 PM
1

Hey now be nice
/r/seduction08/09/24 03:11 PM
1

Oh and we talked about what we were up to, like I’m meeting so and so here hbu?
/r/seduction08/09/24 03:00 PM
2

Sure! Really just small talk. I made a joke that she must have been excited for the cooler weather so she could break out the cool jacket. After that, introduced myself, I asked her about her accent and she told me she was from Ukraine. We chatted about what neighborhoods we lived in and what we liked about them. It was hard to get too deep - it was so fast and there was literally another person sitting between us and I just talked over them which was maybe a little rude but I was really struck …
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:59 PM
1

Will do!
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:50 PM
7

Haha thanks
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:48 PM
1

For sure makes sense. And ty!
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:43 PM
3

Lolllllllll
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:38 PM
0

Hahahaha y’all are too much 😆
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:38 PM
1

I def wouldn’t say I did anything special, just lucked out that feelings were mutual in that moment
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:34 PM
1

Very kind thing to say
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:33 PM
2

Thank you sm!
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:33 PM
2

More opportunities for you in the future, it’s a humongous freaking world
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:32 PM
1

Hoping the same for ya bro 🤝 be good to these women
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:31 PM
1

Hahahaha
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:31 PM
1

Hahaha ty bro
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:29 PM
1

Appreciate it!
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:29 PM
1

I truly felt like I was in a rom com haha
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:29 PM
4

Please mind the gap
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:28 PM
1

I guess my thought was that’d we’d develop the repore (I don’t actually know how to spell this) in person when we meet up. Maybe it changes things meeting someone in person vs dating apps that begin online?
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:28 PM
4

Appreciate you weighing in with your perspective!
/r/seduction08/09/24 06:22 AM
1

Well played
/r/seduction08/09/24 06:14 AM
23

Appreciate you! We’ll see how it goes :)
/r/seduction08/09/24 06:13 AM
20

🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction08/09/24 06:05 AM
3

Excuse me? I’m a grown man. I don’t respond to “dares”. (Only double dares.)
/r/seduction08/09/24 06:05 AM
4

No doubt! I think what made this one stand out was the moment where we both made eye contact. It’s not a 100% green light but I felt better about approaching once that occurred
/r/seduction08/09/24 05:57 AM
4

I’m as average as they come and bald at that hahaha. Will do!
/r/seduction08/09/24 03:31 AM
3

Very well put! I def tried to go in relaxed and well mannered (I’m extremely Midwestern lol) and fwiw I am a fairly snappy dresser
/r/seduction08/09/24 03:11 AM
3

😂
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:46 AM
1

🕺
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:45 AM
1

:))))
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:45 AM
28

Haha! Well I contain multitudes. Sharing photos of myself actually helped my self esteem a lot. I know that’s silly but just wanted to say, some freaky weirdos are sweet and kind too. I try to be at least.
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:42 AM
81

Bruhhhh I never suggested that any of you check my salacious ass profile but I do apologize if I traumatized you lol
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:39 AM
50

Can’t I just have this wholesome moment y’all 😂
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:37 AM
1

Huh?
/r/seduction08/09/24 02:08 AM
6

32, 5”10, average build, uhhh im like a well dressed 6-7 lol
/r/seduction08/09/24 01:15 AM
1

Thanks dude 🙏 will do!
/r/seduction08/09/24 12:34 AM
2

Thank you!!
/r/seduction08/09/24 12:15 AM
1

I’m sorry that encounter didn’t result in a connection for you! I’ve been there too it stings
/r/seduction07/09/24 11:55 PM
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🕺 🕺 🕺
/r/seduction07/09/24 11:16 PM
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Will do :) thank you!
/r/seduction07/09/24 11:08 PM
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Ty!
/r/seduction07/09/24 11:08 PM
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I see what you mean. I think I suck at being coy tbh and favor being direct while not putting pressure on the person if that makes sense? Like hey I’m feeling this right now, let me know if you’re into that
/r/seduction07/09/24 11:08 PM
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Thank you very much! Oh man… three days would have felt like an ETERNITY for me. I was too damn excited to wait that long haha
/r/seduction07/09/24 11:05 PM
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