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TakeHimRoundBack/r/askMRP04/02/21 04:48 PM
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TakeHimRoundBack/r/askMRP04/03/21 12:56 AM
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Yeah, that's true. I mainly mean in real life. Real assholes in my usually day to day. Because I am on the spectrum somewhere, it tends to attract bullying. These kinda people are hoping you tell them to stop, then they flip into aggression. They take your boundaries as a challenge. Then they call the police and turn it around on you. I've dealt with these kind of people and it's the main reason I keep falling. Now I'm walking around with a recording device. I'm never getting it flipped on me ag…
/r/askMRP08/03/21 06:04 PM
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It's the work. Whenever I turn up there, I don't think I am owning my shit correctly. I'm scared of the work. I think I'm scared because whenever I rise up in life somebody comes along and brings me down. Some people are testy and negative, and because of the high arousal I had no issue confronting them. It's like rolling in the mud with a pig, they like it. So even though I fight them on it, it's the drama itself that brings me down. And they succeed. Not to mention they lie and manipulate the …
/r/askMRP08/03/21 04:35 PM
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I explored these ideas intellectually but living them is a different story. Thanks for the advice. I suppose the biggest thing for me is ignoring my work. It makes the urge to validation seek stronger. Thanks for suggesting I observe my validation seeking
/r/askMRP08/03/21 04:19 PM
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I do. Are there any posts about guidelines on OYS? Yeah especially during lockdown
/r/askMRP04/03/21 04:28 PM
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Thanks. And to the others. I'm going back to NMMNG and WISNIFG.
/r/askMRP04/03/21 03:59 AM
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Honestly. It's like you can go from bad to worse.
/r/askMRP04/03/21 02:44 AM
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You'd be surprised
/r/askMRP04/03/21 01:27 AM
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You mean the things the simple treasure in life ;)
/r/askMRP02/03/21 11:31 PM
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Haha
/r/askMRP02/03/21 11:11 PM
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You better have six pack abs if you're gonna get all insecure when ideas are mentioned
/r/askMRP02/03/21 11:09 PM
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You sound like a fat chick waiting for her skinny friend to fall over
/r/askMRP02/03/21 11:06 PM
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Entertained by stupidity
/r/askMRP02/03/21 11:04 PM
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Thanks for the lesson in stupidity. You can have frame and zero intelligence both at the same time.
/r/askMRP02/03/21 09:30 PM
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Thank you. It triggers a lot of people to even talk about thinking about it. So I appreciate the links. I've done a lot of research and never really saw somebody accurately describe what it is.
/r/askMRP02/03/21 09:25 PM
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Then STFU
/r/askMRP02/03/21 09:04 PM
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Idiot.
/r/askMRP02/03/21 08:59 PM
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You're conflating a lot of things I can't be arsed to seperate.
/r/askMRP02/03/21 08:55 PM
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Yes I do. Some were kind enough to post some links. Others, well, forced my hand. Don't be mad. You started it.
/r/askMRP02/03/21 04:30 PM
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You can't internalise frame the way you suggest. Where you speak from depends on your goal in speaking.
/r/askMRP02/03/21 04:24 PM
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You've falsely equated having Frame with being able hold it enough to have your life perfect. You've also falsely equated conceptually defining frame with being able to pass it on or use it. My progress in life is steady, and I'm at my real edge. It's precisely that foreign language I want to attempt to bridge. I'll take care that my writing doesn't do more harm than good. Thank you for your contribution and the checks. I believe I have that understanding and will write with a care about my effe…
/r/askMRP02/03/21 04:16 PM
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Already done
/r/askMRP02/03/21 04:01 PM
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Yeah while I'm at it I'll learn my abc's and how to wipe my ass.
/r/askMRP02/03/21 03:00 PM
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You have had some success with frame and MRP in general. Unfortunetely, that success does not translate into a technical understanding. A three year old child has frame. It's another thing entirely to understand what it is as a phenomenon.
/r/askMRP02/03/21 02:11 PM
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"I want to make sure I am not repeating anything that's been done" Is code for I'm doubting I'm the only person capable and willing to define it.
/r/askMRP02/03/21 02:06 PM
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Thank you. I think he gives it a bad treatment and gets it pretty wrong. He's describing something but it's not frame. He does a good job identifying that human frame is multi-faceted, but that's about all gets right imo
/r/askMRP01/03/21 09:02 PM
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I'm not veteran enough here to help you, but you are fucked three ways to Sunday. You need to take a step back from your girl and take it upon yourself to educate yourself on the situation you are in every way you can before taking action. You need to draw on the manosphere Familiarise yourself with dangerous personalities in women Understand frame so you are not manipulated Develop frame so you can see what is going on. You sounds confused and 172% that is because you are either being manipulat…
/r/askMRP01/03/21 08:57 PM
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Day 1
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/21 04:00 AM
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Not really doing much because I couldnt handle the pressure. I'm gonna do some basic lifts and life management each day. That means daily lift. Writing for clients. 3 meals a day. Sunlight and cardio. Sleeping on time.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/21 03:58 AM
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I was mad at first that my wife could be a cock slut. Now I'm like yeah a woman wants a man and a dog wants a dog. If a dogs companion randomly turned into a horse, there she goes fucking other dogs. It just fucks with head to ponder on love. But to understand that love does not imply fidelity. Sexual fidelity must be continually earned. That's such a change in thinking even now I'm like wait wat One thing I find harder to figure out is, my expectation of human character and behaviour. In terms …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/21 03:40 AM
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It hurts man. I get it. But take some time away from your wife. This was YOUR mistake. Not your marriages. Get away from her. Process this yourself. You are in her frame. You might think reframing that your ass hurts is better than your ribs. This is stupid. You decide if you want to play fight or not. You decide if you are a worthless, saggy piece of shit. You decide. Not others. Especially not your loved ones. When we fail, I know it hurts. Get outside, get some air. Because if you let anyone …
/r/askMRP25/02/21 03:07 AM
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I'm autistic so I have to ask. Why not just say "no" instead of being diplomatic. You said it's the most important word, but then you gave a diplomatic example. My sense is that if you have to be diplomatic it's not a real no, it's a please don't feel rejected but I can't. Any thoughts?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/21 02:59 PM
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If you don't know the definition of abuse, stop giving advice on it. I gave links in the comment I made and specifically asked idiots like yourself not to comment. The research is there. Go take it up with them, but don't act like you are the expert.
/r/askMRP12/02/21 06:25 PM
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Do your thing and see reality by interacting with it. Blueprints are just words after all. All I know is mentally disturbed people do not have a normal experience of life and so it's not a sample you can trust. Though the advice has been insanely useful. It's literally just a toolkit.
/r/askMRP10/02/21 03:36 PM
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That's why I've made a point to mention abuse in detail above. Unfortunately for guys like us, 90% of the people on MRP are in a survival situation and enter a cult state of mind to deal. They aren't thinking, but they're seeing small results. So if something doesn't add up to the emergency principles we follow that are literally designed to be able to be followed under mental incapacitation they start screaming fataticisms at you and can't even entertain it. A mark of an absent mind. As if thei…
/r/askMRP10/02/21 03:32 PM
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No it's attack idiots mentality.
/r/askMRP10/02/21 03:15 PM
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TLDR There is a difference between being a pussy and having a bitchy girl, and being in an abusive dynamic. Big difference.
/r/askMRP10/02/21 03:07 PM
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To anyone happening onto this comment thread. If you are experiencing abuse it's not something you should understand on forums with mentally incapacitated professional losers like us. Do the research. Ask other people. Look at the references I linked. A lot of guys here have some weird thing about AWALT. They speak on abuse and narcissism, a very complex topic even the experts struggle with, as if they studied it for 10 years. They have no idea what they are talking about, so they change the sub…
/r/askMRP10/02/21 03:01 PM
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Yeah, sometimes quitting is the brave thing. Don't listen to the religious RedPills, they can't think for themselves yet.
/r/askMRP10/02/21 02:09 PM
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Just don't reply. Don't make it worse. You'll just be puttimg responsibility on me to save other guys from your irresponsible zealot like idiocy of a comment. I'm busy doing the advice people gave me.
/r/askMRP05/02/21 02:33 PM
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Dude. You are a massive, massive twat. I actually put my weights down to spank you. I mentioned personal responsibility first and literally said you would do this. Do the research and read my comment before getting triggered and religious. What the fuck is up with guys like you? Are you that much of a twat that you did everything I said a twat would do in my comment and didn't think I would call you on it? Or do you just get hard looking stupid? Like I said. I know the not a popolur opinion. I k…
/r/askMRP05/02/21 02:31 PM
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Getting down to replies slowly. Not gonna lie. Just lifted and I feel like a million bucks.
/r/askMRP05/02/21 01:28 PM
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Thank you, getting down to all the comments. 27. Overwhelming support. I'm humbled. Thank you all. Yeah small is good. That's where I'm at.
/r/askMRP05/02/21 01:14 PM
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More of an issue of the heart then the head my friend
/r/askMRP05/02/21 01:11 PM
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Yeah, it's more of a nod. Not really relevant to the question. Except abuse victims will understand the word ghost immediately. Sam Viknin discovered the narc and the covert narc. It's an epidemic. He's on youtube if you wanna know more. Only person who actually understands the field. Naturally, BC he invented it. IQ 180. Also, diagnosed psychopathic narc, so interesting angle. Since I replied to you, I now gotta write a hole thing. I've mentioned this before and it's just to preempt any back an…
/r/askMRP05/02/21 01:03 PM
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Thanks for all the responses. They connected me to a strength and perspective I didn't know I had. Tough love is lost in our PC culture, but some of you really display grace in challenging me. I appreciate it. I spent many hours in my chair following. I read the links too. You each had your eyes on a different truth. I didn't expect your responses would address me rather than my question. I'm happy you all did. All I can do now is say thank you n I've spent a few hours in this kind of, pain. I t…
/r/askMRP05/02/21 11:02 AM
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Your answer ain't gonna be logical. My advice, don't do it. If you have to ask this question it means you do not understand women and don't have enough organic experience with women. Have your LTR banging at a high level. Don't even mention other women or threesomes until you can do that. Dumb fuck. Stop trying to validate yourself. You clearly are a beginner and your arrogance hasn't been curbed yet. You got your hands on a few key concepts you clearly don't understand and now you think you're …
/r/askMRP04/02/21 08:56 AM
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You're right, I'm not commited. I gotta make a commitment. I am taking action in some important areas. Because I suffer from addiction, codependency and CPTSD, most of my action revolves around self-care, and acting internally to change the way I relate to the world. But it comes with a powerful hamster that keeps biding for control. I'm getting a few hits in but it's not enough to win. I have joined some 12-step groups today. I relapsed with porn today so not a good start. I think this is due t…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/20 06:51 PM
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This is inspiring.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/20 11:20 PM
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OYS #2 Actions There were higher highs and deeper lows this week. Less lifting but more action and development in other areas. Lifting No lifting. I've been boxing in the morning. Life has come to a halt. I'm glad I posted here. It's like it snapped me out of it and I understand how fear has won. I let it beat me a lot this week. Clearing out old shit Cleared out my ex's stuff. Swapped rooms around. Had a deep cry. Re-training myself because her abuse left a kind of boundaries presence. I expect…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/20 11:14 PM
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Thank you
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/20 01:35 PM
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Gotcha. Will edit when I have time.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/20 01:35 PM
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Going through the same thing. Have some helplines saved on your phone that you're comfortable with, helped me a bunch.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/20 09:19 PM
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Priorities: • Focus on self - Physically focus on myself - Mentally move my attention towards myself for 30 min practice, 5-10 min break • Work - Money • Increase my value - Held my frame in my interactions - Self-care Focus on self I watched a few videos on Ayn Rand and objectivism. I'm a hard case career beta with some game. This week I've slowly moved my mental focus from 100s of distractions a day to myself. It comes with it's own challenges, as well as it's perks. Women are turning their he…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/20 09:15 PM
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We need our ego bashed a bit. You can't improve your value unless you can admit you have let it get low. That's hard to face. Easier to deer and keep the false ego, maintain the status quo and avoid the anxiety of being actively responsible for our lives.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/20 07:26 PM
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My mission has always been really about validation. What do I want? I want my life to be good. I want to be strong. I want to be away from people. MRP is a part of my MAP. My life is in shambles. I want to pick up the pieces. But I need rest from a mission. My mission is focus on myself, stop being a career beta and rest from the abuse I took in my past. Career betas are prime targets for predators. Cutting predators out, focusing on me, for the first time in 27 years.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/20 10:34 PM
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