TakeTheMikki Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Why are both players & Incels so vilified? Having a lot of experience or openly and ethically dating more than one person isn’t a player. To me being a player means using deception to get more notches on you belt. For example not being transparent about non monogamy or being deceptive about their interest in a long term relationship too increase their likelihood of getting sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/22 01:26 PM
1	Why are both players & Incels so vilified? I think you meant to say that players and incels are both misogynistic in that they believe womens job is to give them sex regardless of how the women feels about the man’s potential as a partner and their behaviour patterns.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/22 06:29 AM
0	Why are both players & Incels so vilified? Yep and a lots of men struggle to accept that many women don’t want sex outside the kind of relationship where both parties put in effort and want monogamy. And are fine to wait it out in the meantime.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/22 06:20 AM
1	Why are both players & Incels so vilified? Because neither end of the spectrum seems to have much respect for women as individuals. Nor do they treat women how they want be treated or listen to their wants and needs. Obviously the issues are different but both are undesirable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/22 06:09 AM
3	Qs4W: Do you hold negative perceptions of men with high n-counts? Life goals to become a cougar lol! What a load of rubbish, despite the bs on the internet most guys will never hit an n of 20. How do I know the majority of my social circle is male. Also by their late 20’s many have had At least one longer term exclusive relationship. There are of course outliers a high n count is not Necessarily a dealbreaker but it is a turn off. I also think women are much more realistic then men when it comes to this. Often guys will think anything over 5 in your whole life…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/21 08:12 PM
3	Qs4W: Do you hold negative perceptions of men with high n-counts? More than 1 to 2 different sexual partners a year post becoming sexually active would be high. To me this indicates either an active avoidance or an inability to build strong relationships. This this would make them less compatible with me and my goals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/21 07:33 PM
2	Here's a calculator for women to find how many men fit their criteria, and the results are not good This is silly if the only requirement is unmarried I.e. legally available for marriage it’s 45%. That shouldn’t be considered a personal standard rather a societal standard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/21 06:03 AM
1	Women have insanely narrow standards when it comes to PHYSICAL ATTRACTION Yep if you saw him in the street you’d think skinny guy average face too many tattoos. But in his scenes has rhythm and is paying attention to his partners arousal more than his own initially. It his movements and behaviour make him sexy not his looks. That’s why women don’t really know off a dating site if they are going to to be sexually attracted to a guy. They can tell if he’s beautiful or buff but not if they will be drawn to him sexually. This is why men know in the first 5sec if they woul…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/21 12:37 AM
1	Women would prefer for men to make SUB-OPTIMAL dating choices that ONLY benefits them but RARELY do the same for men There you go then if your a man in that 80% and you are not happy with your sex life then it’s time to start dating with a view to building long term exclusive relationships or go without your call.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/21 06:08 PM
4	Women would prefer for men to make SUB-OPTIMAL dating choices that ONLY benefits them but RARELY do the same for men So there is an imbalance between the number of men and women who want casual sexual relationships. This does not mean women apply a double standard to men it means there is a supply and demand issue. More women than men want long term romantic sexual partners. And more men than women want casual no strings sex. The fact that people of both genders manipulate and lie when they get frustrated by this fact is abhorrent and unattractive to say the least. If anything the double standard is you can’t …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/21 05:53 PM
1	Women often say that they can't be nice or polite to men because it's interpreted as romantic interest by the latter. Do you think that is true? Absolutely you can’t be friendly to creeps, they will think it’s a come on, and you often can’t tell which guy is going to be a creep.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/21 01:31 PM
2	Women, how do you feel about guys that can’t have sex until they know you. Absolutely honesty is best policy, but you can’t control other people. You can however choose the dating scenarios you place yourself in and your own behaviour.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/21 01:05 PM
5	Women what made you have a one night stand Actually the ons and fwb were attempts to feel conection, happiness, love or self value. so it’s an attempt to reduce depression and suicidal thoughts rather than a cause. Not saying it works but we’re talking about teenage thought processes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/21 12:39 AM
3	Women, how do you feel about guys that can’t have sex until they know you. Ok well then just use it to filter out the crazies and move on. And be thankful your a straight man and there is low risk of these situations ending in sexual assault.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/21 10:28 PM
1	Women, how do you feel about guys that can’t have sex until they know you. Ok but do you think she would have had the opportunity to be offended on that level if you hadn’t been cozying up at her place? Also people say things in the early stages of dating to reduce awkwardness which are not always the whole truth. It’s not necessarily lying but it does mean that you’re missing or oblivious to a lot of non-verbal cues. This may be one of the biggest problems in your dating life so you probably need to work on being more observant.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/21 10:17 PM
1	Women, how do you feel about guys that can’t have sex until they know you. Yeah come on you know chill is a euphemism for hook up. If at the point of invitation you said I enjoy your company but I’m looking to take things slow physically. Then you would have halved your problems. Women are often advised not to go home with a guy until they’re ready to be intimate. To avoid confusion this seems like good advice for anyone looking to court slowly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/21 09:46 PM
6	If men leave/ghost after the first sexual encounter it's because they were grossed out. No nut clarity . . . cause he didn’t get her there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/21 02:44 AM
0	It’s a terrible practice for women to fuck one dude quickly and make the guy she actually “likes” wait Men and women aren’t as different as you think. If a woman wants to hit it and quit it she’ll hit it and quit regardless of a guys relationship potential. If a woman wants to be courted and build a relationships she’ll do that. As you say are plenty of single men balls in her court so to speak that’s not going to change. These two dating styles reflect different personalities and confidences so occur much less frequently in the same woman than people in this sub seem to think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/21 12:33 AM
0	The rise of sexlessness among men is NOT NORMAL, the reasons given for that is major coping by men and female gaslighting to hide the real reason. Women are not having less sex they are just having fewer sexual partners. Maby the current rate of sexlessness is normal for our current population status? Assuming there is a standard for sex frequency is ridiculous as there are so many external factors. You can study it historically but you cannot prove a standard that would be predictable going forward. As an individual on our over populated technically advanced planet there is no need to reproduce, no need to partner and no need for others for sexual gratification. You may want these things but there is no actual …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/21 08:51 AM
1	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. It’s more common than you think. Just because you are not interested doesn’t mean it’s abnormal. Men’s beauty, hair, Heath and appearance industries have been booming in the last decade.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 01:20 PM
1	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. So like tattoos, piercings, teeth whitening, hair dye, hair plugs, plastic surgery, Botox, lip fillers etc	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 01:10 PM
1	Women wearing tons of makeup and Shapewear are just as pathetic as men who rent cars and pretend to be much wealthier than they are. These aren’t even really gender specific things anymore. There is shapewear, make up and even plastic surgeries just for men. And women who rent luxury goods and cars. Some people are just hyper conscious of how they are perceived and hence treated. So are these signs of insecurity maybe. Would they feel more secure and be treated better without them generally not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/21 12:43 PM
19	Advice for the women out there: No, men are not on dating apps for sex only, you are simply matching with guys way out of your league It’s a low effort platform does anyone really put in high effort responses???	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/06/21 09:49 AM
2	Men value sex, women value emotional investment CMV The difference between being friend zoned and a FBW situation is that everyone can be rejected by someone they’ve befriended. But not everyone wants sex without emotional attachment. Unrequited love or attraction is not the person you desires fault if they like you as just a friend that’s ok. They are not leading you on if they have never progressed pass friendship. Just remember the next time you complain you have been Friend zoned your implying it’s the person you desired fault when really it’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/20 12:07 PM
1	"I have a job, a house, and a fine group of friends and family. But I'm willing to throw all of that away if it meant I could be a guy who can get constant endless casual sex on demand." Is this a rational thought? Completely irrational and delusional fantasy. A person would only fantasise about this because it’s completely outside the realm of possibility for them. A rational fantasy would be to be to be fulfilled in all aspects of life, wether or not it’s a possibility. Wanting what you can’t have might be common but not rational.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/20 11:29 PM
2	Women who require marriage in an LTR are at a disadvantage in the dating market due to changing perceptions around marriage I get for all intensive purposes within a relationship bubble long term Commitment and marriage are essentially the same. However relationships don’t exist in a vacuum they exist in relation to all the other connections you have in your life. Whilst people say you shouldn’t worry what others think. In reality how you are seen affects how you are treated. I was really only thinking about legal marriages because I’m not religious and they are the most common in my social circle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/20 10:51 PM
1	Women who require marriage in an LTR are at a disadvantage in the dating market due to changing perceptions around marriage I get trying to avoid the big wedding. But if you live together are committed and automatically becoming domestic partners with legal rights. Then why avoid legal marriage? Marriage these days is mostly to indicate to others how important your partner is to your life. Until marriage often family, employers, governments and society won’t recognise you partners fairly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/20 10:11 PM
3	Looks isn't everything, but for Most Men, it is Perhaps it’s better for society and the human population as a whole. That for 80% or more of the male population the cost / effort required to achieve a lot of casual is too high. Perhaps it’s better that to improve sex frequency straight men need to pursue and maintain monogamous relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/20 11:31 PM
2	Do y’all like women? Lol 😂 AKA “hell is other people!”	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/20 01:24 PM
2	Why is circumcision not considered genital mutilation? Pretty sure there is a doco somewhere. Can’t remember nowadays it’s been a few years. I do remember cereal in general was invented to nutritionally feed asylum type patients . And was part of food based therapies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/20 04:45 PM
2	LMR: Men are not entitled to sex and women are not entitled to affection Women are not saying the requirement for sex is lots of specific activities beforehand. They are saying I prefer to feel close to the people I have sex with. Or I want to be in the mood. This is different for everyone though. I get that it can be confusing because in other areas of life you put in a specific amount of effort you get a specific outcome. Interpersonal relationships have never worked that way. I’m sure there are women just want sex and nothing else but let’s face it they are rare. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/20 01:55 AM
1	LMR: Men are not entitled to sex and women are not entitled to affection Yeah I had to google them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/20 11:51 PM
3	LMR: Men are not entitled to sex and women are not entitled to affection Yes but the op is describing a situation where he doesn’t want to participate in affectionate activities unless they will lead to full sex. Meanwhile a lot of women think affection and kissing is an important part of bonding and relationship building and doesn’t automatically have to lead to sex. Basically he is being petty, transactional and keeping score. Instead of thinking this is a woman I really like and I want to do things she likes with her. In turn she will think this is a really great …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/20 11:46 PM
14	LMR: Men are not entitled to sex and women are not entitled to affection This does happen sometimes to everyone you could suddenly feel sick, tired or uncomfortable. The point is everyone should be looking for continued enthusiastic consent. And it’s ok to stop in the middle of amorous activities if you’re no longer enjoying them or you don’t want push past your limits. This would be regardless of how keen or turned on the other person is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/20 01:29 PM
3	LMR: Men are not entitled to sex and women are not entitled to affection This does happen sometimes to everyone you could suddenly feel sick, tired or uncomfortable. The point is everyone should be looking for continued enthusiastic consent. And it’s ok to stop in the middle of amorous activities if you’re no longer enjoying them or you don’t want push past your limits. This would be regardless of how keen or turned on the other person is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/20 01:28 PM
40	LMR: Men are not entitled to sex and women are not entitled to affection Any form of resistance or unease should be considered no consent. And it’s right to stop what you’re doing. That being said if your not interested in pleasing your partner with affection or activities they desire,why date them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/08/20 12:49 PM
1	Why don't the simps and pickmeishas just date each other? Assuming their both attractive enough there wouldn’t be a chase so not much room for a spark.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/20 12:13 PM
1	CMV: Sex is the pinnacle of any relationship, and the ultimate expression of feeling between two people Cool, so if you find someone like minded, how long are you willing to wait for sex. Whilst being exclusive of course.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/20 02:00 PM
2	CMV Being "used" for sex/your wallet is the price of admission. The feeling of being duped comes from putting in all this effort to dating and still not getting what you want. Then you think why did I do that, how did I read the situation wrong? Meanwhile the whole point of early dating is actually to audition someone. I think we all need to talk more and assume less. Remember your feelings might not be reflected so ask get to know the person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/20 12:03 AM
1	The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past" In this era of paternity testing. The reality is that men that complain about n count, just struggle with the thought of being compared to other men, especially sexually. Ladies if he brings it up total red flag. It’s ok to ask about important past relationships to get a sense of a persons life and personality. But just sex partners especially in the initial stages of dating is just a sign of insecurity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/20 11:18 PM
1	Just broke up with my gf Her attitude is selfish some people test others to see what kind of person their dating. When she degrade you the first couple of times why didn’t you just speak up? Why allow her to continue treating you in a mean way? Now about the basketball shorts. Hate to say it but she’s right. They should not be worn on dates / social outings with your girl. They are athletic wear they are for sport / working out or many lounging around the house. They do not come under the category of sport lux or athlei…	/r/MGTOW2	29/06/20 05:31 PM
0	What Is The Equalizer To Online Dating For Men? Did you ever think perhaps it’s not supposed to be equal? Men and women’s risk vs reward ratios when it comes online dating differ dramatically . So women get approached more. so what ? It doesn’t mean they find a good prospect anymore often then men do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/20 04:45 PM
12	General standards in regards to casual sex partners and long-term partners Look let’s just leave the fake stats out of this there isn’t any scientific data because attractiveness is subjective. So you are advising women lower their standards for marriageable guys down to the point they are not even attracted to them. And then saying men shouldn’t get into long term relationships unless they can’t get casual sex. But once they are married they shouldn’t expect any sex. So the only people that are happy are hot guys that don’t want long term relationships. And everyone e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/06/20 06:19 AM
2	A line that drastically increases sexual tension... for me Never said there was anything wrong with both parties flirting. But what’s with the lame pick up tactics. It’s like men think they have to manipulate women. What’s really going on is most women just want to know more about you before they show interest.	/r/seduction	21/06/20 07:21 AM
–	A line that drastically increases sexual tension... for me Never said there was anything wrong with both parties flirting. But what’s with the lame pick up tactics. It’s like men think they have to manipulate women. What’s really going on is most women just want to know more about you before they show interest.	/r/seduction	21/06/20 07:21 AM
2	Female Matchmaker stops trying to help women match with men because women (according to her) have "unrealistic standards for men, dating marriage". Lets discuss. So you are happily married and settled down with one of the first few acceptable women your parents presented to you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/20 03:16 AM
1	Female Matchmaker stops trying to help women match with men because women (according to her) have "unrealistic standards for men, dating marriage". Lets discuss. Exactly	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/20 02:47 AM
–	A line that drastically increases sexual tension... for me Oh god haven’t they thought of anything new yet. It’s so old and obvious I’d probably ask if he had a boyfriend? I get to be funny and the sexual tension is dead in the water. Women are not this naive.	/r/seduction	21/06/20 02:39 AM
3	Female Matchmaker stops trying to help women match with men because women (according to her) have "unrealistic standards for men, dating marriage". Lets discuss. Perhaps being somewhat liberal is not compatible with expecting to her find a match within the community. Perhaps the traits she wants and the family expectations rarely if ever exist in the same man. Talk about making the situation doubly hard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/20 01:22 AM
15	Female Matchmaker stops trying to help women match with men because women (according to her) have "unrealistic standards for men, dating marriage". Lets discuss. I feel like men hire a match maker when they are short on time. Women hire a matchmaker when there not finding what they want. Her views are biased by her clientele. If women wanted average joe husband why would they hire her? She’s basically saying it’s not profitable to work for the kind of women who want to pay to get results they can’t get themselves. Also these idealised men would have no need for a matchmaker women just fall in their lap. Her jobs is actually sales if she can’t convince cl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/20 01:08 AM
2	Research suggests that women care more about emotional infidelity and men care more about sexual infidelity. Why is this the case? Interesting cause men are more likely to commit sexual infidelity and women are more likely to have emotional affairs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/20 06:23 AM
0	Women are complaining men don't want to commit. But what do you have to offer exactly? Do you think the problem is only due to men, or might also be tied to what the average modern woman has to offer? Men are afraid to commit because ironically marriages are more likely to end in divorce than ever before. The wage gap and extreme difference in the amount of unpaid care work between genders mean the pros and cons of marriage are different for heterosexual men and women. If men and women were more equal then the burden of divorce eg alimony would be spread more evenly rather than more often falling on the man. This could be rectified to increase marriage rates. if women were paid equally and me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/20 02:38 PM
2	Getting attractive men as a women is not nearly as easy as some guys on here make it out to be. I think that’s just your perception rather than reality. It’s not like women go around with a ruler. The average guy is 5’9 meaning outliers are guys over 6ft and under 5’6. You can’t tell the majority of women only date men over 6ft the numbers don’t work. I’m 5’6 which is above average in height for women. I could care less if a guy is taller or shorter than I am. However if a guy was significantly shorter than me they would rule me out. I don’t know what in human biology causes people to equa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/20 01:56 PM
2	Getting attractive men as a women is not nearly as easy as some guys on here make it out to be. Lol don’t be ridiculous men and women are both shallow. Arbitrary traits are often picked out in online dating because their is the perception of a lot of choice. Women might go for height, jawline or abs. Men might go for eye colour, breast size, hairstyle or booty. Non of these things make you a better date or more compatible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/20 05:55 AM
1	Getting attractive men as a women is not nearly as easy as some guys on here make it out to be. Regardless of gender everyone wants to be with someone as or more attractive than themselves. When people want to make it easier on themselves to get sex they often drop their standards to slightly below their own attractiveness level. The guys getting all upset this are low on the attractiveness scale. Therefore there are few if any women less attractive than them so lowering their standards will do nothing. Hence they will always have to put in a lot of effort to get sex. Or put in a lot of ef…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/20 05:28 AM
2	Most guys on here wouldn't be bothered by a woman with a high N count if all of her partners had been women You just said the response was visceral not rational not intellectualised. So it’s emotional an extension of jealousy and repulsion. I’ve always felt uncontrollable human emotional responses are part of our biology and evolution. They exist because the have served our species and it’s survival. The fact this may no longer be true in our overpopulated world unfortunately doesn’t mean they’re going to magically disappear overnight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/20 11:50 PM
1	What about the 28% of sexless men makes women prefer to be single than date them? Essentially yes, I thought many people felt that way. 🤷🏼‍♀️Well of course my opinion is the perspective of someone currently single lol😆Regardless of wether your a man or a woman relationships require effort. Hence aren’t most people selective about who they date?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/20 01:52 PM
6	What about the 28% of sexless men makes women prefer to be single than date them? Not all straight men want kids. And some of them are humans not jerks who think women are just for breeding or sex. But as we all can see the pickings are slim.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/05/20 06:17 AM
2	People assume any approach is a sexual approach because it's no longer common to have casual friends Yep cause if I assume they’re just being friendly, I’ve not only friendzoned them I’m a tease.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/20 07:45 AM
1	What about the 28% of sexless men makes women prefer to be single than date them? That’s a low age range some of these men are just still inexperienced or virgins it’s not uncommon to have sex for the first time in your 20’s. There are also those waiting for marriage. And those are part of the Lqbtqia who are less confident to persue sexual encounters.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/20 07:32 AM
14	What about the 28% of sexless men makes women prefer to be single than date them? Okay so what as a woman would make not being single worth it? Love: well this takes time and most men are not that romantic when initiating dating. Sex: Men want sex to feel love, where as women want to feel loved and use sex to express that love. The ultimate catch 22. Also statistically speaking I am more likely to orgasm by myself than with any straight guy. Intimacy: would be wonderful but this subset of left overmen have no experience nor do they value it as highly as women do. Kids: No tha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/20 07:13 AM