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I believe the "Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs" is the rate-limiting factor to all of this. If you outsource things like food (ordering out/having him cook) every now and then instead of doing it yourself, it will be easier and less physically exhausting to meet your needs, and you'll be better able to meet him where he's at.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/25 03:00 PM
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Girl... Don't let who a man appears to be on the outside and to other people cloud your judgement. This is how many persons are tricked and bamboozled. How he treats you is of utmost importance! But you can't even begin to assess how you should be treated when you clearly don't value yourself. Improve what you can change and learn to accept and love what you can not change. Maybe you should see a therapist to help show you what that will look like. You think you are lowering your standards to wi…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/24 04:39 AM
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You are definitely judging yourself, which means you need to examine and update your belief system. Similarly to what another commenter said, shame is when your beliefs (formed based on your community) and your self-image (formed as a result of your actions) are clashing with each other. Women who truly believe in sexual liberation would not feel ashamed about sexual activity. They either would not "feel like a slut" or not have difficulty "getting over" that feeling. They are also not going to …
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/24 05:59 AM
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Long reply incoming! 😆 You have poor boundaries. Why? 1. You were hoping that he would respect your boundaries by not continuing the conversation, but it is your personal responsibility to protect your boundaries. Depending on other people to protect your own boundaries will not turn out good for you. 2. Correct me if I am wrong, but I can sense that you are expecting friendship/dating behaviour from a man who does not consider you his friend/has not formally asked you to date. It's nice to have…
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/23 03:14 PM
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This is something that will definitely take time, at least months, because you have to rewire your mind to have a good posture and grace automatically. But you're on the right track! I'm not exactly sure how to word this, but you need to BELIEVE that you are an elegant, graceful and feminine woman. It's from that belief that you'll raise your chin, and your shoulders, and begin to walk and move more gracefully by default. Right now you identify as quite awkward, so it **will** affect your moveme…
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/23 06:50 PM
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When a man says that you both shouldn't be together, accept that gift graciously because he could have dragged the relationship along and taken advantage of you. Now, men who are in the building stage are the most difficult men to encounter as a woman new to RPW. Why? Because guys who have not established themselves and have no ambition are an easy no, and full provider men are an easy yes, but building stage men (unestablished, seemingly ambitious men) have you caught between a rock and a hard …
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/23 03:50 AM
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There are feminine women in this sub who are SAHW/SAHM to loving husbands who are COVERED in tattoos! There were about 2-3 posts recently about that! While it does diminish your pool, men who love women with tattoos are out there! Don't give up! Your ex was messing with your head to purposely ruin your self-esteem for a while. Make sure to see a therapist to address this post-breakup season in your life.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/23 06:20 PM
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I'm a final year med student finding it difficult to meet guys, especially as I want to date hypergamously and be a SAHM. Even worse is that the persons in my circle have not shown support for this, and even discourage me from finding a man who wants a SAHM (very disappointing as these people are strongly religious people). I appreciate any and all posts that can give me tips navigating this experience!
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/23 06:08 PM
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As someone who should have had their medical degree by 25 and wanted to be married with children by 27 (I'm 25 in med school but had some setbacks) this was really comforting to read. I've been feeling really tense about my future but this does give me hope 😊
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/23 02:30 AM
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This actually sounds like you're warm and pleasant, but do weird things sometimes, and the men around you love engaging in behaviour that would instigate those odd reactions because they find it entertaining and funny. They sometimes also keep their distance because they don't know how to interact with you because- the normal approach doesn't always work (you probably don't catch onto inside jokes etc) and the teasing yields mixed results. This sounds like the experience I and my sister had/stil…
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/23 12:45 PM
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Bindi Marc is amazing!
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/23 12:14 PM
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This is so sweet! 💖
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/23 12:35 AM
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Firstly, I'm sorry to hear that you had to go through such a traumatic experience alone. I really hope that you can heal from it 🫂 I think you should sit down and decide exactly what kind of relationship you would want with him in the future- his role, your role, values, marriage, children etc. When you are sure of what you want, you both should sit down and discuss what direction you want the relationship to take, as well as any struggles you both are having, personally, and with each other. Wi…
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/22 05:00 PM
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Don't don't weigh yourself everyday! 😭 Once or twice a month is more healthy. Not seeing the scale moving can demotivate you, especially since healthy weight loss is 1-2 lbs a week.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/22 09:07 PM
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Looks like things are coming along already 😄 Keep us updated with how things go! Glad we could help 🤗
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/22 02:43 AM
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This is the last sub on reddit that will say something rude about your age, trust me (don't let the "red pill" part confuse you) 😊 I've only seen the ladies here get harsh when someone is making or is going to make irresponsible decisions. With that being said, I think it's definitely ok to confess your feelings first. We usually don't give advice concerning taking the wheel in the relationship (things like proposing, and other big decisions) but confessing is fine, and can be really sweet depen…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/22 11:55 PM
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This is a really good question. I'm not sure so I'm waiting to read other responses.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/22 07:49 PM
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Two things: Both of you guys work but only one person is doing the cooking and cleaning? Do you both pay the bills equally as well? I'm not an expert, but I think a lot of the tips from this sub work best when the wife is a stay at home wife. You may need to re-evaluate what works best for you to not get burnt out. Other comments nailed that part pretty well. His tiredness could be health related. When was the last time he got a check up? I was recently diagnosed with hypothyroidism and it expla…
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/22 06:35 AM
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If I had an award I'd give it to you! When I see people grinding themselves to the bone to do or give things to me it makes me upset! Like please, I'm fine, take care of yourself first 😭
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/22 06:28 AM
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OP you sound like you have some pretty low self esteem, and you're too emotionally bonded to a man that hasn't put a ring on it for 6 years. 😩 I don't know the details of your situation, but from what you said I think you have some underlying self esteem issues to deal with, issues that are preventing you from finding someone who truly cherishes you and not someone that insults you like this.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/22 10:57 AM
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Many comments are great and get straight to the point. I'd like to expand on the answers given as well as explain the dynamic you're presenting from our point of view for a bit. Feel free to give your opinion. . . . Firstly, The Red Pill and Red Pill Women are misaligned in theory and practice in many ways. While I think that genuine red pill ideology (something that has been tarnished by mainstream misconceptions and certain toxic male spaces) encourages men to better themselves, I have almost …
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/22 12:42 AM
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You explained it pretty well! To top it off, women who have children for a man who isn't her husband get shamed in the red-pill sphere for doing so, especially if he flakes and leaves and she has no security. They would call her all sorts of names, especially the term "modern women" e.g. "modern women don't see the value of marriage", "she tried to tie him down with kids", "our grandparents had it better because they believed in marriage"
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/22 10:50 PM
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I'd advise any Christian woman to side-eye guys that call themselves born-again Christians but view sex and virginity the way you described. They may be doing all the right stuff on paper but they have one foot in the world and one foot in the church. OP should not be worried about these types of beliefs while dating Christian men. She is clearly trying to remain celibate and deserves a partner with the same mindset and goals, and there ARE Christian men out there who think that way.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/22 03:40 PM
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Oooh I like this take
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/22 01:02 AM
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I consider myself heavily invested in RPW but I'm not sure if I can give proper advice for this situation 😅 I don't believe in having children out of wedlock and won't date guys who aren't marriage minded, but I'm single like a pringle and I've never been in a relationship. It's like I'm working on my masters on the topic but I have zero practical experience 🙈So my comments are more like questions exploring this situation, in the hopes that both of us can get answers 🤗 If you have children, whos…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/22 12:58 AM
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You've made the right choice! It will be difficult but there are lots of men out there who aren't afraid of commitment, and it is very possible to find someone who loves you just as much or even more than your ex! 🤗
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/22 02:54 PM
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Strength workouts are good to help prevent osteoporosis when you get older! Also, women don't easily bulk up like men when they strength train. Keep working out!
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/22 06:52 PM
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I find a lot of TRP theory helpful but I think you've delved WAY too deep in from the manosphere side, and have been applying certain concepts to the wrong situation (please do not refer to your father as a partner 😩). From woman to woman, this sub is a good space to delve into healthier TRP concepts. There's so much I want to say but other comments seemed to have explained most of it. You need to seek out counsel from other men and women who aren't giving out extreme TRP and even black pill adv…
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/22 09:11 PM
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You're defining your femininity based on your man, not based on yourself. There are lots of guys who love to date taller women because other people think they're dating a model. You probably need some therapy to start loving yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/22 03:02 PM
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I'm really not sure how to advise you on this situation, but it's generally pretty difficult to get men to commit with this type of relationship dynamic. It's especially gonna be difficult to get him to not go to Brazil and look at women when you yourself appear/appeared to be ok with dressing up, partying and being available to be looked at by other men. You're frustrated with the outcome when your very thoughts and actions are the reciprocal of your partner. The only way I can see you reasonab…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/22 11:37 PM
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I'm not in a relationship but I know I'd want to get married after school because I want absolutely want no chance of getting pregnant before I finish (I plan to remain abstinent until marriage). I want to be a SAHM also, and I can barely juggle taking care of my needs and my school work, much less looking after a husband and child.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/22 01:50 PM
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Height is considered important because of genetics and nutrition. Men, in general, are taller than women. While there are healthy men who are below the population average, a man who is shorter than average is associated with poor nutrition or genetic defects. Over time, this worked its way into the human attraction system as people want someone who is healthy with good genes to have children with. A specific height, particularly one over the average, isn't high-value. That is just a preference.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/22 05:39 PM
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I think there should be a link to it in the group bio. The one I'm reading is a borrowed online version because I'm really broke right now 😅
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/22 03:14 AM
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Please read the book Fascinating Womanhood (check the group description) and get therapy. The book gives relationship advice from a traditional perspective and the therapy is to help your self-esteem and any lingering battles you may still be having from your depression and prior abusive relationship. Your responses concerned me greatly 🥺 I really hope that you do get to make female friends and begin to prioritize your standards and boundaries 💖
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/22 06:12 AM
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I wish I could upvote this a thousand times! A lot of them see women as props, and then wonder why they are outcasts in society! Kind, sweet and nurturing women with half a brain avoid these kinds of men like the plague. And the ones that do get involved eventually realize what they got themselves into. They become unhappy and frustrated when they see that all the man could offer is money (I can't even say sex as well because some even believe that if they have money they are allowed to cheat (K…
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/21 01:53 PM
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The doubled workforce of today needs children to uphold it tomorrow, and raising children outside of a two parent home oftentimes isn't healthy at all. I've found that most persons who question the reason for marriage beyond decency are also persons who believe that marriage is just a piece of paper. It is not. A two parent home is the foundation of society. The government knows this, and that is why there are extra legal protections and benefits given to married persons- it is your spouse who s…
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/21 01:38 PM
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If you're planning on having children you'll eventually need to have help around the house. There would be simple upkeep that you yourself would still have to do. You also stated somewhere else that he makes 250k a year and said that he could easily have other women. It sounds like you really want to be perfect. Well, for a lot of men, the order of importance is as follows: Beauty Agreeability Home-making skills It would be very difficult for you to constantly look good and be rested enough to n…
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/21 10:55 PM
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Yeah he probably needs something to do, some outlet to channel whatever frustration he's going through. Maybe OP can search online for any activities he might like- whether OP has to order it or make it herself.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/21 02:24 AM
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First thing's first! You need to have a serious talk with your husband and sister because she's messing with the vibe of your home, a place that should be you and your husband's sanctuary. She has to take more responsibility for herself because you and your husband can't do it all. Once you get the situation with your sister under control, make sure your home smells amazing - febreeze, scented detergent, candles, diffusers, wiping down surfaces with scented cleaning solution, perfume - anything!…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/21 08:10 AM
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I've always only entertained the "hitting the wall" concept with regards to fertility. If you are 28 and still single you still have time but a lot less, because at 35 it begins to really drop off and pregnancy becomes even riskier. Now, in terms of general attraction I don't entertain it at all. Once you stay fit and are well groomed you're gonna find someone, regardless of your age. Men hit on, date and marry women of all age groups. As you age you may get less hollers, but that's because the …
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/21 05:29 AM
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I wanna be 55kg so bad but I can't commit to an exercise regime 😭 I probably exercise 5 times per month for months now. Well at least I'm not gaining weight 😭
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/20 05:17 PM
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Most men would find her attractive though. That's just one troll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 08:59 PM
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