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What are your hobbies or what hobbies would you be interested in starting?
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/21 03:23 PM
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I've heard people say that about men sleeping with female celebrities in general, not specifically pornstars (who would happen to fit in general "celebrity" category I guess). I do think that says more about her than it does society or the people she hangs out with. Maybe she dabbles in porn herself which is why her mind went there?
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/21 02:37 AM
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Also opening up more opportunity for big/corporate childcare.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/21 03:50 PM
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Here's another thing to consider if you do get back together with him: you're showing him that he can do this to you again. Maybe more than once. In getting back together after breaking up there's now the idea in both or either of your heads that a break up isn't the end all be all that someone likes me believes it should be. That said, I do know one couple that is now married and later hada kid that went through a lot of breakups. Their relationship was always really dramatic when we were all c…
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/21 11:59 AM
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When he broke up with her and blocked her just because he didn't want a serious relationship how was he hurt then? Actually, OP, if you have any other clue as to what set him to break up with you that could help a lot.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/21 11:43 AM
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That's my opinion. But I also wouldn't break up with someone I wanted to make things work with, or say I didn't love them, or tell them I get a free pass to sleep with someone when reconciling, or be angry that they didn't wait for me when I broke up with them. It's too many red flags for me. If anyone treated me the way he treated and is treating you I'd get as far away from him as I could find someone who actually shows that he wants to be with me and treats me kindly.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/21 11:33 AM
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That is weird. My husband also doesn't like making calls but he also doesn't harass me for it. Seems like your boyfriend needs to learn, and I'm going off memory here, "the humility to accept that which I cannot change, the courage to change what I can, and the wisdom to know the difference." I guess also in the particular case you described, you could tell your boyfriend that, if you have time you'll call and see what they say, but you do work full time even though it's at home right now. And i…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/21 02:43 PM
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How much does he help with house maintenance? Other than cleaning (and in the future yard work. Both of which are things I personally [would] want to maintain) my husband and I tackle other house projects together. Neither one of us is an HVAC or plumbing technician so if we can find a way to DIY it we research and do it together or hire a professional. My husband's standard of clean is also lower than mine so he never complains about the state of the house, either.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/21 01:41 PM
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I don't have much to say yet because, up until a year ago (arguably 2) my husband and I were still in the honeymoon, easy going fun stage of our relationship despite having been together 8-9 years. I'll have to update once my kid(s) are older but for now I just try to give my husband as much of our old school attention as he knows I can with a nearly 1 year old and 2 more on the way.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/21 02:36 AM
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I'm with you on being submissive/agreeable being natural for some women. For me, it stems from being the compromiser/peacekeeper in my family growing up. My mom, dad, and sister all have very assertive (occasionally agressive) personalities so I took the role of trying to foster situations where everyone could be at least a little bit happy, although it meant not having many strong wishes or wants of my own. I guess my strongest wish was just for my family to get along and be happy. I'll be curi…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/21 02:32 AM
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And in blocking you he didn't want to make things work. And in treating you the way he is he still doesn't want to make things work. He wants to hurt and own you. Nothing more.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/21 11:51 PM
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I'm sure due to having dated him for 2 years you're feeling pretty invested but please don't. I dated my first boyfriend for 3 years and broke up with him when I was 20. You're still young and you'll find someone who doesn't treat you the way your ex does. His behavior is entirely inappropriate. Someone else said it right - he hurt you, broke up with you, and expected you to mourn him. Someone who loves you wouldn't do that to you. I think it's better to cut your losses now and find someone new.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/21 11:48 PM
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Hey, I just met you, and this is crazy, but I had a daughter, too, and also another (two) on the way! Welcome back and congrats on the wedding and the bundles of joy. :)
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/21 03:53 PM
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You're not. As a personal rule I never have and never would get back together with someone after a break-up for these sorts of reasons. In my mind, once we're broken up, we're done. Time to move on. You're not tainted. He broke up with you and you found someone new to spend your time with. There's nothing wrong with that. Good luck! Treat yourself to a kit-kat bar from the freezer. :p
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/21 03:01 PM
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Sex offenders can vote, right? You're entitled to your opinion but especially now as a parent I'm glad the sex offender registry exists. That's something I personally wouldn't step back from.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/21 10:06 PM
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The second one is actually pretty alarming to me because once you have kids (even if neither of you wants them now who knows what you'll think 15 years from now?) that may be a subject that rears its ugly head again. Same if you become friends with someone new and the topic comes up. Do you mind going into detail on what his stance was? If not I totally understand but my gut is telling me that's something you shouldn't just sweep under the rug.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/21 09:47 PM
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I started dating at 17, dated with the intention of long term, and I've only had two committed relationships (the second being to my now husband). In both my relationships we never fought much in part because I've always been the compromiser in my family so I can typically see the positives in most positions of morality (minus some grievous sins such as purposefully harming others, stealing, and lying) My first relationship ended because my then boyfriend and I had very different wants for our f…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/21 09:21 PM
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Also, if he'll cheat on his former girlfriend, he'll cheat on OP (even if it's only "technically" emotionally - to me cheating either physically or emotionally are equally bad). u/fundip47, I think you should break up with him. You haven't been in a relationship that long and you're still young. Stick around here to learn how to embrace a new lifestyle if you so choose. Good luck in your future endeavors.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/21 02:32 AM
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I don't think there's anything wrong with being frugal/going 50/50 or dutch and, provided you get married and are both working in the future, you'll likely be roughly evenly splitting the bills or in general sharing finances anyway. If your dream is to be a stay at home mom in the future then that's something you should eventually discuss but he may still expect you to be frugal in entertaining the children (where I live it's easy to find parks, splash parks, and malls to walk around that are al…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 11:38 PM
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You think Monopoly is dumb? ... my dad would disagree.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 02:20 PM
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I actually think low body count in both men and women is a good thing and I'm not religious. To me, low body count potentially shows dedication to relationships which I think is a positive trait in anyone.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/21 01:15 AM
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While I don't have any personal experience with your culture, just from my own experience with my in-laws, just be polite and friendly with them, too. Don't bring up controversial topics and try not to get too heated in either direction if the parents bring something up themselves. I try to keep in mind that even if I don't agree with someone, if they're generally good people, they usually don't mean harm in their views, and this is especially true for people older than us who may have life expe…
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/21 10:39 PM
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Where I live childcare is basically equal to one person's paycheck anyway. Have you looked into how much childcare would cost vs how much you'd realistically be making yourself? Also, how far on the horizon is a family for the two of you? Because if his thought is to save up for a few years until you have kids I think that makes a lot of sense.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/21 09:56 PM
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I think 7 months is plenty of time, especially considering you're in your midtwenties and need to be looking at a 5 year relationship timeframe as someone else mentioned. That said, since you've mostly only talked for tutoring, I suspect your advance won't get you anywhere, but again you don't have a lot of time to be waiting around either. Based on the way you've talked I think an email or text saying you'd be interested in expanding your relationship if he's interested and if not you still app…
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/21 03:41 PM
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How do you usually talk to him (ex: emails or zoom, etc.) and in what settings (ex: only tutoring sessions or do you talk outside of that?) That'll help me with those answers.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/21 03:25 PM
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I'm a girl who's always been really upfront (I proposed to my husband for example) and it's worked out for me. Some guys like when girls make the first move, some don't, but if you wait for him you could be waiting for a long time or never. Ultimately I'm the type of person who prefers to take destiny into my own hands. If he rejects you it just means you can move on faster. At least that's my opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/21 02:08 PM
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If you like him you should tell him your feelings. The age difference falls in the 1/2 +7 rule so you're good in my book. That said, I'll ask you the same thing I ask every woman thinking of dating a younger man - are you prepared for the possibility that, while he might not want kids now, he might change his mind in the future at a point you may not be able to provide those for him? You might be ok if, say, he decides that at 30, but you'll be on the cusp of when your body is still able, but if…
/r/RedPillWomen07/08/21 11:40 AM
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I started dating when I was 17 so I think it's a good age, too. I definitely agree about the maturity thing. I think 16 is also a fine age. Pretty much wherever they have the ability to drive and/or have a job so they can go on and pay for their own dates.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/21 11:29 AM
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I like this but I wanted to add that I think you should have a general time frame in mind for getting it all out. It'll depend on the guy somewhat too but I think between 3-6 months is reasonable (this is to protect your time, too). Definitely think before your 1 year anniversary and since it would suck to sully what should be a day of celebration, I think a week or two before the anniversary at least.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 04:49 PM
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I especially love "at the start". I think it's so important to build a relationship correctly starting with trust. Trying to hide the past will only catch up and bite everyone involved in the ass.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 04:27 PM
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One month isn't a long time and patience (at least some) is a virtue.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/21 12:04 AM
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Interesting! I never really ran into that. When did you start playing? The earliest I can remember is being 4 playing Tetris with my mom. It could be a difference in our personalities though! I'm type A with everything that isn't hobby related. I think seeing my dad be type A in every aspect of his life made me want to step back and smell the flowers more than he does so to speak. When you say addicted to cooking and platforming games could you explain? Like, would you forget to do your homework…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/21 03:56 PM
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Personally, I've never been a fan of dating, so when I did date the intention was always to be long term anyway. For me, something about the 3 year mark just seemed "right" to think/talk about next steps, so in my two relationships that's the time I found myself questioning whether I could see myself with my partner for life as they were at present. With my first boyfriend that answer was no but for my second that answer was yes.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/21 03:42 PM
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What kind of games have you played/are you drawn to? My favorites are games like Zelda, Animal Crossing, Harvest Moon/Story of Seasons, and Sims, but those games aren't really competitive by nature (unless you count Zelda speedrunning which I don't do but enjoy watching), so I've never felt that drive to be "the best" and can just focus on enjoying the game.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/21 03:24 PM
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Thank you for answering! As someone who married at 24, and especially considering your confidence about your boyfriend, I think you should stick to what you have! As women we hear all the time that we can do better but eventually everyone needs to lock down on their partner. For women, it's even more important that we find commitment to a "good enough" guy early since we don't have the luxury of time that men do. I've seen enough stories of hardship dating over 30 to not wish that on any woman w…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/21 02:13 PM
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Do you mind sharing with us how old you are? Just because a few are suggesting that you're still young enough to be vetting but I personally think that can be dangerous advice depending on how old you actually are.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/21 01:34 PM
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100% agree with Astrology. In addition to your list I would recommend picking up some hobbies you enjoy if you don't have any that already occupy your mind. For me, video games are life, followed closely by writing and reading. I also like to cook, bake, and take long walks. But maybe for you art, music, fashion, or make up are your bread and butter. Try a lot of things and find what sticks and keeps you content and happy alone for hours if need be. If you've never played video games before, or …
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/21 07:32 AM
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It's too bad op deleted her post and account but for any other ladies going through similar I think this would be appropriate- Text after a week just to check in. If he responds, maybe ask after whatever chit chatting, "is it ok if I reach back out to you again next week?" Maybe he'll just say yes, maybe he'll say "actually, I have this big thing on Wednesday and talking to you would really help me relax about it" or "actually, I have a lot on my plate, can we talk x?" Or, if he doesn't respond,…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/21 04:27 AM
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Are you more worried about actually succumbing to temptation or about rumors that might fly around, despite being true to your relationship? Not that I'll be any help in either case but maybe the answer to that will help someone with more experience in either department give more solid advice.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/21 03:48 AM
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I disagree. If she likes him, and she said they've been talking a few months even if only 3 dates, why shouldn't she wait a month for him? Or even two? Or as equally as long as they've been talking? Your advice sounds like spinning plates to me, which is what men do.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/21 03:42 AM
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I met my husband at work (gaming shop) but when I was in high school/college my favorite hang outs were the library (anime/book clubs and game tournaments, or just hanging out reading since I always found libraries peaceful) and the internet cafe at the mall. Approaches that worked for me were "what are you reading?" (of course its ok for people to respond "sorry I'm studying") Or "are you here for the club/tournament?" Or "I see you're playing x, mind if I join you?" Really, anything that got u…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/21 10:36 PM
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Or ripped her pants lol
/r/MGTOW01/08/21 10:31 PM
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Tfw she had a rip in the ass of her pants or something and he was trying to let her know before embarrassing herself but she decided to be a bitch instead of just seeing what he wanted.
/r/MGTOW01/08/21 10:30 PM
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I'm in favor of living together first. Like others have said it's one of the best ways to really get to know someone and their habits/lifestyle. I dated my now husband for a year before we moved in together, then we lived with a roommate for a year, then just the two of us for a year before getting married. I'm seeing a lot of talk about the possibility of becoming a live in girlfriend and I say that's less likely if you're the one to purpose (which is what I did). I have no regrets and it's a f…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/21 08:22 PM
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You're smart enough to come here and ask for advice. You also have the wisdom to admit you don't know everything then seek and listen to outside thoughts. Many people are too stupid or stubborn to realize how stupid they are, or won't admit it, and just make things harder for themselves. But at the end of the day, we're all just doing our best with our dumb primate brains :p
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/21 05:43 PM
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One final and very important thought for you since you're considering staying with him. What is your plan if, 10 years from now, he decides he wants biological children which at that point you may be unable to provide? I ask this because when my husband and I got together in our 20s neither of us wanted children. However, when he turned 30, he suddenly changed his mind. While Ruslan may not have this same change of heart it is a very real possibility. Would you be willing to let him impregnate a…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/21 01:56 PM
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And to be brutally honest, you still don't. Heck, my husband and I have been together over 10 years now and we still learn new things about each other, especially now considering we have a child together and are having more. I'm sure I'll learn even more about him as the kids, and we, get older. But I dated him long enough to know his nature before we got married, so while there are some surprises, I know where the core of where those come from. As it is now, your boyfriend's "core" is volatile.…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/21 11:21 AM
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Are you talking about smv for men or women? I can only give my view as a woman who spends a lot of time in men's subreddits, but while looks do play a part, age is what matters more to most men seeking women. While a woman in her 30s can still have children, if a relationship isn't already in place, the chances of building a stable relationship and starting a biological family greatly decreases, so women in their 20s are generally more attractive by default. What I've seen as far as sex only is …
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/21 01:28 AM
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Don't blame yourself. It sounds a little like you both were almost dating because "it's just what you do". I apologize if that's not the case but the way I'm reading it sounds sort of cut & dry to me. You had the same goals so you dated to make those goals a reality. Now that those goals became reality so the goal posts have shifted, at least for him. I do agree you should move on and try not to take his words to heart. Was this your first relationship? I had one boyfriend prior to my husband so…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/21 08:10 PM
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What about work in the relationship? I'm curious how it started out and how it progressed.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/21 07:59 PM
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I think you've found a piece to the answer yourself. Was he always like that, where you were the one putting in all the work?
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/21 07:52 PM
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I consider my husband high value but he certainly would tell you otherwise and he might not be a 10/10 for everyone. In my opinion I don't worry about things like "high value" or how others view him. He's considerate, loves me, thinks I'm beautiful and works hard for us (I'm a stay at home mother now). We're best friends and share the same hobbies. We support each other in our goals. He's perfect for me and that's what matters. How long were you in a relationship? And if you don't mind saying, h…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/21 07:22 PM
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That's a shame! I'm curious if you could talk to one of the librarians about getting one started. And this would not be a fast process but if you felt inclined to go to the library or make a habit of walking along near the coffee shop you might find people who started clubs of their own. Start off going different days and times of day until you find when a lot of people seem to gather there. With my young daughter we have a routine of walking along the shops a couple times a day and learned that…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/21 11:47 AM
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Do you have a library nearby that might offer free art classes or have art/cooking appreciation clubs? Or, a park that would be safe for you to spend time in and sketch/write?
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/21 11:10 AM
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You do have a lot of male influence in your life. And it can be difficult mediating for your parents - after all, they're supposed to be the ones who mediate for you and/or set the example. I do think surrounding yourself with more women who have the traits you desire would be helpful. Do you attend church? If not, would you be opposed to going? Also, do you work? If so, does your work allow or encourage you to join networking groups? Also, what are your hobbies? (I'm going to bed now but I'll t…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/21 03:35 AM
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What are your top 3 relationships in your life? You also mentioned you live with someone. Do you mind disclosing your relationship with them? Also, do you have siblings?
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/21 03:22 AM
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I think it'll help a lot if we got to know more about you. For starters, do you consider yourself more of a talker or a listener?
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/21 03:07 AM
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I'm pretty sure it starts with a 4. Nothing more to see here!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/21 11:04 AM
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Occasionally I play games like Skribbl, drawasaurus, Among Us, etc that seem to appeal to horny teen and preteen girls (sometimes boys but much less frequently) (also, GTFO Chris Hansen I actually like pictonary and "who done it" type games). Almost every game you get at least one up and coming thot asking "do you like me?" to which I occasionally entertain and say "I don't know anything about you". Every time the answer is "well, I'm (age) and I'm pretty" to which I usually reply "ok, but what …
/r/MGTOW17/07/21 11:08 AM
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Computer, define "insanity".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/07/21 11:25 AM
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Have you asked him what she does or has done for him to warrant such extravagant gifts? That could cut either way but it might get the wheels churning.
/r/MGTOW12/07/21 11:26 AM
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Hurr durr but men can't be raped. Look, pee pee get hard that's means he wants it.
/r/MGTOW09/07/21 10:18 AM
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He backtracked on his words sure, probably because people can have stupid brains, especially in a stressful situation like an interview with one of the most well-known and attractive celebrities in the world. Doesn't mean he's not nice. Unless Taylor dated several guys who proclaimed that they're "nice guys" within the first five minutes of the confirmation, she really doesn't have experience in that department.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/21 08:10 PM
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How would she know? Did every guy who broke her heart open with "I'm a nice guy?" I bet not.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/07/21 07:35 PM
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I know it's still prevelant but as more and more men start waking up to that reality (and go their own way instead) the less and less that will happen.
/r/MGTOW08/07/21 07:25 PM
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In their 20s sure but in their 30s+ the tables tend to turn.
/r/MGTOW08/07/21 11:47 AM
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Down a leg could have an awesome story behind it. Obesity though? What, eat your feelings? Just lazy? Usually not some interesting story to get to that point. Also, lost a leg due to unforeseen accident vs choosing to eat too much and not move enough.
/r/MGTOW08/07/21 11:42 AM
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I don't know what path my daughter will take. My sister and I are very different people (she the drama/party girl, me the quiet introvert). I love my sister but she definitely has more struggles in life than I do - but I also never looked for "projects" that caused me to go bankrupt, have my home destroyed, etc. And that's just one of the guys. Not to mention the ones who cheated on her all through high school, or hit her, or verbally abused her. If I can help it I would rather my daughter not g…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre08/07/21 02:25 AM
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And her girl friends push her to do it to because "it's normal! It's fun! Tee hee"
/r/MGTOW07/07/21 11:25 AM
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I've a longer post elsewhere but, according to data on OLD (which can be applied to real life, too) 80% of women are gunning for 10% of guys so... you can see how the math plays out. Also, there's such a thing as learning from your past. If your "sparky" relationships aren't working maybe it's time to go for a relationship that isn't "sparky".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/21 11:17 AM
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I wonder, and this may be a long shot, if he has stake in the property in some way. Maybe per the divorce decree, she gets to live there gratis (he can too but chooses not to) but if they sell (and they must both agree), they spit the money, so it's more beneficial to her to stay (she has a free house! She can't afford a whole house with the funds from half a house!) but at the same time if she croaks the property belongs solely to him. I could see wanting to maintain it in that case.
/r/MGTOW06/07/21 02:24 AM
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I guess one can be ambitious but suck at everything they do.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/21 03:25 AM
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Right and, unfortunately, even those of us with a mother and father in the picture, if mother is "strong and independent", she still doesn't make a good role model for a wife (fine mother though). At least I learned from her how NOT to treat my husband I suppose.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre04/07/21 01:42 AM
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Trust her gut = ask her friends
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/21 03:37 AM
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Or doesn't get married and posts pics every weekend with a new, smoking hot, 20-something.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/07/21 03:35 AM
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I think McGonzo was not understanding why the guy put up with it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/21 04:04 PM
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Or doing something alone like hiking a 14er.
/r/MGTOW30/06/21 11:12 AM
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I wonder if it's because a woman having chaste qualities is still considered a positive trait. That said, it only works when she's chaste all around, which this woman is not. Even then, it's a trait more favorable in virgins.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/21 07:27 PM
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And I'll did everything I can to teach my daughter not to be one of those party girls. I'm not sure how though. Push too hard and she may rebel to spite me. Not enough and she'll be influenced by her peers. Parenting, REAL parenting, really is the toughest job out there.
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre26/06/21 11:58 AM
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I don't frequent there but I can tell you it's definitely a prominent trait for women to lead other women astray, either maliciously (after all, if all women are sluts then the natural slut can have her cake and eat it, too), don't want to be shunned by their group for disagreeing, or just because they don't want to hurt each other's feelings.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 04:36 AM
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I'd be with you of she had never married, but she sneaks in there about getting "remarried"...so she landed a guy before and fucked it all up somehow. Not to say your scenario is impossible but she probably isn't completely bottom of the barrel by assistance or hygiene if she landed a husband at some point.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/21 04:30 AM
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To be fair, if this is a true story, growing up in an adoptive family probably had a lot to do with his mindset.
/r/MGTOW21/06/21 12:43 PM
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r/nothingeverhappens
/r/MGTOW21/06/21 12:03 PM
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I think you mean milk instead of wine my good man.
/r/MGTOW21/06/21 12:03 PM
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The true nature of women became much more obvious and widespread?
/r/MGTOW21/06/21 11:36 AM
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"We aren't talking long term partners here" is the problem I'm seeing. The post I linked you goes over some off the cuff stats based on what I know and filling in some minor gaps between. If your idea is to find that spark first your pool of potential partners significantly decreases. Also, I would think it's easier to turn the "nice guy" into an enthusiastic sexual partner (because it's more fun!) than turn the sexually satisfying bad boy into a provider (because that's not fun!) At least, I've…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/21 11:41 AM
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Mind if I ask what you bring to the table? All those things you listed yourself?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/21 11:31 AM
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Hard for men to get practice when women won't even give them the time of day. Also, I lost your comment about this kind of behavior being safe and healthy - it's not. You say "it's not 1950 anymore! Times have changed!" The last 70 years is hardly a drop in the bucket compared to the millions of years of human evolution etched into our DNA. If this behavior was safe and healthy then polygamy would be much more prevelant in our society. Don't get me wrong! It is in some places! Places that typica…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/21 11:29 AM
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On mobile so I hope this works but I posted about this sentiment a few days ago. https://www.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/nylq99/z/h1m66g0
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/21 11:19 AM
5

Sorry to burst your bubble but the definition of "slut" is a woman who has many casual sexual relations so, while having a single one night stand may not make a slut, having many of them does. And it sounds like this woman is doing exactly that. It's not anyone's responsibility to teach the "nice guy" how to be good at sex? Sure. And it should be no one's responsibility to take care of a down and out woman who can't make a stable happy life for herself. Oh wait...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/06/21 11:18 AM
9

At least she didn't cross off 100% of single dads like we see so often here?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 03:17 PM
4

I didn't realize "spinster" was derogatory. I can see it being used in a derogatory way but always kinda placed it in the same category as "hippy". Also, maybe I'm just a dirty peasant, but "spinster" sounds sorta fancy to me. Like 20s flapper girls type fancy just not long white gloves at a tea party fancy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/06/21 02:12 PM
4

Also simps catering to them for their m'punch card.
/r/MGTOW14/06/21 02:12 AM
11

The problem is the contradicting wants she has (based on statistical factors, not ones she states) On mobile so I'm not going to post links but this is something repeated on the subreddit a lot: according to data from OLD women only find the top 10% of men physically attractive. I think it's something like 80% of women on OLD score men's physical attractiveness this way. You can see there are not enough "attractive" men for the number of women seeking them. Add to that the want of a good persona…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/06/21 12:24 PM
1

Hell yeah, brother. Hence mgtow is the only option until the collapse of society. It may take a few generations to work out all the remedial bullshit but maybe then we can get back to our roots and build something worthwhile.
/r/MGTOW11/06/21 03:05 PM
3

If I trusted the government not to make state orphanages bloated with bs like "administration fees" and actually use the funds to provide a decent life and education to the kids I'd rather pay taxes for that than see kids raised by irresponsible mothers and "fathers" who resent them. That said, if a paternity test is done and a match with the written father, or the father can be found, the child support is an option. To go further down that rabbit hole: men should be able to financially "abort" …
/r/MGTOW11/06/21 11:38 AM
6

And any attempt to change it will be met with "bUt it' FoR tHe ChiLd!!" Maybe once society collapses we can put some logical policies in effect. Want child support? Paternity test required. Not a match and can't find the father? The mother will need to beg family and friends or, gosh, work to support her fatherless child. If she can't support the child, take the child away and give it to a family who deserves it. Or it stays with the state i suppose. Not that I like that idea either since the st…
/r/MGTOW11/06/21 11:26 AM
14

isn't it the definition of insanity?
/r/MGTOW10/06/21 02:52 AM
9

Coin-Operated Boy = women: "YAAAS! FINALLY! The perfect man!" Love Doll = women: "CRINGE! WHO WOULD HAVE SEX WITH A DOLL!? INCELS!!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/06/21 05:49 PM
6

Apparently that same guy couldn't "wait" so maybe he was a betabux but she wanted to "take it slow" as these women always do with Billy Beta. Luckily (?) It seems like he knows the game and only intended to pump n dump. If any of this is even real.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/05/21 11:47 AM
13

You're not supposed to carry when you're drunk. I'd be willing to bet the women complaining are also the ones that go out and get shitfaced at clubs every night. Or shitfaced at Chad's before he pumps them and sends them away.
/r/MGTOW13/05/21 07:38 PM
11

That works too but I think it's usually Pump n Dump.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 06:26 PM
1

I didn't realize as women we are incapable of critical thinking and are controlled by only our base, animalistic behavior. How about we start holding EVERYONE accountable for their actions, men and women alike? Any woman who only follows her base need to find an alpha and then monkey branch to a more "suitable" mate can and should be blamed when she winds up without a partner or a partner she deems "unsuitable".
/r/MGTOW02/05/21 11:03 AM
2

Maaaybe if the whole feed is that way but mine has 3 of the top 5 "recommended" as that. I rarely use Twitch and the few times I have was to watch some buddies play WoW and my follows are similar (buddies, but also with Asmongold and Bikeman).
/r/MGTOW30/04/21 12:15 PM
5

Maybe I'm naive but I read it as though she was ESL. I've had many friends (female) who speak this way. To me, it just read like a very immature 30 y/o ESL who is still interested in drama and acts like she's in high school.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/21 06:03 PM
12

Also, reproducing with these empowered women will mean that they will start to take resources (that are supposed to be for his offspring but let's be real here) and worse yet deny him access to his offspring. So yeah maybe he reproduced his genes but his philosophy of life is less likely to be passed to them. More likely their mother will mess them up mentally somehow.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 11:36 AM
27

Think about it - a LOT of women find taken guys attractive. The fact that another woman sees value in him is all it takes for him to attractive. Because this is what they desire, someone who's taken, they expect that guys want the same thing. It's kinda like career women with many/high degrees. They desire a man who has the same or more not realizing most guys don't care about a woman's education or job (unless it's in sex) and care more for her demeanor and appearance (and not every guy wants a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 11:27 AM
5

A night in the hotel maybe? +dinner and drinks of course
/r/MGTOW09/04/21 10:12 PM
-4

I come here to keep what NOT to be top of mind.
/r/MGTOW01/04/21 09:33 PM
24

Well how else will they get their 5 minutes of fame/spotlight if they're not on the show? Bonus the several hours of attention while the show is in production.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/21 06:35 PM
11

Maybe I'm crazy but my first thought in this situation would've been "He just tried to cheat on his now fiance with me! Do I tell her?" followed closely by "I dodged a bullet!/Thank god this isn't happening to me!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/21 05:52 PM
1

brofist thanks for the words dude. My parents split about 10 years ago to the month (the rare case where my dad walked out on my mom) and, while it hurt at first, especially since he went no-contact for weeks and left with only an email to each of us (my mom, my sister, and I), I came to terms with it. It didn't take long for me to know the resentment was there for a loooong time (my mom really let herself go having kids, and is a lazy spend-a-holic were my dad is a minimalist workaholic) I know…
/r/MGTOW09/03/21 11:39 AM
102

24? I don't believe that but, if true, tbat's a ROUGH 24...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/21 04:27 PM
3

kekw not going to lie this actually made me chuckle because I know a lot of women with that problem so I definitely think this is true.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/21 01:01 AM
26

And my question then is, if it is just the donation, is the gracious donor on the hook for child support? My guess is yes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/21 11:53 AM
5

I think many people have an issue where they need to seek validation or otherwise be told what to think. I don't think this is a new phenomenon but the internet has brought that trait to light.
/r/MGTOW19/02/21 09:10 AM
13

Also, unlike women, men get mocked for this sort of behavior. Thinking about it I think I want to start mocking women wearing heels. Wish me luck, boys!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/21 09:34 PM
3

Yikes, I don't even want to imagine a life where you need to spend thousands just for even the idea of sex WITH YOUR OWN WIFE not to mention feeling obligated to in order to avoid what... hours...days...weeks...YEARS of bitching?
/r/MGTOW14/02/21 02:04 AM
3

Additionally, and I'll probably get some sort of warning or ban for saying this, but if it was really about the children, then abortion would be illegal even in cases of rape since we're making men who were raped pay child support now. After all, a child born is a new potential tax payer. Or, is the government expecting those children to be leeches on society, too?
/r/MGTOW13/02/21 02:34 AM
16

Beware the chameleon.
/r/MGTOW13/02/21 12:56 AM
12

Or, even if I won't take everything: I want to move my clutter in and bring chaos to your clean, simple harmony.
/r/MGTOW31/01/21 11:08 AM
29

"Conservative" meaning once she's locked a man down (if she ever does) that he'll be the breadwinner and she'll be the "housewife" (meaning she'll sit around smoking pot all day and hooking up with Chad when she gets the opportunity)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/01/21 07:46 AM
6

My sister has a lot of tattoos. She also has a new car every time I visit her (once a year or so). I think it's a matter of being bad with money/no foresight.
/r/MGTOW22/01/21 06:28 PM
39

Schools, media, lots of places. Women and minorities are victims afterall
/r/MGTOW21/01/21 10:08 PM
1

I'm thinking it's like this: late teen girl makes an OnlyFans and some simp drops $50-100 whatever on one of her photos. To a young adult $50-100 for maybe half an hour of work is big money. Way better than dealing with customers at the grocery store for 8 hours, maybe having to rub two brain cells together giving out change. So they think they can make a career out of it not realizing as every year passes they're becoming less and less desirable until they're washed up mid-late 20s (early 30s i…
/r/MGTOW19/01/21 09:29 PM
19

If we're going with the traditional roles this woman expects it's not enough for the woman to just be good at sex. A woman would need to be a domestic goddess or else she's defective. The minimum then (in addition to enjoyable and frequent sex) would be maintaining the interior of the home & garden if applicable, cooking delicious and healthy meals from scratch, entertaining/teaching the children and otherwise fostering a sense of peace so when father gets home he can kick his feet up and relax.…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/01/21 10:31 AM
4

Ah, gotcha. Looking for Mr. Right (hopefully). Fed up with Mr. Wrong. Yikes. I'm assuming this woman is from the US. It's painful to see language butchered in such a way. I think at five I was writing more eloquently than that. The crazy thing to me is it's SO EASY to be clear with your intent with just a little punctuation. Edit: it makes me think she (and women who write like this) do so on purpose. She really hopefully is over Mr. Wrong but wants to be unclear so it can be read as hopefully l…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/21 02:59 PM
40

Also HOPEFULLY fed up with mr wrong which tells me that one night stands are still on the table for bad boy Chad.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/21 11:27 AM
40

I'm with you but I view this post and others like it as reminders why to stay the course for anyone experiencing a moment of weakness.
/r/MGTOW12/01/21 10:39 AM
8

That's good advice, too. I think remaining firm in what I believe is right for her, even if she doesn't like me for a time for putting my for down, will help with that, too. I notice a percentage of parents are too eager to encourage their children into behaviors that may seem cute when they're little but become problematic when the child gets older. (This can be anything from gorging on sweets, swearing, to questionable dancing, etc)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/21 06:43 AM
6

Great advice! Thanks :)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/21 09:49 PM
60

I feel like an idiot but it makes so much sense that women are indoctrinating other women to slut it up. The true skanks get to do what they do but the 1% of women who aren't normally inclined to do that also get a high body count due to the pressure then there's less competition for the skanks. Crabs in a bucket. I fear for my daughter but I hope I can raise her with the confidence to ignore the pressure and the sense to give herself to someone extremely selectively.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/01/21 08:26 PM
6

Female friends in high school. I had the "privilege" of getting to see their two faced true selves. One chick wanted to be with this dude who wouldn't give her the time of day but instead of improving herself she dated/banged a bunch of guys in his friend group to try to get him jealous/get his attention. Another just wanted sex with any guy she could get her hands on other than the looksmatch that wanted to actually date her. She did end up marrying the poor simp in her late 20s after her mothe…
/r/MGTOW11/01/21 08:38 AM
11

The problem with this is that people will try to set you up with "a really nice girl".
/r/MGTOW10/01/21 09:31 AM
1

Is this Blarney Island by chance?
/r/MGTOW06/01/21 08:53 AM
3

I don't know much about Kenya but if this was in the states I could totally see a woman's parents actually taking care of her kids, and either the soon to be husband didn't meet the parents or upon meeting the parents and kids was lied to (those are my sister's kids/my siblings if the woman is on the young side)
/r/MGTOW29/12/20 09:28 PM
8

I just had a brain event - maybe they do this because the bum guy is free to come over and dick them whenever. A working man has a schedule but the bum can come over while the boyfriend/husband/parents are at work. Also, since he doesn't work, less likely to let the relationship slip to someone who works with said bf/husband? Could also be a Bonnie and Clyde thing too.
/r/MGTOW29/12/20 09:21 PM
7

Be THAT guy or don't play. Ez.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/20 09:05 PM
30

And then think they'll have family around, great grandchildren specifically, to ramble on to about their escapade. The only ones that will hear her reminiscing will either be her many cats or the nice young man in the clean white coat who brings her food tray and cleans her bedpan.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/20 09:02 PM
3

It's not even the plow horse's feeling though. When "believe women", "If a woman says you raped her you raped her" are the norm, you've thrown out guilty until proven innocent which is an extremely dangerous place to be. My hope is that with all the transsexual stuff going on that this feeling>truth bullshit will go to far and force a shift back.
/r/MGTOW29/12/20 10:02 AM
11

Not just once, but twice! (Probably 2 different fathers?) Desperation makes one do terrible things. Always wack one out before engaging, bois.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/20 09:27 PM
23

Bitches. Be. Crazy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/12/20 09:15 PM
11

Lordy fuckin Lou, I remember a few years ago when the Boy Scouts bent the knee and started letting girls in because "eQuALitY" (isn't that what the GIRLS' Scouts was supposed to be?) I was never a scout but a few of my buddies were and, on occasion, I did join them on a trip or two. The Boys Scouts used to mean something - learn practical/off the grid skills and socialize with other boys. Well, I hope society is pleased with the shit arts and crafts which is what Girl Scouts teach at the most (w…
/r/MGTOW28/12/20 01:17 AM
12

There's at least one episode where Tom is smitten with a female cat who is portrayed as a gold digger.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/20 11:07 AM
9

pretty sure they're referring to Tom and Jerry.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/20 09:30 AM
5

They mean friends/family watching the kid(s) for cheap/free.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/20 11:43 PM
2

Look down, I think. Like at this list of 4 items below.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/12/20 02:30 AM
15

As an INTJ also, true extroverts wear me the fuck out. I'd rather spend time alone or with a small, close knit group of long time friends at most.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/20 07:45 PM
17

I think the jokes are amongst the boys most often than not. She probably throws a pathetic quip in there from time to time to make sure the group knows there's still a girl in comms.
/r/MGTOW24/12/20 07:22 PM
17

Is it interesting that boys do better in boys schools though? Less distractions...
/r/MGTOW24/12/20 07:20 PM
11

This whole representation is media is so outrageous and even more so considering those who complain the loudest are the least likely to actually play. I didn't, and still don't, need to be a chubby, middle aged Italian man to become immersed in the Mario franchise.
/r/MGTOW23/12/20 09:55 PM
2

Oh my dude it's been this way for a long time, since I was your age at least (15years ago) and probably been this way even longer than that (I just don't have that personal experience)
/r/MGTOW23/12/20 08:32 PM
3

I got into an argument with some simp over a year ago about this who told me I just attract awful women and I was like dude no... That's all women. Source: sister, sister's friends, female cousins...
/r/MGTOW23/12/20 08:29 PM
26

I'm curious if he's pissed at his gf or the dude. I suspect he's pissed at the dude but like...its on camera it's going to end up on the internet so it's just as much the gfs fault for going through with it while being recorded.
/r/MGTOW23/12/20 08:16 PM
8

Not even "you are wrong" just "I want to torture people who unveil the hypocricy".
/r/MGTOW23/12/20 05:33 PM
4

Damn! Didn't notice the ring. Poor Billy... (If she is indeed married/engaged. I think some women wear rings just to appear married or after "marrying themselves".)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/12/20 03:46 PM
25

I took the queer thing more as "I'm queer cause it gets the boys riled up and gets me more attention" and less actually being interested in sex with attractive women.
/r/MGTOW23/12/20 09:27 AM
4

At least where I live the safe haven laws only apply up to 72 hours after the child is born. Still, adoption and foster system is a thing for a reason. If you're just going to leave your kid outside you might as well put them in the system. Too much work for the mother though. That paperwork would probably cost her at least one session with chad's cock.
/r/MGTOW23/12/20 09:19 AM
22

Kekw on her saying 2 at the bar but have 3 at home. Wtf did she think the difference of 1 would make men less likely to come home with her?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/12/20 10:48 PM
1

Don't you get it? They're communist so if they ever don't have an individual man to be their atm/slave by way of a relationship, they can make ALL men their atm/slave by way of taxes!
/r/MGTOW21/12/20 10:52 AM
11

I didn't realize painting nails was a career. Where's the progress to be made? Nail shop owner? She'll never compete with the Asians.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/20 01:17 PM
14

Someone said this in another thread and much more eloquently than I will here but: something something dating apps don't make money when people get into successful LTRs.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/20 09:34 PM
8

I'd say you could get a notary involved but if it's a male notary then the guys were in cahoots. Unsure about a female notary - on one hand she could take the woman's side but on the other I think there's some major repercussions notarizing a signature you claim was under duress. But yeah, still sexy, bringing in a full legal team. Actually it might be because its a display of wealth? Still just gyow is much easier
/r/MGTOW18/12/20 02:44 PM
3

... TIL some women pay to give blow jobs.
/r/MGTOW18/12/20 01:03 AM
1

I've never made an account on one of those sites so I'm not sure how the age thing works. My bet is she made her profile while drunk and messed up the birth year or maybe her birthday all together?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/20 05:34 PM
16

Young girls lie about being older to get on these apps. My guess is she either started on them at 13 to say she was 18, or 16 to say she was 21.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/20 10:41 AM
85

I think you're 100% correct on the no personality. She's the type of person who labels themselves queer as though it IS her personality.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/12/20 11:35 AM
4

Isn't that perfect though? The women there have their heads filled with Sex in the City fantasy. They have the money and desperation to blow on these apps looking for their perfect 6/6/6.
/r/MGTOW15/12/20 02:02 AM
4

I'll admit I'm pretty stoned but this comment just blew my mind.
/r/MGTOW15/12/20 02:01 AM
4

I've been falsely accused of being racist just because I was the only white person working at a big box retail chain downtown in a major city. Thankfully this was almost 10 years ago so it wasn't quite as hot button as it is now.
/r/MGTOW10/12/20 05:12 PM
5

Right? How would the chick plan to keep up the facade? After months of not showing what... claim miscarriage or something? Actually, I bet that's exactly what these women would do.
/r/MGTOW07/12/20 11:32 PM
3

Good on her for protecting her boy too. Other hand, less competition if she needs his money or physical labor.
/r/MGTOW07/12/20 11:29 PM
5

So you wouldn't mind wife-ing one up and saving her from her work right? - is where these women are going with this.
/r/MGTOW02/12/20 12:30 PM
15

Don't wish this fate on those innocent animals! I knew a chick who lived like this. She got a Shiba to help with her anxiety. Ended up passing that trait along to the poor animal. Would never take it for a walk because "he's scared to go outside". I didn't maintain contact after that.
/r/MGTOW01/12/20 01:11 PM
16

The mother can fuck up all the good intentions the father has like OP. :(
/r/MGTOW28/11/20 01:34 AM
6

That's easy: because simps on OLD and social media inflate their ego, chads also use these women to get their dick wet, women call each other sexy, hot, queen, etc no matter what they look like. It's a perfect storm that causes ugly women to think they're 9/10 or 10/10.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/11/20 10:34 PM
0

There's plenty of government assistance out there for first time home buyers, sometimes requiring 0 down payment, and even more assistance for women, albiet maybe single mothers enjoy these more than a childless woman. Regardless, based on what she said about her credit, my guess is she is some sort of shopoholic to fill the void of no kids/no husband. Her job probably isn't even half bad but she blows all her money before she's even earned it. She chooses to bitch rather than make changes or us…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/11/20 07:40 PM
89

And maybe even become president! Not by her own merits of course, but by the man she rode in on either croking or becoming too incompetent to remain in office! Just like those million/billionare exwives we see so many of today.
/r/MGTOW08/11/20 01:42 PM
2

420 is someone who smokes pot or at least cool with pot smokers. I'm curious how old she is. Best friend of two years...what is she 12? (Mentally probably...)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/11/20 06:23 AM
12

Actually maybe that's the point? They want the US to be the example they want to see (so they can immigrate unvetted since there's no other way they could)?
/r/MGTOW28/10/20 12:21 AM
4

Especially because a man having multiple wives biologically makes sense (1 man can impregnate many women at once) A woman with multiple husbands is just a woman with one husband and multiple slaves (since only one of them can impregnate her)
/r/MGTOW26/09/20 10:18 PM
5

$5 on Steam :)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/09/20 03:36 PM
3

This is just good advice in general. "Don't judge a relationship by the good times - anyone can be good to each other in the good times. Judge relationships by how you're treated in the bad times." I don't remember who told me that but I live by it with every relationship, be it friends, family, etc.
/r/MGTOW24/08/20 04:33 AM
1

Do women exaggerate the pain they get from periods everything? FTFY And yes.
/r/MGTOW22/08/20 05:17 AM
11

The blonde hair gene is recessive to brown and while I'm not sure where red falls in the mix since it's so rare I'm guessing it's a mutation or recessive even to blonde. It's possible he-mans dad was brown-blonde and his mom was red-red and he-man blonde-red. Doesn't explain the eyebrows though.
/r/MGTOW11/08/20 01:21 PM
13

Widows are the few and far between exceptions.
/r/MGTOW07/08/20 05:25 PM
3

My guess is since it's a team building activity for work the meal is comped (for the employees) and this other guy expected the same for his wife but the company won't pay for her so he wants his coworkers to.
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 03:26 PM
1

So is the walker more of a landwhale thing or what?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/06/20 10:54 PM
4

...please tell me this is an isolated case and no one actually says 2k19/20... the k shortens nothing and just looks stupid.
/r/MGTOW18/01/20 12:39 AM
1

I think the idea is it's easier to make a photocopy of black ink.
/r/MGTOW13/01/20 04:47 PM
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