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Mystery is beautiful. You don't see all the flaws and only project what you WANT on your image of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 03:45 PM
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Well money is attractive and so is power but his damn frame is on the level of a child. Ignorance is also not attractive. (Dude literally goes to a meeting without knowing wtf people are talking about). He is also way too 'old' even considering men peak "later" in life. He is also overweight. He was probably fine in his 30s-40s though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 03:34 PM
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I agree. Its annoying but like, not like a fight will atart over it. Fits the stereotype of "women can't make their minds up" which may be why it sticks. Its also pretty consistent, atleast in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 01:52 AM
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That ain't so bad, whats bad is when she rejects it with stuff like "We had that last week" you say another place "I dont like it so much" and then next one "Not in the mood for Korean". Like, makes you think she has something in mind but when you ask again if she has somewhere she's like? "Up to you"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 12:39 AM
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Its more of that when we give a suggestion they say no but when we ask where they want to eat then, they say any or don't know... Reaaaally annoying. Doesn't break the relationship or anything but damn did it get on my nerves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 12:35 AM
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When I was 12, yes? When my arm was first grabbed and I "felt" boobs for the first time yes. When I got my first girlfriend and she snuggled, yes. Now? Not really. What flinching implies is a lack of experience and it is understandable especially for those who were not social/attracrive early on in their lives. Especially if you had shit confidence too. Be attractive for a while and its just an every day thing you get used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 06:17 PM
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Thats why you need to find a Biblical Church. They actually tell women to be supportive of their husbands. Men to be strong leaders of the household. The problem is these churches are damn rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 05:03 PM
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I was an arrogant prick even before I found RP, RP made sense of what I saw/experienced and that is what got me to stick around in the first place. It is really easy to accept when society tells you women are amazing but your experiences tell you they are just like men. Society says be nice and treat em like a princess but when you don't, it doesn't make a difference... And if you do it when you are good looking they chase you. When hanging out with friends and they give advice to each other? In…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 03:59 PM
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Find a mention of it then. Hek, find stories of it even. Education is an amazing thing but it also opens up a humans greed and desires more. Why did women want to vote and go through great lengths to do so? Because education let them think out of their confines. They started wanting equality especially since they had taken what were considered "mens roles" in production roles while men went to war in WW2.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 02:34 AM
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Partly what was once considered "normal" can become "oppression" quickly because the world changes. You think people a few hundred years complained they cant choose their leaders? Nah they just want food, shelter and tax rates that are livable. 1-200 years ago you believe women complained they can't vote? If they don't care then is it oppression? Not saying women didn't suffer, especially those who lost wars and all. It was hard to be a woman, but also hard to be a man. Throughout all of human h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 05:38 PM
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Eggs? When I was broke and on keto, eggs were a life saver. Give 5-6g of Protein per egg too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 11:09 PM
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Canada, not sure how it is in U.S. but shouldn't be too different? And well, compare fastfood and fruits/veg. Bananas are dirt cheap for instance. A whole pack of salad is under 5$. Slowcookers also are great to eat cheaply and save money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 11:07 PM
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Do you want to be in a room full of manchildren? Especially if there are no women there anyhow? I still visit, look at top posts but for a while now I haven't really learned new shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 10:49 PM
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Its partially due to laziness I say. Much easier to get fastfood than make/prep it even with a slow cooker and people are damn lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 05:11 PM
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Vegetables are cheap and healthy... And seriously, get a slow cooker. Nets to cheaper than eating out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 04:30 PM
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Its also related heavily(lol) to wrong information and powerful marketing campaigns. We do not need "3 meals a day". Fastfood/Junkfood is cheap and addictive. From childhood, we have been exposed to shitty food and shitty drinks filled with sugar... Parents have a "finish your plate" mentality because fucking Africa. Unhealthy food is a "reward" and is in all "celebrations". Cake and Icecream is thus connected with happiness in our memories. We also live in a world with "abundance" of food even …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 04:27 PM
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Its more of to get another view and not be stuck in an echo chamber. Besides, PPD convertred me from Red to Purple and has gained Purples from both sides. ...But I honestly would still be at TRP if there wasn't so much hate/anger from newbies... Or those who refuse to get over it and move on to improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 04:20 PM
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Errr... Most "hate" in TRP is because of "betrayal" not people bottling up their views. Betrayal by not just women but society... Because of whay society says about women, love and success. ...personal observation when I lurked that sub
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 05:27 PM
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Most people, when given a wide variety choices, consider the opportunity cost of the "best choices". Could be one choice but since SMV isn't that precise and neither is information even close to perfect, there are usually multiple. However, for the average woman, they are getting lots of "average males" choosing which, when isolated from opportunity cost of other males, gives more net benefit than cost and thus are valid "options". In your example, fecal matter is not a realistic option because …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 11:17 PM
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Too bad millenial women don't know shit about game... Their "game" is giving men the opportunity to interact with them and being "nice".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 11:08 PM
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Women can learn game too... Most just don't. They don't need to. The ones that do are the ones many men go crazy for. I'm not sure about Cleo, but for sure Marilyn had amazing game. Even had documentaries and shit on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 10:44 PM
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I get the logic of it, and that any unnattractive BPs become incels/creeps/niceguys. I just never saw the idea on TRP lol. And well, personal experience is that being attractive made RP principles more acceptable... I was unnattractive early on but "bloomed" around highschool, getting more attractive as time passed because I learned how to dress, style amd groom... and the difference in how I was treated was amazing, especially women but later on even men would treat me better. This probably let…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 10:37 PM
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Yup. It is a perspective, extreme it maybe. However, what people don't understand is TRP needed to be extreme. Partly cause most men are dense fuckers and partly because "weak" ideologies like MRAs have been compromised. Women are very good at whittling down forces slowly. They are just better at socializing and using soft methods and men can honestly not stand up to that. (Like how women cannot stand up to physical violence a man uses.) Its a practical way to solve that problem... Maybe not the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 10:21 PM
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...I've never heard of this idea? I heard the opposite in fact... that BP men believe they cannot compete with the "sexy men" of society and try to make up for it by being "nice" and/or do not want to put in the hard work and effort to improve themselves. (Sample: All men know women like Abs. Why are there so many fat and out of shape men not trying to get Abs... Cause it is hard)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 04:53 PM
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Yup. The awareness of TRP alone changes how you view things. Ironically you see things in a more "transactional" light... Though cause amd effect is probably a better way to describe it. You also change your currency from doing nice things to being attractive. Many men are certainly aware of TRP concepts but they do not understand the importance of it until TRP. Some of the best shit I learned from TRP is not just self improvement but certain insights to people and how the world works such as "W…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 04:49 PM
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I flirt. I also have met, fucked and known many women that are awesome. When you realize awesome women want you(Or for others, when you get to that point), you start thinking "Do I need insert Oneitis here to be happy? ", you understand you have options. Some may even be better than your current girl/oneitis.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 02:14 AM
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Its sad too because the dude could pass above 7 of he got in shape and... Well, did RP stuff with regard to physical self improvement. When lifting and losing bodyfat is literally the most stated advice... You think the founder would lift or lose the chub.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 01:53 AM
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Shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 01:49 AM
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Yes. Not set in stone though as there are always exceptions (Dude died saving her like Titanic or shit) but 95% yes breakup.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 01:42 AM
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Not inferior but different is the belief I hold now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 01:40 AM
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Good thing for men then that it is not all about looks. Charisma/Power/Status, Money, "Frame", Confidence are just as important to women. For women however, looks are what matters most of the time with personality and all else second. It is far more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 04:23 PM
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Shorter. Ideally a couple of inches shorter, but more if she likes to wear heels.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 04:03 PM
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...Did you just casually ignore the "Feminist men" and "Feminist leaders" part?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 03:54 PM
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There's just as much sexism today as there used to be. Only difference is that now there are some legal remedies for the most egregious stuff. Like yeah. That isn't even small details. Just as much sexism is way different than "there is still sexism". I don't see how anyone else would even see those words in another way... Or are you not a native English speaker?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 03:17 PM
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Nope. There's just as much sexism today as there used to be. Only difference is that now there are some legal remedies for the most egregious stuff. Your words. I countered that by showing some examples of differences. And then you go off with "Tell me there is no sexism?!". Totally different from "no difference". What, are you gonna say that there was no difference in racism 100 years ago til today?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 03:14 PM
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If it needs to make a comeback then it fell. You just said it was the same as 100 years ago. Bro, your logic. Can you even make up your own mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 03:08 PM
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Wut. "The laws are now in favor of women buy society has had no progress when it comes to sexism! Lets ignore the fact women can actually work in professions, go to school, vote and are more empowered than ever. Lets ignore feminist men and feminist countries. Lets ignore everything that doesn't fit my narrative. " Maybe in some backward Middle Eastern countries yeah but in Europe/Americas?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 03:06 PM
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...You know, that really shook my Purple a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 02:40 PM
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He is still purple. A mostly Red purple. He agrees TRP works but lets face it, some things are blown over proportion (on purpose or not). He still believes in most of the TRP principles. He didn't go Blue or anything man. After he recovered, he now looks to see the world without anger and is open to other views. The world still sucks but not as much as how RP describes. Or it could just be that he got sick of some of the extremists...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 02:31 PM
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Yeah, not much new stuff that isn't a rehash. I still go on every month or two and check the top posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 02:26 PM
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This. So of she gives signs of interest, just go and assume she is single. But even then, some are just out to do some "harmless" flirting so ya really cannot tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 03:50 PM
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Just like RP says be mostly "Alpha" and some "Beta", Mostly support and a little challenging is the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 12:01 AM
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Sorry most people aren't interesting. That goes for males and females. Ah crap, now I apparently know no people. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 11:57 PM
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Most RP don't plan to have kids... Also, RP is an inherently "selfish" ideology. Who cares if it is real or not, if my life is not in order, then I'm just making the world a better place so others can get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 05:54 PM
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...What is this...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 06:47 AM
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Purple. Depends how much she makes or will make. Also depends on the quality of life in the location. Urban China? Could get paid hundreds of thousands of USD and still no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 06:46 AM
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Kinda sad as most guys can get much better skin but don't do anything
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 08:42 PM
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That changed with birth control and child support. Its not "even" by any means but damn is it negligible now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 08:23 PM
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Its just so much easier when you use RP though. I dunno about extremes like "submit" but it is definitely easier when a the girl respects or looks up to you. I used to be a nice guy (but not the ones on r niceguys...), women did treat me well too but I honestly believe that was just because I was attractive. I'm not nearly as nice as I was and found that women "fall" for me much easier and are even nicer to me than before. I'm not some condescending retard or asshole for the sake of being an ass…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 04:26 PM
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That is true. We could be horribly wrong as to WHY things work but of it works we would still do it. And well, RP works. Just avoid the posts that tell you why it works cause there are some batshit loony angry-phasers there. Life improvement advice is on point though and relationship power dynamics too (shit tests). Then there is stuff like AWALT but thats more cautionary warning if anything
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 01:21 AM
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Depends on the kind of RP. Even among TRP men have different goals. Some still want LTRs and even marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 12:01 AM
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"Intelligence" can be useful in more things than looks. Though most people greatly underestimate how useful looks can be even in things/fields where it doesn't seem like it would be useful at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 05:03 AM
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Ugh. It gets into evolutionary behavior (which makes it hard to prove) if anything, but a one way to explain it is that attractive people have superior genes, therefore, attractive people are able to survive better. Therefore, those who stuck with attractive people were also able to survive better, be it by copying their actions, following their orders, being helped by attractive people or just following them to fertile/survivable areas. Those who didn't like attractive people had a higher chanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 04:13 AM
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Relationship Market Value. Think SMV but for LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:16 PM
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I'd say its self esteem really. Or lack of discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 08:29 PM
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The problem is, most people are like that nowadays so it can't be linked to just redditors looking like that. Reddit also "divides" people through subforums and they have different demographics. We have fitness forums, fashion forums, skincare, weightloss forums which would tend to have better looking people.... We also have forums like incels which... have not so good looking people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 05:07 PM
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...What.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 04:55 PM
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Simply put, I "rushed" into relationships at one point. I thought I "needed" to be in one... As early as 14-16... As for the second statement, it fits perfectly with the first. Many things changed. Or to be more precise, many people changed. Not just in looks but personality but this statement mainly talked about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 03:58 PM
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Oh I'm still quite young, I won't give too much information but atleast younger than 25 and above 20. I do have life experiences that deal with interacting with all kinds of people (retail, various volunteering and even babysitting), and well... women like to talk. One statement I especially hear from women who are 40+ moving in groups goes something like "Sigh Men." or "Ugh. Men.". They love talking about their husbands and the shortcoming of their husbands. Some do it to their husbands faces t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 01:38 AM
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Suffering... is good though. It is better to go through it early on. I wouldn't give my past self advice until I would be 14-16 so I went through my troubled experiences already and started changing. I would definitely tell myself looks matter, a lot but not only the face, the body too! Go to the gym ASAP. I'd have told myself to sleep more and eat healthier, maybe drink more milk too. Maybe that would have led to me gaining an inch or two which would be amazing for my SMV. Tell myself to defini…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 01:28 AM
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Personal experience here, but that changes as women get older. The 30s and especially 40 year olds seem to make blanket statements much more frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 01:21 AM
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The teeth can be fixed with braces. Hair can be fixed with a decent haircut and/or styling products like wax/gel. Glasses = contacts. But damn he looks.... deformed in the mouth. It could just be the dude is malnourished though. Make him lift and damn fucking EAT. Picture is a bit blurry but have him take care of his face too. Moisturizer is a good start. But he also needs sleep. Yeah, I think he could turn into a 6, maybe even better honestly, assuming his thinness is not a disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 01:17 AM
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You would be surprised. Do you know your bodyfat percentage?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 01:14 AM
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It is much easier for an attractive person to gain confidence and confidence may be the single most advantageous trait one can gain that is completely under their self control. It is, however, difficult for them to gain discipline which is also quite important.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 01:12 AM
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Partly why I am happy I went through a phase of light bullying (Nothing major, just outcast) and obesity before I became attractive. The difference in treatment really opened my eyes, made me a bit cynical too though. It did let me resist peer pressure more which has saved me from possible stains on my record. (How the fuck you gonna peer pressure a dude who has lived as a loner when he was younger?) It is an excellent point to understand TRP from, without hating the world/women for being so "me…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 01:09 AM
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Well if it it is not to the point of disfigurement... It is harder to be social if you are ugly. You see, people immediately think lower of you (Because we are wired that way for genetic purposes). You have to prove yourself. While for attractive people, people immediately think better of you upon meeting or seeing you for the first time. How big of a disadvantage is it though? Nothing that cannot be overcome really. For the Western world, Pictures aren't even needed in Resume submissions and it…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 09:05 PM
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How am I as a Christian supposed to find a woman that is a virgin when they don't seem to exist? Go to other countries. They exist. Korea, China, Singapore, Philippines, Mexico. Even in the West they exist, go to more conservative places.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 04:22 AM
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Okay, for women. Get in shape, put on makeup properly (or learn...), wear cute clothes, clear your skin (or atleast your face) of acne and shit. For men, Get in shape, shower, take care of your skin and wear nice clothes. Not enough? Be ripped and you will for sure be a 6 even if you were a 3/4. Kinda seems like men have it easier? Well yeah, but remember it easier for a woman to have an attractive body than a man but a mans body has more "potential" in that it can offset his face if he does it …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 03:56 AM
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The "Collect and Select" strategy. Kinda. But for real, it is good to always attempt to improve yourself and this advice is solid for both men and women. Women generally do not need it as much but it doesn't mean it cannot get them far. The gym isn't just for men, if you go a gym nowadays you see quite a bit of attractive in shape or getting into shape women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 03:51 AM
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Thanks for the gold!... though funnily enough I get gilded on an alt I made for PPD and CMV... rofl. Got a good place to start? You are the girl... most naturally have a sense of what looks good or not on them. Feel free to try different styles, accessories and clothing and see what gets more attention or even ask guy/girl friends. A cute trinket or accessory is nice too in that it gives guys something to break ice with or compliment. How do you do this without coming across awkward? Smile. Alot…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 03:46 AM
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Looks, always looks. Take care of your skin, your hair and teeth. Do not be fat or lose the weight. Find a look that works for your, some girls look amazing with certain hairstyles, clothes or even accessories. As for other things The way you talk, it is not just women who love a man who talks well, guys love it too. (Or at least I do... I've asked out at least two girls who I would not usually consider just because I love the way they talk.) The way you walk (Not as important but makes a differ…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 03:08 AM
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I'm not sure this is the place for this question... but whatever... Dude you are way too obsessed. That is an unhealthy level of stalking already. And well, while it is kinda stupid, if you really want to pursue this, walk around her area sometime. If you see her out with her dog or something, chat her up. Say something like "Hi I'm Cripistaka, could I get your name/number?" Of course do not do this word for word. Preferably you do something to break the ice and ease it up a bit. Some guys would…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 02:57 AM
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Nowadays were much more accepting of different choices, including those who choose to be celibate or wait for sex. Isn't "virgin" still commonly used to demean people though?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 02:44 AM
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