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Is this what the dating up or down post was about? Lol he sounds great and super fun. I had an ex this reminds me of. An ex for religious reasons. He was an orthodox jew and I was... not. Lol. But otherwise so much fun.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/18 03:57 AM
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Thanks! I just watched it the other day and it was incredible. Were watching it together tomorrow.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/18 01:12 AM
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I think it was kinda rude of him to say that and I'd be feeling just as needy over it especially given his laughter. I dont even have any solid advice for this situation but I do have other advice for you... is there any way you can get a different more active job? Possibly a facility where you have lots of coworkers? I used to work as a CNA. 7 years. Half of that time was doing home health jobs and it took a serious toll on my mental health because of all the down time with nothing to do but st…
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/18 10:48 PM
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Correct me if I'm wrong but the guy is local to you now right? If so, cant you just continue to date him and see how it goes and if hes worth the commitment? You dont have to decide if you want to marry him and stay where you are yet. I understand part of the reason you're asking is because you dont want to lead him on since your plan to move with your parents has been pretty solid until now. And its hard, especially for only children to be separated from their parents. But it's also very natura…
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/18 10:23 PM
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Just watched the cassie jaye film. I started off not sure it was the one you recommended and I was thinking wait, wut, this is anti red pill... omg it was a great film.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/18 12:39 AM
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Okay thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/18 02:28 PM
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And honestly... he doesnt even need it. Hes already red pill he just doesnt know it. So it wouldn't be a journey into manhood as much as a new way of looking at certain things or new labels for beliefs he already holds.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/18 09:02 PM
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I know. That's exactly how I feel about it. But he asked me to. Should I just not? And be like "if you're curious look it up yourself" I dont really want to do his research for him.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/18 08:57 PM
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Great, thanks so much!
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/18 08:07 PM
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Ok I'll check that out! Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/18 07:10 PM
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I'm working on reading it right now.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/18 05:44 PM
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When I first started dating my husband at 24 I felt this way too. I was from a pretty poor family. I lived in a tiny one bedroom apartment with my then 7 year old daughter, I drove a 1990 volvo that I bought for 2k, I worked as a nurse's aide, and nothing came easy to me. I never bought my clothes and shoes anywhere but a thrift store, I always cut and dyed my own hair and had never been to a salon but maybe once in my life for that matter, I did my own nails, and honestly none of that ever made…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/18 05:36 PM
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I've actually been pretty terrified to do this. Not only because my husband isn't great with money and isnt organized, but also because I tried it before 3 years ago, and it pissed him off that I even suggested it. I've made sure the Bill's were paid our entire relationship and he wondered why I wanted to change things at that point after insisting I was better suited for the job. He paid them for 2 months and to my surprise it actually did a lot for him. He didnt realize how much our bills were…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/18 04:16 PM
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I'm thankful that in almost two weeks of keeping up with a simple beauty routine and practicing having a good attitude I've gone from rarely hearing anything positive about my looks to multiple compliments a day about my appearance. It's been really nice having these real and noticable results.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/18 04:04 PM
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Okay thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/18 03:48 PM
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Thanks! I'll check out those other two sites. Just found out ROK is on hiatus now due to low revenue from being banned out of everywhere... but still I'm sure theres plenty there without adding more.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/18 03:48 PM
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You make an excellent point.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/18 03:31 PM
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I'm a 30 year old stay at home mother of 2 young children and babysit my niece as well. College is not realistic for me timewise or financially. I'm pretty sure there are ways of making friends without getting a degree or accumulating debt. I was homeschooled and had a slight disadvantage, then had a baby who is now a teen at a young age and had to work full time to provide for her. Aside from a few certification courses for my job at the community college, college wasnt realistic then either. S…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/18 02:09 PM
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I agree but also I've made the same mistake of believing a guy when hes claimed he wouldn't try anything if I just spent the night in his bed. Everything seems different when you're actually there and most men cant help having biology take over. I would avoid doing that in the future until you're ready to take that step, because it's like setting a steak on his plate and saying "dont eat this"
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/18 01:10 PM
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Thank you so much. That's a huge help
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/18 12:56 PM
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Hes really active on reddit so I could just send the info there. Its just that I'm having trouble finding this good info. Any that applies specifically to married men, anyways.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/18 12:53 PM
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I love how my husband has put his own desires aside to provide for us. He turned a job into a great career in less than a year when I got pregnant and made it possible for me to stay home with our children. Something I never thought could happen early on. Now hes pursuing his own happiness and juggling work and school and I'm happy to support him in this.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/18 08:31 PM
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Oh I see you said when I was looking so I guess you have?
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/18 06:45 PM
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That's very detailed. Have you found this guy yet?
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/18 06:42 PM
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My deal breakers were: No job (or no grown up job) No car Lives with parents Overweight Poor oral hygiene Poor hygiene period. Has serious anxiety and/or depression (that may be harsh, but I've been with a man who couldn't even leave the house and wanted a therapist not a girlfriend. It's not something I'd ever want to do again. Comes from a culture so different that I would be disliked by his family and treated like an outsider, and our children would be without grandparents because of this... …
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/18 06:31 PM
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Will do! Thanks. You're right.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/18 08:28 PM
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I took your advice today and I met someone nice at a playground. She had a boy and girl the same age as mine. And her little boy had the same name as my boy which is a rare name. Thats how we got to talking. I ended up asking if she wanted to exchange numbers and get together and she said yes and that she needed more mom friends! But then she mentioned living in an area I know is very nice so I looked her up and found out she is a nurse practitioner married to a plastic surgeon... my family is a…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/18 06:42 PM
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My parents are divorced because my mom had some emotional issues that came out when she hit menopause over 15 years ago. But my father even now will say how my mother was the best wife, because she never nagged or acted controlling or made him feel uncomfortable is his own home like so many men he knew complained their wives did. But she was a slob. Regardless my dad is still in love with her.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/18 06:00 PM
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Yes exactly. And you have to take risks in life. This fear of failure will only keep him from making any moves. And the mother in law sounds awful and emotionally abusive as hell but what's worse is your husband justifying his position and standing for it. I'm sorry you're going through this. This is rough.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/18 01:20 AM
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It sounds like she may be threatened by you and threatened by the idea of you taking her baby boy away. Is she maybe convincing him not to take the risk of possible debt and discouraging him from leaving? Maybe shes hoping to run you off. But in any case a man who still lives with his mom, isn't working, and allowing her to disrespect you does not sound like a captain... this is a really tough situation. I'm interested to hear more experienced RPW advice.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/18 11:47 PM
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I have a different artsy kind of style but it's not as alternative as yours. I have more of a witchy/hippie/gypsy vibe going. I was a total goth girl in my teens and that still carries over a bit even though I'm 30 now. But in subtle ways. My man always prefers me dressed gypsy like over basic hot girl stuff. Long flowing skirts over skinny jeans. I also use the cleavage/leg rule like you said! I wear a lot of jewelry and big hairstyles. Mostly I keep my hair Jett black and long.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/18 02:43 PM
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Awwww thank youuu! And yes, 100% yes on the sex and the city and sisterhood... it KILLS me. I feel like that's the standard I'm trying to live up to.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/18 01:05 AM
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Thanks! I will! I like how a lot of the RPW values are about self improvement and this is definitely an area ive wanted to improve in.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/18 10:30 PM
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Also I really am shy too and severely overthink what I say. And being homeschooled I dont quite have the social skills of normal people. So I do that same thing of trying explode out of it like you said. Which I think makes me seem like I'm trying to compensate for something. I come off as too intense.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/18 08:51 PM
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Ok I will check out the art of seduction. And that's exactly what happens at my mom group. Everyone pretty much keeps to themselves save a few friendly comments or comparisons between children. The babies keep us busy and the reason people go is more to get out/get the kids out. Not really to make friends. Occasionally one of the women will plan a "girls night out" and I always feel so bad because NO ONE goes. But I dont have a sitter for that either. If I get a sitter it's to go out with my hus…
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/18 08:48 PM
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Oh yessss! We do that same thing and its SO hot.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/18 06:24 PM
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So I've just returned to this lifestyle after going in the opposite direction for several years. About 4 or 5 years ago I came across red pill theory after Rooshes parody of "a modest proposal" blew up on my social media feed and my feminist friends were signing petitions to skewer his balls. I read everything I could on the theory and I was absolutely hooked. But when searching for a forum for women there wasnt much out there. And what I was able to find seemed heavily heavily weighted towards …
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/18 05:06 PM
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Very cool! Thanks for the tip. I love my stiffer but go through the pads like crazy with a dog in the house
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/18 04:19 PM
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Lmao forreal though
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/18 05:18 AM
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I'm buying some tomorrow. I havent worn them in ages! Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/18 05:13 AM
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One of the best gifts I ever gave my husband was actually one he never even asked for or mentioned wanting. It was a record player and a few records. Hes since upgraded it and got some really nice speakers and goes out in search of new records almost every week. Hes joined r/vinyl and it's like one of his favorite things in the entire world to play vinyl. I just knew it would become an instant hobby for him. Since then his dads also gotten way (back) into vinyl and it's become something they bon…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 11:13 PM
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I remember that time. I had a different account then. Definitely a mean girls vibe. It's a totally different community now. Way more relatable.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 10:55 PM
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Yesss! Love magnetic lashes. The ardell ones are great and only twelve bucks. I cut them into sections. Makes applying them so easy.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 09:08 PM
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Mine tear and rip constantly! I've never ever ever in my life had nice natural nails. I'm ordering this stat. Thanks for the advice!
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 09:06 PM
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Ahh okay that makes much more sense then and I'm glad to know that because there have been certain things I've been afraid to discuss for fear of being attacked by more religious types. Thank you for that explanation.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 06:46 PM
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I think your response is really interesting because it touches on a little mentioned truth that RPW teaches valuable lessons in relationship harmony but often the focus is how we can produce the results we want by means of our own good behaviour. Maybe too often I see that women are praising themselves for said results. Being new at this it does rather feel quite magical and akin to witchcraft how my husband is suddenly being so kind and affectionate to me and I know it's because I've altered my…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 05:56 PM
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I have a question. I'm reading surrendered wife and it talks about not correcting your husband when he takes a wrong exit or if hes going the wrong way. So I was wondering: my husband always forgets to take our trashcan out to the curb before trash pick up. Am I better off reminding him to do it or not saying anything and doing it myself? Or not taking it out myself either and letting the trash pile up for another week? If I remind him, how do I do so without insulting or annoying him? And if ta…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 03:08 PM
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Ok great. That makes a lot of sense. Several years ago when I first discovered TRP I fell in love with it and I tried to go all in all at once. I misunderstood a lot about it and tried to be perfect and it blew up in my face. Also I thought the key was to completely dumb myself down and acted more like I was role playing a good sub and then ended up revolting against my own efforts because I couldn't sustain it. I didnt get that the point wasn't to become a completely different person but just t…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 01:47 PM
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Thank you so much! All of this is really helpful. J have a question though about how you said that friendships are important to RPW relationships. From an RPW standpoint if were having issues with our husbands is it okay to dish that out with friends or are we better off not getting into our private marriage matters? See the friend in the original post I was talking about, she often complains about her boyfriend and everything hes doing wrong which gets me going because then I'm trying to relate…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 12:47 PM
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That's the part I struggle with is the pursuing. I'm never sure what's appropriate and what's not. And if I invite someone twice and they're busy both times I generally give up and assume they aren't interested in a friendship. But usually I dont even make it to that point. I have two neighbors my age with children my children's ages. Maybe I should start by trying to get together with them. I am a little shy really though. My husband is the social one. Hes mentioned in the past wishing that I h…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 12:07 PM
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Oh that's so cool! Yeah I sew a lot, and my husband and I do handmade jewelry. Hes a silversmith. For awhile we were having the most amazing time doing craft fairs on the side. We met a ton of people that way actually. I've had to take a break from that since I had the last baby in January and really need to get back to it.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 11:54 AM
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That's a nice tip about the eyebrows. I try to mirror other people these days when I see them stare off in a different direction while they're explaining something and then I do that too while I'm talking. I used to make constant eye contact and it took me until 28 to learn that this actually comes off as creepy. The bridesmaids are great. I'm still really good friends with one of them but she lives out of town so I see her a couple times a year but we love each other dearly even though shes a h…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 11:44 AM
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Fair enough
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 11:31 AM
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No shes not a bad friend. I love her. I've known her since I was 15 and she shares a niece with me (shes my brothers wifes sister) but she bitches constantly about her boyfriend and talks about losing weight constantly but never does. And that's pretty much all. That's what I meant to illustrate by my superficial comment about her weight and her live in boyfriend. Was that she is not someone who brings me to a positive place mentally. Though shes an old friend and a reliable one and I do love he…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 04:56 AM
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Omg yes yes yes. All of this. You are so wise.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 04:48 AM
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I think the RPW values as I grow in them may help me though. Last time I went which was in July I was a little crass with one of the other moms making a joke about what her husband did for work (he works for a meat company recently sold to China so I joked that he worked for the chinese) and I felt like I offended her and left feeling bad about myself. I've just always been this way. Too sarcastic and raw.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 03:27 AM
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I actually have a great meetup group for moms that I completely fell out of and I just contacted the group leader today to tell her I was making a goal of joining once a week! So hopefully that'll work out for me. That's kind of why this has been on my mind. Because I realized how bad ive been about taking advantage of even the opportunities available to me.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 03:23 AM
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Thank you. Neither of us were right but I definitely started this and we were in a weird place also because of the fact that at the time I had also asked to be in a domestic discipline style relationship. He was trying to discipline me. Even though it wasnt the proper way or location on my body to do so. And the truth is he never closed his fist and put it to my face. He was open hand slapping the hell out of me but was drunk (black out drunk) and didn't realize that his pinky knuckle was hittin…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 03:16 AM
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This comment is what I needed to hear too. My husband was a total dick to me tonight and i was being so freaking good all day and really all week and I had to hold my tongue so hard but I did it! I just kept telling myself exactly what you said: maybe he doesnt realize I'm not going to flip shit yet. Hes not used to this new me and I just hope as time goes on he'll adjust his behavior to compliment my own.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/18 02:44 AM
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I see what you're saying. I definitely dont want to be encouraging anyone to think that their situation could be like mine. You're right. Honestly I probably shouldn't have posted this given your point. In the future I'll think about that because I think I was just looking for a little validation but that was kinda selfish in light of who might see this and think theres hope in a dangerous situation.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/18 09:56 PM
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This is great! I'm totally reading that book. And the dildo practice is a great suggestion! I've actually been trying to up my blowjob game lately but my husband really hates being asked what to do so I've been a little lost.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/18 09:43 PM
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I have a lot of goals for October... probably too many. Successfully meal plan and stop ordering out Join my mom group once a week with the kids Exercise daily focusing on my butt and legs Eat 3 healthy meals a day to support muscle building and prevent wasting. Take my vitamins Drink a full gallon of water every day. Stop neglecting my appearance and letting my husband see me in rags with bad hair, nails, unshaven legs Go to bed on time. Keep up with chores. Especially laundry Read
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/18 04:47 PM
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Right. I never would have thought I'd feel any different and I cant believe I am here to say that I'm glad I didnt. But I am.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/18 04:18 PM
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I think that's great advice. We have not become sober but weve seriously cut down. Yoga and meditation is something that I think would help me in all of this and the RP way. Just being mindful. I need that.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/18 03:51 PM
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Oh thank you so much. I so appreciate you understanding my situation and seeing it this way. I'm reading surrendered wife and really excited to try to turn my marriage around. Yesterday I practiced a whole lot of STFU and listening and my husband (who I previously practically forced into testosterone therapy for a year for his "libido problems" which we ultimately discontinued because it didnt work) made the most amazing love to me for the 3rd time this week. I'm used to once a month. This is wo…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/18 03:49 PM
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Yeah I get what you're saying. It's just embarrassing. Being that person that's trying to justify it. I wasn't implying that y'all would be pro abuse. I just was hoping for a little understanding. I'm trying to work with my husband here. I'm not ready to give up on the marriage. I don't consider myself weak but I can see how I would be seen that way. I wouldn't give anyone describing my situation advice that's any different from yours. This is why I probably shouldn't tell anyone about my situat…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 02:23 PM
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Nah it wouldn't get to that point. I'd break him before he could ever. The previous instances of physical violence were not like this. There was two years between this time and the last. Its hard to hold it against him but so much when a: he was completely shit faced drunk. B: I wasn't acting that great either and was throwing things at him just prior to it happening. C: this isn't an abusive relationship, it's a relationship that has seen some abuse. I don't know. I guess it's hard to explain w…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 05:08 AM
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Yeah we want to. Just don't have the time right now. He's working a lot. Just got promoted to store manager at his job. So 70 hour work weeks. But lately we're doing pretty good on our own. It's just things like this that I wish were simpler to figure out in my head.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/17 03:04 AM
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I just started the fascinating womanhood online course this morning and I'm really excited about it. Hoping to learn a lot.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/17 11:29 PM
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