Talktomehudson Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	AMALT\AMALT		Talktomehudson	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/21 09:23 PM

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7	Most women DO NOT prefer men their age and younger men. Women do not ‘despise dating younger guys’ In an ideal world they want a guy their own age who has his shit together and is attractive to her. That’s it. Women do not care or obsess about age, they have their own wierd things that I’ll never get, but having fixations on age is not one of them. Guys keep trying to tell women they are all attracted to older guys with money, women say no, guys keep taking about it, women fall asleep/ run away. Repeat until death. Women dont care unless they feel so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/22 06:25 PM
3	Gun Violence and School Shootings Mega-Thread It’s not a solution, there isn’t one at this point with the amount of guns in America. If Americans want to have guns the rest of the world should just shut up and leave them to it. I’m glad that the people in my country don’t have any interest in guns, but we have our own problems. Part of the American identity is the 2nd amendment. I think a lot of people are just surprised how hard you hold on to your guns, based on some people you didn’t know making up rules that you never got to agree to, q…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/22 01:55 AM
1	Women lie about what they want in men. I don’t mind stories that are true that make guys pissed off about their experience with women. At least you can discuss them. But surely if you hung around with people like this and this was true, then what the fuck are you doing? Get new friends. But I just don’t believe any sane woman in 2022 is going home with a dude who actively said in public’ I hate women’ There is enough true stories of women doing fucked up shit to make something like this up, it’s just too perfect a scenario to post to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/22 05:20 AM
5	What features make a guy physically unattractive? People should be encouraged to evolve, I never liked ‘changed’ because I think you can evolve while not changing who you are personally. I get what you mean about the jewellery, everyone has their own little quirks . You should embrace them, don’t apologise. When it comes to changing how a guy dresses, haircut ect I do think that most guys want a woman to like them regardless of what they look Like( like them for personality ect) But don’t understand that in general, women are better at that kin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/22 04:32 AM
5	Do you do low energy, short message, infrequent texts with guys you genuinely like? How low is low enough that a guy should get the hint and leave? Ahh that makes sense then. You want a provider and you are the passive recipient. No issue with that, it works for a lot of couples, it just sounds like hell to me. Love is hard to define but luckily you don’t seem to want that so that will make it easier. At least you are honest though, keep with that and I’m sure you’ll be fine, hopefully bag yourself a rich dude and live that life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/22 04:19 AM
3	Do you do low energy, short message, infrequent texts with guys you genuinely like? How low is low enough that a guy should get the hint and leave? “Cater to his needs” You don’t have to cater for shit, Guys who have their shit together don’t want anyone catering to them, not their friends, not their family, and certainly not their wife. A good wife does things for her husband because she wants to, becasuse it makes her happy to see him happy. If he’s being a dick, then tell him he’s being a dick,You’d be surprised how honesty affects a decent guy, even if it’s bad. I’m not judging you if that’s what you want but it seems like hell to me. Y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/22 04:06 AM
5	Do you do low energy, short message, infrequent texts with guys you genuinely like? How low is low enough that a guy should get the hint and leave? I agree that’s a ticket to a marriage. If that’s your only goal then that’s easy enough, most people can get married. Nothing in that marriage is based on who you are though, it’s just things that nature gives, then takes away ( youth, beauty) It’s a shame the goal is a ring on the finger and a certificate, not knowing that when it could end any day without warning, as it’s based on things that really you can’t say you achieved yourself. Not for me but I don’t deny it could work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/22 03:46 AM
2	Do you do low energy, short message, infrequent texts with guys you genuinely like? How low is low enough that a guy should get the hint and leave? Thank god, some sanity yo. This should be the only answer, man or woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/22 03:38 AM
-1	Do you do low energy, short message, infrequent texts with guys you genuinely like? How low is low enough that a guy should get the hint and leave? I do find this strange, you say you are interested but are consistent but distanced? This is how doctors act when they give people bad news, be concerned but distance yourself from the person. Don’t do this if you’re interested in a guy, do you want to be acting distanced from someone you really like? Do you do this with your friends?( who you like) I doubt it, If you can reply, then reply. If you can’t, then don’t and don’t feel guilty about it. Don’t apologise if you are interested and can’t g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/22 03:36 AM
5	Do you do low energy, short message, infrequent texts with guys you genuinely like? How low is low enough that a guy should get the hint and leave? If you think youth is your ticket then you’re going to be miserable. Your ticket should be who you are as a person. Are you empathetic? How do you treat people who help you/ do things for you? The best guy wants you, not your fucking youth. Jesus, are things this bad?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/22 03:24 AM
5	What features make a guy physically unattractive? Hey come on man, complimenting someone’s race should be what we want to see right	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/22 03:11 AM
4	What features make a guy physically unattractive? He nose what’s up. Seriously though women like individual traits like that, we call them shallow as fuck but they are definitely more complex than that, when the women we hang around with told us their crushes it was all over the fucking place, guys who we never would have thought, and for the weirdest features ( nose, eyebrows, way they walk ect) It was pretty cool though to be honest, no height mentions at all or the usual suspects. Women’s brains are some unexplainable shit yo , I kinda like …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/22 02:44 AM
10	Women want to be treated less than judging by their own preferences Yep, the description in the OP isn’t ‘game’ Treating girls ‘mean’ is dating advice from the 90’s:/2000’s Even thinking about ‘leagues’ as a guy puts you on the back foot already. If a girl thinks you’re ‘out of her league’ then don’t get involved with her, if she thinks in leagues then she won’t have any problem replacing you down the line when she finds someone better. If you’re with anyone that openly says to you about ‘leagues’ or Rates people from 1-10, you may be with then now but they thin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/22 02:37 AM
9	Height increasing shoes morally deceptive or nah? If women suffered from hair loss through history like men, then it would have been solved by now. I do always wish that they would have, not in a nasty vindictive way but because we would have a solution by now. I’ve seen my mate go from the most outward extroverted guy in his 20’s( while being a good dude, not a wanker extrovert) to over the last couple of years becoming a shell of himself over losing his hair. He was never even a vain person, it just hit him massively , and I love the guy, he’…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/22 02:26 AM
17	Height increasing shoes morally deceptive or nah? It’s strange because I think most women would honestly like to think they wouldn’t care. And that’s what they’d tell you as a friend if you asked them the question. But the reality is that they would care, they just really want to believe that they don’t, because it makes them look superficial. Guys don’t want women to lie to them about what they find attractive, they want the truth but they want it in a way where they can do something about it, this is how guys deal with problems, with solution…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/22 01:53 AM
1	What features make a guy physically unattractive? Exactly, even you agree that on the right face, a less than perfect nose could look good! It’s just a strange question to think you are going to get an answer from all women to agree on what makes a guy attractive. It all women found exactly the same things attractive it would be depressing as fuck, I don’t think this is the case.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/22 01:30 AM
8	What features make a guy physically unattractive? If it is something out of his control then you know not to be nasty about it. You should always reserve the probability that it isn’t his fault. But you don’t have to apologise for not finding it attractive, honesty is key. Just be thoughtful of if you say no to someone for something like that if they approach you, your words can have an impact on that persons life. I don’t think women are as fucking ruthless and nasty as this sub makes out though. I’ve very rarely heard my mates being knocked b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/22 01:14 AM
8	What features make a guy physically unattractive? The big nose thing is wierd, my brother used to hate his big nose when he was younger, yet his wife said when she saw him for the first time that was what she found most attractive. I just don’t think there will be an answer to this question other than the only correct answer - Hygiene.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/22 12:38 AM
4	What features make a guy physically unattractive? The tough thing is for guys that we feel you should sometimes ‘take us a we are’. As in, if we are clean and shower regularly but have a bad haircut and fashion style then women shouldn’t care, just take us as we are. I do think women can overlook guys like this sometimes who maybe just don’t know about fashion/ good haircuts , but are otherwise good dudes. I guarantee you find a guy like this who has everything else together and take him to a great barbers, he’ll walk out feeling a million poun…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/22 12:33 AM
20	What features make a guy physically unattractive? Yep, teeth are a big thing. Mainly because kissing. People can be born with bad teeth placement but they are white as fuck because they take care of them. I don’t care if teeth are straight/ perfect, but I do care about the condition of them. It gives you a view into how they take care of themselves ( excusing the rare people who might not have this control due to disease/ genetic condition) This should be one of the number 1 standards when being superficial about the looks of your partner	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/22 12:23 AM
4	Do men care less than women about being found attractive/desirable in sex and relationships? Men want a relationship with someone who loves them romantically and sexually and wants them only, would NEVER cheat, is honest, and is interested their hobbies/interests, even if they have no interest in those hobbies themselves. Most ( sane) guys if they had this would not really care about dress size, ( within reason)or about where they are on the hotness scale of 1-10. Guys will talk big shit all day about looks and small waist big ass etc. But when it comes down to it, we want the same as w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/22 12:01 AM
9	Q4Men who have sex, please share your story of successful IRL approaches Treat women like people. I once tried my luck with a girl who was ( for my town) insanely popular, well known and liked by everyone. I got knocked back but accepted it. She was polite when she said no and was honest. Becasuse of the way I took the rejection we ended up with her friends and my friends spending the whole night out together, drinking, having fun, just forgetting about it. I coasted off that for years, word got around about how me and my mates were great to hang around with and beca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/22 11:38 PM
2	What is an immediate “we’re breaking right here right now” dealbreaker for you? Anyone whose morals and ethics are tied to something bigger than themselves. If you strongly identify with any political or religious movement I don’t think you can choose your morals, you have a set framework that you have to follow. You can be political or religious and be a good person, but I prefer people who want to be good because they just want to, not because they are scared.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/22 10:59 PM
2	[Q4M] Why do manosphere men have such an aversion to being a stepfather? Legal options available to you with adoption.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/21 08:04 PM
15	[Q4M] Why do manosphere men have such an aversion to being a stepfather? You do have a logical reason though. You don’t want responsibility for someone else’s kid. It’s the only honest and non- judgemental answer to this question. No offence is meant by you and none can be taken by anyone. I think if you ask this question to women without kids they would want to type this exact answer. You should be able to just say it and be done, easier said than done today though without getting judged to fuck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/21 08:03 PM
14	[Q4M] Why do manosphere men have such an aversion to being a stepfather? I wish people would stop devaluing the word ‘Cuck’. It’s supposed to be an insult. Being a stepfather is not anywhere near being a cuck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/21 07:56 PM
1	[Q4M] Why do manosphere men have such an aversion to being a stepfather? Logical fear. Men develop attachments easily, not always as deep, but quicker and easier. Look at how a close friendship group of guys can become friends with someone new over the space of about 3 mins, outside a bar. If the kids have been raised well and are cool then we can develop a bond with them easily. If they are not yours then you can breakup with their mother after a period of years and have no legal rights to continue this. With children of your own you cannot be stopped from seeing th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/21 07:48 PM
2	Based on my experience women don't seem to value "intelligence" as an attractive trait When you start thinking of yourself as an intellectual is where the problem starts. Like it or not this does bleed through into your mannerisms and how you interact with people, whether you like it or not. You should learn as much as you can and make sure you are the smartest person you can be, but how you communicate that knowledge to other people is important, humans are wierd as fuck. Women love intelligent guys( The women you want anyway ) You just have to make it seem like being intelligent…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/21 07:22 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Are you doing anything to make these statistics different? I am not, I am not a member of any suicidal awareness forum , I do not volunteer etc. If you honestly think that the majority of women do not care if men commit suicide then I would just have to disagree, no insults or anything. I just don’t believe it is true. Are they doing anything about it? Probably Not. Are you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/21 09:51 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Thank god , you are the hero that reddit deserves	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/21 09:45 PM
6	Do men value “sexual intimacy” over all other forms of intimacy? The wierd thing is that my female friends have probably done more for me ( labour wise) than I have for them. When I lost my house keys in a city 40 miles away ?- my friend offered to pick me up and drive me there and back again, no charge. When my dad died? My friend rang me straight away and came and chilled with me while I cried. Both times she suggested what to do and what is best. While she did tell me that she knew I would be there for her if positions were reversed is not the issue. She d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/21 09:43 PM
2	Do men value “sexual intimacy” over all other forms of intimacy? If you need to state you’re a man because of T then you ain’t doing it right. Testosterone should be implemented into the areas where it has most benefit, lifting, and career. 40 years ago you could use the excuse for T driving your decisions . Now? Women don’t care dude. Like I said unless you’re a top tier guy, using T as an excuse to fuck around, be aggressive, assert dominance , holds no weight anymore. This is 2021 and a completely new landscape, women are told repeatedly to watch out for t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/21 09:28 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Do you think your cousin is that bothered about a hook up that he’s happy to have you on the side getting ripped while he cleans up? Maybe it’s just my friendship group but none of us put hooking up with someone as a free ride for your mates to be belittled. If you standing up for yourself ‘ sabotages’ your mates hookup then who gives a fuck?? Stop treating attention from women as the highest honour, we see who they give that attention to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/21 09:12 PM
1	Do men value “sexual intimacy” over all other forms of intimacy? Testosterone is only an advantage if you are a top tier guy. Otherwise it comes off as arrogance, this is the way it is. Don’t excuse shit decisions down to ‘testosterone’. If you are smart you use your testosterone for what it should be used for in 2021, your career. This is where you will see the most benefit vs expenditure. High T in relationships now as a tool or excuse it stupid, women don’t care anymore and it will only get you bad results rather than good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/21 08:58 PM
3	Q4W: Does someone being dismissive make you more interested in them? Perfect. It is an acceptable standard to hold and one I don’t think anyone could debate you on why you are wrong. I wish more people understood that you are not obligated to be nice to someone if they are not acting that way with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/21 08:42 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Nope, listen to women when they tell you they want a guy ideally near their age. A 40 year old guy who is tall and has a full head is a rarity but he also needs something else ( money etc) If tall and hair was the issue they can find anyone under 40 for this. You need to have something else about you at that age. Money, fitness, achieved something in life. If you are 40+ 6ft full head of hair, women will be interested, but don’t think that they would not prefer this from someone their age.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/21 08:10 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread Strange post to choose as you can’t even tell if it was for a free meal or not. Seems like a pretty reasonable reject txt to me, short, no insults. Am I missing something here?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/21 08:03 PM
6	Daily Community Chat Megathread I’m gonna have to agree with this dude, Having a positive outlook is great but you also need to be honest about the comments made. They meant exactly what you thought they did, that they couldn’t understand why your looks ( height?) was so different. For us, it is obvious why you don’t, logic suggests that genetics do go by ‘ related so the same’. We understand that because your cousin is tall it does not mean you are, this is obvious to us. Women do not think about this , because they don’t hav…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/21 07:59 PM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread It’s becoming a thing now, I remember reading about the searches for ‘suicide method’ stats by sex as it was massively skewed males in percentage , I cannot recall the website but I don’t think anyone would say it’s unlikely. In the next 10 years I think it will be sobering to read the recorded amount of male suicides, i hope it will not become what I think it will	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/21 07:44 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread You’ve read the downfall of the Roman Empire I assume ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/21 07:39 PM
2	What do you mean when you say men have fragile egos? I just think ego means different things to men than it does to women, which is why Ego should be always relegated to the back of any healthy brain. In certain people ( genius’s) ego is a positive thing, because they usually focus it on to whatever they are doing to get ACTUAL results, sports, actors etc. In normal people ego means fuck all because it generates fuck all positive benefit. I think most people over inflate their sense of intelligence /attentiveness/ game. If you start from a base of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/21 07:32 PM
12	Follow on from "angry at the truth" post. Do some men virtue signal about "greater good" when its actually just sexual frustration? Most incels have zero homicidal or sexual enslavement fantasies. True incels are ignored by everyone, man or woman. Most have resigned themselves to being alone, and only blame themselves, genetics, not women. You get the edgelords in forums but the most vocal are usually pretty defeated and have no one left to blame	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/21 07:19 PM
2	Do men value “sexual intimacy” over all other forms of intimacy? No surprise that trans is your first thought. That’s a preference too though, no one can judge you for preferences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/21 07:12 PM
3	Do men value “sexual intimacy” over all other forms of intimacy? You replied too early, Don’t send the first insult you think of, you have to spend some time working on it, you can do better bro, close your eyes, think of my face, and type.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/21 07:04 PM
4	Do men value “sexual intimacy” over all other forms of intimacy? I’m a guy, my bro has disabilities though if you want to talk about that,? He’s on Reddit as well , he’s a good dude., married as well, I can send you a picture of him and his wife if you’d like? The word retarded doesn’t insult me bro, I’ve seen what “retarded”people do without making excuses. Such a fucking cliche NPC response	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/21 06:54 PM
4	Do men value “sexual intimacy” over all other forms of intimacy? I can’t argue in good faith that you aren’t correct. I feel personally that the dynamic is shifting now though, I think guys are now the ones starting to wish for emotional contact outside of sex, probably because in this age, it is very hard to find. I do see a lot of comments from guys “I just wish I had someone to talk to in bed at night”. Things they maybe used to take for granted that are now becoming very scarse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/21 06:48 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread They don’t even seem like they enjoy the conquest. Some people want to feel what everyone else feels, but they just can’t. So they fake it. If someone tells you they are an extrovert then they usually aren’t really. True extroverts will be full of energy and want to be doing something all the time, regardless of who they are with. This person is not extroverted, they pretend to be at first and then can’t keep it up do just revert back to their normal personality ( Anti social). It’s hard to avoi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/21 06:32 PM
12	Do men value “sexual intimacy” over all other forms of intimacy? I think it used to be just about sex for guys but I see this dynamic changing massively with the new generation. I see a lot of guys now talking about just wanting Someone to talk to, Stoke their hair and cuddle etc. I think guys are starting to feel the effects of dating 2021 and sex has become something that it seems harder and harder to achieve. So they start appreciating stuff like close contact, cuddles, spooning etc. Women think guys are just about getting their end in, but I think guys in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/21 06:15 PM
8	Do men value “sexual intimacy” over all other forms of intimacy? This is nice to see, even remembering a comment from them from a while ago shows actual empathy. Cool to see.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/21 06:09 PM
10	What do you mean when you say men have fragile egos? To be fair you would have to counter that with women wanting men who are taller, I understand why they do, it’s something nature has ingrained in women to find Attractive, it used to be for protection ( maybe it still is) but in general it’s for the women’s ego, they want to feel feminine Women shouldn’t have to apologise for wanting a partner that has qualities that are not earned, but given by genes, neither should dudes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/21 06:06 PM
5	What do you mean when you say men have fragile egos? It means nothing. To be insulted or affected by criticism you have to hold the opinion of who is criticising you in high regard. Women should not care about random men’s opinion of them anymore than men should listen to a random woman. If you have spent time and effort making sure you keep in contact with your friends and family then these are the only opinions you should care about, they should know you, and are in the position to criticise, if they tell you you are doing something wrong, you s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/21 05:56 PM
6	Chadfishing and OKCupid data shows women care less about looks, not more Do you honestly believe in this age that 14 year olds are unaware of this.? This is not the 90’s or even the early 2000’s. YouTube is free and has near enough any information you want. But regardless I am surprised when people do not learn this by age 14, in my school the popular kids were good looking, and were treated differently, guys and girls. I don’t know if it’s different in other countries( I am UK) but I always assumed people knew this stuff or learned it pretty quickly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/21 11:09 PM
11	Chadfishing and OKCupid data shows women care less about looks, not more Chadfishing is real, you don’t need to fake it. Women will do more and make more effort for attractive guys. I’m confused how people did not realise this when they got to school though? I didn’t need red pill videos when I was 14 to realise the way the world worked. I also watched Attenborough, the animal kingdom was the same. I love great pieces of art, I love sunsets and shit. They are great to look at. Women are allowed to fancy the fuck out of whoever they want, I honestly don’t understand w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/21 09:41 PM
1	Do you secretly like a tiny bit of objectification from your partner? All true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/20 02:08 PM
1	Society: "Won't you feel lonely without without female company when you grow older?" MGTOW: :) Look at the smile on that guys face. He’s tripping the fuck out. Sweet.	/r/MGTOW	12/06/19 08:13 PM
1	When an entitled woman claims the Tesla is hers Plug in the car, let’s go a few rounds. Plug in the car.	/r/MGTOW	04/04/19 09:59 PM