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Thanks for sharing man, helpful words.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 10:59 PM
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And .. any resolution to your situation?
/r/askTRP23/04/21 10:07 PM
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Is what i'm assessing by posting this. So far I have dread, shutting her down, and withdrawal.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 05:10 AM
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Great points. Growing myself is key and maybe perhaps she feels as if I've stagnated. Say I have a talk and come to the conclusion that the is focusing on career and power. That's a deal breaker. If not, you're suggesting withdrawal?
/r/askTRP10/12/19 02:47 AM
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Nice advice, thank you. You're right, I am trying to make it work. I've gotten comfortable where I am and I've spent a lengthy process doing so. I value how she is in person. If it comes to this vs. finding lower quality plates that don't have much going for them I'd find a way to fix this first. All in all, it's an inconvenience that can grow to be a huge character quality if not nipped earlier. I'm willing to deploy new methods rather then walking away. I don't find myself of course willing to…
/r/askTRP10/12/19 02:33 AM
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Hm, I see where you two are coming from. I never came across in any agitated or interrogative tone and the conversation was neutral before as well, however it was over text so it's harder to tell. It happened a few weeks back and they've been chatting ever since. It seemed out of her character if we're judging it on personal context. I would personally think it would be a point of interest to have at least mentioned it. However, that wasn't the point just merely an example I was using. The point…
/r/askTRP10/12/19 02:20 AM
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Good points. Yeah, we've been on damage control this weekend coordinating our stories together. It's definitely not under some sort of investigation but as I mentioned our department is quite small and issues that we have get dealt with solely by us. When it gets towards management is when things get interesting. I was thinking about sitting down with one of them on Monday and apologizing for this person's behavior and to try to move past this immediately.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 10:50 AM
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Good points.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 10:38 AM
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Didn't think of this? Haha, nah but agree and amplify remember? "Ahh damn, there goes your 5% tip" I know someone is going to give a really nice witty comment to this but to be honest how quick witted are you to think of some calculated comeback in such a specific context of a situation. You also didn't really add too much context because It kind of depends on how she said it. Was there a smile, smirk, positive body language? Was she cold, bitchy, and serious? If you can A&A somehow then do it. …
/r/askTRP17/08/19 07:44 AM
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**texts her heart emoji's ** "She sees me as her LTR for some reason"...
/r/askTRP17/08/19 07:24 AM
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...bruh
/r/askTRP17/08/19 07:14 AM
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Since I'm the team lead it reflects poorly on me that people are trash talking my little team and our efficiency. I want to secure my promotion and preserve my image and reputation. I'm debating if I should email management still. If i do, I'll use your advice for the content of my email. ​ Thanks
/r/askTRP17/08/19 07:10 AM
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I'm asking this pretty selfishly. I want to secure my image, reputation and promotion. He pretty much Julian Assange'd our departments secrets and then spoke about unfairness. I don't know, never had to face this before.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 07:08 AM
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She agreed to fuck? My bad, could you clarify what you mean? Were you debating? Was this contractual? Haha. She said "hun" Yo I don't know about you guys but that's kind of cringe to me if a girl i'm trying to fuck calls me hun. That statement reads like she's actively patting you on the head. Yuggchkk ! I picture her pouting her lips when saying that. Doesn't sound like you've met her; if you have, then how important is she to you? I wouldn't say anything tbh because she didn't suggest another …
/r/askTRP17/08/19 07:04 AM
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Not going to say I'm an experienced RP'er but I have advice that has worked for me. First thing is first, find a way to mentally prep yourself to be at that party. If you're feeling off because of some other issues. Do. Not. Go. Even if it's just to show face. Trust me. When I first started seeing my LTR, she would wander off at parties and social gatherings because she believed that we should be social and not a couple that clings to one another. She would be talking to men, women and pretty mu…
/r/askTRP17/08/19 06:50 AM
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So yesterday you were making out with a girl at your place. That was the first time you invited her. At some point she told you she's never had her cheeks clapped and you told her to go home. Beyond repair.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 06:12 AM
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The fact that anyone is entertaining this is upsetting.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 12:10 AM
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Haha I like that one.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 12:02 AM
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So, you're a blonde famous hockey player look alike with a wide jaw and a 6 pack? .... and you have healthy SMV? Yeah.. sucks to be you. But in all seriousness you're own unhealthy tendencies are likely what's causing you such disturbance with your resting ego. Things like social media, and outlets such as that are what fuel your insecurities. I seriously hope that you don't need to hear that you shouldn't give a fuck what people have to say about you or your appearance as long you're genuinely …
/r/askTRP27/06/19 12:01 AM
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Try this
/r/askTRP26/06/19 11:44 PM
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You're going to get a lot of grief on this because there's a lot of actualized people here. You're not there yet and I think this points to a deeper issue with your mentality behind this. Instead of even having this question come into your mind, strive to be the person who knows that she wouldn't think of cheating on. Believe it, embody that mentality. Become that man. The issue isn't wondering late at night if she's cheating on you, it's lacking the moral fortitude knowing that you're going to …
/r/askTRP23/06/19 04:01 PM
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Haa, look at that! I sincerely doubt you were confused with what I said though haha. I currently try to be on an aesthetics bodybuilding program as my personal choice. A result of this is that girls love it... and I love that girls love it. But I don't do it because girls love it. Make sense?
/r/askTRP23/06/19 04:33 AM
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Damn, this is a terrible place to turn to because everyone is sitting here waiting to tell you to "NEXT THAT BITCH, CHEATING WHORE!" But realisitcally we know as much as you do, dude. This could be one of those "everything just happened coincidentally" and just fell into place ever so conveniently or it could be what you possibly think the latter is... Time to self reflect a bit and become a rationally deducing self-detective. How is your relationship? How long? Is it serious? Is she promiscuous…
/r/askTRP22/06/19 06:40 PM
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What else should you focus on? ​ No dude, what else do YOU want to focus on? You're in shape, you're fit and you're way beyond the point where anyone can look at you and can tell you play sports or lift consistently. Look to see what motivates you. Does power pique your interest? Start powerlifting and be on a strength training program. Similarly can be said about gaining size, shredding down, becoming more athletic etc. Motivate yourself with what you want and then be able to show it off when y…
/r/askTRP22/06/19 05:29 PM
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This is what worked for me when I first started dating my ex-LTR. Our relationship sounded very similar.. very attracted to me, highly sexual etc.. She went out with her friends wearing a a very thin see through black shirt with a bright pink bra (she has 32DD's btw). We had just started dating at that point. The problem was I never seen her wear that for me. I had to see it via SnapChat so I was definitely bitter. But I composed myself and spoke to her about it. Taking things more serious betwe…
/r/askTRP22/06/19 03:49 PM
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Really appreciate you taking the time to answer in depth. I don't think I took enough or any charge in this scenario, I was too focused on the role reversal and seeing how that played out in how to keep something alive. Good points on that. You're referring to her curiosity and then growing insecurity as lacking in leadership on my behalf. How can I mitigate this for future reference. I told her about "A" and I in a respectful, civil way. I'd also like to say I'm pretty in tuned when I'm getting…
/r/askTRP21/08/18 03:59 AM
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These shit tests came up in the last month man, I really don't know how and/or why. I just feel confident when I pass them when she starts acting nice and back to normal again. This type of warfare that she pulled here was uncalled for. I really don't know how to proceed from here when every instinct is telling me to reem her out for all her bullshit.
/r/askTRP08/04/18 12:47 AM
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I'm not strategizing my dread , it's just coming across naturally because that's how i feel when she's been giving me all these shit tests. The whole Tic-Tac-Toe thing was just a way to show I'm having fun. If i wanted to play games and make her feel insecure, I could pan up and show the hot chick that i'm playing with smiling and giggling but I didn't because that would give a whole different vibe to my snap. Could you expand on "Shes acting the way she is because you are creating it."
/r/askTRP07/04/18 08:51 PM
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Thanks man. I appreciate the input. What were your thoughts about her treating him different and specialized compared to me. Ex. ( her and her friends buying party supplies, custom cakes, putting only him on her story mode). I want to pretend it's not getting to me but it is and I don't know how to speak to her from here out.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 06:45 PM
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Haha, care to add anything?
/r/askTRP07/04/18 05:50 PM
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Working on it, to say the least. I have a few prospects from my old job at a restaurant but haven't executed anything yet. It's been about a month out of the relationship but I'm still getting laid constantly. I'm more taking the time to focus on other things. Getting a car, working out more seriously, picking up new hobbies and more so just focusing on mental health.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 01:07 AM
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Thank you for the insight
/r/askTRP17/09/17 09:38 PM
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thanks for the reply.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 08:54 PM
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haha, fuck off
/r/askTRP17/09/17 07:55 PM
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Fair points. I don't know how NOT to care too much. I'm planning on nexting it. But the whole situation seems to be more of misunderstanding by the way she's acting. I know when she feels she's in the wrong.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 07:54 PM
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He's a classy guy and always showed respect to me is how I meant it. They've been friends for years within the same friend circle. He's been dating another girl who she's also friends with for 2 years.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 07:51 PM
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It is. You're right. I'm not worried about losing her so much as it is being so concerned about getting treated right. I hate even the way that sounds but I don't know how NOT to care so much.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 07:43 PM
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I do care too much. She's my LTR, i mean we've been through a whole lot together and we both have expectations for each other as well. Mine weren't met. Everything was going fine this week, then this happened. How would I go about breaking up with her so coldly.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 07:40 PM
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I think my lesson learnt here is that i can generally stop expecting to receive encouragement or support from my girlfriend. She's actively brought it up to me in the past asking if I felt she wasn't there for me, to which i responded with a completely straight "yes." Just going to perhaps demote her and see how things go from there. Slowly retract.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 07:38 PM
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What makes you say that? At what point was it the defining point for the hard next. Not disagreeing, just curious.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 07:23 PM
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I know how it reads. I agree, it does. If you may, what am I not understanding or grasping? A&A? Or just being a commanding person?
/r/askTRP24/06/17 11:18 PM
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yeah I know, I stalked her. I feel like scum. I literally laughed and smh'ed on my way home like I can't believe I just did that. But tbh, I feel like I would've done that anyways even if I didn't have a gut instinct that something was up. I was HONESTLY in her area It's been a day later, and I feel like it was a pretty light scenario but i'm still not pleased about the way either of us handled it. I like your scenario, but I'm still looking for insight on how I handle this scenario now.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 12:17 AM
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A male* best friend? And yeah, I hear what you're saying. But what can you do if they've been close since they were kids. Never grew apart and never had any falling out with another. The only thing I can do without looking jealous or insecure is just wanting to meet the guy face to face.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 12:02 AM
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It probably sounds fucked from my end but I actually don't think of it too heavy. I know how close they are, but when that incident I saw for myself (technically) definitely made me re-evaluate things. I've been ghosting her all day today. I still don't know how to approach this properly. My job is pretty much hanging out with beautiful women all day long. Most of whom she doesn't know and already feels insecure about.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 12:00 AM
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A little extreme imo. But thank you for your insight. Appreciated. I don't really think I've given enough information for you to be deducing some things here. Besides, this LTR was by choice and after certain screenings, so for shit's sake, let's give her the benefit of the doubt here. For example, I don't think of myself anyways inferior to her guy friend and I know that I come across more alpha to my GF especially. I may not make her snap story every time. But she definitely snaps with me the …
/r/askTRP18/05/17 09:59 AM
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Thanks for the insight. See I didn't want so much attention for the fact on how she acted but more so on how things played in my head. Note to the "bigger picture." This is a purposeful one-itis. An LTR. I also work as a bartender where I'm around and hanging with beautiful women with amazing bodies. I also keep a side plate secretive to my relationship. So I'm pretty occupied.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 09:31 AM
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Thanks for your insight. Appreciated. I work as a bartender and server at a popular restaurant. Im constantly around hotter women than my GF and she knows this. I think my dread game is pretty strong so far.
/r/askTRP18/05/17 09:17 AM
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I got more Viagara prescribed to me. Never used or thought about using Cialis. What does it do differently? Stronger - Weaker? It could quite possibly be hormonal. Thanks for the fixes to each of those issues.
/r/askTRP03/03/17 07:25 AM
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It's weird that I think I'm becoming a hypochondriac. Yet Dr.'s always reassure me that everything is where it needs to be. I don't think I have adrenal fatigue. Hypothyroidism was the very first conclusion, besides depression, that made any sense to my personal situation. My mouth is always dry, I have very poor sleeping patterns, my body is very cold, etc.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 07:56 PM
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Okay, I'll take your recommendation. Thanks. What were your ED symptoms and are they gone now?
/r/askTRP02/03/17 07:11 PM
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Dr. said it was perfectly normal when I took a blood test back in October. I just requested to see my work done when I got it done today. I will find out on Monday.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 08:38 PM
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Just pm'ed bro.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 08:34 PM
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I live in Canada. Seeing the Dr. is as easy as waiting in line. I went to a urologist years ago, however. I only suggested how I didn't have any libido. This was when I never thought anything about going soft one or two times. Only problem here is that they're all on a time crunch. So if you're not seriously in trouble then they want to get rid of you asap.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 08:16 PM
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See, I too believe it's psychological. It's just that, I guess I put up a front as if it shouldn't bother me. So I convince myself that. I'm not actually fretting about not being able to get hard. I won't lie. I think about it non-stop but at the same time I always think, yeah I'm going to fuck the shit out of her today. So I ramp up the foreplay, start dominating in her bed and then.. I just feel zero sensation. Maybe the problem is seriously deep-rooted. I've gone in to my doctors today and wh…
/r/askTRP01/03/17 08:15 PM
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So this is your advice. To confront her - tell her I know and then cut contact. See I felt like even telling her I know is giving in too much and I'm at a state where I cannot trust my instincts because every last gut feeling is telling me to go tell her we're over with no chance of getting back together. What I'm doing now is hopefully letting the hamster in her head go nuts because it's been almost a week without contact from either of us. No calls, no messages. It doesn't seem to be affecting…
/r/askTRP16/01/16 06:16 PM
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Thanks man. What do you suggest I do about the ending of our relationship. I can either break up with her verbally or continue on quiet and passive like what I'm already doing right now in hopes she'll crack and say what's going on? It's been almost a week and still no messages or calls from either one of us. It's bothering the fuck out of me.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 06:12 PM
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So you say no contact right? Other commenters are saying to confront and then cut contact. I don't know what's the appropriate response because I feel the need to tell her we're done and then cut contact. But that seems to be giving her attention that she wanted in the first place. My gut response is to verbally say we're over but I assume that'll lead into a big conversation again and she'll play with my emotions. She has no idea that I know about seeing that on her phone. So me cutting off con…
/r/askTRP16/01/16 06:09 PM
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As painful as it reads to me, you're probably right. I'm just still in awe at the amount of shit we've been through, the people we've grown up from and the incredibly impressive act of deception she was capable of. What has me asking this in the first place was about the response. I know me and her are over, but ensuring that is something I'm unsure of. I can cut contact off with her, but that seems all too passive in my eyes. She has no idea that I know and probably just assumes I'm not texting…
/r/askTRP16/01/16 06:06 PM
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I know we're done. I'm not taking her back for sure and it hurts. I'm just confused on the appropriate response. Do i tell her we're done and cut contact or is better if I just keep quiet and move on. She has no idea that I know, and probably thinks I just want space in the relationship. It's just weird because it's been 5 days with no contact whatsoever. Either response seems RP and BP in it's own nature.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 05:59 PM
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This is a great touch-up. Thanks for this.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 09:36 AM
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This is great.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 06:07 AM
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I work in a restaurant with a tonne of hot chicks. It's the abundance "mentality". What I was trying to say was I know I COULD pursue and go as far as fuck other girl(s). That mindset keeps my one-itis in check since I've been in an LTR for 2 years.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 12:06 AM
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I held a proper ground if you understand my actual situation and standpoint. I didn't do everything wrong. There was a lot I have improved on in the last month. I'm not a frameless pushover but I lose track of the goal in sight quite frequently.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 12:03 AM
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You're interpreting a lot of what I read wrong. I love how everyone never gives anyone on askTRP the benefit of the doubt and just jumps to the lowest worst possible conclusion. I didn't go to the gym at 7 because I got carried away. I wanted the best of both worlds and was horny enough to compromise. Stupid. In my head - I would have fucked her - went to the gym a little later - had wings with the boys later. She ordered another glass of wine because I wouldnt be able to see her for her birthda…
/r/askTRP12/11/15 11:58 PM
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It's way easier to read how and how not to react online when everything makes sense with great examples. But to take it to the physical world especially with someone that knows you already pretty well is quite tough. I did fuck up pretty hard by giving a fuck about it, you're right. I feel like a total shithead too. I just wanted the best of both worlds and got carried away when it came to timing. I was going to the gym and that was already a plan but I also wanted sex because I was in the mood.…
/r/askTRP12/11/15 11:51 PM
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I've been exercising my whole life for no one else but me. I failed to hold frame, I failed to keep my temper, and I failed to react to that one shit test. Besides that I felt pretty justified with everything I was doing. There's no real advice in here but thank you for the reading recommendations.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 11:45 PM
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No yelling. I hold frame by diffusing her continuous attempts at switching the topic at hand. What first starts with her being insecure and uncomfortable with me working another job where a bunch of drunk women will be at turns to me being overly controlling and dominating. She first accuses me of being insensitive and not thinking about her to take a job where our relationship feels threatened. Through some simple calm statements and reassurance but also increased irritation and impatience it t…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 07:35 PM
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I'm trying to adapt more TRP when I can - I find it much easier reading and responding to shit tests online then in person. Maybe it's my character flaw that I fail to realize when I slip into her frame of emotional fits and shit tests. It's also something I'm trying to work on. I find myself getting very upset and pent up on the inside and only find relief of the matter when I make my point crystal clear or having to logically break it down to her to why this is bullshit, and especially having …
/r/askTRP27/10/15 07:15 PM
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Cut me some slack. It's not easy trying to indulge in every single principle let alone one. It's a lot easier to read these on the forum compared to when you're in person and the problem lies at your feet. You are right about applying TRP wrong and it's consequences. That's why we're here though. The complication within your second paragraph is that I understand everything you've written and certainly have internalized it.. except my problem was that I feel that I land on the TRP spectrum of it …
/r/askTRP27/10/15 07:07 PM
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I like that rule. Between her and I, we bump heads every now and then. It usually arises from some issue she's been having with me for a while that I've had no idea about. As of late it's been my bad tone and attitude. Apparently I have a lot of it. When we bump heads she tries to play the victim by saying how she feels inferior and belittled by my attitude/ tone and how it affects your mentality. That's not how I plan to come across at all (obviously). I've just been trying to be more firm with…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 06:54 PM
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This sounds like the most sound advice. Thank you. I had never really thought about it like that. When my GF comes over all i have to do is see her to get hard sometimes. I guess my body is just naturally programmed to behave like that. SexGod method? I'll have to give that a look sometime. I guess I'm not keeping track of my deeper mental activity when i'm in the physical present tense. It makes sense I suppose. And yes, for sure - because of these happenings I now get extremely nervous and anx…
/r/askTRP20/10/15 03:57 AM
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Maybe not drinking would be better, you're right. I never thought it would need training to fuck another vagina. Thought evolution had that down for me. But if this were to become a casual thing on the side it might lead to some pretty restricted hangouts. I had thought about that as well. But in my post I referenced that I had this perfect set-up with a chick and I was newly single at the time. So it was affecting my body being single or taken.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 07:16 PM
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Honestly, I've stopped. I read about P.I.E.D. and it sounds fucked. The point was is that I can still visually/mentally get turned on by another woman.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 07:06 PM
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Sixth paragraph - last sentence. Not the point. Maybe I had wrote that wrong - what I was trying to say is I've gotten and acknowledged the fact that it could be completely subconscious. But even that works somewhat off your emotions, and you CAN control your emotions with your logic and rationale. At least men can. So I cease to understand my problem and am frankly quite embarrassed by it. At this point, I might have to seek professional help. I seem to always come across as "complaining that I…
/r/askTRP19/10/15 06:57 PM
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Nah I said I fuck her like a champ every time. We have a great sex life. I also got the same advice that it might be a subconscious thing suppressing guilt, but the reason I made the post long in the first place was because I wanted to explain how logically it wouldn't/shouldn't be affecting me. And I'm a quite logical person myself. I get turned on when I know I'm escalating well and get the make-out. I look at other girls and watch porn still.. so I can get turned on mentally by other women - …
/r/askTRP19/10/15 06:25 PM
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I got too carried away. I updated it with a TLDR.
/r/askTRP10/10/15 11:32 PM
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