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It would only be right, considering I would dump them it’s only fair I give them the opportunity to do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:50 AM
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I think I’d admit it to my partner in that case if I truly felt guilty. It’s selfish otherwise. I don’t doubt there would be people who would overlook that btw, plenty of cases of wives defending their husbands when they get convicted for being pedos and rapists
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:41 AM
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I believe few men are truly “too ugly” for red pill advice. Going gym, getting a really good cut and dressing well can do wonders. That coupled with a lot of cold approach will lead to eventual success for the majority of men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:12 AM
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It’s not about forever alone tho. There are implications outside the relationship such as affecting friendships and employability which I’m considering here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 02:09 AM
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I could never see myself doing anything even close to that. Kind of a lose lose situation. On one hand it’s kills you on the inside on the other you lose the relationship most probably. I’d go with not tell in fear of it being spread around but in principle I think it’s better to tell. It’s a bit of an extreme edge case. Rape isn’t an accident
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:49 AM
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The problem with blue pilled advice is not that it’s wrong. It’s that it’s not actionable and doesn’t come with an accompanying mindset that helps internalise the advice. Red pill actually takes you from point a to b with a specific roadmap. It’s easy to say “be confident” but how? Cold approach, meditation and gym. It’s also a lot less sugar coated. Nowadays it’s taboo to tell someone straight “you’re not attractive enough to succeed in this market and you need to be better” which is essentiall…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:47 AM
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Yes a woman should share her bodycount if asked. It’s a common question so I wouldn’t say she’s obligated but should provide the information. Rape is really fucking bad and if I was a woman I’d never date a guy that did it no matter how remorseful or even though “it’s in the past” always hated that statement
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:36 AM
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Bro what are these hypotheticals, rapists are usually narcissist who feel no remorse for others but I guess yes you should tell them? If you truly feel remorseful you should accept the payback for your crime
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:24 AM
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Online dating will jade you regardless because everyone on there is disposable and treats you the same way. It’s also very shallow and looks based. Takes a toll on your psyche
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:15 AM
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Well you wouldn’t bring it up on the first date but you’d mention it eventually. I think most people would be okay with it as long as you don’t act upon it. Unless it’s pedophilia in which case you’re just fucked and need to be euthanised.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:14 AM
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Well the fact that you’d need to hide it in the first place shows a lack of self respect and probably won’t do good for you. Having a partner and knowing that they’ll dump you for once if your secrets is very mentally draining and will poison the relationship Besides it’s rarely like that usually. Liberal women who sleep around find liberal men who have no problem with it. They’re not gonna dare conservatives
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:07 AM
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You literally fell for their trap. Welcome to the matrix
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:04 AM
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Those podcasts are just rage bait to polarise the youth. They pick OF girls most of the time because they’re always stupid and opinionated just to bully and beat them in arguments. Little to no touch with reality
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:02 AM
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Option 2 simply doesn’t work in reality. At best you’ll get an abusive relationship which is arguably worse than forever alone
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 01:00 AM
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It’s basically gambling with your mental health
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:58 AM
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I wouldn’t completely discredit it. While I don’t like a lot of what they say, they give better advice than the mainstream in the ways of “do cold approach” “self improvement milestones” “abundance mindset” “embrace masculinity” “focus on confidence” etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:57 AM
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Redpill works if you do cold approach like it says. It’s gonna be pretty damn hard to get even decent at cold approach if you’re an HFA. Especially if you go in taking their words as gospel. It’ll just poison your mind
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:55 AM
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I feel like most of these guys have little to no experience hence why they have all these ideas about doing this stuff. Once you actually have a bit of casual sex you realise it’s not all that and its mainly dominated with women with daddy issues tryna convince everyone they’re attractive and dudes who capitalise on it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:28 PM
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You could probs say the same for men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 10:44 AM
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This is a reality for the majority of people. Over 53 percent of marriages don’t end in divorce. People sit in echo chambers and lose their connection to reality
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:21 AM
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This type of opinion is only unpopular to incels
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:19 AM
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Are you stupid? Do you exclusively wanna date high bodycount hoes or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:47 AM
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You misunderstand. It’s not about effort it’s about capability. Any woman has the capability to sleep around so it means nothing. Doing it also shows she’s not selective at that point. For men it’s true that only a top percentage man is capable of having a lot of sex partners so doing it proves his status
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:43 AM
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Red pillers have no job defending him. He tried to turn a hoe into a housewife. Ultimate rookie mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:36 AM
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Sex work is disgusting and shows a lack of morals for both parties. Men who commodify sex because they hold resources but no means to attract women and women who commodity their body because they have nothing else to offer. No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:36 AM
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He forgot the basic fact of “you can’t turn a hoe into a housewife” I think redpillers defending him forgot that he broke rule number 1
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:33 AM
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That’s not what they mean. Their argument is since women date older and men date younger your pool of men shrinks with age while your pool as a man grows. At 30 most good men are already married and whatever so the single men have extra resources and can find younger women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:28 AM
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Older attractive > younger unattractive 10/10 times but all else equal younger will win
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:26 AM
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This is why, women don’t see it the same as men. I don’t fixate on stuff like that but I know for a fact a majority of men do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:25 AM
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You might be able to live off that on a farm in the middle of nowhere but in a city that’s basically homelessness
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:07 AM
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Are you stupid? I spoke for both genders. Men and women who do this are both shallow and dumb. Quit this gender war nonsense it just serves to piss people off
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:02 PM
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As a man who has slept around and isn’t a male model you’re full of shit in that regard but I digress. You said it’s all about status so now a male model who lives in his car is higher value than trump? So inconsistent
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:37 PM
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Okay so you’re sole basis of judging if someone is high value is how many women they can fuck in total? This is incredible dumb are you 12 lmao? Also your “objective measure of worth” is wrong because I guarantee the majority of people will not agree with you and put Dani davito over a male model. Not to mention even with his high value trump would get rejected way more than a normal good looking dude in cold approach and the such.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:24 PM
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They’re shallow because they focus on reducing people to a sheet of stats instead of judging their character. Almost as if they want a partner just to show off not for an actual relationship. Having preferences is fine judging someone solely based on them is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:20 PM
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Yeah cause trump got his exposure by being a handsome gigachad. By your definition Dani Davito is a top 1 percent alpha male
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:57 PM
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They get more women due to their exposure alone. If I am known by a billion women I too can get more women that 99 percent of the population. Regardless basing your life on how many women you can attract is ultimately vapid and quite shallow and is a narrow value of worth. If a man develops the cure for cancer but isn’t famous is he less valuable than Kanye by your definition? These figures you mentioned are also highly controversial so doesn’t that detract from it? Edit: 99 percent of women wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:46 PM
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And what is the measuring scale? Looks, money and power? What if the person happens to be a pedo or an abuser are they still HVM and highly datable? Imo that’s pretty low value. What if they have all these traits but sit indoors and claim to be incels? Still HVM? It’s almost like you can’t objectively measure humans on arbitrary standards. People who do are compensating for insecurity and poor self image which leads to them looking for external validation to evaluate themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:13 PM
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Yeah I agree when did I say otherwise? A club rat likely indicates immature, hedonistic and validation seeking behaviour which I would avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:50 PM
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They “struggle” in terms of opportunity to naturally meet women because dating apps are ass and they don’t do cold approach or any other method to get dates
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:42 PM
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Bro ragebait TikTok’s aren’t reality. Most women’s aren’t gonna fall coops over a cold approach
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:41 PM
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Confident means not doubting yourself and seeming like a nervous wreck who stumbles on his words. E.g be smooth. Comes with practice took me a while before I got to that level. Games means putting on a facade to try and get women to like you e.g faking your interests or not replying quickly to make the girl think you’re ignoring her etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:38 PM
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If you’re in University it’s ridiculously easy to have a social circle and it’s rare. In the workforce it’s different obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:36 PM
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I have never heard of a dude getting arrested for a cold approach that is a total black pill myth. These “chads” just gave good social circles unlike the incels which allows them to get laid and they scapegoat their looks
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:34 PM
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I and most men I think don’t care about virginity. Just someone who doesn’t have a high bodycount
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:32 PM
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Complete bullshit. It’s money and power. Men no matter how good looking cant get even close to women on only fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:28 PM
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I have female friends and a girlfriend I open up about emotions with. Good people will not shame you for such a basic thing. Don’t base your life on rage bait TikTok’s Someone who genuinely cares about you won’t judge you for such shallow things
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:27 PM
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I think both are equally shallow. Being flexible and more personality oriented is besy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:24 PM
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I don’t think anyone expect super liberal women make these claims
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:23 PM
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Blue pill is just the opposite of red / black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:22 PM
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Yeah I agree porn can be harmful but those nofap weirdos have given the no porn thing a really bad rep. It’s basically a cult of not jacking yourself off and they make stupid claims about “pied” and a a “90 day cleanse” when in reality it’s just their performance anxiety. It’s become another business to prey on the stupid and insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:16 PM
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Be be yourself is code for be genuine and confident in you are. E.g don’t play games. You don’t take the advice at face value
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:12 PM
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I think ruling someone out for making you wait for sex is dumb unless they’re playing games or something. I care about a girls bodycount so I’m not gonna expect her to smash on first date that’s reduculous
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:11 PM
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Unconditional doesn’t mean no matter what. It means as long as adhere to normal human boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:09 PM
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I think it’s perfectly fine and realistic to have a requirement on money despite what other dudes here may say because it directly effects your quality of life. Let’s be real 50k will barely afford you a slum in a big city nowadays with the housing prices. Just as long as you’re realistic and not demanding something crazy like 200k. For looks and the sort it’s okay to have preferences but it’s good to be lenient if the guy you find is great in every other way. If you play shallow games you get s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:05 PM
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Here’s the problem with redpill. It basically has a civil war between the people interested in self help who use the ideologies to get better drive and incels who use the guise of redpill to disguise their anger and resentment. Generally I like the main ideas of redpill such as the abundance mindset, confidence, not caring about rejection, cold approach, monk mode etc etc. However when it comes to the philosophy there’s a big debate between the groups. Let me explain. Alpha fucks / beta bucks. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:01 PM
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Op idk what you think you can gain by doing this. By “set realistic expectations” we mean go after personality and character traits like confidence self worth compassion empathy humour etc and not place too much importance on looks and money. It doesn’t mean handicap yourself on looks specifically. Besides just because you get a “looksmstch” doesn’t mean he’ll treat you well or that you’ll be incompatible
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:51 PM
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Bro 40k won’t even get you a doghouse in any of the cities. A 4 would be pulling at least 60 to 70k at that age
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:48 PM
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Technically speaking narcissists are very confident but lack self worth and are very insecure. Self esteem is the term op was missing in this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:46 PM
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Bro you sound just like Jordan Peterson
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:45 PM
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No I’d say positive confidence comes from self esteem negative confidence comes from external validation
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:44 PM
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Yes but most people on this sub struggle with self image and deep rooted insecurities so they’re not gonna readily accept it. I swear over the last year this place has tripled its incel population
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:56 AM
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Being nice is not the same as being a doormat. Also neediness is incredibly unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:55 AM
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I’d say women are worse with rejection considering men tend to ask out more. It’s a matter of desensitisation
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:50 AM
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There’s no such thing as a “HVM” it’s the female equivalent of a dude calling himself an alpha male. If he has all these stats and beats you every day is he still “HVM”? Humans are not stat sheets
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:46 AM
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This is just female version of redpill. They value status symbol partners over a genuine connection and love. This is probs due to being seriously insecure and being burned in the past. These people also tend to attract abusers and people who want them for equally shallow reasons so they get what they put out. Having a preference for “younger” or “low n count” or “taller men” is perfectly fine and I have my own but red pillers judge their partners purely on these shallow characteristics and noth…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:44 AM
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Going off what another dude here said you can generally avoid abusive men by finding someone that’s confident and ALSO has good self worth. That’s key here. Low both is incel. High conf and low self esteem is narcissist. Low conf high esteem is just a shy dude and high both is ideal. Abusive people tend to show insecurity and low ability to regulate their emotions. Trauma is also a bad sign of the person hasn’t overcome it. This goes for guys and girls both
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:40 AM
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Yeah fair enough, I guess they saw you dating outside the race and automatically assumed you had a fetish or something
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:25 AM
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Pearl is straight up disgusting with what she says, you can tell she’s faking the whole thing for money and is dead on the inside. I cringe every time she talks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:29 PM
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I agree with all except Tate. He’s actually genuine and has stuff going on in his life other than social media. Obviously he wants to sell his course but I think he actually means what he says and he’s not unreasonable like some of the other dudes who just throw tantrums
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:28 PM
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While I agree their subscribers are losers I don’t think they’re the same crowd subbing. The people who buy onlyfans are pretty leftist and vocally “pro sex work” male feminists. Red pill dudes would rather kill themselves than do something like that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:24 PM
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Yeah dudes like sneako are so irritating. He watched his gf cheat on him and he thinks the world is flat because “governmental lies”. Tate isn’t too much better for that regard but he has some good points and he’s mostly genuine
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:23 PM
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I remember seeing the redpill site a year or so back and it had some solid advice and people not hating on and trying to abuse women it was so good. All the so called “redpillers” on this sub are basically incels. I feel like it’s become normal for incels to hit the gym once and guide themselves as redpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:21 PM
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It’s definitely not good but at least it’s not transactional. Dating someone purely for transactional reasons only money or only looks indicates very poor self worth and a lack of morals
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:16 PM
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Redpill isn’t teaching any of this shit, a lot of manipulative men and “reformed” incels go into redpill and those guys cause trouble and blame it on redpill
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:13 PM
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Bro nobody says looks don’t matter. The saying basically means personality is more important for an LTR. Y’all hesr this shit take it at face value and get mad about it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:11 PM
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This is a terrible question there’s way too much variation left up to imagination. Like how sloppy we talking? How mid? If the gifted person dresses like a hobo obviously it’s not gonna work
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:10 PM
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Unattractive women can get laid but a relationship is another story. Society values a women looks much more than a man’s so consider that. Ugly women have it worse cause they can’t punch up like dudes and attractive women have it better
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:09 PM
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Op were talking in extremes here. Truthfully most attractive women live the same lives as the rest of us. Same for unattractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:07 PM
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This is what a lotta dudes don’t realise. Women have more importance placed on purely looks hence why they can get hookup easier. The downside of this is that ugly women get a massive short end of the stick. Attractive men don’t get flown out by sugar mommies and beoufht onto yachts that’s an attractive woman thing. Likewise unattractive women can’t punch up compensate for looks like ugly men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:05 PM
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This whole “trad” thing is stupid as hell. If you’re not chronically online you can find decent women who aren’t crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:02 PM
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It’s the female equivalent of what op is saying. Both genders do this I don’t get your point
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:00 PM
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I personally dont understand ANY race preference. It just seems like internalised racism on some part
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:59 PM
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I agree but wtf is that analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:58 PM
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You took your pic down brotha, you know I’m right
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 03:22 AM
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Don’t forget, I also exposed your deformed nose and your chadfishing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:53 AM
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Whatever you say man, I said what I said. You ain’t hot and you got insecure and took down the photo. You’re just mad I exposed you for the incel you are
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:34 AM
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Nice try incel, you pay for all your dating apps, you’ve been banned and I could see the bottom of your nose in that pic. Plus you keep posting that 1 bumble thing for validation. You’re probably some 5’6 twerp chadfisjing and pretending you get tail. No “chad” pays for online dating Edit: lmaoooo you even took down that photo of yourself cause I pointed out how “un-chad” you are. No need to get insecure little man. Edit 2: Bro I looked agian and you have like 3 posts on photo cloaking. Now I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:09 AM
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This is exactly what ppd should be. Discussing stats with proper debate not asking the same question 200 times
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 02:13 PM
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Yeah but most don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 02:11 PM
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Yeah if a person is healed they shouldn’t have it held against them. Shit happens in life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:35 PM
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It’s the incel idea that ALL women have sex with these alpha male chads who don’t commit to them and they end up later settling with “beta” dudes for their money. It’s basically the incel reasoning for why unattractive dudes get gf and wives
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:29 PM
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I just looked through your post like you said and saw that you have an ugly jaw and a deformed nose so yeah you definitely catfished those matches and tried to LARP as some chad. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:40 AM
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Well by the logic that only 10 percent get a lot of matches on tinder only 10 percent would be considered “chads”. If there’s more it’s proof that looks aren’t the only factor. And you really believe there’s 10 percent banging ALL the women? They’d just go flr attractive women like the previous comment said instead of going for 5/10s. Also a study done showed 40 percent of women used tinder in their life which includes chicks who just use it to pass time and not actually link up with dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:37 AM
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How stupid are you? Incels are the ones making claims like you. I’m actually in a relationship and you’re whining about women on the internet so yeah imma call cap on all this “slaying” you’re doing lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:29 AM
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Bro the whole afbb thing came from tinder saying 10 percent got 90 percent matches. So yeah not 5 but 10 percent. I don’t believe this theory that these 10 percent are getting with all these girls and messing the market. Not to mention most women don’t even use online dating. As for your second point, you only see the women who complain
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:26 AM
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I’ve heard a lot of conflicting meaning about afbb but I think it’s a stretch to assume there 5 percent chads are seeing all these women and leading them on
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:03 AM
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Haha how am I the incel? You’re the one claiming women are being bombarded by these hypothetical “chads”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:09 AM
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The argument of men having higher esteem than women. I think both genders have it equally as bad but men show it less. Also the whole part of women going for 6’3 rich dudes etc
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:43 AM
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Yeah I agree with that but it’s not based purely on looks like the incels would claim, it’s more than the suave players approach and have game with gives them a shot over every other guy that does nothing. I think af/bb is actually a bit true for a minority of narcissistic women which is why redpill goes on about it so much
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:42 AM
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That’s not what afbb is tho. Generally women don’t sleep with men they wouldn’t otherwise commit to. There is no epidemic of women dating ugly men for their money on a large scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 06:33 AM
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Bro failed stats class
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:49 AM
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Men and women are equally insecure men jsut show it less as it’s a sign of weakness. Insecure people tend to find each other which is how all these abusive relationships happen so yes all the problems in modern dating are due to insecurity of some kind
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:44 AM
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I fully agree with the statement but not all the arguments you made
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:42 AM
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Most of these incel men come from dysfunctional and single mom households. That’s where they pick up this dysfunctional behaviour and become incels. You’re making OPs point
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:40 AM
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Well I mean it’s not about the circumstance itself but the behaviours that the people pick up from them. Most abusers were abused themselves in childhood, most pedos were sexually abused as children. I agree with OPs argument but id say judge by how they are not by their past but I do believe there is a strong correlation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:39 AM
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I mean op isn’t holding anything over their heads he’s making the claim that they’d be suboptimal partners that isn’t anybody’s fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:37 AM
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Generally yes but not because they come from a broken home but because the trauma leads them to be unstable and insecure. It’s possible to overcome but most people do not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:35 AM
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Note this is average and not median. Median is around 4 or 5. If 4 people have bc of 2 and one has bc of 100 the average would become 22
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:31 AM
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Yeah exactly, the incels get high jacking each other off with this af/bb myth. Likely because they haven’t touched grass in 10 years minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:29 AM
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How is free money gonna fix people’s dating issues? That makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 05:25 AM
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Oh look we got mr enlightened blackpiller here. Shouldn’t you be on incel.is or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:58 AM
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I don’t understand this logic. Okay for hookups yeah men have more orgasms but in regards to dating are you trying to say the average woman is better to date than the average man? That’s total bs there’s an equal amount of shitty dates on either gender
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:50 AM
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I honestly feel like it’s getting worse too. Generally women don’t fall into inceldom like men do and fall into the “hate all men” tiktok feminism hookup stuff due to it being easier to date. For men if they behave like that it’s pretty much impossible to hookup so they become incels. I’ve seen a lot of incel rhetoric being spouted in the most random places. Like id be watching an Instagram reel and there’s always like 5 dudes being incels in the comments
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:47 AM
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Look it’s not that I don’t believe you or anything, I don’t know what you’ve done or how you’ve done it. But what’re the odds of you doing cold approach, online dating social circle etc regularly for years and getting absolutely nothing. That’s just not very probable unless you’re literally bottom 5 percent of men and even then. Have you been on dates? Have you gotten laid somewhat in that time?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:02 AM
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Mate if you go in approaching women thinking like that of course you’re gonna fumble it. It does take a level of charisma and confidence to actually get them interested. Conversations are two ways people don’t want to invest if you don’t seem like you will. If you go in with defeat there’s no way you’ll be able to keep composure or be genuine. I’m brown and 5’7 and had plenty of success approaching but I did hundreds of approaches over the year before meeting my gf. You need to have that type of…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:08 AM
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They’re not that objective. In terms of photofeeler you’re rated purely on face, in old other factors also apply such as how interesting and vibrant your whole profile is which is easier said than done. I’ve only been rated a 9 once on photofeeler and would definitely not say that I’m a 9 irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:04 AM
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It’s is not, plenty of ugly dudes get into relationships. Dudes shoot up all the time and it’s not cause they’re loaded with cash
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:45 AM
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That’s online dating tho. I don’t assume you’re picking women from their amazing descriptions either. If you’re only given looks to play off obviously it’s the most important factor. This is the main thing I don’t get about blackpillers they make all these brash claims based on online dating and completely ignore that a male dominated looks oriented environment favours the top men. Like wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:44 PM
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Photofeeler is total bs, I got rated a 9.2 once and a 5.3 other times. You said you’re 6 foot so you have that going for you. I’m 5’7 and I’ve had girls come up and hit on me as well as having success cold approaching. OLD was ass for me tho. Perhaps your social skills aren’t as good as you think. I noticed a lot more attention once I got a big friend group and properly learned how to game and talk. Took a solid 8 months to get decent at tho cause I was borderline autistic at the start
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:39 PM
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