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5

I just smile and tell them I’m still a virgin. I agree though, if you give a low number and it’s obvious it wouldn’t be low then it’ll annoy them.
/r/seduction28/08/22 03:39 PM
1

One lady that I can run (metaphorically) with.
/r/seduction12/08/22 02:45 PM
2

Take yourself on a few dates first, seriously. Explore what you like or what you think you may like. This will get you back in the right headspace of exploring a new date and figuring out what makes her tick. I call it masturdating.
/r/seduction03/07/22 05:10 PM
7

Simply put, someone who has a healthy relationship with themself and loves themself. You’ll know you’ve become that person when you start holding yourself accountable, enjoy being around yourself, set proper (healthy) boundaries, chase your goals with some level of obsession, are a man of your word, are an eager student, etc. You’ll have to learn what being a man truly means to you but also be willing to be flexible with that definition.
/r/seduction03/07/22 05:02 PM
2

Right now, you are trying to be something that you don’t believe is an accurate representation of yourself. You want to talk to someone but you think everyone is going to judge you and think you are weird. You’ve got to unpack all of that and learn how to love yourself, even if it means being weird. As for the extra portion, stop thinking of yourself as a resume. People want to be around people with great energy. Learning to love yourself will bring out that energy. Take yourself on dates, find …
/r/seduction03/07/22 04:54 PM
6

You may tell yourself you aren’t afraid of rejection, but there is a good chance you still are and that is okay (it’s the nature of the ego and everyone has an ego). The way to stop being so scared is to stop putting so much weight into emotions. Whether you are scared or not doesn’t change the action you want to perform. Perform the action confident or perform the action scared…but definitely perform the action regardless. There is a few seconds of a window from when you think about doing somet…
/r/seduction03/07/22 04:41 PM
1

He is riding that line of plausible deniability. Seems like he’s trying to let you know he’s interested in subtle ways but I doubt he’ll make a move. If you want him, just be straight up and ask him to a bar or something you like to do. Then you’ll know.
/r/seduction03/07/22 04:37 PM
1

Maybe you did, maybe you didn’t. I would look at his actions more than what you hear from other people. If he makes excuses to be around you (good sign) vs he makes excuses to get away from you (not so good sign).
/r/seduction03/07/22 04:35 PM
3

This is bro science. She won’t magically lose interest in you because you’ve expressed your feelings first. In your case, it seems like they weren’t interested in anything but fwb.
/r/seduction25/06/22 11:17 AM
1

Are you super serious though?
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:47 AM
2

“You’re dead longer than your alive” is great, thought provoking even. I’m digging the vibe. Once someone realizes that they don’t need anyone else to validate or provide for them, the sky is the limit. This realization goes hand in hand with just doing it, as you said.
/r/seduction31/03/22 11:34 AM
2

You dont…and why would you? It’s human nature to size people up before you know them and in my experience, it’s never been a disservice to me if a girl starts an interaction thinking I’m a player. As long as your actions and intentions are completely sincere, you’ve got nothing to worry about.
/r/seduction09/03/22 05:47 PM
4

Loving the comments. Everything can be a positive lesson if you’re open to the idea and your ego is in check.
/r/seduction09/03/22 05:26 PM
1

100%
/r/seduction31/12/21 12:39 AM
6

Saying a high body count is good social proof is putting the cart before the horse. What you currently have is a results based mindset. The issue with that is your confidence and happiness revolves around the result of an action that is not fully in your control, not the action itself. This can create an imbalance/inconsistency. Work backwards from the result. Which actions get people laid that is in our direct control? Proper hygiene/grooming, being physically and mentally fit, cultivating a tr…
/r/seduction01/09/21 12:18 PM
2

Based on what you said, I’d wait till you see her.
/r/seduction31/08/21 06:00 PM
2

I’ve always been big, but gotten the most attention around 10% bf, where the veins are popping.
/r/seduction26/08/21 05:54 PM
4

We need more positivity around here fam, thanks. FDS is just a different side of the same coin. At they end of the day it all boils down to being wanted. When people don’t feel wanted, they act like the poster above.
/r/seduction25/08/21 12:28 PM
1

All of the power is a bit of a stretch. While I’ll agree the power dynamic has shifted in terms of hooking up, it’s still very much the same in terms of selection.
/r/seduction24/08/21 03:32 PM
1

We’d first have to agree on what an abundance mindset is. To me, having this mindset means your values and priorities are in proper alignment. One girl turning you don’t won’t change anything because relationships are just one part of your multifaceted life. Someone with an abundance mentality is working on improving themselves and others around them, becoming the best version of themselves. Regardless of your gender, this is sexy. So while the dynamic has shifted and it’s easier for women to ge…
/r/seduction24/08/21 03:24 PM
2

Forums should be supplemental to actually getting out there and living life, I’m sure we can agree to that. Some of these guys may be incels, sure. But if putting people down who are already at their lowest makes you feel better, you may want to get help. You’d be surprised how a little bit of positivity and encouragement can help people get out of a rut and show them that they don’t have to be an incel or to hate women. Anyways, unless you actually have something meaningful to say that progress…
/r/seduction24/08/21 03:00 PM
2

That makes a lot of sense actually. You prowl around here to put down people so you feel better about yourself. Everyone here is trying to find their way in life, some have a lot of experience and a good bit of them don’t. If all you can do is be negative to make yourself feel better, is that something to be proud of?
/r/seduction24/08/21 02:52 PM
2

If that’s your perspective, I’m sure you have room for improvement.
/r/seduction24/08/21 02:43 PM
2

You can make whatever conclusions you want about me, but my point stands.
/r/seduction24/08/21 02:39 PM
1

The irony is your comments say more about you than anything.
/r/seduction24/08/21 02:35 PM
1

Love yourself and lead by example.
/r/seduction17/08/21 04:34 PM
1

Being present in the moment. Sounds more simple than it is, I know. But being able to hone in on the conversation and not how you are feeling or what’s going on, is a huge turn on. With that, being able to take the conversation to a deeper level. Responding with a question that makes her think and elicits emotions are golden. You want to get her excited to talk about herself, not feel like she is in an interview.
/r/seduction10/08/21 08:02 PM
4

A girl is not going to magically want a relationship with you simply because you waited a day or two to have sex. There is clearly a disconnect here and I recommend you take a step back and do some introspection. Take account for what you truly want (is it hookups or something meaningful) and see if that is the image you’re giving off through what you say, but also your actions. Then, take account for if whatever it is you truly want is coming off to strong. You’re clearly checking off some boxe…
/r/seduction08/08/21 11:44 AM
2

Hey man whatever you do, just own it. Buy it with confidence, drive it with confidence, talk about it with confidence.
/r/seduction03/08/21 07:40 PM
1

Hey man, if you don’t feel like you have support systems then honestly that’s on you. You should be seeking out a community of strong men that support support each other. Strong, successful men aren’t what you are describing, they have outlets to get wise and direct council.
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:20 PM
1

Everything in moderation, friend. It’s good to mix those steps in but it is not to be used as a rule for every encounter/question. You should want someone to get to know the real you, so you should open up when she asks you great questions. On the other hand, if she asks me how many women I’ve slept with, she’s going to get a story about how the pope asked the same question and it didn’t lead to anything. In regards to being available, it comes down to structure. You want to fill your day with t…
/r/seduction22/07/21 12:26 PM
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Doesn’t work every time, but it works. It’s not always about the 1000s of other guys worshiping her if the one guy she’s attracted to shows her that he doesn’t need to play her game and he displays value.
/r/seduction16/07/21 01:39 PM
0

Depends on what you are looking for, a relationship or a hookup. If it’s the former, Body count isn’t a good indicator for me as much as the thrill of the chase is. If a girl is overly sexual right off the bat, I just assume she is like that to most guys as well. The whole quality vs quantity. If it’s a hookup then none of it really matters, just be safe.
/r/seduction25/06/21 12:53 PM
1

For me, genuine curiosity is a big plus. Asking questions that get down to the why are great. Always a turn on when you can feel that the person wants to know the real you and it doesn’t feel like a song & dance. As far as lack of self esteem, I’d say so long as it doesn’t manifest itself in a consistently negative way then it isn’t a big deal.
/r/seduction25/04/21 03:29 AM
7

It’s not a black and white situation. You can be dominant in some areas and lacking dominance in other areas. Focusing on being dominant is useless though. If you want to be dominant, instead take a more deliberate approach to things in life. Don’t like being a pushover? Go read self help books on the topic or find hobbies that build confidence for you.
/r/seduction02/04/21 09:25 PM
1

That is too funny, didn’t know there was a sub for it. I’ll have to check it out sometime.
/r/seduction12/03/21 08:03 PM
7

I wouldn’t mind because the only way we’d be dating is if she didn’t mind either. I’ve dated older women that made a lot more than me it wasn’t an issue. I do have a friend who is married and they bicker about it a lot, but he doesn’t bring much else to the table at the moment.
/r/seduction12/03/21 07:00 PM
3

There are very little, if any, pros to doing it online if you are able to do it in person. You want to create excitement with her, that is far easier to do in person and will lay the ground work for the actual date
/r/seduction09/03/21 02:46 PM
2

No, do it in person.
/r/seduction09/03/21 02:37 PM
2

Yeah that’s a nice height. I’m 6’4” and have dated some as tall as you and they’ve all said the same thing, that they don’t want to feel like they are the stronger of the two. Makes sense to me.
/r/seduction18/07/20 06:42 PM
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Agreed. It’s not something that a girl has talked to me on the first few dates about but it eventually gets brought up that it’s a huge selling point for them feeling safe (and small) next to me.
/r/seduction18/07/20 01:21 PM
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What he offered people to do takes minimal effort. I can assure you that you aren’t too busy to send a snap every few months to a group of women. You make it sound like you are sitting at the kitchen table just waiting for a reply lol.
/r/seduction30/06/20 07:20 PM
5

100% agree
/r/seduction24/06/20 12:51 PM
3

Did you reverse image search the pics? Probably a dude tbh. I’m always specific about how I want them to take a pic, helps weed out the fake people.
/r/seduction01/04/20 11:09 AM
3

These guys are gonna come up with excuses until they put in the hardwork.
/r/seduction29/03/20 10:27 PM
0

You must be dealing with bottom of the barrel, low energy, attractive guys.
/r/seduction10/03/20 10:16 PM
0

This is in no way close to how it works in the real world.
/r/seduction08/03/20 07:13 PM
2

You look like one of my exes
/r/seduction14/08/19 12:47 PM
1

Yeah man, chin up. You're going to have plenty more of these situations throughout your life but it makes you stronger. Go into these situations with zero expectations, knowing that whatever happens you'll be fine and move onto the next one... And you'll be fine.
/r/seduction13/08/19 02:51 PM
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She probably met up with an ex or something. I wouldnt look into it man, some people just vibe better with different people. It's nothing against you, I'm sure you'll find someone that you vibe with more than her then you'll understand.
/r/seduction13/08/19 02:43 PM
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I think a lot of people confuse confidence for a distorted idea of alpha-ness. I think being assertive with your feelings and intentions can go a long way for anyone, as well as cultivating a solid self-confidence. With that being said, I agree with you. I see so many people take what I said to the next level and try to change who they are, and pick up hobbies specifically to appeal to women. They seem less happy because of it, instead of building on their strengths and interests (which in the e…
/r/seduction26/06/19 01:20 PM
3

For number 2, I like saying things like "that's unfortunate, I like my women bold"
/r/seduction25/05/19 10:26 AM
6

Short answer: sex does not compare to porn. It's a great feeling especially when you perform well. Having said that, I look back to all the time I wasted on women when I could have been furthering my businesses. So yes, sex is great but you should pursue your interests in life first and let the sex fall into place.
/r/seduction15/05/19 03:22 AM
14

Hey man, 27 is just scratching the tip of the iceberg for your prime. You have plenty of time to make mistakes and have triumphs. You've got a bright future ahead of you if you stay headstrong and use every experience as a lesson. You won't win them all, but you will make the most progress based on how quickly you can adapt from each interaction. I believe in you.
/r/seduction13/05/19 04:43 AM
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Maybe you just became aware of how women perceive you or you matured in a way that made you more appealing. We all start at different times and I'll wish you my luck, but the point I was making is that it largely doesn't have to do with luck... It really boils down to you putting yourself out there and getting both rejected and having success. Keep it up bro.
/r/seduction13/05/19 03:32 AM
117

Hey bro, keep getting that experience. The more you keep practicing the less awkward it will be, I promise. I'm not going to wish you luck, you don't need it. Keep on practicing
/r/seduction13/05/19 02:54 AM
2

Lol
/r/seduction08/05/19 04:36 PM
21

You look good bro. May be how you approaching them. Attractive women get told all day how attractive or friendly they seem, find ways to differentiate yourself.
/r/seduction08/05/19 04:35 PM
1

I don't even need to know what program you're talking about to know that any of it isn't worth it. Nothing will replace going out and getting experience
/r/seduction30/04/19 05:49 AM
0

Do you actually think he gets around with anyone? Look at the post history, it's all a facade.
/r/seduction16/04/19 01:20 PM
1

Bro you need to look in the mirror, the shit you are posting is top cringe.
/r/seduction15/04/19 04:27 PM
3

Hey just being a straight shooter with you, comes off as if you have ulterior motives.
/r/seduction13/04/19 07:07 PM
4

Your post history shows a lack of confidence, mate.
/r/seduction13/04/19 07:04 PM
1

Yes of course. All that matters is you going out and getting experience. You'll get no's and yes's. But if you keep it up you'll be a pro
/r/seduction23/02/19 09:54 PM
5

Unless you're 7'4" you should just give up on seduction
/r/seduction23/02/19 07:40 PM
1

I'm not her so I can't say for certain. It would probably create uncertainty between you too. Just keep an eye on their behavior towards each other and also her behavior with you from here on out.
/r/seduction22/01/19 01:35 AM
2

If she hasn't given you a reason to worry then I wouldn't mind.
/r/seduction21/01/19 10:08 PM
1

Why not be a normal person and be both?
/r/seduction16/01/19 08:54 PM
3

Seems like he was excited after hooking up with you, which is why he sent you photos. Based on your reaction to the photos maybe he thinks you aren't interested as much as him. Reach out to him if you are.
/r/seduction14/01/19 04:45 PM
3

Jokes aside, I've been interested in those programs and am looking to buy them all. I'll let you know my progress when I'm done with them
/r/seduction27/12/18 05:41 PM
6

The "Todd licks dudes butthole like a god" program
/r/seduction27/12/18 05:08 PM
2

Yuuup. "yeah but you like it" and a hundred of other responses would've worked.
/r/seduction27/12/18 04:52 PM
3

Some people think you should only text to set plans. I think it depends on the girl. I'm currently talking to one that loves witty banter and she's responding within a few minutes. Other girls it can be seen as a turn off, gauge how the conversation is going to find out. Are they actively engaging in the conversation and clearly want it to continue? Are you having fun and do you think they are? I mix it up, mostly on accident. Sometimes I won't text for a few hours while other times I'll text ba…
/r/seduction11/12/18 08:57 PM
1

It's easy for me to get quality, but I've not had a fivesome
/r/seduction10/12/18 03:04 AM
1

4 ugly girls
/r/seduction09/12/18 06:37 PM
1

Besides staying in shape and making sure your cardio is on point.. It comes down to your personality type, you've gotta let that shine. I'm dominant with them, a lot of picking up, choking, pinning and hair pulling... But it's not out of sync, there is passion in it. This may be unorthodox, but you can go back to the drawing board and ask a few for critique. One of my best friends helped me refine my tongue game and its been a godsend. Do you find yourself thinking too much during sex? You could…
/r/seduction08/12/18 07:42 PM
1

May come off as harsh but have you considered you may need to step up your bed game? If you fuck a girl right, regardless of what she's looking for... She will come back.
/r/seduction08/12/18 07:10 PM
1

If that's what you want to convince yourself, sure.
/r/seduction07/12/18 08:00 AM
1

She probably found someone better
/r/seduction06/12/18 06:37 PM
2

I think it helps guys like us who have never had issues with getting laid (or at least weren't afraid to fail, learn, and try again), it gives us a forum to bounce ideas and fun stories. But for guys who are just breaking into the game, I notice that they get information overload and want "perfect lines" and scenarios instead of going out there and learning through trial and error.
/r/seduction05/12/18 06:41 PM
2

If you felt like y'all connected, why not give it another go? I'd just ask her on another date and not think much of it. I kissed a girl on a date after I walked her to her car, It felt extremely odd. I walked a few blocks tossing it up as a loss. She texted me later that night saying she had an amazing time and got really nervous for the kiss but wanted that. Point is, you can recover
/r/seduction02/12/18 06:16 AM
1

Curious, do you not have any friends? My group had a guy that talks a lot like you and he didn't last long in social circles. Most of us are doing well but don't feel the need to flaunt it... Something to consider mate
/r/seduction29/11/18 05:14 PM
1

I'm always upfront about my intentions, it scares some off that are looking to settle down but the ones who stick around are hooked. I also try to text them as little as possible from the beginning. Btw I think the 99+ is bugged, a lot of us have had that since the beginning and it doesn't go away no matter how many times you swipe
/r/seduction29/11/18 02:19 PM
7

If you have to ask in that situation, not only would you be a dbag but you'd also fail and look like an idiot
/r/seduction23/11/18 09:23 PM
2

I wasn't referring to you, I was talking about the guy who called you a beta. Very easy to see right through people like that who go around belittling others instead of building them up.
/r/seduction19/11/18 07:14 PM
3

If you haven't been in a situation where a girl has gone with a different guy, then you're either playing it safe with ugly chicks or have little experience... Based on your comment I have a good idea of which one it is.
/r/seduction19/11/18 07:08 PM
3

You can be super attractive and I promise you this will still happen. Some people just click better with certain people. The way you want to go about it is ideal, I left a girl on a positive note and she came back into my life a few months later as a fwb.
/r/seduction19/11/18 06:32 PM
6

"best of luck" Two things: she's already made up her mind and most likely had nothing to do with you. Sometimes you meet someone you really click with which sounds like what she did. Best thing you can do is leave the friendship on a good note and maybe one day she'll come back, but you don't care because you've moved on to different women.
/r/seduction19/11/18 06:27 PM
1

Players learned how to be players through trial and error. Stop over thinking it, don't seem to needy, and go shoot your shot.
/r/seduction16/11/18 09:23 PM
1

Certainly. My best friend went through this for around a year, he obsessed over it. Good comments would reassure him while one bad comment would derail him for a day. He tried a bunch of different hobbies, found one he liked and dedicated himself to it. He's happier than ever and women SMELL that.
/r/seduction15/11/18 05:43 PM
12

Don't go down this road, I've seen this too much. Develop self love and it will all fall into place
/r/seduction15/11/18 05:22 PM
1

They are all the women you just described. Sometimes it's just asking for help or a spot on an exercise, other times they see me having fun and will ask for coffee or drinks. But I've never had someone come up and ask to fuck. I attribute it mostly to making it a point to have fun in the gym, I know the owner which in turn introduced me to all the trainers and it snowballed from there. Online dating is interesting, I get a lot of matches but it's such a numbers game.. It's so flakey. But maybe t…
/r/seduction13/11/18 01:59 PM
1

Most of the time it's from a friend telling me that their friend wants to get to know me, as I'm too dumb to notice the signals. I get approached the most when I'm alone at the gym. I prefer hanging out with my friend groups that are couples as rolling with single dudes usually devolves into player hating.
/r/seduction13/11/18 03:51 AM
2

I prefer both. Sometimes i enjoy a woman that wants to be manhandled, other times i enjoy a woman that prefers a wrestling match. Long term, I'd rather date a girl that matches my wavelength and motivates me instead of wanting to lay in bed all day.
/r/seduction06/11/18 05:36 PM
1

Make up your mind bro, in the post you deleted you said 10 was your max...
/r/seduction04/11/18 05:33 AM
3

Oh yes humble brag all over my face daddy, what an alpha!
/r/seduction03/11/18 09:09 PM
2

Oh wowee thanks mr
/r/seduction03/11/18 08:37 PM
1

Where do you stick peepee
/r/seduction03/11/18 08:35 PM
6

Anything rehearsed makes you look like a dork. Mindset strategies are important but i could do without all the canned lines
/r/seduction24/10/18 05:52 PM
12

No.
/r/seduction17/10/18 12:57 PM
1

Why? Figure out what you want then go after it, no use pussy-footing about it
/r/seduction10/10/18 06:38 PM
6

I had some friends who were God awful with women and even they got laid in college.
/r/seduction05/10/18 12:25 PM
1

Go get your nut. I guarantee you'll scare a girl away if you pull a "love at first fuck." stop trying to force it man,
/r/seduction04/10/18 07:35 PM
0

Go to gaming conventions, there are hot girls who share the same hobbies as you.
/r/seduction09/09/18 05:32 PM
1

I'm over 100 women and i haven't had any problems. Check it out before you go down and i guess don't go for the girls that give you signs of hoeing, since its something that is worrying you
/r/seduction27/08/18 02:40 AM
1

Everytime but i personally enjoy it, i know some guys who hate doing that for their hookups
/r/seduction27/08/18 12:18 AM
2

You can either try and find out for yourself, then be happy with your new found confidence regardless of if you pull a bunch of women or a few.... Or you can grow old with regret and always wonder what life would be like if you had put in the effort. Whichever path you decide to take, it's your decision and youve gotta live with it.
/r/seduction24/08/18 05:20 PM
4

I've lost count since tinder became main stream, it's in the hundreds. What a time to be alive, makes for great conversation for older, raunchier clients/coworkers; they are truly fascinated by how times have changed and how easy it is, most of them will show up to your house for the first time meeting from just small chit chat. I'll check it out
/r/seduction15/08/18 09:44 PM
6

Ask her if she wants to grab a beer or a coffee, whichever you think is more appropriate. Explicitly saying "do you want to go out on a date" may spook her into not coming to your classes, so I'd keep it casual.
/r/seduction14/08/18 04:00 PM
2

Yeah that's true, wasn't gonna list 'em all. Yes, i have a friend who got it in college but hasn't had any sign of the herpes on years. Tricky stuff
/r/seduction10/08/18 02:16 PM
13

No problem, it's good that you caught it early as it'll save you some pain/discomfort.
/r/seduction10/08/18 01:01 PM
24

It will go away completely with the meds they give you. Only herpes stays with you
/r/seduction10/08/18 12:54 PM
30

It's not serious anymore, it can be cured easily. Just go to the doc and you'll be fine.
/r/seduction10/08/18 12:49 PM
3

They are most likely swiping left on you because it looks like you aren't over her and don't want the baggage
/r/seduction09/08/18 11:55 PM
-6

Tinder.
/r/seduction06/08/18 07:12 PM
7

Tinder/bumble and put that in your bio. I see plenty of girls with that in their bio. Hinge is also great, they have an option to list if you drink or not.
/r/seduction31/07/18 04:41 PM
1

T&A? For the most part, yes; it's with like-minded women, which there are plenty of and both parties are aware of intentions. Having said that, some of them I'll hang out with or go on the occasionally casual date, so it's not always boom-bang-gone.
/r/seduction31/07/18 04:34 PM
2

If a girl shows any positive emotion in a date, it's a death wish.
/r/seduction30/07/18 10:41 PM
5

Would you go on a second date with a girl if you weren't interested in her?
/r/seduction30/07/18 05:46 PM
13

Yes, don't even get me started about when they have sex with you on the first date, because that's even worse than a second date.
/r/seduction30/07/18 05:33 PM
19

Every girl that has ever gone on an immediate second date with me always starts the date off with: "I'm actually not interested in you, i just wanted to block off one of my weekend nights with you because im being nice." Do not take the second date, it's a trap.
/r/seduction30/07/18 05:24 PM
6

Swallow your ego and move back with your parents till you get back on your feet.
/r/seduction26/07/18 08:25 PM
3

Take it slowly, don't try to unpack everything in one night. Next time you feel overwhelmed, focus on your breathing. Elliot Hulse has some good YouTube videos about breathing you could check out. Hope it helps, mate!
/r/seduction25/07/18 09:11 PM
2

I'm not a psychologist so take what i say with a grain of salt. It sounds like you have some insecurities that you need to unpack and address. Try to figure out why you are feeling those ways and what triggers them. The better you get at that (this is gonna sound cheesy), the more you'll love yourself, and those voices will get quieter.
/r/seduction25/07/18 09:03 PM
3

It's not about caring about other people less, it's all about caring about yourself more.
/r/seduction25/07/18 08:57 PM
5

Cringe
/r/seduction24/07/18 09:01 PM
3

They got a headstart on experience while you were being introverted, keep doing what you're doing and you will get there; the more you game, the more comfortable you'll be in most scenarios.
/r/seduction24/07/18 04:00 AM
10

I yelled to the girls, who's gonna skinny dip with me?! Took my shorts off and a few joined, once they joined everyone joined.
/r/seduction22/07/18 01:39 AM
8

I'd hate to feel that threatened by "competition"
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 12:08 PM
1

Absolutely. I've had many girls ghost me that eventually come back. Girls are bombarded with guys double/triple texting them and trying hard, but if you show that it doesn't affect you and you have options, you are more attractive.
/r/seduction18/07/18 04:15 PM
1

Exactly. If you think game will make every girl into you then you simply haven't had enough experience. That's why you don't sweat the rejection and its always on to the next one.
/r/seduction18/07/18 04:09 PM
12

Every date I've been on from tinder, the girl has always done her social media homework on me... It truly is a resumè.
/r/seduction18/07/18 02:59 AM
9

Well there's your answer then
/r/seduction18/07/18 02:15 AM
6

Lol. Do you want to pursue her?
/r/seduction18/07/18 01:51 AM
1

Word
/r/seduction17/07/18 11:06 PM
7

(smiles that he is walking away and not giving her a hard time)jokes aside, keep it up man it's a numbers game.
/r/seduction17/07/18 10:15 PM
2

I'm a business owner chases my dreams. If i don't seduce/hook up regularly then my stress goes up from work. It's a regulator and a challenge, but never something that takes precedent over my work. And no, never chase.
/r/seduction17/07/18 08:15 PM
1

Be mysterious. I'm willing to bet the way you are humble bragging on Reddit is the same way you are answering when they ask. Think of all the questions they've asked you that you've just straight up answered, think of ways you can tease them and not completely answer the question. Women love to try and figure a guy out, but if you give them all the info upfront there is no game left to play. Have fun with it though, because if you then chances are they will too. Example: "how do you already have…
/r/seduction15/07/18 07:59 PM
6

What they are saying is that you bore them too much in the sexual department and they aren't turned on... They see you as a provider not an exciting fling. Fortunately, that's something you can fix.
/r/seduction15/07/18 07:45 PM
4

Your spirit animal is the flounder.
/r/seduction13/07/18 03:44 AM
31

In your opinion, how do you feel like your comment is even the least bit constructive?
/r/seduction12/07/18 05:39 PM
1

How does that play out when y'all are at dinner and the check comes? I like paying but I'm gas tbh your comment.
/r/seduction11/07/18 09:17 PM
7

Doesn't matter.
/r/seduction11/07/18 05:15 PM
4

No I'm referring to if you've already hooked up with them in the past. The teasing should always be there.
/r/seduction11/07/18 05:11 PM
7

They thought it was sexy. But if it's the first time you're having sex with a girl I wouldnt be like "hey do you wanna go fuck in my car?" take her out and escalate, let the date be one big tease, then make your move. It's definitely easier to pull of if you already have a sexual past with them.
/r/seduction11/07/18 05:09 PM
7

I used to bang in the back of my car in creative locations.
/r/seduction11/07/18 05:04 PM
89

Lol she probably told her family about you and they freaked out.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 09:02 PM
1

Pick out something interesting in their profile and ask/comment about it (in a flirty manner of possible). Or a generic, witty pick up line
/r/seduction07/07/18 04:18 PM
1

Depends. I use it almost exclusively now and its worked wonders, I've saved a lot of money too. A bit tougher to pull 9-10's vs going out but it saves a lot of time.
/r/seduction07/07/18 03:23 PM
1

I've had relationships with two older women this year (I'm 26, one was 37 and the other was 45). They both started on tinder and they both tried playing the age card on me but I shook it off. Main thing is (besides your looks of course) being mature for your age, they don't want to date a boy.
/r/seduction30/06/18 02:29 AM
3

Stop caring what they think. I get called an asshole and a dick and I'll just tell them laughingly that they are right. Don't try to defend or explain yourself, just go with the flow.
/r/seduction30/06/18 01:55 AM
1

The one that you write yourself through trial and error.
/r/seduction25/06/18 03:18 PM
1

Word
/r/seduction24/06/18 01:06 PM
15

Next time she asks how big your dick is, tell her she can measure it herself upstairs.
/r/seduction24/06/18 12:50 PM
1

"those would look great on you for church on Sunday"
/r/seduction22/06/18 03:57 PM
3

It's a rip off. Nothing will teach you better then experiences and failure
/r/seduction19/06/18 07:10 PM
1

Hard to say, man; I know very little about either of you. Some women can be very nervous meeting someone for the first time, might be why she's offering a group date. If it truly bothers you, just decline that day and ask for coffee a day or two later. I would take the double date though, sounds like a great opportunity as you have two other people keeping the flow of conversation going.
/r/seduction18/06/18 10:29 PM
3

She would not be triple or quadruple texting you if she wasn't interested. If someone tells you they want to but can't till next week... Believe them. Some weeks it's just hellish and I can't meet with a girl, just how it works out sometime.
/r/seduction18/06/18 10:13 PM
9

Sounds like you're bad at reading her.
/r/seduction18/06/18 09:59 PM
2

Give it time to see if it goes away with her. If it doesn't go away have a talk with her about it before you sleep around. She'll respect you a hell of a lot more as a man if you do. I talked to an ex about it 3 months into the relationship, she responded that she felt bad because she had been having thoughts about women. We ended up staying as friends and bringing another girl into the mix. Honesty pays!
/r/seduction18/06/18 09:30 PM
3

This is the same as most men's thinking, since the beginning of time. Even guys that are married wonder how much they'd be cleaning up if they are single. Just gotta find one that has the values youre looking for and ride it.
/r/seduction18/06/18 09:24 PM
5

When girls act like that, they move further away from the top of the list of women I give my attention too. Move onto the next one and she'll come back eventually.
/r/seduction18/06/18 04:38 PM
5

Definitely not.
/r/seduction17/06/18 04:26 PM
2

I had that happen once. Girl had been dating a guy for 5 years and hadn't gotten over him, I knew that going into the FWB. She felt bad but I told her "I get it, ive been there with an ex before too. Good luck with it." One drunken night a few months later, she hit me up and we resumed our FWB for a few months till she wanted to be monogamous. Point is, just end it on great terms and you never know what could happen in the future.
/r/seduction15/06/18 06:25 PM
1

Ive done it once but the girl kept staring at me, so I knew. I'm not a fan of it, I'm there to get in and get out. My buddy used to work at the gym though and he would clean house, his personality is very helpful so it's not like he would ever walk up to them like "how you doin"
/r/seduction15/06/18 11:24 AM
7

If you're fit, there are a ton of pool party concerts which are way too easy to pick up hot women at. Every girl I've approached there was looking to get laid.
/r/seduction14/06/18 07:19 PM
2

A good date.
/r/seduction08/06/18 05:48 PM
3

As far as I know she is single without any kids, she hasn't brought them up and they aren't on her social media. Yes she is sexy, looks 30 for her age. She seems mature, has a high profile government job. So far she seems like a great catch.
/r/seduction08/06/18 05:43 PM
2

Oh boy, the assumptions are strong with you LOL I thought we were having good banter but you seem particularly triggered by it. I am whatever you think I am, buddy!
/r/seduction08/06/18 04:31 PM
17

Exactly! These boys in this thread keep talking about how you're letting her win if you hookup with her. Wtf? I'm getting my nut and so is she, we both go our separate ways, I get to fuck without commitment and your telling me I lost? Lol
/r/seduction08/06/18 03:50 PM
3

Whether or not I make some sort of impact on her means nothing though haha and I'm only speaking from experienced, having pumped and dumped girls like this that will call me numerous times in a night and ask what's wrong. Again, this is all from experience; where are you speaking from? Oh I care what some women think, but never if it's a one night stand. It takes a lot of time for me to invest in a girl like that.
/r/seduction08/06/18 03:45 PM
11

Hmm okay. So reread what I said and then ask yourself how does your comment relate to anything I said. I don't think you're grasping what I'm telling you: whether or not she gives a rat's ass if I ghost her is beyond my scope of thinking, I could care less because I too am onto the next one. You're grasping at straws with your irony and its evident you care wayyyy too much about what women think of you.
/r/seduction08/06/18 03:17 PM
11

Seems like you're putting a lot of stock into what other people think, guess that's why we won't agree on this. I could care less what she thinks, I'd pump and dump and leave her wondering what she did wrong to not warrant more attention from me. Like I said, to each their own!
/r/seduction08/06/18 02:32 PM
10

Won? Won what? I'm getting my nut then ghosting, not trying to wife her up lol
/r/seduction08/06/18 02:21 PM
-54

Calls everyone thirsty. Claims there's plenty of easy fucks out there. Lol bro
/r/seduction08/06/18 05:54 AM
110

Honestly, deep down I'm a die hard romantic but the sex is so easy rn that I don't want to hurt anyone else. So I'm getting it out of my system. Easy sex for 500, alex
/r/seduction08/06/18 05:17 AM
247

To each their own. I would have fucked her silly then dropped her like a bad habit.
/r/seduction08/06/18 04:52 AM
3

"hey I appreciate you asking me out but I'm not interested." if he pushes that you lead him on, I personally wouldn't respond.
/r/seduction07/06/18 09:17 PM
1

Why have you been postponing and wanting to say no? Will help in giving you advice
/r/seduction07/06/18 09:12 PM
3

The only time a threesome has gone bad for me is if it's with someone who really likes you. She got jealous because she thought I liked the other girl more and started crying during. My advice is if you are talking to one of them, let her pick or at least be involved in the decision of who your 3rd is. The rest doesn't matter as long as their sexual attraction between the two.
/r/seduction03/06/18 12:59 PM
7

No but I can tell you this, putting yourself out there with the chance of failing will be your best mentor. Someone can tell you things to say, but you will only develop the ability to read a situation and settle into your own kind of game if you keep trying with women. You're going to fail sometimes, just man up and embrace it.
/r/seduction01/06/18 10:47 PM
5

I feel like he's just trying to get a bunch of views on his shitty pics.
/r/seduction01/06/18 01:06 PM
0

The only thing i won't give away is my go to tinder line that i made up and works like a charm. Everything else i am happy to share, i love seeing others succeed. I would not look at it as a competition though but more like this: I'm a great catch for a lot of women, but there will be women i don't click with. There will be women that pick a different guy over me. If i helped someone break out of their shell and they got a woman i was going after, then good. I feel like it would be inevitable an…
/r/seduction31/05/18 04:06 AM
43

I love cheap dates. This past year I've just had tinder girls come over to my place, they usually bring their own alcohol. I've saved so much money (and time) this year screening them like this.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 04:06 PM
5

We all got to where we are by trial and error. Do what you feel is comfortable and afterwards reflect on the outcome.
/r/seduction23/05/18 08:27 PM
1

Broncos gonna buck
/r/seduction22/05/18 10:46 PM
3

Talk to everybody. Have fun. Girls see you having fun and they'll want to have fun with you.
/r/seduction19/05/18 09:06 PM
5

Confidence, cleanliness, and how in shape you are.
/r/seduction19/05/18 12:45 PM
1

So don't ask for their number? You don't need a number to set up a date.
/r/seduction13/05/18 11:47 PM
42

Lol yeah all the boys saying women aren't the prize while they look in the mirror saying "I'm the prize" My best flings have been a mutual push and pull.
/r/seduction12/05/18 06:12 PM
3

I had a huge group of friends in college, from dorm mates to my sports team to classmates. I got along with a lot of people. I can count on two hands how many people from college that i keep up with. You may get called creep, you may get called dreamy.. Most of the people gossiping don't even know themselves, mate. And whatever opinions they had will fade. Just get after it so you don't look back and wish you did.
/r/seduction12/05/18 04:56 AM
1

Say you what you need to say, ask them if theres something you can do to ease the pain (only if you are prepared to actually go through with it). Finally, be prepared to give them as much space as they need.
/r/seduction11/05/18 03:12 AM
1

I've always been on the nature to not feed into people like that. They want a reaction out of you, which they got. But when i laugh with them and show them i don't give a fuck what they think, all of their ammo is gone. In this day and age, it's never worth it to get physical; youll probably win the fight but the legal repercussions will fuck you. Smile, say something witty if you need, pat 'em on the back and find some uplifting people.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 01:05 AM
-1

Nah it's been better than ever. Depending on where you live, you might be on the tail end of what's around you. Downvoted because they don't want to see you doin well.
/r/seduction06/05/18 02:48 AM
3

Lol just let him be a lesson for all the other lads.
/r/seduction05/05/18 04:41 PM
35

Nah, based on your post I'm not surprised you don't get any attention from women. Not how you should go about it, mate.
/r/seduction05/05/18 04:13 PM
33

No surprise here.
/r/seduction05/05/18 03:47 PM
1

I tell my clients they can contact me whenever, as well. I'm willing to bet she hasn't put any thought into this situation and is just doing her job. Best to move on, mate.
/r/seduction05/05/18 01:54 PM
5

For the people downvoting, I'm genuinely curious, why? Someone provided their honest opinion, which we need more of.
/r/seduction04/05/18 09:03 PM
2

Yes. One of my best friends was ways the chubby kid in school, he dedicated himself to the gym and he actually had a chiseled jaw line and cheek bones.
/r/seduction04/05/18 09:01 PM
2

Nah. Right after college i went from being jacked with a six pack to the dad bod. It didn't slow me down with women but i did notice they got a lot more turned on when i was fit (i was also more turned on when i was fit)
/r/seduction04/05/18 09:00 PM
2

Are you going to be salty if you pay and nothing comes of it? If so, you probably shouldn't. I prefer to pay, i like the way it makes me feel.
/r/seduction04/05/18 08:44 PM
3

I've blocked and reported every single time. Hopefully my comment will be the deciding factor, if not, oh well.
/r/seduction04/05/18 05:29 PM
2

You look good, mate. You'll definitely do well with her. If you don't take my advice as gospel, then you have severe psychological issues and need to see a therapist. Go have fun and stop spamming this subreddit.
/r/seduction04/05/18 05:27 PM
2

"hey im visiting town and was wondering if you'd like to show me around."
/r/seduction04/05/18 03:32 PM
11

Yeah it was never a problem, a lot of car sex too and the occasional after hours office hookup. Just make sure they get the vibe that its a temporary situation for you.
/r/seduction03/05/18 05:33 PM
22

Hey I'm in between moves this month, care if we chill at your place?
/r/seduction03/05/18 05:30 PM
5

Hard to say without knowing the situation but it's either a.) she sees you as a friend.. Or b.) she thinks you're a man whore and doesn't want to get attached and get hurt.
/r/seduction03/05/18 01:42 AM
5

No. In the time it takes you to text her that, you could have checked your schedule. If you're really bent on playing hard to get, just tell her you've made plans that day and ask her when she's free next. Piece of advice though, if you tell her no i doubt she'd have trouble finding someone else to. I'd take the date and just show in person that you aren't needy.
/r/seduction03/05/18 01:39 AM
2

Talk to other women. Bed other women, learn from experience and you'll be a good fuck soon enough.
/r/seduction02/05/18 05:21 PM
0

This has actually been my most successful approach the last two months. Find out what they like to watch, ask 'em to watch it, make popcorn and have booze....???....success!
/r/seduction02/05/18 12:20 PM
4

Once i got out of college, i started beating it a lot more, to the point where i lost my drive to go talk to women over the course of half a year. Stopped beating it, got on tinder and its been smooth sailing. You may meet fewer women while dream chasing but it'll be worth it mate. Legacy is such a better cum than a vagina is.
/r/seduction01/05/18 05:31 PM
2

I love when women ask me how many women I've slept with, that gives me all the cards to the game. They'll never get to know but sometimes I'll pretend to be close to telling them, it drives them mental.
/r/seduction30/04/18 03:35 PM
2

This works every time with girls that play hard to get. No problem, you can watch from the sidelines on Snapchat while i have fun.
/r/seduction30/04/18 02:54 PM
3

Well whatever you think you are, you can change. You will 100% be more confident and wanting to talk to women when you quit for a while though. My friend went from shy guy in college to pulling women everytime he goes to the bar.
/r/seduction30/04/18 12:00 AM
3

My buddy went through that. He limited himself to twice a week for a few weeks, then once a week for while. As time went on he got more of an urge to talk to women, to the point where he forgot about porn. I'd definitely take it seriously though, it can really fuck you up psychologically with women.
/r/seduction29/04/18 11:50 PM
2

If a girl were to end it with me because of that, going on another date wouldn't be on the table. Pump and dump.
/r/seduction29/04/18 06:42 PM
1

The person will matter, first and foremost. How attractive you are and the confidence you give off will be the biggest decider. But it's also a sliding scale, some women will want someone that's sexy and rich, depends on how high up you wanna climb that ladder.
/r/seduction28/04/18 09:09 PM
1

I disagree, we all had to learn the hard way. I wouldn't be so good at reading signs from women if i didn't push the boundaries and get rejected every now and again.
/r/seduction28/04/18 03:23 AM
3

She gave you all the signs that she wanted to be traditional and take things slow, she feels like you didn't respect those boundaries so she moved on. A lot of girls are cool with Netflix and chill but based on all the signs she gave you on the first date, i would of either bailed or done a hiking/picnic date if i thought she was worth it.
/r/seduction28/04/18 01:28 AM
1

Just stick with a high fat diet: egg yolks, avacado, etc. And you should be fine most of the time. It happens to me sometimes too but i think at the end of the night there just isn't a connection. Hard to pinpoint but i wouldn't obsess over it, it's bound to happen. I've noticed it happens usually when im expecting sex or that she is, but when i go into it with no expectations I'm golden.
/r/seduction28/04/18 12:30 AM
1

It's not all the big talk that's holding you back, hell i usually turn myself on when i start telling a girl how good she's gonna get it. Some guys can't get it up for every girl and that's fine, just go for the ones that really get you going. Either that or you're a closet homo lol jk Btw, cut out the porn completely if you can... It'll help a lot. And stop comparing yourself to other people saying you think you're better or inferior, it's really weird and unnecessary.
/r/seduction27/04/18 11:34 PM
1

No worries mate, we all have to learn the hard way.
/r/seduction26/04/18 08:28 PM
2

I would remain friends with her and let her set you up with other women. I've had friends in college who lived with women roommates, they hook up, and it generally ends badly.
/r/seduction26/04/18 05:09 PM
1

What's your demographic? Definitely less matches of you aren't in a major city
/r/seduction25/04/18 01:03 PM
2

This year has been about 80% tinder, 15% social circle, 5% night outings.
/r/seduction25/04/18 03:34 AM
3

Social media helps when you are gaming on tinder or social media. Social media doesn't matter if you are approaching women irl
/r/seduction24/04/18 02:26 PM
3

You can lecture someone till you're blue in the face but nothing will trump first hand experience. So yes, these guys will just have to learn the hard way, like we all did.
/r/seduction23/04/18 04:19 PM
3

How's your IG following? I've been told its a bit tougher to game on IG if you don't have good social proof. I would move on though based on that interaction.
/r/seduction23/04/18 03:24 PM
3

I appreciate you keeping it real and that's an important point: experiences can't be manufactured en masse as fact. It definitely helps to shape opinion but you can't go into an approach thinking they are all the same because that may be what burns you. Having said all that, it's important to have differing opinions in this subreddit as we all have different experiences and it gives lads varying opinions that they can apply to their situation.
/r/seduction23/04/18 02:10 PM
5

Yes, the amount of people on here giving advice that have zero experience, is alarming. Most of what you said has resonated with me. A sad truth most guys will get stuck on is the cheating aspect, i know i did a few years ago. Women cheat, men cheat, most of the world does. Just happened this weekend where i had a girl over from tinder, we fucked a few times, the next day she calls me about discretion because shes still in a relationship but doesn't want to stop coming over.. Moral of the story …
/r/seduction23/04/18 12:53 PM
2

Your two easiest approaches will be through your friends group or barhopping. If you have hobbies, find meetups and for friendships there. You can use tinder, but let that be a supplement with approaching women in public. I used to think i had an actual problem when i was younger because i would be so intensely uncomfortable, but once you get the ball rolling it will become second nature to you. You just have to acknowledge that you're going to be uncomfortable for the first few approaches, you …
/r/seduction22/04/18 06:57 PM
7

College is definitely the easiest time because of how dense it is with women, but no.. Life's a journey man, start now so you don't regret it later.
/r/seduction22/04/18 05:57 PM
11

I would not recommend telling a girl you love her if you aren't her first choice.
/r/seduction22/04/18 03:12 PM
7

Shh they'd be jealous if they heard us talking.
/r/seduction21/04/18 08:28 PM
2

I've had nothing but good experiences, it's all about how you set expectations. If you give in and spoil them, they will come to expect it. Just give her the good dick and go about your day as per usual.
/r/seduction21/04/18 07:11 PM
0

Lol
/r/seduction21/04/18 01:28 PM
0

It will be a turn off for weak men. A smart, driven man will definitely be attracted to a woman's confidence and drive. As for how you're describing interacting with guys on tinder, i wouldn't recommend it. If a girl acts that way in public when i approach her, I'll keep at it; on tinder though, if a girl isn't showing interest there are hundreds that will and your conversation will get pushed down the stack. My best experiences on tinder are women that are equally clever and aren't afraid to po…
/r/seduction20/04/18 04:09 PM
6

I pull very attractive women frequently, but am always surprising myself at what turns me on. Recently hooked up with a chubby Indian girl and I've never been more turned on in my life lol, I've never seen someone work so hard to please me.
/r/seduction19/04/18 02:36 AM
1

Yeah she was on a sports team and we all usually partied together. Not all girls are like that but my friend did not read the signs she was giving him. If she's not showing interest in you, other girls will.
/r/seduction18/04/18 11:38 PM
1

Prime years of manhood, definitely not. But college is prime years for exploring different women.
/r/seduction18/04/18 08:57 PM
2

He's doing really well now, cleans up well at the bars... But he always kicks his own ass thinking about all those years he wasted chasing a girl in the prime of his life. Live and learn lol. OP could really use that advice if he is clingy, women can smell that shit quickly
/r/seduction18/04/18 08:55 PM
2

Reminds me of my suite mate freshman year, obsessed with this girl who strung him on for no good reason. They hooked up the first week and she went on to make her rounds through the sports teams, the whole time he thought they were talking (despite all his friends telling him what's up)
/r/seduction18/04/18 08:47 PM
5

Don't be in a rush to get a girlfriend in college, trust me. Make a lot of friends, have a lot of sex with different women and just explore yourself.. College is too short and its a great opportunity to meet a ton of women. You can start by getting in shape: good cardio and flexibility will let you last longer and be more attractive to women. Look up YouTube videos on foreplay and how to kiss, I'm sure there are some informational channels. If you're watching porn, stop. But most importantly, di…
/r/seduction18/04/18 08:45 PM
9

You're growing attached to someone that ignored you because you had a bad sex outing and tells you you're a bad kisser?
/r/seduction18/04/18 08:34 PM
6

Yes, how else are you going to meet people?
/r/seduction15/04/18 06:36 PM
2

Anytime I'm going out to pick up women, i go out with my posse. When i get to a bar i usually break off a few times and go game by myself. Best of both worlds.
/r/seduction12/04/18 09:45 PM
3

Date your own age. Don't date down until they are in their twenties, they are a lot more emotionally and psychologically developed then; 15 is way too young. And please, for the love of God, get off of braincels.
/r/seduction12/04/18 09:39 PM
1

Think about how many people there are on this planet. To think that there is a "one" for you, delivered by some cosmic power is quite silly. It's a numbers game, like baseball, you are going to strikeout and there is not one pro who hasn't. Winning in seduction is about having the balls to approach, which you did, and learning from that. You got rejected, so what? There are literally billions of other women in the world to go after so remember that, and go find another girl to spit your game at.
/r/seduction11/04/18 10:55 PM
1

The question isn't too soon, it's how you react to her answer that will matter. If she says no it's no worries and move on as you guys currently are. I had a college buddy who was in a similar situation and he playfully pestered her after she said no. She got spooked and they stopped seeing each other shortly after.
/r/seduction10/04/18 02:17 PM
3

She's not dating them for a reason. I've dated some dimes, they have zero factor on my current or future relationships. Just go for it man, if your friends are expressing doubt, they are just jealous. Do what you do you best and go get it, mate.
/r/seduction10/04/18 01:06 PM
1

The first two are horrible ideas, with the last one being the best option. I would set a concrete date. Ask her that afternoon, a few hours before "hey we are still on, right?" if she says no, just say "word, hit me up if you want to reschedule." It's as simple as that.
/r/seduction09/04/18 11:48 PM
1

Yeah, agreed; the same goes for guys too btw. They both did the boyfriend a favor in showing that they are shitty friends.
/r/seduction07/04/18 11:26 PM
3

Scumbag move. If you're a good friend and a man you would sit your friend down and tell him what happened.
/r/seduction07/04/18 10:20 PM
4

A lot of people, myself included, have notifications disabled. Posting a pic and getting 100 notifications, along with the "these people just posted a story" notifications can get annoying. I've had messages sit there for a while that i didn't realize were there.
/r/seduction07/04/18 01:27 PM
1

Unless you need her phone number to call, i don't really see the point of switching apps to talk. The only reason i get a girl's number is to put it in a Facebook aw egg to see if she's real or not.
/r/seduction06/04/18 01:04 PM
2

Haha same. It helped me in a lot of ways but left me numb in a few ways. Can't get my heart broken if i don't give the chance of falling in love!
/r/seduction06/04/18 02:12 AM
3

Haha that's what's up, I've had similar convos like that. If you ever develop feelings just remember she'll do the same thing to you, otherwise nice job on the pipe laying it sounds like 😂
/r/seduction06/04/18 12:37 AM
6

She has a boyfriend doesn't she
/r/seduction06/04/18 12:33 AM
1

Lol
/r/seduction31/03/18 03:00 PM
1

I'll leave you with this: i had a girlfriend about 5 years ago who was my high school sweetheart. We dated a few years of highschool, took a break when i left the state and rekindled a few years later. We were together about a year, she was so happy and always excited to see me, we never fought. Out of no where, she cheats on me. I went through all the hoops: Denial, hate, sadness, remorse. Ultimately, i let her go. To this day she has cheated on 6 of her boyfriend's (that i know of).i know this…
/r/seduction28/03/18 08:54 PM
1

You are already setting yourself up for failure, mate. It does not matter what she says, she showed you her true colors by her actions. There really is nothing to talk about but i can tell you want her to convince you to stay. Ultimately that's up to you and we can only provide our opinion. Based on my extensive experience with women and people in general, i can promise you that this won't be the last time she fails to tell you something or puts her urges before you.
/r/seduction28/03/18 08:41 PM
2

I don't know how anyone could ever trust someone that was willing to put their body at risk of contracting an incurable disease and instead gave into lust. Huge red flag and a deal breaker in every way.
/r/seduction28/03/18 08:33 PM
2

You're trying to convince yourself despite the facts.
/r/seduction28/03/18 08:27 PM
2

Yeah i could never trust someone that gave into urges over having that conversation. A recurring thought for me would be "she's proven to you that she's capable and will give into urges before doing what's right, when is she going to do that again and how?"
/r/seduction28/03/18 08:26 PM
2

Op, this is the only advice you should be taking in this thread.
/r/seduction23/03/18 12:59 PM
3

This is exactly what i would do, but I'd also mix in a good dosage of "yeah she wishes" in a playful tone
/r/seduction21/03/18 10:08 PM
1

Unless you're actually in a relationship with one of them, this is laughably false and not like the movies you watch.
/r/seduction21/03/18 09:05 PM
2

It's always fun seeing what you can get away with. I convinced one of my friends for three years that i had lou gherigs disease.
/r/seduction21/03/18 01:44 AM
26

Lol don't project your shit onto me, guy.
/r/seduction20/03/18 11:48 PM
24

I give 'em my signature smirk. It's a half smile with my eyes just slightly more closed than normal. This is out of reaction now.
/r/seduction20/03/18 09:42 PM
2

I wouldn't put it past someone on a mission to snoop. To each there own, it's a non factor for me too mate.
/r/seduction20/03/18 08:53 PM
1

All you have to do is log into your IP account and you can see the websites and time stamps of everything. I would not put that past some significant others lol.
/r/seduction20/03/18 08:45 PM
3

It's still logged by your Internet provider.
/r/seduction20/03/18 03:22 PM
2

Mission accomplished, good work soldier.
/r/seduction20/03/18 03:09 AM
2

Submissive/dominant dynamic
/r/seduction15/03/18 08:53 PM
1

The higher you go up on the financial/socisl spectrum, the more you will see it. These men doubled down on their personality or final situation, or both.
/r/seduction15/03/18 02:21 PM
1

I have been fortunate to have many women to the point I've lost count. But finding someone i want to settle down with has been a real test.
/r/seduction15/03/18 01:48 PM
11

I went through a period of about a year and a half off of social media. The people i considered my closest friends still kept up with me with calls or texts. Bunch of people fell to the wayside. I much prefer social media though, especially for hooking up. If you have over a 1000 followers it makes it so much easier to hookup with that crop of women that seek out that kind of validation. Some girls on tinder ask to see your Instagram, every time they look they are noticeably more interested. Do …
/r/seduction13/03/18 10:58 PM
2

Your post history is pathetic man, are you that lonely?
/r/seduction13/03/18 06:39 PM
2

Lol y'all look way too into these things. It does not matter whether you give her your number or vice versa, it's how you do it... That is all.
/r/seduction13/03/18 06:32 PM
2

Just crabs in a barrel trying to pull you back in, mate. You couldn't have handled it better.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 02:35 PM
2

Truerateme is a bunch of frustrated neckbeards, please don't consider the opinions of that sub.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 02:33 PM
1

Lol way too soon? That's my go to for a second date and i always close.
/r/seduction09/03/18 02:32 PM
3

I always have my second dates revolving around ending up at home. Cooking dinner and having wine, then movies is an easy one. Meeting at either ones house then going hiking, then when we get back have a few drinks. Doggy date then back for a few drinks.
/r/seduction09/03/18 02:29 PM
15

This this this. I've had a few girls not sleep with me on the first date because they were shit testing me and making me wait... Only to find out from them a month later that they wanted to and were wet. Edit: what I'm saying is i usually sleep with them the second time we hangout and then a few weeks later find out they wanted it on the first.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 02:02 PM
1

Hashtagwholesomecomments
/r/seduction08/03/18 04:57 AM
3

Yeah it'll work out... If you're able to put her on a flight first class, to come see you whenever yall want. Otherwise, don't bother; keep in touch and enjoy the time you can spend with her. Girls i hooked up with in college have moved to different cities in different states, but i don't aim to control them. I keep in touch every now and then, have a place to stay for a weekend in a new city with a cute girl.
/r/seduction07/03/18 08:18 PM
2

I'm my experience its not who will or wont, it's a matter of inflated egos. When i approach women in public, i have ease pulling women at the top of the food chain. On dating apps, however, i notice those same women are non existent and even your middle of the pack attractive women are much more entitled than they would be in person. This isn't a phenomenon, it's just simple economics: there are much more men just using tinder to talk to women than actually approaching women in public.
/r/seduction07/03/18 06:17 PM
0

Lol this sounds like the classic story of a place holder, sorry to break it to you mate. I could tell by the way you talk but the comments confirmed it. You asked for advice, try to understand what the commenter above you said, hopefully that'll help you along your way.
/r/seduction07/03/18 05:01 AM
1

I prefer to see if they text first, most of the time they do. After a day if they haven't and i want to see them again I'll text them something relevant about our first date or let them know i enjoyed it. See how they react and if it's mutual, go for it.
/r/seduction06/03/18 05:43 PM
5

I read your comments, you need to stop focusing on them so much and ask yourself those questions. You're the judge, figure out if you are going to like her or not. Would you honestly want to date a woman whose sole reason for not dating you is because you aren't in a financial position of her liking? We all get the jitters mate, what worked for me was meditation. My mind was a whirlwind of thoughts before i consistently worked on that. Now i have the ability to schedule a date, go there and have…
/r/seduction06/03/18 01:26 PM
1

Who cares, mate? What do you want from her? Find that out and either tell her or show her, she'll let you know. And for the record, there's been a few times when i couldn't perform due to excessive alcohol but it never stopped me from fucking in the next few days; there is a good chance they'll take it personally, don't make a big deal about it but find a way to let her know it's not her (usually fucking will take care of that notion).
/r/seduction06/03/18 04:28 AM
5

I could've elaborated... I have a lot of fun playing billiards. This works out for me because I don't even have to try, I'm already having a great time. She doesn't even need to be there and I could have a blast. Put yourself in that kind of situation, do something you naturally like. You'll have better luck doing something you enjoy; she will definitely pick up on those vibes and in turn, have a good time. You're inviting her into your world, you might as well be doing something you enjoy.
/r/seduction04/03/18 02:34 AM
16

Anywhere there are games is good for me. I have a bar near me that has plenty of billiards and great beer. Find out if y'all click; if you do, show her a pic of your dog then ask if she wants to meet him. Works like a charm.
/r/seduction04/03/18 02:16 AM
2

Couldn't expect you to understand the irony of your statement.
/r/seduction02/03/18 10:21 PM
2

This is horrible advice.
/r/seduction02/03/18 07:56 PM
1

I see this a lot but can't relate. There have been women in the past that I talked to all day for weeks and they are just as interested. Its probably something else and a case by case basis.
/r/seduction02/03/18 07:46 PM
1

Yet you're willing to give your opinion on many different subjects on an anonymous forum app, seems a bit silly now don't you think?
/r/seduction02/03/18 07:36 PM
3

Ease up on the over-analyzations pal
/r/seduction01/03/18 04:46 PM
2

Business man in the streets, barbarian in the sheets
/r/seduction01/03/18 01:11 AM
1

Internal dialogue: "wow everyone always just deals with my BS, no one ever puts me in my place."
/r/seduction01/03/18 01:03 AM
4

Yeah mate, it's the "crabs in a bucket" mentality. When a crab is successfully climbing over other crabs attempting to get out of a bucket, other crabs will actually grab that crab and pull it back in." Misery loves company. It's definitely nothing on your part though. I've been in that situation before and I've had friends that are like the girls you describe. You always get comments like" I'm a catch but they always go for Susie because they think she's hotter. "
/r/seduction25/02/18 04:51 PM
1

I get that a lot, usually from boring people. Just embrace it mate, you can't have everyone love you so double down on the ones who do
/r/seduction25/02/18 03:18 PM
1

Anticipation.
/r/seduction25/02/18 02:01 PM
9

I found that being as open as possible is what worked for me. Things like "I didn't realize you were dating them" or "you girls are making it tough on me to get a kiss from your friend" It doesn't matter as much what you say but how you say it, if you say what I said in the first paragraph with anything but a confident smirk, they are gonna bolt. Your probably over thinking it, the girls may have to deal with that kind of neglect all the time and may be gate keeping out of jealousy.
/r/seduction25/02/18 02:00 PM
1

What a cringy title
/r/seduction09/02/18 04:00 PM
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You gave advice to someone who didn't ask, who you admitted is not even a friend of yours. Your ego got you in trouble mate.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 02:02 PM
4

Interesting point on the 1-2 days. I've had great luck scheduling them 5-6 days out, they seem more eager and the anticipation builds. Of course, that's what my schedule allows so I've gotta roll with it either way.
/r/seduction06/02/18 06:27 AM
7

Can you elaborate on that? Specifically the meditation.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 11:54 PM
4

Hmm, my mind was all about going again.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 11:51 PM
11

I've seen this before and its actually quite obvious, she wants to have sex with your dad.
/r/seduction14/01/18 04:01 PM
5

Depends on the receiver too. I love being blunt but I find women I talk to are far more receptive when we skirt around the subject. Easy way to show interest and not feel slutty.
/r/seduction14/01/18 03:52 PM
2

3/3 so far but admittedly, only one of them was used as an opener. The other two I had already exchanged a few messages with. Still, it works.
/r/seduction11/01/18 08:42 PM
7

Can confirm, just used it and she was overly excited.
/r/seduction11/01/18 03:09 PM
1

How has the volume of your matches changed since you've done this?
/r/seduction08/01/18 08:36 PM
1

My first paragraph was sarcasm. Honestly, I wouldn't bother "asking a more realistic subreddit" you act like you have all the answers so you'll end up treating their advice the same way. Good luck.
/r/seduction08/01/18 04:41 PM
0

If that's how you want to perceive it, that's fine. Doesn't disprove it though.
/r/seduction08/01/18 03:56 PM
2

You must be right then and should just give up all hope of ever improving yourself. Makes sense because women love the defeatist attitude. I have physically unattractive friends that have amazing personalities and are interesting, that close all the time. You really are your own worst enemy, mate. I'm not saying looks aren't important, they are...but it's only a piece of the pie. I've got a friend that models and sure he gets hit on a lot but he can never close because he's so boring, doesn't do…
/r/seduction08/01/18 03:50 PM
2

It certainly is applicable to you. Looks help, yes but it's a piece to the pie. Confidence you cultivate from self development will take you further than looks could, people love passion and can feel it.
/r/seduction08/01/18 03:37 PM
1

I'd be cautious when combing through TRP. There are a ton of good nuggets of wisdom, especially about self improvement... That's what I really like about the sub. But the more you browse through posts the more transparent it gets, there are a ton of guys on there who were burned really bad in a relationship and have a lot of hate in their heart, you don't want to be taking advice from people like that so always be skeptical of what you read. Best thing I can tell you and it might sound sappy, bu…
/r/seduction08/01/18 03:33 PM
1

Depends on where you are at too. I've been blessed all around with looks and what not, for reference.. When I go to the city its so easy to close, but when I go back home which is rural, I rarely have any luck closing and it takes more time with each woman. I use the same game and it feels as though the further you move from the city, the more people expect long term shit and proper dates.
/r/seduction08/01/18 03:28 PM
-3

What a neckbeard username. Let homie fly and drop that "crab in a bucket" mentality, it's not a good look for you.
/r/seduction08/01/18 03:11 PM
7

So then where do you look? I swear I'm a magnet for women wanting some while they are already in a relationship. Whether it's the bars, instagram, or tinder
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 01:33 PM
3

How's the sex on it though?
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 12:51 AM
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