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Tall_Is_All_You_Need/r/seduction08/05/12 07:42 AM
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Tall_Is_All_You_Need/r/seduction05/05/12 04:13 PM
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Man, that's a mother of a shit test. Not that it's correlated, but how long have you been with this girl? Has your frame been slipping? It sounds like she was trying to re-verify your frame of being the shit. This is one of those situations where "Look, it was cute the first time you asked, but..." and then change the subject.
/r/seduction11/07/12 05:09 AM
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Found it and replied. You're in highschool, and it makes perfect sense to want cut and dried answers to things. Unfortunately that's rarely how it works IRL. Your calibration will come with experience.
/r/seduction18/05/12 02:55 AM
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Interesting thoughts. I'd extrapolate and say overthinking your look can lead to outcome dependence projected onto your hair/clothes/anything else that is physical yet alterable. When you're already in the mindset of "I'm gonna go out and have fun" it won't matter, but if you're focused on the clothes, it will severely impede maintaining any kind of positive state.
/r/seduction18/05/12 01:22 AM
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Why wasn't this in the OP?
/r/seduction18/05/12 01:16 AM
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This will almost certainly fail. It requires additional investment from someone who is already giving little. Maintain your frame. Make the plans and suggest them. Be the leader. If she can't she can't. If she doesn't outright tell you "I'm not interested," then on some level she is. Your job is to increase that level.
/r/seduction18/05/12 01:06 AM
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It's true. People make time for what is important to them.
/r/seduction18/05/12 01:05 AM
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www.puahate.com
/r/seduction18/05/12 01:01 AM
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That is clearly what any negative press is going to latch onto and magnify. You never hear the stories of students who are 35, pathetic, and just want someone to love, but aren't sure how to meet them. I wish stories such as these would get more positive press, but all that's happened so far was that stupid movie "Hitch."
/r/seduction18/05/12 01:00 AM
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Interesting thoughts. LoveSystems encourages students to keep a "game journal," do they not? I understand your point about field reports being posted on the public internet, but if enough identifying details can be withheld (such as the name of the bar, or your primary city, or, I don't know, your full name and social security number - ok, kidding there), wouldn't that negate your above concerns? I enjoy reading the field reports here and on The Attraction Forums that are coherently written, ful…
/r/seduction18/05/12 12:58 AM
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Because haters will always hate. No one wants to be accountable for themselves, whether it's their physical being, their accomplishments (or lack thereof), or some quality they were born with that they either inherently hate or that society has trained them to hate. Ugly/fat women will always be mad at "hot girls." Weak-ass men will always be jealous of and lash out at "naturals" or those with "good genes." The seduction community, as I see it, sits at the apex of sexual desire, ambition, and pe…
/r/seduction18/05/12 12:50 AM
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In addition to what ThrowawayPUA is telling you, don't be afraid to walk out. Now before everyone flies off the handle, hear me out: As has been previously alluded to, she may get all the emotional stimulation she needs from making out. However, men (and women) are wired to "complete" the act. Touching leads to kissing leads to boners and lubrication, and eventually penetration. Been that way for millions of years. Don't be afraid to pull away, look her in the eye, and say something along the li…
/r/seduction18/05/12 12:42 AM
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Keep in mind too, no one you cold-approach ever rejects you...they don't KNOW you, how could they? They're just rejecting your approach. And that, friend, is something that can be learned, internalized, and improved.
/r/seduction17/05/12 02:23 AM
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Gotta agree. A) If he's really your friend, then you need to have a talk w/ him, lay some ground rules. Guys that snipe of other guys' accomplishments/social circle are fucking dickwads and should not be tolerated (at least in the context of beautiful women -- if they otherwise give you good emotions just don't hang out with them and targets at the same time). I'd sit him down, calmly explain your perceptions and why you feel wronged, give him a chance to respond, then agree on some ground rules…
/r/seduction17/05/12 02:20 AM
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Bingo. Disclaimer: No means no. Don't rape women. That said, jesus fuck on a donkey, mate. You've slept in this girl's room like three times and haven't tried to escalate? This is probably more a question for /r/sex Make it happen, cap'n!
/r/seduction17/05/12 02:14 AM
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I don't see any possibly upside. You're not going to get your p in her v through telephone wire, but you will satisfy her feminine drive for emotional connection. To me it subcommunicates a scarcity mentality. If you're a Hoss, why do you need to Skype some gal (that you haven't fucked yet) on a weekday night (as opposed to being out meeting 3D girls IRL). Just my take. I've only ever used it when I'm in a serious relationship that requires distance.
/r/seduction17/05/12 02:09 AM
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"Guys like us don't get old. We stay sharp or we get rusty; we don't get old." I was in a very serious relationship -- one that I entered into through PUA skills -- and it ended badly. I got rusty while I was in it, but now I'm honing that edge once again.
/r/seduction16/05/12 07:08 AM
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I know vaguely who she is, and I'm almost certain that if any girl I'm interested in seems even slightly put off that I don't know Snooky's life story, I probably won't be interested in her any longer.
/r/seduction16/05/12 07:01 AM
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A) I hate this shit and haven't done it since college, so I feel you. B) Unless someone contradicts me, I think it's fucking hard stopping a train that's already left the station. Your best bet is either latching onto the end, or owning the beginning. If your target is in the middle you're pretty well fucked, unless you do some hardcore dancing monkey routine to get them to stop for you.
/r/seduction16/05/12 06:58 AM
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Happy to give a look.
/r/seduction16/05/12 06:51 AM
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A more direct way to handle it: "Look, I've been having fun with you, I think you're cute/nice/huge titties/whatever. The first time you said that it was kinda cute, but now you're just being rude. So are we gonna keep having fun or is this goodnight?" Edit: fuck I just can't seem to string words together tonight.
/r/seduction16/05/12 06:49 AM
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Let us know how it goes. And if you're easy on the eyes as you say, head over to /r/gonewild ;) (or PM me hiyooo)
/r/seduction16/05/12 06:46 AM
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A) Have you read LoveSystems' text game eBook? Some seriously good shit in there. B) If she replies to your texts quickly (<5 minutes), texts you more than once before you reply, or sends ANY emoticony-gay shit, you're in. C) It's better to say nothing than say the wrong thing. If you get a good little back-and-forth going, don't think that she'll suddenly start not liking you if you don't reply. In fact, if you DO get good banter going, stop on a high point and don't reply for several hours. Th…
/r/seduction16/05/12 06:44 AM
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The winky face means she wants to fuck I loled at this.
/r/seduction16/05/12 06:38 AM
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I think a key tenet of this question is "Am I changing the very core of my being to influence this girl -- to make her 'like' me?" Plenty of girls like assholes, sure, but there are plenty more who don't. If you're NOT an asshole, then it would follow logically to me that you're not going to be interested in girls who like assholes. And that's fine. Screen for that during qualification. I can't infer specifically from the way you wrote it, but it sounds like you may need to better define what yo…
/r/seduction16/05/12 06:37 AM
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"Be handsome, confident, and rich." Dude, that advice works. But so I can contribute to the convo, I'd say if you want to approach, go for it. Most guys (at least, the oft-storied "betas", are most likely good guys, and just have crippling approach anxiety that stems from fear of rejection. Once that's off the table, they'll most likely open up. Or they're gay.
/r/seduction16/05/12 06:26 AM
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I'm not anymore. I texted her yesterday evening and she still hasn't replied, so fuck it. If she texts me at any point in the future I'm going to assume it's because she wants drinks paid for so if I respond at all it will be sexual and on message from the get-go. Cheers.
/r/seduction08/05/12 07:45 AM
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Just remember - resist the urge to have thoughts like "Man, look at that SICK GAME I just laid on her and her chump!" Remember, you ARE alpha. Of course she would agree with you. Cheers!
/r/seduction08/05/12 07:37 AM
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Maybe work on your delivery? I can empathize. I can't find the damn post but LS's Braddock had a GREAT blog post about this, basically the gist was "Whatever you say, whatever you do, even if you fuck it up (like you probably will), you absolutely must convey the aura of I AM THE SHIT." Getting in and staying in this mindset helps me a lot. I still stay stupid shit sometimes.
/r/seduction08/05/12 07:33 AM
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It sounds like you are asking for more investment from her than her comfort level with you warrants. If you haven't hung out IRL at least once it might be harder than average to get her to come to your place. IMHO, when you actually get a date lined up, have her meet you at your place. INVITE HER IN FOR A DRINK BEFORE YOU LEAVE FOR THE DATE This will make her comfortable with the layout so when you bring her back after the date to drop her at her car she will be much more likely to "come in for …
/r/seduction08/05/12 07:31 AM
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Insanity Wolf like a bawss
/r/seduction08/05/12 07:24 AM
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You are assuming she's rational. Sometimes (when they're crazy), cutting contact is the only way to go.
/r/seduction08/05/12 07:16 AM
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I will give it a shot. One thing I read in an ebook somewhere was to approach with the mindset of already having slept w/ the girl and rocked her world. This seems harder to internalize though.
/r/seduction08/05/12 07:14 AM
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What he said. If it helps you, keep a journal. After every such encounter (as soon as possible), write down everything you can remember. Analyze your sticking points or "weird moments" and correct them.
/r/seduction08/05/12 07:12 AM
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|"fuck it" autopilot Love it
/r/seduction08/05/12 07:08 AM
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Everybody's different (yeah, so much wisdom there, right? I know that helped a lot). But for serious, you might have subconsciously been afraid she was gonna bite too hard. That's probably one of the biggest motivators in the male psyche, is keeping your junk intact. In general I'd also say don't be afraid to tell her what to do and what not to do. Don't be a dick about it, just be authoritative. Maybe it was the first one she'd ever given (if she was using teeth, you can be sure it was probably…
/r/seduction05/05/12 04:28 PM
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Seconded as well. Even with my current social circles, people flake. We're all human, we all have lives, and things come up. Example, last night a bud of mine wanted to grab a beer (hadn't seen him in a while), but I had a date (FR just posted) so I had to bail on him. And we're cool about it. I think a key belief you need to internalize is with social circle, it's very much a long game. You will see them again. In the short term things come up, but in the long term things come together. This be…
/r/seduction05/05/12 04:20 PM
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