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relationshit I realize that was a misspelling, but I desperately want it to be a real word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 02:17 AM
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If he's that passive, it sounds like he just ends up with whatever woman moves in with him. This is a really convenient way for them to blame *active* people who are more aggressive and ambitious about their lives when things go wrong. So if you called him out about commitment, he's just going to say he didn't ask for it, you're the one who took it upon yourself to move in. Never mind that he might be benefiting from the situation with the company you provide him or any other benefits you've cho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 11:51 PM
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How are you getting to the dates without a car? Uber, I hope?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 11:48 PM
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Yes, to this. Not gonna lie, masturbation has legit saved my life. And knowing my own body made me way better prepared for good lovers down the line. Everyone should have that knowledge available to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/19 12:49 PM
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You got this. And when you get to the place where your life has changed, it's gonna be great. Love yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/19 12:47 PM
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Romance is gone. Probably the hardest thing for anyone to learn is how to keep the romance going, but it's not hard to see that her job is very demanding. And not shocking that if she spends all day in a kitchen, she hardly wants to spend more time in a kitchen when she gets home. Working in the food industry is exhausting and hard. He can suck it up and realize that the demands upon her have changed and if he wants more romance, he needs to make her life more comfortable or assist her in some f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/19 12:40 PM
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I started carrying my own. The number of dudes that literally do not give af about their sexual health is disturbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/19 12:21 PM
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Yeah, for extra context, that concern about being murdered is very real. There's a website called charleyproject.org and it's named after a child from an early child abduction case. It lists missing persons and also has an area for "resolved" cases. Guess how many of the women who disappear are found years later as victims of homicide? THE MAJORITY OF THEM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/19 12:19 PM
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My ex's mother got ill one year when we were dating. She was a super nice lady, but she literally was a maid to her husband -- she worked a full time job and cooked and cleaned all the time. Very old attitudes about a woman's role in the household. So she got sick, was tired all the time, gaining weight, and the doctors couldn't figure it out. They finally took her to the emergency room one night. You know the big event that tipped them off that she might have had a serious illness? She didn't h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/19 12:06 PM
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You are a saint and I admire women like you. Because I don't think I have the patience to teach new guys this stuff. Gods no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 12:47 AM
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You're doing too much work for him. You're the one who keeps asking when to meet up. Stop doing that, for two reasons: 1, it tells him that you're so into him that you're not going anywhere 2, why the hell are you giving away all that mental energy? You could do so many awesome things with that free time. Get. Busy. Too busy to see him right away. He will make time for you if he wants to see you, and lock it down with you instead of waiting for you to ask. Bonus points: don't make any bold state…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/19 12:40 AM
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"Why is it that men really do seem to love bitchy women?" Ah. The question every dominatrix asks herself. There really is just a set of men out there who like women who are either a.) a little cold/coquette, b.)aggressive, or c.) really want a woman to tell them what to do and to dominate them. Most of the time, they have complex relationships with their mothers. (At least, in my experience.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/19 03:02 AM
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Fail to see how that's a downside if your alternative to being replaced by a sex bot is being treated like one. No loss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/19 02:45 AM
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She is desperate. She mentions that she's in a rural place with few options, and she can't move away because she has joint custody with kids. She's already resigned herself to a life with less options, which means she'll accept less than she wants. I'm kinda taking her situation as a teaching moment to remind myself to never be in a situation like this. I'm also in a rural area. I drive an hour+ for dates with a better class of men so I can still respect myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/19 04:10 AM
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" In actuality, it would be more advantageous for women to secure many resources from the many available males. " There is a HUGE reason to justify this that hasn't been mentioned: women live longer. Full stop. I watched my mother widowed at the age of 42. Her entire life fell apart and she had virtually zero relationships, either friends or more than friends. The lack of emotional support and companionship did her no favors. I can't stress this enough. Men have been arranging "harems" for centu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/19 01:42 AM
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As a woman that's always dated older guys, their selling points were that they were more intelligent than younger men (better conversation), cared more about having good sex, and they weren't needy. A commenter here said stay off OLD apps and I agree. Men age differently than women, depending on what their health is like and unfortunately it doesn't necessarily give off the best impression -- too many of them just don't convey you in your best light and most women are used to seeing guys try to …
/r/seduction14/06/19 01:10 AM
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Agree hugely with this, and I'm a woman. If I'm investing in the messaging/texting phase, it should be a huge sign that I want to meet you. I've been the initiator with men that have really intrigued me through messages alone and flat out asked if they would like meet to me at xyz. Conversely, if I feel like the investment in the messaging is low on the other person's part, I won't initiate because I'm waiting to see if you actually have something to contribute. If you don't respond within a wee…
/r/seduction26/05/19 09:33 PM
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That's worth at least a few tokens.
/r/seduction10/05/19 09:32 PM
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Good observation. It also brought her back to childhood. It's one thing to have a playful mood that's "child like", but feeling like a little kid again doesn't generally put a woman in a sexual mood. (And if it does that's a whole other discussion.)
/r/seduction10/05/19 09:31 PM
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Sex before skeeball. Everyone knows that!
/r/seduction10/05/19 09:24 PM
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A few suggestions ... When I feel like shit, I take inventory and try to figure out what I did that could be improved upon. That's because taking positive, decisive action to fix something makes me feel better, but ymmv. Keep a toiletry case with lube in the trunk. Next time you run into this problem, and you magically make lube happen with virtually no effort ... you probably won't need lube, because a man doing man shit and solving problems is hot for women.* Ask her what went wrong. Yes, this…
/r/seduction29/04/19 02:37 PM
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Asking the big questions, eh? It's a good one, though ... My independence makes me a woman; a man is not someone I need to have, but someone I invite into my life, and part of what defines me as a woman is being able to service his needs and satisfy him, but in doing so, I'm satisfying myself. (I expect something similar from the man accompanying me in return.) I enjoy the act of giving, and this applies to friends, family, people in need. When I do that, I don't have to nag a man like I'm his m…
/r/seduction28/04/19 07:25 PM
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Don't know about girls, but as a woman, that's actually pretty spot-on.
/r/seduction27/04/19 04:36 AM
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I guess this post has good points and bad points, depending on each person's needs, but just to point out about the "Low Pressure" angle -- "Low Pressure" tells a woman that you aren't going to be upset and then possibly angry/violent if you turn down the heat. She needs to perceive you as safe to be around. And by safe, I mean, "won't rape her." I know that's really horrible, because the vast majority of men in this space really adore women, but you might want to know that the other reason "low…
/r/seduction14/08/18 01:36 AM
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Fun fact: CIA field operatives know that "get them to talk about themselves" hack and use it regularly. I believe Valerie Plame mentions it in her book.
/r/seduction14/08/18 01:10 AM
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A woman can be all those things and be emotionally available. Full attention might be attractive to some, but not to me. It feels too much like co-dependence. But I know people who prefer that kind of thing in relationship, so to each their own.
/r/seduction14/08/18 01:02 AM
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Lady here. You said it better than I could have. Most women I run into start with what what I'd call "instant monogamy" mindset. They have a need to be the only dish on the table. But I take it as a good sign when men are talking to other women. It's really just the romantic version of "risk diversification." But my bigger bone to pick is that if men having other options qualifies him as a "douche" and a "player", how am I, as an independent, self-reliant woman who also wants my own options, sup…
/r/seduction14/08/18 12:56 AM
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The answer is in your post: you're lazy. You can gain no sense of accomplishment and self-love until you do something worth being proud of. So go out and do something that makes you proud of yourself. Take a class, learn something new. Work out toward a goal. Volunteer for a crisis hotline, a soup kitchen, etc. They can be small goals, and work up to bigger ones. Look at areas of your life that you think you could do better in. If you can't accomplish a task, don't give up until you think of a d…
/r/seduction11/08/18 06:06 PM
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I love it. Keep up the good work. I firmly believe that you reach a tipping point where you've become so natural in your willingness to engage with people on this level that you don't think about the outcome, and you don't even think about what you're doing -- you're just living it. Well done.
/r/seduction04/06/18 12:07 AM
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It's perfectly ok to pick and choose your targets, but if your thought process is "she's out of my league, so don't approach," I'd say you're choosing to fail. That's fine, if that's what you want to do, but I've never understood why so many people find rejection so scary that they'll pass up a potentially amazing sexual adventure. I can tell you from experience that the "out-of-your-league" girl doesn't get hit on nearly as much as you'd think, for precisely this reason. She's too intimidating …
/r/seduction03/06/18 03:31 PM
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For #2, it's tricky business because most women I've ever encountered really hang on to this BS idea that they can't enjoy sex quickly with a partner and also have a longer fling with them, even an LTR. Random ideas like the "3 date rule" that are supposed to mean you're serious about them, because you can't possibly enjoy sex and be interested in the person at the same time is just baloney. This is something young women are going to struggle with. You'll have better luck with confident, older w…
/r/seduction03/06/18 02:35 PM
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What you did was perfect. Because you didn't care about the rejection, you were more accessible to her and non-threatening, it came off in your manner and body language. People sense, especially women, when someone has ulterior motives. Keep doing this. And keep in mind, that a different girl may have given you her number. It's not always that you did something "right" or "wrong". I think you did everything perfect here and it was just the wrong girl. The next time you try this, it could easily …
/r/seduction03/06/18 02:03 PM
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Push first is more effective, because the pull later packs more punch. I wish I could remember the source, but someone did a study with people on dates. What they discovered is that people who came to the date and seemed disinterested and disappointed at the outset, created greater levels of attraction later when they suddenly seemed to gain interest. (And while this study was done with people on dates, I don't see any reason why it's not transferable to seduction/pick-up.) I can only theorize t…
/r/seduction02/06/18 02:16 AM
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Serious question: why that viewpoint? I mean, just "dumb" in general, or you feel it's not effective?
/r/seduction02/06/18 01:52 AM
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As woman, being fed equates to being nurtured and looked after. It's extremely alluring for all those reasons, and it takes us back to a childhood place -- all reasons why it's so effective.
/r/seduction02/06/18 01:27 AM
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I think the thing you're wrestling with right now, and I didn't realize before until I read more of your posts, is that she's already seduced you. If she's already seduced you, she has the upper hand. And that might be the biggest reason she goes back to the dating apps, because she knows you're gonna be there if she can't find someone else she likes better. She can peruse at her leisure, because she knows you're not going anywhere. You know her better than anyone on this thread, so maybe I'm wr…
/r/seduction23/05/18 01:02 AM
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I let partners know upfront that I want my options to be open. If the partner I'm interested in doesn't like the way I roll, I'm rolling out. Hate to be blunt, but I'm independent and I've earned my way in life. I'm open and fair. If a woman brings up relationship status, that's the time to discuss it. If she doesn't .... don't. If she's got any experience in relationships, she shouldn't assume it's a monogamous/exclusive relationship until that discussion is had. If you're up front first, it ca…
/r/seduction21/05/18 12:32 AM
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The guys will hopefully be able to give you a little more than I can, but ... You know what you did wrong, but you don't know how to correct it. I used to be extremely impulsive. Over time, you learn how to hold back. The culture encourages us to say anything, at any time, but this doesn't necessarily have good consequences. Learn to control the flow of your thoughts and words. I'm going to guess that part of the problem, other than when you started to feel insecure, opened too soon, etc., is th…
/r/seduction21/05/18 12:17 AM
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"But are these hangups her fault or just because of all the men that she's gone through" It's really not about fault. It says something significant about the type of person she is. It may not be her fault -- but it's also not yours. She's sending you a message about the tone of this relationship. Think of it this way -- what if your employer started saying that he doesn't know if he can pay you on Friday because the three employees before you were really bad at their jobs. Would you stay? It's n…
/r/seduction20/05/18 11:50 PM
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Sex and laughter are linked. Especially the belly laugh. The deep abdominals that store serious muscle memory are there. Being a joker is never a disqualifier for women. It's good foreplay, is what it is.
/r/seduction19/05/18 02:31 AM
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It works. Like anything else, it's knowledge you can use for good or ill, depending on personal ethics.
/r/seduction19/05/18 02:21 AM
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"How does one become the** only option on the next* date(s)***? " A suggestion -- caveat emptor, I don't know what this lady is like, so depending on her issues, this might have no effect at all, but this is what would make me, as a lady, respond positively to you. You have to attract her, and get her to pursue you. That said -- you really want to seduce a lady who has this much baggage? A fling sounds more desirable, given her hand-wringing, but this is your game ... Invite her out to meet you …
/r/seduction19/05/18 01:02 AM
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If she's not intentionally doing that to be an attention whore, than she's oblivious and self-centered. Not sure which is worse.
/r/seduction19/05/18 12:17 AM
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That sucks. The silver lining is, she just saved you a 7 hour waste of time, and you dodged a bullet. She couldn't be upfront with her needs regarding her current lover, and she couldn't be up front with you. There's better out there.
/r/seduction13/05/18 02:06 AM
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Anytime you go through rejection, it's best to take it as gift that you sorted something out quickly, instead of wasting your time better spent on another opportunity. That said, most women I know aren't at the gym for romance.
/r/seduction13/05/18 01:53 AM
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A few things could be going on here. 1, she assumed you were so far away, a meeting would never happen, and this made her more comfortable with communicating with you. Why would someone do this? Because she suffers from social anxiety. 2, maybe she really is into you, but she's afraid because of the length of time you have to drive, you expect sex, and she doesn't want it that quickly, and she wants more time to get to know you -- but then why not just say so? -- or 3, she was hungover because s…
/r/seduction13/05/18 01:41 AM
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It depends, doesn't it? One of the things I've noticed is that, in both human behavior and in nature, both people and forces "follow the path of least resistance." So if there's someone your similar age and availability next door to you, and you have similar standards, you'll likely happily get laid, because it took the least amount of effort on your part and hers. Some people are very happy this way. While I don't necessarily think seduction method is as important as some think, what it does do…
/r/seduction13/05/18 01:23 AM
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The best way to be natural is to stop thinking about where you are, what you are doing, what you are trying to accomplish. If you're coming to a date to get laid, you need to stop thinking about getting laid. Instead, just think ahead to the next step of what you're going to say, instead of the ten steps ahead into the bedroom. Try to enjoy the moment. You're out on the town, talking to an interesting woman. For every one of you, there are ten guys who couldn't muster the courage to leave their …
/r/seduction13/05/18 12:52 AM
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This. You nailed it.
/r/seduction12/05/18 11:56 PM
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If I could upvote that a thousand times, I would
/r/seduction12/05/18 07:59 PM
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IMO, looks don't matter nearly as much as the kind of lover you are. You clearly love women who are much better in bed, even if they don't fit traditional models of beauty. It's not a low standard. You have a higher standard for what you want in the bedroom, and worthy women need more than a pretty face to meet it. And if you happen to meet a woman who is traditionally pretty and good in bed, you'll be ready for that too, because you were caring enough to get in all that practice to be a dynamit…
/r/seduction12/05/18 07:31 PM
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On that related idea you heard, the part about a woman looking for reasons she shouldn't have sex with you is 100% spot on. Don't underestimate the power of making a woman feel safe.
/r/seduction12/05/18 07:15 PM
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A woman with a lot to her character is going to be in a position to demand this behavior, sure, and that can be irritating and not very attractive because it seems like a lot of work for someone who's sub par. BUT -- *But if she's worth while, she won't have to.\* You'll chase her without a second thought, because that's how compelling, attractive, and valuable she is. Those are the kinds of relationships I engage in, and exclusively those. I don't have to ask anyone for anything. They give it, …
/r/seduction12/05/18 07:03 PM
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