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It comes from a place of responsibility. Someone said that society still unconsciously expects “ men “ to lead but doesn’t want them to verbally. As in somehow the boy should take responsibility for his actions because he’s old enough to know what he wants but at the same time a man taking charge is misogyny and patriarchy. 14 is nowhere near a man in modern times and to be honest even 18 isn’t. A 30+ year old teacher has no business with an 18 year old. Honestly I always say that we should take…
/r/MensRights03/09/25 01:07 PM
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Indeed but pendulum beginning to swing back the other way. A lot of women realising they were lied to and a lot of women realising that right now it’s either continue to be alone or get on the program.
/r/MensRights01/09/25 03:42 PM
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That is absolutely not how it works in an interaction between men and women. The first thing that’s judged as a 10 in a woman is looks. That won’t keep a man but it will get a man and that will never change. Rich men who say they want 10’s are talking 0 to do with personality because wanting a good personality is obvious. Same thing to do with 10/10 women saying they want a rich man. They talk 0 about personality because wanting that is obvious. Well unfortunately personality will change neither…
/r/MensRights31/08/25 09:52 PM
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This is a good thing. People will only learn if there are consequences to bad behaviour
/r/MensRights31/08/25 06:12 PM
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People get so offended by 5/10 but it’s LITERALLY the average. Most people are 5/10 by definition. I don’t know why so many people (especially women) get offended by that these days. Dating down used to be for peace of mind and now you don’t even get that😭 wth is going on today.
/r/MensRights31/08/25 06:09 PM
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What does date down actually mean here though? As we know due to social media a lot of women have inflated values on how good they actually look so isn’t this really just returning to people matching their levels? Exactly like it’s been anytime before social media. Who would’ve thought
/r/MensRights31/08/25 03:26 PM
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This has been debunked. It says basically that there’s around 72 million users who are married men based on the statistic percentage but in the US only 64 million men are married so it’s false. There’s no way of knowing what the real percentage is but I doubt it’s that high. Approximately 55% of married men have claimed they watch porn but I imagine that a decent percentage of that would be with their wives knowledge. Probably only 15-20% max behind their partners back and even then how much of …
/r/EverydayMisandry31/08/25 10:32 AM
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There did seem to be more to the story though. Later on a dude publicly asked her out on tik tok and instead of addressing him directly she titled a video to her fans saying “ sorry guys I’m not dating a guy I don’t know “ with a disrespectful sound used in the video. I can’t remember but it was something like “ ew no I’m not doing that “. This is why often I don’t buy these stories because whilst they seem nice in appearance, you only get one side of the story. God only knows what she said to t…
/r/MensRights31/08/25 08:24 AM
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This is a valid point actually thinking about it but I also think it’s to do with the reason why. even if we work hard there’s a decent chance we won’t be able to find a good wife even if we do find a good wife divorce rates are nearly surpassing the rates to stay married and women are initiating that 80-90% of the time more women don’t want children the usefulness of a degree is at rock bottom so there’s almost no point in going to higher education. (Women haven’t realised this yet which is why…
/r/MensRights30/08/25 04:14 PM
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It is concerning. That’s why a lot of places are beginning to ask for men back. Didn’t Disney recently come out that it wants to start a program by gen z men for gen z men because they’re loosing a shit Ton of money. (They’re loosing a shit ton of money but they’re nowhere near going bankrupt)
/r/MensRights30/08/25 10:58 AM
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You need a divorce my friend. ANY woman who will weaponise your past should be thrown to the curb IMMEDIATELY. It is NOT your fault at all what you went through and anyone who thinks this way is sick. She’s supposed to be your wife god dammit. She’s supposed to be your BIGGEST support and this is how she acts? This is not normal behaviour from a woman who loves you and is extremely abusive. Are you wealthy by any chance? Reading this makes her sound like she’s only with you for the money. Please…
/r/MensRights29/08/25 07:26 PM
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That we have our own work and struggles when our women are pregnant. I’m not saying we have it worse but the “ what do men have to go through “ stuff is toxic as hell. Like seriously under normal circumstances no I would not be waking up at 3 am to drive to get you ice cream and pickles. Men struggle a lot during pregnancy too. It’s a not a competition. We can acknowledge and thank men for what they do without ignoring just because it’s not worse than carrying a baby.
/r/MensRights29/08/25 06:16 AM
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Must be deeply psychological from our animal brains. Bright colours typically mean danger in the form of toxic poison or venom and they fit the bill. Perhaps some kind of unconscious projection
/r/MensRights27/08/25 09:23 PM
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Well that is very simple. They believe that the female loneliness epidemic is our fault because we are not picking all the “ good “ women that are obviously abundant out there. They also believe that the male loneliness epidemic is our fault. “ women aren’t settling for bare minimum anymore and men can’t handle it. “. “ all men are creeps, all men give predator vibes so no wonder they’re single. “. “ men are just asking for slaves under the disguise of housewives so no wonder they’re single “. B…
/r/MensRights27/08/25 07:33 PM
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We are beginning to see the effects of this now already. Lots of industries are crumbling or preforming at a lower rate due to forced DEI policies etc. I mean just look at the stuff currently going on in DC as proof. Currently I believe we’re going through a rectification period but the problem is that this is going to take a minimum of 1 full generation to fix. It won’t be easy to overthrow around 50 ish years of damage in anything under 20 or so years.
/r/MensRights26/08/25 11:42 AM
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Nothing better than being validated and feeling secure after being vulnerable with your woman. I am very happy for you OP😁. Congratulations.
/r/MensRights26/08/25 06:44 AM
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Yeah seriously. The ear piercing is another body autonomy violation imo. I mean you could’ve literally died. Babies and young kids have such weak immune systems it’s crazy. It is not worth it and it’s something they might not even want. These people disgust me
/r/MensRights24/08/25 08:07 PM
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Seriously. Same people who are hardcore vegans btw talking about animal mutilation etc. from what I’ve seen it’s just no sympathy towards men even spanning to babies.
/r/MensRights24/08/25 07:02 PM
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Yeah I also hate stuff like that. It’s the exact same reasoning that they use for piercing a babies ears. I will never understand it to be honest. If it’s what they want when they’re older then that would be one thing but I’m not putting my baby through traumatic pain that they can’t even process. Anyone who’s dealt with a sick baby before knows it’s heart wrenching. All they can do is cry because that’s all they know to express pain and discomfort. I would never purposefully put them through th…
/r/MensRights24/08/25 06:36 PM
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I don’t think that there is a specific argument because they don’t know and don’t care about a lot of our issues. I think the easiest way would be to just prove whatever point they’re making wrong 1 at a time.
/r/MensRights24/08/25 12:53 PM
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I think a lot of women would in the US but they’re definitely not the majority. Lots of women want to be wives but they don’t want to be YOUR wife nor do they not want job role that comes with the title. In my estimation I would say that it’s about 30% max of women who want to be a SAHM and want to preform in the job but that’s before looks or anything else is taken into account. It might take time to find one but if you don’t then move on. I think that’s the only way that these parasitic type w…
/r/MensRights23/08/25 05:01 PM
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I will tell you that typically it is extreme right wing men that think that way. IMO it’s because they’re judging it from a life and death standpoint and not just life. Say if a man is paying all the bills then regardless of whether the woman takes care of the home, cooks and cleans then the family won’t die. There will still be food and water available with a roof over your head and bills still paid. Well if a providing father falls short then even if the woman puts in maximum effort then the f…
/r/MensRights23/08/25 01:31 PM
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May I ask where this question came from?
/r/MensRights23/08/25 12:59 PM
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Listen I’m all for calling out women’s issues but this definitely isn’t one of them. If you’re paying for everything and she’s holding down the fort at home then she is carrying her weight. Coming home to warm hugs and cooked food or a run bath and not having to worry about cleaning or laundry is such a relaxing thing. Now you may not see that as equal for the time being but when kids are involved it DEFINITELY will be. Taking care of children is a monumental task for one person but it’s done be…
/r/MensRights23/08/25 11:53 AM
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So they’re aware of the benefits they had and as a whole decided to destroy it themselves? What a fantastic movement to look up to
/r/MensRights23/08/25 07:04 AM
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It is for money as unfortunately some women like to take advantage of lonely and misunderstood men. I see a lot of female supposed “ men’s rights activists “ online and you’d be surprised that like 9/10 of them is just a plug to their Instagram that is just a plug to their OF. A lot of men buy into it thinking they’re being understood but really they’re being used. It’s tragic
/r/MensRights21/08/25 09:03 AM
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Idk I mean I understand what you’re saying but I would open the door (not EVERY time) for other men also so that doesn’t really bother me. Honestly none of the chivalrous stuff bothers me per se in a courting or relationship setting. I think it just comes down to it being worth it or not. Women kind of “ killed “ a lot of it by being mean about it and saying that they’re not kids etc etc. it’s quite nice to hold a door open for a woman who gives you a nice smile and a sincere thank you for doing…
/r/MensRights21/08/25 04:11 AM
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Indeed. Apparently in the US 34% of female murder victims were killed by an intimate partner meaning that if a woman is killed then 6.5/10 times it wasn’t the partner who did it. Also the statistics say that these figures include manslaughter which is vastly different to outright murder. Another thing to consider is that the stats also don’t differentiate how much of these murders were self defence and or from 2 way abusive situations. In other words it would be a flat out lie by omission to say…
/r/MensRights21/08/25 04:01 AM
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Still so childish at your grown age? Yep no wonder you’re dating younger. Praying for bro
/r/MensRights20/08/25 08:20 PM
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Yeah sorry you’re delusional. Considering that you didn’t answer the age thing I’m gonna assume you’re still a child or close to. At best I’ll give you 18. Clearly you don’t have enough life experience to know what you’re talking about or you’re ragebaiting. Either way is sad really. Hopefully you can do some serious growing in the future so that your partners won’t have to put up with your insufferable attitude. Have some compassion and empathy…
/r/MensRights20/08/25 08:02 PM
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Well evidently you’re completely inhumane. What do you mean “ rolls over “ as if they want to be abused? You have NO idea of peoples circumstances that could be causing them to stay. The main 2 off the top of my head would be finances and kids. Those are physical things. Another could be blackmail of some form. I also believe people should leave abusers early on and I also think that the ones who have the ability to leave without being “ stuck “ are foolish to stay in such relationships. That do…
/r/MensRights20/08/25 05:15 PM
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Well for starters there are multiple forms of abuse including verbal. Of course someone should leave in these situations regardless of the gender but the fact is that they don’t for whatever reason. They are still suffering. You would not berate a woman in the same way by saying “ it’s her fault for staying with that verbally abusive man even though she could leave at any time “ As for your second point you are not even debating the stats. Essentially what you’re saying is that because men don’t…
/r/MensRights20/08/25 03:46 PM
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Isn’t that the cause of all the issues between us today though? As a whole, men haven’t really changed that much in the last 50+ years and women haven’t changed DRASTICALLY causing a disconnect.
/r/MensRights20/08/25 03:03 PM
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Indeed. In 2 way situations the abuse rates are almost identical (less than 1% difference) between men and women. Funnily enough though if you move to one way abuse then the female is the perpetrator 70% of the time compared to the male counterpart at only 30%. The difference will show up in the “ damage “. If a woman is being abused by a man whether it be 1 or 2 way then likely she will come out far worse than then man due to differences in physical strength. I think that hospitals said somethi…
/r/MensRights20/08/25 09:20 AM
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Seriously. Men are VERY direct usually and prefer life to be as simple as possible. If you’re a mature person then we don’t do games, we do certainties. Do you like us or not? Very simple and no in between with these games. If it’s not a hell yes it’s a hell no which means I’m getting the hell out of there.
/r/MensRights20/08/25 09:10 AM
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Well obviously she knows the answer and doesn’t like it which is why she branded it as misogyny. Unfortunately the “ ideal “ life that feminists want will never line up with the wants of men in reality. It’s not a social construct, it’s literally 1000’s of years of evolutionary biology and that’s not going to change within 2 generations because they don’t like it.
/r/MensRights19/08/25 05:28 AM
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Yeah but apparently sometimes you can grow eggs in the ovaries via stem cells so even that could become unnatural and lab made in the future.
/r/MensRights18/08/25 11:43 AM
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Yeah but the problem is with that is that currently women experience certain “ benefits “ from the fact that men want sex with them. In a sense that creates an equal balance between us. If they lose that then their future will be looking bleak because without special benefits they won’t be able to compete with men long term in almost any way.
/r/MensRights17/08/25 11:04 PM
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I’m ngl stuff like this puts women in so much trouble in the future. Porn and onlyfans already drastically cut the amount of men pursuing real life relationships so I can only imagine how bad it’s going to get with AI robot girlfriends that can actually have your kids. I mean not to demean women in any kind of way but what exactly would you NEED a woman for once it gets to that point?
/r/MensRights17/08/25 08:45 PM
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The ever lasting hypocrisy of people (typically women) expecting one sided traditional values from a partner whilst being modern themselves.
/r/MensRights16/08/25 01:26 PM
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Yeah no consequences for the contracted for breaking the contract is absolutely crazy work. Who on earth would put themselves in that position😭
/r/MensRights15/08/25 05:02 PM
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The thing that scares me the most about this is despite the fact that she’s clearly mentally unstable and delusional, she’s actively receiving support from women. From what I’ve seen it’s like 80% against and 20% for but that’s still bad. They’re literally taking what she says at face value because “ always believe girls “ and are sending her donations and stuff in her live streams. It’s insane to me.
/r/MensRights12/08/25 09:18 PM
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Unfortunately I have seen a lot of men defend this and it makes me feel sick. The comment section is always some nonsense about “ I wish I was that lucky when I was in school “. I know where that phrase is coming from but the problem is they’re not looking at it as an adult, they’re thinking about it from when they were that age. When we were 13-14+ of course we all wanted to sleep with the hot teacher. Now as an adult I think about how weird and disgusting it would’ve been if a teacher would ge…
/r/MensRights11/08/25 06:40 PM
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Yeah this is an extremely hard ask though which is why I think a lot of therapy doesn’t work out. It’s much better and easier for us to find like minded men around us
/r/MensRights09/08/25 04:58 AM
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Because good women are rare and it’s extremely hard to please the modern ones long term. They think that because they FEEL something is missing they will just casually blow up your family, take the kids and a minimum of half of everything you own along with potential child and spousal support. This wouldn’t be so concerning if divorce rates weren’t so high however in the US I believe the divorce rate is somewhere between 40-50% with 80% of them being initiated by women. There was never really be…
/r/MensRights06/08/25 07:56 PM
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This is the exact problem with today’s world I think
/r/MensRights29/07/25 04:19 PM
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I saw a wonderful quote that I now live by that says “ relationships shouldn’t be 50/50, they should be 60/40 with BOTH sides trying to be the 60. “. How nice it would be if more women tried to be the 60.
/r/MensRights27/07/25 10:05 AM
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Meh I’m talking about in a stereotypical sense. Most people will be able to tell you what is typically “ manly “ behaviour but I also have my own opinion of what that is and dressing like a woman or acting like a woman definitely does not fit the bill.
/r/MensRights26/07/25 06:21 PM
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Because I’m more of a traditional conservative man who thinks men should be men and not acting like women. Doesn’t sit right with me
/r/MensRights26/07/25 04:48 PM
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If by that you mean men who wear nail polish or wear girls clothes etc then I think it’s straight nasty. If you’re talking about men who are into usually feminine things like Taylor swift or something then I don’t particularly see the problem.
/r/MensRights26/07/25 04:25 PM
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Because sometimes it’s medically necessary due to tight foreskin which can: inhibit penis growth during puberty, trap debris beneath foreskin leading to infection etc or could restrict blood flow to the penis causing damage.
/r/MensRights24/07/25 01:19 PM
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Yeah I agree but not one is ready for that conversation. I can’t speak for other communities that I’ve not lived and experienced but in the black community black women are the origin and cause of nearly ALL issues that we have in our community mainly because of “ baby mama culture “.
/r/MensRights23/07/25 05:19 AM
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This is diabolical
/r/MensRights22/07/25 07:29 PM
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See, women have no idea how they want to be approached. “ just touch a boob “ would get us landed in jail 💀💀😭
/r/MensRights19/07/25 07:13 PM
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There is. r/redpillwomen is very good. They seem quite harsh on feminine men there but that’s a good thing imo. They also take women accountable on there a lot.
/r/MensRights19/07/25 06:38 PM
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This app is RIDICULOUS! I’m sorry brother
/r/MensRights18/07/25 02:32 PM
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Indeed. In some cases you’ll be called out socially for financial abuse for not enabling spending addictions etc
/r/MensRights18/07/25 09:51 AM
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Yeah it says that men are the victims more than women in all violent crimes other than rape. Problem is that then the conversation becomes “ but who’s doing the attacking “🫠
/r/MensRights18/07/25 09:47 AM
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Craziest thing is that it’s fine when they act up cause of their hormones but it’s somehow wrong that testosterone cause us to desire them more. We simply have different biological needs in relationships and that’s fine
/r/MensRights18/07/25 05:02 AM
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If I gamble with perfect mind and then lose all my money only to regret it after, did the casino rob me? No it didn’t. Once consent is given and maintained during the interaction it doesn’t matter what you think of it later because you were never forced to do anything. Insane take. This is why men are struggling.
/r/MensRights17/07/25 07:49 AM
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Yeah I’m ngl I partially don’t think this is our fault because on top of all the higher ups and government policies etc WOMEN themselves stop us from rallying together. This is because nearly ALL male focused/exclusive fields get invaded by women. These days women can have female only gyms, female only train carts and the list goes on. We have almost NO male spaces that socially we’re allowed to rally together in. Can you imagine the uproar of a male only gym? I even remember that there was once…
/r/MensRights12/07/25 03:53 AM
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Regardless of pro life or not the fact is is that women have 100% control over who’s born. IMO as long as the man makes it clear from the beginning that he has no interest in having children then he should be able to opt out (not string her along and then change his mind). Why? Because even if both parties have unprotected intimacy leading to pregnancy if the man wants the child and the woman doesn’t there is NOTHING the man can do to prevent an abortion. In other words she can absolve herself o…
/r/MensRights09/07/25 10:22 AM
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At least recently I’ve begun to notice a trend where we’re actually starting to stick up for ourselves and moving past it now. Perhaps because other places have been dealing with misandry and harsh feminism for longer but I’ve noticed that people are tired of pandering to people who are perpetual victims. I think it’s because the emotional and social manipulation from being on a supposed moral high ground isn’t working anymore.
/r/MensRights07/07/25 04:56 AM
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Thanks man I’m doing great now but there was definitely a huge confusion period in my life that I’m glad is over now.
/r/MensRights03/07/25 07:04 PM
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Well as a black man I’ll give my 2 cents. Most of us are raised by single mothers and American black females are 90+% democrats. Most black women I know are hardcore feminists and believe that everyone is always out to get us (black people). Starting from a young age the brainwashing begins and it’s very hard to get out of considering that most of our family members are female, our friends are raised by females and most teachers are also female and also very liberal. The main thing a feminist up…
/r/MensRights02/07/25 09:06 PM
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I think a lot of women can’t accept the reality that they receive A LOT of pretty privilege in their youth that anything other 9/10-10/10 men don’t receive. We are very much used to being not valued as we’ve lived firsthand how you’re treated if you can’t provide. Women REALLY struggle to accept becoming like how we’ve been all our lives.
/r/MensRights02/07/25 05:43 PM
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