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We are not the right place for advice. See: r/redpillwomen
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/01/19 08:21 PM
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She just told me that a while ago she invited a guy over and that she then invited him to sleep in her bed with her and that he made a move on her and that because of her PTSD she was unable to properly communicate that she wasnt interested and that she unwillingly went along with it, rather than freaking out or simply communicating that she didnt want to have sex. This sentence right here is basically the synopsis of the entire sub.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/17 04:27 PM
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Quick Google search on how to have CLEAN anal sex!!! Don't just go touching other people's butts. Stay hygienic.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 01:50 PM
1

We still shouldn't get comfortable with this type of abuse. Sooner or later this behavior will affect every subreddit.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/05/17 01:34 PM
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They're the ones pushing for this kind of abuse. Why would they ban their own bots?
/r/PussyPassDenied24/05/17 01:32 PM
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If we can guess anything about this man, he'll think that idea is ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 01:53 PM
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She'd be much more attracted to him if she thought he was able to pick up other girls.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 06:08 PM
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Spoiler: She won't.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/04/17 06:18 PM
4

Capitalize your letters. Loss in credibility with this grammar.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 11:05 AM
1

Wtf is aol .com
/r/PussyPassDenied26/03/17 04:02 PM
16

Considering woman can find easy sex from age 18 (even before), I would say 10 years of sex is pretty worn out.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 07:58 PM
1

This is some pretty spicy satire. Anyone have the source?
/r/PussyPassDenied10/03/17 06:32 PM
3

The result would absolutely not be in his favor. He had the opportunity to leave. He did not. Instead he attacked. She's clearly not a threat to him in size. So he did not have to engage her. Not saying what she did is right. However, in court, it's not going to go smoothly for the guy.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/03/17 09:06 PM
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We make generalizations because they keep us safe. When we take these concpets, and apply them to the real world, we tend to revert back to our old way of thinking. Without discipline, it can be a struggle to maintain frame. Especially for newbies. It doesn't just apply to the fat girls. It applys to every aspect of life.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 07:28 PM
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They're so far up their own asses that they don't believe they're committing a crime.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/03/17 07:20 PM
1

The lawyer would say that. Not the judge.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/03/17 01:26 AM
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Unfortunately, in court, the guy would not get off easy. After he disengaged from and she fell on the floor, he had the opportunity to leave and did not. Not saying the girl is right. However, that's just how a judge could, and may, spin it. The man is supposed to avoid the fight entirely. Again, not saying it's right. Just how the law works atm.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/02/17 10:21 PM
4

Adrenaline.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/02/17 10:17 PM
1

Too much porn and jacking off.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 12:47 AM
1

Are you saying this as someone who's tried it and didn't see results, or as someone who was too lazy to try in the first place?
/r/askTRP17/02/17 03:15 AM
1

Crab Bucket Mentality.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 04:43 AM
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Her precious beta provider is slipping from his leash and she's freaking out trying to you put you back in your place. I would move on. No need to try to "fix" your relationship. Unless you can sleep with her. I'd still keep my distance.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 06:34 PM
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Maybe check your blood pressure. Certain foods can cause high blood pressure over time (ex: your life). When in doubt ask your doctor. I'm not going to recommend any changes because I'm not a nutrition professional.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 04:20 AM
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Crab Bucket.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 07:21 PM
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There are some hobbies that are inherently "masculine." Some are not. Red Pill is not about being the most masculine man on the planet (though it wouldn't hurt). It's about being mentally/physically strong enough to carve your own path on your own terms. If singing is your thing, then fuck everyone who thinks you're gay for it. If you're actually gay, then fuck everyone who cares enough to talk about it. Whatever you do in life, it should be in your frame. Because you want it. Fuck others opinio…
/r/askTRP23/01/17 02:50 PM
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Sidebar.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 07:32 PM
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It's being used as a marketing tool to get people money. So, depending on who/where you're getting the information from, it is a "scam." However, the theory it is based on has its merit. I wouldn't say it's completely useless. It's all about how you use the information. If the people talking are just trying to sell books/seminars, I wouldn't take what they say to heart.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 07:23 PM
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What you're hoping for is us to say yes and you can feel good about yourself and stop putting in the work to become above average.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 09:49 PM
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Stop asking please.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 09:11 PM
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By the sound of this post it seems like you are already there. Just leave her dude.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 08:54 PM
1

I don't think he ever had a turn...
/r/askTRP03/01/17 04:50 PM
1

Go with your gut.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 05:40 PM
2

Alongside all the wonderful advice already given, speak with your doctor to get your thyroid checked.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 07:27 AM
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Op doesn't sound old enough to be a provider...
/r/askTRP27/12/16 10:27 PM
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Let's take a shower.
/r/askTRP27/12/16 01:23 AM
3

Sounds like this was about your hamster.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 04:25 AM
1

That's not as fun or dangerous.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 04:28 PM
2

Say together now. Attention!
/r/askTRP23/12/16 03:57 PM
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No. No reason to say anything at all.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 03:55 PM
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Sounds like you're in a perfect position of power. I'm really not experienced to give advice on this situation. All I know is that rewarding her for her good behavior is definitely recommended. Nothing too over the top. Just to remind her that she's in a good spot. You want to drip feed her validation so she's always wanting more. Don't get complacent though. Where you are right now is not a bad place. It just could be better. It doesn't seem likely she is going to leave (at least right now). Sh…
/r/askTRP13/12/16 04:44 PM
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100% sure the younger women will be hornier more often.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 03:41 AM
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While you wait for an actual reply: Shit Tests.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 01:28 AM
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I wouldn't.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 05:41 AM
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Go because you want to go. Her being there is irrelevant. You're going because it's in your interest to be social and meet new people/girls. Don't "wait till your ready" just go out and start practicing. If you see her there so what. You going to keep hiding and dodging her for the rest of your life? Don't give her so much power. She is happily roaming free not giving a thought to whether you're okay with the situation or not. Do the same. Take control of your own life.
/r/askTRP06/12/16 02:18 AM
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This is the right answer. We physically NEED to release sperm consistently. It's an urge just as strong as hunger.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/16 06:00 PM
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Pretty much hit the nail on the head.
/r/askTRP03/12/16 12:53 PM
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You won't find true happiness hiding from the world.
/r/askTRP27/11/16 07:09 AM
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Not with that attitude there's not.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 08:40 PM
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There will be girls just as nervous as you. Go face reality.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 04:54 PM
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Because girls feed off of drama. They want a reaction out of you. She definitely does like you so she's just keeping her options open in case anything happens. All in all it's one big shit test. If you're friends with the bf I wouldn't play her games.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 12:51 AM
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/r/redpillwomen
/r/askTRP10/11/16 05:09 PM
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Then cry rape.
/r/askTRP09/11/16 05:53 PM
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Use condoms. Be straight forward with her, but don't stress if she takes the lead. I wouldn't recommend going down on her. Can't be sure how many partners she's been with. Anyway, I have zero experience in this scenario. Take with grain of salt.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 07:50 PM
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This one's huge. There's no shame about his position. I'm sure many of the people at the party were just like him at one point. If he can embrace it and go with the flow, everything else should fall into place.
/r/askTRP05/11/16 08:55 PM
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Getting out and practicing everyday is necessary. Not online guides.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 02:18 AM
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Dump. FTFY.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 01:10 AM
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Perfectly put. It's about living life on your terms through a new lens. OP seems more concerned with "fitting in" rather than making his own decisions.
/r/askTRP16/10/16 12:00 AM
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No advice here. Just giving you insight on his thought process. Back in the day, privacy was assumed and you had to work to get your name out. Now a days, it's reversed. You have to work for your privacy. It's understandable for someone, especially at his age, to not want his name/face accessible to the public through social media. Why he chose to carry his anonymity into his daily life, not sure. An extra layer of safety? You'd have to ask him. I'm sure the other comments here have sound advice…
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/16 11:32 PM
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So black, pinto, kidney,. As well as, lentils.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 11:35 AM
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Potatoes, Rice, Beans. Stop talking to your brother.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 06:17 AM
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Just make sure she is not your main source of happiness and fulfillment in life. If you start looking to her to make your life better she will eventually lose interest. You need to be HER rock. Not the other way around. Keep your life in check, focus on building your career, and hold frame. It's okay to show her affection, but don't just do it so you can get validation in return. Make her chase you a bit. Always have abundance mentality even if you want her as your LTR. Re-read the side bar. Lif…
/r/askTRP10/10/16 08:28 PM
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That's exactly the point. Feminism didn't just appear out of no where. It's been pushed/funded by the mainstream media to create a more feminized society. It's easier to control a population when you strip away its masculinity.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 12:56 PM
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That is the point he is trying to make. People get so offended/worked up because of how the people act, yet, no one bats an eye at the system that unnecessarily tortures billions of animals year round.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 03:27 PM
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Supplement* B-12 is the only one. Many omnivores take it as well. Not a strictly a vegan issue.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 01:55 PM
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Yep. It worked. No one can ignore him.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 01:53 PM
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Well this is how we get the conversation started. The Vegan Movement gets people to face the reality of where their food comes from. From there we can discuss solutions to the problem. There are groups out there who encourage people to buy organic animal products. But, this is just a bandaid to the water pipe. The core issue is over production/consumption. If we truly want to get back to the old ways of open field livestock, then we need to consume less. We have to give up quantity for quality. …
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 01:49 PM
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Here's someone who takes a rational approach to discussing the lifestyle: https://youtu.be/Osvas6zquD4
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 01:24 PM
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Just ask them? If you think they're lying don't risk it. If you really want to be sure you could ask for ID. Don't stress yourself about it if you can't find out for sure. You'll be happier to just walk and not go to jail. Plenty of young-looking 20somethings.
/r/askTRP06/10/16 11:59 PM
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https://youtu.be/QvoVxcDgVr8 Avocados and Beans are your best friends.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 11:54 PM
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Yes he does. But he also brings people to it. There are people who will never go vegan regardless if what information they come across. Others just needs to be exposed to the idea of it before they decide to conduct their own research. So while his methods may give the lifestyle a bad rap, I believe he's reaching a larger population because of it. The fact that veganism is now hitting the mainstream is amazing. People are going to be resistant regardless of how the message is sent. It will just …
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 10:33 PM
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I'll start off by saying I'm Vegan and I don't believe it to be inherently "Red Pill." Part of masculinity is having that killer instinct. Whether that be actual killing or general competitiveness. Veganism directly opposes that by taking the compassionate/pacifist route by abstaining from the killing/exploitation. That being said we live in 2016. Most of the world can live comfortably on a plant-based diet. The cheapest foods on the planet are vegan (beans, rice, potatoes) and (in most places) …
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 08:09 AM
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I'm only 22 and I decided a long time ago that I'd rather live without social media. So it's not unreasonable for someone her age to feel the same way.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 06:28 AM
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Because what you want is sex, but what she wants is for you to eventually provide for the kid. Do you want to provide for the kid? If no, then you need to not get too attached. Or, like many recommended, leave.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 01:25 AM
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TRP is much more than just getting laid. It's about rejecting the ideology society forced upon us growing up and taking charge of our own lives. Most people come here due to sexual frustration and a lot of what we talk about here is sex-related. However, I feel the core message is: "Becoming your own man. Taking action based on what you want. Not what society expects of you."
/r/askTRP14/09/16 06:49 PM
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Condoms... Condoms... CONDOMS. I wouldn't recommend going down on her. She's probably been "around..." Other than that have fun :)
/r/askTRP11/09/16 08:57 PM
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Like most already said, the refractory period exists so it's very difficult to make it happen the second time. Even if you do wait a while, there's no guarantee for it to happen. The testicles already released most of what it's got. This is mostly dependent on how long it has been since this specific session.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/16 04:03 PM
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What do celebrities have that make girls "feel" something? Status, chrasmia, looks, etc.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 07:25 PM
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Here's a refresher: https://therationalmale.com/2011/08/23/schedules-of-mating/
/r/askTRP06/09/16 04:24 AM
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You could of just made your intentions clear earlier. Also, it was a girl that was going. You could of still gamed her. You could of gamed both! I would of just gone, had a good time, and escalate regardless of the situation. People will give you privacy if you demand it with your actions.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 01:13 AM
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The problem is once you commit she will slowly start to lose attraction. Unless of course you stay on your A game. But really we've all seen this a thousand times before. Just do what YOU want and she'll follow your lead. If you want to be with her then do it. If not then don't. But make it YOUR decision. Not hers.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 12:27 AM
1

They definitely helped me when I was just beginning to get into the idea of talking to girls. Before that I would spend all my time indoors playing games. They have me the tools I needed to at least START approaching. By gaining that in-field experience I was able to learn a lot of what the red pill teaches and also just break out of my shell. Rejection isn't the end of the world anymore because I know I can just try again. Whether any of their videos are real or not, RSD provides a toolkit simi…
/r/askTRP28/08/16 01:19 PM
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I would not even respond to the text. She's trying to have her cake and eat it too. Waste of your time.
/r/askTRP28/08/16 01:12 PM
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Internet detox. Spend less time on the computer and on your phone. If you can dedicate a few days to neither of both (or very little) it will help immensely.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 12:09 AM
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Also on rape claims. Text messages save lives. If you can provide evidence that you left on good terms, and/or that she was also dtf (maybe not so much this one), then it can really help your case. But definitely do not go trying to get a text out of her AFTER she already accused you.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 11:55 PM
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Age to Hotness/Confidence ratio. Older hot with confidence? High Rate Younger ugly low confidence. Low rate. Also being manipulative like that is what girls do. We are men. We have our own playbook. Stop acting like a girl.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 12:53 AM
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Since you're not "in the top 10%" just go ahead and chop your balls off. You're so worried about how the world perceives you that you're forgetting about the only person that matters. YOU. Your smv is not low because you are skinny. It's low because you actually think that you're so repulsive that you aren't allowed to talk to girls. Seriously dude... How the hell is any girl supposed to take you seriously when YOU can't even do it. I'll say it again. HOW CAN A GIRL LIKE YOU WHEN YOU DON'T LIKE …
/r/askTRP26/08/16 12:48 AM
1

Practice makes perfect. Make a conscious effort in everyday conversation to speak up. After a few months you'll be golden.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 12:40 AM
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You're still very young my dude. I wouldn't even consider the thought of marriage until you've got your life together and figured out what you want. Actually you shouldn't even consider marriage (unless you really know how to handle it). See: Divorce Rape. You've got decades ahead of you. No need to lock yourself out of so many great opportunities.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 12:38 AM
2

There was a story told on RSD that went a little something like this: Man is with group. Man and woman meet and click immediately. Two strong alpha-male tourists walking the street see the party and jump through the window. Instantly they become the spotlight. Man notices that woman is clearly into. He mentioned in the video that he had two clear options. 1) Compete and try to one up them. 2) Step down, befriend the two, and work off their energy. He chose the latter. By not causing unnecessary …
/r/askTRP23/08/16 11:26 PM
1

We don't play their games. We have our own RP playbook.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 12:31 PM
0

Sex really shouldn't be like a war zone. Too much negotiating and it ruins all intimacy. Maybe she had a legitimate reason for not wanting to (which hey could be on your part). I would take note of this one instance, keep it in the back of your head, and see how things progress. Like someone mentioned, don't allow her to make it a habit. Lastly, how are things outside of the bedroom?
/r/askTRP27/07/16 04:10 AM
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I like this one. Then again I've never been married so...
/r/askTRP23/07/16 12:00 AM
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Put extra focus onto your hobbies/responsibilities. Take this time to work on self-improvement (hitting the gym, school work, etc). There's only so much you can over the phone. However, you can show her in person that you are constantly improving. Also I'm pretty sure TRP disagrees with long distance in general. Mostly due to the fact that maintaining attraction is difficult, but also because it's a lot of trust to put into one woman.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 01:10 PM
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I am here to teach. Not to learn. You lost all credibility there. There is always room for improvement. Always lessons to be learned. This whole comment is just one big insecure mess.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 01:35 PM
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Her age to attractiveness ratio.
/r/askTRP18/07/16 02:14 PM
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I know these types of people have mental issues. So solving the issue won't help her in the long run. However, these types of outbursts are usually a cry for help. So there could be some short term solution to help alleviate pressure from his and her life.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 03:28 AM
1

Don't talk to her? Find out what's bothering her and try to resolve it.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 02:42 AM
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I believe that's the core of Buddhist philosophy. Letting go of attachment. Whether that be physical or emotional.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 12:28 AM
5

Some of my easiest pulls involved little to no talking at all. In fact we were both in a position where we couldn't really say much. So I said fuck it and got straight to business. Less is more fellas.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/16 12:30 PM
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You need to be a little more upfront. Normally I would say just go for a kiss, but this is different. Tell her up front what you want. If she's down then just find time to be alone. Also get her number.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 03:11 AM
2

We seriously need an update to how this goes.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 02:13 AM
2

You should look up "The Schedules of Mating." (I think that's the title). The basic rundown is that woman look for two things in a man: 1) Strong genes 2) Protection/Resources. During ovulation, a woman will actively look for the strongest men to get their sperm. Once this period ends she needs to make sure someone will be around to care for her young and keep her safe during pregnancy. This is where she will look for the more nurturing male who has acquired lots of resources. Ideally she wants …
/r/askTRP13/07/16 10:17 PM
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She never played you. You played yourself by being her beta bitch. The only revenge to have here is on yourself for being a fucking pushover. Go get your life together. When you transform into the MAN you want to be THAT will be the ultimate revenge. If you ever see her again after the fact, she will see how amazing your life has become. You will get satisfaction in knowing you'll be able to tell her to fuck off. If you don't see her even better. Go find other girls to occupy your time. And don'…
/r/askTRP13/07/16 03:56 PM
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Please keep us updated on the class discussion that follows your paper. Should be interesting. Though, we all know exactly how it will go.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 02:57 PM
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Escalate, escalate, escalate.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 03:13 AM
0

The fact that he's so confident about it and that he has the IDGAF attitude is why he is so attractive. It is the very essence of owning your environment/alpha male conduct.
/r/askTRP10/07/16 07:30 PM
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I'm glad this has become a learning experience :)
/r/askTRP10/07/16 05:49 AM
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When you've lived your life in scarcity the cycle is hard to break.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 01:12 AM
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The way I deal with this is to game EVERYONE I interact with. That way when I do run into an attractive girl, I'm treating her no different than anyone else. Obviously there will be some differences but this is a good way to relieve some pressure off yourself socially. Once you get into the groove it becomes second nature. Just don't forget to escalate and you should be peachy.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/16 10:27 PM
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How about instead of reporting it to the "authorities" you man up and confront the guy? No guy just randomly kisses a girl. There was something there and he took a chance. If it were really that serious she's perfectly capable of telling someone about it. But seriously, go talk to him yourself. Grow up.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 03:35 AM
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I'm on the same boat as you. I prefer day game to online dating anyway. In order to keep up you need to actively go to local events. Also, get used to pulling girls whenever you go out. You need to game when you're out at the grocery store, at work (not employees), and most importantly within your social group. Having a social group that regularly does things will get you in contact with those girls you'd meet on tinder. So yes you're at a disadvantage. Don't beat yourself up about it. Work with…
/r/askTRP09/07/16 12:07 AM
2

Just escalate before the getting into the theater. Don't wait till you're sitting down. Make a move while you're hanging out, when you first see her, while you're waiting in line, etc. If you're planning on going for the kiss (you always should) absolutely go for it wayyy before the movie. You set the tone for the rest of the night. Just make sure you guys have some privacy as she may not be so receptive with a crowd.
/r/askTRP09/07/16 12:02 AM
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Girl with ear buds was an enormous red flag. But yea, best not to make things complicated and risk losing your job. You can still tease girls at work without crossing any boundaries.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 11:53 PM
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For men, there's no "winning" in this game. As far as this specific situation, looks like he's her Alpha and you're her provider. But really what are you expecting to gain from this sub? Some form of validation that you're "the man" and did everything right? You need to find security within yourself and your life. Don't come to us to feel better about your situations. Work on yourself and become the best version of you possible.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 11:50 PM
1

Yet, America's number 1 killer is heart disease.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 05:45 PM
2

Date younger.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 05:08 PM
1

Don't give someone the pill who does not want it.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 11:47 AM
3

Just recently got into the gym routine... I now know what I must do...
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 02:58 AM
1

How old are you? Meditation is one of the best things you can do for your mental state and over all metabolism. There are deeper levels of your subconscious that you can reach through meditation. This can be a scary experience for a beginner who has never been exposed to it. It is like entering the dream world while you are conscious of what's happening. This is where we tread into the world of lucid dreaming/astral projection. Again, all scary experiences to a newbie. But, at the end of the day…
/r/askTRP07/07/16 11:54 PM
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It sounds like you're highly insecure on your ability to keep a woman attracted to you long term (which that in itself is really hard to do anyway). If you take care of yourself and your life, then there will be no reason to worry. If you are high status enough, she will want to keep you happy and make it clear that you're the one for her. An to be honest you shouldn't care so much. Like /u/koga90 said. If you're always paranoid, it's going to look bad on your frame and she will lose attraction …
/r/askTRP07/07/16 11:25 PM
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Holy fuck you are fast. I applaud you for taking action and checking out of denial land. Welcome aboard. It may be rough at first, but there's light at the end of the tunnel. Also don't ever take her back. Hard next and don't forget to read/re-read the sidebar👍
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 11:10 PM
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Two days on Tinder is like a week in real life. Should of made a move on day 1.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 08:20 PM
1

You'll both find out more about each other when put into a stressful situation.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 06:11 PM
2

If she likes you she'll make it known. Start lifting ;)
/r/askTRP07/07/16 06:09 PM
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Yea I guess if it's a casual setting and is just going to be a date sure go for the kiss. Then again, I would recommend to setup all dates/future first dates to have some type of outdoor "adventure" so you have more leeway to get physical. It doesn't have to always be sex. Just enough where you can hold her close without it being socially awkward.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 05:02 PM
2

With my group I basically stopped going to their events. After the third time of me saying no they got the message and stopped inviting me entirely. With the good friends I let them know up front I'm just looking to improve my life. They understood and backed off. Also it would help to get new hobbies and start making friendships within those groups. It's rough at first, but I never really look back on it now.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 04:39 PM
1

Don't give someone the pill who is not ready. Focus on yourself. Be grateful that these guys exist. Makes your life easier.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 03:31 PM
11

I read it a while ago on this sub. If you don't have the logistics to go for sex (or something close to it) then don't go for the kiss. You break all sexual tension. Sexual tension that could be used to get her excited for sex. She's already kissed you so there's no more mystery. Only go in hard if you're able to follow it up.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 03:29 PM
1

It doesn't matter what I would do because it's not my life. Not my scenario. You are your own man. Are you going to live your entire life asking internet strangers on what's the next step? Listen to your gut and take action.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 07:01 PM
3

People seriously need to stop using this sub the Holy Bible of game or as a "Solve-my-life-problems-in-a-second." You're a man. Make your own decisions in life. Only YOU know what you want. We're not here to hold your hand. Yes some life decisions are hard. Deal with it. This is a place to learn and grow. Can't keep the training wheels on forever.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 06:57 PM
1

Yes. Cooking for her is fine, but are you planning to use that scenario to escalate? If you guys are just spending time together to "hang out" while you're spending money she's going to place you into the provider category. I mean it already seems like she has. Nothing wrong with giving her some commitment. But, it seems like you're giving too much for little return. Lastly, never forget AWALT. Even with potential LTRs.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 05:26 PM
1

Sounds to me like approach anxiety. Nevertheless, keep on doing you. The women will follow.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/16 05:09 PM
1

Only 20% (or less) will take this message to heart.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 01:36 PM
-1

Yet, you're still massively insecure.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 11:55 AM
1

Thank you for breaking this post down. I seriously almost barfed reading through it the first time. Glad we get some extra insight.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 02:13 AM
2

Example: A few months back I told myself to approach attractive woman without preparation. At first it was definitely forced and the awkwardness always showed. There was always hesitation and sometimes I bailed. Now, the instant she comes into view I can feel my body motioning towards her and my subconscious preparing for the interaction. That feeling of adrenaline in my gut is no longer a bother and I usually don't even notice it. Repetition Repetition Repetition. Key to success.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 01:32 AM
2

You will be getting accustomed to the fact that the two of you live together, you are her emotional tampon, AND she'll be fucking other guys. You are her back up plan for when she's unable to find someone else. It's just a disaster waiting to happen. Don't move in with her because you like her. Move in with her because you need a roommate. However, if you're taking the steps to improve yourself and swallow the pill, you need to let this girl go. Get her out of your head and, if possible, life. S…
/r/askTRP04/07/16 02:26 PM
1

This case is a but tricky,. However, I don't think she will leave you for having too high SMV,. Especially if you're physically showing interest. The catch is that she may (will*) leave you once you start getting comfortable. I would say to keep doing what you're doing as there's a bigger risk of her losing attraction if you change things up. Listen to her ACTIONS not her WORDS.
/r/askTRP03/07/16 06:15 PM
-2

Well you still need a healthy blood flow to have strong erections. So taking care of your blood pressure is key :)
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 01:32 PM
-2

Careful with all that cholesterol and empty calories from the oil. Clogged arteries are not good for erections :x
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 04:02 AM
1

And if she starts the conversation with: "What's your name?" You say: "You can call me daddy ;)"
/r/askTRP03/07/16 02:23 AM
3

Glad I posted so now everyone knows not to.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 11:03 PM
3

Slow down a bit and break the touch barrier.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 11:01 PM
3

She's setting you up to be the provider. You are quickly moving into her trap. Fucking run for the hills. No contact.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 07:41 PM
1

Boners = blood to penis. If you have clogged arteries/high blood pressure it will be difficult to get/maintain an erection. Reduce cholesterol/saturated fat intake. Increase cardio. More beans and veggies.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 07:33 PM
1

Because she wants you to be superior and YOU want to be superior. You want to dominate. She wants you to dominate. She wants to be below you and submissive.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 07:26 PM
3

Dance with her. No words. Just eye contact and body language. Break touch barrier as soon as possible.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 07:22 PM
3

Get your own place 👍 Also maybe a park at night.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 07:21 PM
14

"Well if Jamie's wearing a miniskirt then I MUST also wear one to compete!" It's kind of cute when you think about it. Sad scenario though...
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 12:10 PM
10

When to escalate? Always. Push and pull as necessary for the situation. But, if she's giving you the time of day for a conversation, escalate escalate escalate.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 12:02 PM
12

When you're inside another girl I guarantee these feelings will go away. Go talk to more women.
/r/askTRP01/07/16 11:42 AM
6

As a skinny guy I will say this. You can have the mental frame of a 10 while rocking the body of an 8. However, if you want to break that barrier and become a "god" then you have some serious work/bulking to do. That being said, to smaller girls you might be "big enough" to be a 10 in their eyes. Perspective is everything.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 12:43 AM
1

It's a health risk to not ejaculate regularly. NoPorn is the way to go. Always try for sex before going for masturbation. And remember, it's better to jerk it than get someone pregnant.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 09:55 PM
1

This sounds like an /r/relationships post... You've known in your heart what to do from the beginning. Just do it and go review the sidebar.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 08:13 PM
4

A woman who has all the desirable traits for giving birth and attracting alpha mates.
/r/seduction29/06/16 02:01 PM
19

Work out. Talk to 100 girls. Until you get this experience (yes all 100 women) you will continue to mope for the rest of your life. Get off your ass and fight.
/r/seduction29/06/16 01:57 PM
3

I've heard this quote used around here a lot: "Once she views you as a beta/provider, there's no changing her mind." It's mostly all subconscious. If you've played that role in her life for an extended period it's really not going to change over night. Same goes to your mental state. Maybe you've improved your life and increased SMV, but when you're with her you revert back to old habits. In these situations it's usually best to move on rather than rework the entire dynamic of the friendship/rel…
/r/askTRP27/06/16 12:06 PM
1

I think you should transition to group hang outs rather than cold approach. You'll be able to practice your social skills again in a more relaxed environment.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 11:52 AM
1

"So I can't confirm." That was it. It should of been clear at that moment she wasn't interested. Work on your own life. Stop chasing girls.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 11:12 PM
1

Sleeping is good for your mental health, metabolism, and overall body functioning. You need to be a bit more specific.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 05:49 PM
2

I could just be the culture of that town. Doesn't seem like you were being too pushy, but to them maybe it was.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 04:37 PM
1

I know it's not a direct solution, but try sleeping more. Your stress could be caused by loneliness alone, but it's usually a combination of things. I usually feel 10 times better after a slump if I just dedicate myself to mental health. It also gets me in the mood to take action and work on my life.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 02:23 PM
1

The best way to get over a woman, is to get inside another woman.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 10:56 PM
4

Strong Eye Contact + Smug Grin
/r/askTRP23/06/16 10:50 PM
1

I wouldn't recommend using mouth wash often. Since it's alcohol based you're killing off the good bacteria in your mouth as well. Frequent use could mean more bad breath in the long term.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 12:33 PM
1

Masterbate if you need to. You may find it easier to approach with a clear head. Problems only arise when you abuse porn.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 07:46 PM
1

Find a passion. Stretch your social legs with people you feel comfortable with. Workout everyday. Talk to girls even if you don't get their numbers or date them.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 05:13 AM
1

Do what you love to do. Play what you love to play. Treat this as a passion. Not a job interview.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 05:09 AM
1

No.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 05:06 AM
2

Try things out of your comfort zone extensively.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 05:05 AM
3

Try it for one day and watch how people treat you. I absolutely have no desire to keep tabs on my wardrobe. However, I do have a good amount of nice clothes. When I wear them out people treat me with respect. It's much easier to approach woman because I know I'm always ready. Try it once and see how you feel.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 02:39 AM
2

Do things that normally would feel uncomfortable for you. Say what ever is on your mind regardless of what people think of you. Walk up to a 10 that you'd never dare talk to. Regardless if you get a number or not to point is you're stretching your social legs and seeing how far you can go with them. Practice on normal everyday people as well.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 11:22 PM
1

Newbie here. Grain of salt. You want to first commit to abundance mentality. Realize that there are many potential mates. So, losing one is not a big deal. Then, put it into practice. Go out and actually talk to a lot of girls. You'll notice during conversation that you won't be as attached or come off as needy. That's because you actually have plenty of options and committing too many resources to one person is illogical. You've now given yourself an aura of: "What do you have to offer, pretty …
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 08:48 PM
2

"What are you doing? Getting hit by the waves." Holy shit this hit me like a truck. If I want to start anything I need to go get used to the feeling of failing. Thank you. Going to go out, get rejected, and like it 😎
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/16 08:57 AM
5

Underrated answer. Things are never so black and white.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 11:16 PM
1

I really don't think you would feel good about it. Look forward to a better future.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 09:16 PM
1

Sounds completely evolutionary. Your swimmers shoe her she's a compatible mate. But, you shouldn't take it heart. It's impossible for you to understand how her genitals work entirely and she doesn't hold you accountable.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 03:21 AM
3

Never change. Never compromise.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/16 04:11 PM
0

/r/theredpill
/r/seduction08/05/16 10:05 PM
6

I don't have to be 50 to appreciate intellect.
/r/askTRP08/05/16 02:40 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=phdr4L2xAzA
/r/askTRP01/05/16 04:26 AM
1

I can definitely see the benefit of disconnecting from porn to get the confidence to engage with real woman. However, for me I've had more success talking to women when I do my business in regular cycles. I don't feel anxious or jiggerty. I can stay level headed when talking to and, to be honest, I've been more open and flirtatious because of it. Even if after I've just finished jerking it, I still find myself highly attracted to the girls I meet in public, and want to actively pursue them. So m…
/r/askTRP01/05/16 04:24 AM
2

Was in love with my best friend for a very long time. We would hang out and talk nearly everyday. Yet, she was still dating other guys. So she had finally broken up with someone and in my head I thought "yes this is my chance." A week later she's already hitting off with someone else. Realized I needed to stop being such a push over and take matters into my own hands. Discovered RSD (real social dynamics) and eventually TRP. Everything begin to click. My entire middle school/high school dating l…
/r/askTRP20/04/16 11:24 PM
0

Reducing saturated fats and cholesterol well help to increase blood flow to the penis. Also cardio helps.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 08:52 PM
3

For anyone looking for protein sources with less saturated fats/cholesterol: Lentils/Black Beans, Oatmeal, Chia Seeds, Nuts/Nut Butters. Just make sure you're still packing the calories when bulking.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 03:41 PM
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