Tangential0 Archive

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–	Single Parenthood as a factor in the current dating market situation. Nah, simps are generally the result of mommy issues. Guys whose mothers were emotionally distant from them, didn't treat them with enough love, were harsh towards them or made them feel they had to earn their approval, tend to put female attention and approval on a pedestal, and become obsessed with pleasing women. Guys whose fathers were absent, either literally or emotionally, tend to become self-centred, entitled and have little respect for other people's boundaries. This can manifest itself …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 01:13 PM
–	Single Parenthood as a factor in the current dating market situation. I think men who haven't had father figures tend to be less respectful of boundaries, so they're more likely to feel entitled to dates/sex/harems and be willing to be manipulative to get it, than men who grew up with present father figures. Fathers often have a role of "laying down the law" in the family, especially with boys when they get to the age of saying "no" to everything and always wanting their way. Obviously this is a generalisation, but it often falls that way. Mom has been at work all…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/24 01:00 PM
5	Q4W: are there any sex acts or kinks that you would do with a casual partner/hook-up/FWB but not with a long term partner or husband? What if the fact that the ex had a certain kink was negative marks in terms of ranking for that person?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 02:53 PM
6	Q4W: are there any sex acts or kinks that you would do with a casual partner/hook-up/FWB but not with a long term partner or husband? A lot of dudes here seem to think that women are not in anyway posessive over their partners, and in fact actually like the thoughts of watching him fuck another woman, and that women all have lesbian fantasies that they want to fulfill. Its probably a symptom of porn brain. If the majority of ones interaction with women comes from watching them in porn, one would tend to think that way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 02:52 PM
8	Q4W: are there any sex acts or kinks that you would do with a casual partner/hook-up/FWB but not with a long term partner or husband? Going from "ex" to "rando" is a jump you're making. I get the impression with most of these scenarios, she tried it with an ex LTR, didn't like it, and decided she wouldn't ever do it again. Not that she did it with a random dude she hooked up with. Think about this: Say you tried pegging once or twice with your ex-gf and you absolutely hated it, found it painful etc. Would you be happy to try it again with a new gf? For threesomes, its complicated as theres a third person invloved, which can re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 02:46 PM
13	Approaching women is very possible, it's just not like fulfilling video game objectives where following a list of steps leads you to a definite reward. Fake implies that you're fabricating a persona for yourself that isn't real. So lying about your life story, your accomolishments, your interests, etc. Whereas including everyone in the conversation, asking people non-creepy questions, etc, is more like polishing yourself up and putting your best foot forward, than "fakery". You're not fabricating, you're just presenting your authentic self in a good light. Its like comparing makeup and skincare to cosmetic surgery. Or a photograph of a real obj…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 01:51 PM
1	Sam Bankman-Fried's girlfriend Caroline. Um, what? He's weird looking in the same way that Caroline Ellison is weird looking, to be honest. Both of these people are "average" in the sense that they're at a healthy weight, look like they take care of themselves etc. But also their faces are just not aesthetic and maybe even unnerving to a lot of people. It feels mean to say this since its not something either of them have control over, but also the uncanny valley effect is real and tends to produce a very strong negative feeling in many people. P…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 01:17 PM
1	Were you more physically attracted to your hookups/situationships/fwbs compared to your more serious partners? I think most people do not like the thought of their partner being with another person, and struggle a little bit with the idea that their partner has a past. However its something that one has to accept if they want to actually have a relationship. For this reason, most people either take a "don't ask, don't tell" policy to romantic history, or they just get that stuff out on the table early on, see if its all good with each other, and if so, go on and focus on the future. I think some men have…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 12:56 PM
22	Women who are against and mad at paternity test. Just....why? As an actual man, if my partner was to get pregnant, I wouldn't even ask for a paternity test. It would be the last thing on my mind, to be honest. But speaking hypothetically, I would be okay without a paternity test if: The birth was happening in the context of a long-term, committed relationship, where no cheating had been known to happen previously I genuinely trusted my partner and believed she was a fundamentally good person That said, if the above two conditions were not met, I would not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/24 08:15 AM
11	Your cohabitating spouse or SO should have their own bedroom. I think anyone who literally can't sleep beside their spouse after a normal argument either has emotional issues or doesn't really love them. Like if you've literally gotten to the point where you potentially might be breaking up afterwards then fair enough. But a standard argument shouldn't result in not being able to be in a room with the person after longer than like an hour or two has passed since the argument.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 03:54 PM
7	The problem with the paternity test debate Cool, suits me. Thanks for your time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 03:01 PM
1	The problem with the paternity test debate Read my earlier comment. It could be for something like genetic screening for diseases or conditions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 03:00 PM
10	The problem with the paternity test debate Capitalising words in text is known as shouting. It tends to make it difficult to take what is written seriously. Is that data from babies born to married couples, babies whose birth occurred after seperation, or babies whose birth occurred due to a one-night stand/casual relationship? I think thats a relevant question to ask, and is not changing the subject, but rather bringing the data into the context of the subject being discussed, as I was referring only to men who are married to the mother…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 02:47 PM
9	The problem with the paternity test debate In what country, and in what context: Babies born to married couples, babies born to already separated couples or babies resultinf from one night stands? No need to shout.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 02:34 PM
3	The problem with the paternity test debate That falls into the first category.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 02:23 PM
5	The problem with the paternity test debate Thats fucked up. But I don't really see how its relevant to what I'm saying. All I'm saying is that I understand why a parent who is raising a child with another parent, as a family, would be pissed off if their partner submitted their child's DNA to a third party without informing them first. I'd put it in the same category as say, signing up your child to a particular school without discussing the choice with the other parent. I never said it should be illegal, or taken as an incrimination of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 01:35 PM
2	The problem with the paternity test debate I think if the father is willing to take full custody of his child which the mother doesn't want, and can pass all of the standard checks, then he should be allowed to. I wasn't aware that he wasn't, and I'm not from the USA, but if thats how things are thats pretty messed up and should change. As for whether or not getting a paternity test without the mother's consent is a problem: I don't think its "a problem", at least in the sense that I don't believe it should be illegal, nor the dad should…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 01:31 PM
2	The problem with the paternity test debate The younger someone is, the more likely they are to insist on privacy for privacy’s sake. Disagree on this from my experience, at least as far as technology is concerned. Stuff like sharing locations with your partner is a very new thing and I pretty much only hear of Gen-Zs doing it. Millennials and older tend to view its a stalkerish. Older people might be more okay with the idea of sharing accounts for convenience (like shared social media, email, knowing each others passwords (i.e. the dog's…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 01:14 PM
23	The problem with the paternity test debate I think most men ask for paternity tests because of one of the following: They have an anxiety problem or some form of neurodivergence that makes trust difficult (this probably covers a good portion of redpillers) They have trauma from being cheated on previously Something about their wife's behaviour doesn't sit right with them and makes them subcosciously suspicious Very few "normal" men in happy relationships want them. I don't understand why they're treated like such a common thing here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 01:04 PM
5	The problem with the paternity test debate I think submitting your child's DNA to a database you don't know the owner of without informing the other parent first, is something pretty valid to be pissed at your partner for doing. Generally, parents tend to want to agree on things they are going to do with their child, especially when untrusted third parties are involved. If my partner and I had a baby, and she submitted the baby's DNA to some privately-operated, for-profit genetic screening service, I'd be fucking livid. First of all, you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 01:01 PM
1	Struggling guys SHOULD go to bars/clubs/parties I think going with a group of guys is probably the best idea. Going alone will likely just lead to fading into the background.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 12:40 PM
1	Struggling guys SHOULD go to bars/clubs/parties Generally I find, at least in Ireland, that groups of girls will go up to groups of guys and start a group interaction, or vice versa, and inevitable a few of them will couple up. Going to a bar alone is a bad idea if you want to meet new people, but with a group, you often will.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 12:39 PM
7	Struggling guys SHOULD go to bars/clubs/parties For clubs I agree. For bars, it depends on the bar. For parties, I completely disagree. Is it not generally sort of taboo to not mingle at a party and go around introducing yourself?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 12:30 PM
5	SOLUTION: Men get to ask for a DNA test as long as the GF/wife gets to randomly check his phone/tablet/computer and check that’s he not abusing the child. This sounds like a pretty fair arrangement	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 12:11 PM
8	Question for the Red Pill about Paternity I think most men ask for paternity tests because of one of the following: They have an anxiety problem or some form of neurodivergence that makes trust difficult They have trauma from being cheated on previously Something about their wife's behaviour doesn't sit right with them and makes them subcosciously suspicious Very few "normal" men in happy relationships want them. I don't understand why they're treated like such a common thing here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 07:55 AM
5	Question for the Red Pill about Paternity Are women with go bags or secret accounts walking around the house petrified their husband is about to haul off on them any moment? Personally I would say they are. None of that is normal behaviour.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 07:52 AM
8	Harmless Joke or Disrespect? I think you might be overestimating how many people are aware of, let alone use this sub...	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/24 07:13 AM
–	Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands. I think you might have this arseways. Conscientousness predicts conservative beliefs. That doesn't mean that everyone conscientous person has to be conservative, it just means that conscientousness is over-represented in conservative people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 10:01 PM
–	Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands. The man leading because he and his wife believe he should lead on account of his gender is conservative. The man leading because that just so happens to be his personality is not necessarily conservative.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 10:00 PM
–	Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands. The benefit in training long distance running is so you can win long distance races. Are you familiar with the concept of sport? Long distance runners absolutely go all out, and train for speed as well as endurance. Everyone is doing the same distance, so speed and strength is what it ultimately comes down to. The best long distance runners are sustaining sub 5 minute miles over 26+ miles, so to say they aren't physically strong is completely ridiculous. Plus, running and jogging are completely …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 09:46 PM
–	Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands. Yeah, the whole idea is to be as light as possible so you burn as few calories as possible while running.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 09:43 PM
–	Modern women want conservative masculine men but who are politically liberal, to go along with their other long list of demands. As someone who has been lifting on and off for 10 years, my experience has been that there really isn't a political hegemony to fitness circles. There are people who lift weights from literally everywhere along the political spectrum. I think right-leaning men tend to talk about the importance of lifting a lot, but that often doesn't translate to actually lifting more. The dudes who actually shut the fuck up and get under the fucking bar consistently are a varied bunch. I've also done a bit of l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/24 04:54 PM
2	Q4W: Do you hold your female friends accountable for how they treat good men in a relationship? To be fair, in her comment, man number 1 sounds toxic as fuck, and man number 2 sounds stupid as fuck. Both of those things are way worse than mediocre.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 03:35 PM
2	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? One woman on AITAH did this.... AITAH is known for fabricated rage bait	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 03:24 PM
2	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? Would you be okay with sharing your location with your partner 24/7, for her peace of mind that you're not cheating?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 03:18 PM
10	Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth? She's recovering from childbirth, pregnancy and dealing with a newborn baby. Its a crazy, rough time, but a super special one too. Its pretty understandable that she would be pissed that rather than gushing over cute his baby is and how he can't wait to raise his kid with her, her husband is talking about how his paternity test is progressing and how he can't wait to find out whether or not the woman who just went through the most gruelling and painful 12+ hours of her life to give them their ow…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 03:14 PM
3	If you demand a paternity test, you are calling your baby mama a cheating whore. In the case of a job asking for references, the fact is that they don't trust you. When you're offered a job, your employer has read your CV and met you at most a handful of times for interviews, so there is literally no relationship to speak of, and nothing to base trust on. They ask for references and background checks, and put you on a probationary period, for the expresss reason that they do not and should not trust you. If you think any employer has trusted you when you were offered a job, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 02:52 PM
2	Do men still prefer to be the main breadwinner? And what would the ideal wife be in this scenario? On the man's part: Someone who earns a lot of money, likely spends a lot of time working and less time with their wife and family, which over time leads to them growing apart, which in turn makes divorce more likely. On the woman's part: Assuming she is unhappy in the relationship, divorcing a husband who earns a lot of money but is often absent is significantly safer and carries more incentive than divorcing one who earns an average amount and is an involved partner and parent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/24 10:36 AM
4	Denying sex in a marriage should be considered cheating. Something tells me jay-de-leon would be Taliban target practice within 5 minutes of crossing the border.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 02:00 PM
5	Denying sex in a marriage should be considered cheating. You're saying this as if most families aren't dual income nowadays	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 01:59 PM
15	Men have bad sex lives because they judge women based on bluepill ideas instead of facing the reality.. This is it. They resent any man who can get girls, so they will shoehorn him into the "bad guy" mould any way they can. The OP thinks a "good man" should call his wife every time he leaves the office, and buy her an iPhone (€1000+) for their anniversary. When a decent guy is in a relationship or has a good sex/dating life, they raise the standards of "good behaviour" so that he falls into the category of "bad guy".	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 01:56 PM
8	Men have bad sex lives because they judge women based on bluepill ideas instead of facing the reality.. I haven't ever bought my partner an anniversary gift and I don't call her when I'm leaving the office. I guess I must be the baddest boy there is 😈	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 01:53 PM
10	Women are lazier when it comes to relationships Every woman I've ever date was happy to split bills, and to alternate paying dates. And theres never been any expectation to be romantic in the classic way. Honestly I think its just a case of different types of men attracting different types of women. Men who are very into maintaining frame, being the leader, chivalry, etc. naturally end up attracting women who want to step into a frame thats been defined for them, who want to be led, and who want to be treated like a princess. Naturally, plann…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 07:20 AM
1	What advice would you give to a young guy who formed the belief that women find bad men exciting to prevent him from swallowing the redpill? I think the chances of a boy thinking this are much, much lower if he has a father figure in his life and a good family/home life. So, if I was a father, I would first and foremost try to maintain a good home life. I would provide a loving, caring environment for my kids, and ensure that they always feel safe around their mother and I. I would never show disrespect towards my partner in front of the kids, and would expect the same of her towards me. I would foster a dynamic where my partner and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 11:18 AM
-1	What advice would you give to a young guy who formed the belief that women find bad men exciting to prevent him from swallowing the redpill? Only 13% of women regularly use dating apps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 10:39 AM
5	The case of Gisèle Pelicot has me wondering, what percentage of guys would rape if they thought they could totally get away with it? I think the mob mentality, and even moreso the small town effect, is a very important factor here. The probability of anyone doing anything bad goes up significantly if everyone else in their community is doing it, and especially if a "pillar" of the community is sanctioning or facilitating the abuse. Read up on the actions of Gertrude Banizewski towards her stepdaughter Sylvia Likens. Its somewhat similar to this case, in that Banizewski sexually abused and physically tortured and mutilated Lik…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/24 10:09 AM
4	In experience, how do women act in the presence of an "Alpha" male? Just say you're gay dude	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/24 01:34 PM
7	Red Pill Men, Do You Realize You’re Creating a Larger Pool of Non-Toxic Women for Us? Agreed. Women resent being told to what to do, especially by men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/24 06:14 PM
6	Why is racism the line most misandrists won't cross? Netanyahu stands for a complete supression of the palestinian people. And thats unnaceptable. Complete suppression at best. Complete annihilation at worst.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/09/24 03:56 PM
6	Why is racism the line most misandrists won't cross? And whats more, what is currently happening in Gaza is only going to cause radicalism to grow in Palestine, and only going to further bolstsr support for Hamas, or whoever comes after them.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/09/24 03:56 PM
1	Would you allow your daughter to go to college? Hasn't there been tons of layoffs in the tech industry in recent years? Yes, but the majority of them were marketing, sales and HR people. Of the software developers who were laid off, most were due to projects being cancelled as companies moved out of growth phases and into phases of retaining customers. None of these people were laid off because their jobs were automated.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/24 03:34 PM
1	Do you really believe men were happier in their romantic relationships in the past, according to current standards? It's why things like Jello molds with fruit and chicken and all sorts of weird shit was put into it, because as children that was considered a luxury item I think thats more to do with the fact that aspic (solidified bone broth) was simply considered a normal part of the diet before factory farming took off in the western world and suddenly you could eat prime cuts of meat every day. In much of Europe, eating stuff like this is still considered normal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/24 08:39 PM
8	If women are allowed to divorce their husbands for wanting paternity test, then this guy is justified in leaving his wife for wanting to look at his phone Personally I'm not fine with secret bags, and would understand someone not being fine with paternity tests (in a long-term relationship, paternity tests after breakups or for hookup babies are a different story) Paranoia like that is cancer to a relationship and once you open the can of worms theres not closing it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/24 04:51 PM
0	If women are allowed to divorce their husbands for wanting paternity test, then this guy is justified in leaving his wife for wanting to look at his phone If he only wants one because he needs to “trust but verify” however, while knowing that I’ve done nothing to lose his trust, then I would need to step away from the married, because the lack of trust can’t be repaired since there is no source or cause. Aside from his paranoia. And if you concede to that paranoia, it only gets worse. It doesn't stop with the going through the phone or paternity test. Next it will be routine checks of phones and emails. Then they'll ask you to share your location …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/24 03:39 PM
14	If women are allowed to divorce their husbands for wanting paternity test, then this guy is justified in leaving his wife for wanting to look at his phone I remember seeing one where a guy found a secret bag his wife packed in case she ever needed to run away from him. He asked her about it and she lied, then later admitted she kept it in case she ever needed to flee from him at short notice. The guy was rightly upset, but people absolutely piled on him. For what its worth, I'm pretty sure that sub is 90% ragebait.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/24 03:33 PM
1	If you found a study saying that men who cheated on their wives had on average 230% more previous sexual partners than men who did not. Would that make you more concerned about body count than you currently are? The fact that women who have had sex before would rather not be a guys first time, does not mean that they find a guy having a lot of casual sex to be attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 02:11 PM
–	CMV: Having no friends is NOT a red flag, especially in the modern day No. I also think if someone simply can't maintain friendships its a red flag. If someone can't keep a friendship alive, how are they going to be able to manage a relationship? Realistically relationships are more effort than friendships. A red flag doesn't mean "run", it just means "this might be an indication of incompatibility". All 3 things you listed as reasons not to have friendship, are also legitimate reasons not to want to be in a relationship with someone. If someone is so focused on th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 10:00 AM
–	The problem with modern dating is that women are now in the driver seat but they don’t want to be there I mean, a fair number of men seem to also want to "turn a hoe into a housewife". That seems to be at least part of the motive of the Red Pill, as most of the early stage advice is only applicable for dating women who are forever "playing the field", and is counterproductive if dating a more reserved, traditional or introverted woman. My experience is that a lot of women have hangups about having serious relationships with players or ex-players, for similar reasons as men (i.e. stds, inability to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/24 09:39 AM
5	Men should be doing a sex ratio to effort check in their relationships. I think its moreso that men with good sex lives with their partner don't tend to talk about it much. While men with bad sex lives do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 10:56 AM
3	Men should be doing a sex ratio to effort check in their relationships. Maybe try not spending large amounts of money on women you are not in a relationship with?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 10:52 AM
1	Men really need to stop dating women who can't have orgasms I never said anyone preferred using toys to using their dick though, did I?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 10:49 AM
1	Men really need to stop dating women who can't have orgasms no man should be dating a woman (unless she's literally perfect in every other department) who can't orgasm at all with a partner. So in short, the lack of orgasms would be an issue in an unhappy relationship, but okay in a happy relationship. The fact that a man is so bothered by his partner struggling to orgasm is likely an indication that there is something bigger wrong with the relationship already. It might be the catalyst for things to end, but I find it unlikely that a man who is happy an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/24 10:11 AM
1	With respect to attraction, what is considered a "healthy male hobby"? I think a lot of people have had the experience of seeing video games becoming an addiction or overly escapist, with a larger frequency or to a greater degree than other hobbies. I feel its far more common for a person to neglect other aspects of his or her life in favour of video games than say, going to the gym, hiking, amateur soccer, photography etc. My guess is that video games, especially modern ones, are very much designed around being short-term, low effort dopamine hits. Whereas art is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 04:19 PM
1	Can men and women be "just" friends" How do you feel about your SO having friends of the opposite sex? Friends with ex's? Friends with former FWBs? How do you feel about your SO having friends of the opposite sex? Thats fine and I would say healthy. I have friends of the opposite sex so it would be hypocritical of me to take issue with this. Friends with ex's? Thats fine in principle, but in practice it could be different. I might take issue with it if they broke up very recently, if they clearly still had feelings for the ex, if the ex was an asshole to me, or if they were spending a huge amount of time one on one with the ex. Friends with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 11:09 AM
3	Why do women dislike video games and men who play them ? Men scroll on their phone too. Everywhere I go, everyone is scrolling on their phone. Man, woman, child, dog.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 11:01 AM
9	Why do women dislike video games and men who play them ? I think with gaming, people tend to assume a high frequency. I don't know anyone who plays golf every day, but about three quarters of the people I know who call themselves gamers, game every single evening for several hours. That said, not everyone who plays video games calls themself a gamer. But those who do, tend to game a lot. Realistically the average hobbyist gamer spends many more hours gaming than the average hobbyist golfer spends golfing. Plus, the fact is that golf has more benefits …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/24 10:59 AM
0	CMV: The requirement that your spouse be your best friend is gendered I think this is worth thinking about. A lot of the women who post and comment here seem relatively well adjusted and emotionally stable, as well as older than the male posters. In contrast, a lot of the men who post and comment here seem relatively maladjusted and neurotic, and younger. So I think there are many women who don't value their partner being their friend, but not here, and many men who do value their partner being their friend, but not here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 01:15 PM
3	"Women might be pickier, but their preferences are also unique to each one of them", actually they're rather similar Is the whole idea of a scale not to be a bell curve? So 5s are the most common, 0s and 10s are the least common? Therefore, there should be the same number of male 7s and female 7s. If that is not the case, then the scale is completely defective and meaningless.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 01:06 PM
8	"Women might be pickier, but their preferences are also unique to each one of them", actually they're rather similar The type of people who go on vacations for the purpose of finding dates, aren't really the norm. "Hobbyist" daters (i.e. people who go on dates every weekend, but massive effort into their dating profiles, dedicate a lot of energy to dating with a purpose) tend to be pretty similar to one another, both men and women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/24 01:03 PM
1	hook ups, fwb and long term dating... My experience is that women if they actually like the guy and he initiates sex but she doesn't feel ready for it, will just say something like "I'm not feeling it tonight, but maybe next time". Ideally the guy just says "cool" and they go on with their evening. Its generally only if the guy plays the "Oh I paid for dinner (even though you didn't even ask), the least you can do is come home with me" or if he keeps trying it on again in a short space of time, that the woman actually gets angry.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 05:40 PM
6	Women, if you don't find men that much attractive and loveable, are you going to prefer female-female only relationships over men and wish such a society? Everything I've seen and heard seems to suggest that most women require at least some degree of clitoral stimulation to orgasm consistently, and that orgasms from penetration alone aren't the norm. Maybe you have very different sources to me though. As for the whole lesbian sex thing, the number of straight women who also have sex with other women is a lot smaller than you think it is. The average straight woman does not have a sexual attraction to other women, let alone casually fucking them. T…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 02:49 PM
8	Women, if you don't find men that much attractive and loveable, are you going to prefer female-female only relationships over men and wish such a society? explain how women don’t orgasm even with their “partners”. Because most women require clitoral stimulation to orgasm, and this does not happen inherently as part of PIV sex. Explain why women tend to orgasm more with other women if there isn’t a deep seated disdain for men. Because other women generally know what tends to feels good for a woman genitally from experience, so there isn't as much need for explanation or trial and error. Explain how women, if they are orgasming with men, are doing s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 01:52 PM
7	Women, if you don't find men that much attractive and loveable, are you going to prefer female-female only relationships over men and wish such a society? You can just as easily make tje argument that men hate women on a subconscious level...	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 01:47 PM
11	Women, if you don't find men that much attractive and loveable, are you going to prefer female-female only relationships over men and wish such a society? Most men go to war because they're forced to against their will, by conscription and drafts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 01:45 PM
2	Why is it wrong to say that if men are in the mood and women are neutral (but not agaisnt it) they should have sex with their SO? I think many women already do exactly this, and do indeed have sex with their bf/husband more often than they personally would ideally like, so as to keep him happy and confident. However, red pillers aren't okay with this either, and call it "duty sex". And extremely insulting and demeaning thing to be given I understand.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 11:54 AM
2	Why is it wrong to say that if men are in the mood and women are neutral (but not agaisnt it) they should have sex with their SO? A responsive sexual desire doesn't mean that someone will get turned on once someone starts physically having sex with them. It means someone will get turned on when they feel that their partner is turned on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 11:50 AM
3	Give her the chaos she craves The thing is, you can challenge her, make her feel things, keep things interesting, make her feel alive, without being unstable/chaotic/manipulative/abusive/etc. I somewhat agree with your premise that getting too comfortable in a relationship (i.e. taking her love for granted, getting lazy, not putting effort in) and losing your sense of self (i.e. not letting her do things to make you happy, not having opinions, not communicating your wants and needs) can often lead to indifference in a relati…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/24 11:45 AM
1	Most of what gives women the "ick" are just perceived shortcomings of masculinity Most of the icks I've heard women I know talk about have been behaviours that are contrived or cringeworthy, rather than non-masculine. Actual examples I've heard: White Irish men saying "bruh" or "fam", a guy reading a book while he was in the queue at a nightclub, a guy putting on a fake accent to seem cool, a guy wearing sunglasses inside.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 08:13 PM
–	Why do women often prefer dad bods over six-packs? I think "dad bod" in mass media terms just means the body of a man who works out regularly, but also likes eating and drinking. So we're talking Zac Efron or Leo DiCaprio, rather than Kyle Gass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 08:06 PM
1	The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse. I agree with you somewhat, but I think there are some other considerations to make: Women who experience abuse or negligence from males close to them growing up often have abuse and love intrinsically linked in their psyche. Because the men who should have, or claimed to, love them early in their lives abused and/or neglected them, they come to associate abuse and neglect with male love, or even treat abuse and neglect as part of how men show love. (Read Normal People by Sally Rooney if you want…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/08/24 07:55 PM
1	Male sexuality is beautiful and as important as emotional bonding is If you read literally any chick-lit romance novel, you'll see pretty quickly that women find male sexuality beautiful. However, something being beautiful doesn't mean you want it in your face constantly, or you want to deal with in every situation and every context. Personally I think Michelangelo's David is beautiful, however I'd be pretty pissed off if it suddenly appeared right in my doorway and I couldn't move it. I think Edvard Munch's The Scream is the most evocative painting in history, b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/24 01:02 PM
–	Ireland: A Case Study on the Most Difficult Country for Dating on Earth Its a bit weird that he says Irish girls all want lads that are over 6 foot, then also says that hes over 6 foot and it gives him no advantage. Personally, as an Irish man of 5'6", my experience is that Ireland does have quite a lot of height queens. They don't tend to be super aggressive about it, but they will silently reject lads or just not consider lads who are on the shorter side. I think regarding masculinity, Irish women can be quite fiery (but then again, so are the women of most nation…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/08/24 03:08 PM
2	What do you want? Would you be willing to elaborate more on why only female birth control is relevant?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/07/24 02:51 PM
1	What do you want? Why are condoms absent from this list? Does women having control over contraception cause an issue that men having control over it doesn't?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/07/24 02:45 PM
0	What do you want? Genital mutilation of children of any gender is illegal unless medically necessary. Abortion is legal and a heavily protected right for women. A man by default only has legal rights and responsibilities towards a child he is the biological father of, if he was married to or in a civil partnership with the mother at the approximate time of conception. If the couple is unmarried, the father may opt in to be the child's legal father, with the mother's prior consent. The marital obligation can be co…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/07/24 02:38 PM
1	What issues does each gender actually face depending on their gender? I do agree that many women love benevolent sexism. However, I also think that many women who don't like benevolent sexism, get grief for calling it out. So its a bit of a "damned if you do, damned if you don't" situation for them: If they smile and say thanks they're princesses benefitting from sexism, if they say no thank you or insist on not accepting the sexism, they're crazy feminists. For example, if a man holds open a door for a woman, offers to pump petrol for a woman, insists on paying f…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/07/24 02:18 PM
2	From Great Men of History to Great Men are History I don't think this is exclusive to men. You mention John Lennon as Reddit's favourite "akshyually they were a really bad person" scapegoat. How about Mother Teresa? IMO she's the other historical person, besides Lennon, that Reddit loves to push a single-sided view of. She's often painted as a sick religious cultist who got off on people's suffering, when in reality she was simply an extremely religious woman trying to make a difference in a poor community to the best of her ability and within t…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/07/24 01:53 PM
2	Most heterosexual women are homoromantic. "Pick-me" is quite literally the female version of "simp". Its a true 1:1 equivalent. The shit you call a man a simp for, women call women a pick-me for. Women consider other women to be "pick-mes" when they do stuff like cancelling plans with their friends to see a dude they've known for two weeks at short notice, when they stop going out for drinks with girls they've known since they were kids because it makes the bf they met a month ago feel paranoid, when they talk down other women so that t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/24 03:50 PM
–	Women should not be allowed in Politics The reason Afghanistan is used is because its the only republic in the world which explicitly bars women from being in politics. The reason why, is indeed down to the differences in culture between Islam (which Afghanistan is founded on) and post-Englightenment Christianity (which the majority of republics are based on).	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/24 10:02 AM
–	Women should not be allowed in Politics I would argue that extreme action take by Jacinda Ardern was borne out of a lack of emotion and empathy, rather than too much of it. So that doesn't really fit with OP's hypothesis.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/24 09:51 AM
2	Why don’t men value friendships with each other? I suppose "friend" can be a loaded word cause its subjective. For some it means a close friend who they trust, for others its just someone whobthey ralk to. "Friendly associate" could probably describe the same thing. A lot of men, IME, don't really have "friendly associates". They have close friends, and then co-workers, hobby acquaintences, and neighbours. There isn't such a middle ground between stranger and friend I guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 01:56 PM
4	Why don’t men value friendships with each other? Maybe we're talking about different things. Firstly, I don't think this is exclusively an Anglo thing. It seems, from what I've heard from people who live there, and from the statistics (suicide, alcoholism, etc) that the Nordic and Baltic countries are quite similar with this. But also, I could be wrong here as I've never lived in these countries. Secondly, as someone who is Irish (i.e. born, raised and live here) it is absolutely not a new phenomenon, at least here, and it is deeply engrained …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 01:47 PM
12	What do men want women to do when they become sexually undesirable as they age? Also for women especially, osteoporosis can be concern as they get older, so doing resistance training while young can be a big help.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 11:29 AM
3	Why don’t men value friendships with each other? It is quite strange, but I have heard its similar in the UK and the US. It does vary a little bit by background and class also: It would be more common for upper-middle class old men to have more of a social circle, but working class old men tend to be a lot more isolated, especially outside of cities. Younger men here are a lot more socially engaged than older generations though. Theres also a lot of awareness and talk here of male mental health. I think a lot of young people have experiences o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 11:13 AM
3	What do men want women to do when they become sexually undesirable as they age? A lot of middle-aged men have beer bellies. Not all, but definitely a lot, probably the majority. Middle-aged men who are athletic are not the majority at all, in my experience. Like you, I don't think balding is really that big of a deal though. If anything I'd say being bald as an old dude looks better than a head of grey or dyed hair. But I do feel the need to say that both The Rock and Jason Statham were very attractive men before they shaved their heads too, so they're not really fair examp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 11:03 AM
43	Why don’t men value friendships with each other? I think men in general are pickier about friendships than women. Women tend to seek out commonality, even if it might not be deep, and network widely. Whereas men tend to be a little more tribalistic and can sort of "shit test" other men before calling them friends. That said, I think the super isolated way men can be, is a bit of a anglosphere and northern europe specific thing. I think the emphasis on homesteading in these cultures put a massive emphasis on self-sufficiency in their masculinit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 10:32 AM
–	Why aren't women collectively promoting singleness as acceptable for men? I think you are correct about female camaraderie, and the fact that its a lot stronger than male camaraderie. I think this has always been the case: Women have a universal camaraderie with each other, and will look for things to bond over, while men are more tribalistic and will only bond with people they have a common view on many things with. Theres probably an evolutionary reason for it, like women needed to stick together to keep the house tidy, the farm tended to and the kids looked after w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 04:31 PM
–	Why aren't women collectively promoting singleness as acceptable for men? In the nicest way possible, women think about the fact that you're single a lot less than you think they do. Women often do make a link between a man being an asshole and him being single, but they generally don't do the reverse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/24 04:04 PM
1	Would you agree that the wage gap between the genders is mostly due to women's own choices? What is your business?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 11:49 PM
1	Would you agree that the wage gap between the genders is mostly due to women's own choices? I agree personally. Ideally, when we have kids, I would love for both me and my partner to work part-time, and both spent half our time at home with the kids and half our time at work, alternating. Financially and economically speaking however, this is highly unlikely to ever be feasible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 11:45 PM
–	Why do women's empathy disappear when it comes to male children? That's fair, but I don't recall seeing this news story, or any defense of it. As I said, it could easily have happened. But everything else I am skeptical of (the woman doing it as a truly political act, the defense of it, etc.) It would be helpful if OP linked the story, or some reactions to it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 11:38 PM
–	Why do women's empathy disappear when it comes to male children? I tried looking it up, but couldn't find anything either. It does sound like something that could easily happen in an episode of psychosis, so I won't say it didn't happen. But there are also several cases of men killing their kids (and wives) in episodes of psychosis too, so I wouldn't use it as a damning of women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 10:21 PM
–	Why do women's empathy disappear when it comes to male children? I agree completely, and that also applies to things like drugs, gambling, being violent to fit in. Parents need to look after their kids emotionally, and denying them their emotions only leads to them coming out in other ways, or them seeking solace elsewhere from potentially bad people. Worrying about the ways your kid could go down the wrong path is not dismissing their emotions though. If anything, this worry should be applied practically such that you build a strong relationship with them an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 07:48 PM
1	The "unequal division of household chores" in large part arises from status competition within female social circles, which the male partner has no obligation to make sacrifices for. If you have kids, you're likely gonna be doing laundry more than weekly unless you have a huge washing machine. If you're only washing dishes every 2 days then your kitchens gonna smell bad. Unless you have huge bin, taking the bin out every week only is gonna make the place smell and also possibly attract ants.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 04:24 PM
–	Q4M: How often do you do the following chores? Fucking	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 04:14 PM
–	Why do women's empathy disappear when it comes to male children? That doesn't really matter if the man is actually clearly following you. I'm a man, and if a dude I didn't recognise was clearly following me, I would also be freaked out. If I put you on top of a tower crane without a harness and walk you right to the very edge and say "Don't worry! Statistically very few people fall off tower cranes!" do you just stop worrying? Or do you remain cognisant of the fact that while you might be an outlier statistically, you're still in a situation where you could v…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 03:43 PM
–	Why do women's empathy disappear when it comes to male children? I think a parent worrying about the path their kids will take because of the world around them is quite natural. Most parents worry that their kid will get into drugs, disregard education, get into gambling, fall into a criminal lifestyle. In this day and age, ending up falling into online misinformation and becoming radicalised (e.g. Andrew Tate followers) is just another thing to worry about. Its not so much "I think my son is secretly a bad person and its just a matter of time before he does …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 03:40 PM
–	Why do women's empathy disappear when it comes to male children? I also remember an AskMen thread about "What would you teach your daughter?" and a comment being "I'd reach her that she was born with a value, and that with every boy or man she dates, that value decreases"	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 03:35 PM
–	Why do women's empathy disappear when it comes to male children? literally murdering them and defending the murderer bc after all it was just a little boy, and so forth. When has this happened?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 03:31 PM
1	If the majority of children are raised by women, where do gender roles come from? The issue nowadays is that teachers don't shout or go hysterical anymore, but instead resolve everything with "what are you feeling right now?", "do you need to step out for a minute?", etc. I went to a predominantly male school, with mostly male teachers. The teachers who were respected by the boys were all: Passionate about their subject, first and foremost. Good at speaking and educating, and engaging Fair and egalitarian in the classroom, with a zero-tolerance policy for bullshit that was eq…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 03:27 PM
1	Do you feel like women can kind of have it all in a way men just can't ? Whats the ratio of male to female though?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/24 02:14 PM
–	Women hate the manosphere because the manosphere teaches men to protect themselves from women, which makes it harder for women to exploit us I'm not concerned at all. I trust my partner and I love her, and I accept the fact that I can't read minds or tell the future. If something changes 180 in the next few years, so be it. I'll put it down to experience and learn from it. I'm wholly curious, as I feel my own relationship and most others I've seen, don't fit the AF/BB paradigm. I perhaps gave a concerned tone because I engaged with you deliberately in a curious and naive manner, rather than trying to accuse you of holding beliefs you…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/24 09:12 PM
–	Women hate the manosphere because the manosphere teaches men to protect themselves from women, which makes it harder for women to exploit us Since you've brought up AF/BB, I have a question about my own situation. My gf and I are the same age. We're both 28. We met at age 22 through mutual friends and started dating at age 24. Both of us were pretty inexperienced in all regards prior to our relationship. I'm barely 5'6", I'm reasonably fit (a bit muscular, but not jacked by any stretch of the imagination), and I would say I have an above average face. My gf is very attractive (5'0", petite, very fit). Obviously I find her insanely ho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/24 08:28 PM
4	How does one deal with rejection, negativity, lack of desirability, and female affection? I think fundamentally women seriously struggle to understand how it feels to be judged based unchangeable genetic traits. I think women are so familiar with being judged for their appearance (both changeable and unchangeable) that they're either desensitised to it or have made their peace with it, so they see it as a universal experience and something you just have to accept rather than a horrid affliction. Whereas men seem to absorb the idea that their appearance doesn't matter at all and no on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/24 08:13 PM
1	Do you feel like women can kind of have it all in a way men just can't ? Part of the reason Taylor Swift is talked about so much is because being a female billionaire is very uncommon in the first place. Meanwhile, you haven't ever heard of most male billionaires, because there are so many of them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/24 07:58 PM
9	As a woman (and who will qualify as a liberal no less), I feel there are way too many posts here trying to guilt trip cuckolded men to bring up kids that are not theirs. I say I have to disagree with Blue Pill on this one. Same with me tbh. I would take a step back in terms of my financial responsibility towards the kid (depending on circumstances), but i'd make it clear to them that i'd be there for them as an "uncle" type of person. IMO I'd like to think I would not hold a child I raised responsible for being born to the wrong person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 06:43 PM
1	Video of women dancing in an office ignites gender war online Depends on the office job really. Finance, insurance, health admin, etc tend to be very old-fashioned and have high standards of behaviour. This video would not fly there. Tech (especially start ups and smaller companies), marketing (which this video depicts the office of), and media tend to be a lot more chill. This video is very PG compared to some of the stuff I've seen and heard working in tech. When people talk about "office jobs" as a single entity, they out themselves as either never havi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 11:33 AM
1	Video of women dancing in an office ignites gender war online Maybe men and women just tend to have different senses of humour? Women find self-deprecation funny, while men find insults towards others funny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/24 11:29 AM
–	Sexual liberation is incompatible with civilization If a dude wants to go to Thailand or wherever for the purpose of dating and finding a wife to bring home with him, thats his right. I say he should follow his heart and do as he feels is right for him. I wish him the best. But if he's gonna brag about how he's somehow smarter than me for doing that, or that I'm a "loser" cause my partner is of the same nationality and age as me, and we have a more equitable financial arrangement than him and his wife, I'm not gonna be shy about calling him a wan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/24 02:40 PM
–	Without enforced monogamy, civilization will not last. Not every man who has little success dating becomes maladjusted and bitter. Why are you pill types all so dramatic?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 03:32 PM
–	Without enforced monogamy, civilization will not last. And once those ignored/depressed Gen Z men get to 30 Or... they just date women who are in their twenties? People are projecting hard as to what happens when the majority of lonely Gen Z-ers hit their 30s, but theres really no way of knowing at all. Half the shit this sub screeches about wasn't on the horizon ten years ago, so this is nk different. Its quite common for women to marry men circa ten years older than them. I wouldn't say its the norm, but its definitely socially acceptable in the v…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 03:06 PM
–	Without enforced monogamy, civilization will not last. Are the majority of atheists polygamous?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 03:03 PM
-2	Why haven’t more men quit the market? Why am I like what? I don't think I've ever heard a man under 60 say "Happy wife, happy life"...	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 02:45 PM
–	Without enforced monogamy, civilization will not last. The majority of men will never be incels. The incel thing is a storm in a teacup.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 01:15 PM
–	Without enforced monogamy, civilization will not last. Not since the industrial revolution (i.e. the point at which anyone had a job outside their homestead) have there been "no jobs available for women".	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 01:14 PM
0	Why haven’t more men quit the market? How do you tell whether a man is self-respecting or not? Just because a man doesn't scream at his wife in public, doesn't mean he doesn't "speak out" or that he has no agency. Personally the men who seem to have the least self respect are long-term single men. They're the ones who simp, who message random girls on insta offering them money, who develop weird obsessions with their co-workers, who post monologues on social media about how they're worthless, etc. I feel your idea of self-respect is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 01:10 PM
2	Acting slightly immoral with women is the best way to actually get quality women I wouldn't use reddit downvotes as a measure of popularity of opinion anywhere beyond reddit	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 03:43 PM
5	Acting slightly immoral with women is the best way to actually get quality women I've seen as many women say men give them the same problem as you're describing. So I'm going to say that its not exclusive to women. And in my own life, I've seen more men hold the fact women are no longer the same as they were at the start against them. I'm inclined to say that a lot of people, male and female, are just no longer cut out for relationships, even though they still want them desperately. They're too self-centred, too entitled, and are more interested in the glamour and validation…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 03:12 PM
3	Acting slightly immoral with women is the best way to actually get quality women The way platonic friends interact and the way romantic partners interact early on tends to be different. I think you can develop a friendship with someone you are also developing a romantic partnership with, but its easier to do these at the same time rather than one followed by the other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 02:54 PM
2	Acting slightly immoral with women is the best way to actually get quality women You can treat someone as a sexual being, without treating them like a sex object. Human beings are inherently sexual beings, and a mistake men make can be trying to divorce themselves and the women they want to date from the pretty crucial sexual aspect of humanity. You can pretty easily tastefully show someone that you are interested in them sexually. A mistake men often make is either being too coy or too forward, but the sweet spot exists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 02:52 PM
3	Acting slightly immoral with women is the best way to actually get quality women Relationships change over time. Its normal to open up to each other gradually, and gradually become more committed to one another. The idea that you should go on every first date baring your soul and with a ring in your pocket is a pretty new one, at least outside of circles where arranged marriage is the norm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 02:42 PM
2	Women‘s opinions lock men in a mental prison I genuinely think my gf is gorgeous with zero make up on, and she rarely wears it. When she does wear make up she looks equally good, but just in a different way. Like she's bolder and more striking looking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 02:36 PM
1	Women hate other women In terms of tendencies, men tend to be more individualistic (or tribalistic in some cases) and competitive, while women tend to be more collectivistic and collaborative. In practice, this means men will tend towards having a motivation to be the best they (or their team) can be, and will be cruel to those who threaten their success, whereas women will tend towards having a motivation to keep everyone at a similar level, and will be cruel to those who threaten that consensus. Neither of these is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 02:16 PM
2	I think it's pathetic that if you dig deeper, most of TRP criticisms about how unjust society is for men boil down to "I can't control my wife anymore" The thing is, "red pill" is a specific set of communities, influencers, etc. While "blue pill" is everything else. There is a lot of good advice out there, but some of the "blue pill" advice, especially that aimed specifically at men who are shy or struggling with dating, is just bad, overly sterile and takes a lot of the fun and magic out of dating for women. Like, they'll say the correct way to ask a woman out is to "confess" your feelings to her and ask her if she wants to get a coffee or go …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 04:58 PM
–	Once you reach a certain level of attractiveness is there any incentive in working ? Who else would you consider to be top of the scale? I wasn't saying I see women who I personally find more attractive than her regularly, although that is also true. I was saying I regularly see women who are similarly attractive to her (i.e. they have a similar look, similar positive attributes, etc). So if she's the standard for 9, then being a 9 isn't particularly special. I don't see her as striking at all. To me a striking appearance means a positively memorable one and one that sticks in y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 04:13 PM
–	Once you reach a certain level of attractiveness is there any incentive in working ? No they aren't. And you know this. This is like saying "aircraft is synonymous with hot air balloon". Someone can have widespread appeal, but still not be found attractive by an individual. I would argue, as I already have, that someone who ticks the boxes to be somewhat aesthetically attractive to most or nearly all people, will by virtue of doing so, be missing out on being extremely sexually attractive to some people. "Conventional attractiveness" is comparable to "widespread appeal". Simply …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 10:59 AM
–	Once you reach a certain level of attractiveness is there any incentive in working ? I think women who are already doing OF or "funded lifestyle" stuff would likely be open to doing findom. Although, the financial side of it might not be as good, as the market for findom is likely smaller: Its only targeting submissive leaning men, whereas OF targets men as a whole and sugar baby stuff targets dominant leaning men (who I believe would be more numerous than genuinely submissive leaning men). And findom seems to require more work as they have to do sessions with the subs and creat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 10:55 AM
–	Once you reach a certain level of attractiveness is there any incentive in working ? I don't really think of it as luck. Like I'm talking about just seeing women cross my path day-to-day. Prime Monica Bellucci is, in my opinion, pretty plain looking. I mean she's pretty, but not very exciting looking at least to me. Although I understand thats kind of what "the scale" is about, its not so much attractiveness, as widespread appeal. So people on the top of the scale are going to be kind of milquetoast.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 10:33 AM
–	Once you reach a certain level of attractiveness is there any incentive in working ? This also applies to the pictures where she looks young. I see women who look as attractive as prime Monica Bellucci regularly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 10:21 AM
–	Once you reach a certain level of attractiveness is there any incentive in working ? The question of "Why do women who are hot get normal jobs, why don't they just be virtual sugar babies?" is as ridiculous as "Why do people with passports get normal jobs, why don't they just be drug smugglers?"	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 10:19 AM
–	Once you reach a certain level of attractiveness is there any incentive in working ? I'm not sure what angle you're coming at this from. Your erlier comment was "why don't more women get into findom?", but now you're suggesting that findom is a very widespread practice that shows women by and large have no decency. You really have to choose one of these beliefs, you can't have both. Findom is a way that women who have no sense of ethics can make money. Most women don't particularly want to do it, though, because they have a moral compass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 10:19 AM
–	Once you reach a certain level of attractiveness is there any incentive in working ? I don't know who Monica Bellucci is, but I googled her and I see random women IRL who look similarly attractive as her every week.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 10:08 AM