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Question for RedPillTangerineEvery8912/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:54 AM
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DISCUSSIONTangerineEvery8912/r/RedPillWomen16/03/26 11:21 AM
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This is what alot of people who defend massive age gaps don't think about. If you are planning on having kids it's just not fair. And it's not fair on the younger partner who hasn't even had time to consider wether they want kids yet, while the oldie has already done all they want to do
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:47 AM
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I never got onto the whole men and women can't be friends train. Men are not a monolith and I'm not a believer of bioessentialism. That being said, I have some very close male friends and they are awesome friends, I have alot of respect for them and as do they for me. I'm not going to write off the possibility for a great friend just because of what is between their legs. My female friends are also equal to my male friends in importance, the only thing that influences how much I value a friend i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 10:48 AM
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I've personally not seen the trend you describe OP. The people I notice say the freaky stuff (online) is millennials, but then again I'm a prude and I hang around other prudes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 09:51 AM
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I would never get offended. If I am not attracted to the person I just politely decline but thank them for putting in the effort to approach me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 09:50 AM
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Thankyou, I only really hear this stuff online but because of the nature of internet usage nowadays I see the posts often
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/26 12:56 PM
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Also quick point, but I don't think many men are attracted to an underdeveloped face considering most girls grow into their faces by 17/18 (not in my case), so isn't the undeveloped face one of a very very young person?
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/26 12:54 PM
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Ok I think you may have misunderstood me when I talked about my undeveloped face, I mean that my face looked the same at 12 and into my teen years and didn't change until I went past teens, so I didn't look youthful but pretty, I looked like an androgynous kid. By my face not being grown into I mean crooked big nose due to my face being so narrow, uneven eyes, eye bags (bad undereye support), thin lips, ect (I got no male attention as a teen).So this is what I'm confused about, now I look youthf…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/26 12:50 PM
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I think this is the norm in the real world, I don't remember seeing many girls looking like absolute bombshells as teenagers, we all looked awkies
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/26 12:38 PM
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My dad always went on all my life about how my mum had her peak in her early to mid thirties and to not worry about looking weird as a teen haha. My mum looked pretty awkward until her mid 20s and actually had a glow up after her first pregnancy In my teens my diet was so bad, I just ate candy all the time and thought it was fine simply because I was skinny, I also never worked out and played video games all the time. I only got into the gym a couple years ago and started eating properly last ye…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/26 11:49 AM
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Omg I got my period late too at like 14, and I wore a training bra until like 17 (I'm still small boobed to be fair). And for me my growing journey was weird... I started skinny and shapeless until 18, then randomly became chubbier but still shapeless, then at 21 I become slim and have an hourglass figure. Did you have a similar experience? I definitely feel my body was going through some weird little puberty from 17-21 lol. It's also crazy how much bone growth I got in my face from 17-20 ish. I…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/26 11:37 AM
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Me neither I'm turning 23
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/26 11:13 AM
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I have Asperger's and OCD, my strict routines in life and hate of change massively stunts my dating life, especially as I've entered my 20s and the stresses of uni and work have made my need for rigidity more intense. I think about so much, worry about so much all the time I just struggle to even try to begin a relationship or go on dates (even though I want to). I am considered a attractive, young and fit woman but the mental struggles I face really have affected my dating and have led me to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 12:35 PM
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Why would I? If I find him appealing and am interested in pursuing him why would his lack of dating scare me off? An extensive dating history on the other hand is what would actually turn me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 12:31 PM
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Damn I personally just don't agree... If you don't drink or smoke and sleep well you won't lose your fertility indicators until mid 30s +. I don't drink, smoke, I wear lots of sunscreen instead of makeup and I sleep 9+ hours, at 22 I get mistaken for 16-18 by most. I doubt I'm gonna look like a washed old hag in only 7 years time. My mentality is that I aim to preserve my health and appearance as long as possible through a careful and healthy lifestyle. I think the people who have the mentality …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 12:17 PM
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I don't get the rhetoric of not being hot past 25. I mean, how bad are the genetics of people you are encountering? I can only imagine someone who shows visible signs of aging at only 25 would have lived a terrible lifestyle and not taken care of their body at all. Most of my female family members who are older than I only started showing signs of visible aging such as wrinkles and loss of facial fat at around 35. They looked around the same from ages 21-30
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 06:38 AM
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Right. Hearing some people in these comments praise men for having kids at the age of 60+, heck even 80, is disturbing and biologically criminal. It's incredibly selfish as 1) it increases chances of mental health issues, low birth weight, premature delivery, and other health issues regardless if the woman is young. 2) selfish in terms of not being there for your child. Your child is either going to be wiping your demented ass or attending your funeral at the age of 10 instead of bonding with an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 06:32 AM
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I'm a mega prude (waiting until marriage)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 03:16 AM
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Hmm, Ideally I want my future man and I to experience sex for the first time together. An absolute non-negotiable will be first marriage, first child, first proposal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 03:45 AM
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I definitely see what you mean, but I still think it's pretty subjective. To me, this would be a major red flag as under my personal moral standpoint I'd consider the person severely unregulated and carless, I'd steer clear of this individual. That being said, as long as this person didn't commit a sexual crime I do not think they should face wider social repercussions, and with that there will be plenty of people who do not see this person as emotionally unregulated and carless as I do. Sally, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:03 AM
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Good advice! Also, yes the Asperger's definitely may have an impact on dating. I think it's also the people I choose, I don't choose very confident guys, I choose awkward introverts alot
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:56 AM
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Funny enough we were both studying a physics degree 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:55 AM
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But for me it's not just about looks. Let's just say a 35 year old man looks 24, I'll initially find him attractive, BUT when I found out his age, and after that his most probable sexual and romantic past, my attraction wanes. So you are right on the fact it isn't all about looks. This is where the context of being older comes into play. I'll realize that I will not be able to start afresh with this person and face the different stages of life together at the same time, learn together. A big tur…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:52 AM
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My dad was around 40 when I was born, and he's the most important role model in my life. I really can't imagine what I would have done without my dad helping me every step of the way. 40 isn't a bad age but now he's 60 I wish he had me younger so I can spend more time with him as I age
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 03:06 PM
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Donkey was sooo cute 🥺🥺 he is definitely my favorite character. And the babies.. that definitely confused me a bit as a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:45 PM
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All I remember from the Shrek movie was how much I loved the dragon and donkey couple. Aside, I do not think that is the main interpretation of the film or the intended interpretation, but people interpret things differently and gather all sorts of meanings from the same piece of media. I do not agree with shera's mentality as her advice is not going to work for 98% of the population. Her advice caters to a very specific person, a 'high class' version of escorts and prostitution. She plays into …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:39 PM
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I mean this dude was in person, that's what makes it worse 😭 it's not even about looks either (I know I'm not ugly, I'm not gonna be an idiot) because I've seen some very attractive women get turned down right before my eyes, perhaps it's a self esteem thing on the guys end?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:07 PM
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Guys now seem to confuse me so much. I once had a guy complain to me for weeks how no girls like him, how he'll be lonely forever (the whole time I liked him and was working up the courage to tell him), when I asked him out he just was like 'nah I'm good'. I was SO confused 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:54 PM
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I feel like most of gen z lack some sort of social skills, I know I am doing a lot less socially and being a lot less adventurous than my parents (gen x) were at my age. So I feel like I can fall into that 'loser' category too haha 🤓 I'm not going to lie, there are a lot of attractive, sincere decent guys at my university in my age range that would be good boyfriend material but are single. The only issue is they do not want to approach girls, do not want to take any romantic hints from women or…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:46 PM
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I agree with your points. I brought this topic up to my dad, who is now 60. He said, despite him aging well and looking a lot younger than he was for a majority of his middle aged years, his 40+ year old self could NEVER compete with his prime self at 28-30, even with a higher income at 40+
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:23 PM
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What I'm about to say is a personal outlook on life and obviously doesn't speak for all women. For me and my many young women friends, there are multiple faucets to consider a potential partner and allow a relationship to blossom. Obviously, lets get attraction out of the way, as we can't deny this is an important factor. To put it simply, I do not find older men attractive (except for a perhaps select few of celebrities that just defied aging, but still that only really reaches to 35 max). My a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 11:55 AM
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So the definition is putting in a significantly greater amount of effort than the other? Ok, well in that case it's something that happens often unfortunately but it's something that we need to learn to cut off and move on from when we see it happening. I've had friends like that where I put in all the effort with no reciprocation, it was hard but I had to just drop all the effort and let the friendship die off, there'd be others out there that wouldn't treat me like that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:38 PM
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The ones that aren't virgins aren't religious so aren't waiting for marriage, but barely any have had casual sex, it's always been in commitment long term relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:58 PM
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I'm a virgin and about 60% of my friends are too (aged 18-25), not all religious either. The others only have body counts of 1 or 2 and it was in LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:37 PM
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I'm religious but barely a fanatic, I have never engaged in casual sex and neither have 80% of my friends (religious and non religious)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:29 PM
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I suggest leaving the casual sex scene if you do not want someone with a possibly extensive sexual past. It's kind of a fork found in kitchen situation
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:00 PM
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I personally don't really care for the body count discourse. Body count will never matter objectively and will only ever matter when it comes to the subjective preference of individuals. There's no crime or overall social consequence for having or not having a sexual past, but it can tie off certain options for who you may be able to access for romance and LTR, which is what you get with any choice you make in life. Body count is simply just a dating preference and is as useful as debating a hai…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:54 PM
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I find this comment a bit ironic, as you mention to be wary of her sexual past yet have her in a fuck zone, implying she is willing to engage in casual sex with you. I would assume someone that engages in casual sex with you will also have been pretty open to engaging in casual sex in the past with others
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:33 PM
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I haven't met many that can keep the LTR. From personal anecdote, most of the men I've seen that have very high bc and a very casual meaningless approach to intimacy cannot keep a relationship as either: 1) Well frankly they can't stay faithful 2) usually some deep emotional unrest or insecurity
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:23 PM
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It's not the only way, but if we think logically, casual sex is a form of interest from the opposite sex (or sex of your liking), and more attention = greater attractiveness. Any metric increase in positive attention for both men and women can linearly be compared to physical attractiveness. Despite this, I do not agree with the ideas I've seen in some of your replies. I do not think just because you have access to casual sex due to high attractiveness means you should engage in it like a mindle…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 01:09 PM
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I do like dogs! I'm more of a cat person tho since I've grown up having cats I keep my DMS off since when I had them on people would send either creepy or mean stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:49 PM
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Same reason how I never got involved with drama at school, I don't agree with political wars or mob mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:36 AM
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Oh right haha, I think it's just because my logic part of the brain dominates any possible emotional bias I might have when it comes to opinions. I'm just the definition of a centrist, it's easy to see all sides of any argument as long as I'm presented with them respectfully
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:34 AM
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Haha thanks. I just expect the standard I give out, who am I to ask for more? I hold myself to a high standard so have no issues dating someone of the same league as myself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:30 AM
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But unless you are disrespecting your body, you've got to have very poor genetics and health to look noticably aged at 30
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 05:12 AM
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Where I live I barely see fat people so maybe it's different. I've also always grown up around attractive people so the wall is not really an issue for those folk. Arent also young women in America fat too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 05:11 AM
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Well that's a little more realistic than implying the wall hits at 30+.... Both my parents are very good looking people who peaked in their mid 30s and hit a 'wall' at around 50 for my mum and 55 for my dad. That's usually the case for attractive people. For below average folk their prime is probably at around the 20-23 range, since they aren't ever good looking to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 05:07 AM
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I don't see why 30+ women are considered old and undesirable. My mum got hit on relentlessly in her 30s (much more than her 20s) EVEN with my dad right there, it only dropped off around 45+. I often see women in their 30s getting an insane amount of male attention. People who sleep well, don't drink or smoke often or at all, exercise and wear sun protection will not look super different from 24-34. I didn't even notice a wrinkles on my mums face until she was past 40
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 04:18 AM
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Funny enough, when I was born my mum was 30 and my dad 39, I apparently got my Asperger's (autism) from my paternal genes and not my mum. My sister has worse autism and my dad was 43 when she was born, again from his genes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 04:45 AM
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FaceIQ guy and then some person off org
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:22 AM
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I do not mind a respectful cold approach from men in my age group (18-27), something like "I saw you over there and thought you looked beautiful/elegant/pretty, would you like to go for coffee sometime?" I do get put off if the approach is aggressive or sexual, or if it's from a much older man (from experience guys my age approaching me are always pretty respectful, older men approaching have often been extremely grotesquely sexual) I also think it's ridiculous to be angry at people who cold app…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:38 AM
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Why would you even bother marrying someone who couldn't even stay faithful until they became legally bound to you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 03:18 AM
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Yeah I found that wording crazy too 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:41 AM
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I don't think it's because you have a type, I think it's because you described her bumhole and vagina colour it threw people off a bit 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:24 AM
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Ok so this is my general thing for appearance (not personality or morals, as the question asked for looks): Me: - age 22 - 5'8 - dark long curly hair, green eyes, tan skin (Italian and Ukrainian/Balkan) - athletic/lean, pear shaped body (bigger bum and thighs, small boobs), flat stomach with some ab definition - I've been told I'm around a 8/10 (not being cocky, I'm autistic and I'm being clinical based on others perception of me, I also have been assessed by those looksmaxxers that look at math…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:05 AM
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Like I said it's a small small percentage that think like this, I've read some anonymous men spaces on reddit where men can talk their minds freely and more men speak of being highly primally attracted to their wives bodies after kids compared to ones that find her gross
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:32 AM
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Well I suppose if a man is worried about that he should accept that children will not be in the picture, and not expect his wife to give him kids. She'll stay in shape then. This is a small percentage tho, I think many married men in this space can vouch that the birth of their children was a beautiful thing and not gross. My friend works in a maternity birthing ward and many husbands are drooling over the chance to have sex with their wife again, post partum and all
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:14 AM
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I mean If he wants kids, that's kind of what has to happen... Id be surprised if he impregnated and encouraged his wife to have kids then got pissy about her vagina changing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:01 AM
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I think it's different when it's a random onlooker watching her in porn (where it's all objectification and no love) vs her partner and the father of the child she birthed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:17 AM
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I had to leave my old job because my coworkers were really horrible to me because of my autism, they often ganged up on me and found it funny to all get together and report me to HR for tiny things or things they'd kind of egged me on to say or do. They also expected me to follow social rules they didn't even follow themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:04 AM
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No I had no friends until about 16 when I started masking correctly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 02:59 AM
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Oh tell me about it! Alot of NT folk don't even follow their own stupid social rules half the time but expect us to follow them perfectly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 02:59 AM
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How old are the dudes setting their age ranges 18-25? Is it older dudes or dudes within the age range, because if it's the latter I understand that, I'm 22 and my range for OLD is 18-25
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:27 PM
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No sex before marriage or equivalent life long commitment for me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:42 PM
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Im autistic and often police, monitor and analyse everything I think before I choose to speak it out loud. I recognize a lot of what I naturally want to say is rude, weird and inappropriate, and I'm aware that I cannot say them to people. That's my own responsibility and I don't feel angry at others for that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:37 PM
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I wish it wasn't this way though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 01:13 PM
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I'm wondering if it's perhaps more common in those older generations (my friends parents are gen x) since people kind of felt they needed to get married out of obligation instead of love
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:21 PM
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No that's true, I definitely know love exists and not all people are shallow or not attracted to their aging spouse, it's just a random little nagging fear at the back of my mind. I'm sure it'll vanish once I actually marry someone that is kind
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:19 PM
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I'm not sure how me expressing a fear based on real life examples I've seen is toxic and delusional? I didn't state anywhere that all men leave their wives after a certain age, I'm simply saying I'm SCARED because of what I've seen. Would you call someone insane for being cautious of dogs after seeing lots of dog attacks?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:06 PM
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😢😢
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:59 AM
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This is different tho since I've seen it happen to six of my friends so far. Real life people I know and have met, are at their houses, talked to the parents
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:57 AM
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Idk my friends fathers were once very good partners to their spouses for 20+ years until something happened, they didn't find their aging wives attractive anymore and felt the need to escape (my multiple friends words)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:56 AM
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I think I might just hold off for a Christian guy that wants to date seriously my age. I don't really find guys over 30 attractive at the moment, I imagine I will when I get to that age and hence want to date someone my age so it all matches up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:51 AM
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The age thing makes me so scared to get older, what if my future husband ends up cheating on me and leaving me in the dirt after years devoted to him. My dad never did that or ever considered it, he's adoring of my mother BUT I know ALOT of my friend's dads who left their mums because they didn't find them hot anymore after her devoting her best years to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:46 AM
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Agreed, throughout history mens homosexuality has also been significantly more scrutinized than female homosexuality. I mean to this day in countries where male homosexuality is punished by death, lesbianism isn't even mentioned in the law. Obviously these factors have created a deep fear in men about even a slim possible chance of being gay. As a heterosexual woman though, I often find the idea that all women are bisexual very incorrect, as I do not think having an inherent sexual response to v…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:44 AM
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I think the tendency for homoeroticism amongst heterosexual men and women is likely to be very similar, it's just men are most likely way less free to express complex feelings on their sexuality. Even with studies, a lot of studies regarding sexuality are self-reported, so they aren't a true representative of the individual's sexual response to stimuli.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:50 AM
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I think dating apps are good for non religious women who aren't looking for dating leading to marriage. I recently began exploring OLD as a Christian due to my church having no young men my age that were single (90% of the inhabitants of my church are married and over 35). So far, the OLD has been horrible. Yes I get alot of likes because I'm an attractive young woman, BUT I've spent so much emotional energy getting my time wasted my men thinking they can larp as good guys or Christians in order…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:38 AM
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Ugh oh well... I guess I'll just take a while finding the right guy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:20 AM
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My question is why are alot of RP against a Christian woman? Why want traditional but draw the line at a woman that believes in God?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:05 AM
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Oh right, to me all sex workers are just grouped into the same category no matter what the clothes are
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:35 PM
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Hookers wear the dress and cowboy boots? Damn that's more a general nice outfit for girls my age where I am
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:08 PM
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On that third note, I think a lot of men fantasise about the woman who is close to her father but don't realize what it's actually like. For example I'm super close to my dad, but with that comes the fact that if my dad disapproves of a guy I'm dating, I'll drop him because I trust my dad's judgement over my own. That being said, my dad pretty much hates most guys I like, he'd say no to anyone over 25 (for my current age), without a university degree, high body count, unattractive, not Christian…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:06 PM
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What is a high end hooker sexy? Isn't a high end hooker also on the trashy area because, ya know... Maybe my version of attention grabbing is more catering to the female gaze it seems
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:47 PM
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Ok that's a good insight and kind of what I was going for. When I meant attention grabbing I meant it in the literal sense of 'wow she's dressed so nice, or she's dressed so feminine and pretty' rather than dang look at them boobs (I mean I'm low-key flat chested anyways so a lot of tops I can wear without them looming sexual or revealing at all). I've never ever worn sweats or tracksuits, to me I always want to be dressed up and stylish
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:59 PM
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I lift heavy so my calves can't fit into the tight boots half the time 😭 This is the type of outfit I wear ( id consider it attention grabbing as it's 'dressed up' and we'll put together): <image> (Not me in pic btw)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:31 PM
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Wow I don't think I've seen leather pants on anyone since 2017 when I was a child seeing the grown women wearing them. I do like leather boots but only in winter and I don't like the skintight ones, I like the rustic cowboy ones paired with a dress
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:25 PM
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No, I think leather is more common with older people. When I say attention grabbing I mean a skirt and a nice fitting top, or a crop top to show my abs, not fetishwear
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:22 PM
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I'm curious as to where the idea that being a virgin as a female past a certain age means you are ugly? I'm turning 23 this year and am still a virgin which is pretty unusual (like below 10% statistically from what I've read) but I'm not ugly at all and actually do modelling, I just chose not to have sex unless it's marriage, and not many guys my age are ready for marriage yet. Alot of my attractive friends are also virgins, some are like 25 and super goodlooking. Most girls I know with high bc …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:19 PM
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Dude legit, it's genuinely crazy. It's the girls that walk around in sweats and a hoodie that do the most stuff on the low I've come to find
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:45 PM
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I mean this in a non hateful way, but being brutally honest the people I know with the highest body counts are pretty unattractive or just meh in looks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:44 PM
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To be fair, it's doable for a woman to maintain attractiveness well into the future. If she's being fit (I've noticed women in their 60s who have fit, lean bodies look amazing still), sleeping well, not drinking or smoking it will most likely mean the woman looks visually similar at 30 to when she was 21. (For example my mum looked pretty much identical from ages 20-35)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 12:37 PM
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Ok this explains it well, thankyou!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:23 AM
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Exactly, same with how I know people who look extremely well kept on the outside, but once you go to live with them they are complete slops. Another point on myself, I'm super outgoing and seem like a spontaneous person due to how I present myself but I'm actually super high strung and anal about plans, ordering of things 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:24 AM
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Some people are religious or simply have morals when it comes to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:20 AM
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I dress in attention grabbing clothing (hair done up, nice shoes, ect) yet have no intimacy experience at all at 22 years of age (going on 23). The girl I know that has the highest body count (50) dresses VERY modestly, always covered and never drawing attention to herself
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:01 AM
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I agree on the Tate point, it honestly becomes sad, he's in his 40s I think? Still clubbing, sleeping around, hanging out with the looksmaxxing guys that are half his age, I wonder if he feels lonely deep down. I also am Christian and tend to not bother with dating if I don't see a marriageable future in store, as the idea of short term dating is totally meaningless in my opinion. I find the last point interesting because despite a lot of narrative that women want well established men, I tend to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 08:27 AM
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That's logically consistent to me and makes alot more sense, I assume you are coming from a more traditional viewpoint then a Miami Andrew Tate perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:06 AM
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Right ok that makes a lot more sense, personally I am Autistic so I take everything I hear very literally, but the concept of it being a 'prep for the worst' puts it into perspective better. I've definitely heard of that virgin joke but I never really understood it, since virginity to me and many others is not a technical penis in vagina thing, it's regarding any intimacy that can be deemed sex (for example a lesbian who's slept with 10 women is NOT a virgin by any means). I personally have had …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 07:05 AM
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Interesting, seems like this ideology is based on some pretty rough crowds, I personally don't know people who lie about their sexual past and I don't really see the point in doing so. I'm pretty upfront about my lack of sexual history (0) with guys so I can quickly weed out the players by stating I'm waiting until marriage. I mean I'd personally be pretty angry if a guy lied about his sexual past to me 10+ under 25 is pretty crazy and definitely isn't common outside of party cities
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:32 AM
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In what order do these priorities come into order? I notice you placed youth as a factor, but I assume that's pretty low on the pecking order compared to the other values, hence I'm assuming you've chosen the 30 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:29 AM
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I assume though what comes hand in hand with the casual dating is you will date women that have high body counts or have baggage, as women who are virgins for example are not going to engage in casual dating
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:26 AM
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Seems like the crowd of redpill on tiktok vs on here is very different. The ones I see on tiktok are super traditionalist and want many kids
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:24 AM
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Hmm, I've personally seen a lot of RP that do promote the idea of settling with and marrying a good, traditional woman, but maybe that's a newer branch off of the ideology. So really a RP man wants a modern woman who wants to have fun, as traditional women regardless of age will not be down for casual dating. In that sense, if it's simply casual why is the body count a point of discussion? Usually from what I've seen explained to me, the over 25 thing is often defended for reasons such as fertil…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:21 AM
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I'm an attractive woman who grew up very ugly and bullied badly, had a glow up at around 18. From my perspective, my standards in looks are not inherently high, I often find people below my league attractive. BUT for some reason when I date well below my league I feel a sense of extreme anger toward my partner, I keep thinking 'why do they get a chance? I never got one when I was ugly' and I know that if I was below THEIR league I probably wouldn't be given any grace. I wonder if anyone has comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 10:39 AM
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I mean if you are willing to be a stay at home partner, keep the house in order and cook for her as she works, there will be a woman out there somewhere, maybe you'll need to browse Internet spaces that cater to that woman provider dynamic. And I don't mean stay at home and sit on your ass playing games, I mean keep the house in good order and tend to chores in a timely manner. What are the little standards you mentioned that you have for women out of curiosity?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:56 AM
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Simply being fit and attractive is not going to magically get me into a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:03 AM
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There's literally people on that 600 pound life show with partners
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:58 AM
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That's not true, my obese friend is in a happy LTR, I'm fit and attractive and miserably single lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:50 AM
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