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| 1 | Being accused of "harassment" by a woman I tried to kiss | TangoHack | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 02:07 PM | |
| 0 | Too needy when texting a girl. Any tips or hacks? | TangoHack | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 06:50 AM |
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| 3 | advice on monk modeI think Monk Mode is not about avoiding to pick up chicks. Nor is it about avoiding to fuck with real women. It's more about avoiding masturbation and porn (#nofap), focusing on your goals, avoiding easy dopamine hits (so: reduce social media usage, videogames, eating junk food). Also: stick to your gym routine, eat clean, sleep at least 8 hs per night. Practice stoic journaling as well (I write my goals and improvements in a regular paper notebook. Along with thoughts about existence). If you d… | /r/newTRP | 24/07/22 09:24 PM |
| 2 | How To Reply to Buddy of Mine Who’s Told Me This Few TimesI think you should keep talking like you are doing right now. Especially in public, social media and in front of people who you don't trust. You can talk like your "friend" told you to do, only in front of people you really trust 100%. So, very few people. Friends you have known for several years. Your intuition is right. You have a lot to lose if the wrong people hear you talk like that. | /r/newTRP | 01/04/22 11:21 AM |
| 1 | I've been told that if you hate going to the gym, you'll give up and quit sooner than if you tell yourself you love going to the gym -- that the most important thing about changing your physique is brainwashing yourself that you love lifting weights???I haven't seen the video yet. Actually writing this answer in the middle of my gym routine, lol. I can tell you this: going to the gym is like washing your teeth or taking at least one shower every day. It's a good habit. You don't have to love it. But try not to hate it. Since it's better for you to do it, anyways. And it doesn't take that long. 45 minutes per day is enough, in my case. 3 or 4 times per week. I usually give myself a "prize" after I work out. Something simple, like eating a swee… | /r/newTRP | 01/03/22 07:50 PM |
| 5 | A lesson that I keep failing to learnReddit is the worst place I can think of, to chase woman. If you have to do it on line, use an app like Happn, Facebook Dating or Tinder. But even through those apps, it's still going to be hard. You have to match and talk to, like, maybe 20 girls to get one date, face to face. What is the real solution? You already know this, but I'll say it anyways: you have to work on your social anxiety, in order to lower it to "normal" levels. Then you will be able to meet and date women in real life, which… | /r/newTRP | 01/03/22 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Honestly lost... could use some adviceI've been in several LTRs, on and off. Some of them for months, other lasted several years. And then back to being a bachelor again, chasing pussy and following Red Pill advice. I am 40+ years old. My advice to you is: relax. Enjoy the relationship while it lasts. Don't anticipate the break up so much. It will happen when it happens. In the meantime, enjoy the ride. Let yourself "catch some feelings" for her. That's Ok. You are not a robot. But, always be prepared to be a bachelor again. Because… | /r/newTRP | 01/02/22 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Why don't I get hard while grinding on chicks?You may try reducing your exposure to porn, for a few days. Something similar to #nofap (no porn, no masturbation for a week or so). Your libido (sex desire) will increase a lot, you will probably get boners much easier, and so on. Try it, trust me. It works. Good luck. | /r/newTRP | 03/09/21 10:31 AM |
| 2 | Just lost my virginity at 26Congrats man! Glad to find another brother who had success thanks to what we teach each other over here. I have improved my sex life a lot, too, after following the advice of asktrp forum. Great community, glad to be part of it. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone achieved "top 10 percent of men/high-value man" success after years of mediocrity *AFTER* the age of 35? If so, HOW did you climb up from rock-bottom? Would appreciate specific examples andWomen over +30 years old. All those definitions are in the Side Bar. Read it. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 11:19 AM |
| 1 | How do you form the willpower to wake up in the morning and go to the gym when you're supposed to?One trick you can use when you are not feeling like going to the gym (this happens to me quite often) is: get dressed to go to the gym, and go for a walk outside your house. Think "Ok, I will at least go for a walk. And if I feel better, then I'll go to the gym". The trick is to get you outside your home, and with the same outfit you use for the gym. 90% of the time I do this, I end up going to the gym for real. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Unless you're a 10/10 male, how do you embrace our current society? Because it makes me hate life and dread the future...I'm 47 years old. But I've been single all my life, with occasional LTRs every now and then. I feel the same as you, although I suppose you are very young. I'm no longer looking for just sex, but company, tenderness and that kind of things. My advice is: try dating older, mature woman. That is something that you won't find in a woman in her 20s. Ironically, a "post-wall woman" --as we derogatively call them here-- will be able to give you what you are looking for. Being older is not enough, of c… | /r/askTRP | 01/01/21 06:24 PM |
| 1 | A question for men who danceBachata and tango (I dance both). If you go to a dance academy, you'll be dancing in 3 to 6 months. If you are in Brazil, you may also want to try Sertanejo Universitario. The advantages of all these dances is that you get to embrace and touch the girl with the excuse "we are just dancing". Good for kino and starting a conversation when the music stops. Of course these days unfortunately all social dancing and dancing academies are suspended. But when things go back to normal, that's what I advi… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Are there older men (30+) in the United States who actually are bachelors and live this kind of life?the classes are actually quite fun... Although, mostly they lack single young girls. Those girls tend to just show up at the club, because is doesn't take that much to be a follow... it's the lead that has to know what he's doing. That's right, that's exactly how it works. Nicer & younger girls learn faster, because they only need to learn how to follow. And because they are hotter, everyone wants to dance with them. So they learn faster. It's kind of a darwinian selection of the fittest and you… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Are there older men (30+) in the United States who actually are bachelors and live this kind of life?😆😆😆 You made me laugh a lot. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 11:01 AM |
| 5 | Are there older men (30+) in the United States who actually are bachelors and live this kind of life?I'm 46, single, no kids. Average job (I don't have much money), live by myself. Keep dancing, I do the same in order to increase my social circle. Sometimes you don't get to actually pick up so many girls from salsa, bachata and tango (I do all those dances), but you interact with so many hot girls, that it helps a lot with the "abundance" mindset. And it's a great antidote against depression. I was a little depressive, and ever since I started dancing (5 years ago, never stopped) I feel so much… | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 10:06 AM |
| 2 | Monk mode weekends are hard and lonelyYou can do some basic research, before you start taking classes. First, find out how many salsa and tango dancing academies are there in your town or city. Generally, there are not so many choices (in my city, about 5 proper dancing academies. And then some gyms offer dancing classes as well, in the neighbourhoods). Look for their social media pages (Instagram and Facebook). Usually, they post group pictures of the whole class, on a weekly basis. By looking at those social media pictures you can… | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 04:28 PM |
| 4 | Monk mode weekends are hard and lonelyI dance two "social dances": tango and salsa. It helps me a lot, to avoid depression on the weekends. In addition to that, I lift and try to stick to a healthy diet, as prescribed by TRP. So here's what I do: on weekdays, I try to pick up girls and arrange meetings with them for the weekends (usually through Tinder, Happn, Badoo and by approaching them in real life: daygame). If I'm successful, I will have a girl or two to have sex on the weekends (and therefore avoid depression and loneliness).… | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 11:32 AM |
| 1 | "Banned from MGTOW" mega-thread"/r/askTRP | /r/MGTOW2 | 01/02/20 02:42 AM |
| 1 | "Banned from MGTOW" mega-thread"s the woman, mgtow is suppose to be men only, and also you can get banned for saying stuff like m /r/askTRP | /r/MGTOW2 | 01/02/20 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend buys me a scent - the same scent her father wearsNothing to worry about. If she has a good relationship with her dad, consider yourself flattered by this gift. Wear the scent. Don't worry, she will still fuck you. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/20 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Is She Interested, or just being Nice ? (college)Don't overthink so much. You are going to miss the "opportunity window" if you try to analyze every single possible outcome. Just ask her out. I've missed so many opportunities for overthinking, when I was at college (I'm now 46 years and have banged probably about 50 or 60 girls so far in my life). You can invite her to "join you" while you go for a walk at a nice park, go to see a music band that you both like, or go dancing to a cool club, if you dont want it to sound so "let's have a date" s… | /r/askTRP | 15/11/19 10:46 PM |
| 4 | Ex plate invited me to go to her sorority date night with another one of her sistersShe wants you to fuck her sister. Not sure about the threesome scenario, that's probably only a fantasy in your mind. But I think you have a really good chance of fucking her sister. Plus, she probably already told her sis how you perform in the bedroom. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 01:25 AM |
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