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Like you even had a chance if you swiped right lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:10 PM
1

I’m not this guy, I have no idea who this “mongo” is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:10 PM
0

If you don’t like wha I post, it is what it is 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:31 AM
0

I’m not this mongo dude or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:29 AM
-1

No, people keep calling me “Mongo” and I have no idea what that means.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:27 AM
2

So weirdos can’t use my comments against me as a “gotcha.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:21 AM
0

Racked and hanging out with big titty bitches, AMA
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:01 AM
-2

What “gaslighting”?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 08:48 PM
13

Reality. Nobody wants someone that nobody wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 08:34 PM
17

Hard disagree. I don’t know any self respecting woman past her early 20s who wants a male virgin as their first choice in dating, unless they’re the minority of being super religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 08:06 PM
-1

You got the wrong guy 🤷‍♂️ Happy Halloween though, hope you find the dude you’re looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:27 PM
-1

I have no idea who or what you’re talking about 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:20 PM
2

Because “quite a lot of women” aren’t attracted to “bad men.” The majority of women aren’t dating or married to sociopathic abusers, reality doesn’t reflect that. Infact a good man is more likely to end up in poly relationship, or some kind of hotwife dynamic. Lol what? Put down the porn dude, that’s not remotely close to reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 06:07 PM
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Might be too hungover for any Dia de Los Muertos parties this year, going to a rager tonight, might turn into a 2 day bender.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:57 PM
2

Look at it this way; is everything you’re attracted to “logical”? No, of course not. So why would women be any different? We’re not cold, emotionless, rational robots.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:56 PM
2

Attraction isn’t logical. You like what you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:49 PM
0

Fantasy is fantasy for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:46 PM
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Depends on the dude/situation. Fit older guy who’s universally attractive with a mid to late 20s girl? Not creepy. 60 year old fat balding guy with a girl who turned 18 a month ago? Kinda creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:43 PM
2

Theyre inexperienced men who probably suck at sex/have tiny dicks. N-count thread explained in a nutshell lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:19 PM
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Legit sounds like a Chicken George stereotype lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:17 PM
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Sometimes older dudes are attractive to younger women. Most are not in real life though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:17 PM
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So we have a nervous dweeb, a relatively normal guy, and a comical AAE stereotype. Why on earth wouldn’t you choose Chad in between Woody Allen and Mr. Bojangles?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:00 PM
2

That’s what I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 03:08 PM
-3

This is absolute nonsense. Charisma is absolutely a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:44 PM
4

It just means being charismatic and charming. So of course socially stunted dudes think it’s a myth lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:31 PM
2

What part of that comment is confusing you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:29 PM
1

Lol “pretty much” means it’s dead. There’s no fat models in ads or on billboards anymore. GLP-1 shots proved that body positivity was a myth as soon as the average person was able to get their hands on a magic shot that makes them skinny. If you want to build a social movement for unattractive men, what’s stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:29 PM
3

Not being an asshole =\= physically unattractive. The fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 01:56 PM
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And he’ll put up with it because he’s 5’5” and this is probably the best it’s gonna get for him 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 01:45 PM
2

Duh. You’re just now figuring out that people date people they’re attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 01:38 PM
3

There’s plenty of non-abusive men drowning in pussy though. I thought we’d already gotten past this misconception that every sexually successful man is a serial abusing wifebeater.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 01:26 PM
-1

I just can’t imagine letting it get to that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 01:23 PM
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Lol says the dude doing whiny daily hornyposting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 01:17 PM
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The more I read your posts, the more I think you have no idea what the fuck you’re attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 01:01 PM
1

I’ll agree there, it’s always better to be more outgoing in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 12:52 PM
4

Again, if you don’t embody those traits, how are you going to sell them? If you’re a shy, introverted nerd, how are you supposed to “sell” being an alpha bad boy for a couple weeks just to go back to being a quiet nerd once she’s been hooked? You’re better off just being your normal self instead of pretending to be something you’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 12:49 PM
1

Playful “negging” is fine. I’ve used it, it works. But some of these message look like they were written by a schoolyard bully lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 12:43 PM
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You’re affected by your childhood, no doubt. But as an adult it’s ultimately on you to deal with that trauma and overcome it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 12:42 PM
2

You have to ultimately be yourself. Don’t be someone you’re not in the attraction phase, because doing a complete 180 in the maintenance phase is going to make her feel like she was lied to and she’s getting a different person than she believed she was getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 12:40 PM
6

There seems to be a lot of confusion with inexperienced men between “playfully flirting” and “outright insults” when messaging women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 12:32 PM
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Have you tried actually looking for a woman instead of whining about it on PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 12:10 PM
1

Body positivity is dead thanks to Ozempic. That said, you’re more than capable of starting a similar movement for ugly virgin men if you’d like.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 12:08 PM
2

I mean, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 12:05 AM
5

I’m arguing with the wrong guy. I thought you were the guy you’re responding to, how embarrassing 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:56 PM
1

How is she going to know? Cmon.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:55 PM
1

I have no issues with you using a prost.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:54 PM
1

I would just lose it to a sex worker at that point and just not say anything. Then work on your social skills with a therapist or life coach. If all else fails, mail order bride. There’s no way to sugarcoat it, an elderly virgin is a really, really tough spot to be in. There’s no easy “fix” or solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:37 PM
1

Not necessarily your fault. You can’t choose to not be autistic. But dealing with and overcoming that, and the failure to do so, IS squarely on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:27 PM
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Well, yeah; the last time I encountered feminists who believe what you posted was in college in my political science department. I’ve run into them exactly zero times since then.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:26 PM
2

Because most elderly male virgins are weird. Let’s be honest. No one is a 40 yr old virgin if they have proper socialization. It’s a natural human response to be weirded out by strange people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:25 PM
1

You realize the overwhelming majority of the population isn’t friends with radical 4th wave feminists, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:17 PM
1

What feminist spaces are young hanging out at irl? And are they applicable to normal peoples lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:15 PM
2

What does that mean? Like you hang out with feminists irl, or you’re just reading what randos are saying online?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:14 PM
2

How often is everyday life impacted by radical fourth wave feminism? Are you encountering them in your day to day life where you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:05 PM
1

You honestly think “society” pillories elderly male virgins in the town square? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:50 PM
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Just use coke like a normal person. Attracts higher quality women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:46 PM
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By the time your clothes come off, she’s already decided what’s under them is irrelevant and you’re gonna hit it either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:30 PM
2

They’re a trained therapy professional who’ll have sex with you, usually reserved for people with disabilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:52 PM
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I don’t see any of this in day to day life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:50 PM
-3

Hire an escort, problem solved. Or, if you want something more ethical, a sex surrogate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:48 PM
-2

Then go lose your Vcard . It’s not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:43 PM
1

Yes, you’ll be lead to the town square and pelted with rotten fruits and vegetables.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:39 PM
-3

Because the rest of society doesn’t want to hear about your skill issues concerning your inability to score.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:18 PM
-4

Your virginity is your problem, not societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:13 PM
0

I don’t think society really gives a shit one way or another, beyond thinking it’s weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:05 PM
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Yes, ideally.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:05 PM
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The fuck kind of school is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:03 PM
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Clubs/bars are literally real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:59 PM
1

1) Lol that’s called cherry picking. 2) I don’t think you understand what my point was, because your rape analogy is nonsense. You being single at the time you’re asked doesn’t mean you’re permanently single all the time. 3) Self reporting from that same Pew survey said they wanted to be single to focus on school, career, and the remainder were simply happy being single (I.e, playing the field). Again, single =\= inceldom.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 05:00 PM
0

Do you not understand what “concurrently” means?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 04:57 PM
1

You’re not hearing me; he needs to do both. There is no such thing as an incel who can magically looksmaxx their way to perfection in 5 years to the point where they can just coast on looks. It’s not going to happen, you need to personalitymaxx concurrently to give yourself the best chance. Otherwise you just end up a stunted gymcel.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:32 PM
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Stop talking about it and go out and get yourself a dommy mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:21 PM
0

It’s both either/or, you need to work on both. Let’s be honest, the average incel is unlikely to be able to looksmaxx their way to the point where they don’t need any personality skills and can coast solely on looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:20 PM
-1

You’re talking a tiny, tiny subset of men. That doesn’t even apply to most incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:12 PM
-4

If men did what works they wouldn’t be incels in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:07 PM
1

How many of these dudes standards consist of “not fat” and that’s it. It’s not hard to find a non-obese woman, if that’s all you can attract, reality is trying to tell your expectations something lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:06 PM
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So that’s 1) not 63% of all men, 2) it’s just a snapshot of when the survey was taken, and 3) doesn’t mean that 63% of young men are incapable of getting a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:04 PM
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What does that statistic mean, 63%?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:16 PM
1

Sounds like a skill issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:53 AM
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Because they’re not. You have to have compatibility along with looks to have a successful long term relationship. If all you want is one night stands, sure looks are fine. Unless you’re clinically deformed, there’s some woman out there who’s looks threshold you’ll meet and pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:43 AM
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They absolutely believe that because most modern RP acolytes struggle to get a date, let alone a whole ass relationship lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:41 AM
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Dudes who believe that lack relationship experience, plain and simple. You have to have a couple relationships that last more than a couple months to really understand that looks are important, but they’re not everything. You have to be compatible as people too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:44 AM
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My statement assumes general, average attractiveness. So, yeah, if you’re ugly, you’re obviously going to face a much bigger looks handicap.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:15 AM
5

Women do love when you’re packing that schmeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:01 AM
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I think people see “looks don’t matter” when most people actually say “Looks aren’t the ONLY thing that matters.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:57 AM
6

Because sometimes you don’t get rejected, everything goes your way, and you take a baddie home for the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 10:41 PM
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That’s why they’re fun to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 09:48 PM
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Ok Mark Rippetoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 08:57 PM
1

Sure you can, if they exhibit those tendencies. You’re making this way more complicated than it needs to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 04:13 PM
3

You can be perfectly average in most categories, and still be below average overall if you have one of the personality defects listed above.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:06 PM
1

At no point did I claim that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:03 PM
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My gut instinct leads me to believe that if that’s all true, their lack of success falls on their personalities, such as being neurotic, neurodivergent, or high inhibition.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:37 PM
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Generally speaking, this is correct. If you’re consistently struggling with dating and you have zero romantic interest, you’re not an “average man.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:09 AM
0

I’ll never understand being a below average man, it’s either simp shit like that or cringey fantasy rants.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:08 AM
-2

Why do below average men feel this compelling need to write out rambling fantasies like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 09:29 AM
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I have no idea what your reply means, want to try again?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:57 AM
2

I just figured with your past as a bottle service girl that’s what you’d gravitate towards. Honest mistake, my fault for assuming 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:05 PM
1

I’m all man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:03 PM
1

lol look who’s the guilty Redditor now?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:02 PM
3

Most of the advice/views here are from dudes who haven’t had sex, who learned it from other dudes who haven’t had sex, mixed in with good old fashioned autism and mental health issues. Once you figure that out, most of the hair brained takes here make more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:16 PM
1

Sure; the latest data suggests that predisposition for infidelity is largely based on your genetics, not some arbitrary number of partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:07 PM
1

Then you aren’t interested in debate if you wont acknowledge the distinction between correlation and causation. At least be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:58 PM
-2

Even if I wanted to, I have no idea how
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:55 PM
1

But it’s not causation. I’m assuming you know the difference. Correlation doesn’t not mean high n is a causation in divorce and cheating. Again, what’s there to debate? You aren’t interested in changing your viewpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:53 PM
1

I don’t buy that either. If a woman is hot enough, every single dude claiming to be against high n count would fold if she wanted to date them. I’ve seen that too many times in real life to believe the whole “B-b-but I’m different, I wouldn’t do that…” talking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:51 PM
1

The in the closet dude from Fresh and Fit?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:48 PM
1

I mean…so what? Correlation isn’t causation. Even given that, what are you trying to debate here? If you don’t like high n partners, no evidence is going to change your mind to the contrary, same with people who don’t mind high n partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:45 PM
1

What is there to debate? You can cite a million studies, nobody gives a shit if you’re anti-low N. You’re not going to convince anyone to not date high n partners, people are gonna choose what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:25 PM
-3

Really? From your overall vibe I would expect you to be with a former athlete.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:12 PM
1

Because they don’t really care about the n-count, they’re just angry because they feel left out from sex and are rationalizing that by pretending to be above it. It’s inability to score pretending to be moral superiority. Every single dude who complains about n count would fuck if a 10/10 high n woman was super into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:10 PM
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lol swing and a miss.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 06:59 PM
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A 6’3 Swede in Muay Thai shape can clean up anywhere in the world. That’s not nearly equivalent to some balding dork with glasses trying to buy his way into some pussy down in Pattaya. Be real dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 06:44 PM
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Lol the only dudes who believe this are, legitimately, losers who can’t get pussy with a roadmap and a step by step guide.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 05:21 PM
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But that’s not the average passport bro. They’re not going because they like to travel and they can get laid anywhere, they’re all dorks and losers who can’t get laid in their own countries, so they have to buy it abroad in the few places they can. It has nothing to do with morals, just calling a spade a spade.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 05:10 PM
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Nobody is “deserved” anything, you’re not “owed” a short, fat ugly woman just because you’re also short, fat, and ugly. If you want to passport bro because you can’t compete in your home country, go for it. But you’re probably still going to be called an LBH and made fun of, it is what it is 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:56 PM
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That stereotype exists for a reason. Locals in other countries aren’t blind and stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:53 PM
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It’s never fun guys who could get laid anywhere just having a good time abroad, it’s always weirdos and creeps lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:44 PM
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Lmao so nothing long term, and your mental illness lead to the end of it. I’m shocked lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:16 AM
2

Have you even been in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:14 AM
2

You’re hopeless and clueless dude. You get what you deserve at this point 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:13 AM
2

Not every date is gonna have a spark. But no date is gonna have a spark if you act like a weirdo and self sabotage it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:09 AM
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Dude, you deserve to be alone with that attitude. You’re about the worst case of self sabotage I’ve encountered on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:49 AM
5

You think that confidence and personality matters Yeah, because I’m not a weird, asocial sperglord.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:45 AM
5

You’re mental. If she agreed to a date, it means you passed the looks threshold. Which you proceeded to fuck up by acting like a weird, distant autist because you were convinced she was gonna reject you. Straight up snatching defeat from the jaws of victory. Lmao bruh, I’m not sure if you can be helped at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:39 AM
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Lol that’s not how it works. You not being someone’s type doesn’t make you repulsive. Lmao you went on a date and didn’t smile and didn’t look at her…and you thought that was a successful strategy? Thanks for proving my points, it’s not your looks, it’s because of your weird, stunted personality lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:35 AM
5

This says literally nothing about “women finding 95% of men repulsive.” If you’re ugly, you’re ugly. Sucks to suck. Looks for a visually impaired woman to date lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:28 AM
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I wouldn’t recommend daily cocaine usage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:26 AM
3

App data shows that women find 95% of men as repulsive Feel free to present this data. Women reject you because you’re ugly or you’re socially awkward, be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:20 AM
1

If you’re having fun, that’s all that matters, but it sounds like a losing proposition in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:19 AM
1

It’s probably what’s keeping you alone, in all honesty 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:12 AM
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I wonder if there’s some kind of drug that can solve this by making me more spontaneous. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:07 AM
1

lol you’re not Rosa Parks, and being undateable isn’t Jim Crow.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:04 AM
1

Absolutely. If you can’t catch any fish, you might just be a shitty fisherman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:03 AM
1

Sounds like a self fulfilling prophecy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:55 AM
1

If everyone is an asshole to you…maybe you’re the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:54 AM
3

If that were the case 70% of men wouldn’t be in a relationship and relationship satisfaction surveys wouldn’t consistently rate partner satisfaction from women in the 85% and up range.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:54 AM
1

I don’t get why you’d want to be an asshole on top of being ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:22 AM
2

It means op is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:22 AM
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It’s common sense, nobody dates people they don’t find attractive, male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:15 AM
5

What’s “a lot” here? This claim is made repeatedly and no figures are ever actually given.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:16 AM
2

Yet the overwhelming majority of men are in some kind of relationship, which seems to suggest women’s attraction threshold is higher than 5%.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 11:55 PM
6

How would you even know this? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:40 PM
1

Such is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:37 PM
0

Right, so why not be enjoyable to be around instead of being an all around turd person?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:09 PM
1

You’re smarter than I thought you were.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 09:15 PM
1

I’m not old, and I don’t hate men. Most of my friends are men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 09:11 PM
1

You thought a guy with a Tank Murdock pfp was a woman? Cmon man, that’s kinda on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 09:08 PM
1

Uh, no, kinda weird you went straight to gay there, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 09:05 PM
1

All these flavors, and you chose salty. What a shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 09:00 PM
1

Oooo, somebody’s bitchy today, that time of the month?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:55 PM
3

Fine, then stay in your corner and let everyone else have a good time, bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:48 PM
1

If I had a dollar for every time I’ve heard a guy go “I would never do that” only to completely fold and do that once a soft 7 asks them to, I’d be a rich man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:43 PM
2

It’s not deflection. There is no such thing as a successful LTR without congruent personalities. You won’t find one based solely on looks, and you’d know that if you had actual dating experience instead of “pattern recognition” gleamed from sitting at home alone and beating off into a tissue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:34 PM
5

Well, if you’re ugly and miserable to be around, absolutely I’d tell you to fuck off, as should most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:26 PM
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You aren’t Jeremy Meeks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:18 PM
2

So you don’t have any long term relationship experience and you’re just talking out of your ass. I’m shocked lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:16 PM
3

It would make tolerating your presence easier. You can either be ugly, or a piece of shit. You can’t be both.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:16 PM
21

Looks get you in the door, no doubt. But saying “personality doesn’t matter” is something only sexually inexperienced men with no relationship experience believe. For successful relationships, it’s not either/or, you need both and anyone who tells you otherwise is lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:05 PM
5

How many long term relationships have you been in, just to clarify? How many of them solely revolved around your looks and y’all had nothing else in common beyond that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:01 PM
-1

You didn’t answer my question. Great, you spent a ton of money on surgery and you can get in the relationship club. Now, how are you going to stay there? You need personality for that, and no woman is going to become a wife for a man who’s only redeeming quality is a good set of hair plugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:55 PM
-1

But that just gets you halfway there. Looks get you in the door. What do you think happens after that? You think you’re just never going to talk to her because you got hair plugs and weird, spindly lengthened toothpick legs?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:39 PM
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Not impossible, just unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:34 PM
13

A lot of that is genetics. The mythical 5’2” balding Indian janitor, for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:33 PM
35

This only works if you have the looks to offset your lack of personality. Being ugly with a shit personality is a one way ticket to being permanently alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:31 PM
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If we’re being realistic? Mail order bride. You have to be honest with yourself about your options as an elderly virgin, and take what you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:16 PM
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The only issue is that younger, sexually inexperienced women are unlikely to find a, for example, 40 yr old virgin man attractive or worth pursuing for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:10 PM
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What does this mean, exactly? What “life experience” is relevant here if he’s still an advanced age virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:06 PM
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At no point did I say that. But let’s be real here, if you looked like Chris Brown, you wouldn’t be a late bloomer, simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:02 PM
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Plenty of men get laid and get girlfriends without cheating and lying. Unless you look like Chris Brown, and let’s be honest, you don’t, you can’t run scumbag game as a mid looking late bloomer HKV.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:57 PM
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The fact that you’re even considering that option might explain why you’re a late bloomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:52 PM
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You’re already a late bloomer, why become a scumbag on top of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:49 PM
-2

The odds of that are statistically very low.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:48 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:35 PM
1

Then that’s his league. It doesn’t fucking matter what you “think he deserves.” If a fat high school dropout only pulls supermodels, that’s his league. Your opinion otherwise is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:29 PM
2

That sounds like semantic quibbling. It’s a distinction without a difference in reality. If a guy isn’t dating anything less than an 8 and he’s consistently doing it, it doesn’t matter that you secretly think he’s a 5 and is dating out of his league.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:23 PM
0

Sounds like an ideal woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:20 PM
9

Yeah, you should absolutely trust the honest opinions of your friends. Assuming you have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:15 PM
-1

I literally addressed it, I’m not sure what the fuck you’re talking about. Is it possible? Sure. Does it happen to everyone? No. Are most people going to end up with a partner of roughly equal attractiveness? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:12 PM
7

That’s his league then. If you’re a passive wallflower who refuses to do anything to help yourself, you get what you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:07 PM
0

Are you just going to copy and paste that comment when you can’t come up with an actual argument? It being possible to get someone out of your league doesn’t mean the general rule of looksmatching isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:06 PM
8

Absolutely, it happens all the time. I’m an example. But as a general rule, most people date within their “league” with people of equivalent looks, income, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:01 PM
27

Exactly. Some dude last week was trying to claim his looksmatch was a 7, despite people routinely rating him well below average in looks. You can think you’re a high number all you want, the proof is in the pudding.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:45 PM
18

This is nonsense. Your league is what you can pull, simple as. If you’re consistently pulling 8s, that’s your “league.”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:44 PM
2

I might be able to satisfy your size queen requirements lmao 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 09:19 PM
0

lol DM and find out 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 09:12 PM
1

lol I think that’s a question for a DM, not public 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 09:09 PM
2

almost every text from comes with a nude Damn, wanna text? Lmao 😂 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 08:50 PM
2

You ever need someone to chat to, don’t be a stranger , I know what you’re going through, ironically enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 07:53 PM
4

You already have the proof. No adult has said anything about your virginity, it’s all in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 07:09 PM
13

Buddy, that’s all in your head. Literally no one gives a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 07:04 PM
15

So no adult has actually treated you that way? That’s what I thought. Adults don’t give a shit about some randos virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 07:00 PM
13

I can’t think of a single time in adulthood anyone has inquired about my virginity or lack thereof. So, unless you’re still in high school, I don’t believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:30 PM
2

Sorry, without more info that’s all I got 😂🤷‍♂️ I wish you nothing but luck, I’m sure you’ll find what you’re looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:29 PM
8

That’s a lie. Male virgins are at most ignored. The average person doesn’t give a shit how much sex you are or aren’t having.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:25 PM
2

100%, I’ve been there myself. It sucks feeling like you’re giving everything to the other person and they’re treating you like an afterthought. On paper, it sounds like you’re doing everything right; a FWB that’s sending me nudes and texts throughout the day would be exactly what I’m looking for. That’s perfect for a FWB. So, without more detail or knowing you better, I suspect you just have to keep looking until you find the right one, as boring and unexciting as that sounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:11 PM
2

Maybe they’re interpreting the lack of fawning and affection as you not being as interested despite your feelings to the contrary? They may also just be down for a pump and dump. That’s the shitty thing about finding a good FWB, it requires a lot of sifting through coal to find a diamond.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:59 PM
97

Dude, just jack off and go on about your life. It’s not that complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:52 PM
2

For sure, after scoping your profile I can see why lol. If you had to be honest, why do you think you’re having a rough time keeping a steady FWB? You sound kinda burnt out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:49 PM
0

lol no, you’re just not usually the type to post here. You don’t seem like an unattractive femcel.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:38 PM
1

lol What are you doing on PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:34 PM
1

You just gotta hunt for the right FWB, which unfortunately requires a decent amount of trial and error.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:32 PM
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We have the same weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:28 PM
3

Some of those drunken college hookups are really fuzzy at this point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 04:51 PM
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Deep down, they know it’s money, though a tiny minority of women have daddy issues and will go for attractive older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:25 PM
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And who will make daily posts about how shitty the west and western women are despite him living here and refusing to go back to his third world dump of a home? :/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:23 PM
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Oh no, the shitty rape apologist left? What a shame lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:07 PM
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If nobody what’s you, sorry, it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:53 PM
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Like I said, at that point be grateful that you can get anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:06 PM
1

If that’s all you can get, you’re going to have to make some compromises.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:05 PM
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Beggars can’t be choosers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:01 PM
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If you’re that genetically undesirable, you kinda have to make the best of it and accept what you can get 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:55 PM
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Yeah, but some women still feel like a cheap whore after.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:52 PM
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That by definition means you’re not capable mate, unless you invest heavily in the gym and get plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:51 PM
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If you get to 35+ years sith absolutely ZERO sexual desire from women, it’s probably never going to happen. You have to be realistic and take what you can get at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:42 PM
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It can be. I always felt a little bad for the girls who left the frat house the next morning barefooted with smudged makeup and had to walk past all the rooms 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:39 PM
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If you’re a 35 yr old virgin, sorry mate, you gotta take what you can get, because you obviously had 20+ years of failure demonstrating you’re not really capable of getting someone to desire you. It is what it is, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:38 PM
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Biology isn’t compulsive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:35 PM
1

Being a “late bloomer” in your 30s is a hard spot to be. Overcoming that can be done, but you don’t have many options realistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:34 PM
-3

No offense, if dude just went traveling and to concerts and put any effort into being social and interesting, they wouldn’t be some 30-something late bloomer loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:30 PM
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There you go, you were smart enough to get the easiest sex possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:27 PM
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Hookers and escorts exist. Use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:22 PM
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You have to honestly be super rare company to be an 70-80 yr old virgin. At that point, barring some sort of severe disability, that’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:21 PM
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I too like posts with completely made up statistics pulled straight from a butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:09 PM
3

Yes. Most dudes in the hood have women, but they’re not all assholes to their women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:10 AM
3

LMAO like you know what goes on in the hood 😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:03 AM
3

Have you tried cokemaxxing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:02 AM
1

Who is saying that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 08:58 PM
4

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/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 08:52 PM
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Nah, whoever that account was, it wasn’t me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:43 PM
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A bear would be more accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:33 PM
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A lion doesn’t concern himself with the opinion of sheep, or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:31 PM
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I’ll take your lack of respect into consideration when she’s got my balls in her mouth lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:11 PM
0

Meth isn’t bad, never been interested in heroin 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 02:45 PM
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Sounds like the one party had more than just “platonic” feelings for their female friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 02:40 PM
2

No I have not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 02:20 PM
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Let’s be real, the only reason you’re butthurt is because I’m right. Otherwise you would’ve addressed what I said instead of playing the victim like a big pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 02:11 PM
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If you want to play sensitive sally and whine, I’m not the guy. Here, let’s get your panties untwisted; women suck too. There, you can stop throwing your lil hissy fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 02:06 PM
0

You gotta have a hoe phase, male and female. Never trust someone who hasn’t; how can you know your limits if you’ve never tested them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:53 PM
8

Are you an ugly, short, autistic alcoholic?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:52 PM
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What about my comment is “worked up”?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:50 PM
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I lol’d at the booster seat 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:49 PM
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So find a way to be attractive to women, simple as. Hell, not even all women, you just have to be attractive to one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:48 PM
2

I believe it. The “13 in flexed bicep” average was pathetic too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:25 PM
8

Oh, so you mean being a 29 yr old hugless, kissless virgin isn’t the normal or “average” male experience? Shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:23 PM
1

The average max bench for men my age is 158 lbs, that explains a lot about the state of society 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:16 PM
6

I always love how the “average man” is somehow short, autistic, has no friends, is a HKV at some advanced age, is constantly mocked and “shamed” by women, and I’m like on what planet is that the “average” experience for men lmao?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:10 PM
11

Nothing makes you feel like a Chad more than hearing how abysmally awful the “average man” on PPD is doing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:01 PM
3

There’s numerous evolutionary advantages to height though. Better leverages, bigger/stronger offspring, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:44 PM
1

I think when you actively go looking you give off a desperate vibe or something. Because it just doesn’t want to happen when you really want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 02:03 AM
1

All of my best and longest relationships started that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:57 AM
2

What if women like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:48 AM
1

100% haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:44 AM
1

That’s a thicc bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:39 AM
2

Just looked up her Instagram and let out an involuntary “Got-damn!” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:32 AM
1

Thars also not a counter argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:31 AM
1

Is “Shebulk” a typo?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:13 AM
1

You not liking a counter argument doesn’t not make it a counter argument. Non-straight people aren’t being discriminated against because straights attracted to them nor do they want to date them. You don’t have to like it, but that’s reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:09 AM
1

That isn’t a counter argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:06 AM
1

Yes it is. Sorry, you’re not entitled to have straight people find you attractive when you’re not straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:05 AM
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Height doesn’t automatically get you pussy, but it definitely helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 11:49 PM
1

It’s not “homophobic” to not want to date a bi person. It’s not “homophobic” for straight people to only want to date straight people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 11:27 PM
1

So gay men who aren’t attracted to women solely because they’re women are straightphobic? Glad we cleared that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 10:38 PM
1

Nowhere in the west is a theocracy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 10:36 PM
1

No it’s not. It’s not “homophobic” to not be attracted to LGBT people, that’s absurd. Are gay men “straightphobic” because they’re not attracted to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 10:36 PM
1

How am I homophobic?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 10:33 PM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 10:25 PM
1

If you understood it, by all means, translate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:16 PM
3

That sounds like a recipe for a future dead bedroom if you’re not careful
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:14 PM
2

I should clarify, I was using “you” in the general sense, not you specifically. If you’re conservative and prudish and getting laid, more power to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:11 PM
1

I don’t mind that either, especially with a big titty broad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:10 PM
4

So what? You think the mother of your kids can’t get pounded in the ass every once in awhile? This is why y’all are sexless dorks, you have this neverending laundry list of weird sexual hang ups. “My wife likes anal”, oh no, my steak is too juicy lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:09 PM
-1

Based on what? Because I don’t care to decipher rambling gobbledygook?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:07 PM
2

Of course it does. But that doesn’t mean anal feels “bad” by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:06 PM
4

You’re telling me if some bitch demands you rail her in the ass, instead of going “hell yeah!” you’re gonna stop and wonder what guy taught her that? Cmon bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:04 PM
3

She had to learn somewhere 🤷‍♂️ The less I have to train her, the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:58 PM
3

Yeah, I’m into that kinda shit. Railing your bitch in the ass is one of life’s pleasures, you should want one with back door experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:51 PM
5

Lmfao yes. Ain’t anything wrong with a woman who likes a dick in the dirt pipe.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:45 PM
2

Lol I’m shocked. You’re a waste of time and space.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:26 PM
1

Answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:23 PM
1

What’s the rate of “being set up” compared to rates of sexual assault? I’ll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:21 PM
2

You don’t think men aren’t at risk of being set up by women? What’s the rate of sexual assault against women and the rate of false rape accusations against men? Which is a larger number? Weren’t you lecturing people about losing the ability of rational thought? Ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:56 PM
0

Of course I don’t have a rebuttal, I have no idea what your nonsense jargon (gynocentrism?) is trying to convey.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:54 PM
1

But they don’t. Men struggle to get dates, women struggle with their dates potentially raping and assaulting them. Two different struggles entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:09 PM
-1

I have no idea what this word salad even means.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:08 PM
0

I clearly stated they weren’t. But that’s not the issue, you’ve got your problems, somebody else has a different set of problems. At the end of the day, it’s on you to deal with them. Whining about “I have it worse” does nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 03:35 PM
1

Nothing lowers your inhibitions faster, except maybe Molly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 03:30 PM
0

Yes. Rich white guys can still have depression, lost loved ones, and other struggles in life. Most normal, rational people understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 03:29 PM
1

As Eric Clapton once said, “Cocaine.”
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 03:27 PM
1

Take the powerlifting pill. You can look and eat like a slob, but as long as you put up decent numbers in the lifts, you can snag a baddie gym bunny gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 03:26 PM
2

Lmao I bet dollars to donuts you’re overestimating the men’s attractiveness and underestimating the women’s attractiveness. Because most couples irl are looksmatched.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 03:24 PM
-4

Again, this isn’t the Oppression Olympics Pity Party for BitterWheel. You don’t really know how anybody struggles with dating unless you personally know what they’re going through.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 03:22 PM
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Dating isn’t the oppression Olympics, everyone struggles in their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 03:13 PM
-3

Past a certain age, unsuccessful men are unsuccessful for a reason. Best to leave them to sink or swim on their own and to not waste your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 11:51 AM
-2

Rejection sucks, but it is a part of life. EVERYONE has been rejected at some point, part of growing up and maturing is learning how to overcome and manage rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 11:49 AM
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But natural selection favors traits like height, this is well documented. If what you’re saying is true, we wouldn’t have evolved as a dimorphic species and would be a race of midgets.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 11:47 AM
9

This is just a fetish post.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 11:45 AM
7

Depends on what you mean by “less than attractive.” Pretty fat girls get approached all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 11:44 AM
1

I mean, that type of guy isn’t going to be with a super attractive woman, but they usually have no problem finding a woman of equal ugliness 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 11:42 AM
1

There’s balding, recessed chin men with wives and gfs. That’s not some unicorn you never see.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 10:30 AM
2

I like shapely calves, thick thighs, long legs. All attractive when on a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 10:17 AM
1

Great legs usually includes a nice juicy ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:45 AM
1

Sounds like you need to take a break from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:44 AM
2

That’s not a crime though. It’s not against the law to be an annoying dater.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 02:37 PM
1

Then what “crime” are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 02:31 PM
1

We are SO back.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 11:16 AM
2

Even in general. A poor attractive man will get more authentic raw sexual attention from women than an ugly rich man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 09:35 PM
3

Disagree. Poor dudes clean up with women, see any local ghetto or trailer park.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 09:14 PM
1

They unironically do. Every time I’ve hoofed a woman onto my shoulders at a bar, they all think it’s the funniest thing ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 08:03 PM
1

I dislike when my girl wears anything other than tight stuff like yoga pants 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 08:02 PM
5

If we’re using that made up definition of feminism, then no.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 08:01 PM
1

The blonde, cuz I like leggy, busty blondes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 06:57 PM
0

Obviously my statement doesn’t apply to people with severe neurodivergence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 02:08 PM
1

Holy cope fantasy lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 11:20 AM
2

I think there’s truth to that, but it’s a fine line. Communicate enough to let her know you’re interested, but not to the point that you seem desperate or overeager.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 01:38 AM
1

You replied to the wrong comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 11:52 PM
3

lol yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 11:31 PM
5

What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 11:20 PM
14

Shes never gonna read this bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 11:03 PM
2

Having female friends just means you’re safe or nonthreatening, not that it automatically means that women will be attracted to you. Either you’re sexually attractive or you’re not, it’s that simple. Without knowing specifics, you could be struggling for multiple reasons despite having female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 10:27 PM
8

That which is presented without evidence can be dismissed without evidence 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 10:06 PM
5

You’re making the claim, it’s on you to prove it. If you can’t, I can only assume you’re lying 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 10:05 PM
5

Prove it 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:57 PM
9

Oh, surprise surprise you don’t have this “data”, imagine my shock.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:57 PM
2

Of course you have. How many men whining about how “average” they are when in reality they’re below average in multiple ways have you encountered on here? It’s almost all of them. I just had a convo a couple days ago where some dude was getting ranked by his friends as a 3 trying to claim with a straight face that his looksmatch is actually a fit 7 because he’s not fat. Beyond delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:56 PM
4

Feel free to present this “data.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:53 PM
4

But women go for top 10% men? They do? Weird how that’s never been demonstrated with any kind of empirical data.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:52 PM
3

No, they can’t looksmatch because they’re in denial that their looksmatch is fat and/or ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:45 PM
8

Cool story. Anecdotes aside, the overwhelming majority of men struggling are struggling because they’re in denial about what their looksmatch is. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:44 PM
6

The amount of men struggling in dating states the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:39 PM
7

The irony here is that this applies more to struggling men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:36 PM
5

Find a woman to party with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:36 PM
18

Like, do I think women should be treated equally? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:17 PM
0

This literally means nothing. You could take a comparatively attractive image of a woman saying the same shit and men would ignore it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:50 PM
22

What “consequences” should I have to face because a woman I don’t know hurt your feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:49 PM
20

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:42 PM
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Not relevant to my comment. If she’s not reciprocating romantic interest she’s not into you sexually. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:29 PM
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It’s the most bizarre take on here, honestly. Nobody fetishizes the “women are wonderful” trope like men who don’t get any.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:28 PM
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Sure, but you’re talking about a small minority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 06:51 PM
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It’s more like you shouldn’t put the pussy on a pedestal. Don’t treat women like magical goddesses, because they’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 06:37 PM
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She knows within 30 seconds whether she’s going to fuck you or not. So if you’re not getting any reciprocation of romantic feelings for days, weeks, or months, congrats, you’re “just a friend.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 06:36 PM
9

Man describes basic social interaction as a novel concept lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 06:19 PM
3

Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 02:18 PM
1

I can; my own dating history and that of my social circle is filled with people whose partners started out as members of their social circle from growing up and from school. This is supported by things like Dunbars number. Women consider 80% of men below average in terms of sexual attractiveness. You haven’t proven this. Women only pick the top 10-5-1% of men on dating apps You haven’t proven this either. You claiming something doesn’t make it true, you know that, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 02:18 PM
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Never said being tall doesn’t matter 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 01:40 PM
13

The internet exists. Start your own “sexually inclusive club for shy, sexually inhibited sexless men” and solve your problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 12:18 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 12:17 PM
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Asking for feedback in the first place is textbook insecurity. Either you dicked her down right or you didn’t. “Asking for feedback” shows that deep down you know you didn’t give her a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 11:12 AM
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This sounds like it was all in your head and you’re letting your insecurities dictate your mental narrative, despite being above average dickwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 11:08 AM
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Bingo. Any dude who’s “asking for feedback” about his dick is insecure as shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 11:07 AM
0

Say what? Not sure how you got rape from natural selection, kind of a weird way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 01:21 AM
3

They’ll turn on the right too when they figure out they don’t give a shit about them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 11:21 PM
2

For real. Anyone who’s had an actual, good relationship has experienced things like this. You should want to do nice things for your partner. I think it boils down to these dudes wanting pussy, but they’re not interested in the person attached to it who had feelings and emotional needs and everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 10:06 PM
5

Jealousy, plain and simple. Those who can attract, do. Those that can’t, cope and make excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 09:27 PM
1

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/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 09:13 PM
-2

Sounds like natural selection has its work cut out for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 08:14 PM
1

Running a bath and pouring a glass of wine is functionally the same as turning on the shower and having a beer ready. If you’re that lazy, no wonder you’re single.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 08:07 PM
-2

How were men doing that for literal thousands of years, but in the last 20 all of a sudden they can wipe their ass without their hand being held and a step by step guide?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 07:25 PM
2

They sent him money. There, I answered your question. Now, back on track; how many Shimon Levievs do you think the average woman is meeting on tinder in a given week? You honestly think it’s a high number?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 07:01 PM
2

How many rich, hot guys do you think local women encounter on tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:55 PM
2

I have. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:47 PM
7

Which is a recipe for disaster. Life doesn’t give you positive reinforcement all the time, part of being a functioning adult is to learn that and overcome it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:44 PM
2

You don’t even get that right, since you seem to be under the delusion that women are routinely traveling 200 miles for hookups. That’s absolute fantasy. So, sorry if I take your “observations” with a grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:43 PM
1

If your “real world experience” consists solely of failure, what good are you talking about success?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:00 PM
3

You broke into MY house. Clearly you think your life is worth less than I do, so I’m only happy to oblige you with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:59 PM
1

Yeah, I read it. It reads like armchair quarterbacking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:57 PM
1

“I have no real world experience, just what I think they do in my head” Lmao ok
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:38 PM
1

Then how would you know what women are or aren’t doing if you don’t have any real world experience with one?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:32 PM
2

I notice you didn’t answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:21 PM
2

If you want to dish it out, you gotta be able to take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:17 PM
5

Because the average woman isn’t traveling 200 miles for a hookup, let alone a relationship. When was the last time you were in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:15 PM
1

The divorce rate hasn’t changed in over 40 years. Also, I’d like a link to support that stat.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:10 PM
0

No woman invites you back to her place to “just be friends.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:07 PM
3

Yet they still existed. You think in the 1950s you were just issued a girlfriend for being in the same town? If men are so weak and coddled in the modern era that they can’t handle a little competition, they get what they deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 04:33 PM
2

Then just give up. There’s always going to be someone taller, someone better looking, someone with more money. It’s always been that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 04:27 PM
3

Like that wasn’t an issue before? Cmon. Just say you have a skill issue and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 04:13 PM
1

It’s like you don’t comprehend what I’m saying. Your central premise of “most men struggle to find women to date” is false. Hence why your “deductive reasoning” from that point is irrelevant, it’s garbage in, garbage out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:45 PM
7

No, it’s not. The data clearly states fatalities and injuries are way lower than 100 years ago. That’s not up for debate, it’s basic math.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:44 PM
6

You claimed the workplace was just as dangerous as 100 years ago. That is objectively false. This has nothing to do with “hating men”, you were plainly wrong and now you’re butthurt and don’t want to admit it. Why? You were talking out of your ass, it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:40 PM
4

They’re not. Literal hundreds of thousands of years of evolution have given your brain the ability to pick up on body language and nonverbal cues. Once you learn to read them, life gets a whole lot easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:38 PM
11

My guy, you’re objectively wrong. It’s ok to admit that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:32 PM
1

70% of men are in some kind of relationship. 80% of men can’t be “struggling” given that objective reality. Again, if we’re talking solely about BELOW average men, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:29 PM
8

Introverts have never had it easy in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:22 PM
9

That’s not the argument; it’s that those injuries occur at a much, much lower rate and frequency compared to 100 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:21 PM
1

Yeah, based on that, I’ve noticed the exact opposite. Most average men end up with average women, and are so quite happily. If you’re talking below average men, then, sure, you might have a point Do some women marry men they aren’t attracted to? Sure. Is that a majority of relationships? There’s literally no data or anecdotal evidence to support that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:10 PM
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Fatalities are lower. Then you lied. It’s objectively not as dangerous on the workplace today as it was 100 years ago, so why are we supposed to pretend that your statement isn’t bullshit? Even moving the goalposts to “long term injuries”, you’re still wrong there according to OSHA stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:01 PM
2

I’m inclined to ask if you can prove any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:59 PM
8

Sweet. Now what was the overall occupational fatality rate from 1908-1932? Was it higher or lower than 1998-2022?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:58 PM
1

“Anyone smarter than me is indoctrinated” 🙄🤦‍♂️ As for the snatch, yes, yes I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:56 PM
2

Sorry I’m smarter than you. Such is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:52 PM
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All the things women like in men, like strong eye contact, ease of conversation, being assertive, knowing when to escalate based off of nonverbal cues…are all things autism hampers in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:52 PM
2

Racism implies structural discrimination. What you mean is that people of color can be prejudiced against whites. You’d have to have a situation like South Africa to have a comparable “people of color are racist against whites” scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:49 PM
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Advancements in fall safety, lockout/tagout for high voltage, personal protective equipment, backup alarms and cameras on heavy equipment, safety railings, standardization of scaffold planks, guards and double grounding on power tools, are just a few of the multitude of things that make things safer than 100 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:44 PM
-2

The vast majority of people are in relationships with women from their social circle, which includes friends of friends, coworkers, classmates. Wtf are you talking about “haven’t proved any of it”, do you think people are only in relationships with total strangers the last 20 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:39 PM
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This nowhere near true. Fatality rates and injuries on jobs in the 1920s were WAY higher than today, hours were longer, there were no set rules on overtime, wars were more prevalent, etc. Men have it better now than in any other time in history and it’s like they can’t handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:26 PM
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There’s probably a lot of truth to this, hence why autistic men struggle so much with dating and hooking up. Being socially awkward will stunt your chances way more than your looks or your height.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 01:23 PM
2

Oh, yeah, sure. If you’re ugly, short, etc, your mileage is gonna vary. But assuming you’re ok looking and not a complete autist, you can still date and hookup in those circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 01:14 PM
1

You can be both at different times. Sometimes sex can just be sex and not have to be some mind blowing experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 01:08 PM
1

You can still hook up with your friends friend, your coworkers, your classmates, etc. There’s nothing physically stopping people from doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 01:06 PM
1

It’s really not. If you think running a bath and pouring a glass of wine is “too much,” that explains a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:36 AM
1

It’s really not. If you think running a bath and pouring a glass of wine is “too much,” that explains a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:35 AM
1

Because that’s not a thing. I know actual Chad’s, they’re not fucking ugly women because they literally don’t have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:54 PM
1

It doesn’t matter what I think. You’re a 3. Stay in your lane and be realistic. Like a 3 isn’t mid, it isn’t average, it’s squarely in the “ugly-to-hideous” category. The market isn’t broken because you’re not being handed an Esmeralda, Quasimodo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:02 PM
2

I’ve got one through my eyebrow from a fight as a kid, and aside from women asking about it on dates I don’t know how attractive it is 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:56 PM
1

That which is presented without evidence can be dismissed without evidence 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:53 PM
1

Right. And in that comparison she got rated a 7 and you got rated a 3. No matter how much you want to lie to yourself, that means y’all don’t look alike. You’re a three. Your looksmatch is a fat, ugly woman because that’s a realistic option for a man whose looks are far below average. Such is life. The market isn’t broken and women aren’t overestimated because some ugly three doesn’t want to face reality that fatties are his looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:52 PM
1

Because you can measure it. If there’s a trend in women calling men gay, there should be documented evidence of that occurring on a widespread scale like with sexism and toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:48 PM
1

That’s not what I asked. Your “social observation” is meaningless if you can’t actually demonstrate it’s real.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:43 PM
1

All this has proved that you’re in denial of reality. You’re getting rated a fucking THREE bro. Unless you get your money game up or you’re the most charismatic man on the planet, there is no way in hell that you’re getting a 7 because you personally think you look similar despite other people saying otherwise. Stop lying to yourself, and to us. People openly ranking you a 3 is a brutal truth pill you need to swallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:43 PM
1

180?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:33 PM
1

If she “looks like you”, why are you getting rated a 3 and she’s getting rated a 7? Either they’re lying or you’re lying. The math isn’t mathing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:33 PM
2

I don’t think asking you to back up your claim with something other than “trust me, bro” is that big of an ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:30 PM
4

she was rated a 7 and I was rated a 3 Then she’s not your looksmatch. Cmon bro, you can’t be that deluded if other people are honestly ranking you a 3 and you think you somehow deserve a 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:22 PM
1

I don’t buy that. If you as a butt ugly fit dude can’t pull a comparatively equally butt ugly woman, that’s a skill issue, plain and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:11 PM
2

Or, you’re overestimating what you think is your “match.” If you’re ugly as shit, even if you’re “fit”, whatever that means, you’re not going to pull a mid faced fit chick because…you’re ugly as shit. Such is life. Your looksmatch is what you’re capable of getting. If it’s nothing but fat and ugly women, welcome to reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:03 PM
2

Again, you’ve yet to demonstrate there’s this gigantic majority of women calling men gay in the same way there is for sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:56 PM
4

Then you’re ugly, simple as. I’m also over 6’0 and in decent shape, and never needed fat or ugly women. Neither have the dudes in my life that look similar to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:54 PM
1

I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:53 PM
2

Damn, didn’t get into the frat party last night, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:43 PM
-1

The caveat to this is that looks are subjective. What woman likes another might not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:37 PM
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Agreed. Do whatever you want and are comfortable with. Basing your actions out of some nebulous fear of “shame” is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:13 PM
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Your first mistake is letting women you don’t know dictate your life and actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:06 PM
1

Depends on what “average” we’re talking about, but, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:05 PM
1

Well, duh. Ain’t nobody wants a micropenis.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 05:54 PM
1

Neither of these women said anything about dick size.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 05:43 PM
7

The bi thing isn’t surprising since most straight people are interested in other straight people. It’s not homophobic to not be attracted to nonstraight people. The gay marriage thing can mostly be explained by religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:36 PM
15

I’ll agree there, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:25 PM
2

Maybe you just photograph poorly?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:19 PM
5

If you have proof that it is, I’m down to check it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 03:33 PM
3

People are shitty, it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:47 PM
7

You kind of do when you’re comparing things that are systemic in nature (sexism, toxic masculinity) with something that isn’t (homophobia from individual women). There’s not really a double standard there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:46 PM
11

In order for those to be comparable, you’d have to demonstrate a society wide, structural system of female homophobia like there is for sexism and toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:24 PM
10

That’s why you shouldn’t put the pussy on a pedestal. Women are humans with all the good and bad that comes with that, and don’t let anyone gaslight you otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:04 PM
5

Greek life is a literal easy mode shortcut to getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:59 PM
2

You’re kinda fucked then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:58 PM
2

You can laugh your way into some pretty pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:56 PM
1

Yes, but I’m not short and funny, so that helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:46 PM
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What is the debate here? That women can be shitty people too?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:35 PM
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I take drugs and have fun irl and highly recommend it to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:44 AM
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Do you not know how to read? Literally no one thinks that except for a couple dorks on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:41 AM
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I’ve literally never been accused of being a male feminist irl. Some of y’all are truly lost in the sauce of you think “have fun and take drugs” makes you a male feminist lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:38 AM
1

I’ll let you have the last word, I know you need to have it, shorty 😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:37 AM
1

Damn, you’re delusionally paranoid and your jokes suck. Just an all sround L lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:35 AM
1

If you say so bud lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:31 AM
2

Are you trying to get me to ask you for a dick pick? Lmao what?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:30 AM
2

Living rent free in your head lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:29 AM
2

That sounds paranoid as fuck. “Everyone I don’t like is an alt, reeeeeeee” 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:28 AM
1

Lol this is literally my only account, cry harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:23 AM
1

Chicago is supremely underrated, but the winter can be brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:20 AM
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What “proof”? All you’ve offered is “trust me, bro.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:14 AM
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And then everyone clapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:02 AM
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Uh huh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 03:43 AM
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Then get some drugs and stop bitching.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 03:25 AM
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Damn, girls like fun, good looking guys? Didn’t see that coming lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 03:24 AM
1

If all you can attract is fat, ugly women, you’re not a looker. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:08 AM
2

You gotta work with what you got. If you’re short with a small dick, sucks to suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:07 AM
5

Either improve yourself to get a higher quality woman, or, take what you can get 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:13 PM
2

I love how these cretins are shocked that their is only options are their looksmatch in women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:30 PM
3

It’s dark between the cheeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:09 PM
1

Just say you like rape and go.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:02 PM
1

Rape apology is so fucking gross. I don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:21 AM
25

Seems a whole lot more likely that you read this on manosphere dude sites instead, while doomscrolling. This would seem to be the source of 99% of modern RP “theories.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:15 AM
17

Same. There’s a big fall festival in my town tonight. I’m willing to bet I’ll see all kinds of couples there; some more attractive, others less. But I can guarantee that it won’t all be average women walking around 10/10 alpha looksmaxxed Chads lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:13 AM
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Average women date average men all the time. Despite OP’s protestations about men being less “delusional” in terms of dating, he’s not “average” if he can’t attract average women, simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:06 AM
25

Another “women should lower their standards, I shouldn’t have to adjust mine” rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:57 AM
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How is that deflection I literally told you my standards for grossness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:58 AM
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Be as gross as you want, I don’t give a shit 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:56 AM
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🎻👌
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:42 AM
0

I mean, you could go off of relationship satisfaction surveys. They seem to lean towards my conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:26 AM
6

Most women marry the men they’re eagerly fucking though, same as most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:13 AM
6

Do they? Again that sounds like wishful thinking and not really reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:10 AM
19

Well, looks like incels need to get into matcha and feminist books.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:34 AM
7

I honestly don’t think most people care or even discuss it that much irl. It seems like a high school age fixation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 09:39 PM
22

Tf is an “alphabux”? See my point about this being a terminally online take.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 07:47 PM
54

This seems like a made up revenge fantasy that exists solely online. I rarely see high N or “older” women “struggling” irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 07:25 PM
1

My lady only has that energy in the shower lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:26 PM
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Pretty much, you can’t have it both ways. That’s why you should just do what you want regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:45 PM
0

Body language is mostly pseudoscience Learning how to read nonverbal cues has always worked well for me 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:35 PM
2

You sit on her face!? I like the cut of your jib lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:33 PM
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I’m gonna end this here, I don’t feel comfortable continuing a convo with a sexual assault and rape apologist. That’s just too grimy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:17 PM
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I don’t know if “not a big deal” is how I’d describe sexual assault dude, that’s kinda gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:00 PM
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The WHO.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:38 AM
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Something like 1 in 3 women have been sexually assaulted in their lifetime. That’s a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:25 AM
1

If she’s touching me, eye contact, laughing at all my jokes, responding to my texts with actual conversation, making plans and keeping them…she’s into me unless clarification otherwise. Out of all the women that gave done that, I think only a couple “just wanted to be friends”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:22 AM
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Once you learn to read body language and context clues, it’s not hard to figure out if she likes you or not. That said, if you’re still confused given those signs…ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:15 AM
3

“You got an attitude, time to fix that” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:35 AM
8

I think it’s funny when she gets frustrated and tries to punch me lol Also, play fighting leads to sex 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:22 AM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:07 AM
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Agreed, and women can do the same with height. No fatties for the guys and no midgets for the gals. Everybody wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 07:54 PM
6

I’m aware bro, it’s entirely dependent on where you live and your social strata. San Diego is going to have more attractive women per capita than say Charleston, West Virginia.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:52 PM
9

I think it entirely depends on your class and area. There’s tons of smart, hot women in colleges and grad schools, or in places that have higher incomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:39 PM
6

Who’s more attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:23 PM
1

I have an ex who was a cam girl, I dunno if she still does it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 11:24 AM
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Even so, a man who can’t get a relationship is still seen as a loser. Nobody wants to be with someone that nobody wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:31 AM
1

Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:30 AM
2

Bottom as in the one receiving penetration?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:29 AM
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Which is irrelevant. A mans worth is based on sexual success in a way that women’s is not. Hence why a man whose only sexual avenue is to pay for it is seen as a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:25 AM
1

We can’t resist a fat peach.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:23 AM
2

She’ll shake her ass at me and make a lil whine if I don’t slap it before leaving. Women are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:07 AM
1

Me leaving for work right now, telling my lady goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:04 AM
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It demonstrates that the man is so repulsive in some way that his only way to get laid is to pay for it, ergo, he isn’t worthy of respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 09:59 AM
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Oh, nah, that’s fine. A lil pooch flattens out when she’s on her back anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 09:51 PM
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How much is “too thick” here? If she’s a bbw I can fux with it, but if she’s like a Tess Holiday blob, nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 09:47 PM
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Fat and thick are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 09:41 PM
8

So, you’re not. You’re letting your own internal narrative dictate things instead of reality. You’re choosing to feel shamed, at the end of the day. And if you live your life in fear of being “shamed” for existing, you’re gonna have a rough time in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 09:41 PM
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No such thing as too thick.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 09:34 PM
5

How are you “punished” if you buy Sabrina Carpenters album where she’s on all fours like a dog?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 09:31 PM
1

How is it a problem? Who gives a shit what some random Twitter feminist thinks about a woman consenting to being sexualized? There’s no contradiction here. It’s not “oppression” if you’re willing participating and actively consenting to it. I’m not sure how any of that is hypocritical, unless you feel like you should be able to sexually objectify women because they can choose to willingly present themselves as sex objects?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 09:06 PM
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Why is it hypocritical? Taking ownership of your sexuality and making money off of it isn’t hypocritical. If the woman is ok with being objectified (Sabrina Carpenter, for example) it’s not hypocritical if she consents to that objectification to make millions of dollars. Your cold approach point is irrelevant to the discussion. It’s a really, really simple equation here. Did she consent? If yes, it’s fine. If no, it’s not. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 08:37 PM
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[Me casually sniffing my finger] Hell yeah brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 08:24 PM
4

Who do I vibe with better? Who’s more attractive? Who has the better personality? Who has more going for them in life?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 08:23 PM
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You seem to not understand the difference between being a sexual being on your own accord vs being sexually objectified against your will, which are two wildly different things and it’s not inconsistent to choose the former and hate the latter, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 08:22 PM
2

You’re wrong. I can’t count the amount of times I’ve had a shit day and she had a beer and shower ready for me. Which goes back to my earlier question; my guy, have you ever been in a relationship with someone who actually likes and loves you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:02 PM
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Because as my lady had said “if I could, I would. I’m painfully straight.”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 10:28 PM
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I think that’s true for either sex. It’s by strict definition not normal to be a virgin late in life, and that’s absolutely something a potential partner should take into consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 07:38 PM
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This needs to be the top comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:45 AM
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Like Don Draper, I don’t think about it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 11:45 PM
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I mean, I like a clean house and a home cooked meal, obviously. Is it easier for her to seduce me? 100%. But we still like to split chores 50/50 as much as possible because that’s fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 04:39 PM
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Exactly, I do nice shit for her and help out because that’s what you do for someone you love. You should want to make your partners life easier, not harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 03:49 PM
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What do you mean? If you’re asking if she does nice shit for me to make my life easier, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 03:43 PM
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Of course, though it’s a lot easier to get me in the mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 03:07 PM
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She does the same shit if she’s home before me, has a hot dinner and a beer waiting, or has the shower already hot and running so I can just jump in while she’s cooking. It’s like people have never had a functioning relationship between two adults who actually like each other before.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:46 PM
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Men say that all the time, particularly divorced ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:34 PM
5

Depends. Bragging is ok, but problems that should stay between the two of you, yeah, big ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:59 PM
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My wife likes when I do chores. If I get home before her, and run the roomba, tidy up, and have a bubble bath and a glass of wine waiting for her when she gets off work so she can destress and not worry about chores…that puts her in the mood, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:55 PM
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Expecting the wife to do all the cooking, all the cleaning, all the childcare, all of the household shopping, plus working her own job. That’s not a wife, it’s a house servant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:44 PM
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