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Might be too hungover for any Dia de Los Muertos parties this year, going to a rager tonight, might turn into a 2 day bender.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:57 PM
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Depends on the dude/situation. Fit older guy who’s universally attractive with a mid to late 20s girl? Not creepy. 60 year old fat balding guy with a girl who turned 18 a month ago? Kinda creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:43 PM
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Legit sounds like a Chicken George stereotype lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:17 PM
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Sometimes older dudes are attractive to younger women. Most are not in real life though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:17 PM
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So we have a nervous dweeb, a relatively normal guy, and a comical AAE stereotype. Why on earth wouldn’t you choose Chad in between Woody Allen and Mr. Bojangles?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:00 PM
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And he’ll put up with it because he’s 5’5” and this is probably the best it’s gonna get for him 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 01:45 PM
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Lol says the dude doing whiny daily hornyposting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 01:17 PM
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The more I read your posts, the more I think you have no idea what the fuck you’re attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 01:01 PM
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You’re affected by your childhood, no doubt. But as an adult it’s ultimately on you to deal with that trauma and overcome it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 12:42 PM
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Have you tried actually looking for a woman instead of whining about it on PPD?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 12:10 PM
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You realize the overwhelming majority of the population isn’t friends with radical 4th wave feminists, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:17 PM
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What feminist spaces are young hanging out at irl? And are they applicable to normal peoples lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:15 PM
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What does that mean? Like you hang out with feminists irl, or you’re just reading what randos are saying online?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:14 PM
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How often is everyday life impacted by radical fourth wave feminism? Are you encountering them in your day to day life where you live?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:05 PM
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Just use coke like a normal person. Attracts higher quality women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:46 PM
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By the time your clothes come off, she’s already decided what’s under them is irrelevant and you’re gonna hit it either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:30 PM
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I don’t see any of this in day to day life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:50 PM
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The fuck kind of school is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:03 PM
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Clubs/bars are literally real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:59 PM
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Stop talking about it and go out and get yourself a dommy mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:21 PM
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So that’s 1) not 63% of all men, 2) it’s just a snapshot of when the survey was taken, and 3) doesn’t mean that 63% of young men are incapable of getting a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 03:04 PM
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What does that statistic mean, 63%?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 01:16 PM
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Because they’re not. You have to have compatibility along with looks to have a successful long term relationship. If all you want is one night stands, sure looks are fine. Unless you’re clinically deformed, there’s some woman out there who’s looks threshold you’ll meet and pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:43 AM
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They absolutely believe that because most modern RP acolytes struggle to get a date, let alone a whole ass relationship lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:41 AM
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Dudes who believe that lack relationship experience, plain and simple. You have to have a couple relationships that last more than a couple months to really understand that looks are important, but they’re not everything. You have to be compatible as people too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:44 AM
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My statement assumes general, average attractiveness. So, yeah, if you’re ugly, you’re obviously going to face a much bigger looks handicap.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 10:15 AM
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I think people see “looks don’t matter” when most people actually say “Looks aren’t the ONLY thing that matters.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:57 AM
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That’s why they’re fun to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 09:48 PM
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Ok Mark Rippetoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 08:57 PM
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Generally speaking, this is correct. If you’re consistently struggling with dating and you have zero romantic interest, you’re not an “average man.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:09 AM
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I’ll never understand being a below average man, it’s either simp shit like that or cringey fantasy rants.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:08 AM
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Why do below average men feel this compelling need to write out rambling fantasies like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 09:29 AM
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I have no idea what your reply means, want to try again?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:57 AM
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lol swing and a miss.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 06:59 PM
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A 6’3 Swede in Muay Thai shape can clean up anywhere in the world. That’s not nearly equivalent to some balding dork with glasses trying to buy his way into some pussy down in Pattaya. Be real dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 06:44 PM
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Lol the only dudes who believe this are, legitimately, losers who can’t get pussy with a roadmap and a step by step guide.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 05:21 PM
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But that’s not the average passport bro. They’re not going because they like to travel and they can get laid anywhere, they’re all dorks and losers who can’t get laid in their own countries, so they have to buy it abroad in the few places they can. It has nothing to do with morals, just calling a spade a spade.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 05:10 PM
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Nobody is “deserved” anything, you’re not “owed” a short, fat ugly woman just because you’re also short, fat, and ugly. If you want to passport bro because you can’t compete in your home country, go for it. But you’re probably still going to be called an LBH and made fun of, it is what it is 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:56 PM
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That stereotype exists for a reason. Locals in other countries aren’t blind and stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:53 PM
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It’s never fun guys who could get laid anywhere just having a good time abroad, it’s always weirdos and creeps lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:44 PM
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This says literally nothing about “women finding 95% of men repulsive.” If you’re ugly, you’re ugly. Sucks to suck. Looks for a visually impaired woman to date lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:28 AM
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I wouldn’t recommend daily cocaine usage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:26 AM
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App data shows that women find 95% of men as repulsive Feel free to present this data. Women reject you because you’re ugly or you’re socially awkward, be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:20 AM
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If you’re having fun, that’s all that matters, but it sounds like a losing proposition in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:19 AM
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It’s probably what’s keeping you alone, in all honesty 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:12 AM
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I wonder if there’s some kind of drug that can solve this by making me more spontaneous. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:07 AM
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lol you’re not Rosa Parks, and being undateable isn’t Jim Crow.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:04 AM
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Absolutely. If you can’t catch any fish, you might just be a shitty fisherman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:03 AM
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Sounds like a self fulfilling prophecy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:55 AM
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If everyone is an asshole to you…maybe you’re the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:54 AM
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If that were the case 70% of men wouldn’t be in a relationship and relationship satisfaction surveys wouldn’t consistently rate partner satisfaction from women in the 85% and up range.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:54 AM
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I don’t get why you’d want to be an asshole on top of being ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:22 AM
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It means op is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:22 AM
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What’s “a lot” here? This claim is made repeatedly and no figures are ever actually given.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:16 AM
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Yet the overwhelming majority of men are in some kind of relationship, which seems to suggest women’s attraction threshold is higher than 5%.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 11:55 PM
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Such is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:37 PM
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Right, so why not be enjoyable to be around instead of being an all around turd person?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:09 PM
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Fine, then stay in your corner and let everyone else have a good time, bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:48 PM
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Well, if you’re ugly and miserable to be around, absolutely I’d tell you to fuck off, as should most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:26 PM
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You aren’t Jeremy Meeks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:18 PM
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It would make tolerating your presence easier. You can either be ugly, or a piece of shit. You can’t be both.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:16 PM
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Looks get you in the door, no doubt. But saying “personality doesn’t matter” is something only sexually inexperienced men with no relationship experience believe. For successful relationships, it’s not either/or, you need both and anyone who tells you otherwise is lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:05 PM
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How many long term relationships have you been in, just to clarify? How many of them solely revolved around your looks and y’all had nothing else in common beyond that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:01 PM
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You didn’t answer my question. Great, you spent a ton of money on surgery and you can get in the relationship club. Now, how are you going to stay there? You need personality for that, and no woman is going to become a wife for a man who’s only redeeming quality is a good set of hair plugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:55 PM
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But that just gets you halfway there. Looks get you in the door. What do you think happens after that? You think you’re just never going to talk to her because you got hair plugs and weird, spindly lengthened toothpick legs?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:39 PM
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Not impossible, just unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:34 PM
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A lot of that is genetics. The mythical 5’2” balding Indian janitor, for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:33 PM
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This only works if you have the looks to offset your lack of personality. Being ugly with a shit personality is a one way ticket to being permanently alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:31 PM
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If we’re being realistic? Mail order bride. You have to be honest with yourself about your options as an elderly virgin, and take what you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:16 PM
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The only issue is that younger, sexually inexperienced women are unlikely to find a, for example, 40 yr old virgin man attractive or worth pursuing for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:10 PM
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What does this mean, exactly? What “life experience” is relevant here if he’s still an advanced age virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:06 PM
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At no point did I say that. But let’s be real here, if you looked like Chris Brown, you wouldn’t be a late bloomer, simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:02 PM
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Plenty of men get laid and get girlfriends without cheating and lying. Unless you look like Chris Brown, and let’s be honest, you don’t, you can’t run scumbag game as a mid looking late bloomer HKV.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:57 PM
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The fact that you’re even considering that option might explain why you’re a late bloomer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:52 PM
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You’re already a late bloomer, why become a scumbag on top of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:49 PM
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The odds of that are statistically very low.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:48 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:35 PM
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That sounds like semantic quibbling. It’s a distinction without a difference in reality. If a guy isn’t dating anything less than an 8 and he’s consistently doing it, it doesn’t matter that you secretly think he’s a 5 and is dating out of his league.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:23 PM
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Sounds like an ideal woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:20 PM
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Yeah, you should absolutely trust the honest opinions of your friends. Assuming you have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:15 PM
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I literally addressed it, I’m not sure what the fuck you’re talking about. Is it possible? Sure. Does it happen to everyone? No. Are most people going to end up with a partner of roughly equal attractiveness? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:12 PM
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That’s his league then. If you’re a passive wallflower who refuses to do anything to help yourself, you get what you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:07 PM
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Are you just going to copy and paste that comment when you can’t come up with an actual argument? It being possible to get someone out of your league doesn’t mean the general rule of looksmatching isn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:06 PM
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Absolutely, it happens all the time. I’m an example. But as a general rule, most people date within their “league” with people of equivalent looks, income, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:01 PM
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Exactly. Some dude last week was trying to claim his looksmatch was a 7, despite people routinely rating him well below average in looks. You can think you’re a high number all you want, the proof is in the pudding.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:45 PM
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This is nonsense. Your league is what you can pull, simple as. If you’re consistently pulling 8s, that’s your “league.”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:44 PM
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Buddy, that’s all in your head. Literally no one gives a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 07:04 PM
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So no adult has actually treated you that way? That’s what I thought. Adults don’t give a shit about some randos virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 07:00 PM
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I can’t think of a single time in adulthood anyone has inquired about my virginity or lack thereof. So, unless you’re still in high school, I don’t believe you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:30 PM
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That’s a lie. Male virgins are at most ignored. The average person doesn’t give a shit how much sex you are or aren’t having.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:25 PM
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Dude, just jack off and go on about your life. It’s not that complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:52 PM
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We have the same weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:28 PM
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Deep down, they know it’s money, though a tiny minority of women have daddy issues and will go for attractive older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:25 PM
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And who will make daily posts about how shitty the west and western women are despite him living here and refusing to go back to his third world dump of a home? :/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:23 PM
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Oh no, the shitty rape apologist left? What a shame lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 02:07 PM
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If nobody what’s you, sorry, it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:53 PM
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Like I said, at that point be grateful that you can get anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:06 PM
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Beggars can’t be choosers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:01 PM
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If you’re that genetically undesirable, you kinda have to make the best of it and accept what you can get 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:55 PM
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Yeah, but some women still feel like a cheap whore after.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:52 PM
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That by definition means you’re not capable mate, unless you invest heavily in the gym and get plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:51 PM
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If you get to 35+ years sith absolutely ZERO sexual desire from women, it’s probably never going to happen. You have to be realistic and take what you can get at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:42 PM
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It can be. I always felt a little bad for the girls who left the frat house the next morning barefooted with smudged makeup and had to walk past all the rooms 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:39 PM
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If you’re a 35 yr old virgin, sorry mate, you gotta take what you can get, because you obviously had 20+ years of failure demonstrating you’re not really capable of getting someone to desire you. It is what it is, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:38 PM
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Biology isn’t compulsive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:35 PM
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Being a “late bloomer” in your 30s is a hard spot to be. Overcoming that can be done, but you don’t have many options realistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:34 PM
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No offense, if dude just went traveling and to concerts and put any effort into being social and interesting, they wouldn’t be some 30-something late bloomer loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:30 PM
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There you go, you were smart enough to get the easiest sex possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:27 PM
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Hookers and escorts exist. Use them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:22 PM
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You have to honestly be super rare company to be an 70-80 yr old virgin. At that point, barring some sort of severe disability, that’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:21 PM
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I too like posts with completely made up statistics pulled straight from a butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:09 PM
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Yes. Most dudes in the hood have women, but they’re not all assholes to their women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:10 AM
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LMAO like you know what goes on in the hood 😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:03 AM
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Have you tried cokemaxxing?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:02 AM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 08:52 PM
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Nah, whoever that account was, it wasn’t me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 05:43 PM
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A bear would be more accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:33 PM
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A lion doesn’t concern himself with the opinion of sheep, or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:31 PM
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I’ll take your lack of respect into consideration when she’s got my balls in her mouth lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:11 PM
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Sounds like the one party had more than just “platonic” feelings for their female friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 02:40 PM
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Let’s be real, the only reason you’re butthurt is because I’m right. Otherwise you would’ve addressed what I said instead of playing the victim like a big pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 02:11 PM
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If you want to play sensitive sally and whine, I’m not the guy. Here, let’s get your panties untwisted; women suck too. There, you can stop throwing your lil hissy fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 02:06 PM
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What about my comment is “worked up”?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:50 PM
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I lol’d at the booster seat 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:49 PM
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So find a way to be attractive to women, simple as. Hell, not even all women, you just have to be attractive to one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:48 PM
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There’s numerous evolutionary advantages to height though. Better leverages, bigger/stronger offspring, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:44 PM
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I think when you actively go looking you give off a desperate vibe or something. Because it just doesn’t want to happen when you really want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 02:03 AM
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All of my best and longest relationships started that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:57 AM
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What if women like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:48 AM
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100% haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:44 AM
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That’s a thicc bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:39 AM
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Just looked up her Instagram and let out an involuntary “Got-damn!” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:32 AM
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Is “Shebulk” a typo?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 12:13 AM
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Height doesn’t automatically get you pussy, but it definitely helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 11:49 PM
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I don’t mind that either, especially with a big titty broad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:10 PM
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So what? You think the mother of your kids can’t get pounded in the ass every once in awhile? This is why y’all are sexless dorks, you have this neverending laundry list of weird sexual hang ups. “My wife likes anal”, oh no, my steak is too juicy lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:09 PM
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Of course it does. But that doesn’t mean anal feels “bad” by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:06 PM
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You’re telling me if some bitch demands you rail her in the ass, instead of going “hell yeah!” you’re gonna stop and wonder what guy taught her that? Cmon bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:04 PM
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She had to learn somewhere 🤷‍♂️ The less I have to train her, the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:58 PM
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Yeah, I’m into that kinda shit. Railing your bitch in the ass is one of life’s pleasures, you should want one with back door experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:51 PM
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Lmfao yes. Ain’t anything wrong with a woman who likes a dick in the dirt pipe.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:45 PM
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I have no idea what this word salad even means.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:08 PM
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But natural selection favors traits like height, this is well documented. If what you’re saying is true, we wouldn’t have evolved as a dimorphic species and would be a race of midgets.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 11:47 AM
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That’s not a crime though. It’s not against the law to be an annoying dater.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 02:37 PM
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Then what “crime” are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 02:31 PM
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We are SO back.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 11:16 AM
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Even in general. A poor attractive man will get more authentic raw sexual attention from women than an ugly rich man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 09:35 PM
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Disagree. Poor dudes clean up with women, see any local ghetto or trailer park.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 09:14 PM
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They unironically do. Every time I’ve hoofed a woman onto my shoulders at a bar, they all think it’s the funniest thing ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 08:03 PM
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I dislike when my girl wears anything other than tight stuff like yoga pants 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 08:02 PM
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The blonde, cuz I like leggy, busty blondes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 06:57 PM
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Obviously my statement doesn’t apply to people with severe neurodivergence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 02:08 PM
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I think there’s truth to that, but it’s a fine line. Communicate enough to let her know you’re interested, but not to the point that you seem desperate or overeager.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 01:38 AM
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You replied to the wrong comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 11:52 PM
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lol yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 11:31 PM
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What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 11:20 PM
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Shes never gonna read this bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 11:03 PM
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Having female friends just means you’re safe or nonthreatening, not that it automatically means that women will be attracted to you. Either you’re sexually attractive or you’re not, it’s that simple. Without knowing specifics, you could be struggling for multiple reasons despite having female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 10:27 PM
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That which is presented without evidence can be dismissed without evidence 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 10:06 PM
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Prove it 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:57 PM
9

Oh, surprise surprise you don’t have this “data”, imagine my shock.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:57 PM
2

Of course you have. How many men whining about how “average” they are when in reality they’re below average in multiple ways have you encountered on here? It’s almost all of them. I just had a convo a couple days ago where some dude was getting ranked by his friends as a 3 trying to claim with a straight face that his looksmatch is actually a fit 7 because he’s not fat. Beyond delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:56 PM
4

Feel free to present this “data.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:53 PM
4

But women go for top 10% men? They do? Weird how that’s never been demonstrated with any kind of empirical data.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:52 PM
3

No, they can’t looksmatch because they’re in denial that their looksmatch is fat and/or ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:45 PM
8

Cool story. Anecdotes aside, the overwhelming majority of men struggling are struggling because they’re in denial about what their looksmatch is. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:44 PM
6

The amount of men struggling in dating states the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:39 PM
7

The irony here is that this applies more to struggling men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:36 PM
0

This literally means nothing. You could take a comparatively attractive image of a woman saying the same shit and men would ignore it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:50 PM
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Not relevant to my comment. If she’s not reciprocating romantic interest she’s not into you sexually. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:29 PM
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It’s the most bizarre take on here, honestly. Nobody fetishizes the “women are wonderful” trope like men who don’t get any.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:28 PM
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Sure, but you’re talking about a small minority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 06:51 PM
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It’s more like you shouldn’t put the pussy on a pedestal. Don’t treat women like magical goddesses, because they’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 06:37 PM
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She knows within 30 seconds whether she’s going to fuck you or not. So if you’re not getting any reciprocation of romantic feelings for days, weeks, or months, congrats, you’re “just a friend.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 06:36 PM
9

Man describes basic social interaction as a novel concept lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 06:19 PM
3

Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 02:18 PM
1

I can; my own dating history and that of my social circle is filled with people whose partners started out as members of their social circle from growing up and from school. This is supported by things like Dunbars number. Women consider 80% of men below average in terms of sexual attractiveness. You haven’t proven this. Women only pick the top 10-5-1% of men on dating apps You haven’t proven this either. You claiming something doesn’t make it true, you know that, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 02:18 PM
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Never said being tall doesn’t matter 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 01:40 PM
13

The internet exists. Start your own “sexually inclusive club for shy, sexually inhibited sexless men” and solve your problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 12:18 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 12:17 PM
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Asking for feedback in the first place is textbook insecurity. Either you dicked her down right or you didn’t. “Asking for feedback” shows that deep down you know you didn’t give her a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 11:12 AM
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This sounds like it was all in your head and you’re letting your insecurities dictate your mental narrative, despite being above average dickwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 11:08 AM
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Bingo. Any dude who’s “asking for feedback” about his dick is insecure as shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 11:07 AM
0

Say what? Not sure how you got rape from natural selection, kind of a weird way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 01:21 AM
3

They’ll turn on the right too when they figure out they don’t give a shit about them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 11:21 PM
5

Jealousy, plain and simple. Those who can attract, do. Those that can’t, cope and make excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 09:27 PM
1

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/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 09:13 PM
-2

Sounds like natural selection has its work cut out for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 08:14 PM
-2

How were men doing that for literal thousands of years, but in the last 20 all of a sudden they can wipe their ass without their hand being held and a step by step guide?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 07:25 PM
7

Which is a recipe for disaster. Life doesn’t give you positive reinforcement all the time, part of being a functioning adult is to learn that and overcome it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 06:44 PM
3

You broke into MY house. Clearly you think your life is worth less than I do, so I’m only happy to oblige you with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:59 PM
1

Then how would you know what women are or aren’t doing if you don’t have any real world experience with one?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:32 PM
2

I notice you didn’t answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:21 PM
2

If you want to dish it out, you gotta be able to take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:17 PM
5

Because the average woman isn’t traveling 200 miles for a hookup, let alone a relationship. When was the last time you were in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:15 PM
0

No woman invites you back to her place to “just be friends.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:07 PM
3

Yet they still existed. You think in the 1950s you were just issued a girlfriend for being in the same town? If men are so weak and coddled in the modern era that they can’t handle a little competition, they get what they deserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 04:33 PM
2

Then just give up. There’s always going to be someone taller, someone better looking, someone with more money. It’s always been that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 04:27 PM
3

Like that wasn’t an issue before? Cmon. Just say you have a skill issue and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 04:13 PM
4

They’re not. Literal hundreds of thousands of years of evolution have given your brain the ability to pick up on body language and nonverbal cues. Once you learn to read them, life gets a whole lot easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:38 PM
11

My guy, you’re objectively wrong. It’s ok to admit that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:32 PM
8

Introverts have never had it easy in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:22 PM
9

That’s not the argument; it’s that those injuries occur at a much, much lower rate and frequency compared to 100 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:21 PM
1

Yeah, based on that, I’ve noticed the exact opposite. Most average men end up with average women, and are so quite happily. If you’re talking below average men, then, sure, you might have a point Do some women marry men they aren’t attracted to? Sure. Is that a majority of relationships? There’s literally no data or anecdotal evidence to support that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:10 PM
10

Fatalities are lower. Then you lied. It’s objectively not as dangerous on the workplace today as it was 100 years ago, so why are we supposed to pretend that your statement isn’t bullshit? Even moving the goalposts to “long term injuries”, you’re still wrong there according to OSHA stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:01 PM
2

I’m inclined to ask if you can prove any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:59 PM
8

Sweet. Now what was the overall occupational fatality rate from 1908-1932? Was it higher or lower than 1998-2022?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:58 PM
2

Sorry I’m smarter than you. Such is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:52 PM
62

All the things women like in men, like strong eye contact, ease of conversation, being assertive, knowing when to escalate based off of nonverbal cues…are all things autism hampers in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:52 PM
2

Racism implies structural discrimination. What you mean is that people of color can be prejudiced against whites. You’d have to have a situation like South Africa to have a comparable “people of color are racist against whites” scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:49 PM
13

Advancements in fall safety, lockout/tagout for high voltage, personal protective equipment, backup alarms and cameras on heavy equipment, safety railings, standardization of scaffold planks, guards and double grounding on power tools, are just a few of the multitude of things that make things safer than 100 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:44 PM
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The vast majority of people are in relationships with women from their social circle, which includes friends of friends, coworkers, classmates. Wtf are you talking about “haven’t proved any of it”, do you think people are only in relationships with total strangers the last 20 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:39 PM
18

This nowhere near true. Fatality rates and injuries on jobs in the 1920s were WAY higher than today, hours were longer, there were no set rules on overtime, wars were more prevalent, etc. Men have it better now than in any other time in history and it’s like they can’t handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 02:26 PM
35

There’s probably a lot of truth to this, hence why autistic men struggle so much with dating and hooking up. Being socially awkward will stunt your chances way more than your looks or your height.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 01:23 PM
2

Oh, yeah, sure. If you’re ugly, short, etc, your mileage is gonna vary. But assuming you’re ok looking and not a complete autist, you can still date and hookup in those circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 01:14 PM
1

You can be both at different times. Sometimes sex can just be sex and not have to be some mind blowing experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 01:08 PM
1

You can still hook up with your friends friend, your coworkers, your classmates, etc. There’s nothing physically stopping people from doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 01:06 PM
2

I’ve got one through my eyebrow from a fight as a kid, and aside from women asking about it on dates I don’t know how attractive it is 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:56 PM
1

180?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:33 PM
2

I don’t think asking you to back up your claim with something other than “trust me, bro” is that big of an ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:30 PM
2

Again, you’ve yet to demonstrate there’s this gigantic majority of women calling men gay in the same way there is for sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:56 PM
1

I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:53 PM
2

Damn, didn’t get into the frat party last night, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:43 PM
-1

The caveat to this is that looks are subjective. What woman likes another might not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:37 PM
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Agreed. Do whatever you want and are comfortable with. Basing your actions out of some nebulous fear of “shame” is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:13 PM
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Your first mistake is letting women you don’t know dictate your life and actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:06 PM
1

Depends on what “average” we’re talking about, but, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:05 PM
1

Well, duh. Ain’t nobody wants a micropenis.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 05:54 PM
1

Neither of these women said anything about dick size.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 05:43 PM
7

The bi thing isn’t surprising since most straight people are interested in other straight people. It’s not homophobic to not be attracted to nonstraight people. The gay marriage thing can mostly be explained by religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:36 PM
15

I’ll agree there, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:25 PM
2

Maybe you just photograph poorly?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:19 PM
5

If you have proof that it is, I’m down to check it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 03:33 PM
3

People are shitty, it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:47 PM
7

You kind of do when you’re comparing things that are systemic in nature (sexism, toxic masculinity) with something that isn’t (homophobia from individual women). There’s not really a double standard there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:46 PM
11

In order for those to be comparable, you’d have to demonstrate a society wide, structural system of female homophobia like there is for sexism and toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:24 PM
10

That’s why you shouldn’t put the pussy on a pedestal. Women are humans with all the good and bad that comes with that, and don’t let anyone gaslight you otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:04 PM
5

Greek life is a literal easy mode shortcut to getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:59 PM
2

You’re kinda fucked then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:58 PM
2

You can laugh your way into some pretty pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:56 PM
1

Yes, but I’m not short and funny, so that helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:46 PM
28

What is the debate here? That women can be shitty people too?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:35 PM
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I take drugs and have fun irl and highly recommend it to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:44 AM
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Do you not know how to read? Literally no one thinks that except for a couple dorks on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:41 AM
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I’ve literally never been accused of being a male feminist irl. Some of y’all are truly lost in the sauce of you think “have fun and take drugs” makes you a male feminist lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:38 AM
1

Chicago is supremely underrated, but the winter can be brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:20 AM
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What “proof”? All you’ve offered is “trust me, bro.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:14 AM
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And then everyone clapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 04:02 AM
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Uh huh lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 03:43 AM
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Then get some drugs and stop bitching.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 03:25 AM
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Damn, girls like fun, good looking guys? Didn’t see that coming lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 03:24 AM
1

If all you can attract is fat, ugly women, you’re not a looker. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:08 AM
2

I love how these cretins are shocked that their is only options are their looksmatch in women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:30 PM
3

It’s dark between the cheeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:09 PM
1

Just say you like rape and go.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:02 PM
1

Rape apology is so fucking gross. I don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:21 AM
-1

Be as gross as you want, I don’t give a shit 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:56 AM
-1

🎻👌
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:42 AM
0

I mean, you could go off of relationship satisfaction surveys. They seem to lean towards my conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:26 AM
6

Most women marry the men they’re eagerly fucking though, same as most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:13 AM
6

Do they? Again that sounds like wishful thinking and not really reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:10 AM
19

Well, looks like incels need to get into matcha and feminist books.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:34 AM
9

I honestly don’t think most people care or even discuss it that much irl. It seems like a high school age fixation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 09:39 PM
22

Tf is an “alphabux”? See my point about this being a terminally online take.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 07:47 PM
54

This seems like a made up revenge fantasy that exists solely online. I rarely see high N or “older” women “struggling” irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 07:25 PM
1

My lady only has that energy in the shower lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:26 PM
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Pretty much, you can’t have it both ways. That’s why you should just do what you want regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:45 PM
0

Body language is mostly pseudoscience Learning how to read nonverbal cues has always worked well for me 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:35 PM
2

You sit on her face!? I like the cut of your jib lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:33 PM
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I’m gonna end this here, I don’t feel comfortable continuing a convo with a sexual assault and rape apologist. That’s just too grimy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:17 PM
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I don’t know if “not a big deal” is how I’d describe sexual assault dude, that’s kinda gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:00 PM
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The WHO.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:38 AM
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Something like 1 in 3 women have been sexually assaulted in their lifetime. That’s a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:25 AM
1

If she’s touching me, eye contact, laughing at all my jokes, responding to my texts with actual conversation, making plans and keeping them…she’s into me unless clarification otherwise. Out of all the women that gave done that, I think only a couple “just wanted to be friends”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:22 AM
-4

Once you learn to read body language and context clues, it’s not hard to figure out if she likes you or not. That said, if you’re still confused given those signs…ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:15 AM
3

“You got an attitude, time to fix that” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:35 AM
8

I think it’s funny when she gets frustrated and tries to punch me lol Also, play fighting leads to sex 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:22 AM
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Agreed, and women can do the same with height. No fatties for the guys and no midgets for the gals. Everybody wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 07:54 PM
6

I’m aware bro, it’s entirely dependent on where you live and your social strata. San Diego is going to have more attractive women per capita than say Charleston, West Virginia.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:52 PM
9

I think it entirely depends on your class and area. There’s tons of smart, hot women in colleges and grad schools, or in places that have higher incomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:39 PM
6

Who’s more attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:23 PM
1

I have an ex who was a cam girl, I dunno if she still does it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 11:24 AM
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Even so, a man who can’t get a relationship is still seen as a loser. Nobody wants to be with someone that nobody wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:31 AM
1

Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:30 AM
2

Bottom as in the one receiving penetration?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:29 AM
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Which is irrelevant. A mans worth is based on sexual success in a way that women’s is not. Hence why a man whose only sexual avenue is to pay for it is seen as a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:25 AM
1

We can’t resist a fat peach.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:23 AM
2

She’ll shake her ass at me and make a lil whine if I don’t slap it before leaving. Women are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:07 AM
1

Me leaving for work right now, telling my lady goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:04 AM
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It demonstrates that the man is so repulsive in some way that his only way to get laid is to pay for it, ergo, he isn’t worthy of respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 09:59 AM
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Oh, nah, that’s fine. A lil pooch flattens out when she’s on her back anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 09:51 PM
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How much is “too thick” here? If she’s a bbw I can fux with it, but if she’s like a Tess Holiday blob, nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 09:47 PM
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Fat and thick are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 09:41 PM
8

So, you’re not. You’re letting your own internal narrative dictate things instead of reality. You’re choosing to feel shamed, at the end of the day. And if you live your life in fear of being “shamed” for existing, you’re gonna have a rough time in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 09:41 PM
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No such thing as too thick.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 09:34 PM
5

How are you “punished” if you buy Sabrina Carpenters album where she’s on all fours like a dog?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 09:31 PM
1

How is it a problem? Who gives a shit what some random Twitter feminist thinks about a woman consenting to being sexualized? There’s no contradiction here. It’s not “oppression” if you’re willing participating and actively consenting to it. I’m not sure how any of that is hypocritical, unless you feel like you should be able to sexually objectify women because they can choose to willingly present themselves as sex objects?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 09:06 PM
15

Why is it hypocritical? Taking ownership of your sexuality and making money off of it isn’t hypocritical. If the woman is ok with being objectified (Sabrina Carpenter, for example) it’s not hypocritical if she consents to that objectification to make millions of dollars. Your cold approach point is irrelevant to the discussion. It’s a really, really simple equation here. Did she consent? If yes, it’s fine. If no, it’s not. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 08:37 PM
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[Me casually sniffing my finger] Hell yeah brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 08:24 PM
4

Who do I vibe with better? Who’s more attractive? Who has the better personality? Who has more going for them in life?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 08:23 PM
14

You seem to not understand the difference between being a sexual being on your own accord vs being sexually objectified against your will, which are two wildly different things and it’s not inconsistent to choose the former and hate the latter, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 08:22 PM
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Because as my lady had said “if I could, I would. I’m painfully straight.”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 10:28 PM
-2

This needs to be the top comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:45 AM
16

Like Don Draper, I don’t think about it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 11:45 PM
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I mean, I like a clean house and a home cooked meal, obviously. Is it easier for her to seduce me? 100%. But we still like to split chores 50/50 as much as possible because that’s fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 04:39 PM
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Exactly, I do nice shit for her and help out because that’s what you do for someone you love. You should want to make your partners life easier, not harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 03:49 PM
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What do you mean? If you’re asking if she does nice shit for me to make my life easier, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 03:43 PM
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Of course, though it’s a lot easier to get me in the mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 03:07 PM
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She does the same shit if she’s home before me, has a hot dinner and a beer waiting, or has the shower already hot and running so I can just jump in while she’s cooking. It’s like people have never had a functioning relationship between two adults who actually like each other before.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:46 PM
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Men say that all the time, particularly divorced ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:34 PM
4

Depends. Bragging is ok, but problems that should stay between the two of you, yeah, big ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:59 PM
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My wife likes when I do chores. If I get home before her, and run the roomba, tidy up, and have a bubble bath and a glass of wine waiting for her when she gets off work so she can destress and not worry about chores…that puts her in the mood, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:55 PM
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Expecting the wife to do all the cooking, all the cleaning, all the childcare, all of the household shopping, plus working her own job. That’s not a wife, it’s a house servant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:44 PM
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