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Have you considered the possibility that she's joking and you're a crazy person overreacting?
/r/askTRP26/12/20 11:01 PM
1

Then be less shittyand less stupid, it's not that hard dumbass
/r/askTRP07/10/20 01:40 PM
1

To straight dudes, sure...?
/r/askTRP06/10/20 04:00 AM
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It means you have the self-control, self-awareness, and self-respect of 18 year old sorority girl. That is not content of value, no.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/20 07:38 PM
1

I wonder if maybe, just maybe, this woman is just bored to shit and likes variety... what with her being human and all. Stop being a flat character
/r/askTRP31/01/20 02:58 AM
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Well it's a waste of everyone's time so... yeah why would they?
/r/askTRP31/01/20 02:54 AM
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I’m tryna leave my nuts hangout out of her but I’m having a problem figuring how I’m gonna get to that point. ​ Would you fuck a girl who sounds this stupid? No? Then why would she fuck your confused ass who can't handle basic conversation?
/r/askTRP31/01/20 02:50 AM
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then why the fuck are you confused?
/r/askTRP31/01/20 02:48 AM
-1

What do you mean what was this? She didn't want to fuck, you were an asshole by her standards, she doesn't like that, you don't care. Nothing with powerplay, she didn't like your attitude or how you handled the situation, same as you thought about her. It's simple. Why are you confused by this?
/r/askTRP31/01/20 02:48 AM
0

None of this is true. You're probably just lazy if she reacted this way. Stop bitching just because she told you outright
/r/askTRP31/01/20 02:44 AM
1

By assuming men are better than women at literally everything or that if a man were ever to lose in anything to a woman it should inherently be a strike to his ego - because it was a woman, not that he lost fair and square to an individual who happened to be more skilled at something than him. That's a pathetic mindset and indicative of horrifyingly deepseeded insecurities or a general loathing of or thought that women are inherently inferior to women - none of which is redpill. It's one dimensi…
/r/askTRP31/01/20 02:40 AM
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Then why would he actively choose a mandarin care center over one of the thousands of medical facilities where she could communicate with her doctors about her body and be informed? That alone, regardless of his intent, speaks volumes. Abuse isn't often about someone making decisions to hurt others. It's more often about making decisions for their own benefit with no regard or intent to pretend to have regard for the consequences of others.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/20 02:31 AM
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What I'm trying to say is that women want men who treat them well. The idea that women get horny if you treat them badly is PUA craziness. The entirety of your username's existence is to glorify your husband's abuse and extreme controlling over you. You have literally masturbated to posting about how he keeps you in a basement and fucks other, younger girls because that's your worth as an aging woman. I mean, yes, you are, in reality, a 22 year old man masturbating to these thoughts, but at leas…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 12:53 AM
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Why in the world are you cooking most of the meals and doing most of the housework when you both work full time?? I highly doubt your husband expects you to be acting like a housewife when you aren't one. Even if you find a closer job, ask him to take up half of the household responsibilities and stop carrying the household yourself that's ridiculous honey. He must not realize how much work it is if he hasn't stepped in to carry his half so ask!
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/20 09:21 PM
1

Eat less and add shoulder mass. What do you expect to hear?
/r/askTRP18/01/20 02:01 AM
1

You're bad in bed. Doesn't matter if she's boring or average, she can fuck guys who are better than you so she wins out regardless of how you feel about her. She has abundance because she has options
/r/askTRP18/01/20 01:58 AM
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Yeah but she can just tell everyone and their mother how bad you are in bed. More damage to you than her. Just be less shitty in bed
/r/askTRP17/01/20 10:28 PM
3

And she went down on him. STDs for him all around either way. Besides, plenty of women would walk out if he didn't go down
/r/askTRP14/01/20 03:33 AM
5

That's not ironic. And she obviously wasn't happy with the outcome. Maybe you were bad in bed on top of not having condoms.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 03:32 AM
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This just in: people are more attracted to attractive people! "For some reason women just see mixed race guys as bad boys." -- you just made this up based on no perceivable logical train of thought, but you're the one calling other people racist? Fucking kids jesus christ
/r/askTRP11/01/20 03:40 PM
4

This is the female equivalent of something pathetic like dread. Worthwhile partners don't put up with it and aren't attracted to it
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/20 09:51 PM
3

They're not exclusive to you lol
/r/askTRP05/01/20 11:47 PM
2

Pregnancy
/r/askTRP05/01/20 11:46 PM
6

But child support is for alphas like you?
/r/askTRP05/01/20 11:46 PM
1

So you say you were working under the assumption that you can't truly know if she's exclusive, she can't be trusted and will lie, and she's fucking other men, what the fuck is your excuse for thinking she wasn't lying and then going raw you stupid idiot? What actually is wrong with you?
/r/askTRP05/01/20 11:44 PM
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"real men don't take care of themselves what the fuck, basic personal maintenance is for women and being ugly as shit leathercreatures is for men"
/r/askTRP05/01/20 11:41 PM
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She never said anything about definitely wanting children unless I've missed new comments? In fact, she's actively said she's still never had a concrete interest in having children with her partners. Obviously that is a time limit if she decides she wants biological children, but based on the statistics I've seen, she's not "desperate" even on that front quite yet. ​ It's not about belief, it's about the reality of her options. Sure she needs to make changes to live the life she wants and have a…
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/20 02:35 AM
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Then why are you pretending like she won't be happy and sexually desired by incredible men just as much as 20 year olds are? I don't think you, with grammar and bitterness and ignorance of women such as you're displaying, have any right to advise her. Leave it to the women who experience her reality.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/20 01:43 AM
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I'm not you, but I know what you want - an ugly old wrinkly man to sleep with. Is that how this works? I just pick whatever I want you to desire and then it becomes your wish? Fun! From someone who actually knows what she's talking about, she'll be lusted after for decades to come.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/20 01:42 AM
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Honey ignore him, he doesn't have meaning fully advice and he blatantly hates women. Get advice from those who know - other women who have gone through it. He's a child, you have options much better than him and you will for years. He's ignorant of basic grammar and spelling, hoe much do you think he's capable of understanding our reality? Don't give men like him, men who hate women and hope for their punishment, attention
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/20 07:01 PM
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You aren't a woman, you dont know what she wants. You dont know how many amazing options she has. Just because you're bitter and want women to be punished by age doesn't mean we are in the slightest.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/20 07:00 PM
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Lol my friends and I have no problem finding men who aren't bitter like you and who are other wise amazing, attractive, attentive, committed high value men in our 40s. She isn't losing out by you guys dropping from her dating pool, she'll have options for years
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/20 06:59 PM
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What is this scare tactic. 80% are gone by 20, does that mean 20 year olds are screwed? Those numbers dont mean as much as people seem to think
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/20 06:56 PM
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I'm in my 40s, she is absolutely not in a desperate position at 33. Shes not old, amazing high value men will be interested in her for many years. Obviously self maintaining are important for that, for both genders, but all of my friends and I in our 40s dont struggle to find unbelievable men for marriage and LTRs. Men of all ages, 20s to 60s. The wall is not at 30 and if you dont let yourself go it doesn't make you unattractive to men in my experience. Maybe it does that by your standards, but …
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/20 06:52 PM
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Honey I'm in my 40s and attractive, stable, amazing men of all ages interested in commitment and marriage have never been a struggle to find. They throw themselves at you if you've taken care of yourself. This alarmist attitude being thrown at you as if 33 is old is... well ridiculous. Obviously fertility is a thing for both men and women, but you're far from a loser because you aren't married yet. You have options and you will continue to have amazing options for many many years. Looks into act…
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/20 06:47 PM
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You cheated on her repeatedly for years and dug into her phone habits. Stay the fuck away from her and let her find someone who doesn't suck. "She flirted with guys," okay? You're a cheating pathetic shithead looking for validation, you don't get to say shit about her behavior. Go be single
/r/askTRP04/01/20 04:01 AM
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That's pathetic as shit
/r/askTRP04/01/20 04:00 AM
1

You've been fucking her for 3 years and she isn't yet 20?
/r/askTRP04/01/20 03:56 AM
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If rate of prescription is about women specifically being incapable of handling life then why have men been much more likely to be prescribed it? Are you sure the prescription-happy pharmaceutical industry isn't actually the answer?
/r/askTRP04/01/20 12:24 AM
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It's prescribed to boys more often than girls, so I'm not sure how you're making this argument
/r/askTRP04/01/20 12:22 AM
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I have never had an issue with a man recognizing my opinion matters if given tactfully, even if it's about something he's doing. Not everything can be boiled down to "men and women are different." The response to criticism also just simply isn't true in my experience - all the high value men I know appreciate process improvement and don't take it personally. Because they aren't insecure. Not all, of course, but either you're a team or you aren't. If you cant make suggestions in your relationship…
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/19 07:38 PM
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That first sentence in your comment is a gigantic leap from what the original woman said. More importantly, a high value woman exists and thrives for the time before she meets her husband as well - we should all be expected to, afterall. By your logic for why she shouldn't point anything out, no woman would benefit from her husband pointing out things that could be improved either. Both of you should STFU and do whatever you think is best without input from or interest in the opinion of the othe…
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/19 06:06 PM
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Yeah it doesn't sound amazing for anyone much less the woman - I mean, what if the man has delayed ejaculation problems and completing sex in a faith-allowed manner means she's in pain from hours of intercourse? - and the idea that "unitive" implies "the man's orgasm unifies the couple" is very... big leap and his-pleasure-first to me, but I guess I just won't marry a Catholic and they are more than welcome to continue on with this if it is their preference and manner of expressing faith. A very…
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/19 05:05 AM
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So you can start with oral for a while and tease and she can orgasm from it but if you start a blowjob it just can't finish or it has to be a tease and then everyone moves on with the day? That's good at least! Thank you so much, I'll dig through those links for the rest of the questions when I get home
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/19 12:30 AM
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That does make some sense, but you're still just describing intercourse which is a small portion of sex. He likely realizes you aren't orgasming, and most men would be very unhappy with that. Maybe he doesn't know what to do about it. You're already married, you can and don't have a choice but to be very open, I'd say your best bet is to seductively suggest he go down on you during the act. Or to not let things progress to intercourse until other more enjoyable things have happened - masturbate …
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/19 12:26 AM
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So there's no oral sex as it's an act that isn't open to life? That's really unfortunate given female anatomy. What if you have oral sex but not to completion but don't have PiV? I'm guessing that's fine, but if not, isn't it no different than kissing or cuddling? You might not be the person to ask but since you've got the sources I figure it's worth a shot as I never understood how the act of family planning isn't a sin given that it is an active attempt to interfere with generating a pregnancy…
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/19 12:15 AM
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You're going to have to be concrete about what isn't satisfying. What is missing? Does he not go down? Is he not getting you off? Is it just missionary all day every day? Does the sex end just because he came? Those are all huge issues, but alternatively, are you just looking for more suave and seductive initiation from him because things got routine? Just want some different positions? More pet names and eye contact? How you communicate the need or personally take control is sometimes dependent…
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/19 12:06 AM
1

Not having kids means you can't ever be around and positively influence other children now or...? Good logic
/r/TheRedPill19/12/19 03:35 AM
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You can't possibly live in such a bland and homogeneous bubble that you don't know at least a handful of older people, single or married, who are extremely happy never having had children...
/r/TheRedPill19/12/19 03:34 AM
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Aren't you the pathetic shitbag bitch that keeps reposting and rewording his one scenario with the girlfriend you tried to rape until you got sufficient responses suggesting you didnt try to rape her except that's 10p% what you were going to do? Maybe don't pretend like you know what you're doing. Also you're wrong, OP should just stop fucking women who aren't sexually compatible with him just like you should stop trying to fuck a girl you almost raped.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 04:20 AM
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Your post suggests otherwise (and the agreement shown toward my comment does, too), and I suspect you know that as you deleted it at the first sign of someone disagreeing. And deleting your discussion suggests that you aren't trying to have a discussion, either. Good bye, please work on yourself and dislike men who enjoy their wives a little less please
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/19 10:35 PM
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I'm not sure I understand, what is your end goal with this comment? Maybe I'm misreading this, but just because someone disagrees with you doesn't mean the answer is to call yourself dumb instead of engaging with the discussion you started (even if you delete it). It is not my job to comfort you or walk back on my words just because you vocalize self-judgment and delete your post in response to disapproval. If you associate dumbness with womanhood then I'm certainly not going to walk back on my …
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/19 10:31 PM
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And also he gives exclusivity, in the majority of definitions I've seen.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/19 10:14 PM
3

Sounds like you got a sweet deal. Multiple women have brought up that they have one-sided open relationships for the man only on this forum in ways that work great for them, and I haven't heard a convincing argument for why it should be any different for you if you guys are fine with you having multiple partners. Sounds ideal to me and if you guys are happy and healthy then what does it matter?
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/19 10:06 PM
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Just because your husband doesn't like joining for those activities doesn't mean other men are miserable spending time with their wives doing errands that affect the whole household. Or maybe they feel bad that their wife is stuck doing unfortunate, mundane tasks and want to show they don't expect her to be the only one contributing such things to the relationship (this is the type of man I would want in my life). Or 100 other possibilities. Asking questions is one thing, but why would you ever …
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/19 09:57 PM
2

That's a fuck ton of french fry even as a one off for a small animal with known gut sensitivities
/r/MGTOW24/11/19 02:46 AM
1

Either way she rids herself of a guy she doesn't want and he rids himself of a shitty relationship, so the alternative sounds an awful lot worse for everyone involved
/r/MGTOW24/11/19 02:43 AM
1

What are you on about, men cheat more in marriages. Sure, women initiate divorce more, but stop making things up it undermines your argument
/r/MGTOW24/11/19 02:40 AM
4

There's also a very large difference between needing sex toys and enjoying them.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/19 08:56 PM
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Children need to learn to eat many different foods for nutrition's sake as well as enjoyment, so the situation isn't entirely on your side of the street But the kids are eating many different foods for nutrition and enjoyment. Meat, cheese, vegetables, fruit, legumes, other carb sources. Sure, they agree he's the boss, but when it comes to someone telling you your children should be eating mostly red meat and processed meat... most people, including medical and nutritional professionals, will di…
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/19 01:59 AM
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I'm curious where you get the idea that they're picky or controlling her because they eat the variety of cheese, vegetables, fruit, meat, and legumes put in front of them compared to just meat like the husband requests? Regardless, OP be careful here. I recommend getting a licensed professional's opinion first, but it's pretty much universally accepted that red and processed meats are not the healthiest of things or reasonably emphasized aspects to a diet. And if your husband is actively against…
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/19 01:46 AM
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I'm curious where you get the idea that they're picky because they eat cheese, legumes, vegetables, and fruit compared to his meat. It doesn't sound like the kids are picky at all, in fact he sounds quite a bit pickier if he's heavily emphasizing eating red and processed animal products while eshewing fruit or even beans (one of the healthiest foods on the planet) of all things. OP said elsewhere he doesn't let them eat vegetables until they eat the things he prefers, despite being nutritionally…
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/19 01:40 AM
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Just like AMALT and whatever choices they make are in their best interest. This isn't groundbreaking, OP just met someone he isn't compatible with so she didn't waste anymore time on him and he no more on her. Why would she slow her roll for him if he won't speed his roll for her? What's this got to do with some secret universal truth?
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 12:24 AM
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Yeah what the fuck ottermode ftw, and I'm shocked people don't believe some women hold that opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 11:05 PM
2

So then marry a woman who's going to cheat like you do
/r/askTRP14/11/19 03:09 AM
1

Is he actually though?
/r/askTRP14/11/19 03:07 AM
2

So many guys bitching about how women don't know honor or loyalty (the supposed male virtues?) acting just like the shitty people they call emotionally driven teenagers. You ain't above no woman, you ain't more rational than no woman, and you sure as hell ain't more capable of male virtues than women. Tell me more about how women are the hypergamous ones
/r/askTRP14/11/19 03:00 AM
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He wasn't a medical prospect when they met. So she in no way was acting like you're suggesting she did or suggesting OP should. Flacid fucking argument.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 02:55 AM
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That's the most pathetic thing I've read in weeks, she can do better and I guarantee you can't. Think rationally
/r/askTRP14/11/19 02:51 AM
4

Yeah and she should make sure some of those kids come from another man, too, right? No point in staying the loyal woman she is if OP isn't holding his end of the deal up and cheated himself!
/r/askTRP14/11/19 02:50 AM
2

Damn you're boring and not very smart
/r/askTRP09/11/19 08:49 PM
1

She doesn't even have any legal expectation to pay you back by the sound of it, because any legally binding expectation would have been included in the OP for anyone to have any meaningful input. Is there a contract? Like, a real one, not one you got off the internet?
/r/askTRP09/11/19 08:44 PM
1

damn that's some pathetic gaslighting, try not being weak instead
/r/askTRP09/11/19 08:39 PM
1

Believe it or not many people, including women, have jobs and even interests. I'm not constantly on my phone and often forget it at home when I go to work. It's not as abnormal as you all are pretending it is
/r/askTRP09/11/19 08:35 PM
1

She found a better guy, just like you would've left with a better girl if the option had arose
/r/askTRP09/11/19 08:26 PM
1

Why would you ever think this has anything to do with women? Many people do this, generally out of feelings of... plot twist, regret and insecurity. Sure, it's annoying, but it's not "insanity" jesus. Just tell her to stop if you don't like it
/r/askTRP09/11/19 08:24 PM
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That's not principle it's just pathetic my dude
/r/askTRP09/11/19 08:22 PM
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