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| 24 | Depressed because lack of sexYou’re not happy and it’s not because you’re not having sex. It’s because you think nothing but sex will make you happy. It’s a terrible way to live, and you should see that sex is the byproduct of a good life, not the source. | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Went to the beach alone. I’m tired of doing things alone.Hey man, I’ll say one of the best tips I can give is to set one simple, effective, and confidence-boosting goal — maintain eye contact with every woman you talk to. Not only is it a sign of confidence, it boosts confidence. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Girl I'm seeing told me shes been with tons of dudes with huge cocks.Honestly, eh. It couldn’t be that he invited the energy where she felt comfortable disclosing that. | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Every man or woman you are attempting to seduce has a significant other. (Most likely)What I’m saying is, you’re entirely wrong and this is just wasteful for you to ponder. I’ve got plenty of friends that are women and absolutely none of them have led me to think what you’re saying. | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Every man or woman you are attempting to seduce has a significant other. (Most likely)You (most likely) don’t have lady friends that were used to form this theory of yours. | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 11:41 PM |
| -1 | [deleted by user]I assumed that. What I didn’t assume was you ruminating on it enough to post about it. Who cares dude, get off this sub and stop questioning these mindless things | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 11:28 AM |
| -4 | [deleted by user]Lol, get over it. You let it phase you enough to vent about it on Reddit? Work on your threshold for getting ticked off about the reality of double standards | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 08:55 AM |
| 15 | Should I just lose it to a hookerLol there’s nothing wrong with an escort. If OP thinks it’ll help, he can give it a shot. | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Sex feels so unobtainable and I hate itNah, you can play videogames all you want. Girls literally couldnt care less about what you do on your spare time if it doesn’t affect their conversations with you. Be interesting. That’s all there is to it. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Sex feels so unobtainable and I hate itDo online dating - be open to everyone. Go out with women you aren’t entirely sure about. Worst case scenario, you’ve practiced not giving a shit what the outcome is. Quickly, that’ll become your default and spillover for women you do like. Alternatively, hire an escort. If I have a dry streak, it’s a great way to get back in the flow. There’s no shame in it. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Penis enlargementWhat are you packing? | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 09:42 AM |
| 1 | 7 Things Women Secretly Desire In The Bedroom (BUT Are Afraid To Say)Common sense, buddy. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 09:39 AM |
| 29 | I don’t want to have relationships, I just want to hook up with a girl.Yeah, start with your grammar. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 12:27 PM |
| 29 | People who got genuinely good at daygame, how many approaches did it take?He means you’re absolutely way too deep into the punch drink. First, don’t let a man ascribe a level of suaveness to you - is he gonna let you know when you get to the point that he’ll drop his pants for you? Secondly, you can figure out your style, your features that stand out to women. Don’t pay for a guy to judge you along the way. You need to become more receptive and self-critical during your interactions. Figure out your style, don’t pay another guy to guess it for you | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 12:04 PM |
| 22 | Paying for sex, am I a loser?I’ve had a fair share of partners and still visit escorts. No shame in it, buddy. Let it elevate you and help you in non-paid situations, not depress your spirit. | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 09:12 AM |
| 0 | What´s the best strategy to get laid the first date?Just offer up something quick and convenient that can either serve as a quick date or as a segway into some after-hours festivities. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 11:30 AM |
| 2 | I’m Done Being a PussyGood on ya for getting rid of the games, buddy. I recently moved abroad and left the Xbox with my brother back home. Give yourself time to find a new, more productive/interesting hobby. Guaranteed there will be a void for the next while. You’ll stumble upon something, though. Good luck on your journey. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 11:18 AM |
| 2 | HingeDon’t be boring, simple as that. And not for the sake of her, simply because you don’t like to bore yourself. Toss out a response that’ll entertain you, then continue this for the rest of time. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 11:41 PM |
| 1 | I can't take this anymore.Dude, get a backbone - you might as well literally say fuck it, what do i have to lose? Tell her she could get a good look of a T-bone by sticking her head up a Bull’s ass, but wouldn’t she rather take the Butcher’s word for it? You don’t need to get bent by her male friend for her to know how good you are in bed, she can’t experience it first hand. Stop taking it personal, stop being reactive, and instead respond proactively. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 10:54 AM |
| 2 | Is it bad to openly tell a girl "I think we should have sex"?Depends completely on circumstance and you as a person. If you come off as playful, perhaps self-deprecatory, it might work. Really depends on a lot more than you could convey in your post. Cut and dry, it sounds "cringe." However, its gotten me laid. it has also not gotten me laid. Depends on circumstance, her perception of you, and the chick. | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 11:52 AM |
| 5 | Want to get laid fast? The easiest way to attract your local ladiesI wouldn’t doubt it if you were short a few steps from the hospital. I ended up in the hospital after maintaining sub 10% for nearly a year for cycling. Had a great physique, no libido, and a dysfunctional digestive tract. Was not worth it. Glad to hear you found a comfortable condition now, though! I’m the same. Just stay fit and don’t worry about the physique too much. It seems to be enough. | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 04:15 AM |
| 24 | Want to get laid fast? The easiest way to attract your local ladiesBelow 10% will also have an impact on your hormone regulation - having a dicey 6 pack will almost certainly translate to blunted testosterone levels, as well as an increase in circulating stress hormones (I.e. cortisol). Good luck getting laid with all that going on. | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Am I delusional for thinking i can score hot women despite being short, skinny, mediocre job. Should i settle?Maybe in the sense that I’ve formed a low threshold for boredom now and try to go out more. Time-wise, not really. I schedule most dates in the evening either way | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 05:27 PM |
| 13 | Am I delusional for thinking i can score hot women despite being short, skinny, mediocre job. Should i settle?Dude, I’m 5’6 and been unemployed for 6 months (pending job contract overseas in the next couple weeks). Ive been more successful in the last six months than I was last year when I had a job. Just make it known you have a plan for the future (and if you don’t, get one). It comes down more to good banter and confidence to engage in it. | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 04:41 PM |
| 44 | How the hell do some people have such interesting dating lives or sex life?Always be open for a good time, even when the “good time” part isn’t so obvious. | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 02:09 PM |
| 20 | How do I let girls know on apps that I’m mainly looking for casual sex?Could be just change of luck, but whenever I visited my hometown and used something along the lines of “here for the week/month” I’d rarely get hits. I found it almost worked against me. When you state just looking for “friends,” you rarely, if ever, have to confront the question, “so you’re just looking for a hookup?” | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 04:53 AM |
| 57 | How do I let girls know on apps that I’m mainly looking for casual sex?I’m actually moving. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 02:19 AM |
| 262 | How do I let girls know on apps that I’m mainly looking for casual sex?I’m moving abroad at the end of this month and my tinder bio says “Looking to make friends before moving to x.” I’ve been getting plenty of opportunities for casual hookups with that bio. One girl actually said “do you want to have sex with a (x) girl before moving to (x)?” (1) I know the women that choose to engage with me acknowledge there’s no time for anything more than casual fun - and they don’t have to consciously grapple with the idea of them being “slutty” for it. (2) They likely see it… | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Today I lost my V-card to a super hot(9+) girl who mocked my inexperience. I dont know if I should be happy or sad about itWork out your hips (cycling is unreal for hip strength), learn how to groove in the sack with your hips, too. Also learn how to perfect plain vanilla like the best ice cream shop in your hometown. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 09:39 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You don’t need a job to feel like you’re worthy of getting laid, my dude. I’ve been unemployed for 5 months and gotten laid more than I did last year. Just have the mindset of you’re going places, and try to exude the confidence in knowing you have an idea of where your life is heading and the things you’ll be doing. And as a side note, there’s no shame in getting “quality” escort service. I see a few every year just because it’s not every day you sleep with a 10/10 that’s your type. It might he… | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Sick of having to date down (26M)I’ve grown fond of dating women I only moderately attractive. Keeps me feeling polished - that is, my dating skills. Often you gotta slay a few dragons before you get the princess. Slaying the dragons - charming a few decent women - prepares you for the the pretty lady you’ll woo. | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Want to put together online dating profile - but I have no photos of myselfYou got a dog/friend with a dog? All my most liked/commented photos on hinge are a selfie with a dog. | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 03:46 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Just ask to meet for a drink or tea first. Let him know you’re open for going back to his place or yours afterwards if all goes well, but would like to feel out a vibe beforehand. | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Setting like a $100 to buy a nice cologne, maybe two. Something to last a few hours on my skin. What would you get?Screw cologne, hit up a Bath and Body Works and get body cream. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Some people just don't have it in their cards to be charismaticPersonality is not set in stone lol. Stop being so sure you understand the world when you can’t even grasp something you’d learn in a freshman course in psychology. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 10:58 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Just take it by ear and be playful about it. Try and spin the request as something the prolongs doing whatever you guys are doing - “I’m feeling some dessert, you wanna grab some bubble tea and head back to your place for a bit?” I told a chick couple of days ago “ my bedtime is in an hour but I feel like being deviant tonight and staying up passed it while watching Netflix with you.” Was a very retarded line but with good delivery and mood, you can almost ask in any way you want. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 01:24 PM |
| 1 | I'm shooting my shot with a shy girl this weekend. Should I ask in an open/light-hearted or closing/direct manner?Maybe throw in something along the lines of, “My build-guy called in sick, so (Day x at Time y)I’ll be left with an unfinished couch and the 6-pack of beer/dinner for 2 I got for after the job. You should take his spot and join me for a good time.” Make it clear you want her private company and have an interesting night you plan on having regardless of if she says yes or not. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Discreet Online FWBSex in-person crosses the line, but getting your rocks off over an online liaison doesn’t? Sounds like you should reevaluate your moral compass and act accordingly - or stick to porn. One is easier than the other. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 05:08 PM |
| 5 | Should I keep cold approaching or give it up?100% take care of your appearance - however, don’t let that be an excuse to stop approaching in the meantime. It’s easy to tell yourself once you’re down to 200 you’ll be ready for the ladies. The discipline and drive you cultivate in the process will become attractive. In any case, don’t give up. The fact you’ve mustered up the courage to cold approach many women attests to something that you’re already able to do that most men aren’t. | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 07:18 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Calm the cattle, bucko. You can most definitely accentuate the contour of your face with the lowering of BF % | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 11:39 PM |
| 80 | [deleted by user]I’ve gotten more women with my Dad Bod than I ever did as a bodybuilder/endurance athlete. You should look into Cognitive Therapy frameworks. These narratives you tell yourself are very distorted from reality and actively self-detrimental. | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 02:45 PM |
| 22 | [deleted by user]Lol dude, you’re not experienced at all. Just aim to be a giver. Thats all there is to it. | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 05:59 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Let’s start with you wearing your best smile for when I come by and grab you for x:xxpm | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 01:03 AM |
| 5 | TBH getting pussy isn't that difficult despite what i thought beforeThis thread is pitiful lol. I have many friends that are absolute stunners. Fucking them? Not hard. Dating them? 100%. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 06:11 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Man, these Mark dude’s percentages are jibberish. Take it by ear. Only logistics can be reasonable if the date is within a couple days and the girl gives off the vibe she’s into you/or the date idea. If it’s a week in advance, not a chance am I going out for that date when the time comes if I only text for logistics. | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 06:33 PM |
| 6 | Does sex really ever 'just happen'?Be social, that’s literally it. Befriend women and be social in their friend group, that’ll help too | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 02:38 AM |
| 16 | Does sex really ever 'just happen'?There’s a difference between choosing women and being chosen by women - only the former requires game. You need to be socially adept and most importantly be at the right place at the right time. One of my last lays was with a girl who I met for drinks. After the bar, we went back to her pad and I continued getting liquored to the point where I was passing out on the couch. Fortunately my buddy was with her roommate and woke me up on the couch and threw me into the chick’s room. We had sex twice … | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 02:26 AM |
| 1 | because i have sex once a week, it distracts me from getting better with girlsHey bucko, why don’t you worry about seminars that’ll help you become a better partner rather than seeking out tips for fidelity on Reddit. | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 12:08 AM |
| 515 | [deleted by user]Do it for the story, buddy | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 01:59 AM |
| 1 | I’m confused why this girl went radio silentJust don’t be vague, buddy, and clarify where you stand. I sent this to the chick on my mind: “Anyway, It'd be great to see you again and have some more fun before I leave to Japan. If you’re not down for that, that’s all good, I would just like to know where you stand so I don’t have to waste our time” She said: “thank you for the evening. But I’m more of a hit it and quit it, sorry.” I feel relieved, don’t let your imagination torture you. | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 07:57 PM |
| 2 | I’m confused why this girl went radio silentBuddy, I went out on a first date last night for Mexican food before heading back to my place for tea and a naked tango. Conversations were good, sex was great for both of us; I haven’t heard from her since dropping her off last night and she removed me from tinder. I think you gotta just accept sometimes girls like to use guys for a fun night and then move onto the next ride | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 12:43 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]1st - you’re soliciting sex, it’s illegal 2nd - you’re soliciting sex from random chicks 3rd - you’re actually soliciting sex from random chicks when professionals are only a few clicks away; quality over quantity. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 06:51 AM |
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