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| 5 | I Don’t Think Women Fully Comprehend The Shame of Being a Male Virgin As He Moves Through His 20sTell that to women then when they’re wondering where all the good men are at when they were too busy partying and hooking up with a new guy every weekend and expecting to find a partner at a club, lmao 😂 Most women have actual decent men in their friend zones lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 03:12 AM |
| 2 | If you’re too scared to talk to women, that’s natural selection at workThat’s what it’s like having a conversation with a woman about men’s issues The goal posts keep shifting until it fits their narrative. It’s pointless to engage because they won’t, and will not ever understand what it’s like for a man to cold approach women and be rejected in the ways that they are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.Let’s scale down your example. If a friend borrowed £90 and paid back £70. What‘s £20 lol. I could make that back in a couple hours working. It wouldn’t matter 200k people is nothing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.I’m not looking at one demographic though. I’ve stated numerous times 70 and 90 are both bad figures. But just because 70 is more common doesn’t mean 90 should be ignored entirely. 40% of women in the US as of 2020 are college educated lol. That’s 40/60, which isn’t far off 50/50. A few more years and it could easily become that if you lent someone 900k and they only paid back 700k If I was in the position to lend someone that kind of money then yes I could let 200k slide lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.So long as both figures exist, men should be assuming worst case scenario. Nobody ever plans for best case scenario’s. That’s just naive thinking Either way, there’s really not much difference between both figures. 70% of a million is still 700k | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 08:44 PM |
| -1 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.It’s 70 to 90%. You can’t just exclude an entire category of women from the statistics because 70% looks better to you lol. Both are still terrible odds. I wouldn’t play roulette if there was a 70 or a 90% chance it would land on whatever I didn’t choose each round | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.Well considering 39.1% of women have completed four years of college or more vs 36.6% of men, (and this statistic was recorded in 2020) and has been recorded since the 1940’s Your chances at landing with a college educated partner are higher if you’re a man, therefore your chance of being divorced goes through the roof along with it. But 70% is non college educated women is already high enough lol, so in practice 90% isn’t much more of a jump than 70%. Your odds don’t look good either way I woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.Well why shouldn’t we be talking about them? More and more women are becoming educated now lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.I didn’t include the “college educated” part because I assumed that this was a well known fact. Plenty of studies reference this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.Read what I said again Infidelity isn’t the top reason as to why women divorce. Whereas it’s the top reason Men divorce The 90% figure comes from women who are college educated. The 70% figure comes from women who aren’t college educated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.you still have to be social in the end Not from what I have witnessed in bars and clubs, agree to disagree on that point Most people are wasted to the point they can barely stand in clubs. TF you need to be social for? You need to be good looking and that’s it to get a lay in environments like this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.Well that’s how the legal system works. If a couple divorces, and the woman isn’t a complete psycho, she gets the kids during the week, daddy gets them at the weekend whilst he’s living in a tiny trashy apartment, his ex wife gets the house and he gets to pay child support | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.So what about when fathers are denied access to the children by the woman and the legal system when they divorce? It’s not just men. Deadbeat dads who run off, yeah. But this isn’t the only scenario where men aren’t around as much as they could be/ would like to be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.Exactly. Nobody wants emotional baggage, yet it seems 80% of women these days have some sort of trauma with ex’s It’s just a massive yikes all around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.It’s hard to have a relationship with other women when your own mother was a lying manipulative bitch tbf You think men are going to be trusting of women when the “most influential woman” in their lives acts like the rest? My mother was extremely argumentative and combative, and acted on emotion rather than logical and rational thinking, which caused a big rift and lots of arguments where I got pissed off. Because some problems are not hard to solve, but one thing that’s a guarantee is that wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 04:47 PM |
| 0 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.Considering they initiate 90% of divorces Yeah. It kind of is. It’s destroying the family unit if kids are involved Now I’m not saying women should stay with a guy who physically abuses them, but the no.1 reason women divorce is because their “values don’t align” or some kind of weird thing like that As if you didn’t know about these things about your partner before before you married them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.Checkmate! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 04:42 PM |
| 0 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.The Porsche body will be all he needs to fuck chicks though, so at least he will get some action. More than Mr average good guy Joe with morals and standards ever will | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.He will get that from women anyway if he really is ugly, and will arrive at the red pill soon enough on his own after enough failed attempts at being the good guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.Women don’t marry assholes but somehow end up initiating divorce with 70-90% of them if you’re talking about non college educated vs college educated women So if men aren’t the assholes here by your own admission, where does that leave us?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.Social awkwardness stems from exactly what I described about men not knowing how to game women or advance things to the next level with a woman who they are interested in and attracted to. What do platonic female friendships offer that Male friends don’t? At least there’s no chance I’m going to become attracted to my Male friends If a guy has female friends, he won’t learn how to game women, he will learn that from other successful Male friends. You don’t ask a fish how to catch fish, you ask th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.I would argue the opposite actually Platonically talking to women is easy. It’s no different than platonically talking to guys. This isn’t going to make women want you though and will land you in the friendzone pretty quickly I’d actually throw out the opposite out there as a thesis. Why most guys struggle isn’t because they can’t talk to women, it’s because they’ve no idea how to game women Why that might be could have several different causes. For me it was because I was told by women, that I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.I had plenty of platonic female friends in college in my classes, most had boyfriends, and I still turned out like a complete mess because of my blue pilled father and other women around me telling me that “any girl would be lucky to have such a good guy” It’s all lies. Good guys finish last. Always | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 12:59 PM |
| 6 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.Neither a passive blue pilled father or no father is good for a man’s dating life If sex is all he wants, then by all means not having a blue pilled father is the preferable option in your scenario I myself had a blue pilled father, and women around me feed me with the lies of “you just need to be kind and caring” “any woman would be lucky to have you”. What did this combo get me? Barely anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Most of men's cluelessness in dating stems from fatherlessness and their mother's virtue signalling bad advice.excellent advice for getting along with and working well with others Except this doesn’t translate into relationships terribly well. Women want a man who they more than just “get along with” I can get along with anyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 12:50 PM |
| 6 | So which is it?I’ll fuck a whore no issue But I won’t ever get into a relationship or marry one Lmfao. No man with any self worth would And that’s half of the issue. Men who give these useless whores a chance at being a partner. A hoe will always be a hoe. It’s not a “phase”, or any of that shit, it’s who she is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 09:25 PM |
| 2 | So which is it?👏 👏👏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 11:44 AM |
| 3 | So which is it?You talk like that’s the only option for men. To settle for a reformed 304 after she’s done with Chad. Lmfao Women are in for a rude awakening in the next 5-10 years once men have fully woken up. This is just the beginning | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 12:36 AM |
| 7 | So which is it?I don’t buy it What makes you think this hoe actually likes him? Sounds like she tried fucking around the friend group hoping that one of the other guys would commit to her, but this Redditor was the only one willing to do so Can’t turn a hoe into a housewife. She will leave this Redditor the second a better option comes along guaranteed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 09:02 PM |
| 6 | So which is it?What would make it special with him and not with his friends though? This is the part I don’t understand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 08:11 PM |
| 6 | So which is it?He doesn’t feel special because it sounds like he views sex as something two people who love each other do, compared to his GF who sees it as short term pleasure. Nothing sacred and special Their relationship is doomed. Values don’t align. I’d advise bro to run tbh. It won’t last | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Men on this sub greatly exaggerate women's hypergamy.Average men are not bedding multiple women a week. Let alone bringing women home from clubs and bars. The top % of men are doing these things Women don’t even turn heads at average dudes, what makes you think they want to sleep with them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Men on this sub greatly exaggerate women's hypergamy.Lol the fact you think the majority of men are engaging in casual sex on the regular 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Should men who haven't managed to find love until their 30s remain single?“Alpha fucks beta buxx”, isn’t a misogynistic belief, it’s reality, but ok. Nobody wants to be with someone who settled for them. You women sure as hell love to point this out very often. “Yassss queen, never settle, know your worth” 💅💅💅, and that’s great, but that’s right, I forgot, when a man doesn’t want to settle its misogyny. Gotcha What’s wrong with anything I said? I simply categorised the types of women you’ll encounter more in their 30’s vs in their 20’s. These are all separate categori… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Should men who haven't managed to find love until their 30s remain single?Healthy relationships are not tip-toeing around your partner feeling like you are one wrong phrase, word, or tone of voice or action away from triggering something from her past and then that blowing up your entire relationship. Or something small and insignificant becoming a huge issue because of her past But hey if that’s healthy then I’ve been doing it wrong this whole time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 08:16 PM |
| 5 | Should men who haven't managed to find love until their 30s remain single?I’ve listened to countless women talk about their ex’s and what shitty experiences they’ve had. To be honest, it exhausts me, because I’d never dream of treating any woman that way. Doesn’t mean I wouldn’t listen to her talk about those experiences. I’ve done my fair share of that. It just seems like it’s every woman these days has had a shitty abusive ex. And if I put one foot wrong accidentally, it’s going to be a massive issue. Even if it was a complete accident Listening isn’t the part I hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 08:09 PM |
| 5 | Should men who haven't managed to find love until their 30s remain single?Or I could just date the good women if I found one.. one who has been to therapy and has healed from her past experiences and welcomes new men with open arms I like to believe they’re out there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 07:58 PM |
| 14 | Should men who haven't managed to find love until their 30s remain single?I’m a poor low quality partner because I don’t want to waste my time with women who treat me differently because of things other men have done to them? Miss me with that shit. And I’m the low quality person here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 07:55 PM |
| 9 | Should men who haven't managed to find love until their 30s remain single?Lol they’ve been with that same woman in his 20’s though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 06:54 PM |
| 4 | A lot of women are awfully entitled to male company and friendshipIs a female friend going to protect me if I get jumped on the street like guys would?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 06:34 PM |
| 9 | Should men who haven't managed to find love until their 30s remain single?I believe they should yes based on my experiences Most good women are locked down early in their 20’s. Women in their 30’s are either single by choice, which rules those out as partners since they’re not looking Divorced/separated, single mom’s, trauma ridden, or promiscuous, and now she wants a beta to settle down with and provide everything, or career driven. Career driven women usually aren’t prioritising relationships either so it automatically rules them out too really This doesn’t leave a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 06:29 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: If “settling” is bad, why should women “lower their standards” and “be less selective/picky”?“Why doesn’t it matter if men don’t abuse me” Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: If “settling” is bad, why should women “lower their standards” and “be less selective/picky”?I live in a large major city. It’s what I see happening all around me. The good women are swooped up and taken very quickly. A lot of my guy friends are married/ engaged and have been for several years. Or they’ve been with their partners for 5+ years. Some even have children. I’m 26 for reference. These guys are 1-2 years older/younger than me. If you haven’t got a good woman in your early 20’s then good luck What’s left is a mix of women with mental issues, commitment issues, promiscuous types… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 12:23 PM |
| 8 | Q4M: If “settling” is bad, why should women “lower their standards” and “be less selective/picky”?Is that right? And women are initiating 80% of divorces why? If most men are meeting her standards? No.1: Irreconcilable differences. As if they didn’t know this about their man before they married him through vetting and being with him for years before getting married Infidelity. This is an acceptable reason and can be ignored since nobody should tolerate this Financially | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 12:08 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: If “settling” is bad, why should women “lower their standards” and “be less selective/picky”?No, that just tells you the things women will let slide if the man is attractive enough I’d love to see evidence of this “most men would want to cheat/abuse their partners” that would be an eye opener | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 11:57 AM |
| 4 | Q4M: If “settling” is bad, why should women “lower their standards” and “be less selective/picky”?If a woman can’t find a man she wants with all of the options available to her then there’s clearly something wrong with her All of the good women get locked down quick in their 20’s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 11:50 AM |
| 5 | Can porn and masturbation discourage men from getting sex?This is a two sided problem May I remind you 80% of women initiate divorces? And I believe the no.1 cause of this is financial reasons. Once the man can’t provide the woman with the lifestyle she is used to anymore, he’s discarded, in the trash with the rest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 06:52 PM |
| 0 | Men today act so feminineI believe the no.1 reason for women initiating divorce is because of financial reasons. But don’t quote me on that. I’m sure I’ve seen it somewhere though. If not no.1 it’s high up on the list So the man can no longer provide the life she got used to. Discarded, in the trash | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Men today act so feminineDivorce rates lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Would you use male birth control?Doesn’t matter. Fewer and fewer men will reproduce as time goes on due to the ever increasing standards of women Problem is already taking care of itself. 1 in 3 men are already sexless between the ages of 18-25 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Q4M - an average looking girl is DESPERATE to date you. How do you feel about it?I’ll post a reverse tomorrow for you since you’re interested, if someone else already hasn’t already. I don’t mind I’ll just turn my notif’s off if it gains any sort of traction lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Q4M - an average looking girl is DESPERATE to date you. How do you feel about it?I think we already know the answer to this based on the way dating works tbh And I touched on it a little. Most Men wouldn’t mind an average girl being really into them with no red flag behaviour. But it would raise suspicions for the average man because they get little to no attention from women anyway. But it would be flattering, and the man would feel great overall Women on the whole are less inclined to date an average looking man to begin with, which we already know, never mind one who is r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Q4M - an average looking girl is DESPERATE to date you. How do you feel about it?It’s extremely simple Women have endless options. Even average women. Average men don’t. So when a guy is super into a woman, she sees it as a red flag because it’s coming from a guy she isn’t interested in Whereas most average men get next to no attention from women, so to have a woman actually into you to the level that you’re describing in your post, yeah most men will see that as a positive thing because they haven’t got other options anyway. Women date who they want, men date who they can. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 10:21 PM |
| 1 | So how exactly do men "deceive" women into sex?There are always outliers to everything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 11:36 AM |
| 1 | If nothing is fair, and nobody is owed anything, its best for men to act in their own interest to get laid.How so? Because I don’t believe in paying for something that other people can get for free? It has nothing to do with other men and everything to do with me being against paying for sex lmfao 🤣 it ain’t that deep my man I can assure you. I will never ever exchange cash for that need | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 01:43 AM |
| 2 | If nothing is fair, and nobody is owed anything, its best for men to act in their own interest to get laid.You don’t want sex for sex Wow, you know me better than I know myself apparently | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 01:34 AM |
| 2 | If nothing is fair, and nobody is owed anything, its best for men to act in their own interest to get laid.Imagine paying for something Chad and Tyrone get for free Ultimate humiliation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 11:37 PM |
| 0 | Being anti red pill will make you resentful of womenBecause women don’t have to put in effort to attract Men. All they have to do is show up Men have to self improve and work on their bodies, their careers, their social lives, to improve their chances at finding the right woman. If men put zero effort into themselves like some women do, they’d get absolutely nowhere. This is why RP even exists. It’s about self improvement at the core. Edit: Sure I guess a woman could say she believes in self improvement and all of that other stuff, but she doesn’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 01:51 AM |
| 6 | If you cant get casual sex easily then you are unattractiveWdym? Women fuck broke ass loser bums all the time if they’re attractive enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 01:46 AM |
| – | What are some examples of "What society tells you vs. The reality" about gender relationships?How so? This has been going on since the birth control movement “Here ladies. Now you can have as much casual sex as you like without the risk of getting pregnant” go wild. It’s been pushed for years that casual sex is liberating for women. It’s why sex work is now normalised Promiscuity directly translates into a higher chance at separation/divorce in a LTR/marriage. But society has tried and tried to turn it into female empowerment, and like sleeping around has no consequences on your future w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 06:20 PM |
| 3 | What are some examples of "What society tells you vs. The reality" about gender relationships?Alpha fucks beta buxx | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone actually seen Pick Me Girls act like “Not Like Other Girls”?Pick me girls are usually tomboys from my experience. Or girls who have a tonne of guy friends and not many girl friends. Oh and girls who have masculine hobbies that not a lot of girls would take part in. They use those activities as their identity. “I’m so different I lift weights tehee” I ran into a few during my teenage years, and yes they are far easier to get on with (no shit, they act like dudes), but I don’t find that demeanour attractive in a romantic sense either. What’s to say she won… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 05:52 PM |
| 9 | What are some examples of "What society tells you vs. The reality" about gender relationships?💯💯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 05:47 PM |
| – | Men don't care as much about women intelligence in dating, but they do apprecitate itMost will only date you if you have money, that’s true. That’s nothing to do with RP By “having money”, they mean at least enough to sustain your own needs and life. Most women won’t date broke guys or unemployed men. Not in the west anyway Whereas a man will be willing to date a broke or unemployed woman if she had plans to change that in the future | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Okay you seem like a great person That sucks. What’s his reasoning for not wanting to relocate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Yeah they do And we get mocked for it and told we are dry and boring When I ask a girl how her day was, I care to hear about her day and what she got up to. It isn’t meaningless small talk to me. I like hearing things about other peoples lives. I don’t want to talk about myself all the time. Women love talking about themselves, asking how their day was is a huge open invitation to go crazy talking about themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.How long do you plan on keeping that up for though? What if he never gets better and long covid becomes a part of his life that he has to live with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 08:31 PM |
| 3 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.“Trust me bro” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Nowhere near as much of a red flag as a male 30 y/o virgin In fact a lot of guys would find it endearing even. Most women see 25 y/o+ male virgins as fucking weird If you haven’t lost it by the time you’re 25, realistically your only option from then on to avoid telling women in the future that you’re a virgin is paying for an escort. Because this will affect a man’s dating prospects if he’s still a virgin at those ages | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 08:16 PM |
| 5 | Women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Why is this so accurate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 08:15 PM |
| 2 | What does “real” love look like to you?Married women do the same thing They fuck like crazy before they’re married and then slows down dramatically post marriage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 08:10 PM |
| 2 | What does “real” love look like to you?Men in their 20’s have the highest rates of suicide but yeah sure they aren’t “really depressed” What a dumbass comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Is it better for men to ask out women as soon as they know them, or is it better to build up a friendship first?So I’m asking what you meant by your original comment Is that how it is generally for the majority of men then? They just need to feel attracted to feel a romantic connection? I’ve accepted I don’t work like most men probably do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Is it better for men to ask out women as soon as they know them, or is it better to build up a friendship first?I can feel attracted to women but not see them in a romantic light because their personalities are trash | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 12:22 PM |
| 2 | Is it better for men to ask out women as soon as they know them, or is it better to build up a friendship first?How do you know if you see a girl in a romantic light right at the beginning? Wouldn’t that just be lust/sexual attraction since you know nothing about the person? For me, I don’t develop romantic feelings for a woman unless I’ve known her for a little while. By a little while, I mean until I have sussed out her personality. Either through texting or being around each other in a social setting. If I don’t gel with their personality, I won’t see them in a romantic way. I appreciate this is not th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 12:26 AM |
| 2 | The standard rejections of "no spark, not enough chemistry and not feeling it" is just a nicety of 'I didn't find you sexually attractive.'Pretty much why women tend to have a strings of short term monogamous relationships (talking maybe 2-5 years at a time), throughout their life, vs men who will stay committed to one woman on average The minute the woman loses sexual interest it’s game over and onto the next Over 50% of marriages end in divorce and 80%+ of divorces are initiated by women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Women: What is a high-value man?None of what I just said is being picky, it’s just common sense not to get involved with those types if you want a successful LTR | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Women: What is a high-value man?Yeah I understand what you’re saying. It could also just be a case of right person wrong time perhaps… if she truly feels like a relationship is too much effort for her right now with everything going on, then eventually I’m going to have to dial back my feelings. But I believe her reasons for not wanting anything right now. She isn’t dating or speaking to any other guys because she’s not been looking for a while, so that also helps. Our bond just developed naturally after a while from speaking … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Women: What is a high-value man?Never met in person no. But FaceTimed many times and I feel really comfortable talking to her, which I have struggled to find with other women before, and it’s something I look for the most when getting to know/dating a woman. I offered to fly out this summer to meet her despite my problems, but she declined because she’s limited in her ability to be outside for the house for extended periods of time right now, (it’s GI issues for the both of us), and that she would want to show me around her ci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Women: What is a high-value man?It’s quite funny really that we’re having this conversation tbh I’ve been talking to a girl since January this year actually and we get along great. We met on a health related subreddit because we both have similar health issues. We speak basically everyday and we’ve called numerous times. I told her I like her a couple months back, and she said the same to my surprise. I waited so long because I really didn’t think she felt the same and I didn’t want to jeopardise the friendship we had built Ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Women: What is a high-value man?I was brought up to always be kind and polite to people and that’s what I do. I’m not one of those “nice guys” that pretends because they think that’s what will land them chicks. I’m kind to everyone, it’s just who I am. I have a sarcastic side too as well as dark humour You’re sort of right though, I am less assertive than my friends, although I feel like the kind of women who want an assertive guy are the types of women that I won’t have any chemistry with, since I’m not naturally assertive. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 11:18 PM |
| – | What is a 'high value woman'?One that doesn’t cheat on you would be a start Aside from that, caring, pleasant to converse with about anything and hang out with. Low body count/ No promiscuous “phases”, as this doesn’t translate well into a LTR working long term. And someone who shares the same values as I do about what makes a rship work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Women dislike passport bros because they have no equivalent option themselves😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 08:35 PM |
| 5 | Women dislike passport bros because they have no equivalent option themselvesGot forbid women ever have to date down like men have been doing for literally decades Men’s standards are so low they can’t possibly get any lower, and most men are still lucky to get scraps. 1 in 3 men have zero sexual experience between the ages of 18-25 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Women: What is a high-value man?Hmm fair enough. You seem to have your priorities in order. I was expecting 30+ honestly because I see a lot of women this age say this, because their dating preferences have changed because they’re looking to settle with a long term partner Why I ask these questions, is because I’ve been talking to a girl for a while now, we both like each other, but she’s never outwardly said she finds me attractive, whereas I find her attractive and I have stated a couple times. But she has said she likes me,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Women: What is a high-value man?Well you’d be right. I’m just a plain average looking guy. Not ugly, not hot. I blend in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Women: What is a high-value man?Do you mind me asking how old you are? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Women: What is a high-value man?You’re totally right. All of the good women with their heads screwed on and the same dating preferences as men, are taken in their 20’s. Some even married with kids. That’s the majority of my friends There’s four types of women in their 30’s. The women you just mentioned, who’s dating preferences changed once she realises Chad and Tyrone no longer want her, so she’s tied into settling down with the “nice guy”, single mom’s, recently divorced women or women who’ve split up with their partner from… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Women: What is a high-value man?So how do you end up developing a physical attraction if you aren’t physically attracted to him by your own admission during the talking and dating stage? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 06:27 PM |
| 7 | Women: What is a high-value man?Weird, kindness never got me anywhere. You know how many times I’ve been told by women in my 20’s that I am very kind, caring, and that any girl would be lucky to have me? Way too many times. And none of the women saying these things to me have ever offered to date me lol My friends treat women like dirt and they get more action and relationships than I’ve ever had | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 06:26 PM |
| 0 | Average guys in relationships are subject to a different set of rules than attractive onesSingle mom’s and fat chicks are poor examples. These are not representative of average women. Average women don’t look in the direction of average men. If that were true, 1 in 3 men wouldn’t be experiencing zero sexual activity from the ages of 18-25. Never mind getting into a relationship Single mom’s aren’t average women because they have a child involved with another man. That’s nothing to do with their looks. I’ve met plenty of hot single mom’s. Why would I want to throw myself into that mes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 11:49 PM |
| 1 | If you walked into a room with 100 people of the opposite gender, all of them are single and around your age, how many of them do you think would want to go on a date with you?Zero. Because I’m not attractive. I’d probably want to date at least 50% of those 100 women based on looks alone. I don’t have super high standards. I either like looking at you or I don’t But they wouldn’t want to go on a date with me. So it wouldn’t matter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 11:30 PM |
| 2 | In 2023, should men still be expected to pay for dates? Why?Lol not even close I’ve had some naughty ones let me tell you. They thoroughly enjoy what they do Escorting is very well organised and professional in my country | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 10:43 PM |
| 2 | In 2023, should men still be expected to pay for dates? Why?More fool those guys who pay that. That’s £300 btw, whatever that translates to in your currency. But I can tell you from experience, there’s no difference between the middle of the road highly rated hookers, and the stupidly expensive ones lol. Done both | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 07:17 PM |
| 4 | What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill?I never really had a pill, but having a good personality and being kind, caring and nice is not what women want whatsoever and it’s never gotten me anywhere. My looks are dead average which is the problem. So I guess I’m kind of Blackpill in a sense. But I also don’t reject redpill, because some of it is correct. I don’t reject blue pill, because I was raised with morals and to always treat women with respect. So it’s a mix for me based on my life experience and upbringing I’ve been told so many… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 06:42 PM |
| 8 | In 2023, should men still be expected to pay for dates? Why?Lol what. You can get a Brazilian or Columbian hooker here for like 300 for the hour who looks good and is clean. Where tf are you that hookers are charging 1k? 💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 06:22 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHave you ever considered that not every question ever asked is hiding some ulterior motive behind it? And that people can just be genuinely curious about certain things? Well, since you’re asking for an answer, then I’ll go with no, it doesn’t matter, since if I say it does, then you obviously won’t answer my original Q. Though you probably still won’t anyway. But I can see why the guy got mad if this is how you communicate. Holy hell what a headache over a simple Q 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 12:01 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI never said that it did You’re the one who has come up with that assumption, are you alright? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 11:33 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLol, why do you need a response from me then? You’ve already read my mind and you know exactly what I am thinking /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 11:25 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI just asked a question gheez | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 11:11 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow long have you been talking to this guy for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 11:07 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCan’t change your face Women are trying to do that an awful lot in recent years, and some are unrecognisable compared to before, and these humongous lips look horrendous. I thought my neighbour got a new wife the other week, nope, still the same one apparently! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 11:02 PM |
| – | The world in 2030 could see changes in the population in terms of obesityThe fatties standards will remain the same. They’ll still expect guys who go to the gym and look after themselves to be interested in them. Otherwise you’re fatphobic /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 09:54 PM |
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