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Lol what? Men have always wanted their woman and babies to carry their names.
/r/AllPillDebate17/10/23 01:51 PM
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that he'd be paying more and so he decided to cancel that trip and opt to get to know you in cheaper ways? So that's his choice if I want luxurious treatment I'll pay it by myself. If he doesn't want to spend much on an thing that's unsure that's his call. There's no problem in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 03:28 PM
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Women aren’t designed for it. Men are Lol I remember having this conversation earlier with you. Both men and women are designed to sleep with more than one person. Why not cheat on your boyfriend? I don't want to and neither does he. It works both ways. I choose to be loyal to him because I love him and it's the same for him. We still find people hot and attractive. If I was single I would definitely love the variety especially with good looking men from all countries. I would have experienced d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:47 PM
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Good lord, I just said I’d fuck her, I never said I’d “entangle” myself with her. I’d like to think I’d know better than to get down on one knee and purpose after knocking it. Having sex with a crazy person is getting entangled with them. They are crazy even having sex with them can have dire consequences. Yes, you fucking do, stop lying. I want a lifestyle I can afford myself. I am not interested in designer handbags, jwellery, exotic vacations etc especially if they are given by someone who ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:35 PM
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You can believe whatever you want. And the truth is when a woman is with the best winner the can obtain and respect and like they don’t see other men. Women want one man and his security eventually not variety until the day they die Not true for all women. Also there will always be someone better. Winners will constantly be changing. Why do women cheat with pool boys etc when they have men who are actually winners. Cheater cheat. Lastly everyone likes Novelty and variety, be it men or women. Loy…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:31 PM
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How do you know those women aren't fucking on the side whose names you mentioned? I am just giving you your own arguments. Lol. Men and women aren’t the same lol Their body is different but everything else is more or less the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:11 PM
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It's higher but it's not much higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:56 PM
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Shakira did cheat on her fiance to be with Pique. Kristen Stewart cheated on Robert Pattinson, if he wanted variety why didn't he cheat on her? Meg Ryan cheated. Katherine McPhee cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:54 PM
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Want to? No. But if the crazy is attractive and available and willing, we absolutely will. Again all you. People have more intelligence than to entangle themselves with crazies. YOU want a lavish lifestyle. I’ve never even heard a man use the phrase “lavish lifestyle” in a sentence. I don't want a Lavish lifestyle firstly. Secondly I have even heard good educated men wanting to be house husbands and wanting to be primary parents while their wife is the primary breadwinner and there's nothing wro…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:43 PM
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Who knows maybe she did but she's more discreet than he was. Plus she seems to work more than he does. He's seems free most of the time lol. Or maybe Natalie didn't want to cheat. Women also cheat for "variety" doesn't mean all women will similarly not all men will cheat for variety either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:39 PM
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Once we’ve looked at you and decided that you’re attractive, you could be a fucking axe murderer for all we care. We’re still going to try to fuck you. This is all you. Not all men want to fuck crazies. If by “resources”, you mean “pussy”, I agree. Resources means opportunities, lavish lifestyle etc. You don’t need a rich daddy to have an available vagina. That's a stereotype based on the fact that rich men will provide his daughter's husband with resources. You’re making me mad and that’s makin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:23 PM
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Many women want variety too. That's why the cheating statistics are almost equal. Give women option of having a harem of attractive men while also having a stable partner many women will like that as well. Also Natalie portman's husband has cheated on his younger girlfriend with Natalie. That woman was younger than Natalie by around 7-8 years, so he went older that time. People just go for people who they find attractive. It's not like men aren't cheating on their partners with older women. Thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:17 PM
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Natalie portman's husband is a serial cheater btw. He cheated on his first girlfriend with Natalie. She was a decade younger than the guy and also younger than Natalie portman. Men have also cheated on their partners with older women. So your evidence doesn't amount to much here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:10 PM
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Yeah. Bodies. Not yearly incomes People are attracted to values, mannerisms and skills after the looks threshold is crossed. That's what education is about skills, values etc. Women aren't attracted to someone's salary either they are attracted by the skills that come along with it. Some like the resources that are available because of the money. Men like resources too, that's why there's always been a stereotype of men wanting to marry women who have rich fathers, marrying boss's daughter. Then…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:00 PM
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I was born, raised, and have lived with heterosexual male biology and corresponding hormones and you have the nerve to me how male attraction works? Alright, lady I have the nerve to tell you that not all men behave the same. Attraction is subjective. People are attracted to different body types, different values etc. You are not the representative of all heterosexual males in the world. Cool, introduce me to one. Hi. Go talk to more women on this sub. You'll find them. It's that easy but seeing…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:49 PM
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Yeah, but the man’s money is the woman’s money and then eventually becomes the entire families’ money, the woman’s money flows in one direction and that’s towards her and that’s where it stays. Yeah, it’s be nice if it were shared and portioned like the man’s salary, but it never it is, and if it ever needs to be, she damn sure won’t be happy about it. Both men and women's money is household income from which both of them can take some percentage out for personal expenses. I don't know of many w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:10 PM
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Why? Even from a pragmatic standpoint, why? My money is OUR money and your money is YOUR money. Why not? More money gives you better lifestyle. There's a reason DINK exists. There is our money, my money and his money. Women contribute in the household finances too. People with similar educational backgrounds can start their own work together. People who are educated at same level can converse better and understand each other's POV better. They'll have many similar experiences. A male doctor marr…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:43 PM
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Many men I know want women with college degrees and good professional career and they aren't trying to impress women they are looking for a compatible partner. There's not much reason for redditors to lie no one's sleeping with them because of their comments but many men will gladly share their preferences which also include education and work.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:26 PM
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We don’t care either way You don't care either way probably. Don't look to far men here on this sub have many preferences when it comes to long term relationships just like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:17 PM
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But be that as it may, the only thing that triggers carnal, intimate, sexual arousal in a man as far as it concerns women is her physical appearance. Period. Full stop. End of sentence. Same for women. Arousal happens because of a man's physical appearance. Women aren't attracted to unattractive men. It's just choosing a long term relationship requires more things including attraction and this is the case for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:09 PM
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Ohh I am not trying to convince you of anything. I know what's true and what's happening. You don't have that experience. NRI's and Indians who live in India aren't very similar. Many NRI parents have some kind of arrested development going on. If you know so much do you know how many cases we have of gullible women being married to NRI's who are then taken to a foreign land and exploited as a daughter in law. Some of their husbands lead a double life and the wives are just a maid and baby maker…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:45 PM
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I live in India. I see it everyday. You probably know about it second hand. Ask the guys what they want and they'll give you a list of their preferences. Most of them care about education, degree etc. I have a cousin currently in the arranged marriage circle and this is such a common occurrence. Yeah, I know doctors from India and IT guys who get arranged marriages and their parents tell the girls’ parents “He’s just looking for someone to cook his meals and take care of the house.” These people…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:20 PM
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I come from a country of arranged marriages. Men who are doctors specifically look for women who are doctors because it's easier to understand each other's work and lifestyle. They will not get married to non doctor women even if they are the only ones present near them, not even nurses. Just doctors. Top bureaucrats who are men look for women in who are bureaucrats.It's written in the requirements of their potential partners. Most of them also mention that they are looking for a college educate…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:04 PM
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What's your point, people usually date people near them. Women also date people who are near them. They also choose from people who are accessible to them. They will just choose who they think is the best for them. Harvard has a lot of students but Zuckerberg went for Priscilla Chan probably because he was most compatible with her. They met at a frat party, many other women with different levels of education would be there too but he connected with Priscilla the most like she connected with him …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:45 PM
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I am sorry if you have had bad experiences with some of them but no all of them aren't ugly or creepy. I have a father, uncles, brothers, boyfriend, friends, coworkers who are all Indian men who don't fit your description. So yeah your opinion is pretty harsh and incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 09:43 PM
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Thanks I guess but I have a father, uncles, brothers, boyfriend, friends, coworkers who are Indian. They are good people. They aren't ugly or creepy. I find my boyfriend very attractive some of my coworkers and friends are also very attractive. I also think my dad, brothers and uncles are good looking men. Maybe Nicole's experiences were bad and there are Indian men who are creepy but saying this about all Indian men is harsh and incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 09:40 PM
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Wow as an Indian girl I am very offended by this even though I know many of them act like creeps but saying this for all of them is just harsh and incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 09:24 PM
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Men don’t really care as long as she’s not too crazy or too many 🚩, or is beautiful enough to compensate those This is how one will attract a toxic partner. Men should also look for qualities past attractiveness. Not saying attractiveness is not important it is but it's shouldn't be all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 09:19 PM
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People who don't take rejection personally and are optimistic about life aren't narcissists. These people can have confidence as well. Everyone has failures in life but people don't give up and work again to succeed it doesn't mean they are narcissists. They just have a never give up attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:34 AM
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I think he is mentioning being attracted to the girl he wants to date or marry he didn't mention that he needs a supermodel just someone he's attracted to and that someone being attracted to him. That's a very normal requirement to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 05:04 PM
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The woman is almost 30 and they started dating last year it doesn't seem predatory plus this woman is known to date and sleep around with rich billionaires. She was with Mick Jagger when he was in his 70's. She just made herself more permanent with this baby. Al Pacino is in his 90's he isn't going to be around for long, she has his baby she's set for life while not dealing with him for a very long time. I also don't think it's an accidental baby both him and his friend are having children at th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:40 AM
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The woman is almost 30 and they started dating last year it doesn't seem predatory plus this woman is known to date and sleep around with rich billionaires. She was with Mick Jagger when he was in his 70's. She just made herself more permanent with this baby. Al Pacino is in his 90's he isn't going to be around for long, she has his baby she's set for life while not dealing with him for a very long time. I also don't think it's an accidental baby both him and his friend are having children at th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:40 AM
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What makes you think if you sleep around to balance out she wouldn't sleep around as well to increase her count? She can't go in the past and unfuck people but she can fuck more people just like you in the future while you can't go in the past and fuck more girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:31 AM
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Your claims are very interesting to me because this doesn't resonate with any conversations I have with other women or see in many men around me. Secondly there are different kinds of men and there are men who prefer being with one woman and are good partners. There are demisexual men as well. They don't lack self awareness they exactly know what they want. Probably you categorise things differently for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:24 AM
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Nobody will especially about ignoring trashy behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:34 PM
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Almost every other average guy in their 30's is married I rarely see any women having interest in them. Attractive guys attract interest. Most of the women who are interested in average taken men are interested because it boosts their egos that he's interested in me even though he has a wife so I must be better, but they are insecure women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:33 PM
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I don't know because if it's biology I should feel this way. I need to be attracted to the man for anything to happen it doesn't matter if he has a wife or a girlfriend. Every other average man has a wife or a girlfriend and I am not interested in them. If a unattractive man is in a company of an attractive woman I'll just like the woman, it doesn't matter if she's dating him. It's just more safe to talk to a man of he's with a woman, they usually don't attack or make moves that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:30 PM
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Honestly confident and attractive guys are generally decent human beings as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:21 PM
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Not for hateful behaviour. I know you said women should put up with every crass, stupid behaviour men display but I am not going to neither are lot of other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:19 PM
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More than men or women the person who has more power in the relationship ( the person who is less invested in the other person) has more control of where the relationship is going. That's why relationship between equals usually works best.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:05 PM
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Sexism is hatred. You should do better. sexism /ˈsɛksɪz(ə)m/ noun prejudice, stereotyping, or discrimination, typically against women, on the basis of sex. Pretty hateful behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:48 PM
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You should look around more often then but the way you have hatred for women in general it's not surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:44 PM
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Most of them don't love or even like those men. They want something from that man. The men here call those men beta bucks and talk about how those young women are sleeping with a hot young poolboy or something equivalent. The topic was attraction. Women are attracted to good looking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:34 AM
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This was just an example. Most people aren't single in their 50's but single people are dating in their 50's.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:19 AM
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Yes they are mostly ones that are divorced. Just somedays back a member on this sub was talking about how his mother in law who is in her 60's got married again to a good guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:08 AM
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Many look like her at that age. She's not an exception. She's a hyper attractive women about whom the post was about. You probably don't like others much(your preference) but just like you find Ana attractive there are many men who like Miranda Kerr, Keira Knightley, Eiza Gonzalez, Emma Roberts, Jennifer Lawrence, Scarlett Johansson etc. But very honestly most of the time men can't figure out a woman's actual age. I shared a link with you it's especially about the people who obsess about the wal…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:06 AM
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The evidence that many women in their 30's are actively dating and getting married. Single moms in their 30's are getting married, dating around.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 10:56 AM
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I agree. They think that a 29 year old woman will convert into a raisin on her 30th birthday. Lmao. And then in the same breath will talk about how attractive Ana de Armas is who is literally 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 10:54 AM
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What reality are you living? That used to happen earlier but it doesn't anymore especially for the hyper attractive women your post was about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 10:52 AM
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Maybe others do but I don't find women over 30 all that attractive. You just said you find Ana de Armas attractive. She's 35 so above 30. She ain't an exception. I reckon it's the norm to feel this way. People find attractive people attractive the age doesn't matter. Most men would go for an attractive 30+ woman than an average 18 year old. The norm is to find attractive people attractive. Cougars aren't my thing Sure it's your preference just like cougars will be for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 10:48 AM
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So men lie here on the sub? If what you are saying is true then it's personality that's not letting them get laid? Shocker. Most women aren't supermodels, they are also average and don't need to be supermodel or insanely hot to get laid or get into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 10:40 AM
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That's your preference but there are many hyper attractive women in their 30's and 40's and some even in their 50's. The wall is a myth especially at 30. Salma Hayek is in her 50's I suppose and still very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 10:38 AM
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Men here on this very sub claim that women go for attractive men and that men have imposible body standards to achieve. That's why they aren't getting the girls because they aren't attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 10:23 AM
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Hyper attractive women are genetically gifted. They don't lose it. There are many others like her. Jennifer Aniston was extremely attractive in her 30's and 40's. It's her 50's she's started looking older and all her smoking habits came back to haunt her, also I think this is the time she hit menopause. It'll take some years and she'll be fine again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 10:15 AM
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Ana is also 35. She's not some 18 year old. She's extremely attractive. Just yesterday a guy here was telling me how Scarlett and Rihanna are very attractive. They can't tell women's ages. That's how the wall is a myth. https://www.reddit.com/r/sadcringe/comments/13a6t8r/understand_the_game/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button Also from personal experience they can't tell. My mom's 57 now but till her late 40's people wouldn't believe s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 10:08 AM
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That's your assumptions. Many of them can't even differentiate among women in their 20's and 30's sometimes even 40's. They just go for what they find attractive. So a hyper attractive woman if maintains herself will still be hyper attractive she'll not lose it until her menopause most likely. Infact new medical procedures are being done on women to delay menopause by 20 years. This operation could benefit thousands of women suffering serious health issues because of menopause. Scarlett Johansso…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:56 AM
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I stumbled upon this subreddit because of an argument with a guy on another subreddit. I don't have a troubled dating life. It's pretty good actually.🤞🏼 My college just ended and I had a lot of time before my joining and these were the opinions I didn't hear in my real life they were amusing to me plus I like to debate and stuff, but its boring now it was fun for a while since it was new and it was listening to a POV I didn't know anything about but now after multiple debates on same things it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:48 AM
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A "lot" of attractive celebrities aren't dating 18 year olds though. Some definitely are like Leonardo DiCaprio goes for young women in the same way Madonna and Cher go for younger men. Jeff Bezos is marrying someone in his own age range when he can have an attractive 18 year old. Ben Affleck married in his age range, many celebrities also are younger than their wives. People usually date and marry in their age range. Not all 18 year olds are attractive most of them look like average kids. Peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:23 AM
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I know right. This shit was hilarious 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:18 AM
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Some people do look better in their 30's than their 20's because now they have money and access to better resources that help them look better. Better skincare, better food, better lifestyle choices, going to better dermatologists, being health conscious. Although most people if they manage their weight look pretty much the same in their 20's and 30's. Some even in their 40's.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:16 AM
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What's the problem if someone's genetic line becomes extinct? If women are as selfish as you claim they'll not care if their son in the future has kids or not. They'll just live a happy life and then die. What happens after that is seriously not their concern Lmao. I am not from the west but a third world country and big age gap couples are not the norm, they aren't socially acceptable, infact they are so socially unacceptable that even if some celebrity is in one it's hard for them to get socia…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:09 AM
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Hyper attractive women look hyper attractive even in their 30's. Female celebrities are hyper attractive and they are still hyper attractive in their 30, 40's etc. Scarlett Johansson was hyper attractive at 18, she's hyper attractive now at 38. Infact I think she looks better. There are many examples like that. It's the post menopausal women who take the hit since aging becomes faster but if they take precautionary measures even they are fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 06:45 AM
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Why don't you use makeup to follow some if those beauty standards? Again if makeup is making you look more handsome and not feminine most women will like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 06:28 AM
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Well you can elaborate your feelings if you can't use the word. ☺️ Are you telling me Single moms don't get married? Or people don't get married to people who have children from previous relationships? It's not uncommon. Majority of women are married or partnered up regardless of their age. Are they not? Women are having casual sex don't they? There are couples where the woman is older than the man. State provides for children right? So they'll get food. Introvert men get married too or not? Wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:11 PM
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These are just opinions of a random person on reddit why will it make most people unhappy, some people's opinion on reddit will not change someone else's reality. Short guys are dating, shy guys are dating, virgin men will lose their virginity etc. Single moms will still find a husband, older women will still date/marry in their age group, older or go for younger men, women will still have casual sex and enjoy it, kids won't starve even if they don't have parents they still have foster care( alt…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:08 PM
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They also apply makeup outside of that. They really take care of their skin etc. Look at Harry Styles he applies make-up and women are obsessed with him. The point was a "no makeup" makeup look can help men to enhance their features and the makeup won't be noticeable plus it's always good to take care if your skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 07:02 PM
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Almost all male celebrities apply makeup and are loved. Makeup is used to enhance your features. Skincare is good for everyone generally. Men have just started to enter into this industry and products directed towards them are coming out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 06:47 PM
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The idea is to go for make-up that enhances your features and is not noticeable. There are BB creams they are essentially like foundations, there are tinted sunscreens which work as a foundation and a sunscreen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 06:43 PM
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Jawline can be enhanced with contouring.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 06:33 PM
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Depends on what kind of makeup you have done. If you have make-up on that will make you look feminine yes a lot of women's will not like that, but if you apply makeup that makes you look more masculine than they'll not have a problem. It's just enhancing your looks of a masculine man then not making you a feminine man. Anyway most male celebrities apply makeup but it doesn't look like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 06:31 PM
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I'll tell you the truth my boyfriend is into skincare. He applies sunscreen, moisturizer, serums etc. He also takes care of his hair. Most girls will dislike if the makeup makes the guy look feminine but if the make up makes the guy look masculine and handsome they'll not lose attraction towards him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 06:28 PM
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So put on makeup that makes you look handsome and masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:25 PM
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Don't be with women who'll feel ick because of make-up. There are many women who'll be okay with makeup especially if it makes you look handsome. K-pop stars do skincare and makeup women love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:37 AM
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It's a stereotype that men age "better" than women. However, there is some science behind this. It has to do with collagen, a protein found in skin and connective tissues. It's what makes your skin elastic, which is associated with how young you look. The human body loses collagen as it ages, which is why skin takes on a different appearance. Males lose collagen earlier and more consistently throughout life. Females tend to keep more until menopause, when they lose it at a dramatic rate. So whil…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:26 AM
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What's stopping men from applying makeup and getting an aesthetician to improve their looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:11 AM
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I agree to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:01 PM
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Again the point was majority of men are married which was what I said and your source said too. No one is saying that the it hasn't dropped but majority of people are still married.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:59 PM
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I'll just make something up. Not cite a source and then just add the word 'apparently I have not made anything up. Why will I make up figures you can copy paste these numbera and you'll find them on Google. Also your source said this: The share who have never been married has also grown – from 17% to 33%. All of this churn has resulted in a significant increase in the share who are unpartnered. This is still not the majority. Secondly I wasn't just talking about the US, so the stats pretty much …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 10:34 PM
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So basically improvement that women are already asking of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:09 PM
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From 1970 to 2020 the decline is 69% to 64% apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:48 PM
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Are the any numbers available?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:07 PM
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These are the stats available though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:06 PM
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23% aren't majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:13 PM
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I read that in 2020 there were 64% of married couples and since homosexual marriages are very less and in some countries they are still illegal so they must be heterosexual marriages and the Polygyny is also not happening at large so majority of Monogamous marriages. I think that would suggest that most men are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:10 PM
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Is there any source proving that majority of men in the world aren't married or partnered up?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:01 PM
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Aren't majority of men married/partnered up?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:08 PM
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How do you want to fix it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:07 PM
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I know right.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 10:17 AM
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Curious doesn't equal attraction. I am curious about snakes doesn't mean I like them or attracted to them. I just want to know more for different reasons mostly protecting myself if I ever encounter them. Me being curious about why other women are interested in that man wouldn't change my feelings towards him. I have seen this with men too they are also curious if a subpar girl ends up with a man they consider high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 09:02 AM
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Korean men are becoming pretty popular among girls though so maybe we see more western women dating Asian guys in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:54 AM
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This is me and my elder sister. When I was single in college and I was trying dating apps, the men I wanted to swipe right to most of the time she didn't like them, and the ones she wanted me to swipe right to I didn't like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:51 AM
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Honestly it just depends on the man for me. If I am attracted to someone then I am. It doesn't matter if other women are interested in him or not. My family and friends should like him as a person but I don't care how many women are sexually intrested in him. If one of my best friends or sister is sexually intrested in my partner then I'd hate the entire situation. Ideally for me they should see him as a brother or friend not someone they'd like to fuck. Then if there's a man who is being liked …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:46 AM
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Bunch of unattractive women who will sleep with anybody are the ones giving you attention and not the ones who are attractive ones who have standards how will it work for your self esteem?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 04:04 PM
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I have seen hot men who get rejected because they open their mouths and say something stupid. Infact in college some girls used the term hottie potty for those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:05 PM
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I just believe platonic and familial relationships are just as important. Infact for some people they are more important. I mean there are aromantics and Asexuals who are pretty happy with familial and platonic relationships and don't require romantic connections.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:39 PM
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But it doesn't necessarily have to be romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:06 PM
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70 year old women are having children through IVF. I think those people will be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 04:29 PM
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So you're okay sharing your partner with other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 04:20 PM
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What hypocrisy? I didn't say Bill Gates is a good man. I was just asking if he was convicted as a pedophile? I told you what I read about Epstein scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:58 PM
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You can laugh buddy. It's good for health. I don't associate to any pill. Also I don't think men and women are much different which I don't think red pill believes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:41 PM
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I am not in the US so I am not updated about the happenings over there. But I had no idea that Bill Gates was convicted as a pedophile? I know Epstein did but I didn't know there were proofs against Bill Gates? All I knew was lots of people associated with Epstein didn't know about his activities regarding the pedophilia.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:36 PM
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Did his name come out in any controversy related to Epstein? Many people who visited his Island or worked with him didn't even know what he was upto.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:21 PM
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Her post title is how do redpillers explain that engagement. She's just talking the way men talk when someone is dating a younger women. It's literally the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:54 PM
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I commented on your cheating comment rest of your information doesn't concern me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:51 PM
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The thing is we can't say what people are doing in terms of dating because dating is extremely personal to people and we don't know what's working for an individual and what's not. Therefore categorising people in terms of that isn't right and will not give right results,.of course sometimes it will make sense like shooting arrow in the dark but overall it's something people need to figure out themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:50 PM
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You're paranoid he'll get cheated on he's not. He's fine. You can't have opinion over someone's personal life when you know nothing about them. 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:46 PM
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But I have seen men doing the same and bringing psychology and biology when some of them can't even differentiate between the two. OP just asked RP ideology to explain that example.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:45 PM
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I wish you recover from your paranoia and be happy like other people. All the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:41 PM
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But who's stopping you from providing and protecting? Just because someone earns themselves doesn't mean you can't also provide for them. Spouses protect each other anyway so I don't see how anything you want is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:40 PM
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Not everyone's paranoid like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:36 PM
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It's the same when people use examples of men dating younger as an attempt to disprove that many men(even High value) like dating/marrying women in their own age range. Any man starts dating younger and other men start throwing words around like "the wall" etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:32 PM
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Why are you giving them facts and logic they don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:27 PM
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So we also don't know the sex lives of the young women with older men they could be sleeping around too and enjoying the benefits that come with a Sugar Daddy and since we don't know anyone's personal life and why they made a choice they did we can't have correct trends like RP claims to have. The men who have mistresses their wives aren't just waiting at home from them they are sleeping around too so it's pretty much the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:25 PM
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Bill Gates is also dating someone in his own age range. Mark Zuckerberg is in his age range. Snapchat's CEO's wife is 8 years older than him. Bernard Arnault's wife is also in his age range not a 20 year old. Larry Page and his wife are also in the same age range. He's 50 she's 43 or 44 I guess not 18 year old virgin or something. Now the arrangement or pass do you think their wives aren't getting that pass with younger men? Lots of rich women also seek younger men. Secondly not all rich men and…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:08 PM
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Madonna also dates men in their 20's. Lots of women in Hollywood have men as partners who are younger than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:01 PM
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Bill Gates is also dating someone in his own age range. Infact how many 50 something men are with 20 something women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:00 PM
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The women who are knowingly sleeping with men who fuck around are fucking around themselves as well. Chad who is sleeping with multiple women isn't the only guy those women are sleeping with. They are also sleeping with other men in rotation. It's an experimental phase in young people's life it's not a big deal. Edit: My comment stirred the pot I guess. I meant a lot of people experiment when they are young and then settle in their lives later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 11:54 AM
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How many years since you have been a woman? Because if you are not your point is irrelevant. Anyway keep trolling..I will ignore your nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:27 PM
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I know you're trolling. Have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 08:02 PM
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Lol women aren't designed to serve anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:38 PM
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More men means more resources and more protection especially if there are children involved from each. Heard about Paritable paternity?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:33 PM
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More men would be more security though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:24 PM
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I am Indian you think women here don't get choice in arranged marriages? Even in arranged marriages we have options to pick from. It's like online dating but with parents involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 06:14 PM
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😂😂😂👏
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:12 PM
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Which character/actor/star/athelete or any famous personality will you consider a Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:45 PM
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Looks like men have always believed some fairytale version of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:40 PM
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The point is if they are desperate enough they can go for the available options but choosing to harass and rape someone is all about exerting power over someone who is weaker than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:34 PM
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It's always about power if it was sexual desires being met they could have gone for a prostitute. Prostitutes of all price range are available. Harassing or raping someone is always about power.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:15 PM
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I think they meant is harassment doesn't come from being horny but abuse of power. The idea of harassing, raping someone is abuse of power you have over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:26 AM
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Lol my boyfriend and I met each other's friends and family first before having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:03 AM
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Depends on the age if they are babies then probably D. If the child has grown up then option B with little more steps, I'll see how my biological child is bonded with this other family if the child is very loved and taken care of I'll not disrupt their entire life and let them live with the other family, but I'll always make sure they can come to me and that I love them just as much. Also it will be next to impossible for me to give up a child I raised since day 1 so I won't ever trade them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 02:02 PM
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I hate it. I feel extremely bad after rejecting someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:07 AM
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Well atleast Sheldon was a genius can't say the same for the sub here lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 04:21 AM
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You keep on making stuff up as if they are real things lol. Her cheating and his cheating are equal assumptions. There's nothing as Alpha or beta men LMAO. It's just made up nonsense. Also who said he was groping someone non consensually? The pattern being hypergamy by women. Hypergamy is not a scientific fact. Most people date/marry within their leagues. According to your logic all divorces initiated by women could be because hypergamy. When there are several reasons for a divorce. Even in this…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 02:53 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:49 PM
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If we are talking about her relationship then her husband was allegedly seen "cheating" as well. He was seen groping women but he's not popular as a PM hence it didn't make the news. You are assuming who she'll get into relationship with. You don't know shit. Lol. I'm sorry you have a hard time with pattern recognition. Must be hard Lol what pattern? Yo don't know about any other relationships she had. You have assumed a pattern here. And yet women couldn't come to terms with it. That just makes…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:45 PM
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None of what you rambled on proves that she is going for more hypergamous partner. She's in Finland and unless she's dating people outside her country international opinions doesn't matter. Being a one term PM does not make you the most powerful person in the country LMFAO. The Government is led by the Prime Minister, considered practically the most powerful single office holder in Finland and often the leader of the largest political party. The Government is composed of 11 ministries plus the P…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:27 PM
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As a PM of Finland she was extremely powerful in Finland practically the most powerful person in Finland. She was with a Finnish guy(athelete) for 19 years even after being a PM. The other guy who is being referred to here is also a Finnish artist who is again not in higher social status than her. It doesn't matter what the international world thinks the context is Finland and Finnish people. Together for 19 years, married for 3 and divorced soon after gaining more social status so she can go fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:02 PM
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Since you went ahead and checked my account I'd also like to tell you I give benefit of doubt to men too. Secondly no one becomes PM because of "good looks". Lol . Most people don't care about some Finnish PM. Finland's people care about their PM. She had power in Finland and married a Finnish man had a daughter with him. She was with him since 19 years. If "hypergamy" argument is true then she wouldn't have married him in the first place especially after becoming a PM and being in higher social…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:03 PM
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We don't know who dumped who. While I hope the ex h isn't a cuck, that isn't a given. She could have just gotten tired of him. Considering how he says they're best friends and he's still so grateful for a woman who was cheating on him, logic dictates that I put more weight on the latter. Again you think she cheated if her husband hasn't stated then we don't know their boundaries in their relationship they could be in an open arrangement. She had power in Finland right? She was powerful in Finlan…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 03:34 PM
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In Finland she is one of the most powerful people. Being a PM is not easy. Secondly do you know who she's dating next that you called ot hypergamous? You said hypergamy won right? So you would know who she's dating next? Wasn't her ex husband also an ex professional football player? Secondly I have just seen the dance video not the one you said and if she has cheated on her husband then good for him that they are getting divorced. This also means that maybe he dumped her which is against the hyp…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 03:18 PM
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I have just seen the dance video that was circulated at that time. I have not seen anything else but if it was inappropriate for her husband then it's okay that they are getting divorced. Secondly that still doesn't prove the hypergamy argument given.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 02:15 PM
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They were together for 19 years. She was a teenager when they got together, people can grow and change. How was it a video of her cheating? She was just dancing as far as I remember. They're still close friends apparently so they're doing okay. Mother hypergamy is undefeated. What hypergamy? Do you know the other man she is with after leaving her husband? Who's going to be more powerful than a PM of a country? She'll most likely be more powerful than any guy she dates. How is this hypergamy then…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:46 AM
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A woman in India could make the record books as one of the oldest ever to give birth. Daljinder Kaur, who's believed to be at least 70 years old, gave birth to a son named Arman (meaning "wish" in Hindi) on April 19. The baby was the first for Kaur and her 79-year-old husband, Mohinder Singh Gill, after nearly five decades of marriage. 2nd example Seventy-year-old Jivunben Rabari from western Gujarat state in India revealed that she recently gave birth to a healthy baby boy, Lalo, who was concei…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:22 AM
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A woman in India could make the record books as one of the oldest ever to give birth. Daljinder Kaur, who's believed to be at least 70 years old, gave birth to a son named Arman (meaning "wish" in Hindi) on April 19. The baby was the first for Kaur and her 79-year-old husband, Mohinder Singh Gill, after nearly five decades of marriage. 2nd example Seventy-year-old Jivunben Rabari from western Gujarat state in India revealed that she recently gave birth to a healthy baby boy, Lalo, who was concei…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:21 AM
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Well in polyandrous societies that's not happening at large because culturally they can't be a father to two different women's children. because those men are also fucking more than one woman This just proves my first claim that it's more or less the same for both men and women because both men and women are fucking around. Humans aren't that different from each other. We can also see the same phenomenon from our closest species that is bonobos.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:13 AM
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Yes it is. Polyandrous societies existed as well. South America tribes have paritable paternity. Men's genitals are built the way they are because when they push inside a woman's vagina they push out semen of other men which means tha women used to sleep around as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:07 AM
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. Our natural default is obviously polygyny Nope it's polygamy not polygyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:57 AM
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Paritable paternity has one woman with multiple men. Those multiple men are considered father of one child. Women were diagnosed with hypersexuality more than men. The mere existence of polyandrous societies means that there are cultures where women are more promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:41 AM
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That's your opinion but it doesn't change anything. Majority of population cares about misogyny and works to remove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:36 AM
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it. And with all these constant stories about abusive ex, I am sorry but women have abundance of options, to the point of having too many, and out of all those options they seem to constantly pick manipulative, narcissistic guys who will later become their exes? If that's not a preference, I don't know what is. More men are narcissists than women so there are chances that more women get into relationship with narcissistic men than men getting into relationship with narcissistic women and men get…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:34 AM
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Well misogyny affects women so it's not like it has nothing to do with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:20 AM
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There is not a single culture now or in the past where women have been, on average, more sexually promiscuous than men. Culture plays a role but can’t overcome our biological limits There has been. The existence of polyandrous cultures is the proof of that. South American tribes have paritable paternity where one child is supposed to have many fathers. In the Victorian era, for example, mental health researchers argued that women were much more sexual than men, and women were more likely to be d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 12:10 AM
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A lot of it has to do with our cultural conditioning and with how men and women express their sexual drives. All religions controlled female sex drives none of them controlled men's. This has greatly affected how women perceive sex and how society perceives women who like sex. The way the numbers of women are increasing in getting paid sexual services,. pornography, casual sex we can see how little changes have brought about changes in how Women express themselves sexually. Look at the sub how m…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:07 PM
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Try for a rich older sugar mommy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 06:09 PM
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This makes so much sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:18 PM
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Kings used to capture multiple women from other kingdoms. Women didn't have much choice there. Queens used to have their own boytoys, queens were cheating quite often.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:16 PM
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It's a WebMD article that is also medically reviewed it also has also stated the studies. The researchers in this article are the ones whose field of study is this. So I wouldn't say they are"wrong". Sure there must be a difference since sexual drives are a wide range but it's not drastically different. It's more or less the same. Both genders might express it differently but that's about it. Secondly female sex buyers have increased. "She said that the rise in escorts advertising for sexual ser…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:44 PM
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Ever hear the saying “if there are 10 men interested in a woman, she will pick the best one; if there are 10 women interested in a man, he will sleep with all 10” No I don't know of this saying. This also isn't true. If those 10 men intrested are actually interesting then there will be women(promiscuous) who will pick the best one while keeping the 9 as orbiters and they will not let them go completely. And if 10 women were interested in one man ,promiscuous men will also choose the best one and…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 10:53 AM
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You suggest she should have confronted "men" who were harassing her alone? So that something more wrong could have happened? She did call them out in her own way, she posted it on a social media platform. More women will see it, tell her what to do next and it may create a ripple effect from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:32 AM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:05 AM
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You're contradicting yourself. You only said that train stations aren't safe for women and even men so you know harassers are present there now you are saying it's pointless to call out harassment when the people engaging in it are nowhere to be seen? She saw it she called it out more women will see it they will call it out, men who are allies will call it out. Once it's gains momentum it will be mainstream and people will work to make it better for everyone who feels unsafe. That's how things u…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:05 AM
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I didn't ask you to call it out she was calling out the harassment and she's right to do so. More women will call out the harassment. If it would be talked in mainstream media it will be seen as a serious issue. Female entitlement is like magical force that solves problems lmao Who ever said women aren't funny lol Yeah you think women have gotten rights they have today if they didn't feel they were entitled to it and fought for those rights? What do you think first wave feminism was?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 02:34 AM
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Good for you but harassment is still wrong and people need to call it out. You don't know her situation as to why she's using the train and not any other services available. What you're doing is victim blaming and that's not helpful in anyway. If women didn't feel entitled to have rights they wouldn't have got the rights they have today, so if women don't feel entitled to safe places they will not get it so they should be entitled to it and soon enough that problem willl be solved too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 02:14 AM
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If you call not being harassed entitlement then I hope all women have this entitlement and call out this enough that the authorities have to take notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 01:56 AM
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I didn't say anyone has to protect her I just said it was harassment. Harassing someone is wrong and if you disagree with that part we have different value systems.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 01:37 AM
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Why? Train stations are only for men? Or do these men have rights to harass?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 01:26 AM
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This was just Harassment though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 01:01 AM
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They aren't liking the same kind of men though. The men that are being liked are different from each other. Infact women are the ones who have experimented with their own gender more. Women have a lot of options usually and they pick the best while the kind of men who are ready to sleep with anything are either the ones who'll take whatever they are getting because they don't have other options or the other kind who'll use the woman as sextoy and wouldn't even remember their faces. Men who have …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 12:32 AM
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They do just with better men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 11:08 PM
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Essentially what I was trying to get at is that money does not have the status that it once used to have Well because it was just men who could earn good earlier now women can do it as well so they don't see it as something unachievable unless ofcourse it's a billionaire or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 04:03 PM
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Also you mentioned a partner is a litmus test of your status. So let's say someone's status increased after getting married and having kids should they leave their spouses for a better option because the spouse isn't at your status anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 03:08 PM
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So the women you mentioned in your post aren't good at these things? Are they not bringing equivalent value that the men are bringing? How are the men? Are they only earning good or do they have any other good qualities? I mean how are you judging their leagues if that's the right word.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 03:06 PM
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I am Indian. Arranged marriages have changed a lot in India it's just parents setting you up rather than friends but most women have choice in their partners.
/r/AllPillDebate07/05/23 01:19 PM
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What has your shaming changed in women's lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 09:14 AM
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The claim was that women don't like novelty or variance in sex when that's not true they just want better men for it. Men have lower standards because most of them can't afford to have high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 09:09 AM
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What do you consider as an average women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 08:30 AM
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This was hilarious and it's true people can't tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:17 AM
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People have to eat diet food even if they don't like and then they develop a taste for it. It's their free will to choose something they don't like but it's essential for their body. You can have an instinctual response to kil another man but yoy know it's wrong so you will supress that desire. That's pretty much what free will is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 03:16 AM
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But you choose to not pursue a person you're attracted to if you value your relationship with your partner or if the other person is in a relationship. People can find things tasty but at the same time can develop an allergy to it so they will suppress the desire to eat it. Free will is all about action.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 03:09 AM
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But you don't act on it that's free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 03:01 AM
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It can be a combination of both women were raped and women were sleeping around. The point still remains that it's not like they were made to be monogamous and men were made to be polygamous. Secondly there are cultures in SA where we have paritable paternity and it's consensual.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 02:37 AM
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Some men sure have low standards and will have sex with anything but I have seen women like this as well. I knew a woman who wanted to sleep with atleast one guy to a city she's travelling to at that time. Women love variance and novelty as well. I read a study on infidelity where maximum number of women cheated on their spouses because the relationship had become monotonous and they claimed they still love their husbands. This is well illustrated by an experiment where a female propositioned ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 02:34 AM
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Free will is about acting on the Instincts. I can get attracted to a good looking man but because of my free will I will not act on it because I am in a relationship and that's more important. Secondly there are many times I have wanted to buy something but I didn't and I suppressed that desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:36 PM
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Different tribes worked differently many tribes saw sex as a social glue as well. There are tribes in South America that have a concept of paritable paternity. Partible paternity or shared paternity is a cultural conceptualization of paternity according to which a child is understood to have more than one father; for example, because of an ideology that sees pregnancy as the cumulative result of multiple acts of sexual intercourse
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:31 PM
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Okay and that's your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:25 PM
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Apparently a lot of men say that they cannot even stay loyal to one woman – apparently it’s in their ‘instincts’ to have as sex as many women as possible. Honestly this is so wierd because both men and women were sleeping around. It wasn't just the men who were spreading the seeds it was also the women who were increasing the chances of getting impregnated by sleeping around. Men genitalia is formed in a way that it pushes out semen of any other men from a woman's vagina so they weren't programm…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:14 PM
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Lol what
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 11:38 AM
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This is such a shitty take. A lot of high value men are married btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 08:36 AM
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Are traditional men not normal? This men have no experience with women and and a lot of them are virgins or in their first relationship, this men if granted the opportunity to cheat but come home to their wife would gladly take the offer I am sure there are men like you described but men here keep talking about getting a wife and children, so their priorities in life are a little different than men who would sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:40 AM
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Well there are demisexual and asexual men as well. There are traditional men whose priority is not casual sex. So ots different for different people. Secondly when women do the same thing have their fun and then settle down in monogamy they are called names here on the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:26 AM
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Wives could do the same thing infact isn't this a popular notion on the sub Alpha fucks and beta buxx.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:25 AM
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Even then there are significant number of men who have options but still choose to be monogamous. It just depends on the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:42 AM
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Even then there are significant number of men who have options but still choose to be monogamous. It just depends on the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:42 AM
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And that's why "harems" won't work lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 05:19 PM
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Didn't say they aren't but women were not breadwinners at all some years back.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:09 AM
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Nikola Tesla, Issac Newton died virgins. People who are committed to inventing things will do it regardless. People who are high achievers are that because they liked that profession. They weren't average people anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 01:15 PM
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Being respectful with being confident will work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:50 AM
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About 16% of wives are the breadwinners in their families, while another 29% earn roughly the same amount as their husbands, according to the analysis, which is based on several sources of data including the U.S. Census Bureau and the American Time Use Survey. This is how gender roles are merging.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:42 AM
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You're not getting the point here. You can be empathetic, respectful without being spineless. Being spineless is a negative trait, being a pushover is a negative trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:33 AM
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Just like women are sharing the gender role and splitting the bills and also being the provider that was also mentioned in OP's comment. You mentioned women splitting bill as giving up on gender roles so men helping in the chores is them giving up on the gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:03 AM
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I think a lot of people are confusing being wholesome with being spineless. People aren't usually attracted to a spineless person. Men shouldn't be vulgar or disrespectful to women. They shouldn't be spineless as well. Don't let people walk all over you. Have confidence and be respectful that's what usually works. I assume men wouldn't like if their wives are spineless and cannot stand up for herself or his children.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:01 AM
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Responsibilities also includes household chores, being an involved parent which according to archaic gender roles was a woman's job so when OP says sharing responsibilities this also comes under it. Therefore men are also giving up the gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 09:53 AM
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"Determining size dimorphism from the fossil record is fraught with debate due to interpretations that vary across researchers (Lockwood et al., 2007; Gordon et al., 2008; Reno et al., 2010; Plavcan, 2012). However, the general consensus is that dimorphism was greater in our past and has diminished over time. This is often interpreted to suggest that male mating competition decreased in intensity over the course of hominin evolution in conjunction with a rise in monogamy. When this transition oc…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 09:44 AM
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Yesterday a man initiated a conversation with me on reddit in my Dms. It was pretty friendly conversation he wanted to ask some questions. I was liking the conversation up until he became vulgar, disrespectful and started asking inappropriate questions that's when I blocked him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 09:05 AM
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That doesn't last long once they know the actual person a lot of those women aren't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 08:29 AM
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Wait till she introduces men for her harem. That'll be more of the future for lads.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 05:21 AM
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Loll. Yes seeing how many people have turned into ex Mormon sure you will out reproduce. A man who has more than one wife is not worthy for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 04:32 AM
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Humans fall somewhere in-between gorillas and gibbons as we are moderately dimorphic which implies a genetic basis for a moderate degree of polygyny How is this implied? It could also imply a spectrum from monogamy to polygamy. If we fall in between then it means we have no set patterns rather a spectrum. Only if we fall on exact extremes we will be a purely polygamous or polyandrous society. Partible Paternity also exists across tribes in South America. Secondly if humans are naturally polygyno…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:54 AM
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Because women had no power and with a powerful man comes power, a power they can use to their benefits and have children who will be powerful. Culture was also different at that time an average man could also have two wives if he gets a chance so if you have to live in Polygyny then why not choose a person who gives you more benefits. Also " orbiters" were present for these women as well. They had their side pieces.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:21 AM
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It's already happening for some women just like how some men sleep around with multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:16 AM
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This is what happens when women are controlled. Women aren't controlled outside your community though. Every religion that talks about women's submission to their husbands also allow Polygyny. Polygamous relationships might happen with both men and women having several partners Polygyny ain't happening, the entirety of it is based in submission which majority of women won't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:15 AM
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You're ruining OP's fantasies by asking questions. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:04 AM
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Most of the times even the famous women don't stay with their cheating partners after getting the benefits. Either they sleep around too or they leave very very less number of women will look the other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:03 AM
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The question is why are men checking out? The answer is simple there not much benefit to belonging to society. What benefits does the society owe them? Whatever services they provide to the society they are paid for it. What else do they think society should do for them? The reason why I said women traded men for a boss and government and is more of negative on women is.l because you become slaves to consumerism 80-90 of the debt is held by women in the states. Men don't gave this issue so the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 02:48 AM
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Years is a stretch
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 09:56 PM
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Most Women agree they rather would want romantic relationship with one man, but next best option is just sharing the guy or staying alone. Sharing the guy is a valid option to a sizable part of women. Who are these women who are okay sharing men when they weren't even poly to begin with and wanted one man. I need to see some solid reasearch here. The entire post is good fiction. Why do people think that Queens never cheated on the kings or never had boytoys. Even Victorian women had boytoys. Pol…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 09:39 PM
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Any stats on this that they do not care because as a woman I haven't met women who didn't care about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 09:32 PM
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A percentage of men not getting girlfriends or wives is society's problem? No one is doing anything for free. If some men leave people will find other alternatives to survive. Women got Independence from a man only to be dependent on a boss and government Men are also dependant on a boss and government in that sense. Why should you have authority without the responsibility Who's running away from responsibility? Women aren't responsible? What irresponsible behaviour are we about here? Men are no…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 09:19 PM
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I hate seeing my friends and family fail. I love them and it's hard to see them sad and disheartened.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:11 PM
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They are less likely to get HPV( which can cause cancer) from oral sex if their sexual partner uses a condom even during oral sex. I mean there are flavoured condoms available. Secondly men can also get the same if they are giving oral.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 07:30 PM
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Celebrities have millions to spend in that. Most people barely can pay for their own family. Even then there are significant number of stepfamilies. Even families that aren't rich in anyway. observed most people who adopt usually do when they already have biological children or when they cannot have biological children. In both options, adoption seems like a secondary choice. Step parents are OK but it is OK to love a child of the person you love, but it will never be like your child, and stepfa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 06:20 PM
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Believe me, no smart man wants to raise a kid that does not even have his DNA. They only tolerate that if the woman is obsessed with children or something. I am sorry but this isn't true there are so many stepfathers even the so called HVM are stepfathers and are raising/raised their wives children. Matt Damon, Steven Spielberg, Penn Badgely, Kurt Russel, Ben Affleck, Daniel Craig to name some. Men who have adopted children, Hugh Jackman, Evan McGregor, Ty Burrell, Scott Hamilton etc. So men who…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 06:04 PM
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Not all men, but most men. It is not that men don't have other motivations, but since only women can give those things, then women become more important for them. I don't know but there are so many women always complaining about their husbands that they don't prioritise them they don't care. If women were so important to men why would they not value the ones they get. It is not that men don't have other motivations, but since only women can give those things, then women become more important for…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 04:13 PM
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It's sad to think that everything in some men's lives revolve around sex and romantic relationship. I mean one needs money for a standard of living. You eat good food, you go out and explore, you learn new skills, get new hobbies, have friends, parents, siblings they can love and spend money on, they can have pets who they love and care, they can adopt or foster children. Their taxes will also help old people like their parents. Good infrastructure is important for men as well. Some men will als…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:44 PM
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I didn't write the comment you quoted although it's true for me too. I have no idea what you're trying to convey.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:27 PM
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I like the society. I have everything I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:23 PM
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There is no rule here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:19 PM
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Lol you think you do. Women who know what slutshaming is won't utter things to their friends they don't want out. We all know one friend can tell another friend or slip it up by mistake. So most women will not share everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:17 PM
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So women get rights and autonomy and men lose their shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:15 PM
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I have seen otherwise but okay plus she can find two three men from top% for rotation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 01:06 PM
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This also explains the singleness among 63% of young men who have such long dry spells. I am a little confused men here on the sub said that women will rather stay single than go for men they are not attracted to because they no longer need a man to survive. So even if she's sleeping or not sleeping with the top % of guys the percentage of young men who are single or sexless will more or less remain the same. Secondly if a woman likes casual sex she'll also have some guys in rotation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 12:29 PM
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For laughs right? I don't know of women who will sleep with the guy who uses this line.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 11:24 AM
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Then learn to spot it. You're not entitled to help or understanding from anybody. Did I say I am getting manipulated? Lol They're wrong. I've only been here a couple days and haven't seen that so you could be lying. Stay here for a while you'll see it pretty soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:40 PM
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You are the one putting a value judgment on it as opposed to just looking at it from a functionality perspective. Well because humans have value. I would say the best relationships function when the woman has more desire than the man because that is a particularly rare dynamic. It doesn’t mean someone is being taken advantage of, it’s just not 50/50 equal. I have read the exact opposite from women but the point is both partners need to be equally invested in each other, sure there will be days o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:09 AM
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I mean not using someone's insecurity for your own advantage especially one you claim to love should be more of a predictable response.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 10:03 AM
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Then they should have mentioned that it's good for a relationship if both the partners are a little insecure. If you are only banking on one person's( here woman) insecurity for a good relationship you are taking advantage of their insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 08:31 AM
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So taking advantage of someone's insecurity for your benefit is a healthy relationship to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:09 AM
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Even if they do criminal is the Nigerian prince not the person who sent the money. If caught the Nigerian prince will be punished the person who sent the money will just be called gullible or naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:07 AM
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Men over here keep talking about betabux and keep saying women manipulate men into these arrangements. So I am pretty sure all genders are being manipulated, you individually don't get manipulated but people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:05 AM
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60 year old getting a 18 year old is extremely rare. Usually it's a Sugar baby kind of arrangement or he manipulates a fresh adult woman into sex. The former is a business transaction and the latter is creepy and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:35 PM
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There are animals who have kids with many females too. Should men start taking advice from them too? Should they behave like those animals or should be treated like them? What you mentioned in your post is a common advice go to gym, work on yourself, make something out of your life, be presentable, have confidence, women do this too. This is just adulthood. This how people are supposed to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:39 PM
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Maybe one day. I am pretty optimistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:24 PM
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Sure but it depends on the hours. If she's working equal hours as you then you need to put equal hours as her at home as well. Her career took a hit because you both jointly decided to birth a child, it was for the both of you. So it's absolutely fair to contribute at home equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:23 PM
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Not exactly. West isn't the best. It's way too individualistic in my opinion. I would just like an equitable world that has a balance between collectivism and individualism.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:21 PM
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She's pregnant she cannot work more around the house than you can she's literally growing a human(your child). Secondly mothers are more involved with their children and do more chores especially SAHM. Many moms go back to work a couple months after the baby which puts both the partners in the same position again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:19 PM
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I don't think that's true women also have pick me's who have internalised misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:16 PM
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Well women look for men who is financially stable if they are going to have kids because she'll probably not work during pregnancy so someone who can take care. It's not just for her but for both their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:15 PM
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People are demanding equality in opportunities amd equatibility in norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:12 PM
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Maybe for some it is a choice and for some it isn't. Usually if the man earns more the woman stays back and takes care of children, men even expect that women stay back with the children, many men on this sub have the same thought process as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:11 PM
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But it's not feminists responsibility to fight for men they are already fighting for women and the oppression that they face. They do talk about men being harmed by Patriarchy but men are more in power in Patriarchy they can fight for themselves. They aren't stopping men from getting the help they need. They encourage it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:09 PM
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I meant nationwide for all kinds of women not just Single childfree women. These figures are just about single childfree women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:07 PM
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I think they just talked about single men bs single women not a national average?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:05 PM
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I have shared the latest data from 2022. Yours is from 2010 I don't know how much of it is correct..I'll go with the latest study
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:02 PM
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They are demanding their rights. I don't understand why should they ask it for men? Why can't men demand these things for themselves? If they actively deny men getting homeless shelters, education etc then it will be anti feminist but they are demanding for their rights what they think they need. Men should ask about theirs. Black people demand about their community, native Americans donot for theirs, immigrants do it for theirs. If they actively stop someone else that's problematic but why will…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:00 PM
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Also lol that I have to make my life harder for a past that I wasn’t apart of. I understand that but men were/are privileged because of that past and were so accustomed to the privilege that these changes feel like oppression. Plus to think that will stop when “ok we had enough we are equal” will happen instead of people moving goalposts to have life easier for them is an insane take It's not. Feminists came into power and demanded things. So it did happen. US data: Nationally, women under 30 wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:55 PM
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No it is actually impossible because It would require everyone to be one the same place and work at the same pace it would also require them to give when they have more that's not happening I am sorry but I think you are confusing equality and equatibility. No it's not because they make the claim that is specific to patriarchy and that because men were solely in charge that's why we have problem not that we should make everyone equal We and our ancestors lived in a Patriarchal society so we are …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:48 PM
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Women don't outearn men as of now. They were oppressed for centuries and are being given an equitable treatment to compensate for the past. I don't know how much men are disadvantaged in this area in the US so I cannot comment on that but it it will be extreme then I am sure some steps will be taken to make it equitable for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:45 PM
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Decisions? Feminists demand equal rights and opportunities what decisions are they making?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:34 PM
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There are parts of it that were oppressive but I don't think the point in general was to be oppressive to be stable , the many children part isn't something you can control , and marriage in general wa arranged for most people to bring families together it wasnt don't for love , marital rape I agree as for the surname and living with the man's family it was a cost of marriage, i also don't think any of these thing is unique to partriahcy a matriachy can have the same archaic roles you mentioned,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:25 PM
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Social norms isn’t just invented by men or people in power. If that were the case all cultures in the US would be the same which isn’t the case. They are formed by people in power of that culture and most of them were men therefore many cultures were patriarchal. They talk about it but do nothing about it and make men feel like it’s their fault for their problems. There are therapists for men, there are all sorts of avenues for men. They need to use it. Men need to help themselves first only the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:19 PM
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You don't age? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:10 PM
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How do we have a system that benefits only a small percentage of men that we created? Sounds like bullshit. Wasn't it men who created societal norms and were the lawmakers? Aren't the people on the top majority of men. Men are in power. They made the system. Men do need that, but which group is quick to shut down a discussion about that I don't know. But feminists largely talk about men being affected by Patriarchy as well. More women are in college, but I promise you they won’t cut funding for …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:07 PM
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They blame the system that men created not the particular man in problem. A man in problem needs to seek help from therapists, need to have better coping mechanisms, need to develop good familial and platonic support system.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 05:00 PM
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It's not true. Feminists usually talk about mother's role in a man's emotional problems. Other toxic women are also called out. Men's issues need to be taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:58 PM
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never said they were but the way people phrase , make it seem like a conscious effort to prevent women from succeed they don't account for the fact lack of birth control didn't allow women to have as much sex with consequences or lack of abortion to prevent child birth , they don't account for the fact that men were more easily mobile than women before modern methods of transport, it's simply men prevent women , women could have done it but men stopped them , it had nothing to do with the fact t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:51 PM
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Ohh thank you for explaining
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:39 PM
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I think we can create better form of response for men mental health , create communities for men to come together and bond properly in schools and uni , this would greatly improve mental health , we should also address people toxic attitudes to men seeking help meaning people should respond better to men when they are in distress I completely agree with this. Whenever people talk about men being affected by Patriarchy all the points that you have mentioned are addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:39 PM
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I am sorry I didn't get you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:33 PM
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Also how were women prevented if they were just as equal The physical strength of men was/is more, women gave birth to children and several children so they were usually homebound. So women and men were equal in intelligence but they didn't have equal opportunities because of the society at that time. Now this doesn't mean women didn't do anything substantial in development of society, some even pretended to be men so that they were allowed to contribute in male dominated spheres. Later when wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:32 PM
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Madonna and Cher are 64 and 76. They are not fucking. You are assuming that. I shared links where Madonna talked about her sex life. I shared studies where it was proven that women even in their 80's are having sex. So your point is not true. Anger is a male emotion. But not an emotion that causes arousal. Women are all about emotion positive and negative. Most men have all emotions. I can't talk about you though. I don't think neither are silver foxes I also talked about George Clooney who went…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:08 PM
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Society wasn't uplifting straight young men most of the time while neglecting women , gay people maybe and being trans wasn't a thing until the 90s , you couldn't even diagnose it as a thing , now uplifting would mean they didn't work or provide of anything of substance for society, men built most of society, most of the advancement that society has is as a result of men , society isn't built for men ,men built society whats why it seems like it's developed for them because they are the ones res…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 04:03 PM
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What help are you suggesting? Apart from working on themselves what exactly can men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:56 PM
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But the female libido has not changed (well the pill fucked things up) there is precedent of 20 year olds going for silver foxes. Good looking on both ends of course. How many 20 year old women are married to silver foxes. I consider George Clooney as the best silver fox out there and he married a very successful woman in her mid 30's. Bill gates, Jeff Bezos are dating in their age range. But emotions rule all. You think men aren't emotional? Do you even read this sub? Also Madonna and Cher ain'…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 03:41 PM
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According to the article 61% of the age gap couples had women as the older spouse so it wasn't meaningless. In the 60s women aspired to marry their boss. Because in 60's women did not have much power. Times were different. Because women have a choice. They window shop. So they have the option to only pick the most attractive men. So they are lookist given the choice as you have stated. But they have soooo many options they still go for silver fox chad Silver fox Chads are very rare. Some women d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 02:48 PM
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The main difference is that men are lookist at our core. Sure there are some girls here that are lookist too but they are exceptions. Women are 100% about their emotions. Never more and never less Then why do men over here excessively talk about being attractive and say things like face> everything else,that woman only go for attractive looking men,that women have no emotions, aren't romantic, don't love or like their partners and are empty shells. I have read this multiple times on this subredd…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 02:27 PM
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So you aren't against having friends you are against having people hit on either one of you. That's fine. Friends aren't usually hitting on each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:25 PM
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Hand holding, hugs, peck on the cheek all this I am cool with. I wait for more intimate stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:23 PM
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If i allow intergender friendship women flirt all the time and hit on me. It is genetics (and now also wealth). How do ypu think my gf will feel if she constantly is seeing this? On the other hand we live a high age gap relation and she is a natural 10. How do you think i should feel as she is being hit on all the times? People can hit on me and they can hit on my partner, but we shut that down. If a friend is hitting on either one of us knowing that we are in a relationship they are no longer a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:21 PM
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A woman is also insecure if she has problems with a man's friendships or familial relationships and same goes for men. As an individual you can decide your boundaries and if the other person is not agreeing with those said boundaries you can leave but not all boundaries you set are going to be rational and will be seen illogical, you can still have them though no problems there. Having problems with male friends is insecure in my opinion and I will call it such. I have seen men being insecure if…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:51 AM
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Good for you if you don't require platonic relationships. Not everyone is like you and they aren't cheating on their partners just because they have friends of opposite gender. Secondly if you don't care about what others think of you why are you concerned about the word insecure here. I personally need familial and platonic relationships apart from a romantic relationship. Who can your gf hang out with one on one ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:29 AM
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You can say you are not insecure but your behaviour will suggest otherwise and people will call it that. Don't guys have a guys night? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:20 AM
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He can do whatever he wants in terms of his boundaries with his partner but his experience isn't universal and something that all men share hence can be seen as insecure behaviour. One knows that they can be shot by anyone at anytime especially in US so should people stop going out? They will be called paranoid if they do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 08:16 AM
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His experience isn't universal so it can be called insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 07:58 AM
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I am not going to have sex with a guy be it HVM or whatever ( don't believe in these terms anyway) unless we are in a committed relationship and I will wait because I need to develop an emotional intimate bond with the said guy before I sleep with him. If he thinks I am not interested because I asked him to wait and leaves me over it then it's actually great because in my head all that guy wanted was to use me for sex and I am glad I didn't give him that. He can then find someone who has same ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 07:56 AM
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There is even a bigger proof how those friendships arent genuine, realtalk, how many respectable Man that can easily pull women do you know that have female friends which they hangout often? I dont know one George Clooney and Julia Roberts are very good friends. George Clooney can get any woman he likes. Kate Winslet and Leonardo DiCaprio are pretty great friends too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 07:45 AM
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So you will not let her get killed or attacked by taking a bullet for her but you will make her life miserable everyday that she'll feel unloved, overworked and want to kill herself? Good partners should do both things you stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:35 PM
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You live life for other people? You seem to care more about how people will see you and your happiness but not how happy you will feel yourself. Also wouldn't your wife cheating on you will be embarassing for you. It will affect 'status'. It's a risk for you as well apart from the money risks that you'll face after divorcing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:05 PM
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Now add women working in spreadsheet jobs or other jobs that are only slightly more valuable, so no wonder why those men get harems. Who has harems in the real world currently? Please share some examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:11 PM
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You think gold diggers aren't cheating on their husbands?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:10 PM
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Yes fertility declines for both sexes with age, but men and women are not the same in their decline. The sexes are different and most healthy elderly men can father healthy young children whereas elderly women cannot Well men who are older in age mostly have to get some sort of fertility treatment to have children. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10099611/Indian-woman-child-70-one-worlds-oldest-new-mothers.html A woman at 70 became a mother due to IVF. https://www.cnn.com/2019/09/06/hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:28 PM
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You think women don't like variety? None of what you say is ever going to happen anyway. Jealousy is not going anywhere. Even animals have it that's why they have mate guarding techniques.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:15 PM
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They mean not all men want it. You want it. Stigma will always be there because harems are exploitative.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:13 PM
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It's stupid and kinda exploitative then.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:05 PM
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The men have no say in women's sexual life. Queens used to cheat as well. If their favourite female wants to sleep with anyone they will. They can't stop that. You think having so many women for one man will not cause killings lol? Do you even know humans.😂😂 Harems were exploitative by nature most women will not be a part of it. No matter what you do most women will always have an ick if their man cheats or goes for multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:04 PM
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Well firstly we didn't meet online so it wasn't a situation where anyone was looking to hook up. We started out as friends but the attraction was mutual and pretty evident. We did kiss and made out a little but I was very clear that I'll have sex only when I'll be comfortable. I guess he liked me enough to stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:03 PM
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There are also people who wait till marriage for sex. I would say it's pretty common in my circle to wait. I have 3 female friends, 1 older sister, 2 female cousins, one sister in law. My SIL and one cousin waited till marriage, my older sister waited till she was engaged and moved in with her boyfriend. One of my friend does wait until the relationship is serious. One is a lesbian and she doesn't like discussing her sex life so I have no clue how she approaches things. One waits till the relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:51 PM
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Lol no. I am very attracted to my boyfriend but I waited for a year to sleep with him because I needed to develop an emotional bond with him, was completely able to trust him only then I was okay with sex. I was having no casual encounters on the side. I wasn't talking romantically to anyone else apart from him during this period as well. I just wanted to be sure of our relationship. This is one of the reasons I never slept with my ex boyfriend he could never win my trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 03:33 PM
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Then I probably would have missed out on college life, hostel life and stuff for working.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 05:39 PM
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Apparently other relationships are also dumb entertainment only children are meaningful. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:18 PM
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I am 23 and can't imagine getting married or having kids at this age. After several internships my first job starts in May. My life's just starting I can't think of having a baby right now. There are so many life skills to learn, so my experiences to have, fulfill some responsibilities towards my parents, make some of their dreams come true, treat friends and siblings, live life as a carefree couple with my bf. After having kids your entire lives revolve around them, most of the things you do ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 12:06 PM
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You do know when men used to have "harems" the women in that harems weren't just sleeping with the top male but also his subordinates. It wasn't like they were monogamous and the top male was polygamous. Top men used to go to war you think Queens were living without sex at that time. Top male also needed help from other males to help maintain his kingdom therefore they would also ignore their sexual endeavours inside his harems. Even incest was common. The top male was also father to kids who we…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:30 AM
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Some are some aren't just like everywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 08:44 PM
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I completely agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:01 PM
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To be really honest no one will actually know your body count unless you tell them honestly and people don't. Women can also go through hymenoplasty (reconstruction of hymen) and can say she never had sex with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:08 PM
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They aren't homo sapiens?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:06 PM
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Clearly the "high status men" aren't going for virgins if according to men here majority of women have high n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:02 PM
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Me and my boyfriend split expenses in different way. Like I will book a movie and he'll order food. Nobody keeps a check though. Sometimes I'll do both sometimes he'll do both. If we are going out for dinner sometimes he'll pay sometimes I'll pay. He likes to spend money on me and I like to spend money on him too. If I'll go out shopping I'll buy something for him as well, if he sees something that I will like he'll order it or go and buy it. If you care about someone you spend your resources on…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:33 AM
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I didn't agree with him
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 09:23 AM
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I dont know what to say... but isnt this just saying that elderly women are more fecund? What does it have to do with being attractive? What? The woman who they mind more fecund is more attractive to them. Oh by the way it's an original source. I copy pasted things here. You can google them before you come at me that I don't give sources lol. ... I mean gays exist no? It means their instincts are not all aligned towards women alone... like most men. The exact same happens the other way around. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:29 AM
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It's a request. If she acquiesces, her desire to be in a relationship is worth more to her than the request. When a woman cares about your happiness and feelings towards her, there's little she won't do for you What about the opposite though? A man's desire to be in a relationship isn't worth more than her clothing choices? Doesn't a man care about their wife/girlfriend's happiness and feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:12 AM
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You understand these are hypothesis thrown about... none can go and ask a chimp... correct? and again, older females tend to work for sexual access... younger ones tend to be less so... and even then male chimps still go after them considerably more, when unprovoked... "Hormonal data collected noninvasively from urine samples suggest older females are more fecund. Perhaps this is a matter of their higher rank— older females tend to be dominant over younger ones, which gives them preferred access…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:27 AM
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It's kind of hard to prove that a sexual preference is biological vs social, since it's not like there is a control group born in a vacuum. That's why we can't say for sure. If it would have been an instinct it would have been easily provable. Never the less, promiscuity before marriage is heavily associated with higher odds of cheating and divorce. Between this and the link between monogamy and paternal investment, shown across even other species, it makes sense for men to be predisposed to cho…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:11 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:36 AM
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I never said that preference for less promiscuous women was something absolute and universal among all men, just that it's a general trend and it's biological in nature. I don't think it matters whether you use the term drive or instinct or whatever else. Again, a lot of sexual preferences are innate and fairly constant between cultures. Women innately prefer taller men for example, and yet there are women who prefer shorter men and women who are lesbian/asexual. That still doesn't change the fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:49 PM
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Human males have ways to identify their children (just looking at features) but this is hardly reliable. Neither is Virginity/low promiscuity, but Id say thats way more reliable than looking at a baby and saying "hey how closely does this thing's nose resemble mine?" Especially in a small tribe where most people look fairly similar anyways. Both ways work to make a male more certain of promiscuity, but the idea that facial recognition or scent or whatever is sufficient on its own and therefore i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:24 PM
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in these research it is considered who they have sex with... not who they PURSUE. male chimps PURSUE younger females, they tend to get older femlaes. You would have the same assumption for human society... and couldnt speak any human readable language Hormonal data collected noninvasively from urine samples suggest older females are more fecund. Perhaps this is a matter of their higher rank— older females tend to be dominant over younger ones, which gives them preferred access to the best foods,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 04:31 PM
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I aint sure if its the right book but goodall's "in the shadow of man" describes how older females would end up attacking and entering into "heat" after a young female chimp enter into estrus, and be able to garner a good deal of male attention to herself. In this attack the older females would do the aforementioned "twerking in the face of the males" (i.e. putting their pink asses in front of the males noses) in order to make them more attractive as mates This doesn't prove your point. There is…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:38 PM
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Also as far as chimps go, this source suggests that the father can identify their paternity of children and have a bias towards children that they think are theirs, which explains why they might be better fathers than most despite being promiscuous. This. They are promiscuous but have paternal investment because they can identify their children. So do human males. So how is virginity or low n count an Instinct here. That was the entire point of conversation and you agreed to it. . As I said in m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 03:30 PM
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Because you are trying to be right when you are obviously wrong. Again, just look for "males prefer lower sexually experienced females" for chimps, bonobos, and mountain gorrillas. Again, virginity is just the top of said preference Share your knowledge then. I am sharing mine because I can't find anything related to yours. Like humans, chimpanzees have sex year-round. When a female is in heat, the skin around her genitals becomes pink and swollen — a clear sexual signal to males. Both male and …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:33 PM
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Like most other apes they care about previous sexual partners number, virginity is just the absolute best you can get in this regard, and although I never seen mentioned, I would guess it is motive for celebrating for the ape in question. And I am not an American, I am a Brazilian. Look at my tag. Please provide a study that says apes go for virgin females. That's what I asked of you. Chimpanzees both male and female are promiscuous but have involved fathers, it's even seen they can recognise th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 01:12 PM
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We are closer to bonobos than any other species and they are promiscuous and also have polyandry. Secondly even if it is present in 40% it's a lot and suggests that behaviour of these animals isn't homogeneous as well. They are killing other males and their progenies so that the females take care of their progeny, they don't care about her history with other males. Here the point of discussion was virginity and high n count before a pair bonded relationship. Females do mate with more than one ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:19 AM
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Although mountain gorillas,Gorilla gorilla beringei, are classified as having a one-male mating system, approximately 40% of the social units are multimale groups. I observed two multimale groups of mountain gorillas at the Karisoke Research Center, Rwanda, Africa, for 17 months to determine male mating patterns and male–male mating harassment in relation to both male dominance rank and female reproductive status. Dominant males mated significantly more than did individual subordinate males, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 06:04 AM
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Yes.... I mean goodall's lifework, the freaking mother of chimp studies. You probably read at least one of her books in HS. I dont know what else to say. I haven't. I am not from US and we weren't taught about her work. Anyway do you have studies that say chimps care about virginity? I would like to read it. None has a virginity instinct, but almost everyone, including women, has an instinctual aversion for too high n partners/people (or preference for people who are low n). the difference is, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:29 AM
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I am not making a moral argument, I am merely stating that caring about virginity is actually in some way instinctual. I am not advocating for anything. There is no reason to rant about this. How is it instinctual? Survival Instinct is instinctual all of us have it even if someone wants to kill themselves their instincts will kick during the last time and they'll try to save themselves. That is not the case with virginity if it would be no non virginal women would have had relationships. Instinc…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:00 PM
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Gorillas mate with more than one female and the females also mate with more than one male. There are hierarchies but it has been seen that they are all polygamous in nature. Gorillas are involved fathers as well. They don't care about the virginity. I didn't bring dog in the conversation but dogs treat all puppies in the same way although African wild dogs are good fathers. Secondly it's not an instinct as it was stated. If virginity was an instinct no women who had sex with other males would be…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:57 PM
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They are concerned with paternity, which is the same reason humans care about virginity and fidelity. So now when humans have established monogamy and have paternity tests they shouldn't care about virginity at all. A man has ways to establish paternity now. Virginity is a cultural norm. Virginity cannot be proven 100%, women could have lost it because if vigorous activities like sports or were just born without one. Women can also get hymenoplasty that is restructuring of hymen. So how can one …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:39 PM
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Yes but they aren't concerned about anyone's virginity. outright murder the kids their mate had with other animals. Do you think animals who had kids were virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:02 PM
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Will you stay in a relationship with her If she doesn't have sex with you, disrespects you, doesn't contribute in the household chores? Most men I know will leave a woman like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:43 PM
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Well.... all big apes except the orangutangs prefer lower n partners (none is sure how they assert that, but clear visual observation is surely one of the ways).... so much so, older female chimps need to twerk in the face of top males to get sexual attention (look at any book by goodall) And pretty much most medium size mammals prefer their females on the younger side even when an older more "mature and stabilished" female would be a better fit for mother duty (or survival) so... (if you had do…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 03:00 PM
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Very few societies have ever practiced polyandry. Early humans were still mostly polygynous or monogamous. But they did. It was as natural as polygyny. The desires were the same. Kings used to marry wives of other kings after defeating them and have kids with her. Queens used to have their own boytoys for entertainment while the king was away. Virginity as a concept came from Abrahamic religions, Hinduism has temples depicting all kinds of sex, with one partner and multiple partners, both hetero…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 01:27 PM
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What Im saying is that any species would create it as well if they were intelligent enough. It comes from our ability to think in abstracts and think about what the fact that your woman isnt a virgin means. And therefore our ability to trick our own brain into thinking our woman is unfaithful because she wasnt a virgin before you, and in doing so trigger our jealousy and mate guarding instincts. Maybe your brain is tricking you to believe that it's an intelligent thing to do. Tricking is conditi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:18 AM
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Exactly. The importance of virginity is conditioning of human civilization. There are cultures in which one woman has many husbands. Polyandry is a form of polygamy in which a woman takes two or more husbands at the same time. For example, fraternal polyandry is practiced among Tibetans in Nepal, parts of China and part of northern India, in which two or more brothers are married to the same wife, with the wife having equal “sexual access” to them. Among the Irigwe of Northern Nigeria, women hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:31 AM
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How do you know they aren't smart enough to understand this? Dogs are smart enough to reproduce. You are agreeing with me that virginity being important is a concept developed by humans. Why do you think humans are special? They are looking for same things which is partner and children like most of animal kingdom.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 08:18 AM
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So you agree it's conditioning. It's just a thought process instilled in some people. Instincts are similar in almost all animals, they also have jealousy and mate guarding but they aren't obsessed with virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:21 AM
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Basic instinct? Do you think any animal in the animal kingdom worries about their partners virginity?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 05:27 AM
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Perception is based on something right? We aren't perceiving things in vaccum? There is a reason tall and muscular guys are perceived strong because at some point in time the men who were powerful or protected people were of tall and strong physique. I mean this is the interpretation of people and that's how they were perceived. Why don't people perceive short and skinny guy as physically powerful? So we perceive according to the observations we make. If women are attracted by the perception of …
/r/AllPillDebate18/04/23 08:06 PM
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Why not?
/r/AllPillDebate18/04/23 06:41 PM
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It's about the perception of power not about using it. Perception is based on the actual use of power. Like if I perceive someone has power it's because I think they'll use their power when needed. If they cannot then the perception will be shattered? Thank you for answering though.
/r/AllPillDebate18/04/23 04:50 PM
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So you agree that a better muscled taller man has more physical power? Cool. But this is what I said earlier that power to kick someone's ass or power to be dominate someone you said that it's not about that. I said that power of muscles or height is there because they can intimidate someone or protect someone. You said it's not about power over someone. Then what is it about? And what about Charisma and wittiness?
/r/AllPillDebate18/04/23 04:08 PM
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Because I was taught colours as a kid. So I can identify the colour blue. A writer or poet could be more charismatic than a lead singer of a band, the lead singer could be crass but will probably have more power than the writer. A school sports coach might have more muscles and height than the principal of the school but the principal might be more powerful. A comedian might be wittier than the president of the country but the president obviously has more power. How do you define power? What are…
/r/AllPillDebate18/04/23 11:31 AM
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That's like asking why blue is blue. We have an explanation of why sky is blue in colour. Everything has an explanation especially if it's said as a fact.
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 06:03 PM
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Men needed women for babies too for their lineage to carry on so those men will still want women the same way some women will want providers. Robot babies aren't going to be a man's lineage. Women can get their own resources now they don't need men for that and since we are giving robots so much power that they are literally lookalike of humans you think humans will not built a robot that earns money for them? You think humans will make robots that will fulfill all human like relationships but n…
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 06:01 PM
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I am just trying to understand how is height, muscles, wittiness power?
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 01:18 PM
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It Will be devastating for women to see below average men stop being simps for them because suddenly the high earning nerd has a Hot babe at home cooking dinner and sucking his dick like a porn star while playing video games with him Woman will get male robots to do exactly what exactly simps would be doing for them. Woman will get Chad robots. Robots will be human like. Rich people will have these robots for everything then it wouldn't just change dating game, it would change everything. They w…
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 09:22 AM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 07:01 AM
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I would have asked the same if a woman posted this post but since you posted it I am asking a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:51 AM
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So why aren't men doing anything to get unobsessed? If they know it because they have a brain lol why aren't they using that brain lol to protect themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:50 AM
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Sex also feels good for women though but if sex is something that is used for manipulation why doesn't a man protect himself from getting manipulated and follow sexual discipline and if a man is letting someone destroy their life for some sex then it's a decision they took willingly and not much can be done about it and there will be consequences of his decision. So why not strive for a better life for themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:20 AM
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The male sex drive is a funny thing my friend If almost all men know that the root cause of all their problems is their sex drive then why aren't they doing something to control it? Why aren't people investing in studies about controlling men's libido? Why aren't men themselves practicing sexual discipline?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 05:58 AM
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Height and muscles aren't a personality Ohh right actually we use it colloquially here for physical traits such as personality and built so I called it wrong. But my question is these are physical traits they can be a source of power only if they are used as an intimidating aspect or protecting someone. If you mean charm , people who are charming generally have social power and status Anyone can be witty they don't need to be powerful for that. A charming person will probably become more charmin…
/r/AllPillDebate17/04/23 02:19 AM
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Charm and wit as well as height and having muscles are different aspects of that. These are aspects of power? I thought these were aspects of personality.
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 06:48 PM
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Why aren't rich 70 year old men having kids actively? What's stopping them, if that's what's the biological Instinct is and nature will support them then why aren't many 70 year old new dads they also have a lot of access to younger women? Never said they will have healthy kids How are unhealthy kids helping nature? There are high chances those unhealthy kids will not be able to reproduce further. https://m.economictimes.com/magazines/panache/men-have-a-biological-clock-too-fatherhood-after-45-c…
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 06:09 PM
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Men having healthy kids at 70 is also an exception. You think these men aren't using medicines etc to have sex? To increase virility? You think they have it naturally at 70? They don't. 30% of US wives outearn their husbands so it's not that rare. Daughters especially financially independent daughters keep providing for their parents irrespective of their marital status. They don't have to live with them to provide for them. In some Latin cultures the care for elderly parents is upon their daugh…
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 05:43 PM
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It is not one exception. Men in general can have children when they are older Science is catching up..I have given you two examples of women birthing babies at 70. How many men are actively having children at 70? Having children at 70 is an exception for both men and women. Traditionally speaking Men are the providers, women are the carers. Daughters provide for their families, but not for long though until they find a husband. Well women are also providing and men are also caring for their fami…
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 05:02 PM
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Men can have children even at 70, I mean look at Richard Gere, 70 years old and just had a baby recently If you are going to give exceptions then I can give too. https://www.cbsnews.com/news/woman-in-her-70s-may-be-oldest-ever-to-give-birth/ https://m.timesofindia.com/city/rajkot/gujarat-70-year-old-woman-gives-birth-to-her-first-child-in-kutch/amp_articleshow/87139795.cms Men do use their value, and their value comes from what they can provide, why do you think they are grinding to have good jo…
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 04:01 PM
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Because older women have recently started getting resources like older men.
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 02:59 PM
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Men's sexual fertility also decreases with age, the quality of healthy sperm declines after 40. Men should use their value to get a wife and children as soon as possible because they are also on clock for healthy children. Women also have their own resources now and can elongate the years in which they can look good and youthful.
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 12:38 PM
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What about top percent of women because top percent of men are choosing someone for having a family?
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 11:03 AM
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What is a Chad according to you? Like how will you describe a Chad. I am not aware of the definition exactly.
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 08:39 AM
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Some of them will also get the hot young ones to marry them just like older men do with younger women.
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 08:23 AM
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You do realise they can still get a good husband if they lower their standards a little bit.
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 08:21 AM
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So I as a woman love power but like I personally want to have that power. My partner is someone who can make me laugh, I can talk about anything with him, we have good romantic and sexual compatibility amd most important loyalty. It's not like I want to be some damsel in distress and want him to protect me I want both of us to protect and stand by each other but yeah I'd love to have power to kick anyone's ass and have a control on important things. I don't know if I made sense. Sorry 😅
/r/AllPillDebate16/04/23 08:17 AM
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It's a few seconds in woman it's almost negligible most of the times. Being sore is different any muscle can get sore. The point is the women get aroused in extremely short span of time so if they weren't polygamous then that wasn't possible. The arousal for inherently monogamous nature would have been different.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 11:57 AM
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Lol who said they are quitting because people aren't supporting them but it's always better if your parents believe in you and support you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:08 PM
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So help them become a winner that what's being supportive and being a cheerleader for your child inherently is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:57 PM
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I'd rather die than tell my kid who lost at something good job Lol who asked you to say good job to your kid. Supporting them will include helping them and guiding them so that they can win in the future. Helping them become the best versions of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:54 PM
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Your wife or husband are called your life partners. I don't want weak or needy kids Lol just because kids would like their parents to appreciate and support them doesn't mean they are needy. A parent's job is to do that die their kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:49 PM
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My friends don't need cheerleaders Your kids and partner do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:44 PM
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Progressive men don't belive in competition and to win someone needs to lose, you need to not only self improve but be better than the losers by comparison. You need your best to win but you aren't in competition with your daughter, sibling or your spouse. You are in competition with the people who compete with you. Your child isn't competing with you your partner isn't competing with you. The ones who you are competing with are your colleagues/ rivals and by all means compete with them and win …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:23 PM
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Progressive men don't want to be healthy? They want to be ridden with diseases? They don't want to achieve their goals and dreams or earn money? They don't want to love and protect their loved ones? The progressive feminist men I have in my life especially my father and my boyfriend take care of their health, they are driven and work hard towards their goals, are successful, are financially stable and love and protect their families, they also support women in their lives and cheer when women th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 05:34 PM
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Progressive men don't want to be healthy? They want to be ridden with diseases? They don't want to achieve their goals and dreams or earn money? They don't want to love and protect their loved ones? The progressive feminist men I have in my life especially my father and my boyfriend take care of their health, they are driven and work hard towards their goals, are successful, are financially stable and love and protect their families, they also support women in their lives and cheer when women th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 05:32 PM
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Abuse is always hard to prove.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:08 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 09:41 AM
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Okay lol. As if it would change anything for me. Also I am not doing podcasts and crying about things. Didn't know not having a high body count is insulting. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:16 AM
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Okay lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:37 AM
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Lol if you think that will stop women from getting an abortion. They'll still get it. They'll do it on their own. You think women will just accept bans. Even in America the blue states will not outlaw the abortions. Countries with high population will always have abortions. So yeah you can think it's not happening but it is. You'll not even get to know it happened. Women will get their tubes tied and not have children at all good for the species as a whole then. Again not much you can do here .
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:11 AM
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Sorry but pregnant women aren't living inside other humans so they'll have their rights but since foetuses live inside pregnant women the foetuses don't have rights they are completely dependent on women hence women decide. All you can do is cry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:54 AM
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Foetus isn't a human baby unless it's born.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:49 AM
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Until it's born it's a foetus and foetus don't have rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:46 AM
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Definition of FOETUS (noun): developing baby before it is born. A woman can decide what happens to her and her body. If you can grow a foetus outside of female body then you can have all control over it. Until then the person who carries it they decide what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:41 AM
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Fixed it" by literally murdering a baby. If i am in debt with someone and kill them, am i taking accountability? Baby? You mean foetus. Secondly does that someone who you are in debt with live inside your body? If yes you can abort them if not I am sorry you can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:31 AM
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Getting an abortion is also part of accountability only. A woman who seeks abortion took accountability of her actions and fixed it. She also behaved responsibly and didn't a bring a child in the world she didn't want to care for.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:26 AM
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YOU mentioned honor killings which is sharia law. Lol this tells me that you don't know much about anything. Honour killings happen in every religion. Even in Hinduism, Sikhism, Christianity etc. Now she can choose from every other guy her father hasn't said no to. Why? She wants to marry a guy her father disapproved. It should be her choice. She's not making a choice on her own but has to decide among her father's choices which ultimately meant her father's choice not hers. Which again implies …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:51 AM
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Sharia law is not traditional western marriage. It's just not. They are very different. I didn't even mention Sharia law you did. Traditional Western marriages also left women with no choices most of the time. Although Christianity and Islam both are Abrahamic religions. Are you sincerely suggesting if you have like 3 choices you don't have any choice? Just because you don't have unlimited choices doesn't mean you have no choice Lolllll you said father approves or denied the marriage of your cho…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:43 AM
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Most of them just talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:09 AM
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You have no idea about traditionalist fathers and their emotional manipulation. Must be nice to live as a Western man without being shamed for dishonouring your father by not marrying the person they picked for you. Again you said women are responsible for what happens to them which also includes Abuse then why are you questioning if they choose a path where they can escape the abuse. They had final say and approval to deny you marriage but it's not like they just picked some guy and was like ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:24 AM
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Honestly most RP men prob have way higher body counts but that's besides the point. They don't have a high body count and that's why they are mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:14 AM
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Lol sure. Men here keep talking about the time when fathers picked mate for their daughters in good olden times and how that was so great, these are western men so this practice was once western too. If they chose to marry, then wah. Deal with it. If they chose to divorce, also wah, fucking deal with it. The choices you make are yours to live with. You mean deal with the abuse. So now when women are making the choice of not being a trad wife who are you to question it? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:42 AM
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Yes because single women were not shamed? Childless women were not shamed? They are still shamed. They were forcefully married. The country I live in there are still women in rural areas that are forcefully married, honour killing still exists here. Men were/ are the abusers most of the time and women were/ are the victims. Nothing you'll say will change that. The only person they are a victim of is themselves and their own choices. Women were victims of their own choices?🤣🤣🤣 Women weren't allow…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 11:38 PM
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Lol yes ofcourse and get shamed by their family and society for being a divorcee( It's still a taboo in certain countries to get a divorce). Not getting a job because no experience and probably no education, take your children to live in some extreme poverty and your ex husband will marry someone new and have more kids. So women's physical and mental health in ruined in the process but they aren't the victims? Women would still leave and live in bad conditions if it weren't for her children, wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:05 PM
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Who knows what a man could do or would do? This is what you said when I asked why they would do that. It means he can abuse her or cannot abuse her. Both of the scenarios are possible. For your 'why' I already gave an answer because they can and for more research purposes you can see why reports on why men abuse women or visit a prison and ask men why they abused their wives. All I know is abuse happens in household and there are/were men who do abuse their wives and women couldn't leave back in…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:54 PM
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So you admit you have no reason to believe a man would do that. Lol I didn't admit anything. I have seen women suffer so I have enough reason to believe men might do that. Obviously I don't know about all men but I have seen men pulling this shit so why should I take risk. I'll be prepared for any adversity. Sure I'd do that in a fucking heartbeat. Never have to work again, and have everything paid for?! Sounds like a dream! If you think that's what a SAHP is then good luck. The wife could poop …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:28 PM
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You're using the fact that a man could do these things as evidence that a man would. Who knows what a man could do or would do? We have seen many bad examples infront of us so why should any woman take that kind of a risk? Why not protect yourself from the start? Should we just hope our partner doesn't abuse us and not be prepared to handle the situation if he does? Again you didn't answer my question do you want to be a SAHP and give away all financial control to your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:17 PM
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How is the relationship ruined for him? He has a caretaker of his house and kids. He can control every aspect of the house. He can have sex with her whenever he wants. She'll still care for him because that's what good wife did back then for their husband and father of her children. If he needs more fun he'll get a mistress, wife can't stop that as well because well where will she go and how will she stop him. What's the downside for him? Do you want to be a SAHP and let your partner have all fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:04 PM
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So you think the man was choosing everything and if his wife, mother of his kids keeper of his household wanted something he'd tell her no because... ? Why would he do that? Because he can he has that authority and his wife could not do anything about it because she doesn't earn. You think these things don't happen. Women have seen this happen to their grandmothers, mothers etc. and that's why they don't want to be dependent on any man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:57 PM
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The one who is working is subservient to their boss( even though it's much easier to leave a job than leaving an abusive marriage) and the one who stays at home is subservient to the provider because no one's funding her life without having an authority over her decisions. Again if it sounds appealing to you and you think that you would like to have your life funded while simultaneously giving away almost all control of your life to the one who funds your life, you should choose to be stay at ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:50 PM
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If being a stay at home parent is appealing to you then you should stay home and let your spouse slave away.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:36 PM
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Then she's going to therapy for the right thing that is working on not being obsessed about things outside her control.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 04:48 PM
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Women however, do, because they're physically vulnerable to men and have to make sure other women approve of him to avoid dangerous or abusive relationships. This I completely agree with but it isn't just limited to women. Women also take into account if males in their lives approve of the man to avoid dangerous situations. Like I trust my father the most in the world if my father wouldn't have approved of my current boyfriend I probably would have had a lot of problems going into a serious rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:32 PM
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The difference is that the preselection alone is a major turnon for women whereas it does nothing, or it’s a slight turnofffor men. Totally depends on the quality of the man. My friends have dated/married men who I have absolutely disliked but some have dated people who are genuinely great guys who I have liked but I don't want to date them because they are with someone and the minute they will be intrested in me romantically or someone who hits on them they'll not be great guys anymore and then…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:03 PM
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Most women also don't base their attraction on what other women think of their man. Many married women's husbands are not liked by their group of friends especially when women share intimate details about their relationship with them. Women base their attraction on the qualities that they like. There can be 30 women liking a man I'll not like him if he's not attractive to me. You tell me if you are attracted to a hot woman who has many men asking her out but out of all those people she chose you…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:52 PM
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50% is half so still a half likes them. If a guy is being rejected by let's say more than 90% of women there's probably something undesirable about him. There are also guys who will be liked by more than 50% of women. It goes for women as well. If a woman being actively rejected by majority of men then there's something undesirable about her. Now I am not saying if it's right or wrong it's just how people view things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:42 PM
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Firstly, I apologize I had edited my comment to add further details in my example. Please see that. I have responded to it on a different comment. Yes, but in this specific example the point is other men don't notice her. And the one guy does, and every guy can relate because he struck gold. So girls that aren't in demand but are hot are in demand (for the guy that finds her) In the same example other woman have not seen/noticed that man and he's hot and attractive to the woman who's dating him.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:14 PM
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You NEVER see the reverse. You never see the most popular cheerleader in school pick out and date the nerdy guy who all the other girls pay no attention to. It's a status thing. Nerdy guy has no status and no standing among the ladies, so she can't make her friends jealous / envious of her. Men don't care about status. Really? Because I have seen hot girls dating nerdy guys. And if you say men don't care about status why do they have problems dating a woman who has high body count? Men in this v…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:45 PM
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It's like for women too. If I want to date a man and he's what I want then I don't care if anyone else wants him or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:40 PM
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That's correct. It's actually ideal. It's even a trope, the nerdy girl who's hot (to him, because he notices but no one else does). Nerdy hot men are also liked anyway if nerdy hot girl is a trope then she's in demand. If it's ideal then most people would want that again which means she's in demand. If any man or woman is actively rejected from the dating circle then something is most probably undesirable about them. Your examples you're saying that a woman would still find the guy hot. That may…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:31 PM
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For me it doesn't matter if other people like my boyfriend or not. Do I, my family and friends like him are the most important things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:37 AM
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Women I’ve dated have literally told stories about how other women flirt with me. It’s like men don’t want relationships with women that get a lot of sexual attention from men. But women do want relationships with the men that get a lot of sexual attention from women. Other women flirt with you and they think you're nice. It's always nice if your partner is appreciated. You flirting with them is kind of a negative. Them flirting with you isn't. You are comparing opposite situations here. You are…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:35 AM
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Another way to describe it…men like when the woman we want is cold and doesn’t talk to other men. But she’s talkative and friendly with us. Women seem to like when the man they want is seen as a good talker and friendly to other women and men. It isn't true. It's different for different people. I usually go for men who aren't chatty naturally but are chatty with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:24 AM
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If I am committed to a guy and he's flirtatious all over town I'll lose attraction for him as well. That was not my question though. If a group of guys tells you that a particular woman is flirtatious you'll not pursue her right? You'll not "select" her as your potential mate? A woman will most probably reject the men that were rejected by other women because they most probably have an undesirable quality. So they aren't going for the same man but the same kind of qualities for a potential mate …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:22 AM
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The point is she's getting rejected by other men which means that according to the standards you are saying most men have she didn't fit those standards hence she was rejected. You will reject her on the same standards because men earlier to you rejected on that same thing. If a man tells you he rejected a woman because she's flirtatious you will not pursue that very woman for a relationship and if a group of men talk about a cute homely woman who's an acquaintance most of you will pursue her. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:40 AM
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At first. But if she finds out that he was a complete outcast beforehand her desire is likely to drop. While a man who finds out a woman was an outcast will still keep the same level of sexual attraction he started with. If he's hot then sexual attraction will still be there. If he's an outcast women will most probably not have a long term relationship with him( for logical reasons like you stated to avoid a girl) but they will still have casual sex with him based on his attractiveness, and if t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:31 AM
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You think women don't get bored with sex with a hot man? If there's no deep intimate friendship and love with that said hot man woman will also stray. Everyone likes novelty. because men are naturally polygynous If that's the case then the men who aren't polygynous( asexual, demisexual, homosexual men) should be seen as unnatural but that's not the case. Women also wouldn't have more than one partner if they were naturally monogamous. People choose to follow monogamy or polygamy in a relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:23 AM
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Biologically women don't have a refractory period they can go for sex again instantly after finishing the first time. So they can have sex multiple times with multiple men on the same day which is why male genitals are the way they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:01 AM
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If she was still physically attractive, yes. She could've been a basement dweller unknown to men and the guy would still be attracted if he somehow found her. If a man is physically attractive and unknown to other people, women will still be attracted to him if they somehow find him. It's more that he doesn't care if she's in demand or not. So with that in mind, it'd be better for him if she wasn't in demand, since he'd have less competition to get with her. A person who is actively getting reje…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:58 AM
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You do realise if a person is being actively rejected by the majority then most probably there's something unattractive about them. If a guy is attractive, independent most girls will go for him and it wouldn't matter if other girls are interested or not. They got what they wanted. So it's pretty much the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:55 AM
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So men will be interested in a woman that other men actively don't want to date? Men don't like women who are in high demand and will like a woman who's not picked by anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:43 AM
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Can confirm. I definitely lean demisexual and when Im in a happy relationship, Ive almost always had the higher sex drive. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:11 PM
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Exactly. They think all women behave the same and all men behave the same which isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:09 PM
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This is actually true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:35 PM
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Men used to kill progeny of other men so that the woman can focus on their kids, literally one of the reasons why pair bonding started. So investment in progeny is pretty much equal. Male nature is to spread their seed as far and wide as possible. Female nature is also increasing the chances of getting impregnated so women used to sleep around. The male genitals are designed in a way that push out any existing sperm of other men from the female genitals. If women weren't sleeping around that wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:30 PM
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You're saying being demi-sexual is a myth? No lol. They have low testosterone is a myth. A hoe phase is having sex without emotional attachement with multiple men. It does not equate to cheating, most women don't like to sleep with multiple men at the same time they prefer to have just one they have sex with. That's why sexless relationship are a good predictor of adultery. No infact someone on this very sub posted an article that women also like casual relationships outside of marriage. Women c…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:04 PM
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even if that was true that they refuse to have multiple sexual partner which is debatable, they still statistically insignificant How is it debatable though it was proven to be a myth. Women can't do it for long term because at some point they always start seeking for a mate for ltr and it's usual around late 20s Married women already got the security and their sexual strategy accomplished but even then they tend to only sleep with one guy not multiple. But women cheat on their partners as well …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:29 PM
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It is also a myth that demisexuality is a sign of low sex drive. Once demisexual people are in a sexual relationship, they have varying levels of sex drive. Some may have sex often, while others may not. Demisexuality only refers to the type of attraction that person feels, not how often they have sex. WebMD It's not the ideal situation for women though our bodies haven't evolved. A women having sex with multiple partner create health issues and they develop stds more easily than men. Also they …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:24 PM
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What about demisexual men? Women sleeping around for fun is a very recent concept that only came with contraception. So urges evolve with time, culture and conditioning? Women used to sleep around earlier as well for increasing the chances of impregnation. The male genitals are built in a way that they push out the semen of other men present in the woman. If women were not programmed to sleep around what was the need for these kind of genitals? Rich men get cheated on too obviously because just …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:33 PM
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Exception doesn't make the rule. So if these men go against natural programing should they be called abnormal or treated? Because if not then we just have different kinds of men who have different instincts, conditioning and motives. Women don't have the same drive to sleep around than men, they'd rather have the best man they can get and build a family, the women who were sleeping around to reproduce did so because they entered an ltr with a man that would provide security but wasn't attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:17 PM
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Major evils are rapes, murders and abuse. Didn't men used to kill progeny of other men so they could make the woman focused on their kids? But that's evil and will lead people to jail. Do you think early men had laws? A lot of pregnancies at that time were also because of rape and incest. That's illegal too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:56 AM
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Evil things are mostly unlawful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:51 AM
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And that's how people end up in prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:38 AM
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Men are "programmed" to sleep with as many Women as possible? You do realise we have asexual and Demisexual men as well. Secondly according to nature women used to sleep around with many men as well to increase their chances of impregnation. So accordingly women who have options should sleep around as well. Kings used to have concubines but Queens used to have their share of boytoys too. As you say women desire sexually successful male and according to biology we can only see this if that male h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:35 AM
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Isn't this conditioned on both sides. I have seen men not go for women who are taller than them. So people who aren't conditioned in this way will probably be okay with any height and who are conditioned with the beauty standards they'll go according to the "pattern". So different for different people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:10 AM
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5'9" is not 6 right? Correct me if I am wrong isn't 5"9" three inches shorter than 6" not one. They talked being about 6 as a standard of beauty/attractiveness which 5'9" isn't so it's subjective. You ladies crack me up in these comments I am glad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:04 AM
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All women are following a predictable pattern? I don't see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:31 PM
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But you didn't prove your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:19 PM
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If I am earning good money, and the guy has changed for the better, is ready to work as a team, is committed to be a good partner then why wouldn't women date him? Most women I know would.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:12 PM
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So in a utopian world as OP stated wouldn't people go for people in their own range?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:07 PM
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Thanks I guess. So subjective right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:05 PM
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I had two partners before one was in school who was definitely more than 6' but I wasn't attracted to him much so it ended. The next one was around my height maybe an inch or two taller, I never asked him though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:03 PM
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So? Lol. Just cause he's 4 inches taller.🤣. If that's the case my aunt is taller than my uncle. So subjective right? Lastly you mentioned 6' and clearly that's not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:57 PM
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5'5"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:53 PM
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Still not 6 hence beauty is subjective right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:52 PM
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My boyfriend is 5'9" so not for me I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:46 PM
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Isn't beauty subjective? Different women will find different kind of guys attractive right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:30 PM
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That small group of men are also going for the same kind of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 04:05 AM
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I mean in situations like this everyone is sharing everyone, you think the sugar babies just have one sugar daddy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:59 AM
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It's a little different because women sleep around as well now or have boy toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:54 AM
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no, you just fail to see the genius in it. Lol the delusion in this. 😂😂 If you are that great you must have achieved a lot of great things in life please tell what have you done so far. am, your just not understanding that it is in fact proof, or you expect a higher level of prove than possible or necessary to overpower someone else. I dont need rigorous mathematical proof, just enough to undermine the other person's argument I asked for basic proof since you claimed about genetics, just name th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:17 PM
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Don't worry only minority of women are attracted to you. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:24 AM
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Lolll all you talk about is unintelligent stuff and you aren't able to prove any of your claims. Talk about genes and then can't even name those genes. Real intelligent lol 😂😂😂. people who are able to put me in a position like that are extremely rare and are exclusively autistic geniuses who cant interact with anyone anymore If you are the greatest man in the world why are you here losing arguments in reddit everyday. Loll
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:23 AM
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thats means your not very bright. Ive never met a woman who I perceived as intellectually superior, and very fiew men. That's cause you are delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:09 AM
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attention from average and below average men, So men like you. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:07 AM
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Wow some men are so desperate that they'll screw their entire lives just for sex? Quite a sad existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 03:45 AM
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mans body is to build, protect, and create resources. Prove this? Please tell the names of the genes responsible for this behaviour in men and what genes are responsible in women to nurture men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:00 PM
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see? its not that women arent valued, its that you want to dictate what you are valued for because you dont want to do what helps other people. thats what value literally is. No I am saying you can't dictate values, you can only choose yours not others. claiming that these women invented these things doesnt make it true. it could just be political lies of the institutions and it likely is. Everything that men invented and discovered was actually done by a woman and men took the credit. Two can p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 07:23 PM
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no, its just that the value of a woman is entirely inside the home and family as a wife and mother. For you not for everyone in the world. I said women have invented/build nothing of value, not that they have done nothing of value. Circular saw. Inventor: Tabitha Babbitt. Computer algorithm. Inventor: Ada Lovelace. Dishwasher. Life raft. Fire escape. Medical syringe. Windshield wiper. Car Heater Wireless transmission technology Laser cataract surgery The chemist Stephanie Kwolek invented the sup…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:54 PM
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And on this sub, there’s a number of men here who love to proclaim that women have never done anything of value throughout all of history, and that it’s men, and only men, who did everything worthwhile for humanity The man you are replying to is one of those men as well. He said to me women have done nothing of value so they shouldn't receive education. When I shared women's achievements he called it propoganda and when it turned out to be true he said even if women did discoveries or anything t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:18 PM
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when a burglar enter the house and the man doesnt act or take protective measures in some way that risk his health, the woman will loose respect and feel less safe around him and break up and find someone with protective instincts. I'd want my mom to protect me as well. I'd want my sister to protect me as well.. I'd want my mom to protect my dad as well, I'd want my dad to protect my mom as well. I'd love to protect my mom and dad. I would want all of us to have a protective instincts for each o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 08:29 PM
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I got news for you, every scientific theory was made up by some person at some point So why should anyone believe what you said. It could be just as made up as everything else in this world. also, you believe in evolution, anf if you do and understand it, thats the proof for what Im saying because it is the macroscopic result of just evolutionary processes to adapt to the way of living and survival Have you read about evolution? Women used to sleep around as well because it increased the chances…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:55 PM
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its a logical and inescapable consequence of sexual dimorphism and how womens body is specialized for birthing while the male body is specialized in hunting and building If it's so logical and biological then prove it. Show me the biological theory or did you make it up on your own based on your assumptions. you dont get to use love as a weapon to control me. love doesnt buy you points to mask or nullify and unfair deal, or even worse your intention to not fairly reciprocate value. Don't worry a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:40 PM
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its also that women dont have the natural proclivity to fuck different men because for them, sex is linked to respect. if a woman wants to fuck another man, she doesnt resoect or love her husband. thats just how women biologically are wired. Show me a "biological theory" on this. FYI Psychology isn't biology. Also why do you want women to love you according to you marriage is a transaction. She doesn't have to love you in a transaction. It's mere exchange of material things then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:23 PM
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I am saying men shouldn't choose bad options just because nothing else is available, it's not like one will die without sex or romantic relationships. I don't understand the reason of choosing a person who might ruin your and your family's life just for sex or a romantic partner. If a man chooses a women who is a sociopath how will it better his life? It might cause him and his loved ones more damage. Men have all the power in the world to not entertain this woman and then if she would want to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:34 AM
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I am not asking anyone to become a monk. Do men want relationships with crappy women? Is this something they are aiming for? If not then why are they settling and ruining their lives and mental peace for some temporary pleasure? Why knowingly give your kids a mother who will be bad for them? Isn't it better to practice self control in this scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:47 AM
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I am not asking anyone to become a Buddhist monk I am saying that maybe there's a need to practice self control so that one doesn't fuck up their entire life for temporary pleasure. and the vast majority of those people are depressed when they don't have sex and romantic relationships. I would like to read about this, are the people getting depressed over romantic life happy in other areas ( like strong support system, career etc) or are those areas suffering too?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:35 AM
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All the best 😀
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:01 PM
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Just die sad and unfulfilled. Why are you putting romantic relationships on a pedestal like that. Lack of romantic relationship and sex doesn't and shouldn't make a person unhappy. There are lots of things to be happy about, friendships, parents,. siblings, adopt kids if you like, try and work for a career that you may love, learn new things, get new hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:01 PM
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I don't know I am a woman you should ask your fellow men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:37 PM
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It's better than being with bad people and fucking with your mental peace. I see things like Good relationship > Single > Bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:22 PM
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happy people dont respond in bad faith and with hateful remarks when faced with objective criticism Yeah like you. if you were happy, you wouldn't be putting out man hate on reddit. In fact if you saw no issue with the current dating dynamics, you wouldn't be here or know a space like this. Lol I haven't hated on men I have just talked about women getting education and working. I found this place randomly infact I have never heard of opinions like the ones on the sub in my real life. It's just a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:18 PM
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Men are the ones who become monks as well. If you have to put crappy women accountable then you'll need to stop giving them attention otherwise they win and you lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:50 AM
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And why is dying out a bad thing? You live your life happily without dealing with bad people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:10 AM
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The male strategy for "fixing" crappy women in their society would be to have sex with as many women as possible and have more children than the other men, and hope that eventually their genes beat out the genes of their female partners. Male strategy is based on "hope" and wishful thinking? Instead of not mating with a crappy woman and have kids with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:45 AM
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So it's a men problem which can be fixed by men right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:25 AM
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Isn't this a common thing said by men on this sub that women will either go for a high value male or opt out of dating which is causing the imbalance. So clearly women don't need men they want men who they like. There is no requirement of a romantic relationship to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:51 AM
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if both sides arent in their role, then i don't recognize you as a married couple. you are just living together and sleeping with each other Glad you aren't the one giving out marriage certificates.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:47 AM
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Women don't necessarily need a man to be happy though. Men usually die earlier than their partners so many women are by themselves in their later life anyway. If women wants kids she can adopt.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:36 AM
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So why don't men raise their standards and not date/sleep with crappy women. If nobody will give crappy women any attention they will be forced to change as well. Women have a these kind of standards for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:32 AM
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If they had their way, these two pools of women would be essentially on different planets and available at the drop of a hat. And since that doesn't exist they are mad at all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:30 AM
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Haha lol I am triggered you are the one who started calling me names, asked if I was on drugs, you are the one who couldn't prove anything or backup any of your nonsensical claims. I don't cry and get mad at someone else because they are living a different life, nor do I give sermons on how people should live unlike you. I live and let live and I am happy with my life. Your character showed up when you wrote your first comment you're quite insecure, controlling and delusional. Keep writing long …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:14 AM
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Im just a deductive problem solver. No you aren't. Not one thing you said is logical. But you are delusional. I live in the west and almost cry every time I get confronted with how women used to act towards men vs how they act today, and how families interacted and existed 50-100 years ago. Good to hear you cry about it. Hope it continues the same way for you. a woman can not do that. she cant prevent men from invading and killing anyone. what can a woman do to stop a raging man? nothing. Read a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 10:51 PM
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He's vastly misinformed about everything please check his comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 09:06 PM
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well thats because they have no real male friends and because they are too weak to take on full responsibility and authority. these men are not the men that would die to protect their village How do you know? How can you describe what is friendship for other people? Who are you? God? Lol. Both men and women have protected the "village". It was an Indian air hostess that protected 100+ passengers from terrorists not a man. Men in army that are quite literally protecting their countries also want …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 09:05 PM
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and? he simply is not wise enough to recognize the collosal mistake he made. Lol he's happy and has a happy healthy family while you are crying on reddit about women getting to study and world not working how you would like it to. he wouldn't. the type of guy that would demand you to not work is someone your father and bf would be scared to confront and would submit to, and would run to if there was a war or food shortage He has protected his family and he would. Lol no one submits in our family…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 08:45 PM
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Hey the guy you are talking to doesn't know anything be it about women, gays or even straight men. He doesn't even know about psychology and evolution, he's just making things up according to his assumptions and when you'll ask for him to prove it or back up his claims he has nothing to show for it. He's pretty delusional. He also thinks that women who study and work are not natural and they should not want to do it because it's a masculine trait. Loll. So you're right he's insane and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:14 PM
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I don't even know what this means. I randomly found this page and never knew about these opinions. I am not usually not around people who have opinions that resonate with the ones here so I just gave my point of view. It's completely your choice to believe or not believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 06:55 PM
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this is shaming language. I dont want a companion or partner, that could be a male friend but there is no bs, risk or responsibility involved. The men I know in my life want a companion not a bangmaid. They want women to be educated so that they can have meaningful conversations with them, also they both can then impart that knowledge to their children. You don't want that for yourself fair enough, find a woman who believes in this ideology or stay single bit you aren't a representative of all m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:41 PM
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I have enough money to hire a cook and a cleaner. why deal with her attitude at all? why live with someone and take that risk when its no different than living apart? also women have no idea that they are increadibly demanding even when they say they work, because they need he Then do it. You clearly don't want a partner for companionship so hiring people for work is a better option for you. Women are demanding while while in your entire comment you are demanding women to leave their careers the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:18 PM
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they can, but it's completely unnecessary because one is already enough, and young children need the mother emotionally, not the father. Wrong it's not enough, young children need both their parents emotionally, fathers not being present emotionally for their children causes attachment disorders. Read about attachment style. thats not the point. the point is that women are much better at it, and men are much better at making money, and women only date men who make more. why have both people do b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:08 PM
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I have given facts and numbers you are giving opinions. According to you research is wrong, numbers are wrong. Everything is wrong but you are right lol. And all you can do is give is your opinion based on the assumptions you have. First you say men aren't stay at home dads and then you say they are not respected, you don't know that lol, you aren't in that marriage. Both my parents worked and divided the childcare equally. It worked for them and we have a happy and healthy household. are you a …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:51 PM
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Firstly your claims are hilarious. A woman getting a job is not an unrealistic dream, since both parents earn now both of them can help with childcare. Both can figure out a schedule and be their for the kids. Men should also form connections with community and family it's their responsibility as well. Which is what is happening now. that's laughable. the rate at which women would be useful in such a context is extremely low, Women have done remarkable researches and will continue to do so even …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:11 AM
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Our WhatsApp is off limits because we have personal conversations with people there. He gave his Instagram password to me on his own and he asked for mine. It wasn't something I pushed him to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 02:27 AM
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I did not ask for anything he gave it to me maybe it's a wrong thing to do and we need to reflect on this action. He wanted me to block people or talk to them if they make me feel uncomfortable and he does the same for me. Our WhatsApp is off limits though because that has personal messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 02:15 AM
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Hey it's upto you to believe me or not. I know what I'll do or what I am doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:12 PM
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I did not "demand" any password from him he gave it to me himself because I asked him once what messages women sent him so he gave it to me so that I can see myself. If he wants he can change his password, just tell me the reason for doing this and if the reason is privacy I'll accept that. I'll never ask for the password. He has my password as well. We don't routinely check each other's account but If there's a problem with someone being inappropriate we handle that. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:59 PM
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the problem is that women have dreams that are unrealistic Having a career and job that you like is not unrealistic. Women have made discoveries as well they have done good work as well and why shouldn't they get that opportunity. Men get it all the time and they have families as well it shouldn't be different for women. These women and the men have no idea how negative the consequences of women studying and working are for family/community and the society as a whole Absolutely not. I live in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 06:55 PM
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I won't feel good because he suddenly changed his password and didn't even tell me why, if everything was okay up until now then what changed. He has my password as well. Instagram is not a place I have personal conversations with friends , co workers or family, so there's nothing there that any person would have asked me to keep a secret that's on WhatsApp or calls and we have privacy there and I trust him. Instagram usually have strangers sending Dms and he can also block people from my accoun…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:58 PM
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Hey I belong from a culture and country where arranged marriages are still a norm but it has also massively changed while family and extended families are important here the choice lies with the people getting married they are allowed to talk and get to know to each other and then decide. I am all for collectivist cultures they are good in many aspects bu no you can't control someone's personal life. Women who were married to men their families chose and weren't allowed to follow their dreams th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 04:35 PM
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If she found out that all these single women were sliding into his dms and flirting with him after seeing said content, they’d probably change their tunes. My boyfriend does get messages like this from women but he has given me access to his account and I can block any woman who is aggressive and doesn't get that he's in a committed relationship and he's not interested in her. So as long as my man doesn't engage with these DM's and has his boundaries in place I don't mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 03:46 PM
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Then men shouldn't marry down, they should marry equal or marry up. Set your standards and protect yourself and be an equal partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 10:26 AM
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yes, in terms of family and genders. No
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:45 PM
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I dont see young women demanding high earners because there is much less difference in pay because of a far more communist economy, and the top 10 percent of earners do not differ as much from the average earners So communism is good so why are you worried communism will be bad for society?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:28 PM
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Well then the world will end why are you worried you wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:23 PM
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Well women can make careers, have powers and I don't see it as bad. Men being more empathetic and involved in childcare seems nice to me. So I see a good future.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:04 PM
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So I was right they are dying out. Well we'll see a new world. Hopefully it's better than this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:41 PM
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Lol this doesn't even make sense. If Alpha's kids are raised by betas then the kids will be betas. So Alphas will die out? Or if Alpha's have kids at older ages and those kids are "retarded" as you say they'll not have alpha kids so will then alphas will die out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:23 PM
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I don't buy in this alpha and beta nonsense anyway. People and cultures evolve with time, our biological, social and psychological behaviours all keep on evolving. I read a research that demisexuality is considered as an evolved response. I have also read about an animal species ( forgetting the name) that were polygamous in nature but recently are moving towards monogamy. The physical strength our ancestors possessed we don't have that because we don't need in it infact in the future it's predi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 08:10 AM
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And women are using you for sex because you don't seem like a marriage material man anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:13 AM
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So the "betas" will have children and the "Alphas" will die out?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:57 AM
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And you think all or even most women think like that? Assholes and dumb people are in all genders. Those women probably will come under that category.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 06:22 AM
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I kind of understood that you have seen and heard things that make you think the way you do and honestly I am coming from a place of very strong support system and trust that I can bet my life on it. So we both will see life differently. Honestly temptations are there for everyone for both men and women, some can control them some cannot. I mean if I can and the people I know can so I guess a lot of people can as well. There will also be people who cannot. Anyone who has choices and especially g…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:00 PM
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I am from a third world country I know of problems here but that wasn't the topic of discussion. Assholes are everywhere. People who can't be good parents I don't expect them to be good humans in anyway. I hope you find happiness in life and meet good people that make you a little optimistic.😀
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:33 PM
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Happiness mostly. If you're asking in a partner then I always wanted a partner who is loyal, empathetic, who I can have good conversations with about anything, who is my partner in my duties and responsibilities, who is funny and shares my sense of humour so we both can make each other laugh, well groomed, financially independent, is happy in whatever career he chooses, can take a stand for me and lastly loves me. My boyfriend is actually like this so it works for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:04 PM
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Anything good happening in people's life is fanfiction and anything bad happening is definitely real?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:57 PM
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So you do get plenty of normal results too. So good then. So the ones that don't find Native American ancestry can either be an affair baby or not be one. Women cheat, but they normally will cheat to leave in today's world. But I do find a lot of paternity fraud so that's women cheating in the good old days. This isn't true though. There are women who claim to love their husbands and sleep around. Someone even shared an article in this very sub about it. Some people just like casual sex be it a …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:44 PM
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You know plenty of men who are discreet I can take guarantee of men in my family and friends who don't cheat. I know of men who have options but will not cheat. You cannot say that they definitely cheat. If people are discreet then we can say the same for women that every woman is a cheater. We can also say that almost everyone is a criminal but they are discreet. That's a very cynical way to look at people and the world. I do genealogy work. I regularly unexpectedly find infidelity in the last …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:04 PM
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You are arguing with a man who says they are a househusband and do nothing that a housewife does. They just make art, watch porn and cheat on their girlfriend ( if it's not an open arrangement) while she works hard. You think they'll understand any sort of love. I am a woman and I don't mind a househusband but I will mind a parasite which this person is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 06:39 AM
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So you're doing everything for her so that in rewards you'll get some side pussy but not because you genuinely love her. Got it. I feel she's also keeping you around because of the work you do not on genuine love for you. Japan also had 13 as the age of consent and it was recently increased to 16. I also read a report that women's marks on medical courses were deliberately decreased so they couldn't get into the course and focus on getting married and having a family so Japan is a misogynistic s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:37 AM
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Also mate guarding which we can see in many animals as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:33 AM
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I've never met a man with options who was loyal to his wives or girlfriends no matter how wonderful those women were I have met men with options who don't cheat because they value their relationship and family. There are successful celebrities who are also in monogamous setup and don't cheat. Some men and women want the variety you are talking about and some don't, desire doesn't have much to do with options. There's a significant number of men whose first priority isn't sex, there life doesn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:32 AM
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I am sorry that you haven't met good men. I know plenty confident and successful men that don't cheat and value their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:15 AM
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What is better then? Clearly the man they were with wasn't good enough for them that's why they divorced right? What makes them high value then? I thought money and status made a man high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:50 AM
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There are more examples of this Sam Taylor is also one of them. You said "no" High value man will go for grannies but clearly there are. How are we sure "no" High value man is going for this granny maybe there are some who have some sort of mommy issues so they are attracted to grannies. Madonna and Cher date young hot men as well. Madonna is currently dating 29 year old man who is an athlete and runs his own centre, I would say that's high value. I don't think there are any rules when it comes …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:46 AM
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Emmanuel Macron, President of France is a High value man and is married to Brigitte Macron, French former educator. He is 45 and she's 69. There are examples like these as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:51 PM
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How come women with kids get remarried easily in their 30's and 40's and are usually with men better than their ex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:40 PM
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Madonna is dating a 29-year-old athlete, Josh Popper, he's rumored to be her new boyfriend, after being spotted together at his New York City gym, Bredwinners. She also posted a photo kissing him. Now it could be that he's with her for the wealth and fame or maybe he likes her but it's no different how a rich and wealthy man dates a younger model.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:35 PM
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Most of them are with age appropriate women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 08:20 AM
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Men want sex all men if you find one that doesn't your dead in Jesus's arms. You do know Asexual men exist right? Every man has a different sexual appetite. FYI women also love sex especially when they are ovulating.
/r/AllPillDebate20/03/23 06:46 AM
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There's a reason they are billionaires and you aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:20 AM
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Not really
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:20 AM
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But it doesn't mean there are not strong trends and patterns at the population level. Strong trends are very cultural. Like in India we have matriarchal tribes in North east men take their wives surname and move into their houses. So I don't know how much this is biological and how much this cultural. Could be both I am not denying anything. I don't think any relationship mirrors the other, every relationship has it's own dynamic. Men will also not live with a women who won't provide with some v…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 03:54 PM
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If hypergamy is primarily biological any woman going against it should be deemed abnormal because they are going against natural way of things or a man being with a woman who is more dominant or powerful would be abnormal too, but society usually sees it as a preference not an unstable condition. I think both men and women should be able to look at their partners and admire them. What I admire in a man may not be the same with some other woman. Like if I become a president even then I would like…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:15 PM
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Do you think women's attraction largely depends on cultural conditioning? If women who are at the top are also hypergamous who will they mate with? Like a prime minister of a country is the most powerful person in that country and has the highest status, they're financially at the top as well. So whoever they date that man will be lower in status, money and power from them. They will be dating down. Like the ex prime minister of New Zealand. Do you think since we never had equality we have been …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:37 PM
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I didn't understand what you tried to convey.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 09:59 AM
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Bill gates is dating Paula Hurd for over a year. She's 60 years old. Bill gates isn't single. "The 67-year-old billionaire has been reportedly dating Paula Hurd, the widow of late Oracle co-CEO Mark Hurd. And it seems their romance has been going on for over a year" Jeff Bezos is also dating Lauren Wendy Sánchez who is 53 year old. They call their blended family brady bunch. So he isn't Single as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:00 AM
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Can we prove it that all powerful males in the world have extramarital dalliances? Especially the one who is being talked about here?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:46 AM
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Everyone loves differently. Your way works for you but other people want different things out of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:44 AM
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The real source of worry is that widespread monogamous pairing of men and women of equivalent (roughly) mate value within their own gender is in fact totally against female evolved nature Like gays?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:35 AM
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And if she is so smart she would look for someone who accept her as she is instead of lying to everyone around her. Ofcourse but being cautious about it wouldn't harm anyone. Ofcourse she could, but she will slip out at some point and the guy will catch it. Women can hide things very well. Some Women are able to hide paternity. If they want to they can. I am not saying it's a good or ethical thing to do but people can hide shit and take it to their graves. Also she doens't have to tell anybody a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:45 PM
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If a woman is smart she won't tell anyone her body count not even her friends especially when they know they'll be judged. I know women who get hymenoplasty( surgical restoration of hymen). If a woman wants no one will know her actual body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:08 PM
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How are you making fun of her hypergamy when she might date down because she won't find anyone better than Brady as you said. Infact she left Brady, he didn't leave her. It's quite literally opposite of hypergamy. Lol
/r/AllPillDebate18/03/23 05:39 PM
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LMAO This is rich woman's hypergamy dictates high/low value men not the other way around men most if not always date down for a woman. Men troll other men for being low value like you did. You think she can't do better than Brady because you think Brady is some sort of high value guy. Giselle probably doesn't see it that way and that's why she left. Men from all walks of life love and care about their wife, children and extended family. It's not like they suddenly loose all emotions. She even ea…
/r/AllPillDebate18/03/23 04:14 PM
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Cheating is a disrespectful behaviour and emotionally abusive yes it isn't as bad as being r*ped still it's a pathetic behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 03:25 PM
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The way he speaks about women I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 03:23 PM
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Iceland is community based but I don't know if they are non monogamous predominantly. I wouldn't believe a youtuber on this. The interviews that I have seen of Icelandic people didn't seem they were in non monogamous relationships but I am sure there might be some non monogamous people there as well as rest of the world. Infact I read polyamorous relationship started gaining traction in Iceland around 2018. So I don't think it's predominant. Iceland people say that non Monogamous relationships a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 03:15 PM
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that is toxic so? does that mean everything they say is bad? nope. Toxic enough to not pay attention to him. If a person says r*pe is good and in the next statement he says we should feed the poor. Is he worthy enough to be followed? and could u send videos of them saying that with context? It's his tweet you can find it on reddit itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 02:52 PM
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A person who sees women as toys and says things like cheat on your women and if they love you they'll stay, women should not disagree with the men in their lives etc they are toxic as shit and in no way cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 02:30 PM
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I understand the premise. I'll also be uncomfortable with a guy whose body count is very high but I'll never know the actual count. It's the same with women one might never know how many sexual partners they had. So worrying about it doesn't really makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:35 PM
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It's so wierd. Men differentiate between themselves by high value/low value thing, then get mad at women when they date down? Think that dating down means she doing bad in her life. How? What she wants in a relationship is not something you or I know. If Tom Brady was good enough for her she wouldn't have left him. Then men will troll her new partners and think he's not at par with Brady when Giselle might be happy with them.
/r/AllPillDebate18/03/23 01:23 PM
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How will a guy ever know that a woman slept with one guy 20 times or slept with 20 different guys once? I as a woman value sexual compatibility. I don't care if the guy was a virgin before he met me or has had some sexual partners. I have also met men who aren't interested in women who are virgins because they want experienced women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:32 PM
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Iceland also ranked least in infidelity and tops gender equality. It's also one of the happiest countries in the world. It seems they have better relationships and families.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 07:06 AM
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I am a woman from India and I agree to this. Many poor women here will leave their patriarchal households if a western man gives them that opportunity. They want to move to US for a better lifestyle, better opportunities not because Western men are great( unless they look like Chris Evans, Henry Cavill etc). Rich women in India will not go for an average white man they'll either go for a rich white man or rich Indian man. Also our conditioning is White equals pretty which isn't true. Many people…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:48 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:34 AM
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Because he's lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:30 AM
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Indian men like Western women that we are constantly asked to look like them. Many white women make their careers here in movies because they have the looks that people here like. White=Beautiful in South East Asia, plus a spouse from the west means moving to the west where you can get a lot of opportunities,.make more money, have a richer spouse so both western men and women are equally in demand here. You guys are just privileged and people who want that privilege will want you and those who a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:22 AM
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As a woman from India most women here won't go for American men( unless they look like Chris Evans) for their looks, attractiveness, etc. They'd go for them so that they can leave their patriarchal household behind and move to America where they can have freedom. Then they'll get all the opportunities that they wouldn't in their home country. Western men aren't better just more privileged.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 06:17 AM
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I am sorry I am actually new to this internet pills world. Thank you for replying and I'll read up more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:31 PM
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According to the Pew Research Center, an estimated 2.1 million fathers were stay-at-home dads in 2021—up 8% since 1989.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 03:15 PM
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Being a man that is unable to sexually attract a woman is a fate worse than death. Wow this a new thing I have heard. I have never been around men like this. I know for sure that my dad, or my brothers will take my side and leave their partners if they are abusive to me no questions asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:41 PM
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Okay so let's say a woman is mistreating your parents, siblings or children, men will still stay with them because pussy? No other relationships matter to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:25 PM
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What does red pill want?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:22 PM
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You'll be with a woman who abuses you or your loved ones so that you can have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:14 PM
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So you think if a man makes a woman feel bad she should stay with him and not go? Once the good feeling stops then she’s gone. You have stopped making your woman feel good and you expect them to love you? I don't get this. Will you stay with a person who makes you feel bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:30 PM
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What do women want?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 08:11 AM
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You want women to love you and be with you even when you hurt them in worst possible way? Will you keep loving your wife/girlfriend in the same way if they cheat on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 06:02 AM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:57 PM
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No I get it now your opinions are clearly biased and you only believe things that you want to even though there are many things that prove otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:57 PM
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Cool bro. Doesn't change anything for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:56 PM
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Nope everyone has a potential to be a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:55 PM
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Aah you haven't read much. Now I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:55 PM
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Everyone's a whore, Grace. We just sell different parts of ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:54 PM
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If actual scientific articles and research are fairytale to you then it's fine. You can believe what you want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:53 PM
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Your reality and my reality aren't the same. We belong from different cultures, have different conditioning, have different experiences hence we will see the world differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:52 PM
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1 woman in 100 men is doing field job.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:39 AM
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Monogamy mostly came into being so that both the parents can take care of their offsprings, it was beneficial for them. Monogamy will still exist because kids do need both the parents to take care of them and the best way to do that is by being pair bonded.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:27 AM
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14% is still big considering women never used to work in construction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:24 AM
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There are women in other areas of construction work as well but yes they are less in numbers. 37% new entrants were women in the construction work. So things are changing it won't change in just some years but it has started so hopefully we'll see more changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:57 AM
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Almost all? You don't know women who are engineers, architects, construction workers? Women make up around 14% of construction industry professionals and this number is only set to rise with more and more women in construction and engineering jobs. In India we have 7 million female construction workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:43 AM
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You can keep on believing things which aren't true instead of keeping a nuanced approach. It's yours life. It's all down to your beliefs now because you don't believe studies, numbers, psychology, anecdotes and you're clearly very biased.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:23 AM
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Amd only man whores cheat on their woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:19 AM
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Because they weren't "designed" to get pregnant by one man. To increase the chances of impregnation early women used to sleep with multiple men. They didn't just have kids by one man they had kids by several men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:19 AM
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Any man who loves his family and woman admires her would never be a man whore at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:16 AM
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They aren't drastically different. I didn't make up what I wrote it's literally a study "microevolution". You keep saying biology and science when I give you actual science you call it false. So you can keep believing whatever you want to. Have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:14 AM
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So everyone is living their own reality which can be different from each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:14 AM
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I think this person is confusing human psychology with biology, the things he's talking about being hardwired are human psychology which aren't absolute and change according to the needs and time. Biology is just hormones whose level changes according to our situations in life. Like men's testosterone drops when they are in love and are active fathers. Sex hormones drop as we age or going through some disease. Many times they have mentioned that they should get sexual abundance i.e. sleeping wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:27 PM
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I think this person is confusing human psychology with biology, the things he's talking about being hardwired are human psychology which aren't absolute and change according to the needs and time. Biology is just hormones whose level changes according to our situations in life. Like men's testosterone drops when they are in love and are active fathers. Sex hormones drop as we age or going through some disease. Many times they have mentioned that they should get sexual abundance i.e. sleeping wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:26 PM
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Many actors, doctors, football players(Lionel Messi the best player in the game), basketball players also don't have multiple women. It depends on person to person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:19 PM
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Biology does a lot of things, women's hormones act up during their menstrual cycle and pregnancy that doesn't give them rights to b assholes. In the same way men can control themselves if they want to. Do you know both men and women were polygamous in the beginning of the time men wanted to spread their genes and women slept around because they wanted to increase the chances of impregnation. It wasn't men cheating and women accepting both were sleeping around. Our biological behaviours changes a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:07 PM
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Pair bonding is real for both. They’re not designed to and this are most likely women with high body counts before their marriage That's your assumption and it is based on the biases you have. I have given you other perspectives, I have given you numbers. If you still don't want to see other side of the things it's absolutely fine. It wouldn't change the reality I live in and see everyday. But thank you for the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:02 PM
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What you said aren't facts either because human psychology is not an absolute science so it will always be very subjective. Also it doesn't matter you said women will not sleep with other men if she loves her husband, well they do. I also shared the numbers with you from the Ashley Madison website. So it's not that big of a difference. You are free to not believe it,m though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:59 PM
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In fact, a study at the affair dating website AshleyMadison.com found that 67 percent of heterosexual, married women who cheat sought out "romantic passion," yet 100 percent of the women denied any intention of leaving their husbands; some even "stated their overt love for their husbands, painting them in a positive light." Here buddy. If you'd like to see that women sleep for variety too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:25 PM
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Men want these things: Emotional connection Stability Beautiful/Hot Can handle household Raise his kids Submissive Why can't a woman who does all these things for her man slave herself for her man, makes his life easier go out and have some fun non commited sex? Just to blow off steam. So if you are expecting loyalty from your partner then you give loyalty as well otherwise you can find a woman who is into open relationships and you both can sleep around for variety and come back home to each ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:24 PM
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In fact, a study at the affair dating website AshleyMadison.com found that 67 percent of heterosexual, married women who cheat sought out "romantic passion," yet 100 percent of the women denied any intention of leaving their husbands; some even "stated their overt love for their husbands, painting them in a positive light." Here buddy. If you'd like to see that women sleep for variety too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:14 PM
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Wanting something and acting on them are also two very different things. So there maybe a percentage of men who want this but they don't act on it because they know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:09 PM
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Modern situations and conventions doesn’t undo centuries of evolutionary biology though. A lot has changed, physical strength of us as a population is going down because we don't have to hunt or save ourselves from predators. Infact in the future our physical strength will become even more less because machines are taking up all the physical tasks. But will that woman date an attractive man that bags groceries for $9 an hour? Probably not. Why is that? That depends, can that man have conversatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:51 PM
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It was nice talking to you as well. Usually people aren't very respectful here. So thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:42 PM
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What do you as a man want, because every man wants different things? And what are women getting?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:36 PM
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You do know that demisexual and asexual men exist right? For them the need of many women to satisfy them sexually doesn't exist. Men aren't homogeneous a lot of men want a lot of different things from life and are happy sexually with one person some are not satisfied with one person. It largely depends on that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:35 PM
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We are continuously evolving things are changing. Cultural expectations are changing. And slight difference is when a woman is with the man she loves and respects she’d never want to fuck another guy. Ever. Guys can love their woman and fuck 100 girls and still come back to his wife Any person who cheats on their partner doesn't respect them be it a man or a woman. Both men and women can cheat for variety and come back to their partners who they love. I can't do anything if you don't want to bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:32 PM
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When a woman’s man cheats on her she’s worried about the emotional connection he could potentially have with that woman because then her security and resources would be in jeopardy if that man leaves. Biological mechanism I think since we have move past this phase. Like what security or resources will a man provide today which a woman can't get herself? The man still has to give resources to his children wheather the couple stays together or not. And if it's about love then if she's not with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:26 PM
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I am sorry you feel that way but people get attracted to different things. I hope things work out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:18 PM
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Men pair bond too men's level of oxytocin increases while sex, hence they pair bond. This same argument can be used for men as well. When a man is in love or is an actively involved father there testosterone levels decreases so that they actively take care of their families and don't wander off.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:17 PM
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I think western dating is very influenced by individualistic culture. The decisions are very self centred, the approach is very 'me' based. Like choosing a partner doesn't just depend upon what I am getting but also what I can give. Are all of those values compatible? Will we able to grow? Will we be functional members of a community? All those sorts of things. People in west to find a partner who fulfills all all roles of life. I don't expect that from my partner. I have family members and frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:15 PM
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They actually do. Not all but there is a significant number of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:45 PM
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I tried to give you so many examples seems like you see things very one dimensionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:42 PM
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So that's cultural right. That wasn't a biological Instinct. What causes one embarrassment depends on the kind of the culture they live in. Like in America living with your parents all your life is embarassing but here in my country it's an expectation that you will love with your parents and take care of them and if you don't then causes embarrassment. Women also feel embarrassment when their man cheats on them. It's very cultural. In cultures where it's accepted they won't be embarrassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:35 PM
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These are the generalities of the culture I am talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:33 PM
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Like let's see the New Zealand's ex PM. She was the PM so she was the most powerful person in her country and the guy she married is a TV presenter so she did marry down. Women do marry down. I am not denying there will be many women who will go for equal and above but women do go down as well, it's just people troll the couple a lot. Like if a man is earning less he'll be trolled so much by other men that he'll become insecure. Sad state of affairs. Maybe many men want to sleep with many women,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:32 PM
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I am sorry but it isn't. This is just a version of things that you want to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 10:50 AM
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Men and women aren't drastically different as a whole. If a rich and attractive older women wants to date/marry young men they will date her or marry her for whatever ulterior motives but they will just like young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:18 AM
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I can be friends with someone who's not interested in me if I genuinely enjoy their company. Secondly I can be friendzoned but I'll never sleep with a man until I am in a committed relationship with him, this might make me old school and people might call me prude but I don't care. I am not going to sleep with someone just to impress them or to get something from them. I'll lose all my confidence if I do this. A person is high value for me if they are compatible with me, if they are loyal to me,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 08:10 AM
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I think it's some sort of validation or trying to feel better, that allows them to cheat and then rationalise that's why they make these kind of statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:14 AM
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And what are your examples of dating down socio-economically here? A TV presenter may earn less money and have less influence than a PM, but that isn't really a great disparity in class. I can't say for everyone but I usually see both men and women dating in their own class. Like men who are at high positions in my country will not go for a woman whose let's say a maid. They'll try to find someone in their class. And I agree that a TV presenter and a PM might not differ much in class but the wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:46 AM
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So I guess it mostly belongs to one's culture then rather than some inherent nature of men or women. Many A list actresses have married down as well and there hasn't been cheating scandals from either side. Ex prime minister of New Zealand is more powerful than her TV presenter husband. All these things are usually very personalised.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:43 AM
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Have you heard of Arranged marriage Circles in Southeast Asia. Women's qualifications matter a lot. Most men aren't going to marry a women who is not college educated. Some men will want doctors because they are doctors themselves, men at high positions seek women at high positions for marriage purposes. It's a status symbol to get a well educated earning wife here. Sure there will be some men who will not care about it but they want housewives. This is literally how matchmaking goes here. So I …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:42 AM
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I don't know how much you know about arrange marriage circles in the south east Asia and women's qualifications matter there a lot. Some men only go for women who are doctors. Some men want women who takes 50% of financial responsibility. Some men want women who are on same educational level as them. College education is literally very important in arrange marriage circles in South East Asia.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:35 AM
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Look at any religious text or even any celebrity affair ever. Any? Okay in Hindu religion text there's a woman named Draupadi who was married to five kings. These kings were brothers who shared her. Not exactly cheating but a poly relationship for a woman. The men were also what you call as high Value. Hindu mythology also has many examples of loyal husbands who will be high value men according to the people here. Lord Rama, Shiva etc. Women keep fasts to get husband like Lord Shiva. A whore wif…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:20 AM
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Untrue women also cheat for fun and have no interest in leaving their husbands. Women cheat for variety too. Talk to women you'll know it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:05 AM
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This is wierd if the man doesn't want to be with one woman then they shouldn't date the woman who are expecting monogamy. Women may have shared successful men earlier because they didn't have a choice, now they do, they can also become a doctor or an A list actress, so they can be successful as well. If they have equal status as men and not dependant on men there's no need to share men. They can find men who expect monogamy as well. And yes many doctors and A list actors also want monogamy. That…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:01 AM
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Your truth is not everyone's.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:03 AM
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You are too pessimistic I hope you meet some good optimistic people in life and you get to see different side of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:27 PM
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Well that means different things make different people happy. One thing doesn't go for all. Same as men cheating, some will some won't irrespective of the options they get. really struggle to believe unmarried women are happier You struggle but many women are happy unmarried.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:25 PM
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I am sure you still had some and prostitutes are always available but you didn't. Good for you man. You're a good husband
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:22 PM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/202102/why-many-single-women-without-children-are-so-happy%3famp
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:19 PM
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I never claimed that no man cheats I just said some do and some don't. Well the instinct doesn't stop there the instinct is to spread the "seed" right? Then what made you stop there you could have slept with more women according to your Instinct right? But you didn't. You didn't cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:16 PM
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I won't. I know myself better than you. I hate to tell you this but you aren't God. You have no numbers in reasearch on how many men want to cheat. You don't know every man in the world. Many men with options don't cheat either. There are many men with different preferences and instincts. There are asexual men, there are demisexual men, there are gray sexual men all have different instincts hence will react differently. Well you didn't cheat either doesn't matter what your arrangement is. You co…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:10 PM
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Nope single and childless women of all ages please see the studies. They even live longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:06 PM
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The guy you're replying to is just trying to get validation of some sort, they want to feel better by getting a confirmation that everyone cheats and men have no self control so it's not their fault but they won't be able to prove it so it's just talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:05 PM
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I am not a man if that wasn't clear. Anyway no I won't cheat. There will significant number of men who will choose not to cheat. You can make yourself feel better by thinking that everyone cheats if it makes you happy. You can put the reminder for thirty years and I'll say the same. Lastly have you cheated on your wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:03 PM
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No, people need relationships to be happy. This idea of being alone forever is miserable, women cope a lot with wine and cats when they can’t get Chad, but still they are miserable if they are alone. Relationships yes romantic relationships not necessarily. People have friends, siblings, parents, they can adopt kids, have a career they love. It's so much better than being with person that doesn't respect you or love you. You assume women are miserable and alone. The happiest group of people are …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:57 PM
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The instinct is to sleep with multiple women, that’s it. How the family reacts is their own business. Most men who are afraid of hurting their family simply hide the fact that they cheated. Well I am just glad the men in my life aren't like this and you can't convince me otherwise. The men I know their more stronger instincts are to protect their families from any hurt, which includes cheating. You're basing everything on your assumptions about what happens. Your assumptions aren't going to chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:54 PM
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Again that's your opinion. People can be happy in many different ways. It’s about LOOKS, not “society” Were those guys considerably better looking than your current bf? I highly doubt it. Yeah I remember one of them was extremely charming but I wasn't interested so didn't even see if I was compatible with him. Too much waste of my energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:41 PM
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Instinct to hurt tour family and loved ones is very bad as well and people who don't want to do it can control it. I don’t think women want to cheat for a good time, they want to cheat for good genes, and I think they do it all the time You think all this. Married women hook up well past 40 and they don't want kids they just hook up for a good time. Someone shared an article on this thread about it as well. Sorry if I don’t trust you, but if I had to listen to what women say then looks wouldn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:39 PM
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Absolutely not. I can live a happy life just by myself as well. I am not not going to leave a relationship I have built for years with love just because a better man is interested in me. I have turned down better options according to the society for the guy I love and am happy with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:29 PM
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I am sorry but no they didn't cheat. Some people just respect their relationships. Animalistic instinct is also killing and non consensual sex most men don't do that do they? It's all about your self control and morals. You think women don't want to cheat just for a good time and forget about it? Because I have seen that happen as well. You are just saying all of this to make yourself feel better. I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:27 PM
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You can believe what you want it wouldn't change my reality. I want a happy life that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:23 PM
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What if the guy is lying? Does this husband trust his wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:12 PM
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Lol I don't care if a man earns a billion dollars if he can't respect me, love me and promise me loyalty I'll not be with him, I am sure there will be some girls who will be okay with this behaviour. Secondly I'll never leave a partner who I share good compatibility with, who loves me, respects me, and is a team with me over a guy who might get me access to expensive things and fame.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:11 PM
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How do you know they have? I can only talk about men I know who have had options to cheat but have turned those options down because they love and respect their partners. One of them even filed a complaint with HR because a girl was hitting on him constantly. So men can absolutely control themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 07:05 PM
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Okay dip it in water.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:50 PM
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He's an abuser as per the post so the point stll stands women with mental health issues are attracted to abusers like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:41 PM
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Loyalty, compatibility, financially independent, empathetic makes a high value man for me. I don't want a man who is a billionaire but treats me badly. I can make my own money which is more than enough for me. An equal is a good deal because we share the same kind of status no one has power over the other. Confidence is good an attractive in any person be it a man or woman. I'll not submit to a guy no matter how much money he has or what high status he holds.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:38 PM
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I understand your point, but it could also be because men had a lot of resources and women have just started to get their own and hence we see more young women with older men? Like I don't buy young men date Madonna for love they are mostly in for resources and opportunities. We have both sugar daddies and sugar mommies sure sugar daddies must be more. If we had equal resources divided between men and women these maybe we'll see almost equal number of young men and women with older people. I fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 02:24 PM
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Yea cause Bezos cheated on her… plenty of men who do like Tiger Woods, Lawrence Stroll, Clint Eastwood, Richard Gere, Eddie Murphy, etc.. again you need to look at large sample sizes and distribution of behavior, not individual examples. But so many women celebrities cheat as well Meg Ryan, Jennifer Lopez, Kristin Stewart, Katherine Mcfee, Madonna, Elizabeth Taylor so that could be true of anyone. Cheaters will cheat regardless of their genders there's isn't much percentage difference between th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:59 PM
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Didn't Mackenzie Scott ask for divorce? I don't remember much about it. There are men who haven't left their partners, Hugh Jackman, Sundar Pichai, Lionel Messi, Mark Zuckerberg, Barack Obama etc. and the male sex drive is much higher than women’s I read it's higher but much higher?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:44 PM
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What if she started dating a guy who wasn't that successful but grew to be successful while they were dating? Is she shallow if she continues to date him?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:27 PM
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Maybe to the world but not your close ones. They should stand by you no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:32 PM
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It's like saying, you know a woman who is attracted to single man who is short, balding, fat with a recessed jaw and saying "sEe! woMen aRe alL diFfeRent!" I know a woman who specifically likes dating fat men, who she also wants to have hairy chest. She likes it she's attracted to it. So there are woman who are attracted to different things. If you don't want to believe it then that's on you. Or, you can, you know ignore what the woman tells you and watch who she actually pursues and dates like …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:30 PM
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Thank you for making sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:17 PM
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I am sorry but if a male who is important in my life comes to me and talks to me about these things I'll try to help him or get him the help he needs. I'll not make him feel bad about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:16 PM
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I am so sorry man. I hope you get better friends if not I hope you see a therapist and get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:14 PM
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Every woman is attracted to different things, some might ne general some different amd some even wierd. You are a man you can only assume what a woman likes, you can only sit and rationalise why a particular man was chosen you'll not know the real reason unless the woman tells you. You are looking and observing women through a male perspective it isn't going to give you the right answers most of the time. The general advice might be okay but then it's okay for everyone like working out, it's app…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:13 PM
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We are still talking about mental health even though there is stigma. We can't stop now just because we'll be shamed right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:07 PM
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Ask other men, raise your issues, lots of men slutshame women for anything and everything they do, women still keep on fighting. What's stopping you. Ask for help, talk about your genuine issues, understand other's perspectives as well. Men aren't homogeneous, men will be different from each other create a space for everyone, there's no need to degrade other gender while doing this which is what red pill does.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:53 PM
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Red pill is incel nonsense. Actual scientific research on helping men to deal with sexual frustration are those happening? Are drugs being formulated?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:41 PM
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I have worked with a psychiatrist who has worked with a lot of people going through sexual problems. I am sure he can help me out with this. I'll ask him about it. LMAO, you think your boyfriend, brothers and coworkers are going to level with you about the degeneracy of their actual sex drives knowing full way what kind of judgement you and the rest of society is likely to cast on them for admitting this? If men don't talk about things how do they expect anyone to be empathetic towards them or u…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:39 PM
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Why don't men have empathy towards these unique challenges that they face and find a solution or a better coping mechanisms for this very problem. Why aren't men doing researches on this. Why aren't men supporting each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:32 PM
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Because men around me aren't like this. I'll ask my boyfriend,my brothers, my coworkers, friends even my dad this thing tomorrow morning. I'd like to see the responses, because if this is such a big problem why haven't people especially men found a solution to this. For more reach I'll even ask therapists, psychiatrists on more information if they could provide me on this topic. Men are in power ask for those days, if this is as normal as you say it is why aren't fellow men in power helping you …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:29 PM
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Isn't sex different for different people? Everyone has different level of sexual urges and different ways to satisfy them. I read men's experience on it and shared it. That's all I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:07 PM
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Men will literally get shaky and incredibly irritable if they go too long without sex or masturbation. Well I have not seen this happen to men but if it does happen maybe see a doctor. I don't think it's normal. If your libido is so different then maybe men need to find a better way to cope. Adopt better coping mechanisms. Women go through a lot of hormonal imbalances too during PMS and they become irritable that doesn't mean it's okay for women to use it as an excuse to be shitty and not being …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:05 PM
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That's no excuse. There's a reason men who commit sexual violence are arrested right? Men can have self control as well. I have seen men do it and they don't get crazy about it or are obsessed over it. If something is a problem then you need to find a solution for it. For example PMS in women causes a lot of hormonal issues, mood swings etc. but that's no reason to be an asshole or treat someone badly or centre your life around it. There's a problem find a better coping solution just like every …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:56 PM
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I don't belong to the western world but I have seen both kinds of men the ones whose life revolve around sex and the ones whose don't, doesn't mean sex isn't important to them it's just not everything to them. I have seen men whose life don't revolve around sex being genuinely interested in doing things, have intresting hobbies because they like them not because it earns them points from women, I have seen these men very involved with their friends and families and protective of them. Maybe ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:51 PM
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I think you are not involved with other things as much especially not emotionally involved, sex is clouding your thoughts too much. Is Sex the only thing that's bringing you joy? Sex is just one of the good feelings that exists, maybe you need to explore more. Desire comes back to me too but I have a lot of things that make me happy and I do them if I cannot have sex with my partner at that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:17 PM
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You have made the rules of what is self respecting for men and what is not. The word in itself is "self" respecting it's different for different people. No two selves are same. Anyway I read on a subreddit some men like mastrubation over sex because it gives them more control some like sex over mastrubation. So would you rather cheat on your gf/ wife or mastrubate, if these are the two options you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:14 PM
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Men can masturbate right? The end goal of sex( apart from reproduction) is orgasm right? Men can achieve orgasms through mastrubation and hence doing that is also a kind of self control. For instance of hunger let's say you are a vegetarian and most of the food present is non vegetarian and only one plain looking salad is vegetarian you'd still pick the vegetarian option to satisfy your hunger. In the same way you always have mastrubation to satisfy your urges at that time, may not be the best o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:25 PM
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