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My boyfriend of six months pays for about 98% of our outings I’d say. (I can maybe sometimes sneak in an ice cream treat on my costs after dinner!) He makes a lot more money than I do and really doesn’t let me pay for anything when we’re out. He’s very happy to provide in that way. But yes it did make me feel guilty sometimes so to combat this a bit I offer to make a nice homecooked dinner for him often and go out of my way to bake him his favourite cookies and the like when he’s here. So whenev…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/19 09:47 AM
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I’ve taken the first before and always come out as INFJ. With the other I am type 2. Sounds about right! It tells me to take 4w5 into account too so that’s interesting.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/19 09:09 PM
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We mainly call eachother the Dutch word for 'Monkey'. It kinda just happened! I tend to call him 'handsome' too as he calls me 'beautiful' too from time to time.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/19 11:13 AM
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Very similar then! It was very difficult for me to get out of my comfort zone. But it really makes a big difference in how people react to me. I definitely prefer to be in my introverted little world sometimes ;) but I balance it out now.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/19 01:44 PM
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Definitely! Even though I've always felt differently, mainstream society and my ex-boyfriend had me dressed like a little boy.. because I thought 'fitting in' and being a 'strong independent woman who doesn't need a man' was expected of me. And my ex always said he thought I looked frumpy and stupid in anything remotely feminine. So I didn't really take care of myself. After that relationship ended I started listening to myself more and while googling a bit I stumbled upon the RPW subreddit. And…
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/19 10:46 AM
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Growing up until the age of 10 my family was very traditional. My dad worked, and worked hard. My mom was a SAHM and it seemed the right thing. Unfortunately, I feel like that was about the time the feminists started up once more and my mom was reading those magazines with all kinds of feminist propaganda. She divorced my dad for the weirdest reasons and tried to bring me up in feminist ways too. I always thought it felt weird, but everyone else was doing it too.. so.. I’m probably the weird one…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/19 02:48 PM
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You're very right! I don't really parade it either. I sometimes try to gauge someone's reaction by saying something borderline redpilled.. but haven't had much luck so far! A secret handshake or codeword would be nice. I'll keep it in mind! Thank you very much.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/19 12:19 PM
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That sounds pretty good and very doable. I looked into it here and indeed saw that religious extremism was the only exception and even then it's very difficult to get everything in order and not have you under some weird sort of constant scrutiny. Belgium is a good alternative. SO has his own business that's doing very well and all online so not tied to a location. This is definitely something to keep in mind. Also slightly off topic, but it's good to see some RPW closeby. I feel like I hardly m…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/19 11:27 AM
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This is so good to read! I'm Dutch, living in The Netherlands still but SO and I have discussed wanting to homeschool but it's just... impossible here. We've only recently started dating so just discussed 'future' as a part of vetting to see if we're on the same page.. but it's good to know it would be possible to move somewhere relatively close to our families but also be able to homeschool!
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/19 09:46 AM
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That sounds lovely! We've only just started dating exclusively and his birthday is on the 13th. So I think I'm combining them a bit :) I booked a nice dinner in a special place for his birthday and will probably make/bake him something hand-made to give on valentines. Like bake a batch of his favourite cookies but heart shaped, draw a card and package it in a little box. I don't like the idea of actually buying something for valentines (like perfume or somerhing), if that makes sense. Hence the …
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/19 10:16 AM
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I assume he has little to no means to contact her as he does his bike charity ride across country. :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/18 06:41 AM
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I think it definitely attributed to it, but there were some other factors too however, that I only now looking back.. Up until I was about 10 years old I was raised in a pretty solid traditional family (My dad was the breadwinner, my mom a SAHM). My mom met new people and started reading a few women's magazines that, at the time, we're kind of 'advocating' for the feminism trend (saying divorce isn't that bad and everything)..so..she divorced my dad on some vague woman-of-power notion. I love my…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 03:06 PM
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I used to be with someone roughly 7 years older than me. We met while I was in high school. Things were lovely for a long time but at some point I ‘caught up’ I guess and the relationship turned out not to be emotionally stable at all, rather emotionally abusing. Thing is, I think in general it’s desirable for a woman to date someone older than herself. Often it does work out, sometimes (like with my relationship) it just doesn’t :)
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 05:14 AM
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I don’t think I would have.. or ‘too late’ so to say. It took a toll but I’m def a better person now.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/18 06:18 PM
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It sounds like there are expectations on her part (in her mind) that she feels disappointed about when they aren't met. This is understandable but also a very woman-like thing to do (trust me, I've been there and still sometimes catch myself going there.) I think you're right to tell her it's a communication thing and they just need to talk about it. If they're gonna hang out for a movie she should probably just ask him if he also wants to do something after or not. About the cherry blossoms, ma…
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/18 09:22 AM
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Sounds a lot like how I was/felt :) If you want another person to converse with, shoot me a PM! Looking back now, it would've been better if I called it quits 3 years prior.. but I didn't see it at the time. I'm glad I did eventually though and didn't settle in a unhappy marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/18 01:54 PM
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I'll PM you :)
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/18 06:32 AM
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Not OP but I was in somewhat the same boat. A change in my daily routine made me re-evaluate my life and it turned out my ex was mentally abusive. Something I didn’t see at all because he was my first and only love and I thought things were just ‘supposed to be like this’. (I mean, everyone goes through a rough spell once or twice or... three or four or... five? Times. ...... right? - that was my way if thinking) My job moved places and I met new people during that change that I naturally came t…
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/18 05:55 AM
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I think it may only be a possible deal breaker if he shows signs of it really getting in the way of him leading in some situations. Which we (and you) wont be able to predict unless you get to vet him more. I wouldn't see it as a red flag from the get-go, I think it really depends just how much it influences his life. If he's all talk-flirty with women he's not commited to but shows signs of copping out with anxiety on important life decisions then it might be. I think the only way to know this …
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/18 10:31 AM
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I won't be with my SO unfortunately (unless he has a surprise!) but I've hand drawn a card and am baking him heart shaped cookies to send over. I really love your idea! it sounds so sweet <3 I'm sure he'll appreciate it!
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/18 03:34 PM
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Oh I didn’t know that! guess they were giving me compliments all along then ;)
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/18 05:58 PM
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I would tell her that No, you're not weird for not wanting to 'hook up' , 'sleep around', get drunk and act 'slutty' like 90% of your peers. I remember feeling very left out because that's what all my classmates were doing in highschool and they often teased me that I was such a prude. Now I'm just really glad I never gave in, but I'd love to tell my younger self it's the right thing to not want to - because it definitely made me feel a bit insecure at times.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/18 08:52 AM
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You’re very welcome. I understand where you’re coming from and I’d prob have a little ‘freak out’ too so it’s ok! Sometimes you just need people to honestly tell you it’ll be alright. To be honest, when my stretch marks were ‘fresh’ (awful looking purple/red marks) I was very very insecure about them. I started rubbing them with lotion every day and before I knew it they started to heal and fade. Right now they’re a faint white and you can barely see them. If you ever feel like you need to vent …
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 07:12 PM
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Darling, things like stretch marks shouldn't worry you. I have them too, because I used to be as straight as a stick as a child then suddenly grew hips, breasts and a butt when I hit puberty. And I've never heard my man complain about them. I'll repeat what the others have said; don't worry about that too much and focus on getting healthy <3 Don't be afraid of the hypothetical decline. You sound like you've got a lot of discipline and as long as that's in you, you'll be just fine. Heal, this is …
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 12:51 PM
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All these lovely recipes makes me wish there was a RPW cookbook or something! Yummy!
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 12:20 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/18 01:28 PM
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INFJ-T, 'The Advocate'. The description really rings true to me! It's weirdly accurate, but it feels good to read about it :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/18 01:27 PM
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I'd love this too :) it would be nice to be able to chat to some like-minded women. My close friends are great but none of them are really red-pilled women so I generally don't ask them about that sort of stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/18 01:11 PM
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Oh thank you for replying! I have read over your comments carefully several times. The individual cards plus the combined analysis at the end do truly resonate with me. I am now a completely different woman than I was at the start of the year- much more myself. And still growing into my potential and true calling. It’s a bit scary sometimes (i.e. I need to be more open and out there with my feelings instead of disregarding them altogether like I used to because I was afraid to anger my then-SO) …
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/17 07:25 AM
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Thank you so much. I have indeed been diligent with my goals and positive outlook but lately had a minor setback that made me question the work a bit. It’s reassuring that I’m still doing the right thing :) Merry christmas!
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/17 07:20 AM
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Hope everything is ok with your family <3 I'm a bit of a lurker here (well, everywhere) but want to become more active here and this caught my eye. I've been through a bit of a bumpy year so figured might as well.. My question would be.. What will the next 6 months of the new year look like for me? (Relationship wise mostly, but also life in general)
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/17 01:14 PM
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