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DiscussionTardisCat2020/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:48 AM
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Question For WomenTardisCat2020/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 11:16 AM
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I'd pay to see men and women like you actually make real opposite sex friends, so you can gain empathy and perspective instead of unnecessary sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 09:57 AM
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Fuck this narrative of women getting no responsibility for their choices Not what it sounds like...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 06:53 PM
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Yup, which is extremely unfortunate. It makes things seem very one-sided, and only serves to perpetuate the concept of "women divorce frivolously for cash and prizes" when really many women do it in an effort to escape an abusive husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 04:40 PM
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Believe me, I've seen firsthand how it works as the child from a divorced family.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 04:36 PM
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Gotta say, that's a fucked up take on things. And why are you only getting angry at women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 04:34 PM
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Only if they think gold diggers are the best kind of woman they're capable of attracting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 03:09 PM
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This is also the idea around child maintaience, do disrupt the child’s routine as little as possible. True, if that's what it's used for I've no major issues with it. A lot of users here think that’s unfair though, and in so many words believe “yeah the child should starve” due to the irresponsible actions of one or both parents. There are indeed a lot of selfish people here. It's disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 03:07 PM
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Nah, I just don't see any point in talking shit about women, and I don't like it when it's done to us men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 03:04 PM
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Alimony isn't the same as child support. I'm very much against the concept of alimony, as well as the idea of making sure your ex keeps living to "the standard they've grown used to". Frankly that's just childish...your life drastically changed, that may mean you have to make sacrifices on one salary that you didn't have to when there were two incomes. That's just life. But child support is absolutely a necessity. No child ever asks to be born, nor do they have any control over what their parent…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 12:56 PM
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Your true issue with Awalt is that men are starting to protect themselves from being used as objects, tools by women. And you do not want that. You want men to remain as useful idiots for you while being undeserving of said trust. From what I've seen here, the issue with awalt is the same as amalt. Namely, it provides a convenient hide-behind when someone wants to talk shit about the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 12:48 PM
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Much of civilization wasn't good for many people, it was frequently forced on the lower classes and minority groups. Yes, it "worked" but not because everyone wanted it or agreed to it or had access to alternatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 11:43 AM
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Same thing with women, women are designed to parasitically use men for there resources. Using words and feeling to manipulate others to extract as much as they can. Men are designed to want to have sex and kids with women. And many men will do what it takes to do so. This is one of the worst takes of humans I've seen in a while. Are you aware that even babies only a few months old are capable of empathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 11:39 AM
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The old school tradition Monogamy system (the one that is currently dead) is the only thing that works, it is fundamentally flawed and can be abused. But it actually works. And that requires most people to be raised a certain way to make it work and make it satisfying for them. I wouldn't say it worked, rather enough people kept quiet about how horrible it was and everyone pretended it was fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 11:34 AM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 11:30 AM
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Hypergamous behavior is seen in both sexes, and non hypergamous behavior is also seen in both sexes. Some women date down, some men date up. The person who wants a specific partner will put in whatever kind of effort is required to get them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 11:29 AM
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An observation based on only 2 people, one of which you admit to not having much information about, is nowhere near enough to make the kind of assertion in your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 10:06 AM
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I don't think the current state of marriage is good for anyone, man or woman. It needs an overhaul.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 10:03 AM
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Or...bear with me, this is pretty wild...women are just as much a bunch of individuals as we are, and it's incredibly difficult to run enough studies with sufficient controls to even begin to figure out why some have X behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 09:58 AM
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I'm pro-choice as well, but for me personhood is when the brain and nervous system connect and it's able to feel pain. Usually around week 22 or so. Ethics, imo, hinges primarily on causing the least amount of pain as possible. Since it causes immense mental pain and potentially severe physical pain and irreversible bodily changes to go through an unwanted pregnancy, it is far better to allow abortions than to torture women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 04:21 AM
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Man, you're going to die. The amount of dudebros here who didn't get hugged enough is astounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 04:11 AM
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You did right.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 04:09 AM
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Right back at you, brosef.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:56 AM
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Yeah, you're right. It's really annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:55 AM
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Not in my experience, but alright bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:55 AM
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Never said it wasn't human. Obviously it is. Yes, that's the maximum since after that the nervous system and brain will be attached and capable of feeling pain. Prior to that, it is physically impossible. But again, the vast majority are done well within the first few weeks, nowhere near the 20 week mark. If a woman doesn't want to have her body used for a pregnancy, she has zero reason to keep putting herself in danger or discomfort for longer than necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:48 AM
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The overwhelming majority of abortions take place before the being could possibly be called a baby though, in the first few weeks when it has no brain or nervous system. The very rare times an abortion is performed when it's an actual baby are reserved for dire medical emergencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:39 AM
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There's already other men in this very thread saying they're like me lol. Most men in the west prefer women with some sexual knowledge and experience. A woman who can tell you what she likes, has tried a few different things, has a similar history to you...that's far better in my opinion than a know-nothing virgin that you have to teach everything to and has zero point of reference for her own sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:35 AM
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I'm pro-choice (as much as that counts for a man) but have no idea why that would mean someone who is horribly sexist could objectively be more ethical.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:31 AM
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Nope. I don't see any reason to want a virgin, and that's based on my personal beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:25 AM
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Guess I think of it the opposite way. Sure, I'll be vague about some things to prevent being doxxed, but otherwise am 100% honest in conversations. I'd be far more likely to lie in real life because there's no protection of anonymity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:16 AM
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Yeah, exactly. And remember that the handheld vibrator was invented by doctors who got tired of giving their patients "hysterical paroxysms" aka orgasms, because they were convinced women didn't experience horniness or have climaxes. So yeah, the entire idea of "oh women don't have libidos like men do" also sounds really sus. Like something people will make fun of 50 years from now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:53 AM
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Why is it "gaslighting" to make a true statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:43 AM
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A bunch probably don't know offhand. Like I'd actually have to think about it for a minute to remember my N. All I know is both my gf and I are under 20 N. Until it gets to high numbers or if someone is a literal virgin, doesn't make a ton of difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:42 AM
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Why does either matter? I wouldn't want a virgin girlfriend under any circumstances, but neither would I want a girlfriend who's had 30 or more partners. What one person wants isn't going to be the same as what others do, and that's fine. Whether it's rare or common, whp gives any fucks?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:39 AM
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Thanks. I just don't think that it's wise to put 100% belief into current research, especially when it's related to psychology as well as biology. Women's medical health has been sorely lacking until relatively recently, so it's not logical to assume we're anywhere close to determining something as important as the sex drive of an entire sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:07 AM
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More research needs to be done. I for one don't think nearly enough time has been spent on it. Remember that it is only recently that even doctors admitted that women can orgasm. Historically, the medical and psychological fields have been, for lack of a better term, ignorant when it comes to the female body.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 12:07 AM
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I don't believe that women in general have significantly lower sex drives, I think a major part of the issue is they have very similar sex drives to us but orgasm is typically more difficult for them...either due to a personal dysfunction or lack of effort from their men. For example, a lot of men think piv should do it for their women, but it's only true for a portion of the population. If I, as a healthy libido male, wasn't sure I'd orgasm from sex, my own desire for it would decrease too. It …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 11:28 PM
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I'm in the northeast USA. What do those drugs do?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 10:37 PM
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I'm decently fit. Watch what I eat, walk 6 miles every weekday, lift weights or use the exercise bike for an hour on the weekends. Not muscular but not fat either. I'm in my late 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 10:21 PM
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Ugh. I'm not a "white knight", women can defend themselves in social media, they don't need me for that. I do like the fact you didn't answer my question though. Why do you think treating women as equals is the same as simping? watching you struggle to proved any reason to deal with a woman outside of her having a body you want to fuck. I don't "deal with" women. If I don't like a specific woman, I don't spend time with her unless it's 100% necessary (like a bad boss, annoying coworker, or stupi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 10:19 PM
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Never said you were lying, just that it's sad. I'm no great marathon fucker, but even I last an average of 10 minutes, usually a bit longer unless we've been doing edge play. I'm average size dick wise, which means I do my absolute best to make sure it does the job right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 10:08 PM
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Finally some sanity in this batshit thread...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 09:45 PM
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In the interest of not dismissing your personal experiences, I'll say it sucks that's the type of women you've known. I'll also admit to knowing some like that too. But ya gotta acknowledge that it's unrealistic to paint 100% of women as bitches when only a portion of them are. Most women I know...my sisters, friends, a few exes, and current girlfriend...aren't bitches and see themselves as on par with us, not superior. It's not an inherent thing, obviously. It has to do with one's individual be…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 09:44 PM
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So for the one night stands I had with women and men who I didn't buy anything for...they were okay with non transactional sex. What's your point then?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 09:39 PM
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I don't think OP has ever experienced love, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 09:36 PM
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Fuck no. We need to stop teaching people that it's Men vs Women with each side out to royally screw over the other. Get males and females treating each other as equals and cease with the dumbass games. Sharia is shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 09:34 PM
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Absolutely, which is why I got a vasectomy. I always knew I wanted to be childfree, and didn't want my female partners to have to stay on hormonal birth control. It was just so much easier for me as a guy to get snipped with no negative consequences. All those things you mentioned are definitely issues to be aware of and look out for, but with honesty and direct communication, it's just a temporary part of life...so far, at least. I'll admit, when I was unemployed for a couple months during the …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 09:28 PM
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Registering on tinder makes me a product for tinder to sell to men. If you're literally not interested in getting laid, and are only going to have sex in exchange for a room that night, yes. You've made yourself into a product instead of an equal sex partner just looking for some fun. I recall also likening marriage to prostitution also. Because of the exchange of sex for ressources. I'm not interested in ever getting married, but no. My gf and I live together and we fuck because we have mutual …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 09:19 PM
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At one point between the first time we have sex and about the 18 month mark, and that point can be after a few days, weeks or months, we start craving "new ass". New ass is the best ass as the saying goes. We look at our partner and no matter how hot or sexy or wonderful she is to us, our biology makes us crave different, not better, pussy. Just different. Disclaimer that you're only speaking for a certain subsection of males here, buddy. I've never once started having a strong craving for new a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 09:11 PM
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Most of my relationships lasted anything from 3 months to almost a year, with my current one being the first to make it 8. I have a good feeling she'll be my final girlfriend. My expectations for sex is that both of us will have really horny days as well as days where one of us doesn't want sex at all, which is a normal part of simply being human. However, we have very nicely matched libidos and sex has remained a consistent 2-3x a week. I don't know what causes dead bedrooms for other people, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 09:06 PM
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That's really fucking pathetic, pun intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 08:57 PM
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Since when is treating women like the human beings they are "simping"?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 08:56 PM
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OP is also apparently a three-pump chump since he thinks most men nut within a 5 minute timespan. However, I don't care about what he's talking about. I was speaking with you about women, sex, and orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:45 PM
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Depending on where he falls on the misogynistic spectrum, the reasons could be numerous. Even as a nerdy biracial man who had to work at getting women as a teen, gotta say my mindset never devolved into thinking of them as lesser or some kind of foreign species. It probably helps that I'm bisexual, and don't look at people's genitals as magical inherent indicators of their personalities. A lot of hetero men have this odd tendency to see male/female relationships as a zero sum game rather than a …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:23 PM
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I've seen most of these before, the majority talk only about orgasm from piv activities. Sex is so much more than "make her just wet enough to take my peen in her pussy" like some idiot 16 yr old boy. Sex involves oral, anal, erotic massage, kissing, caressing, fondling, mutual masturbation, grinding without insertion, fingering...so on, so forth. To say most women don't cum from sex as a whole is incredibly different than saying many have severe difficulty cumming from just penile thrusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:15 PM
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Fat acceptance brigades are a joke, it originally started as body acceptance/positivity for men and women with scars, burns, etc. Helping to destigmatize bodies that were very different looking compared to the norm. It's honestly disturbing what the fat acceptance sjws have morphed it into. But no, it doesn't seem like men have more unrealistic body standards than women. We both have them, just two sides of the same coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:10 PM
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Thankfully he's only giving his own opinion. The overwhelming majority of us do care about our girlfriends or wives, and we enjoy the time spent talking with you or hanging out, doing things together as couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:00 PM
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Speak for yourself, don't try and rope all the rest of us into your mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 02:58 PM
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Source for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 02:57 PM
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Hopefully no woman would be unlucky enough to be in your presence. Jesus Christ...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 02:52 PM
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Because it's saying you'd husband/wife someone up, but not have casual sex with them. Blame the asshole boomer generation who constantly talks about marriage as a terrible thing. r/AreTheStraightsOk
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 06:50 AM
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The boomer idea that marriage is a horrible sacrifice where 2 people are together for a lifetime but dislike each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 06:23 AM
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Good for you, but not everyone wants the same thing as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 06:22 AM
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Husband material is indeed no better See, you do understand then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 05:47 PM
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Even though women don't really like the term all that much, 'wife material' is one of the highest descriptors we give to women. I'm not even a woman and I'd be offended by that kind of label.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 05:41 PM
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What's the point in identifying as a Republican if you only vote Democrat, or saying you're a Christian when you only attend synagogues? Words have meanings that are agreed upon by the overwhelming majority of users. It's weird to say you're "blue pill" when it looks like everything you say is red or red/black. My relationship has worked out for 9 years so far. What "resent" could there even be?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 05:35 PM
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Truth, I'd finally thought it would be an interesting and new post for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 05:32 PM
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Who lied to you about aging?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 05:31 PM
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I'd stay with her, yes. We've both already agreed that if such a bizarre situation occurred, then the mobile person would have sex with someone else but we'd still be in a relationship with each other. Personally, I'd rather be dead though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 05:27 PM
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Same here. There's dudebros here who erroneously believe "all women" are going to lose attraction or friendship towards a man simply for allowing a tear to escape his eye within her very presence. It may be their own experience, if it is, that's fucking sad. But those of us in healthy relationships know it's not something women will do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 05:23 PM
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Flair doesn't check out... It's not about being a man opening up to a woman. It's dependent upon your type and strength of relationship, has nothing to do with the sex of the person involved. I go to my girlfriend or female friends if I actually need to shed a tear or two, which is something rarely done in front of my male friends. Why? Because, in general, the women in my life are more accepting of seeing a person be upset in that way whereas, in general, men are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 05:20 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 01:47 PM
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Used to believe that. Not so sure anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:09 PM
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until it comes time to pay for things If it's one time, it's understandable. Anything more than that, goodbye. Back when I was still dating around, I went on a shit ton of first and second dates just to vett properly. If a woman told me she's into egalitarianism and going dutch, I'd hold her to it. Either we split the check on the first date or I'll pay 100% on the first/she pays 100% on the second. If two dates passed without my date opening her wallet, automatic rejection by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:08 PM
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Yeah, unfortunately you're probably screwed unless you move to a more actually liberal area. My gf and I split nearly everything 50/50...finances, household chores, repairs, pet care, even initiating sex which is a relationship first for me. It's not always easy to find such a woman as her, just like it's not always easy to find a man like me (not a brag, just going based on what women say), but that means it's worth it to keep searching.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:04 PM
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Then talk to them and point out their hypocrisy. If they acknowledge it and change their behavior, stay. If they don't see a problem with it, leave. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 12:00 PM
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Not in my experience, but maybe you hang out/are friends with more traditional women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:57 AM
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They're uncommon, not rare. From my personal dating experience + the female friends I have + the girls and women my male friends have dated/married + discussions with coworkers, I'd say roughly 30-40% of women are egalitarian. I live in the Northeast US though. Could be very different wherever you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:55 AM
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Obviously I'm talking about real ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:50 AM
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If only... It just makes me lose more faith in humanity, which is already running low since I work in customer service.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:48 AM
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As groups, sure. As individuals, not always. Some men and women are assholes of course, but a lot aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:47 AM
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I wish I could do that, nowadays it just makes me frustrated or cringe so hard it hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:45 AM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:44 AM
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It's not 95%, geezus. At most it's 60%, a majority sure but nothing as doom and gloom as 95.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:43 AM
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Even as a memorial?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:36 AM
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Every time I come back to this sub, there's this foolish hope it will be better and the misogynists/misandrists will have fucked off. Today is not that day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:32 AM
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A significant amount of women don't. Avoid the ones who do, only go out with egalitarians. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:30 AM
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The very act of sex is an aggressive, submissive act for them and they have even become extremely open about how rough they like it to be. It goes well beyond spanking and choking, I’ve had girls legit ask me to hit them and throw them. You can’t say that this desire does not carry over or translate into what turns them on in terms of behavior. Obviously not in the physical sense but psychologically women are drawn to men who don’t give a shit, who are dominant and imposing enough to protect the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 11:28 AM
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You'd probably agree that your group is self selecting That's how all friend groups work lol. People who hold similar values and interests enjoy spending time together, moreso than people with extremely conflicting values and interests. for people that choose to be "different" intentionally. People don't choose what they believe. You either believe it or not. My friends all believe that gender roles are necessary for some people to be happy/fulfilled, but not us. Also, I'm assuming your group is…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 12:33 PM
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Then your friend group is very much an anomaly, even in the west and very much so in the rest of the world. Eh, maybe. We live in a pretty liberal area of the east coast. You friend group sounds rather young too. Are they in their early 20s? Nope. Youngest is 28, I believe. Oldest is 51. Most of us are in our mid 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:39 PM
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Your female friends, sisters are not interested in dating successful men, with resources, socisl status and influence Not particularly, no. They're all very egalitarian or feminist, and prefer men who are their exact equals in status/finances. None of them have ever shown interest in bros with significantly more money or "influence". We're all normal, middle class people, not elites or upper class snobs. They arent interested in dating athletic men with strong muscles HA! No. The easiest way to …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:15 PM
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Sorry, I'm American and was thinking of my country
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:41 PM
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I have a girlfriend, sisters, have almost always dated women, and have female friends. Other than conservative/traditional ones that didn't work out during dating, most women don't look for this anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:40 PM
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Not mine, but I am genuinely sorry yours is terrible like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:35 PM
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No, men desire it far more for they live a life of “fighting.” ...we do? In 3rd world countries, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 11:20 AM
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Your ratio seems unrealistic. Based on what women here and irl say/do, it's more like 75/25, not 95/5.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 11:19 AM
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Protected from what?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 11:17 AM
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There's always flying to Nevada for a couple nights at the Bunny Ranch, or getting a happy ending from one of the local massage parlors. Even at my most desperate, I preferred to pay for sex rather than fuck a bitchy woman. They didn't deserve my dick. Thankfully I eventually found a good gf worth staying with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:45 PM
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True I would just stay far away from women like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:53 PM
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You've dated some really weird women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:46 PM
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True. It's how I found my girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:50 AM
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Makes sense. I have a friend with that diagnosis too, and he's said very similar things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:44 AM
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I actually do this as well now, as an extra precaution and to keep my cycles regular. My girlfriend used to do that too, with her previous boyfriends, just to be on the safe side. Thankfully she doesn't need to worry about that anymore, and when we became exclusive she was able to completely go off birth control since I got snipped years ago. It's a great thing to be a man in the US, where doctors will actually give you a vasectomy in your 20s...my gf has wanted to be sterilized since age 21, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:14 AM
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Most women aren't vapid where's to begin with. The vast majority of men who comment here either have incredibly shit luck to keep themselves surrounded by idiots, are engaging in daily "counting the hits, forgetting the misses", or haven't touched grass in a long while.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:03 AM
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Are you a medically diagnosed sociopath or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 09:58 AM
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There is no "specific personality type women admire". Like us, women are individuals, with wildly different tastes. “Just be yourself and she’ll like you” This is actually the best advice I'd ever gotten from my father and uncle. It reminds a man to not change aspects of himself he doesn't want to, just to get consistent pussy or a relationship. Likewise, it reminds women to not change aspects of herself just to get consistent dick or a relationship. Not everyone is going to like the Real You...…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 09:56 AM
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Because unfortunately for a lot of us, it's $50-100, especially if you live in a city. Paying anything less than that makes the majority of women think you're cheap, lackluster, uninterested, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 09:46 AM
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That's the opposite end of the spectrum. Just as much a red flag as the aforementioned girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:32 PM
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Only if I want her in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:06 PM
1

More women for you then. I don't want any who act in such ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 04:05 PM
1

Good to see at least one other man here gets it. Sometimes this sub reads like 99% of us are chest thumping gorillas mainlining viagra.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:51 AM
1

Amen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:47 AM
10

It’s even as simple as her just standing around you when she has no reason to be near you. Wtf does this even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:46 AM
1

Asking or not asking can work, but I've actually had women say, "well, don't ask, just do it!" And those are the girls you immediately walk away from. Huge red flag imo. Don't even bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:45 AM
2

This is why you vet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:42 AM
4

This is what I've found from about age 20 and onward. I'm in my 30s now, but the only times I didn't ask permission was as a teen. Obviously you learn your own way of doing things and making sure both of you are comfortable. My gf and I are both talkative people, so we'll ask each other pretty bluntly how we're feeling about having sex and what we're enjoying while in the act. The idea of not asking is just a turn off by now. Women who told me it was a "mood killer" were massive red flags and au…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:41 AM
2

Some people are more stable than others, and some value peace and calm more than others. This doesn't get brought up here enough. Probably because most members here sound like they're still very young and crave excitement over everything else. But if both the man and woman are of the stable/calm variety then there is no need to keep creating it. Not to the levels teens and college kids desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:35 AM
4

Are you serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:30 AM
1

Trying to use logic in this sub? Brave...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:30 AM
1

It's fine to be aware of your own psyche, but not to assume every man is like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/22 10:27 AM
1

I don't believe that or have any evidence for it. But you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:49 AM
1

No. I do not think anyone who has an average, normal, non-harmful personality needs to or should feel pressured to change. They can if they want to of course. But there is no "should".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:44 AM
-3

Sure. But those aren't legitimate issues. That's just saying someone could work on themselves. Everyone can do that. The majority of people don't have to because they don't have mental or emotional problems that cause harm/discomfort to themselves or others.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:33 AM
-1

Not ones that would warrant a significant change to their personality, no. A minority of people do, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:10 AM
-1

I meant the average person, not people with legitimate issues obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:02 AM
1

What the hell? So he doesn't care about plot or the character design or skill trees or game mechanics? Does he actually play any games at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:01 AM
9

Nobody should go around changing their personality, but clothing and body type, sure. Men and women could both benefit from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:03 AM
1

Why not both?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:02 AM
3

That sounds likely, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:01 AM
2

I like to have sex 2-3 times a week, but can remain content at once a week. Had a gf who claimed that 4x a month made me a pervert, and "normal people" don't think about sex that often. Sad to say I did openly laugh at that...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:59 AM
3

Holy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:57 AM
1

That's the type of thinking that actually makes you into a loser. Because you've convinced yourself you're behind "everyone" so you begin to act like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:56 AM
2

Your definition of the term "little" seems very understated
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:54 AM
2

Aren't Mormons anti alcohol lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:54 AM
1

Tell him there's a difference between the advancement of graphics vs people not playing because we aren't there yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:53 AM
2

Absolutely not, games are fucking thriving, especially the indy sector.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:51 AM
2

They really started to blend together after a year or so
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:50 AM
2

What do you think we did this time?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:49 AM
3

Cim isn't my alt. She's my friend. Nice to see you're a liar too. So much for your whole "if I misjudged I'd say my bad to the person". You did something shitty and refuse to apologize. Fantastic human being...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:43 AM
10

Fuck man, you had some whinny girlfriends. I feel for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:31 PM
2

Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:27 PM
2

Except that, just like men who live this way, women would eventually see that not having a stable partner sucks and its just generally better to vet well and find a man they actually love and enjoy being around, who loves them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 04:24 PM
2

I don't think you're sick, just too skinny. Do you still get a period? Many women who lose too much body fat also get amenorrhea. One of my ex girlfriends had anorexia and got down to 12% body fat, her body stopped having a period and she was cold literally all the time. Had to wear layers even during the summer because of lack of insulation in her body. We broke up for unrelated reasons, but she checked herself into rehab and now has 20% body fat, and is so much sexier and curvy. If your doctor…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:44 PM
1

That's another thing that just strikes me as weird and trollish. How strange do you have to be, to believe no adult man or woman should ever have sex with or date someone more than 5 years older? My own parents had a 9 year age gap, and my aunt and uncle are 10 years apart. On this sub alone we have dudes who openly admit to only dating women 15 years younger. Idk. I still think that pm me hairy nudes chick had it out for Cim for some reason. You can say you don't agree with someone's relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:39 PM
1

No one's asking you to feel bad bro
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:43 PM
9

I'm against shit testing as a rule. If something happens naturally in the course of a relationship, and I really don't like how my partner handled it, then I'll either give one more chance or dump them. Gotta have that abundance mentality otherwise youll get stuck with the kind of low tier women we complain about here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:43 PM
3

Honey, that looks unhealthy. I know some people are just super skinny regardless but if you did that on purpose it's not good for the female body. Honestly I don't think under 15% body fat is healthy for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:39 PM
1

Right? I'd already dated 3 women before finding trp and quickly figured out that only 25% of it is actually usable. Really if you vet well and for a long period, it gets easier and easier to avoid problematic women and only get the decent ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:37 PM
4

Strangely enough, most of the women here have always said looks are very important. I think it's just a common myth that women aren't as visual as men. Certainly doesn't hold up irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:36 PM
1

It was only 4 people yesterday. It happens a bunch more, according to her. You don't understand the need for a mental health break from a group of people who are in your face? I'd do the same thing in her shoes, and I'm a man. It's not a weakness to say fuck this noise and walk away when you need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 02:30 PM
1

You'd have to ask her more about it, I just think we have too many trolls here who think it's a national past time to hurt people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:31 AM
3

Yeah, most of the ones online seem to just want to pat each other on the back really loudly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:26 AM
2

He does have a point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:11 AM
1

No problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:09 AM
1

That's the reason I'm purple pill instead of red. For a lot of them I get the strong feeling it's less about actually living your best life and getting laid, and more about putting one over on women. It's as if they could have an attractive, no nonsense woman willing to have sex exclusively with him and they'd still think they're getting the short end of the stick.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:09 AM
1

No, that's the username.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:05 AM
1

Wow, I would have assumed it was a problem with your back or shoulders. It sucks but sounds like you'll be doing better now. I'm glad, you always sound like a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:05 AM
1

The one I'm talking to right now is a troll who claims to be a woman (pm me hairy nudes). But you'd have to ask Cim more details. I'm assuming u/NarniaFox is correct that it's a mixture of women and men from either side.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:02 AM
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If so I would say alright my bad and then go about my day. But you didn't. You kept at it despite being told everything is great and she's happy. Troll. You even said her relationship is "gross". And I see you still haven't apologized to Cim, so cannot take you seriously. When exactly are you going to tell her "alright, that was my bad"? Since you claim that's what you would do... Actions speak louder than words.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:52 AM
1

I got downvoted last week for asking someone how they're feeling after being sick. Pretty sure there's a few people who literally just go around handing out downvotes for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:46 AM
4

As a bi dude, yeah, I can more easily see men saying these things instead of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:41 AM
0

Damn that's really restrictive. What happened? You going to be alright?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:39 AM
2

From what she told me, it happens frequently. She said she even gets dm's from people specifically to tell her she's an idiot for being fwb. Yesterday was a breaking the camel's back I guess. I did go off on one of the trolls myself this morning, it's anger inducing to see someone harassing one of the kindest women here. Cim helped talk me through some shit, which is more than even my paid therapist did.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:37 AM
3

Not my cup of tea, but if older foxes and cougars want to "explore their sexuality" with younger women and men, whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:29 AM
1

For trp men that sounds like a dream come true lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:27 AM
2

Hopefully. We need more people getting laid around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:25 AM
2

I thought that was just fds women who think that way because they want to be given money/resources for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:22 AM
5

Uh, by the time a man is 56 he better have already done that, honey. What the hell was he waiting for between the ages of 17-35? If a guy is only just "exploring" in his 50s he better have just gotten out of a literal monastery 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:19 AM
4

I agree they legally can, and if it's one of those 1 in a billion chances they actually love each other, whatever. But you just know that 99% of the time it's a meaningless sugar baby thing. I find those to basically be prostitution with a different name. Edit: I hope that 56 year old is wrapping it so he doesn't use his decayed sperm
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:06 AM
7

Why do a bunch of people here think CimZim's relationship or arrangement is harmful to her? I spoke with her last night, she's taking a break for a few weeks because apparently 4 people yesterday, including a guy here she thought was a friend, told her they think it's either bad for her or it's gross. I understand how people constantly ragging on you wears you down, but why do people do it? There's other members here with age gap relationships and fwb arrangements and I don't see them getting ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:03 AM
3

Lol you think that's fat instead of just a bit pudgy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:49 AM
6

She's better looking than 80% of American women at any age. I'd still hit it. The men her age may want 22 year olds but that's a fucking 34 year age gap. Literally old enough to be her father. Creepy to the extreme, and I'm a guy who usually dates women 6-9 years younger. Any age gap bigger than 15 years is sus.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:47 AM
6

Woman's value doesn't decline with age, what is this bullshit lol. Their reproductive value does, but so does a man's. Y'all don't want to use funky sperm and eggs to make a baby. But my gf and I are child free so that's not something I value anyway. A woman I'm with is too old for me to stay with when she's dead. Loyalty to a good partner still means something to some of us. Obviously not you, but honestly you're a very "special" case.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:36 AM
2

But when that stranger tells you nothing is wrong and they have been very happy for 12 fucking years, you back off. You say "hey, my bad, I'm glad your relationship is different" and leave them alone. You, however, kept doubling down about how "concerned" you were, without giving any reason as to why you were. It absolutely reeks of trolling. Just repeating yourself over and over, trying to push until you get a rise out of people. So blatantly condescending, telling a 36 year old woman you magic…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:28 AM
5

Damn, double standards everywhere...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:43 AM
1

About 2 months of going steady
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:39 AM
2

For someone who claims to hate giving unsolicited "advice" you certainly do it a shit ton. You know trolling isn't allowed in PPD, right? You gave your opinion about her relationship. Cim explained how you're wrong. You kept pushing, talking about how gross you found it. Cim replied again. You once again try saying you're "genuinely concerned" despite her telling you she's fully in control of things and can easily leave if she wants too. And then you say twice again that you're "concerned". Abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 01:38 AM
1

Agree completely. A lot of older TRP men are super jaded and overly cynical. Learn from the experiences they speak of, but don't allow it to color your entire perception of the world or normal male-female interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:02 PM
1

If both of you are cool with it, and he has actually told you he enjoys it, have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:55 AM
3

Why? Does he actually want to fuck all these randos?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:22 AM
2

Yeah, I know those women too. And they typically come from very male dominated households with a strong male led presence in their lives. They aren't making their own decisions or choosing their own path. Sure, some do. Most of the ones I know didn't. Most of them come from egalitarian parents. BTW, we are all in our 30s. Of course my social circle is men and women making their own path. Did you think I was a minor? You're the one going around and saying you can't paint people with a broad brush…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:21 AM
2

What "policy"? Nobody's relationship is anyone else's business. It's not as if you're required to be a tradcon or egalitarian or female led or whatever just because someone else is. There is no policy to follow. I'm sorry to hear that. That's too bad. Sucks for you, but try not to dwell on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:14 AM
3

Who is he getting sex from?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:11 AM
6

I don't know what kind of women you hang out with, but the ones in my life ain't like that. I'm purple, not red. I don't believe in female inferiority crap. My female friends, relatives, and coworkers aren't any less capable of running their lives well than any of my male ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:11 AM
4

Nah, man. It's not fair to paint them all with the same brush. My gf is basically the leader in our relationship, and it's awesome. She's the first woman I've ever dated who can create a plan that works for both of us and then follow through with very minimal input from me. Then again, my partner isn't crazy or manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:08 AM
6

I have no idea how to respond to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:05 AM
7

Thanks. I believe the same thing about women. Yes there are horrible bitches out there, but most women don't hate men or are hypergamous wallet chasers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:04 AM
2

It's not against a woman's biology to be egalitarian, jfc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:03 AM
2

So what do you think women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:02 AM
6

Wait, she literally stopped him from working? I thought he willingly became her househusband?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 11:00 AM
9

Lol, listen lady...I may swing both ways, but I'm not looking to fuck your man. I just want to know what he has that you think you'd be doing a huge favor to the young women of the world by letting him loose
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:58 AM
5

You at least have a friends with benefits relationship that is very equal and mutually caring, from everything you've said about your guy. Gimp...I don't know exactly what she has.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:56 AM
4

But you said he has high standards. So he wouldn't want those women anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:53 AM
3

So then what's the point of this? Why would any young woman want your man specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:53 AM
6

That actually sounds horrible. If my girlfriend wanted to have a threesome with me and some other guy, I'd be down for it to make her happy. I'm bi, so if the guy is my type I'll have fun too. But Gimp sounds like she's pushing her man to have sex with random women he doesn't want. Is forced cucking a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:52 AM
9

He absolutely is. According to her own descriptions, he's also on the shorter side, losing his hair, and is overweight. I have no idea why she thinks her husband would be a catch to any 20 year old woman who could have her pick of hotter, younger men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:48 AM
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You're right, as far as I can tell. I'm seriously wondering exactly what "benefits" these younger women are supposedly getting from his ass. It's really more like Gimp is looking for a sex surrogate so she doesn't have to fuck his majesty anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:46 AM
9

Normally I'd agree, but remember that her husband is basically a kept man. Gimp is always bragging about how she's the one paying for his lifestyle. So now you have an old guy, been out of the dating world for years, has very high standards, and no money. She cuts him loose, he'll be sexless for months or possibly years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:44 AM
8

So he's going to get even less sex as an old guy than one of us men who aren't as picky. Nice. It just sounds like you don't want to fuck him anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:41 AM
0

Never understood that argument. Yeah, I wouldn't fuck a woman in her 60s, but there's a bunch of fine looking 45-50 year olds around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:39 AM
7

Man, this would be the absolute last sub that any woman besides gimpgirl would use to "reignite their sex drive". This is where a woman would come to turn asexual lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:36 AM
2

Aren't most of the women here in their 30s?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:34 AM
1

Take an hour long break doing literally anything else. Set a timer if you need to, but give yourself that time to reset your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:34 AM
2

Hell yeah, I'd date both. They both have to go dutch though, I'm not made of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:33 AM
2

Jobless is worse, because you're going to starve to death. Then you'll really be dateless.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:30 AM
31

Are you talking about divorcing your husband so that he can flounder around fruitlessly trying to fuck women fresh out of college who don't want him?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 10:28 AM
2

What are your standards
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:54 AM
1

Raise your standards, brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:52 AM
1

Agreed. It should make it higher by at least a few percentage points, not lower. Not sure how OP isn't getting this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 07:50 AM
1

Oh I'm pretty sure that, if this poster is really a woman, she's just using this sub to let her freak flag fly. But just because she's into humiliation and being seen as an object doesn't mean she can put her kink on all other women and men. Keep that shit in your own home please.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:04 AM
1

Very true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:01 AM
1

I'm good. Altering my brain chemistry isn't for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:00 AM
11

Yes, I have had a mixed friendship group my entire life. It would be weird to not have any female friends at this point. Of my 3 closest friends that I would do anything for, 2 are men and 1 is a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 09:59 AM
1

That is a cool ability, but it doesn't make women into machines like toasters. One is a thinking, feeling, sapient and sentient human just like me. The other is a bunch of metal and wires. The first has her own full and intricate life, including dreams, aspirations, opinions, abilities, flaws, thoughts, and is responsible for deciding if she even wants to replicate any DNA in the first place. Both my gf and I are childfree, so her value lies in companionship, love, and sex instead. My toasters o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 11:47 AM
14

I do not want anything. I said so in the very first paragraph You said you don't date. Okay. That doesn't mean you don't want anything from other people. Surely you want things from your family, friends, coworkers, bosses? Nobody goes through life devoid of wanting anything, so all relationships are transactional. You give and take, someone else takes and gives. I'm purple and obviously agree with some of the healthy red pill stuff. But I've yet to understand why so many red pillers treat the fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 11:34 AM
6

I really have a hard time believing you're a gimp "girl". This is some next level self hatred/degradation shit if you actually are a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 11:20 AM
3

I'm not getting married, I've already gotten a vasectomy and only see marriage as something to do for children. It's pointless ceremony and money spending otherwise. But if my girlfriend changes so drastically in 1 or 5 years that she's "not the same person", there is a much larger mental health concern going on. Sure, as teenagers or college age, boys and girls flip flop all over the place. It's just how finding yourself works. If that happens in your 30s? Something is definitely wrong. You may…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 11:18 AM
11

Probably only in countries where spinster aren't looked down on. I know here in the US, older male bachelors are left alone but older female bachelors are called "crazy cat ladies" and it's automatically assumed that, if they have no children, she's hateful, bitter, resentful, broken, etc. Men don't deal with any of that, as far as I've observed and heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 11:10 AM
1

Just saying I've been drunk twice and used pot once. Being drunk fucking sucked, my memories of both those nights are still blurry and I know I probably said some dumb shit. Pot made me feel like I was stuck in some weird, fluffy, almost sleepy brain state and I laughed at things I would never have if I wasn't high. Point was, it was an alteration of my normal brain state and I definitely had less control over my reactions and body movements than when sober.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 10:23 PM
2

If you're into that subculture, I guess. Personally I like to be in control of myself at all times.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 09:41 AM
2

Merry Christmas bro
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 09:39 AM
2

That's why people who are more detached from the idea of needing a relationship can get the most attention, and part of the reason why dudes in relationships do a lot better with women (yes, preselection is like 70% of it, but this plays a part too) The amount of men who don't understand this is amazing. The scent of desperation is so off putting to women (and men tbh) that they're shooting themselves in the foot every day. You ever hear the hundreds of stories from guys who said they spent year…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 09:39 AM
2

Relationships with a high financial discrepancy are unhealthy, and much more likely to have abuse, manipulation, and control issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 09:24 AM
1

First off, why would I want a woman with all that shit? Relationships where one person is significantly wealthier than the other aren't healthy, there's a high likelihood of abuse and control/manipulation. Secondly, fds is a dumpster fire, just like the sidebar of trp.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 09:22 AM
9

Yeah, I was too, but not as long or in such horrible ways as other people have talked about. It makes me wonder if our species is generally sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 04:13 PM
1

Okay it makes more sense now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 03:26 PM
6

Bruh. You do know that the overwhelming majority of mental issues aren't sex specific, yeah? If you do have bpd, it's still just bpd.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 03:25 PM
5

TIL a woman not dating a literal broke ass man = tradcon
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 03:21 PM
1

Tried to be more extroverted
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 03:19 PM
2

Your last sentence just came off weird, that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 03:16 PM
4

She's mentioned him before in other comments. It's not a secret that he was a total abusive asshole. Our dms went more into details, because both of us were abused that way as kids, but I'd never share that stuff here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 03:16 PM
2

I wasn't concerned about the level of comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 03:13 PM
8

For me it depends on how much more AND if she tries to use it to manipulate me. My gf makes the same amount I do, but will probably get a promotion before me. So she'll most likely be making about $15k more within a year. She's the most kind, down to earth woman I've ever met though so I have no worries. I wouldn't date a woman who makes significantly more though. Like even if she's an attractive chick, if she's too high above me, like $200k or more, it's a no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 03:12 PM
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Are you a woman? I thought you were a man...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 03:08 PM
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7th grade for me, but the first time a girl flirted with me was 10th grade.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 03:07 PM
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I hope we aren't. Can you imagine if normal men like us are the minority and pedo freaks are the majority? So disgusting. I'm sure some mouth breather is going to end up in the bottom comments talking about how female peak age is 15 or whatever though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 03:06 PM
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Your step-dad deserves to be shot. I remember you talking about him during one of our dms. Sorry you went through that. You did move out at 18 though iirc?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 03:03 PM
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Unfortunately, into every life a little rain must fall 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 05:03 PM
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Thanks. People here seem so likely to over-generalize to the point of believing in a literal AWALT/AMALT, rather than using it as a loose set of protective guidelines for not allowing assholes into your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 03:11 PM
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To be fair, you may be getting upset with women who genuinely haven't done any of that shit. If you ask me when was the last time I beat my girlfriend, I'm going to say "whoa, hold up, I've never once done that" and it would be the truth. Talking to the women here, there's some (definitely not all, or the majority) who I honestly believe have not acted in such ways. As men, we should refrain from painting all women with the same brush and be logical about our accusations. See each commenter as a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:44 PM
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Well at least someone knows how to follow directions and is willing to play along rather than get defensive lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 02:38 PM
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It's a good thing that it's not inherently true then. By this i mean that there do exist assholes of either sex. Men can be total douchebags, women can be utter bitches. Having a certain set of genitals or chromosomes doesn't mean shit. The best way to go through life is to vet your friends, family, and lovers. If they suck, are abusive, are toxic, use you while never reciprocating, etc then confront them about it respectfully but firmly. If they don't change, drop 'em. You don't need to put up …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 07:47 AM
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I could have told you that, because most men aren't bisexual. However it is still relevant because I am a man and don't agree with your idea of "100%" of us wanting what you postulate. Outliers exist, obviously, so it'd be more accurate to say something like 90-95% of men would agree to sex without orgasm. That percentage should be enough to capture all of us who don't agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:48 PM
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I'm childfree, so not interested in procreation. But I am very much in favor of having an emotional bond of some kind. My n is 11, only 2 of which were ONS but even then I knew the man and woman. One was a gay classmate from college who I shared 4 courses with, the woman was someone I'd do work projects with from another department. Everyone else has been from a relationship. The idea of fucking a stranger, some man or woman I just met in a bar or club 1 hour ago? Nasty. I only share my dick wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 04:01 PM
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Yes, that's what I'm saying. Because it's really fucking bizarre. You're getting caught up with the timing of the orgasm, when that's not the point. Other than procreation for people who want kids, the entire goal of having sex is to make your partner experience ecstasy. That is all. Full stop. Why would I want to fuck a woman who can't fulfill the ONE purpose I'd be fucking her for? It would be utterly pointless. I'm not going to get anything else from being able to say "I fucked a celebrity". …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 03:35 PM
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Man, chill. No need for name calling. And no, I can jerk off whenever I want. The main point of having sex is to orgasm from stimulation a different person is giving, knowing that their goal in being with you is to create ultimate pleasure for you. That they desire you so much they're gonna do what it takes to make you reach ecstasy. And of course, you feel the same way towards your partner. That's why sex without orgasm would be an automatic no from me. It's missing the entire goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 02:26 PM
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You need to change your flair. You're not purple pill, you're solid black. I say this genuinely, please go talk to a professional psychologist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:35 AM
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Man, we aren't fucking savages. What the actual hell?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:33 AM
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You have the most alien view of human interaction I've ever seen. It's like you think we're the same as moose or elephant seals or lions. You don't realize that men and women humans hang out because they enjoy being with each other, sharing good conversations and interests and food? Have you been seriously isolated the majority of your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:32 AM
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No. I talk to women because they are humans just the same as me. I talk to and do stuff with my friends, both sexes, because they're awesome people who are into the same hobbies I am. When I go fishing or watch anime or go out to a new restaurant with my friends I'm not trying to fuck them. Dear god...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:28 AM
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What the hell are you talking about? Sorry to hear you knew a woman who was a bitch, but actual friendship doesn't work like that or look anything like what you went through. My female friends are exactly like my male friends, there is no illusion of sex with any of them, even as a bisexual man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:25 AM
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I don't fuck supermodels, but can say that a sub par, blue balling, severely uncomfortable round of non-orgasmic sex would not be anything my dick is interested in. Doesn't matter who the chick is. If I'm not climaxing at some point and just fucking her then...what? After 20 minutes just climb off and walk around like a loser with an unrelenting, painful hard on for 30 minutes? Fuck no. Give me a 7/10 who can make me cum twice in an hour, not a 10/10 who can't make me cum at all. Can't imagine a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:21 AM
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If you've been having lots of great foreplay, she only needs to ride you for a few minutes anyway. My girlfriend and I do lots of other stuff before piv, and typically by the time she gets on top I'm needing to consciously hold my orgasm back because I already feel like a shaken up soda bottle. It takes 20-25 minutes to cum from her riding/me pounding if we only do piv but that's boring and rare. Piv is the exclamation point at the end of a very long sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:09 AM
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"Cannot"? What sorry excuse for women have you been with?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 11:59 PM
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That's fair. If I'd been on 4 dates with someone and they still didn't want to discuss it, I'd respectfully tell them goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 09:41 PM
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Because it's an important topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 09:22 PM
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I always did wonder if the guys you went on dates with knew you were a virgin or not? To me, that makes a big difference. If I'm 22 and dating a woman who says she's a virgin and wants to wait a month or two, but otherwise pulls her weight and isn't using me for free food/material things, then I'd wait. But if she's not a virgin and has had sex a couple times before me...or isn't at least going dutch, then no, bye Felicia. Did you tell all of them you were still a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 12:38 PM
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Of course she likes me...we're friends. This is how I treat my friends whether male or female. Until she started talking about moving in together or splitting household bills and chores, or asking "where is this going", she's still a fwb. No more, no less.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 01:44 AM
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Yes, that's how things should be. Everyone is an individual and should be treated as one. But this sub by itself proves the majority of men and women just use generalizations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 01:42 AM
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My list has 14 points. Poppys only has 9. Why does her list scare you but mine doesn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 01:40 AM
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It's true, I do hope you have a close female friend someday soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 01:38 AM
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Sure, in some cases it could be that. But in other cases it is most definitely because some men have specifically told women outright that they wouldn't even speak to them if they weren't actively attempting to get into the woman's pants. After so many men tell you this, it isvno surprise whatever that women think all of us are such morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 01:38 AM
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I wouldn't have called it "gag worthy" lol but yeah, as a man I'm not looking to take care of my gf. She's an adult, she takes care of herself just like I take care of myself. I don't want or need to be "above" her, I'm her boyfriend not father. Either she's my equal or she's not my girlfriend...not into the tradcon life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 11:07 AM
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But again, other than paying for the food, what serious boyfriend acts did he do? In one paragraph he mentions going out for drinks, having dinner together, and going to concerts. That's normal friend stuff. He should only go dutch but there's nothing romantic about going to concerts or grabbing drinks. In another paragraph he mentions complementing them, paying for food again, and opening doors. Two of those 3 things are just common courtesy, unless he's being a neckbeard and doing it over the …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:51 AM
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One man to another, you need a few more standards. It's way too easy to find a woman that checks your whole list, you're barely vetting at all. My list for a woman: Don't be crazy or bitchy. Enjoy sex with me and share at least a handful of my kinks. Be intelligent. Have a job that pays all your bills. Be kind and empathetic. Don't be sexist/racist/transphobic. Have a car. Go dutch on dates. Be a size 8 or smaller. Share the same political and social beliefs. Don't be overly religious. Don't wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:44 AM
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Other than foolishly paying for the food, what did he do wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:35 AM
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Thats women because some idiots amongst us have told them we only want sex from them so they necessarily have to be defensive from the start. u/AtomicMGTOW I'm surprised you're not aware of this, given your age. There's even tons of comments in this thread that are men saying the only reason they ever interact with women at all is to potentially fuck them. When there's so many of us who openly state that women make shit friends and are only good for sex, what do you want women to assume?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:06 AM
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That's not a woman thing, that's a character thing. I can talk to my purple pill female friend about male rights/double standards that are misandric in society and she'll agree or be able to discuss it logically. On the other hand, I have 2 male friends who are feminists, and even subtly mentioning a hint of men's rights is enough to send them on a 30 minute rant about how MRAs are all brain dead knuckle draggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:01 AM
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It's unfortunate you've never found a true female friend. My condolences, man. Same with women who've never had a true male friend, they're missing out on having someone who can give an honest and real look into the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:56 AM
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I'm a man, the mods don't allow men to ask same sex questions. Why do you think it should have only been for us?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:53 AM
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What do you consider boyfriend qualities?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:52 AM
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Who's a white knight?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:51 AM
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if the woman in question percievesthat treatment as normal then not having it can also cause issues. Right. Which is why you figure out how she is. Or you just ask like I did with my female friends. the difference between that and how men act in exclusivley male company is often just as large. Eh. I haven't noticed any difference. Maybe it's different if the all male group is 100% hetero. This is compounded by the fact that a lot of taboo topics are in one way or another about women, so it would…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:21 PM
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They really don’t otherwise we wouldn’t be debating this A minority of people can't understand this. The majority can. Yes one man for women and same thing for men. Hey, if you and your wife agree to those terms, cool. It's not something I'm interested in for me or my girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:16 PM
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You should go see the conversation u/CimZim had yesterday, man. Some seriously crazy shit. It's why I made this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:14 PM
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Because if they are friends, they aren't strangers. Duh. A random male off the street is nothing like a dude she's been friends with since age 11. As should be obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:11 PM
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If they're insecure and/or have a shaky relationship, yes. Otherwise no. My girlfriend hangs out with other guys who've been her friends since childhood, and it's fine. Me telling her to stop having those friendships would be ridiculous, same as if she told me to stop being friends with my longtime female friends. It's not healthy to give ultimatums on people's friendships just because of the person's genitals.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 05:02 PM
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It is. There's conservative, traditionalist, and very religious individuals and communities all around the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:43 PM
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Personally, I think it's alright to do that the first few times when you're getting to know a woman. Maybe she just joined your social circle, you're still feeling her out. But after a while you should be able to see if she wants to be treated as one of the guys or not. Then you can relax around her and get rid of those old norm shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:40 PM
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This is only true regarding very religious or tradcon men. They're the only ones who are shaming men (and women, to be fair) and pressuring them into relationships or marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:32 PM
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Knock it off with the trolling and denying other men's experiences. It's not allowed on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 04:01 PM
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My T levels are great. I'm just not an asshole who only sees women as meat, unlike you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:49 PM
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In my view, when two people are friends who are also of the opposite sex, there exists the potential for something romantic, unless they have both acknowledged and agreed that nothing romantic will ever happen between them. I'll agree with this. So long as everyone is on the same page, it's all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:46 PM
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Except you're not, because you're talking like all of us are "lions going after a steak". Again, if you're like that, just say so. Don't go around trying to loop all us men into your mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:44 PM
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Tactile works, though we'd probably call it physically affectionate. It sounds like you have pretty healthy friendships with all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:07 PM
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Who are you talking to? Who is "you"? Random female readers? Also, no. If you're like that, fine. But don't push that kind of mentality on all of us. I may have a penis, but I'm not a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:05 PM
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We're not like slaves to our libidos... There's more than a few men on this sub who would disagree with you lol. Remember, we have guys here who literally think men and women cannot be friends under any circumstances, because they think women are only worth being in the immediate vicinity of if there's a possibility of them touching their schlong. They may as well believe we're two separate species or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:02 PM
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Thanks, man. Really appreciate it. PPD sometimes gets stuck on a running theme, I like to come in with a different topic to shake it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:57 PM
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That sucks, I'm sorry. What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:54 PM
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I see you've never had female friends who make even worse and more blatantly sexual jokes... Yes, women can absolutely be one of the guys, and even more "guy like" at times. If you could hear even a third of the shit my female friends have said, you'd never have made this comment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:40 PM
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"Mental equal"? All relationships ever are transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 01:37 PM
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No, I'm definitely friends with women. It's not a "trope" it's just friendship. Most people can understand this. Why do you think women can only have one man in their life? Do you think men can only have their wife/girlfriend and must shun all other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:52 PM
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That sounds like very healthy and fair friendships. What do you think of people who claim they don't actually treat you equally because you're a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:29 PM
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Well, yeah. Obviously you need to have stuff in common to be friends. I don't think anyone would argue against that. But I'm not going to reject someone who has a shit load of things in common with me purely based on their sex, which is how some people act.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:21 PM
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You have a point. A lot of men and women on this specific sub have some pretty deep seeded mistrust of anyone with different genitals...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:19 PM
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What about if they prove you don't need to be cautious?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:17 PM
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Sure, I've had both male a female friends over the years who I'd say yes if they offered. But it's not on my mind constantly, and it's not a way to determine if you want to hang out with someone. That's based on personality, not looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:17 PM
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Ha! Yeah, thought you'd figure it out quickly. It does sound like your male friends are very similar to me, and really do treat you as a fellow dude. Probably because you've shown it's what you prefer, and they aren't sexist so they can just relax around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 12:14 PM
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Maybe. If so, none of them have made anything known. Plus most of my male friends are straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:52 AM
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Right? All these high libido people thinking about fucking their friends all the time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:45 AM
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Do you hang out irl or just online?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:41 AM
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Agree with you totally. I only have 2 female friends now, but had more in the past, especially in college...actually had almost all female friends then. Was there some passing attraction, like if you asked me "is Rebecca cute" or "do you think Kristen is pretty", sure I'd have said yes. But I've never experienced this kind of "must fuck everyone who is even slightly attractive" mentality that some of the men here describe. Idk, maybe I'm just lower libido but I hang with people because they're f…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:40 AM
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Right back at you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:32 AM
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Possibly, sure. It's not a guarantee though. I go out for drinks with my friends one on one constantly, and I have only wanted to fuck one of the women and one of the men (both said no, and I am in a relationship now anyway). Nobody else in the entire group is on my fuck radar lol. Anecdotal experience, but pretty sure it is not uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:32 AM
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Interesting. I thought most straight (assuming you are, maybe I'm wrong) men avoid sexual topics with their friends, except in extremely general terms. At least that's what most of the men here say, that only women discuss sexual details or topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:27 AM
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No flak from me, friend. My girlfriend and most of my male friends are straight, and they're the coolest people I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:25 AM
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I've had female acquaintances and coworkers like that, sure. But wouldn't consider them friends or decide to hang out with them regularly because it doesn't make sense to try and chill with someone who is going to make you walk on eggshells. Don't need the additional stress in my life. The 2 female friends I mentioned thankfully act like men, so it's easy to treat them like it. I do think it's a rare trait, but not as impossible to find as some make it sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:23 AM
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Lol as a bisexual man with a trans sibling, I can say you are correct. Are the straights okay? Sometimes...definitely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:19 AM
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Do you talk about your fetishes with your male friends...?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:17 AM
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You've never been in a mixed sex friend group before? One of the weekly Meetup groups I joined this year is purely about biking. It's about 60/40 men and women. We meet at a trail, casually bike and talk for 2-3 hours, then go out for lunch and drinks. Nobody is there to fuck, we're in it to enjoy exercising with other bicyclists and eating at local restaurants. Most of the members are married anyway, it's not a "singles group".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:16 AM
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Cautious in what way? Do you not curse around them, or you avoid certain topics of conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:11 AM
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Yeah, agreed. It's when people talk about how each sex has some kind of "rules" that each one of us must follow and can never deviate from, I tend to tune out. There's almost 8 billion people in the world, roughly half men and half women. It is statistically impossible for 100% of a sex to all act or think the same way, it's illogical as you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 10:58 AM
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I'm glad you got mental health assistance, and no, the drooling mouthbreathers who say all men want to hurt their partners should honestly be removed from society altogether. They are nothing more than a cancerous pustule on a rabid dog's ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:41 AM
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What an imbecile
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:16 AM
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Fair. I've had sex with both as well, but can't make up my mind to have a preference. Both have equal pros and cons.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:37 AM
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Jesus Christ. That's some of the most fucked up shit I've ever read here. I'm bi, and have both given/received anal...no way in heaven or hell I'd allow someone to convince me "painal" is something I should let them do to me. Nor would I ever do it to my partners. Your ex needs therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:34 AM
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Wasn't that some idiot governor trying to claim he "knew" that abortions in the case of rape were "unnecessary" or some very similar fucked up stance?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:23 AM
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Edit: Oh wait I’m on PPD nvm Was going to ask if you forgot which sub you're on lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:21 AM
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It sounds like you compartmentalize a bit more strictly/better than most. Also makes sense how you've been able to stay fwb for more than 10 years, if you're able to consciously determine which mode you're in when together. Sounds handy, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:03 AM
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That's my point, that there really isn't a female libido or male libido, just high/low/average/no libido people of either sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:59 AM
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You've never been bored in your whole life? That seems hard to believe. Boxes...?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:41 AM
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It's cool how you can simultaneously acknowledge that you've grown as a person and your standards have slightly changed, but still see how good you currently have it and aren't looking to monkey branch. Although since you're fwb it probably wouldn't be considered that. But you have a very longterm relationship so maybe that's helping to make both of you content? Would you say you've ever gotten bored of him, and just stayed because it's easier?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:26 AM
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Are you bi?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:20 AM
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It's interesting you say that. As a bi man, I've noticed that anal comes up in discussions with both male and female partners but women are almost always against it, whereas with men it is 50/50. Women also seem more likely to find it degrading instead of just another way to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:09 AM
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Wouldn't this mean there is no true female libido, since some women are hornier than men, some are less, and some are the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:06 AM
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That's not a scientific source, that's just a single sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:03 AM
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Women were not designed to have high-powered careers with long hours. Any scientific evidence for this claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:46 AM
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Where the hell did you hear this drivel? Sounds like the kind of trash a gay "conversion" camp would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:45 AM
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Of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:43 AM
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What do you consider "the female libido"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:41 AM
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Sounds like you unfortunately had some pretty shitty sex education. Does the fact you don't do vaginal sex anymore seriously hurt your ability to get a partner, or do you have luck finding men/women who don't care?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:39 AM
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How old are you, and what did the men you dated wanted/asked for?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:34 AM
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Haven't heard of that before. Any sources or articles you'd recommend reading?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:32 AM
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we make some arrangments to start getting over them together What did you do? Looks like you only mentioned things she did. And what kind of advice would you have for men in the reverse situation/how can he get over his insecurities?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:30 AM
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This is a good question...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:28 AM
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You too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/21 08:25 AM
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Sorry, been busy with work. I was saying you seemed like a good woman who wouldn't be an AWALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 01:13 AM
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To say they have the capability of shitty behaviours. All humans do, not just women. If I get with a woman and I get a beer gut, stop going to the gym, get upto my eyeballs in debt, gamble away the house and develop a Class A drug habit. Is it not unrealistic to expect to her to look elsewhere. OK that was a bit extreme. Well fuck, yes, she should leave you if she has any self-respect. I'm a bisexual man, and I'd leave your ass too. Are you saying you wouldn't leave a woman who does that? Does t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 05:16 PM
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He thinks every woman is a special unicorn and different from the rest and will love him forever and ever. So yeah AWALT, there is no special disney princess and yeah Women have the potential leave and/or cheat, again they are not special unicorns. Right, but AWALT isn't usually used to acknowledge women are people just like us. It's usually used by red pillers to say the overwhelming majority of women have shitty behaviors, even when that's not true. Why does not being viewed as a magical wonde…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 04:43 PM
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I know someone who spent £3K on a woman in 2 months. That is not normal behaviour. He needs to learn AWALT. He won't though, so history will no doubt repeat itself and it is now on him. Your friend doesn't need to learn "all women are like that", it's not as if she forced him to spend money on her. It's his bank account, he has 100% control over it. He needs to learn to be frugal and better with his finances instead of being a wallet throwing simp. I'm confused why you think the fact he's an idi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:33 PM
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Because all women who think sex should be something shared with a loving partner instead of randos is the same as a sex repulsed prude? Sure...whatever you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 10:24 AM
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The reason for this is very likely just because it's illegal in most places. You make sex work legal, I'd say 80% of men would hire an escort at least twice in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 10:23 AM
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CimZim is not a normal woman, she's autistic and demisexual. She has trouble getting sex because of a mental block towards finding people sexually attractive so can't do hookups and has only had 1 sex partner despite being 35. I understand your frustration in the conversation you've been having with her, but she's one of the few women here who actually know what it's like to not get sex easily. I believe she was also a virgin until 24 because of her difficulties in getting men to stay long enoug…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 12:28 AM
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It's a hypothetical, you pick one side.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 07:39 PM
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What kind of hallucinations do you have? How are you able to tell them from real sounds?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:38 PM
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I hope you're being sarcastic about "attractive" mental illness
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:37 PM
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You don't speak for all of us, most men aren't red pillers or tradcons. A woman who is over 25 and still a virgin is absolutely a red flag. Or at minimum a yellow flag/proceed with caution.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 12:13 PM
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Men and women are both hypergamous (they both seek out the best partner and some will leave when they find more than their current one). However due to society women tend to be treated well when they leave and men are not. That's the only difference. Men are actually more historically prone to leaving and cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 01:40 PM
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Agreed. Like I said, I know you're an egalitarian too so figured your relationship is probably 50/50. And CimZim has a longterm fwb that she's very devoted to like this guy wants, but she hates gender roles (good reason to in her case) and wouldn't be with a guy who wanted her to act and contribute like an equal but still defer to his random decisions. He wants to have his cake and eat it too, while giving no reason for his default leader status.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 01:05 PM
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Biologically, I don't believe that. I think it's a worse thing for men to be. Socially, yes, it is worse for women to be but only because of current misandric divorce courts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 01:01 PM
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Not as many as one would think. A low n woman who marries a high n man will almost certainly be cheated on repeatedly. A low n man who marries a high n woman will have to worry about the same shit, and possibly divorce too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 12:52 PM
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So if you do find a woman like that (I'd second the idea that egalitarian women like u/NarniaFox and u/CimZim are good candidates for this kind of relationship...I think Cim is actually in a ltr 95% like this already) why should they be submissive? Or how? You stated that they should essentially be your financial, emotional, mental equal and put the same amount of work into the relationship as you. What good reason do you believe you have for asking for submission? Because let me tell you, man t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 12:49 PM
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Nah, there's women here who have 90% of these traits. My own girlfriend is pretty close well. The ridiculous part is still wanting someone who lives their own life and owes him nothing to still be submissive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 12:37 PM
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What did he originally say?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 12:35 PM
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It's just the guys who typically initiate the get togethers. Not really alphas, I don't know any guys like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 01:59 PM
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That's pretty awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:39 PM
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Eh, depends on how you define alpha. I wouldn't consider myself one under normal RP definition, but my gf and I have a bit of an age gap. Not huge, but enough that I'm sure someone on Tumblr would be mad. Some women here say the same thing, that they prefer older men not do to their money/status but because their personalities mesh well. If you mean alpha = average man who just has a backbone, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:39 PM
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Really? Haven't you been friends with benefits for 12 years or something like that? There's never once been a sex thing you disagreed about or one of you said hell no?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:11 PM
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Women, definitely. Men can tell who's the leader within our own social circles. Women can tell from social circles they barely know anyone in.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 12:09 PM
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Didn't have a good father or stepfather, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 03:41 PM
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Pretty much lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:26 AM
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Eh, I'm not doing it lately, I do it always. Better to assume someone is illogical and be pleasantly surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:20 AM
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Seen it used both ways here, assumed you were literal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:16 AM
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You know you're too understanding and compassionate to be here, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:15 AM
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Awalt is a myth. Enough women are like that to make a man sufficiently cautious, but going through life thinking all women are is pure paranoia.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 02:10 AM
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I think this is what most people need. It's the one thing I don't understand about hookups, how do you make sure you're safe with that guy or gal?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:59 PM
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Always happy to give a little representation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:57 PM
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You don't tend to read people's flairs, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:57 PM
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Man here, I tend to find most women, except for really fat or really thin ones, sexually attractive. About 25% of men too. I wouldn't necessarily bang them that same night but I could definitely see them immediately as a potential sexual partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 01:21 PM
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"Hamstering" is when someone, usually a woman in subs like these, use shit excuses to find loopholes in things they claim they do. Something like "I NEVER have sex on the first date...BUT this one guy was just so charming!" Or "I don't care about money AT ALL...it's just a coincidence that my boyfriend makes $200,000 a year." Stuff like that. Cimorene86 isn't doing that. She's demisexual and iirc she's only been with one man who's her friend with benefits that she's known for years. That's the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 01:05 PM
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This calculator doesn't seem to be a "delusional" calculator at all, unfortunately. I'm a bi man, so just for shits and giggles I put in my own preferences in men. Age: 25-45, exclude married Race: Any Minimum Height: 5', exclude obese Minimum Income: $35k According to my results, I have a 25% chance...but that still gives me a 2/5 cat lady score. I've played around with it for 15 minutes and still can't find a combination that gives a 1/5 score.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:33 AM
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Another is what women look for in a man and also what they don't want in a man. Most of what women ook for in a man naturally gravitates towards "better": taller, stronger, richer, smarter, etc. Most of the things that would make a woman leave or think about leaving also gravitates towards admiration or respect: losing a job, crying/being very emotional, appearing weak (letting people walk all over you), not being able to stand up for yourself, etc. See, this is where my personal experience is v…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 12:05 PM
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First, I absolutely don't believe that women "need" to respect a man to love him. Do some of them? Sure. Mostly the crazy ones from the FDS sub or traditionalist women. But I wouldn't say that it's a majority. Secondly, a relationship were one half constantly thinks of the other being "better" or superior is inherently unhealthy for both. It creates unnecessary and harmful imbalance in how they'll treat themselves and their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:48 AM
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What are some examples of sexual efforts? Either ones that men do, or women don't do? Because without knowing your definitions I'd say I've had female partners who've put in more effort than me. For example, I enjoy being a bit of a "pillow price" and have had a couple partners, including my current one, who is perfectly fine doing all the physical work for both of us while I essentially just starfish. Not 100% of our sex goes like this of course, it would be boring. But I'd say a good 40% of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:42 AM
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That respect comes from a deeper meaning of being better than her No mentally healthy woman worth having a ltr with would think like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 03:30 AM
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Absolutely agree. Unless someone is actually harmful towards their partner, most differences in relationships are amoral, not immoral. Of course just because something is normally considered to be masculine or feminine doesn't mean that only people of that sex can do it. I've been "mansplained" by both sexes...why do we have to refer to it in gendered terms, instead of saying "this person made condescending assumptions"? This is why I could never be a feminist, even though I believe in equality.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 01:53 PM
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Sounds like something I'm definitely going to have to read. I love stories like that, reminds me of dystopian/creepy short stories by Ray Bradbury and Shirley Jackson.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 01:42 PM
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Ha, I knew you'd give a good answer. Btw, what does your flair mean? What's an omelas, and why should someone change it instead of "leaving"?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 01:13 PM
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When I have girlfriends, their happiness is placed only slightly below my own. That's not to say I'm an asshole or don't care about them...I do, very much. I'm just not willing to give up my happiness for the sake of theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 07:43 AM
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Thanks for pointing this out. Drives me crazy when people think that things completely unrelated to a man's body are part of his physical attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 10:39 AM
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Yeah, these bros here who want to rack up 30+ notches then settle down with a literal virgin woman significantly younger than them are not capable of understanding this. Neither are the chicks who have N of the same and then want to settle down with a lower count man. It's just going to breed resentment on the part of the virgin/low N partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 11:04 AM
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Interesting that you call it a lack of self control. Would you say the same for a 10/10 Chad who has an N of 40? The type of guy who just has to exist for pussy to come to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 11:00 AM
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I wouldn't say you don't have a right to prefer a lower N, anyone can prefer whatever traits they want. I just don't think it's healthy to support double standards. If I'm holding myself to one standard it's hypocritical to hold my future girlfriend to a totally different one. There's a lot of men here who are okay with upholding double standards, and that's on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 10:54 AM
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You really don't know how it works, huh? Shaming someone behind their back doesn't mean they don't eventually hear about it from their friends...or enemies. It's actually worse than trying to shame someone face to face, because then at least they can immediately rebuke the accusation. Talking about it for weeks, so the entire student body learns the rumor before them, means there's literally nothing they can do to change anyone's mind. This is why boys and girls have been known to switch schools…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 05:24 PM
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Do you ask directly or try to determine through asking other questions about her past? Either one is an option. I prefer dating girls who are more open and fun, so they talk about their past same as I don't make mine a secret. What would you do, if despite all your vetting and green flags the girl might have, the n-count was still too high for your liking? Would you end an otherwise happy and fulfilling relationship? Would you be truthful when breaking up with the girl that her n-count was the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 05:21 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 05:11 PM
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The fact you admit your mistake and apologized is great. I mean that seriously, you don't see that a lot here. Good on you, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 05:08 PM
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Maybe it is for some guys. I just wanted to know what professional sex was like.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 05:06 PM
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Thanks for clarifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 05:06 PM
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Lol okay. Were you homeschooled? Serious question, because it seems like you've never experienced the most common type of shaming which is done behind people's backs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 05:05 PM
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So is it shaming or isn't it? I have no idea if every rational girl does, I'm a man and only have 2 female friends. Why does it matter if 100% of rational people do anything? There's a huge amount more of irrational men and women out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 04:49 PM
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But I struggle to see why someone else mode normal would pay. Wanted to see what it was like to have sex with someone who's literally paid to get people off. It was good, definitely some of the better sex I've had, but not the best. A job is still a job, I would assume? Even in the "best' of brothels, it's not really about them. They're independent contractors, not sure what you mean it's "not about them". The woman I was with said she used to be a grocery store manager and preferred being a sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 04:47 PM
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...wow Nice answer. Having a range of sexual preferences that includes conventionally attractive and unattractive traits and saying that you prefer the unattractive one while always picking the attractive one is Yes, if there was an actual pattern of someone constantly picking one over the other you'd have a point. Like if I said I liked all breast sizes, but literally only slept with women who had huge tits (conventionally attractive) and never women with small tits (conventionally unattractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 04:41 PM
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I've never been a sex worker either, but again, she did thank me for treating her like a person and asking her what she liked to get her off. It sounded like she doesn't get many johns caring about her comfort or pleasure. And no, this was one of the better brothels in Nevada where it's legal. I paid for an hour so this wasn't a quickie in the back of a car with a streetwalker.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 04:21 PM
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Thanks for your sympathy, but it is what it is. I learned in high school to look at how people treat you, not the labels they put on your relationship. Guy, girl, doesn't matter...I'm not going to be the only one putting work into the friendship or romantic relationship. More men need to grow some balls like this imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 04:16 PM
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That's how you can tell who's real vs fake. Same with male friends. You know a guy who's constantly asking you to drive him places or lend him 10 bucks here and there, but suddenly nowhere to be found when you need something? Fake af.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 04:08 PM
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What do you think having fun means, regarding sex? Never said I was "special" either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 04:06 PM
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It certainly makes it more likely than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 04:04 PM
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Can I believe that a sex worker orgasmed due to what I did, since i specifically asked her what she liked, and she thanked me for doing so? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 04:04 PM
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Openly talking on a public forum about how a woman was a "moron" and is now "unfuckable" for making a decision about her body's health/cancer prevention is not shaming her? On what planet?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 03:10 PM
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Yup. It takes a while to find out who's a real friend vs who wants you to be a stand in for when they're single. If she offers to watch your dogs while you're on vacation, spots you money when you need gas, or invites you out to lunch and pays...you know she's legit. Best keep a female friend like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 03:07 PM
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Explain what? That there's men who will talk about how a chick has small tits or a flat ass? C'mon, you're going to tell me you're above the age of 12 and haven't heard this in high school locker rooms or at college parties or in clubs...I don't believe it. Sure. Just go onto any website that had covered Angelina Jolie and her decision to have a double mastectomy 8 years ago, and read the comments if they're still public. Shit loads of guys saying that it was a stupid decision, she looked like a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 02:45 PM
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Can you honestly tell the difference between a 6' guy and a 5'11 guy when you seee them randomly in public? No, but why does that matter? Look im not trying to police anyone, all im asking is to stop the lies. Just own up to it you like tall guys short guys i dont care just stop this virtue signalling bullshit and own up to what you say and do Saying you have a range of sexual preferences, and sticking within that range is virtue signaling? How? When you have one or 2 black girls no one will car…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 02:36 PM
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Have I personally? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 02:14 PM
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Of course men and women can be friends, it's just more difficult. Not because of sexual attraction either. It's because most of the time the male friend will be used for his muscles or money or skills and the female friend will rarely, if ever, reciprocate. But if a guy does find a good woman who isn't a user and they have similar interests, then sure. I have 2 female friends and they're great.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 02:06 PM
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It does, because how many men do you know that are 5'6" or shorter? I don't personally know any. You see them in public now and then but it's hardly a common physical trait. I'm 6' myself, and see more guys around my height than anything. Besides, she specified that she finds his taller height annoying and that being up to a certain height isn't a dealbreaker. I have a sexual preference for blondes, but that doesn't mean I'll say no to a redhead or brunette just because they're not my favorite h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 01:41 PM
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You think normal men have rants on their Facebook page about the inherent disloyalty of the entire female half of our species?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 01:29 PM
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Idk, it sounds like she was being asked out by a bunch of hypocritical incels. Doubtful they were treating her differently than any other woman they can't get.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 12:38 PM
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This usually depends on what X is. If a woman says she doesn't care about money but her current boyfriend is a millionaire who she met on an elite dating site or sugar site...yeah, that's not showing she doesn't care about money. That proves she definitely was looking for a loaded guy. But if it's something like a woman saying she's open to dating short guys and her current boyfriend is a normal height guy, this comes down to the fact the majority of men are already taller than the majority of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 12:34 PM
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Don't know, never been to a poor country. I live in the United States and have only been to Canada. It's very easy to tell the difference here. Even the one time I hired a sex worker I tried to make sure she was having fun, that it wasn't just another job.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 12:25 PM
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Don't people always start from scratch with every new relationship? Depends on what you mean. Nobody has zero baggage if that's what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 09:49 AM
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So she's a sex worker, not a girlfriend or hookup?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 09:47 AM
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I agree. It's odd to think of one's sex partner as a toy, essentially. I wouldn't be capable of enjoying myself if she wasn't also having a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 09:46 AM
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Exactly why the idea of pair bonding is shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 02:22 AM
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Hopefully not "at her expense". I'm a fan of no strings attached sex too, but you make it sound like you're the only one enjoying it and the sex is either a chore or something she's getting absolutely nothing out of.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 02:21 AM
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You're one of the rare people who is truly kind and good, without also being a doormat. You respond to angry comments with lighthearted jokes, you ask people how they're doing and offer advice, and don't seem to take sides based on the sex of the speaker but instead on what they say. But then you also whip out the funniest insults on those who are being assholes and actually deserve it. Amazing. But you're also slightly crazy, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 07:12 PM
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While I agree that is fucked up, it really is very easy to become desperately lonely as a man, especially if you're socially awkward and have trouble making friends, much less finding a girlfriend. I've met many men who are in long-term shit relationships and are only staying because they're terrified of being alone. Haven't seen this as much from women. Men seem to fear being single and women fear being childless. Not all of us of course. I saw your epic takedown of that patronizing douche who …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 12:15 PM
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Yeah, but most women tend to act in certain ways and most men tend to act in others. You don't need to know about pills to see that. I'm just saying that Cimorene is an outlier so trying to get a normal womans response is futile.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 02:26 AM
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I'd be interested in seeing that, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 04:51 PM
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That's the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 04:42 PM
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To be fair, I'd kill to have the kind of relationship she describes. It's like what the majority of non-tradcon men want but can never get, or keep. A woman who likes all the same shit you do, doesn't want kids, isn't ever going to pressure you to "define the relationship", pays for herself and you when you hang out, doesn't keep her crap at your place, doesn't wear fake-up, enjoys sex as much as you, and treats you like an equal instead of her butler or atm? There's a reason broads like her are…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 04:41 PM
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If you're trying to figure Cimorene out, you're probably fighting a losing battle. I've read most of her comment history and she isn't a normal woman. She is almost certainly insane, and if not, she's still one of the weirdest people here. Ridiculously nice and friendly, and she's in favor of men's rights so that's a plus, but also incredibly strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 04:32 PM
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But how many women are actually going to do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 04:25 PM
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Myers-Briggs is basically your newspaper horoscope
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 04:21 PM
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The overwhelming majority of us, but it probably won't have a huge effect. Isn't it true that only about 30 or 40% of men reproduce?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 04:20 PM
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Alright, that does make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 04:19 PM
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Looks like that's a fantasy/scifi term though...People can't actually feel the emotions of others. It could be someone having hyperactive mirror neurons or something. Maybe that's what she has, since she's autistic and they can have trouble expressing emotions but feel them more intensely.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 02:31 AM
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What exactly is an empath, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 02:56 AM
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Almost everyone has empathy to some extent though...Doesn't mean it's typical to go be a free therapist on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 06:51 AM
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I'm doing okay but it's weirding me out how you seem to care about everyone here. What's the deal exactly? Real people aren't this nice to strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 01:40 AM
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True dat.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 01:38 AM
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What the hell are you talking about? Some men and women are going to be sluts no matter what. Some men and women are going to be low n no matter what. It's not up to me to tell people how to live their lives. I'm just saying primates don't pair bond the way OP is talking about. How the fuck you get "no u" from anything I wrote is incredible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 01:11 PM
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Depends on their count. Mine is 8. If hers is 10 or 12, nah, that's an okay number. If it's something ridiculous like 25+ then I'm not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 01:06 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 12:13 PM
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We aren't a monogamous species. Yes, we are social and create bonds between friends, family, partners, coworkers but there's no "one mate for life" bonding going on like in birds or some other mammals. Men and women who have oneitis aren't usually mentally healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 11:54 AM
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If you're wondering who it's worth getting into a relationship with, NOONE but LOW n-count until age 20. And 20 and up, NOONE higher than MEDIUM n-count. Then who's going to let all the male and female sluts? By your logic, shouldn't they be getting together? It just shows they're careless about sex, No, it shows they enjoy random sex with lots of people instead of enjoying steady sex with one person. I'm right on the cusp of becoming a high N man according to your chart since my N is 8, and not…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 11:28 AM
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Different topic, but did you really change your avatar pic and flair to be like Charlie from Hazbin Hotel?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 11:19 AM
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Yeah, I care about the n count of my partners but not because of something ridiculous like "pair bonding".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 11:16 AM
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Incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 11:14 AM
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I think he's asking what number is your cutoff if you intentionally avoid attractive women. Do you only go for tier 6 and under?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 04:23 AM
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Damn, you've paid for him to get a handjob and massage from another woman? Where can we find more women like you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 11:30 AM
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Where the fuck did you ever hear about this principle "in the west". I'm from the United States and in my 30s. Never once heard such garbage. You do know some women are born without hymens, or have humans that naturally have large perforations, or are so thick they can't even break without surgery, right? Trying to claim that a womans virginity is based on how a tiny, hole filled piece of skin looks is retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 11:27 AM
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This doesn't make sense. You can't count makeup as a part of physical attractiveness because it's all fake. If a short guy wears those "hidden 3 inches" shoes, are you going to include that in his physical attractiveness too? Of course not, it would be retarded. The shoes eventually come off and he's back to being short. The makeup comes off and she's back to being a 5 instead of an 8. This is why I refuse to date women whom wear makeup. I want to have a relationship with a 7 who actually looks …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 11:15 AM
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True. The best thing to do if you know you're going to want a stable ltr, for both sexes, is to sleep around a little bit so you can learn what you enjoy but don't overdo it. Keep it below double digits.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 11:09 AM
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This is a very weird comment. How many drugs are you on to come up with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 08:01 PM
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I'm not looking for marriage, quite content to be a lifelong bachelor so literally couldn't care less about "pairbonding" shit. And I'm not talking about a woman with 25+ previous partners who's goal in life is to bang a different man in every state. I mean a woman who's been with 4 or 5 guys, who knows what she's into and knows how to ask for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 05:33 PM
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I actually have already dated women with each of those, including my current girlfriend, which is why I can accurately say they wouldn't bother me. Why do you assume they would make me "miserable" at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 12:20 AM
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Already have, with numerous girls, for LTRs. Definitely prefer non-virgins for relationships, I don't do hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 12:17 AM
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I already said high is a dealbreaker. My own N is 8, I prefer women who are around the same number.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 12:14 AM
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Depends on what that past is, imo. I care about my girlfriends pasts, but I'd only dislike them for things they actively had a choice in, not things that were outside of their control. Alcoholism? Dislike and dealbreaker. Any drug use? Dislike and dealbreaker. Irresponsible behavior like DUI? Dislike and dealbreaker. Cheating? Dislike and dealbreaker. High N? Dislike and dealbreaker. Using sex as a tool? Dislike and dealbreaker. She was raped? Not her fault, can work with it. Had an abusive dad …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 09:21 AM
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Maybe I'm just an outlier, but definitely don't prefer virgins as partners. I've had 2, my first girlfriend at 18 and another in college. They aren't sexually adventurous, don't know what they're doing with a male body (to be fair, a male virgin doesn't know shit about the female body either), don't cum easily, get very clingy after sex, and you have to go really slow to avoid hurting them or making them bleed. They're a lot of work unfortunately. Give me a low N woman instead, preferably one wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 09:09 AM
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Sometimes men want to be the little spoon after a shit workday. We aren't made of unfeeling stone, we need comfort and care from our partners too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 08:57 AM
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No. If a woman chooses to have casual sex with me, and I choose to with her, neither of us have been degraded. We are 2 adults who have made a mutual decision to have some fun together and get sexual relief. Why the hell would I have such a shit opinion of a chick who is dtf with me? I'm a man, not a "poor judgment".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 08:54 AM
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I'd rather watch porn and jerk off in one of my toys than fuck an ugly woman. If I need to pop 2 Viagra just to keep from going limp, the juice isn't worth the squeeze of getting her into bed in the first place. My N may not be high but at least I can say I've never been with a chick who's ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 08:43 AM
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Presentation matters. I definitely agree. But you seem to be assuming her presentation is lackluster, instead of asking further questions to make that determination. She's a pale, My father has a strong Mediterranean background which I thankfully inherited for the most part, but my mother was from an Irish background family. It's very difficult for some white people to tan rather than burn. Being pale isn't a negative imo, any more than being black or olive skinned. If you're not a fan of white …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 08:38 AM
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It's interesting that if you click on the external links in the actual article, it doesn't even say that. Such sloppy journalism, if one could call it that! It's as though the author read the first paragraph and stopped. The latest figures indicate that the overall divorce rate is the lowest it has been since 1970, at 16.7 per 1,000, in 2016. This is the “refined” rate, which looks at the total number of married women, who are thought to be better reporters of personal information than men tend …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 07:33 AM
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She's right. Looks are subjective, not objective. Frankly, she does sound like a 7 to me. Don't know why you'd call a size 6 woman with those size tits and ass a 5. Just by being under a size 10 already puts her above average in smv.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 05:25 AM
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If I begin dating a woman 10 years younger than myself, she's always going to be that much younger. So long as the rest of our relationship is fine, it's irrational to break up simply due to age, since I'll have grown older too. People age. It's not like us men are immune from it. Grab an attractive younger woman who meshes with you and grow old together.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 05:09 AM
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