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| 47 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars? | DATING ADVICE | TarrotAwayAcct | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/08/19 06:48 PM |
| 12 | Met this older extremely handsome financially secure and established guy, but, he has a situation I have no idea how to emotionally process or feel about. | DATING ADVICE | TarrotAwayAcct | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/09/19 01:32 PM |
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| 0 | Met this older extremely handsome financially secure and established guy, but, he has a situation I have no idea how to emotionally process or feel about.I took a mental step back and decided to not give in to fear and paranoia. Things are still new. Nobody is rushing. Time will tell. But thank you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/10/19 09:11 PM |
| -2 | Met this older extremely handsome financially secure and established guy, but, he has a situation I have no idea how to emotionally process or feel about.I strongly disagree. What you call a Nice GuyTM is simply not an AssholeTM He’s otherwise very assertive when it comes to life and his business. He clearly successful. He’s in great shape genetically and because he cares about what he eats and exercise. He’s not at all a weak doormat pushover. But when it comes to his family, he’s very sentimental. He’s loyal. He wants to have a relationship with his family, even if it’s not a good one. He doesn’t want to be unfair to those close to him, even if… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/09/19 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Met this older extremely handsome financially secure and established guy, but, he has a situation I have no idea how to emotionally process or feel about.He’s fairly financially comfortable. He’s not a very lavish spender, but he’s sometimes too nice and generous with others, which I can see how that would get him in trouble with his ex. He can be very soft at times. No kids are in the picture. I don’t know enough about the history or situation, but I get the sense that it wasn’t him who was holding things up. He’s not vindictive. It’s the bane of his existence. So I guess maybe she was drilling a hole in his pocket the more they fought in the di… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/09/19 02:34 PM |
| 5 | Met this older extremely handsome financially secure and established guy, but, he has a situation I have no idea how to emotionally process or feel about.So, there’s a huge risk he may never want to get married again. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/09/19 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?Yes, all of it. Exactly. These two guys weren’t afraid to literally drag a girl into a room, isolate her, pin her down, and begin to undress her. So, I can’t imagine a guy being genuinely afraid of just walking up and talking to a girl. Talking. Just talking. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/08/19 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?I tried that out, but all the “groups” on Meetup are either dead/inactive or again have like 12-30 people total and everyone is like 35+ Meetup was good in theory, but sadly underwhelming irl. Believe me, I would love nothing more than a good Meetup group. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/19 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?Why do you say that? You think men are genuinely afraid of getting arrested or sue just for talking to a girl? | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/19 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?Are there men who I want and who don’t approach me? Yes. I’m honest about that. Do I then maybe rationalize my disinterest for them after the fact? Yes, again, I’ll admit that. But there are also men who I want who do approach me. And when they do, I know how it makes me feel as a woman. If I don’t feel that way from the beginning of my relationship with a man, I’m sorry, but I don’t think I could have a long term relationship with that man. I need to feel that way from the very beginning. As fa… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/19 04:33 PM |
| 0 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?I don’t approach, because I want to be a woman and I want a man to be a man, and men are the ones who approach. It’s that simple. I explained what kind of guys are just out there looking for sex. Guys who have some internal competition with themselves to get as high of an n count as possible before they die, or guys who are on a mission to build up their low self esteem by having sex with an “attractive” girl. That’s it. It’s not more complicated than that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/19 11:07 AM |
| 2 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?23 | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/19 04:30 AM |
| 0 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?I’m pretty sure there is a way. As far as guys who are just interested in sex, when he seems too confident, not like he’s masking insecurity or nerves, but because he genuinely doesn’t give a damn. Also, when the nervous ones approach and then start doting and become obsessed. It’s because they never had any experience and this is their ticket to their self esteem. No thanks. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/19 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?Went to the festival. A lot of old people. 60s, 40s. A lot of people with kids. Not a lot of younger guys. Not losing hope. Any idea when the best time of day to go would be? I’ll definitely hit these outdoor events again. They’re really cheap, maybe $2-20 to get in. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/19 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?Yeah, I’m not religious, and I just feel like it would be disrespectful to people who are to just waltz into church events for the sole purpose of finding a guy. But churches and church events are obviously great places, if I was religious. Thank you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/19 04:34 PM |
| 0 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?I’ve been approached ad nausium in bars and clubs. I can get men in general to approach. I just can’t get a specific guy to approach me. Idk how other women do it, but I know they do it. As far as reading a guy, it’s kind of obvious. I find it pretty easy to tell when a guy just wants sex versus is looking for something more serious. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/19 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?I’ll give B&N another shot. Thank you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/19 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?That’s me at the gym. Never happens when I was in the city, and certainly isn’t happening now. I’m sure it happens somewhere, but nobody I know has ever had a story of being approached at the gym. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?Nothing. Just don’t want a guy who is obviously all about getting laid. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 11:00 PM |
| 3 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?Thank you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?In bars and clubs, I have. Here, I have too. I’ve noticed guys checking me out, and I’ve made eye contact and smiled, but they just looked away and carried on about their day. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?Trying. It’s not easy moving. I’m not used to moving, so this is an adjustment for me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 07:52 PM |
| 0 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?Are you a woman? I can also change and be bisexual and really expand my dating options. I can’t change my preferences. I’m never going to approach a man, period. But I know you meant well by everything your said. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 07:48 PM |
| 0 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?I hear what you’re saying. I make eye contact. I smile. How much eye contact and smiling can I do? It’s not like guys think women are going to sue them or get them arrested just for talking to us. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 07:35 PM |
| 0 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?Understood, but it’s something I refuse to do on principle. So, it’s not an opportunity for me if he’s not going to approach me. I need a man to be the one to approach me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?There are a lot of outdoor concerts here. That’s relatively new for me. Never had that where I’m from - just major bands in stadiums. I’ll have to find someone to go with, but that’s an excellent idea. Thank you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?I hear what you’re saying. I’m not really attracted to the bar/club type. Hence, not wanting to go to bars/clubs anymore. Idk, maybe it’s how I was raised. I’ve never approached a man, and I don’t ever plan to. I just feel like it’s the man who approaches a woman, not the other way around. Isn’t that like a core principle of RPW? Even men who are educated, stable, faithful, and emotionally well-adjusted approach women. I am relatively new here, and I know people can tell I’m from the city. But I… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?I just think that guys don’t feel confident enough. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?Is it wrong if I want a guy to be the one to approach me? | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?I understand, thank you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?Not sure what you’re eluding to or trying to say. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 01:32 PM |
| 0 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?I will try the niche thing, but it’s really hit or miss out where I am. 2 hours of your time just to meet and interact with like 6 new people. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 01:31 PM |
| 0 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?Yeah, ok. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?I’m definitely not a cougar. I’m 23. Shooting range is a realistic possibility out where I am. Has anyone had any luck with guys striking up a conversation at a shooting range? | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?What’s funny is, first, I don’t think there is even a bordello where I’m from. That’s how small a town it is. Second, I don’t think we can expect to find quality men at a bordello? I hear what you’re saying, but I’ve seen women approached just sitting around doing nothing and that never happens to me outside of a bar or club, and it’s always by guys just looking to get a number and validate themselves as players or by clearly the wrong kind of guys or drunk guys. I don’t think I’ve ever had some… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?It’s not that I’m against every suggestion. It’s just difficult where I am. Not a lot of people, and not really very cultured either. But I’m stuck here for work and school at the moment. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 11:21 AM |
| 2 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?There is a festival here today, so maybe I’ll go and see. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?Unfortunately, no such culture in my neck of the woods. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?Really? Unheard of here. Do they do something that makes the guys feel more comfortable approaching? | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 11:18 AM |
| 4 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?I live in a suburb / practically rural area. So niche means super hit or miss. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 11:17 AM |
| 3 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?I do that. Doesn’t work, unfortunately. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 11:15 AM |
| 12 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?Hmm, idk. Don’t really run into too many confident men I guess. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 12:18 AM |
| 10 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?Yeah, I have something against Tinder. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 12:17 AM |
| 3 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?How did you get guys to approach you in B&N? | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 12:16 AM |
| -3 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?Those are niche, but thank you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 12:16 AM |
| 17 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?Already at a gym. Contrary to popular belief, men don’t approach women in the gym. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 12:15 AM |
| 11 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?But what did she do before the guy walked over? | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 12:15 AM |
| 8 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?You’re assuming we’re already talking. Besides smiling and eye contact, idk, guys don’t seem to approach me in common everyday places. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/08/19 12:14 AM |
| 1 | How often do you lift?Whatever day you “start,” my schedule is basically: 1: Legs (to rest and recover rotator cuff) 2 : Chest (incidentally working front deltoid and triceps) 3: Back (incidentally working rear deltoids and biceps) 4: Legs (to rest and recover rotator cuff) 5: Triceps (only) 6: Biceps (only) 7: Shoulders Start with 15mins of cardio at 148bpm to 168bpm (whatever you’re comfortable with). Keep workout to 45-50mins max. Keep “rest” between sets to 60-90 seconds max (really, 60 seconds max). To close off… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 07:47 PM |
| 1 | NutritionFrom what I understand, as a woman, the key to getting “shredded” (low body fat percentage and high skeletal muscle percentage) is to keep your BMR constant or “higher” than it was when you started (unless you had some massive body transformation where you went from 280lbs to 160lbs) During the cutting phase, your body fat percentage drops, but because you’re in a caloric deficit, so does your BMR. If you continue down this path for too long, you’re going to hit a plateau and not be able to keep… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 07:34 PM |
| 8 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?Hmm, no ice rink where I live, but that’s sounds good. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/08/19 07:20 PM |
| 11 | Where are some good places to meet men that are not clubs or bars?How did that happen? | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/08/19 07:19 PM |
| 13 | Why aren't men interested in me.This last part is on the money. You’re basically looking to cross racial lines, and looking to cross a large age gap, and looking for the guy to just spontaneously walk up to you on the off chance that maybe you would be open to that? I’m sorry, I agree that that’s a bit unrealistic of an expectation. Isn’t it like a rule that if the guy is 10+ years older, it’s the woman who has to initiate? The man risks looking like a pedophile or cradle robber. What do you risk looking like? Which one is wor… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/08/19 06:57 PM |
| 7 | I have no idea where to find men to dateGrabbing the largest table at Starbucks, because then people have to ask you if it’s okay if they can sit down. Barnes and Noble, because it’s so easy to literally talk about the book you’re holding or section you’re in. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/08/19 11:57 PM |
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