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Yeah, a lot of therapeuts are like that… Me personally, I don’t think that conventional therapy is that helpful at all… I find that in therapy you just mentalize around your past trauma and they give you these cbt tasks when what you truly need is to be in a safe space, held, accepted, loved and fully allowed to feel all your emotions… I have instead chosen to visit two shaman women who has helped me to work through my trauma with touch and connection. This has led me to to being able to feel se…
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/24 07:47 PM
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Yeah, valid point. Most high value men might just pick another one. I guess in my case there was a lot of luck involved.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/24 11:07 PM
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No worries. What you loose in breasts you gain in better posture😁
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/24 06:35 PM
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Yes, very good!
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/24 04:07 PM
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I agree with everything in this comment! Though I would personallt prefer to bring it up right away (also speaking as a pregnant woman week 33). It is a very long time to wait and for the health of my own marriage I usually voice my feelings/worries/concerns as soon as I can, before any resentment builds up. And we always end up better and more loving to each other than we were before. I have also noticed that for me, to have that feeling of safety in our relationship is extra important now duri…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/24 07:42 PM
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Ok so if the guy says he doesn’t want to talk about the future it means he doesn’t want to settle down. There’s this belief that women commonly have that ”when he falls deeply in love with me he’s gonna want to settle down” or ”maybe I can change his mind”. No, you will just end up wasting a lot of your time. I would personally feel that it would be hard to fully trust and surrender to a man that is so much younger than I am (as most often that means he has less life experience than you do). How…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/24 09:13 AM
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Yes!
/r/TheRedPill09/02/24 08:09 AM
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I THINK I understand what you mean. The change must be on political level, that’s where men can make a difference?
/r/TheRedPill08/02/24 11:10 PM
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But health care and education are so incredibly important for our society. Shouldn’t more men go into these fields and try taking back responsibility for their development?
/r/TheRedPill07/02/24 12:30 PM
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As a woman; I agree, this is esentially how we work. So basically a psychopath who has the keys can get in and it’s very, very hard to stop it. However, I find that the security system and locks slowly changes with time once you heal with a patient and unwavering man who makes you feel safe and seen and at the same time stands his ground. Like, he didn’t have full access at first, but slowly, after a long time you realize that it’s like he has changed all the locks. And this time the trust and l…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/24 12:17 PM
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Yes, he will for sure get his own share of challenges and lifelessons because of this bevaviour. Everything we do have consequences, if not external consequences - internal ones (affecting our mental well being/state of mind). That’s why you shouldn’t make this situation any worse for yourself by revenging💓 I’ve also been treated very wrong in past relationships. It hurt so bad at the time but today I can honestly cry out of GRATEFULNESS for these experiences. These past relationships taught me …
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/24 09:54 AM
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No, don’t sink to his level. Take the lessons from this experience, let go of him and proudly walk away. I know it’s tempting but in the future you will be happy that you didn’t cause further drama. Good things don’t come from revenge. …and you will NEVER be able to win his friends and family over. I have so many girlfriends who have tried doing this after their spouses/boyfriends have cheated on them, but it just doesn’t work. Even if they like you they are HIS people and he hasn’t done anythin…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/24 10:12 PM
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I think you are right!
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/23 02:26 PM
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I think most people would consider 3-4 times a week a LOT, especially considering his age. For men sex is a bit draining energy-wise. Coming too frequently makes men unmotivated from what I’ve heard and seen, so I don’t think sex every day is good for his mental health, physical performance and job performance. It’s a horrible feeling to feel undesired, but it honestly sounds like it’s all in your mind. You need to find a way to change your thinking around this. Whatever you do, don’t put pressu…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/23 01:48 PM
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😂👍
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/23 09:50 PM
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Yeah, I believe you, and there’s many books that you would wish men to read!
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/23 09:49 PM
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In my experience it’s not the best idea to tell a man to read a book about anything as it can be taken as an insult to his competence. Instead let him know how whatever he is doing at the moment feels, it can be verbal or non-verbal.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/23 03:06 PM
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Yes, I think so too!😔
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/23 10:32 PM
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The second one😊
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/23 09:20 PM
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Haha, there’s not a chance😄
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/23 05:16 PM
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Now that I think about it, my husband actually never initiate cuddles (but always welcomes it). I think I actually wouldn’t like it if he did that a lot. But that might be because of past trauma. 😄
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/23 09:13 PM
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Yeah, sorry, my second comment was mostly meant as a response to the ”parent-comment”. It was against making problems that are not medical into medical ones. I think your viewpoint is correct and wanted to support it while also pointing out that not all ”sex-against-your-will” hurt as some people have already stated but OF COURSE it can hurt for some for the very logical reason that the vagina is simply not ready for penetration. :) How we perceive discomfort/pain is highly individual and also q…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/23 04:08 PM
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The pressure of having sex needs to be taken off and you need to engage in physical intimacy only as much as you enjoy (if that is only light touches or something similar right now that is a great start to eventually turn it around). Any man you meet needs to be very patient. You need to feel like you have zero pressure and all the time in the world. Also the pressure of getting better sexually that you can easily put on yourself is a pressure so try to just create situations that are enjoyable …
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/23 12:29 PM
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I would try to listen to my body and what it wants and heal my sexuality that way. With time you will be able to enjoy sex again. If you in the future get pain and it still hurts even though you ARE properly turned on I would visit a doctor. People’s expectations on what doctors can do and fix are often very unrealistic (though of course you can make sure with their help that you don’t have any STD or candida infection). Doctors can rule out disease but are not very knowledgeble in these areas u…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/23 12:19 PM
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It IS possible, even though I had sex against my will many times in the past I never experienced pain but still, your pain is very likely due to you having sex against your will.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/23 12:08 PM
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It’s different to push yourself a little to have sex even though you are feeling tired/lazy (then ending up being excited and having an amazing time which stenghtens your sexdrive and your connection to your husband). Compared to pushing yourself to doing something you really don’t want, that hurts you and/or you are repulsed by. That also makes you feel disconnected from your husband and damages your libido… I am doing the first one with my current husband (my drive is a little low right now du…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/23 12:02 PM
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Yes!
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/23 11:03 PM
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The first two examples you give, I’m not sure it’s so much about the woman appreciating the man’s physical appearance and desiring him for that… In my understanding it’s more about the woman looking at him with deep, deep admiration and respect because of who he is deep down, because of his superior (manly) qualities that nobody can compete with (you see him like a king as mentioned in the example). For me, it’s hard, very hard to get turned on just from how a man looks, no matter how hot he is,…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/23 05:16 PM
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Yeah no, I understand that you want to feel pursued. I mean of course it depends a little on how your relationship looks other than this… but I would at least wait with loosing my virginity until it feels right. Be it with this man or another man.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/23 10:38 AM
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As I said, you will not understand because you are not willing to listen. But you are at the moment absolutely attacking me saying that I lack pride and self-respect. It’s very clear that you don’t care about me, there’s not a part of you that are writing this out of concern for me. I’m telling you, I’m happier than I’ve ever been and - moreover - I’ve never had higher self love or self esteem than I do now. But you don’t trust what I say, do you? It is my husband who makes me write these messag…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 07:07 AM
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I don’t bother to answer these questions bc I don’t think there’s a point point for me to explain… We clearly have very different views on relationship dynamics and I don’t think either you or me want to change our minds about this. I don’t sense that these questions come from a place of curiosity. I wrote the comment to share my point of view in case it resonates with someone, otherwise people can simply just leave it. I think you just have to try such a relationship to understand what I mean. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 07:48 PM
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Can I remind you that are the one who brought dumb into the conversation, I just confirmed that no, I wouldn’t choose a man that I find is more dumb than I am. Maybe one on the same level overall, I mean there are different kind of intelligences and skills. I just need to be able to trust his decision-making. I want to be able to lean back, let him lead economically and take the big decisions (of course he listens to what I want and think is important). Why? I have other things that I want to fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:04 PM
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No, not JUST that. But I definately wouldn’t be with a man that I’m think is more dumb or less capable than me, at least in certain areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:38 AM
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No, this is not a good sign. I had something like this but a little more mild in a past relationship, he ended up cheating after only a year or so. And it happened abroad first.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/23 07:11 PM
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I think it was a valuable post for me too read tbh. 😊
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/23 07:32 AM
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This! 👏
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/23 08:00 AM
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Good that your sex-drive is waking up, that’s very very good news for you. You have so much pleasure awaiting you, so much to discover😍 I would suggest to use this urge and start to slowly explore your body sexually. Listen to your body (not your mind and what your mind thinks you should do), learn what your body wants and likes. Be slow and patient, maybe do some relaxation exercises beforehand so that you are completely relaxed and make sure that you are totally undisturbed and have a lot of t…
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/23 07:55 AM
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What? You look so pretty! So it’s probably a self-esteem/confidence issue.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/23 11:12 AM
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These are my thoughts on this: If you as a woman don’t accept your man as the leader, you have picked a man who’s capabilities you don’t trust to be better than your own. You have simply picked the wrong man. Of course I wouldn’t follow just ANYONE, any man. You follow YOUR man because you TRUST him and his leadership. If you truly follw him, he will not want to ever disappoint your trust. He will consider you in every decision, will even put your needs and wants before his own. Sometimes it can…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:08 PM
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I definately think the past matters to most men, more than they would admit. Though these days I don’t think men exactly expect you to be a virgin, but to have had a reasonable amount of partners before them and preferably not a lot of one night stands. I believe that a lot of women sleep with too many men simply because they crave love and attention when they are single, and aren’t able to provide that for themselves. But the truth is, one night stands and stuff are never gonna give you that wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 08:34 AM
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Yeah, and it doesn’t even profit women… I mean it might feel good to put the blame elsewhere but in doing so you actually give away all your power… Thinking society is responsible for your well-being and that outside circumstances must change in order for you to feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:40 AM
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No, I don’t even think I would survive if I knew that romantic love would never happen. But if I didn’t know I’d probably go on only because of hope
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:22 PM
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No, I don’t even think I would survive if I knew that romantic love would never happen. But if I didn’t know I’d probably go on only because of hope
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:22 PM
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No, I don’t even think I would survive if I knew that romantic love would never happen. But if I didn’t know I’d probably go on just because of hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:22 PM
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I don’t know what to do in your situation, but I know that my man would have gotten upset and felt emasculated if I asked another man for money before I asked him.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/23 02:15 PM
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You mean, they have a value that will be sure to dissappear around their 40’s or so😄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:29 PM
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David Deida has some good books
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/23 03:44 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:19 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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