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| 1 | Only way for a man to win in a war is to dodge the draft..I'd rather be the draftees. By all accounts, South Korean women sound completely insufferable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Only way for a man to win in a war is to dodge the draft..If America was invaded they would go rabid and attack like an angry beehive all at once. They just don't realize that about themselves because there is no realistic situation for them to really empathize with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Only way for a man to win in a war is to dodge the draft..Why don't you like AOC if you like Bernie? Their platforms are almost indistinguishable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 10:24 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Having no friends is NOT a red flag, especially in the modern dayEasy to change your view: you are lacking in real friendships and thus can normalize and rationalize it but the reality is that serious, long term friendships give you skills and social grooming that prune a lot of the bullshit out of your person. For many, many people, they're alone because they're awful. That is a fact. Even if they're single, there is just such an unlikelihood that you'll be a decent person and partner if you do not spend time around other people. There are some extenuating c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Men don't hate women; men hate that women deny their privilege.I'm also surrounded by such people, and still find a way to be honest about a social circumstance described by many of those women when I ask them their experiences. Change your flair, man. Y'all red pilled lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Men don't hate women; men hate that women deny their privilege.I live in Winnipeg, Manitoba. Over the past 10 years, numerous Indigenous women have gone missing. There is a huge effort right now to make the Police search landfills for bodies, which they refuse to do. Bet that if a killer is hiding bodies there, they (he) were (was) counting on that. Men often lose custody battles, which sucks if you're a good father but is actually great if you want nothing to do with them, as many rich assholes do (ever seen Elon with one of his twelve children?) In this c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Men don't hate women; men hate that women deny their privilege.When was the last time a woman threatened your life for ghosting her, in a way that was believable enough to scare you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Men don't hate women; men hate that women deny their privilege.When you build an entire ideology upon the back of "I have less privilege than you", it will directly lead to people believing it is black and white. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Being your authentic self slaughters your chancesThat is literally what I have been saying the whole time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Being your authentic self slaughters your chancesIt's like you've never been disliked before or something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Being your authentic self slaughters your chancesI think you take that idea too far. The "comfort zone persona" is how people act when they can relax and speak without stress. If you're not able to feel that way, it won't feel organic. So, it won't be a rewarding or emotionally fulfilling relationship. People are always changing, but authenticity isn't about finding your platonic ideal it's just about letting yourself feel and be your kind of human, whatever that is rn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Being your authentic self slaughters your chancesAnd fwiw, I firmly and resoundly do not believe that every human would regress to slothful apathy if they could. The sheer number of trust fund kids that wake up at 4:30 am and shower in ice water to prove something make it clear that having everything still does not stop the human spirit from seeking out personal growth for themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Being your authentic self slaughters your chancesPeople venture out of their comfort zone because they want to all the time. I really don't trust your take, here, because of my own growth. I moved myself across my country, travelled around the world, and built myself my dream career. I lost 120 lbs and I have fully explored much of my interests. Overcame some real fears. I know how growth works, for me, and it never happened when I felt my hand was forced. You can pressure cook people into a mould that way, like basic military training, but it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Being your authentic self slaughters your chancesTrust me, I don't believe anything anyone could ever say to you would help you. I really think you're just going to have to be the guy that crashes and burns to teach the rest of us humility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Being your authentic self slaughters your chancesYou think you ended on a good note lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Being your authentic self slaughters your chancesHonestly, you used too many words. Dude likened working at an investment banking firm to dating. His only paradigm is the hyper competitive, capitalist mindset. He will not even comprehend what you're trying to say. He will not even be able to imagine intrinsic value, and an intrinsic set of reward. He is a man that plants a garden in order to sell vegetables, not to watch plants grow. Comparing dating, with all its subtleties and unexpected outcomes, to investment firm brokerage, where risk mit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Being your authentic self slaughters your chances"There is no mythical authentic you" How I know you're neurotypical lol Ask a self-aware autistic person about whether or not there is an authentic them and a fake them, and whether they'd ever want to make a relationship based on their masking persona. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Being your authentic self slaughters your chancesGrowth is intentional and comes with the full support of the person. It isn't forced. Not-eating to lose weight is actually really easy when you're committed. Lots of people aren't. And it's not on anyone, not even them, to make them committed. It has to happen when they are ready. OP is suggesting to skip the part where you grow into your decisions and instead play a cut-out version of a self idealism that is based on capitalist success. That's not growth, in the same way learning how to run on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Being your authentic self slaughters your chancesOP thinks he's a yuppie young money type ahead of the curve. His arrogance is palpable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Being your authentic self slaughters your chancesPlenty of women also don't give a shit, so why are you so often dealing with the ones that do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Being your authentic self slaughters your chancesYou are such an obnoxious fucking tool lol. That person asked you an authentic question and you can't even answer without being a dick. I assume you have the social skills to talk better irl because in most careers we generally don't promote asshats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 06:38 AM |
| 0 | Being your authentic self slaughters your chances3 won't give you a single option for a partner because a partner is someone that works with you. When you mould yourself to people's expectations, nobody has anything to work with, so there are no partnerships. Relationships become purely transactional, if he fails to meet those expectations in the future he gets left quick. Nobody that dates guy number 3 will stick around if going gets tough. That's what OP doesn't realize. He's bragging about feeding himself to a shark tank. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 06:31 AM |
| 0 | Being your authentic self slaughters your chancesEnjoy yourself I guess, you sound like a dude swallowing food that is way too spicy but you keep going on like it's fine | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 06:29 AM |
| 0 | Being your authentic self slaughters your chancesYou are one of the most pathetic men I have seen on this sub and that bar is pretty damned high lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 06:27 AM |
| 6 | Question for women: Have you tried making a fake dating profile as a man to see how it would go on tinder/bumble/any other dating service?I'm autistic and have it down to formula. I usually mention something I love, and show my enthusiasm. When they reply, I ask about their reply. This isn't just about dating, it's people in general. My flagship is dinosaurs. I fucking love dinosaurs so much I will talk your head off about them. It's the perfect litmus. People that like dinosaurs will click almost instantly, people that look down on me for my character will make themselves known. Shitty, awful women I'd never want to date no matte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 09:45 PM |
| 12 | Question for women: Have you tried making a fake dating profile as a man to see how it would go on tinder/bumble/any other dating service?Because teenagers and younger 20 somethings have a weird sense of humour. You were probably immature enough to laugh at that at one point, try to take yourself back | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 09:41 PM |
| – | CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted.You do what you can. This dude isn't just arguing to not step in the fight, he's arguing to not call 9/11, too. I'm also a lifeguard, and a member of the Canadian Lifesaving Society. Same message, do what you can. But you can also be sued if you choose to do nothing, if you are a member of the Lifesaving Society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 09:37 PM |
| – | CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted.You don't do it because it is an obligation you do it because it's the right thing to do. Superman's message is lost on y'all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 09:36 PM |
| 1 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.Sent you a pm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 09:37 PM |
| 1 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.Have you asked your coworkers to keep you in mind if they have any single friends? This is highly inappropriate anyway, but I work in a hospital and most of my coworkers are 20 years older. I have subtle mentioned this to two of my other coworkers, and they responded telling me everyone they know is taken. What do you do after work? I spend a lot of my time doing solitary hobbies. I do understand how that affects dating, but I also need my alone time. It is valuable. I do play d&d, make it out t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 09:13 PM |
| 1 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.Re the last paragraph, I don't overthink it. I just think a lot of men are desperate, more than women, and desperation leads to crazy, delusional, and dishonest behaviour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 08:57 PM |
| 1 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.That doesn’t mean that you’re ugly, it just means you went to a place where that behavior is more acceptable with no repercussions. It does when you can't ever replicate that outside of anon lol. Use occam's razor. Is there some big, highly complicated rational for women to continuously avoid engaging with me (unless they can't discern my identity)? Or am I simply an unattractive person that is literally without opportunities? You mention meeting women. I work in a hospital, surrounded by people… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 08:56 PM |
| 1 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.I think a lot of men get carried away in that internal justification so I understand why you replied this way. A lot of guys pay more attention to how they feel than how people treat them. I know women don't want me because of how they talk to me. They aren't looking to get to know me, they don't message me, they don't show up in my spheres, they don't do any of the things women are "supposed" to do when they're trying to get your attention. I know it's my image or looks bc if I hop on anon, I'm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 07:27 PM |
| 1 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.Your interpretation is cynical and pessimistic, my guy. You refuse to even believe women can think differently. And your life is shit bc you don't love yourself in spite of rejection. Women are going to reject you because of things you love about yourself. I know you want to date them, but you need to remind yourself that most of the time, they're another scumbag self-serving piece of shit human being. When you stop seeing them as some unachievable goal and start seeing them as shitbird humans w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 06:49 PM |
| 2 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.Most of what you typed is reiteration of my own thoughts. Only reply I have is Dating being easier when you’re more desirable is just a fact. Desirability politics is a difficult thing to reckon with because it intersects with so many aspects of a person that no one characteristic can be the defining reason for desirability I'm not frustrated with the harsh realities of dating. I'm frustrated with the conversation continually telling me that these realities are overblown, nothing to worry about,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 06:46 PM |
| 1 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.By the way, your life will be better and you'll be happier if you choose to entertain less-cynical interpretations of data. There are three kinds of lies. Lies, fucking lies, and statistics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 04:51 PM |
| 1 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.Not even one of the source links in this article actually works, and it wraps itself up talking about a bro podcast that "addresses this topic". Additionally, the stats they (tried to) cite are the same ones you used - collected from matchgroup apps and trying to use the data collected from an imperfect source. Dude dating INHERENTLY is a shallow thing. Like how the fuck can you even argue this? Because I understand that people date for many reasons, some are shallow and some aren't. When you ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 04:50 PM |
| 1 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.So in other words, he had status, and his genetics were meaningless? Interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 04:45 PM |
| 1 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.Dude, you need to stop focusing on Brazil lmao This conversation was never about Brazil. It was about America. This whole conversation you're trying to have about the reality of the difference should be creeping up on you: the exact argument works in reverse. You think because America has better infrastructure and that their dollar is worth more that the lived reality automatically scales. What I am telling you is there are cultural differences. In other countries, I'm just not expected to pay f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 04:42 PM |
| 1 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.Then how does Danny Devito fuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 04:07 PM |
| 1 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.sure but that's because most women aren't single Source, and also, source that all single women are on there please. dating is by its very nature shallow Maybe for you literally all single woman looking to date are on them Again, source | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 04:07 PM |
| 1 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.I was in Rio de Janiro in the Copacabana. I can see the ocean from my airbnb and I can walk down there. The whole expense of the experience was dirt fucking cheap. I'm not saying you don't have your difficulties, but if you're not from a Western American country, and by America here I mean Canada or the USA, then you do not understand what I am talking about. And I'm happy for you. We're all fucking miserable here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 04:05 PM |
| 1 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.You don't understand American reality. In Brazil, you can walk down to the beach with a bottle of water and have a wonderful day with your friends. In America, you had to drive 2 hours to get there, pay to get into the park where the beach is located, you're not allowed to bring outside drinks so you need to buy on site, you have additional extra charge to actually access the beach, and if you aren't a premium member, you only have access to the shittiest half of the sand. That's why people comp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 02:49 PM |
| 1 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.Most women literally do not use dating apps. Your reliance on the most shallow medium for dating, which has garnered itself a dingy and less-than respectable reputation, and only provides an outlet for dating when people are actually comfortable vetting by looks, is noted. Like, of course women that use dating apps filter by looks, dumbass lol. That's why they're there. The women that date differently left the apps a long time ago for exactly that reason. Stop swearing by dating apps, you're exp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 02:46 PM |
| 1 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.Most men, by definition, have average genetics. It has nothing to do with genetics and everything to do with status. Most younger men are low status. Their dads are still healthy, fit, and trading property in their early 50's, and women find experience and personal responsibility hot. You can't have much personal responsibility when you are shut out from actually owning anything. Couple with the fact that women do use material wealth to judge men, whether they admit it or not, and economic condi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 02:44 PM |
| 1 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.The problem isn't that women date guys that wave too many red flags. It's that "green flags" bore the fucking hell out of them and they won't be honest about it. Which is why a guy trying to focus on having green flags is wasting his life. He's probably stifling much of his own desire just to fit into a mould of what women vaguely define as a good man, and none of them want to sleep with him for it. This is where Nice Guy syndrome comes from. If you try to be what women ask for, they won't want … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 02:39 PM |
| 3 | The people who claim most women "like bad men" are lying to you. Ignore the liars' tiny sample size, American-bubble "studies" which "prove women like bad men" and just look at it from a women's self-interest perspective. Bad men will hurt them and make their lives worse.I'm autistic, and I am fat. I grew up even fatter, and poorer. I've never had an easy time dating, for a variety of reasons. But you can bet; when my masking got better, when I lost weight, and when I made more money, I dated better. If I drop the charade for a second and indulge the parts of me that I love, then women are gone before breakfast. People literally do not want autistic men, they do not seriously want to fuck us until we can in some way materially compensate for our disability, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 02:32 PM |
| – | I think many men, it seems won’t object to being objectified and relegated to fuckzone/booty calls by women. But they would take offense at being the placeholder bf/spouse… how would you feel if a woman tells you she finds you attractive for a fling, but not HV enough for a relationship/marriage?Your mistake was letting yourself feel love in a society that is materialistic and exploitative before it is loyal and caring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 08:07 PM |
| – | I think many men, it seems won’t object to being objectified and relegated to fuckzone/booty calls by women. But they would take offense at being the placeholder bf/spouse… how would you feel if a woman tells you she finds you attractive for a fling, but not HV enough for a relationship/marriage?Women think that treating men in the way that hurts them also hurts us. They don't bother to understand us or our feelings at all, so of course they don't understand how this works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 08:06 PM |
| – | I think many men, it seems won’t object to being objectified and relegated to fuckzone/booty calls by women. But they would take offense at being the placeholder bf/spouse… how would you feel if a woman tells you she finds you attractive for a fling, but not HV enough for a relationship/marriage?How do you determine who a sidepiece is, and who needs one in an ideal marriage, where both parties are having their sexual needs met? I don't care if she loves me. She probably doesn't love anyone, since fucking me is a betrayal of the "love" she pretends to have with the guy she married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 08:04 PM |
| – | I think many men, it seems won’t object to being objectified and relegated to fuckzone/booty calls by women. But they would take offense at being the placeholder bf/spouse… how would you feel if a woman tells you she finds you attractive for a fling, but not HV enough for a relationship/marriage?As a man - god this shit is so pathetic. Stop letting women trample your lives for an ounce of s̶e̶x̶ "attention". Learn how to enjoy your time alone, because in a relationship, you still need to entertain yourself. Your pleasure and entertainment will be secondary to your responsibilities to the relationship, which btw she will never truly have to honour. Chances are, you will still have very little to no sex at all, and now you've signed a contract with someone (which ideally guarantees that f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 08:00 PM |
| – | I think many men, it seems won’t object to being objectified and relegated to fuckzone/booty calls by women. But they would take offense at being the placeholder bf/spouse… how would you feel if a woman tells you she finds you attractive for a fling, but not HV enough for a relationship/marriage?Bc we're not reduced to anything by being someone's dick appointment. For men, sex is usually the point, and is often treated as a "reward". Sex validates our desires. For women, security and prospect is usually the point, and is treated as a "reward" for being an "ideal woman". Being picked validates a woman's desires. If men were bombarded with offers from gross women that are constantly trying to subvert their trust for sex, they'd probably feel the same. And they do! Women bombard us with of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 07:51 PM |
| 1 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?I think the crux of your post is the belief that women only find one type of dude attractive. I read through this thread and it has one recurring theme, which is central in TRP: only jacked, cut, and hypermasculine men can be attractive. This is like, patently false. Go back and look at the past 60 years of boybands. There is not one example of an extremely masculine dude. NSYNC had one member with a beard and he's often considered the least attractive. The most attractive? Cute lil Justin Timbe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 01:06 PM |
| 1 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?Just saying, men who are 40 without money tend to be lacking in dating confidence. Maybe it comes from a sense of personal satisfaction. But more likely, it comes from having achieved some level of wealth. I sure know for me, I didn't feel more "confident and interesting" about anything in my life until after I was out of debt. Couldn't help but notice that the women close to me took me more seriously as a candidate after that point, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Woman who want marriage should make it clear from get go and not give him years waiting for him to pop the question. There's no dearth of guys who would drag you for yearsMen are liars lol. You've spent too much time on reddit I think, to have not noticed how many man claim to want a lovely wife (but secretly want a slut). Lots of them want to date traditional women but expect their traditional woman to toss their salad during sixtey nine like they saw in porn. They're completely delusional. The two timing and double standards men complain about on women ofc exist in reverse. Women aren't shitty bc they're women. They're shitty bc they're people. Men are also peo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 05:45 PM |
| – | American Men have Normalized dating multiple women to speed up the process of finding ‘the One’ but instead they use this as an excuse to waste time dating multiple (and perhaps getting laid by) women that aren’t even their typeThey do monetize it. There's no end to PUA courses and dick enhancement pills and "confidence" courses and ofc you can pay online dating to promote you more. All of that is designed to help you fail, because they don't have a sustainable business model if people consistently find success. Dating is simple, either adjust your standards or enjoy being alone. Guys never hurt for options they just think they're better than dating a fat woman, and they're crushed to find out that no, they're not, the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 04:11 PM |
| – | American Men have Normalized dating multiple women to speed up the process of finding ‘the One’ but instead they use this as an excuse to waste time dating multiple (and perhaps getting laid by) women that aren’t even their typeThe men that are dating do. Not really hard to grasp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women with low-esteem ever go for unattractive men?Lower rates of education, higher rates of suicide, fewer reported friendships, fewer reported cases of authentic life satisfaction. And for all the shit society does to criticize toxic masculinity, most men feel like there is no other way. Especially if they live in areas of lower socioeconomic status, where in addition to above, they're more likely to be robbed and assaulted. Society likes this. It makes men more pliable, easier to control, and more fit to serve. That's why for all the critique… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Why don't women with low-esteem ever go for unattractive men?As long as the uglies know they place things r fine amirite But you haven't been looking pretty hard. I've turned down one attractive person in my life, because she was not my type. She took it personally and spent a couple months doing everything she could to stop other people from dating me. This was when we were young, but still. How dare I turn her down?! Women are people, so they do shitty things like people do. Men are entitled people, so they tend to do them more often. If you really beli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Why don't women with low-esteem ever go for unattractive men?This a lot of words for "men are at fault when they're single but women are victims when they're single" Lots of these men in places like this are often socially handicapped, combative, hold hard views on political subjects, hold hard views on women, some even go as far as to have hateful views of women, have very toxic self esteem issues, have trouble regulating their emotions, have trouble seeing nuance, have problems with empathy, have problems with sexual dysfunction. Lots of married men lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women with low-esteem ever go for unattractive men?It's always hard to take comments like this seriously in this subreddit. There's the occasional married person here to gawk but most of us are single, bitter, and fed up with it. Incidentally, I "worked on myself" for ten years, and it didn't really get me anywhere. Maybe not a flex but I know it's horseshit advice. "Work on yourself" is what people say when they want to tell you to politely shut up and stop complaining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Instead of complaining about being pumped and dumped, women should try to understand why some men only seem to value them for only sex...namely that they don't add much to a man's lifeOh I don't disagree with that at all. I was an obese kid. Adults told me all my life empty horseshit that someone will love me for who I am and not my body and they were so incredibly wrong. I didn't take weight loss seriously until after college, and my dating youth really suffered for it. I don't blame women for my problems, I blame people (collective society) where my personal responsibilities aren't applicable, but women are people themselves and the frustrating thing about dealing with a lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Instead of complaining about being pumped and dumped, women should try to understand why some men only seem to value them for only sex...namely that they don't add much to a man's lifeNah, I'm fat and gross and that's why my life is the way it is. I wouldn't have a problem here if women were honest with themselves but instead we play this ridiculous dance lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 09:11 PM |
| – | The notion of a "female intuition" that can "sniff out desperation or misogyny" is completely idiotic and delusional.I have seen so many fat, smelly, misogynist men never go a day single. Those men are also often helpless without women. It's hilarious to me that women deeply, truly believe in a just world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Instead of complaining about being pumped and dumped, women should try to understand why some men only seem to value them for only sex...namely that they don't add much to a man's lifeI maintain what I said, p sure you were a rebound too. Lovebombing like that is never a good sign. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Instead of complaining about being pumped and dumped, women should try to understand why some men only seem to value them for only sex...namely that they don't add much to a man's lifeMen have always been fragile to rejection. We just used to get away with beating, raping, and sometimes killing women when our egoes were bruised. And get over yourself, real masculinity is not being persecuted lol. You can still be boastful and competitive about fishing and your model cars. You just can't insult people to their faces anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Instead of complaining about being pumped and dumped, women should try to understand why some men only seem to value them for only sex...namely that they don't add much to a man's lifeYep. This is the only way. Control your impulses and deny them (and yourself) sex until after a month. Most fuckboys won't wait that long, and the ones that do are dead ringers for emotional manipulators and are easy to disregard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Instead of complaining about being pumped and dumped, women should try to understand why some men only seem to value them for only sex...namely that they don't add much to a man's lifeThe real unspoken part here is women would rather get pumped and dumped by a hot asshole than date a less hot guy (unless he can fill out all the items on her dream list). They'll take that chance regardless of how many times they kick the football. There's no way you date the same kind of guy all the way through your 20's, suffering serial heartbreak, and never learn unless you're thinking with hornybrain (unless the struggle really is worth it). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Instead of complaining about being pumped and dumped, women should try to understand why some men only seem to value them for only sex...namely that they don't add much to a man's lifeThat would require spreading some blame for the dating scene's failure to women, and y'see it is only proper to unilaterally blame men for everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Instead of complaining about being pumped and dumped, women should try to understand why some men only seem to value them for only sex...namely that they don't add much to a man's lifeYour mistake is opening with boyfriend treatment, I reckon. Remind yourself that the sex is probably mediocre and save boyfriend treatment for who deserves it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Instead of complaining about being pumped and dumped, women should try to understand why some men only seem to value them for only sex...namely that they don't add much to a man's lifeBut how can she be a queen if she has to give me anything? :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 11:27 AM |
| – | It's not that personality and sincerity of feelings don't matter. They do. But.. many generations have been made to believe that they can compensate for lack of sexual attraction... and that is a huge misinformationYet it was never phrased this way. I was told to "be yourself", then I was told "be the best version of yourself", then I was told "being nice is the bare minimum". Goalposts moved every time we came to the point where someone had to say "you're not sexy" and just didn't have the heart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 11:05 PM |
| – | It's not that personality and sincerity of feelings don't matter. They do. But.. many generations have been made to believe that they can compensate for lack of sexual attraction... and that is a huge misinformationYou'd think but they just end up in deadbedroom situations and file for divorce before 10 years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 11:02 PM |
| – | It's not that personality and sincerity of feelings don't matter. They do. But.. many generations have been made to believe that they can compensate for lack of sexual attraction... and that is a huge misinformationI only recently internalized this, and it was enough to make me quit dating. Whatevee issues I got, I'm way happier at home under my blankets with a cup of tea. I'm full Squidward. And it'll literally never be sexy, but I'm actually a lot happier this way, so fuck the whole stupid game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 11:01 PM |
| – | It's not that personality and sincerity of feelings don't matter. They do. But.. many generations have been made to believe that they can compensate for lack of sexual attraction... and that is a huge misinformation"I love my partner so much ❤️❤️❤️ he's tall but his height doesn't matter 🥰🥰🥰" He's always tall, and it never seems to matter ever, so much that it is always brought up. First thing women from tinder comment on is height, whether I'm shorter or taller than expected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 10:59 PM |
| – | It's not that personality and sincerity of feelings don't matter. They do. But.. many generations have been made to believe that they can compensate for lack of sexual attraction... and that is a huge misinformationI just took my union job with a wage designed to support a family and spent it all on myself. And I won't lie, my life is pretty great right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 10:56 PM |
| – | It's not that personality and sincerity of feelings don't matter. They do. But.. many generations have been made to believe that they can compensate for lack of sexual attraction... and that is a huge misinformationStop being all "MEN DO THAT TOO" on the defensive and listen to what is being said. Men lie about themselves to seem more attractive. That does suck and is misleading but it's not what we're talking about because that's not a social dialogue, it's just what assholes do. Women lie about what they're looking for, and not individually but as a collective when dealing with men, so there is a whole social strata of guys out there trying to become "ideal guys" in the hopes of a date. Tbh I believe ind… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 10:53 PM |
| – | It's not that personality and sincerity of feelings don't matter. They do. But.. many generations have been made to believe that they can compensate for lack of sexual attraction... and that is a huge misinformationPersonality and character is kinda like vinegar. When vinegar is used with the right ingredients, it's amazing. When a hot person has a vibrant personality, they become amazing. Likewise, when a dish could really use some vinegar, you notice it's gone. Still ate tho. When vinegar is used with the wrong ingredients, it's awful. When an unattractive person has a vibrant personality, they become annoying, or they're treated with polite rejection. You might have just swallowed the food otherwise, bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 10:45 PM |
| – | It's not that personality and sincerity of feelings don't matter. They do. But.. many generations have been made to believe that they can compensate for lack of sexual attraction... and that is a huge misinformationI agree with you here. But I think "being interesting" is what red pill guys call "having game". It's not new to them either. The people here are dumb and arguing for the sake of argument. Ofc the halo effect exists and no it does not erase everything. It's a +1 not a +10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 10:41 PM |
| – | It's not that personality and sincerity of feelings don't matter. They do. But.. many generations have been made to believe that they can compensate for lack of sexual attraction... and that is a huge misinformationYou're probably only getting downvoted because your flair is "blue pill woman" Bc this is red pill rhetoric. The idea that men can be kind and good and that is what makes them attractive to women - that is "blue pill" rhetoric If you really believe that men being attractive is independent of their authenticity of character, and that knowing how to flirt and treat women sexually is actually really important, then you should switch teams. Bc you definitely wouldn't support the idea that men just h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 10:37 PM |
| 1 | It's not that personality and sincerity of feelings don't matter. They do. But.. many generations have been made to believe that they can compensate for lack of sexual attraction... and that is a huge misinformationOr you learn from your mistakes. It's perfectly normal to adjust your values in response to new information. I was pretty pro Israel a few years ago, before I got to learn more about the reality of the conflict. As far as dating goes, lots of guys are told that they have to be good and dependable, and they strive for that and make a character for themselves out of it. And then that character they built, which they were told was right and the way to be, gets them absolutely nothing that they ever… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 10:29 PM |
| 1 | One reason why the Dating market looks „less damaged“ on paper is because most man lie about they‘re success with woman HUGELY.I don't. I know I've been single for 10 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 10:19 PM |
| – | Most women can't seem to handle sexual rejection at all, eitherIf anything, they're worse at it. I swallowed my feelings and stayed friends with my exes when they dumped me. After I rejected a woman that sexually assaulted me, she cried, told me I wasn't a man in so many words, and then accused me of leading her on. That will resonate with a lot of women, but the kicker here is she presented as the whole progressive, wholesome, respectful type. Respectful my ass lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 10:16 PM |
| – | Men who are trying to "woo" a woman (by working out, getting hobbies, dressing better, being charismatic/funny, getting rich, etc.) need to ask themselves if a girl would ever do that to get him.I know so many women cheating on their partners. Like, so many lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 10:13 PM |
| – | Men who are trying to "woo" a woman (by working out, getting hobbies, dressing better, being charismatic/funny, getting rich, etc.) need to ask themselves if a girl would ever do that to get him.I used to think this but ultimately, feminism is not one ideology. For every thought you have about using feminism to fight patriarchal expectations of men, there's another feminist asking why any feminist dialogue concerns men and their feelings at all. Feminism is for women. It's by and for women. There are discussions on who counts as a woman, and how a woman's oppression can vary with wealth and race, but at the end of the day, approaching feminists with men's issues will be met with a lot o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 10:11 PM |
| – | Men who are trying to "woo" a woman (by working out, getting hobbies, dressing better, being charismatic/funny, getting rich, etc.) need to ask themselves if a girl would ever do that to get him.Women don't need to be educated. They're not stupid, in fact they're more in tune with socialization and social expectations than we are. The problem isn't that women are stupid. It's that they literally do not give a shit. Educating someone that doesn't give a shit is pointless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 10:06 PM |
| – | Men who are trying to "woo" a woman (by working out, getting hobbies, dressing better, being charismatic/funny, getting rich, etc.) need to ask themselves if a girl would ever do that to get him.My perspective. I literally don't want to date women anymore. Sure, complaining is useless, but now, life is honestly great without a partner. I still got feelings of bitterness at how much hurt I had to take away from it, but now I feel a lot more validated. And that's what this is really about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 10:03 PM |
| – | Men who are trying to "woo" a woman (by working out, getting hobbies, dressing better, being charismatic/funny, getting rich, etc.) need to ask themselves if a girl would ever do that to get him.Literally expecting women to treat me with the same excitement, concern, and generosity that I treat the people I choose to date has kept me single for 12 years lmao Women will never do this for you unless they have been for as long as you can remember. Don't invest time in them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 09:58 PM |
| 3 | most women want to be freed of all traditional female gender roles, but they want men to conform to male gender roles that benefit women, and abandon male gender roles that harm womenMost of the men struggling with dating are not this lol Maybe they struggle to keep their commitments with you. It's always hilarious when women carry on and on about how the bar is on the floor, when I struggle with dating. I'm a completely put together adult, except I grew up obese, so my body is ugly. I've watched women choose guys they know are going to cheat on them over me, because I'm not hot and he is. 100% of the time y'all choose shallow performer men over the serious guys y'all claim … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 09:55 PM |
| 8 | most women want to be freed of all traditional female gender roles, but they want men to conform to male gender roles that benefit women, and abandon male gender roles that harm womenThat is what he said. You're defensive and you cannot read the context of what is being said here. It's easy to feel offended when you're part of a group being generalized. You're going to tie yourself down in exact wording, like an incel defending rape culture, because you can't empathize with his feelings and you'd rather not make the effort to try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 09:48 PM |
| 2 | most women want to be freed of all traditional female gender roles, but they want men to conform to male gender roles that benefit women, and abandon male gender roles that harm womenmeanwhile anyone who doesn’t want to work hard and wants to play video games is kind of a loser. Honestly that part is actually pretty true imho. You have one life to live, it’s too short to waste it by living a boring ass life sitting on your ass. This comment really just reinforces what OP is saying. No woman is honest about this, even you're not. You have to twist what he says instead of taking it at face value. Like it doesn't seem to even occur to you that some men like playing video games.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Women on this sub apply the just world fallacy far too often when it comes to sexRight so a lot of mumbling around the point instead of addressing that the qualities that make people marriable, the qualities that make a life partner, are exactly as I have already said. And the qualities that make you fuckable are not. And you generally start relationships by being hot enough to be fuckable, and progressing to making something more if both are present and ready. Of course we're self serving when we start. I'm not going on Tinder to write in my bio "ready to provide". I'm not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Women on this sub apply the just world fallacy far too often when it comes to sexWho cares what keeps people around when I'm not even on their radar in the first place? It doesn't matter how great a person you are if you have no propsects. Many think that means you're not a great person, but lots of great people die alone. It means you're not attractive. You can own it or you can deny it. I admit I am lacking in confidence; but even on the days when I am at my most social, most funny, most enjoyable to be around - nobody wants it. I finally just took the message. I'm aspie m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Women on this sub apply the just world fallacy far too often when it comes to sexNo, we can't. Women are told from childbirth until the adults are blue in the face to not be shallow and not judge men. Many even believe they have internalized that. "Shallow" is a stupid term anyway. Is it shallow to like someone because they are fat? Is it shallow to like someone because they're simple and not-so clever? Is it shallow to like someone because they're poor? Shallow always seems to be a one-way thing bc it's what hurt people say to try and shame other people so they don't have t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Women on this sub apply the just world fallacy far too often when it comes to sexNobody gives a fuck about your personality, tbh. It makes nobody more fuckable. People say "personality" when they really mean "how you make me feel". Women are conditioned to avoid owning that reality. Personality doesn't mean shit if your personality, however strong, makes people liken you to an excited child, or makes you seem like a serial killer. That person might not have any real personality flaws at all but women don't feel attracted, or they don't feel safe. This is why trying to be the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 03:39 PM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.I just don't date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 01:04 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.Well, enjoy your fantasy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 12:42 AM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.It ain't bc they're women, it's bc they're people. Men do the same to women. It's a spiral of back and forth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Women's attraction based on career and income is weird.Women do the best they can. Like anyone else. It's not stunning, hot young women with a laundry list of options passing up doctors and millionaires to date gas station dudes. Those dudes know they're dating women that can hope for their character at best, because those millionaire guys don't pay them any attention at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Women's attraction based on career and income is weird.God I hate red pillers. Y'all dense as fuck. At least blue pill guys are happy with their delusions. Women are people first and women second. People care about power. People don't give up leverage without a fight. Feminism generally fights to equate men and women in official mentalities. Women usually support this because it lends them more agency, freedom, and power. Feminism generally doesn't fight to equate men and women in the rare happenstance that patriarchy benefits them. This is why ther… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 09:53 PM |
| 1 | One of the most important things for men to realise is that women don't actually care about you as a human being.You're right and wrong. Most RP guys are flagrant misogynists that can't distinguish their hatred from their hurt. But some of us accept it. Women don't care about our feelings bc they're looking to use more often than not, even if they don't think they're doing anything wrong. It's how they were taught, and why protest the trappings of patriarchy that actually benefits them? The only answer you can ever give is "well that's YOUR experience", and, well, yeah it is, and it convinced me that I'm r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Why do many men say that older women or single moms are less desirable for dating?So then why should I try to date one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/24 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Most girls are genuinely repelled by truly kind men, you have to have some degree of asshole in you or they will get boredSo, no. They're not put off by kind men. They're put off by boring men. Lots of kind people think being kind is all it takes. In terms of lifestyle and experience, they're boring. Be kind. If you save puppies they'll love the shit out of you. But don't be boring. It's not hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 07:10 PM |
| – | What would addressing structural inequality in dating actually look like?God damn it reddit is exhausting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many women love to suggest men “hate women” simply because they are frustrated with the horrific state of dating?Some of us can take it. Some of us can't. I know for my part, I can take rejection, and I know for their part, women aren't always safe to act that way. But as I said, women are skilled at IDing the threatening men, and if he's not a threat, then let him throw his bitch fit. It just completely validates your rejection even further tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 03:48 AM |
| 0 | What would addressing structural inequality in dating actually look like?I'd be on board if we actually needed to date to survive but you'll be fine just jerking yourself off, actually, so it is a bad comparison | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/24 12:48 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Could you be with a man who used to simp for, or get friend zoned by, other women?No, unless the bouquet of flowers you bought costs more than $1500 I hate the terms but think of petty gifts and grand gifts. I buy my friends lunch on uber eats all the time, I have it delivered to their door. That is something I do for love. I'd never, however, fund their vacation, and they would feel deeply uncomfortable with me even suggesting that. You need to believe you deserve that from someone, first. What kind of person thinks that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 11:07 PM |
| 4 | It's unreasonable to assume that the average man will step in to help a woman in danger.I'm asking you for clarification because your statement really is not that clear. I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt by asking you for an explanation, because I read your statement as awful. Telling me it is clear without further clarifying is not a good look. What exactly did you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 11:04 PM |
| 4 | It's unreasonable to assume that the average man will step in to help a woman in danger.I'm asking you to clarify your statement, explain what you meant instead of dodging my question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 10:34 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Could you be with a man who used to simp for, or get friend zoned by, other women?I mean, I hate all of them lol If I could wave a magic wand and erase an industry completely, it would be advertising. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 10:13 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Could you be with a man who used to simp for, or get friend zoned by, other women?I'm not glad for them, they're ripping someone off by exploiting their feelings. That's exactly what any con artist does. But if people are stupid then there will always be opportunity. I should know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 09:58 PM |
| 3 | [Q4W] Could you be with a man who used to simp for, or get friend zoned by, other women?I don't mean a gf, I mean an online egirl or someone that provides nothing but online sex gratification, or gifting women that you're not dating without a serious attempt to date them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Women on this sub apply the just world fallacy far too often when it comes to sexQOL = quality of life Fair enough, I read your first statement as more a refusal to empathize than an empty capacity to empathize. Thank you. Thank you. Tinder is hell. I deleted all dating apps, I refuse to hang around until I am sad and desperate enough to give Match Group some money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 09:30 PM |
| -1 | What would addressing structural inequality in dating actually look like?There is no structural inequality in dating. Dating is the law of the jungle. It is unfair at the genetic level, for reasons people cannot logically justify. You make rational impositions with your prefrontal cortex. You decide who to fuck with your limbic system. This reads like "the government has to give me a girlfriend". It's ridiculous, and acting like anything has to be done about it is cope. Adapt or die alone. Those are your choices. Dating will continue to change as rapidly as everythin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 09:14 PM |
| 6 | [Q4W] Could you be with a man who used to simp for, or get friend zoned by, other women?Basically, giving anything to women unprompted because you think they're hot and you can't navigate that is always a poor choice. Even for men who aren't harmed by the giveaway. If you're a millionaire and you're a simp, it's still a bad choice. That's your money that you worked for and you're buying the lowest form of sexual gratification. I was on OF myself for about a year during pandemic, and looking back, it was a waste of my money. Enough that I could have done real good for myself if I ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 09:09 PM |
| 3 | It's unreasonable to assume that the average man will step in to help a woman in danger.He's right tbh fighting is pretty fun | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 09:06 PM |
| 7 | It's unreasonable to assume that the average man will step in to help a woman in danger.What is this supposed to mean? Anon, are you trying to say that she should have been raped? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 09:05 PM |
| 4 | It's unreasonable to assume that the average man will step in to help a woman in danger.I saw a woman being assaulted through a window, once, and I kept walking. It's not my proudest hour but it's exactly as you say. I'm not trained to de escalate, we're down the block from the police station and they can probably hear what's going on for themselves. Being an indigenous canadian couple, calling the cops mightve gotten one of them killed. So I kept walking. I was going to be late for work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 09:02 PM |
| – | Why do so many women love to suggest men “hate women” simply because they are frustrated with the horrific state of dating?I would take a crack at this one, prefacing with I'm not really a debate bro and I fucking hate podcasts. I also think it's a loaded question, and it probably is never asked totally in good faith, and the broader implications of that are usually sexist. At the core though, women have to take accountability for their social norms. They need to take accountability for their penchant to sugarcoat everything and they need to be more blunt and straightforward. I realize this sometimes poses a threat … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 08:57 PM |
| – | Why do so many women love to suggest men “hate women” simply because they are frustrated with the horrific state of dating?I'm a fat guy that smugly believed this for about 6 years and laughed about the game being a fabrication. I had almost convinced myself it was a big pile of societal bologna. But then I noticed that dismissing all that sure wasn't getting me good dating opportunities. Anyway, I'm still single, because it turns out even if you dismiss everyone else's norms and expectations for excluding and marginalizing yourself, everyone around you is still playing the game and expects you to play. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsYes, I'm aware of that too, thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsYou know how I know it isn't? I've spent quite a bit of time online. Enough to have met a few strangers and talked sexy. One thing that unites all my sexting experiences is that if I'm ever asked to send a pic of my body and I comply, the chat dies, no matter how fun things were before hand. I've had dates show up irl and cringe and then politely not-flirt with me until their time to go, before I even say anything. I've never had a positive comment on my body from a dating prospect. Y'all gotta … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsThat's exactly why I deleted it. I realized apps are rigged bs and are designed to extract as much from me for a feeling of doing something about my dating life. Really, I'm bitter but I've never much blamed women for most of what's going on. We're all running the capitalism train right off a cliff together, now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsNah I searched a topic and found the thread and scrolled And your comment definitely earned the response | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsThat's because orbiters don't respect themselves either, but you should know men and women are capable of being attracted to each other, going through rejection, and preserving an authentic friendship. It does require some maturity, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsSo, I don't feel like this and have maintained my close friendships with women even if they did reject me. But they rejected me. As did all the other women I asked out. Idc if they reject me for dating, but when I have zero success despite checking most of the "dateable" boxes, I know I've been had. So, yeah. Fuck being extra and honest I'm just going to work out and give minimum effort. Why should I keep spending all my money chasing ghosts? It's expensive as hell to date rn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsSo why do they struggle? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsLol Okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsAll my homies are ready to commit and one was on board with marriage fresh out of college. He actually is married rn, but he's the only one. We're not sexy. That's why. You can just admit it's a non-negotiable, y'know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsI deleted tinder in November. I had it for a year with 0 matches. I can hold a conversation, stop pretending the average dude doesn't know how to talk. I work with dozens of women and we hold friendly banter and productive relationships. Of my 7 closest friends, 4 are women, including probably my best friend. I can talk about my feelings, I'm not afraid of showing my passions. I'm well-articulated, politically active, well-read, and I have financial independence. I've even lost 100 lbs, but I'm … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsI'm sorry but I'm a guy and I can tell you don't know anything about women. Women make a show of support for each other but they experience competitiveness and hostility like anyone. Presuming that women bond more easily is ridiculous. I once met drinking buddies for the night by walking into a bar, screaming "LADS!!" at a bunch of strange men, and then chugging a pint while they all stared at me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsI would choose the average woman myself, presuming I bonded equally with both and I can communicate perfectly with both. I'm not into all the bullshit that comes with dating a supermodel. I know I can't compete with some dude in her dms offering to pay for her to spend 2 weeks in Bali. I also don't have a shred of evidence to believe that anyone would love me enough to resist that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsUsually I sympathize but no, this is stupid and you fitting her experience into your jaded worldview. If she's been single for 10 years, then she knows what it feels like to be lonely. Throw your pity party but keep perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsHeard this bullshit so many times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsSame but instead of a 10 year relationship, I had 10 years of trying to start a relationship and ended up with nothing but failure. Women are upset about lost investment, men are upset that their money is no good round ere | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsOf course they are. It works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsMore like resisting the rules fucking breaks you a guy that really thought for ten years that you could fuck my personality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Women on this sub apply the just world fallacy far too often when it comes to sexIt's hard to empathize when the issue being discussed seems kinda... How do I say this? Dumb? As a woman, I don't pretend to invalidate how you guys feel, but as you mentioned, a lot of people come here (The Internet) with this competitive mindset of who is ACTUALLY suffering the MOST. Tbh this would hold up if overweight or otherwise unattractive and chronically single women weren't saying exactly the same shit as these guys and getting all kinds of validation for it. It's not dumb when it's wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Women on this sub apply the just world fallacy far too often when it comes to sexExplain gymcels | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 08:27 AM |
| 2 | Dating as an autistic manI promise you, as a fellow autistic man, it's your horrible ideas about women and your crass approach to the discussion that is keeping you single. Being autistic is a handicap. But it's not your handicap. Learn some fucking respect and I expect people will respond in kind. For my part, I'm not drowning in dates or anything, but the people I do date (all of whom I have ofc found physically attractive) are all quite charmed by my autistic interests. I'm a dinosaur guy. Turns out women really love… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 07:00 AM |
| 1 | CMV, women have a low tolerance for male vulnerability which perpetuates men not expressing their thoughts and feelingsIn any case, I'm not going to stand around in a public form defending myself from someone making enormous projections out of a couple of paragraphs, based on the endless stream of incel shit they have read in the past. You can dm me to continue the chat if you like, but I'm done here. Have a good day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 05:56 PM |
| – | CMV, women have a low tolerance for male vulnerability which perpetuates men not expressing their thoughts and feelingsHow do I know if they're toxic if I don't have some way of determining that? This is how I know they're toxic, by the way they treat "my" feelings. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 05:44 PM |
| 1 | CMV, women have a low tolerance for male vulnerability which perpetuates men not expressing their thoughts and feelingsI'm not salty. I'm making a case. My personality did not make up for my huge gut, my greasy skin, my crooked teeth, my face scars, my sagging tits, my uncutable hair, or the fact that nice clothes don't fit me. And I'm glad you finally got there, because no. I will not date a desperate person that will cling to me because they have no other choice. I watched my dad do that - my mom abuses the shit out of him in their elder years and if you think I'm going to expose myself to that, you can kiss m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 05:41 PM |
| 1 | CMV, women have a low tolerance for male vulnerability which perpetuates men not expressing their thoughts and feelingsSmh you don't get it. They're my friends and I understand why they feel that way at this point. My point is that they were never interested, whatsoever. The character I have that made them love me as a friend never made them consider dating me. And I DID want them like that, at first. I set that aside to be their friend, because they didn't reciprocate, but they are still awesome people and I didn't want to stop being their friends just because I was rejected. I'm not doing anyone a favour by my… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 05:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV, women have a low tolerance for male vulnerability which perpetuates men not expressing their thoughts and feelingsI have plenty of emotionally intelligent women friends who are there for me. But the moment that dynamic is in our relationship, they feel no attraction. Not one of my such friends has ever wanted to seriously date me. I don't blame them for that, but it's not lost on me. Nor is the type of men they eventually do date lost on me. That shit isn't attractive. When you have a developed relationship with someone who cares about you, ofc it is different. Everyone knows there are necessary unsexy part… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 04:48 PM |
| – | CMV, women have a low tolerance for male vulnerability which perpetuates men not expressing their thoughts and feelingsNo, in fact if I did this and she passed I'd probably tell her that later that evening, and then share some real emotionality. It's a shit test. It's fine to tell a single white lie to people you barely know and you're not sure you can trust yet, anyway. Women do this to men they're dating too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 04:30 PM |
| – | CMV, women have a low tolerance for male vulnerability which perpetuates men not expressing their thoughts and feelingsIt's much easier to be real when you can cite your friend's real, human response | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 04:29 PM |
| – | CMV, women have a low tolerance for male vulnerability which perpetuates men not expressing their thoughts and feelingsWomen shit test men constantly. They can deal with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 04:28 PM |
| – | CMV, women have a low tolerance for male vulnerability which perpetuates men not expressing their thoughts and feelingsWe're talking about our experiences, where we tried to share our feelings with our partners and got burned for it. The last relationship I had ended 1 day after I finally opened up about insecurity I had over my future and anxiety I had about university. Literally the next day. I spent years trying to be as emotionally competent, open, and loving as possible. Not even one serious date. Plenty of women becoming my friend, helping themselves to my emotional support. Not even one looking to, like, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/24 04:15 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who are not naturally good at dating and finding sexual partners cannot become good at it without making some women uncomfortable.Men feel shamed for their sexuality. This is a common experience. It has happened to us, enough that many of us are experiencing trauma expressing our desires in a healthy way. It is not only dishonest for you to deny this to my face, it makes the problem worse. Instead of addressing the intentions women have when they speak to men, when we are talking about men's experiences, why don't we focus the conversation on how men are feeling and why they are feeling that way? You won't be able to solve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 10:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who are not naturally good at dating and finding sexual partners cannot become good at it without making some women uncomfortable.See? "Gross" For finding someone sexy. Gropers are gross. Chauvenists are gross. Misogynists are gross. Nothing is gross about wanting to fuck someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 03:32 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who are not naturally good at dating and finding sexual partners cannot become good at it without making some women uncomfortable.Get offline and talk to real people. Patriarchal forces exist but social context also exists. Men's sexual feelings are absolutely shamed in many contexts. It doesn't have to be as intense as headscarves and denied suffrage to be wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOh, definitely. I think that applies to most Gen Z tbh. I am strictly speaking within the bounds of fidelity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFair enough, but I'll just change my wording to good woman, then lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNone of my business either, but I do stick to what's apparent. If she did cheat on Tom it would be pretty disappointing. There are good women, bro, you just haven't dated them, clearly lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/23 02:06 PM |
| 1 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"A side note. I do understand why you would consider politics a reflection of your values and morals, but I think that is a bit unwise. Politics is never as cut and dry as you think and people always assume the other side of the argument is simply ignorant and would agree if they understood. National security is one such thing. Usually, supporting national security means supporting nation states means supporting militarism and right-wing ideology. Howerver, I am not at all convinced that it is a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 11:50 PM |
| 1 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"And to clarify, no, I don't think women should have their reproductive rights stripped away, and I also don't think women should be silenced and kept from expressing opinion. I DO think that a lot of what we talk about today, like "microaggressions", is largely proliferated horseshit. I've been accused of racist microaggressions because I didn't greet a POC precisely the way I greeted someone else, once. By an observer, who had minimal idea what kind of relationship I had with either person. Tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 11:44 PM |
| 1 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"Most of it just has to do with the fact that I spent a decade alone and now, I understand what financial independence requires and also, I have seen how weakly committed a lot of other communists really are. I went into public service (healthcare in a country with socialized medicine), I donate a shitload of my money, and I have plans to work with D w/o B. All of this is praxis. It's my ideas of human equality and labour justice put into practice. I am a firey union tamale and I take great care … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 11:38 PM |
| 1 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"I was a fucking communist 8 years ago. "More conservative" probably means to the left of yourself (but cool if not), and definitely to the left of the general Western populace. And my views changed as I had human experiences with people, which is exactly how everyone changes their political ideas. You speak about this like a university student that has learned the theory, but has not had a chance to see how these ideas really work. I'm to the right of previous now, especially socially, because o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 10:22 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who are not naturally good at dating and finding sexual partners cannot become good at it without making some women uncomfortable.Yeah, no disagreement here. People on reddit jump on the "I approach women in public" as if I'm an unshowered, sweaty guy with a stutter that is going to follow her home and hang outside her window asking for her number Like, ettiquette is always a thing and it really is the name of the game here. There is no difference between "hi, nice to meet you! I love your shirt, but it would look better on me?" And "hi you have nice tits and I want to penetrate you". It really is the same statement, but y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah, I hit 30 this year and I'm laughing about it Like fr, the bigger red flags at this age are the people who have already been married for a few years. 30 is when the cracks begin to show in those perfect little college arrangements made before two people fully understood themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 04:56 PM |
| – | CMV: Men who are not naturally good at dating and finding sexual partners cannot become good at it without making some women uncomfortable.The weights they're using, or the bench they're on. I ask for pointers if I'm disoriented at a concert or something Shit I even bummed bus change off a guy, once. Do you never talk to other humans? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 04:54 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who are not naturally good at dating and finding sexual partners cannot become good at it without making some women uncomfortable.Women can find hot guys unattractive by their way of behaviour, this totally stands. In fact, pillers usually eventually need to backpedal their hardline and admit that Chad SOMETIMES gets rejected (because yes he does, all the time) If she's digging on him and he pervs a bit, she often laughs and enjoys it. If she's turned off by him and he pervs, she'll find him a creep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI also think he's her only major relationship thus far as an adult. Like, I don't care if she is slutty or not...but there is like no indication that she is, anywhere. I don't even get that vibe from her. She radiates good girl energy. I know that can be misleading, but as you say, 4 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadZendaya is a fucking actress lol Like I don't always side with women on here but fuck man lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 04:07 PM |
| – | Dark Triad Traits are the best quality to have to attract women, for long term committment and loyaltyYeah so, I think pretty much every study ever done on dating selection has debunked this thought. https://scholar.google.ca/scholar?hl=en&as_sdt=0%2C5&q=women+date+prosocial+men+long+term&btnG=#d=gs_qabs&t=1689955109717&u=%23p%3D_mNZ_u2vtagJ https://scholar.google.ca/scholar?hl=en&as_sdt=0%2C5&q=women+date+prosocial+men+long+term&btnG=#d=gs_qabs&t=1689955197719&u=%23p%3DtwuNYdf4Cj4J https://scholar.google.ca/scholar?start=10&q=women+date+prosocial+men+long+term&hl=en&as_sdt=0,5#d=gs_qabs&t=16899… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNah. It's insulting if you know nothing about autism. I did this with my best friend. She was pissed off. But then she went and read about it. Now she has her autism diagnosis, and she understands how her condition has affected her behaviour. The thing about being autistic is, if you are autistic, you have always been autistic and it has always hurt you, and it is usually a relief to know that yes, things actually ARE extra hard for you, you are not imagining it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTbh, the only one of these that count as a "bad opinion" are top and bottom. And bottom only if that accusation is carried away and used for further drama. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah, like post partum is so much easier than pregnancy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo, I think Jonah was a shitty bf. She's an ultra hot swimsuit model, she'll be fine. But I do think the release to the media was tasteless and an unnecessary bit of bullshit from a bitter ex gf. I don't think she was bitter about his status, but the fact that he is now happily married with a kid.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 03:49 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on MrBeast ? Does he show that ordinary men can greatly increase their attractiveness?P sure he was also born and raised in SoCal so he comes from a family wealthy enough to finance all the dumb shit he does for attention. I don't actively watch him but I admit it I have a poor opinion of shitbag youtubers lol. Get a real job | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOof | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 03:04 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on MrBeast ? Does he show that ordinary men can greatly increase their attractiveness?People describing Mr Beast like an ordinary guy lmao "he's just like me" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 03:04 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who are not naturally good at dating and finding sexual partners cannot become good at it without making some women uncomfortable.Because she insisted on a condom and that's how consent works? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 01:12 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who are not naturally good at dating and finding sexual partners cannot become good at it without making some women uncomfortable.Because neither of us can afford a kid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 07:59 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men who are not naturally good at dating and finding sexual partners cannot become good at it without making some women uncomfortable.She is though, because she is nakedly showing her racist prejudices well enough that everyone in an elevator can see her lmao Stop defending racist white women. Their feelings of safety are not more important than a black man's right to exist in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 06:57 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men who are not naturally good at dating and finding sexual partners cannot become good at it without making some women uncomfortable.No, the right man for you is 15 years older than him and has completely different priorities. Why are you criticizing a college kid for not wanting to be a dad? I do love how men not being a good match for women is usually likened to a form of weakness, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 06:55 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who are not naturally good at dating and finding sexual partners cannot become good at it without making some women uncomfortable.What he's saying is that it is much better to be able to deal with mistakes when they happen than to try and walk perfectly so they never happen at all. You're suggesting the latter. It puts so much pressure on the approach that men often don't bother. We are only able to approach when we stop being afraid of negative outcomes and work our best at dealing with them. Like, I rly do think you're naive bc you haven't seemed to have had to deal with a perfectly normal interaction setting off some cr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 06:51 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men who are not naturally good at dating and finding sexual partners cannot become good at it without making some women uncomfortable.This is what people say when they assume there's a solution to a problem they're not presently dealing with. Like, a lot of the time the availability of that support you're talking about depends on your income, or on the country you live in. Therapy also sometimes just does not fix dating problems. It can get people on their feet, but they still have to trial and error their way through dating. I mean it's that or you gotta start asking all the guys you date out all on your own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 06:45 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who are not naturally good at dating and finding sexual partners cannot become good at it without making some women uncomfortable.My dating history lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 06:38 AM |
| – | CMV: Men who are not naturally good at dating and finding sexual partners cannot become good at it without making some women uncomfortable.Eh; this is intense dude. I have been with someone that has a latex allergy and always brought her own condoms for that reason. Imo...if you can't trust the person you're fucking, why are you fucking them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 06:35 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who are not naturally good at dating and finding sexual partners cannot become good at it without making some women uncomfortable.He said he found it creepy. Don't call it a great compliment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 06:33 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Men who are not naturally good at dating and finding sexual partners cannot become good at it without making some women uncomfortable.Y'all act like this is some gottem. I would say "I'm flattered, but I'm also straight." Like I have before. Stop acting like male sexuality is something to be ashamed of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 06:27 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who are not naturally good at dating and finding sexual partners cannot become good at it without making some women uncomfortable.All I learned is that women want guys to actively show their engagement, and that I don't have the time or patience to wait and see if they have a hang up before making my play and moving on. I don't really care if you look down on me for it, either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 06:16 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who are not naturally good at dating and finding sexual partners cannot become good at it without making some women uncomfortable.You are in NO position to give dating advice lol Oh trust me dude, you can speak from, and learn from, negative experience. I know your method isn't going to work because it represents the majority of my dating efforts, which you handily point out. So go ahead. Keep trying to play it that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 06:05 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who are not naturally good at dating and finding sexual partners cannot become good at it without making some women uncomfortable.it's not Yes it is lol She might have been more willing to say yes if you asked her in her preferred way. Going up to women and asking them out isn't a binary choice, it's searching for women who like being hit on in public. You just don't get it. I have no interest whatsoever in dating a sensitive wallflower that cannot assert herself. This approach is literally my way of vetting people with the confidence to actually date properly. you might be causing her a greater discomfort I don't care. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 05:54 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Men who are not naturally good at dating and finding sexual partners cannot become good at it without making some women uncomfortable.It is a binary yes or no question. You're overthinking it. If a woman does not want to date me, she'll say no. If she does, she'll say yes. If my behaviour puts her off and she's rejecting me, she's still saying no. If she's unwilling to answer it when I ask, then she won't appreciate the kind of person I am, so it remains a natural rejection. What you don't understand is the many problems and neuroticisms in a woman's head are actually not your problem whatsoever. If a woman can't handle the sm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 05:27 AM |
| 1 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"The tax argument will be a lot better when less of it goes to F35s and more of it goes to the programs you say it does tho, fam. It's straight up fucking leftist to be anti tax in the USA. 99% of that money will go straight to imperialist exploitation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 03:51 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men who are not naturally good at dating and finding sexual partners cannot become good at it without making some women uncomfortable.gay men have better manners and are saavy enough not to proposition strangers Gay men do this because they're literally killed if they fuck up, don't act like this is at all equivalent lmao. It's better to compare them to why women don't act more forward. Incidentally, if gay men feel safe around you, they will make you know they are gay. Trust me. I set off a lot of gaydar, and a lot of gay guys make their moves. They absolutely do this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 03:25 AM |
| – | CMV: Men who are not naturally good at dating and finding sexual partners cannot become good at it without making some women uncomfortable.I'm not asking women for attention, I'm asking them if they want to go on a date. I want to. If a man has something I want, then yes, I will interrupt him and ask. If I use my manners, I usually get what I want. Frankly, I think you are terminally online, reading your other responses, and you default to the assumption that people talk to each other at knifepoint. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 03:21 AM |
| 11 | CMV: Men who are not naturally good at dating and finding sexual partners cannot become good at it without making some women uncomfortable.If she likes me enough, she'll say yes. If she doesn't, she'll say no. If she wants to, me asking her will not make her change her mind. That's why you should always just ask. You're not actually alienating anybody, because if she's alienated by your affections, then you're getting rejected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 03:19 AM |
| 1 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"What he's referring to isn't really individual cases of abuse. I work in a workplace where I am the only man. I'm regularly treated like I am less responsible, like I am more unreliable, and I am generally condescended to by most of my coworkers. Do you think I could really complain about harassment to an all-female board of directors? We have situations now where men are in fact suffering exactly the oppression women have been fighting and the response is callous disregard. Some women even chee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 03:16 AM |
| 1 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"Okay but women also DON'T get blamed when problems with patriarchy rebound on them. And you know who else uses "well we can't serve everyone, someone has to be unhappy" logic? Capitalists, when they're defending capitalism. Women want alllll the change until those changes affect the like, one or two advantages they do enjoy for being women lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 03:10 AM |
| 1 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"Lol you think US taxes go to infrastructure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 03:08 AM |
| 1 | This sub really needs to stop calling men who struggle in dating "socially inept"Yep, 30 M and foreversingle. Can confirm. And I started my 20's a cute little community-minded guy, all leftist and all that shit. I'm entering my 30's bitter and honestly too fed up with bullshit to give anyone even a second of my time. I'm more conservative by the day. I'll be a fucking landlord by 40 at this rate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 03:07 AM |
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