Tat-Rat Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Testing a “theory” regarding OLD….	Discussion	Tat-Rat	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/22 10:21 AM

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6	If we had absolutely perfect data on sex and relationships, what are the sorts of things we would discover about people? This. I’m 5’10”, 195lbs and not fat. You can check my comment history and see my tinder profile. I do quite well match wise but the girl I’m currently hooking up with is on the heavier side. Sometimes I just wanna bang a big tiddy goth girl lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/06/22 05:11 PM
1	Testing a “theory” regarding OLD…. I made a tinder profile to test out my theory that “looks is the only thing that matters for guys in OLD”. I posted 1 photo of myself on my profile. Doesn’t even show my face, I’m shirtless in it though… the photos above show the BIO I went with and the 68 matches I’ve got in the first week of it being up. Now I’m not actually trying to get any dates here and I swiped right rather recklessly at times so the quality of matches are debatable at best. Still, I think this post reinforces the point t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/22 10:30 AM
10	As a man, is rejection just frustrating OR a bit deeper than that, more existential, when the subject of your love and adoration chooses another man over you Being rejected by a woman was probably the best thing that ever happened to me. Instead of wallowing in self pity I decided to do something about it. I stopped getting high, cut out the vidya, fixed my diet, started hitting the gym and got absolutely chopped. When I ran into her again a couple years later she hardly recognized me and told me how great I looked and asked me how I was doing. I said “thank you, I’m doing really well these days” and left it at that. I’m now happily married to a much…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/22 02:11 PM
10	Is it fair to say that the evidence shows that women find it difficult to feel attraction for a man with less money than her? My wife makes a lot more money than I do and all is well in our home and bedroom. I’m not ashamed to admit that I’m basically a trophy husband on many levels, but as long as I keep going to the gym every day and destroying my endocrine system with PEDs I have no doubt that she will genuinely stay attracted to me regardless of how much or how little money I make.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/22 02:22 PM
1	Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result? I’m a man and it does not make me uncomfortable nor do I care. Do I think some women are mostly there to show off and get attention? Absolutely. Same with some men. 160lb Steve can have fun over there giving booty short Becky all the attention she desperately craves for all I care. In fact, I’m glad they seem to be hitting it off because that means less people on the equipment. My reason for going to the gym is me and I’m the only person that affects how others perceive me. If I spent time worry…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/22 10:30 AM
6	What standards are TOO high? I promise these “some guys” you’re talking about are generally not the gym goers with chad tier bods. Gloves fuck with your grip strength and make the bar feel wider. Sure you can soak your hands, file off the calluses and use lotion. But come on. How many guys that have to meal prep 6 meals a day with 200+ grams of protein have time for that? If it was a deal breaker for women we all would. But it’s not. So we don’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 03:15 AM
6	What standards are TOO high? Do you only like white collar soy-boys then? I can assure you most dudes with chad tier bods have calluses on their hands regardless of profession because guess what? Moving iron around for hours every day with your hands leaves calluses whether you’re getting paid to do it as a job or you’re paying to do it outside of your job.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/22 02:35 AM
2	CMV: A major reason women are more attractive than men is because it’s not socially acceptable for men to work on their looks I’m not sure if you’re homophobic and insecure about your own sexuality or just lazy and making excuses. I go tanning, use a collagen/clay face mask every night, use hair products every morning, eat a strict diet, and go to the gym 6x a week. How often do men call me gay you ask? Literally not once to my face. How often does it happen behind my back? IDGAF. I have been hit on by men, especially when working as a stripper at a male strip club. I find it flattering, but not threatening to my sexua…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/21 12:00 AM
1	Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided? Shortly after getting sober I realized that I was using women and sex in much the same way I used drugs and alcohol. It was all about a quick dopamine hit with no regard for anyones feelings and it always left me feeling alone, empty and wanting more. A big part of my recovery was doing work around honesty, vulnerability and connecting with others in a genuine way. Getting laid was always easy for me but forging and maintaining stable relationships was something I really struggled with for a ver…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/21 08:51 AM
11	Surely its common sense that girls like physically attractive men. Is it a lack of empathy or ability to see it from the other side that allows men to be totally blind sided? This. My best friend is an accountant that “has his shit together”, yet he’s slightly overweight, 5’7” with average-below average looks. But… he’s really nice and would make a great partner for any woman that would just give him a chance before they throw his ass straight into the friend zone. And then there’s me. Recovering drug addict, hand and neck tattoos, criminal record. But… I’m closer to 6’ tall, hit the gym everyday, have defined abs and good facial symmetry. I’m happily married to a be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/12/21 04:39 AM