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ConversationTatleman68/r/seduction05/05/24 10:26 PM
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1

Are you using any protection?
/r/seduction04/11/25 10:51 PM
6

I don't know, maybe discuss it with her. It looks she is a walking STD if she is fucking with other dudes as well
/r/seduction02/11/25 11:12 PM
1

Regardless, you want to end up at the same destination which is your place. I don't know the vibe between you two; maybe you want to invite her straight to your place at the 3rd date
/r/seduction27/10/25 11:04 PM
21

Why does this doesn't too good to be true. I'm not saying it's fake
/r/seduction23/10/25 10:22 PM
39

Look like Henry Cavil
/r/seduction15/10/25 08:36 AM
1

Could be, it could make them insecure and start to chase you
/r/seduction04/10/25 11:06 PM
1

Thank you and where do I find these girls?
/r/seduction30/09/25 10:42 AM
2

What is the most effective way of finding girls for long-term romantic relationships?
/r/seduction30/09/25 10:14 AM
1

Push a wall, it might help with the nerves
/r/seduction28/09/25 11:03 AM
1

Yep, could be but not in OP's case
/r/seduction27/09/25 10:24 PM
15

You can't expect someone to just leave her girlfriend to be with somebody else. It can be considered rude if she did.
/r/seduction27/09/25 03:47 PM
17

You're overthinking, just ask her IG
/r/seduction18/09/25 07:09 PM
-9

"Have you given up on me", if no response = move on
/r/seduction16/09/25 08:39 PM
4

Kiev
/r/seduction25/08/25 08:37 AM
1

It depends on the context
/r/seduction25/08/25 08:36 AM
3

Then plan the date mate. What do you gotta lose
/r/seduction24/08/25 10:54 PM
1

No, move on bro. You can still do the cold approach with other girls and go on a date
/r/seduction24/08/25 10:40 PM
2

Fuck yeah
/r/seduction20/08/25 09:00 AM
1

Just treat her like a normal human being
/r/seduction19/08/25 10:53 PM
2

Yeah, go tell the bf that.
/r/seduction07/08/25 06:55 PM
2

Wise lesson I learned it the past, don't fuck another man's girlfriend. That pussy ain't worth it
/r/seduction07/08/25 12:39 PM
1

Yeah, feeling rejected can translate into feeling being disrespected but she is still chasing you. I guess, that's a win but don't overplay your cards
/r/seduction27/07/25 10:38 PM
2

If she has a bf, that pussy ain't worth it man
/r/seduction27/07/25 10:36 PM
–

Height, being good at sports, attractive facial features and symmetry
/r/seduction27/07/25 07:02 PM
18

Everything is hard until it becomes easy. Some guys have God given perks that others don't; so they have to level up but probably aren't.
/r/seduction27/07/25 06:50 PM
-1

It's subjective of course. 40 from the perspective of 20-year old can be considerd old. However, 40 is still good and young
/r/seduction18/07/25 01:59 PM
-1

32 is like prime, not old, 40 would be "old" for a 20 year old
/r/seduction18/07/25 12:13 PM
2

They're like cats, one day I'm playing football with my cat, the next day, she just runs away as soon as she sees me
/r/seduction08/06/25 10:40 PM
1

Being rich and clothing style
/r/seduction06/06/25 07:41 PM
9

How do you know it's not genuine?
/r/seduction11/05/25 10:41 PM
22

You're attracting girls, what's the problem mate?
/r/seduction11/05/25 09:54 PM
2

Phone number would be better indeed, I agree.
/r/seduction25/01/25 09:50 PM
1

Yes and no. If you don't want to, you won't be able to see the friend list or the photos. Not even the profile pic if she put everything on private
/r/seduction25/01/25 12:38 AM
1

How many times did you pull this off?
/r/seduction19/01/25 09:28 PM
0

You want to fuck him or not?
/r/seduction17/01/25 12:42 AM
1

He is rich and famous which play big factors for women in choosing their life partner. Also, I do believe Elon is taking care of himself. He had a hairtransplant and he doesn't look that bad for his age
/r/seduction28/12/24 12:38 AM
2

You will see lots of scams and catfishes unfortunately
/r/seduction16/12/24 07:22 PM
1

Fuck before dinner > have dinner > fuck again
/r/seduction15/12/24 09:16 AM
1

I've seen posts about this; in case one of them doesn't show up, you have this back-up plan but it's just too disrespectful if both of them do show up.
/r/seduction26/11/24 04:27 PM
1

Aside from that, I've seen so many scammers and it's not even fake profiles, it's actually thr girls from the profile trying to convince you to invest in crypto
/r/seduction22/11/24 01:43 AM
2

You say "No worries" and you move on. You don't necessarily have to block them
/r/seduction21/11/24 12:03 AM
1

Why would this even matter
/r/seduction21/11/24 12:01 AM
15

It's bold of you to assume that we're sailing in the same boat
/r/seduction18/11/24 11:51 AM
7

What about the succession rate? Did it lead to more dates?
/r/seduction05/11/24 11:05 PM
47

Because it makes them insecure and they come back to you to "fix" their insecurity
/r/seduction01/11/24 11:55 PM
0

Nah dude, that won't work. Try to get a coffee date and then pick it up from there
/r/seduction21/10/24 09:56 PM
2

Damn son, you didn't have to do him like that
/r/seduction11/10/24 08:41 AM
1

What are the stats bro?
/r/seduction08/10/24 11:19 PM
1

These are good bro. I do notice that some girls are just bad at conversing and you really have to pull it out of them.
/r/seduction20/09/24 03:49 PM
17

You have to text first in order to do that
/r/seduction17/09/24 09:07 PM
1

If you're the woman on your profile photo, you're not unattractive
/r/seduction16/09/24 12:29 PM
1

Honestly, I don't overthink it and send them the most basic messagss such as "How is your day going?" And when they answer, I usually pick it up from there
/r/seduction14/09/24 10:52 AM
3

No, dude. You're ending convo before it even started
/r/seduction14/09/24 10:51 AM
0

Use other dating apps mate. You got tons of others
/r/seduction11/09/24 10:11 PM
1

Haha, at least you tried. With me, it works all the time
/r/seduction09/09/24 08:20 AM
1

Tell them that you have a surprise and that she has to close her eyes. Then, just go for the kiss.
/r/seduction08/09/24 10:36 PM
1

Look like Brad Pitt and they will start lining up for you or have good dancing moves. It's hard to talk in a club with girls, so you have to communicate non-verbally.
/r/seduction07/09/24 12:42 PM
4

Remembering positive memories from the past bro
/r/seduction28/08/24 10:47 PM
1

Be very attractive and/or be rich af
/r/seduction26/08/24 11:10 PM
8

You don't bro unless you look like Brad Pitt and/or you're rich af
/r/seduction25/08/24 11:21 PM
12

1 Be attractive 2 Don't be ugly
/r/seduction21/08/24 03:06 PM
3

Great initiative mate, keep us updated
/r/seduction17/08/24 10:50 PM
24

It somehow reminds about how serial killers would approach women
/r/seduction16/08/24 10:56 PM
3

When they hear how brilliant and special they are
/r/seduction14/08/24 04:27 PM
36

Be better dude, or just don't give a fuck. There are tons of othrt girls who will give you the right treatment.
/r/seduction12/08/24 06:37 PM
1

Saying "Hi" is a good start and then walk away
/r/seduction08/08/24 11:15 PM
1

Thanks man. You're helping your fear by facing it. That takes courage and balls.
/r/seduction08/08/24 11:08 PM
2

Not even one?
/r/seduction08/08/24 11:07 PM
1

They say what you most need will be found where you least want to look
/r/seduction08/08/24 10:57 PM
7

Thanks man, I appreciate it. What is the most valuable lesson you've learned from all these approaches?
/r/seduction08/08/24 07:00 PM
7

So, how many dates in total, and how many led to a date and how many led to sex or an actual (romantic) relationship. I'm curious
/r/seduction08/08/24 06:37 PM
1

Reverse the situation, how would you want to be approached and it wouldn't become weird. Act normal, make them feel safe or at least not threatened and ask a genuine question.
/r/seduction08/08/24 06:31 PM
1

No, because you can't go back in time
/r/seduction08/08/24 02:19 PM
48

People tend to get agressive when they become insecure.
/r/seduction07/08/24 11:04 PM
5

I got my own cult, you can join
/r/seduction07/08/24 01:14 PM
-1

Stop comparing yourself to others, you are you. If you want something serious, go for it. In the meanwhile, enjoy your life while you can
/r/seduction06/08/24 10:25 PM
0

Go on an adventure bro
/r/seduction03/08/24 07:36 AM
119

Over 9000
/r/seduction30/07/24 09:52 AM
1

Generally, being "judgy" is very anti-seductive behaviour
/r/seduction25/07/24 10:58 PM
1

Nah man, as long as curiousity exists, mystery will remain in the game
/r/seduction24/07/24 10:59 PM
-8

Social status is #1 mate
/r/seduction23/07/24 10:31 PM
2

Nah man, you'll need to see her face-to-face
/r/seduction23/07/24 03:08 PM
3

Ask her to go on a lunch or breakfast instead. If she days she is still busy, move on mate
/r/seduction22/07/24 05:02 PM
0

Statistically, after every rejection, your chance of success should increase
/r/seduction21/07/24 08:31 PM
3

My man, you love writing essays don't you
/r/seduction19/07/24 10:50 PM
2

Motherfucker
/r/seduction18/07/24 03:13 PM
2

Just don't tell them your age; you got nothing to lose if they're walking away anyway
/r/seduction14/07/24 10:49 PM
42

It lowers women' defense. Although, I wouldn't advice on lying. I would just say "I'm a lesbian" and this is true because I love women.
/r/seduction14/07/24 12:29 PM
2

My friend, I'll need to see the management summary
/r/seduction10/07/24 08:30 PM
66

Job is a marker of social status. So, if you have a job that is "considered" high value by society, then yeah it might increase your odds of getting a match
/r/seduction07/07/24 01:00 PM
0

Move on my dude. If she really is interested, she'll text you back for feeling guilty for cancelling the date. If you text her before she does, you will come across as needy and then, the game is definitely over
/r/seduction04/07/24 10:03 PM
27

The date itself is already a W
/r/seduction02/07/24 03:22 PM
1

Have you tried focusing on the relationship itself without having sex immediately. Reject the sex and delay it
/r/seduction01/07/24 07:28 AM
3

Basically, attain a highet social status to make yourself more attractive
/r/seduction29/06/24 09:34 PM
1

Because love doesn't make sense and it makes you do irrational things But go ask her
/r/seduction27/06/24 09:07 PM
7

There are always external factors we can't control mate. You don't know what she is doing, and yes, she might be playing hard and that's okay. If she ain't interested, move on
/r/seduction27/06/24 03:04 PM
17

Wait for at least a da because she might be busy, and ask if she had time to react on the invite. Other than that, just move on nate
/r/seduction27/06/24 11:01 AM
1

Just say it or don't but don't lie
/r/seduction26/06/24 02:26 PM
9

Well, the fact that you meet these women is already a win for me
/r/seduction20/06/24 03:05 PM
1

I don't name the specific location. I just tell them to bw ready, I'm going to take them out and they will love it for sure.
/r/seduction17/06/24 04:03 PM
11

They want to be seen, heard and feel special.
/r/seduction13/06/24 05:14 PM
4

Skip it bro. You better than that
/r/seduction13/06/24 05:06 PM
2

Usually, they tell you they have a bf
/r/seduction12/06/24 07:15 AM
3

She is probably watching you to make sure you ain't following and killing her
/r/seduction11/06/24 06:01 PM
6

My friend, how do you expect to meet these girls after you get their numbers? They're probably flying to places where you won't go.
/r/seduction11/06/24 01:24 PM
0

You fuck them without kissing
/r/seduction10/06/24 03:15 PM
2

Sure thing, let us know how it went
/r/seduction10/06/24 06:22 AM
4

Or maybe f to m and her transition just started
/r/seduction10/06/24 06:22 AM
1

Just a "hi" or more?
/r/seduction09/06/24 09:14 PM
6

Hey, cheer up my friend. You could still ask her, if she's interested, she'll say yes. You got nothing to lose.
/r/seduction09/06/24 07:52 PM
36

I would have tried to get a coffee asap to catch up with her for old time's sake.
/r/seduction09/06/24 07:16 PM
2

You mean M to F or F to M?
/r/seduction09/06/24 07:11 PM
2

Ignore her for at most one week. If she really cares about you, she will start thinking she did something wrong and reach out to you.
/r/seduction09/06/24 01:30 PM
2

People are more likely to make connections with people with whom they share mutual characteristics such as hobbies, work, country, language etc. Just act like a normal, kind and respectful human being and try to find common grounds with these women.
/r/seduction09/06/24 01:24 PM
2

As long as you don't do it at the expense of your norms and values. Everybody should have boundaries
/r/seduction09/06/24 01:14 PM
1

There is nothing wrong with masturbating bro. Post nut clarity is a thing.
/r/seduction09/06/24 01:11 PM
3

Most likely, I don't know. If she ghosts you, just move on bro. No use of chasing women that don't respect your time.
/r/seduction09/06/24 01:11 PM
5

Not too long nor too quick. Next day is fine. Try to find a moment where you think she is most available. From my experience, that's either in the morning or evening
/r/seduction09/06/24 12:24 PM
3

Rub one out mate and go back to sleep. You'll have a different perspective on the situation after you wake up
/r/seduction09/06/24 12:22 PM
4

What exactly makes you attractive to these women that you dated?
/r/seduction08/06/24 08:28 PM
8

My man, I personally have a rule of thumb about not to come between a girl and her boyfriend. Meeting up is fine but I would definitely ask her whether or not she is still in a romantic relationship before escalating the relationship.
/r/seduction08/06/24 07:31 PM
3

This, go for drinks and not a expensive dinner
/r/seduction06/06/24 04:14 PM
0

I tend to pretend I'm a tourist and usually start the conversation with "Sorry, do you speak English?" - note that English isn't the first language in my country but most people speak it. Subsequently, I compliment them, ask for name and maybe their IG or phone number
/r/seduction06/06/24 10:13 AM
0

Tell her that you are in love with her
/r/seduction01/06/24 12:37 PM
2

I'm joking but prostituion would be the most effective one. I think nightclubs are a good place to pick up girls who are relatively more eager to be DTF.
/r/seduction30/05/24 10:03 PM
1

Red Light District
/r/seduction30/05/24 09:52 PM
2

You should feel honored
/r/seduction30/05/24 05:47 AM
1

The main goal is to get a coffee date asap. If she likes coffee, you might immediately say that you know a very good place where you and she can drink coffee together.
/r/seduction29/05/24 04:30 PM
1

I am pretty sure it would work if there is mutual sexual attraction
/r/seduction29/05/24 12:21 PM
-2

Coffee or tea?
/r/seduction28/05/24 10:24 PM
1

Totally forget about your own problems and focus on the other person and just ask random stuff. If you can, start talking about topics you might have commonalities with such as friends/families, work, hobbies, dreams etc.
/r/seduction28/05/24 07:15 PM
12

It'a easy mode with guys. Saying "I'm interested in you, can I have your phone number?" should do the job.
/r/seduction28/05/24 10:31 AM
28

If you at the girl's place, you're already playing easy mode my man
/r/seduction27/05/24 10:20 PM
4

I just read the title and the answer is yes because first impressions really do last; for example, if you think someone is smart based on your first impression, then it will take a while before that impression changes. The same principle can be applied anywhere
/r/seduction27/05/24 12:53 PM
5

Fuck what she wants, what do you want? If it is a romantic relationship, then fucking ask her out for a coffee date asap and take it from there. If not, you decide what to do. I wouldn't waste my time
/r/seduction25/05/24 11:38 PM
6

Sure no problem. Next girl
/r/seduction25/05/24 05:29 PM
10

Practice the shit out of it
/r/seduction25/05/24 04:41 PM
3

I would keep it very short, "honest, kind and respectfully".
/r/seduction25/05/24 04:10 PM
1

Nah man, you sound allright. Nothing wrong with texting a girl and showing that you find her interesting by going on a coffee date. Don't waste too much time on girls that are playing hard to get. Im pretty sure that there is a girl that likes you back the same way you do.
/r/seduction25/05/24 01:13 PM
3

Yes, being surrounded with a group of women is more attractive to a woman. It could be indication of competence and making girls feel safer knowing that other girls are around him too
/r/seduction25/05/24 11:24 AM
15

Some girls just can't hold a conversation themselves and expect the other guy to do all the work. Going on a coffee date in a public area is okay even if you don't know each other well. That's the whole point of the coffee date
/r/seduction25/05/24 10:17 AM
9

Then stop calling them and go from text > date asap
/r/seduction24/05/24 02:53 PM
3

Just don't
/r/seduction24/05/24 02:44 PM
0

Should have gone for the kiss bro
/r/seduction23/05/24 11:00 PM
1

Honestly, if both make eye contact and you feel the moment, I don't think it is weird to approach a woman and ask her IG/number. You took the effort because you believe she is worth it.
/r/seduction23/05/24 03:52 PM
1

After you left the company or just about to, tell her that you are interested in her and you want to know her better. Shouldn't take more than 5 minutes of your time
/r/seduction23/05/24 03:49 PM
1

I would have certainly appreciated it. Bonus points if the gift reflects something personal about the guy
/r/seduction23/05/24 02:59 PM
1

Just have sex with them, it will makes things more comfortable and boost your ego
/r/seduction23/05/24 07:12 AM
38

Nah dude, this ratio is fine
/r/seduction22/05/24 09:31 PM
6

Like a normal human being mate
/r/seduction17/05/24 11:27 PM
2

Trust is the foundation of any relationship bro. You better than that; show yourself some self-respect. 100% chance that there is another girl out there for you. Move on and find someone else. That is eventually how you get back to her; showing her that you are a better person
/r/seduction16/05/24 07:31 PM
-1

Just listen to them and they will provide all the info you need to seduce them
/r/seduction14/05/24 10:38 PM
5

Just ask him, if he wants to hook up, he will tell you. If he doesn't want to, move on and stop wasting your time.
/r/seduction13/05/24 01:37 PM
0

Finding someone who doesn't have an ex. Girls with lots of relationships bring a big baggage of relationship along with them.
/r/seduction13/05/24 09:19 AM
1

Then move on mate
/r/seduction13/05/24 05:25 AM
1

Just call them; other than that, move on
/r/seduction12/05/24 09:14 PM
3

Take no heed, just move on. Don't waste your time my friend
/r/seduction10/05/24 08:38 PM
1

It is purely human behaviour my friend; it doesn't necessarily mean anything
/r/seduction09/05/24 11:48 PM
1

Because I observe, everything in life has its antipole, almost nothing in life is guaranteed. Statistically, it should be possible to find someone worse, equally good or a better one; you just have to try and find out.
/r/seduction07/05/24 09:40 PM
1

I gotta agree with my friend above here. She texted you potentially with the intention of hooking up. The focus should have been getting to meet her face-to-face asap and not "if I come back and so and so..."
/r/seduction07/05/24 09:36 PM
4

Advantages here is that you will be most likely her first in most things in a relationship which can create an unique seduction of its own Although, be careful with it
/r/seduction07/05/24 09:30 PM
0

Date to just fuck
/r/seduction07/05/24 04:59 PM
1

Well, you're not me, so I don't know whether or not if this is going to work out for you. I know that even if I do engage in a relationship with this woman, it won't work and we would end up hurting each other. For now, we're just friends. It is a hard lesson to let it go and find someone else. There is a zero probability that you won't find someone out there as good as her; if not, even better.
/r/seduction07/05/24 03:04 PM
2

I have the same thing for a girl and I have to admit, I haven't found a way of actually moving on from that
/r/seduction07/05/24 02:06 PM
2

This is going to sound cold as well, but you should move on my friend. Clearlt whether or not she is telling the real reason, but she clearly don't want to do anything with you anymore
/r/seduction07/05/24 12:56 PM
1

Thank you for your answer
/r/seduction06/05/24 10:30 PM
1

Please elaborate. We barely see each other at the office and we are not working in the same team
/r/seduction06/05/24 07:03 PM
17

Approaching isn't the problem, it is more like making the smooth transition from - let's say work-related into romance and ensuring the girls keep coming back
/r/seduction06/05/24 05:55 PM
1

That would be an overkill my friend. This will be our first meeting ever work-related
/r/seduction06/05/24 11:46 AM
1

To see me with other woman is going to be too hard given the working context. Do you have alternatives to do this?
/r/seduction06/05/24 09:32 AM
0

Thanks, I will try that and see how the conversation goes
/r/seduction05/05/24 10:56 PM
0

I am familiar with the saying and no, she is not in my team and I have never even seen her at the office. I work at a big company, so it is easy to miss people. Our first conversation will be about her function. Obviously, depending on this conversation, I want to take it to the next level. I could use some wisdom on how to do this. How did you make the transition to something sexual with a male co-worker?
/r/seduction05/05/24 10:49 PM
11

Should have gone for a coffee date
/r/seduction05/05/24 07:13 AM
1

Sounds like a win to me. Although, this doesn't sound like a date
/r/seduction02/05/24 08:52 PM
3

Sounds hot af my dude
/r/seduction02/05/24 08:49 PM
8

I always visualize the day with my date before the day of the date and figure out some back up plans just in case. Until now, it always went according to my plan
/r/seduction02/05/24 03:12 PM
1

Just text him. Generally, overanalyzing stems from anxiety. Fuck that, just text him
/r/seduction30/04/24 09:29 PM
2

Basically, give them something they love that no other guy ever did. In that way, you'll be in their thoughts for a good long time.
/r/seduction30/04/24 07:31 PM
11

Beard
/r/seduction30/04/24 11:26 AM
1

How much money are you losing for each date on average?
/r/seduction23/04/24 12:37 PM
5

Even few minutes is too long. Keep it at max 2 min. Ask her name, tell her you find her interesting and ask her insta
/r/seduction23/04/24 05:53 AM
3

None of them. Just one liners that don't give you much room to follow-up on
/r/seduction21/04/24 02:11 PM
1

My friend, in this case [since she is a "friend"], everybody should pay their own shit or you just split everything 50/50. You don't owe her anything. Why doesn't she pay for everything for once? Based on your story, it looks like she is using you as an ATM mate.
/r/seduction21/04/24 01:23 PM
15

If she is giving you one liners.
/r/seduction20/04/24 10:48 PM
2

That sentence certainly didn't do you favours. Learn from it and move on mate. Next time, you see her, just talk to her like it never happened.
/r/seduction20/04/24 09:50 PM
2

Sorry my mistake, but that's even better, ask at least one of them you feel attracted to. It might even make the other women jealous.
/r/seduction20/04/24 09:47 PM
3

Not sure, but she sure trusts you. Ask her out for a coffee, can't hurt right
/r/seduction20/04/24 09:25 PM
11

London, Nice & Amsterdam If you just want to fuck, go to Amsterdam Red Light District
/r/seduction19/04/24 09:19 AM
10

I would not text and just move on. It is not worth chasing people. You can invest that energy into another person that is actually eager to meet with you.
/r/seduction17/04/24 07:37 AM
3

What do you want? Do you want to fuck her or just study?
/r/seduction17/04/24 07:06 AM
2

I would say, I wouldn't date someone who is more than 8 years younger than me. I am 30.
/r/seduction16/04/24 10:48 AM
1

The Scandinavian countries if you're looking for beautiful women
/r/seduction16/04/24 07:25 AM
1

I would say, attempt and found out why you shouldn't do it at certain places
/r/seduction14/04/24 07:04 AM
1

Does this hurt when you try to shave the hair on your penis?
/r/seduction13/04/24 11:13 PM
87

I think you're overthinking it. Also, she is a waitress and is probably nice to people for tips. However, you could try asking her out, why not. I wouldn't wait weeks before asking her out though. Go for it!
/r/seduction11/04/24 10:35 PM
5

Stop texting her for a short period and leave her on read when she texts you but answer her texts eventually. One of the few ways of getting in her head.
/r/seduction07/04/24 09:16 PM
6

This is bad advice. It depends how you compliment her
/r/seduction06/04/24 11:34 PM
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