| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 144 | Man grooms a 17 year old for a year. Moves her in after she turns 18. Tries to get her pregnant by poking holes in condoms. Also is 11 years her senior. | COCKHOLM SYNDROME | Tatpixie13 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 08:44 PM |
| 139 | Husband (26) uses kink as an excuse to rape his wife(20) then attempts to gaslight her | FDS RESCUE MISSION | Tatpixie13 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 11:09 PM |
| 138 | I broke up with my forever boyfriend | #KickHimOut2020 | Tatpixie13 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 04:31 AM |
| 66 | The audacity of anime scrotes. | #JustLVMThings | Tatpixie13 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 09:21 PM |
| 53 | Watching “The Sopranos” after FDS is hard! | RANT | Tatpixie13 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 02:48 PM |
| 52 | Saw this on r/r4r. His account is about a years worth of posts looking for an online affair. He’s married, ugh. | MALE DEPRAVITY | Tatpixie13 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 07:21 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 15 | When men think your options will dwindle without their golden penisAnd it doesn’t dwindle with age either. My mom is 60 and men, even young men, are still throwing themselves at her. She’s not online either. This is in public. Know your worth ladies! You are priceless. No man is out of your league. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 12:22 AM |
| 12 | The real reason FDS pisses people off so muchThey don’t want women pushing back against cultural misogyny. Cultural misogyny was their only hope for finding a partner of their standards. There are tons of HVMs out there who would love the chance. Don’t waste time on scrotes. They can either level up or be left out of the gene pool. Natural selection, baby! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 07:22 PM |
| 15 | I broke up with my forever boyfriendYeah and then it’s a glaring piece of jewelry that deters high value men from approaching you. That ring is a social tool to communicate to the world that you are off limits. Men should be eager to buy it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 04:41 PM |
| 20 | I broke up with my forever boyfriendOoooooo girl yes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 02:18 PM |
| 23 | I broke up with my forever boyfriendSo.....I cant afford this place on my own. I was going to low key dip out on rent and get a studio apartment. I don’t feel bad for dipping out on rent. I supported him for years and kept me away from my future husband. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 02:18 PM |
| 33 | I broke up with my forever boyfriendThat’s actually the thing that prompted the breakup. It just stuck out to me as a major red flag. I wasn’t asking for an expensive ring, i’m against the diamond trade. I’ve sent him $80 options and offered to pay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 11:39 AM |
| 14 | Dear men, you don’t get it both ways.You don’t get to critique every woman in your life’s appearance, when you look like a whole ass potato. You can’t expect to have the full love and devotion of a women when you continually objectify women you encounter. (ie. You’re not fully committed, so she’s not going to be fully committed as a result). You can’t expect a woman to appreciate you when you see her entire gender as second class citizens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 12:16 AM |
| 17 | The audacity of anime scrotes.He probably prefers young teenage girls and is settling for an adult because it’s not acceptable. Ive known two women whose homes were raided because their man was into child porn or 13 year old prostitutes. And their men trying to get then to dress younger, was one of their redflags looking back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 10:21 PM |
| 13 | "Friends with Benefits" will NEVER turn into "something more"Whenever someone proposes a FWB situation, they’re basically outright telling you that they don’t value you as anything more than a warm body. You have to watch out. Men are conditioned their whole lives to objectify and devalue women. They have to unlearn it in adulthood, and most don’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 09:28 PM |
| 12 | Mum moves in with a LVM after 3 months of dating who won’t let daughter practiceImagine being such a pickme that you value your new boyfriend (who is 18 years older) over your daughter. I feel so bad for the kid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Need strength to dump LVMThey always do this shit! They target your appearance to convince you that youre actually lucky to have their mediocre abusive ass. Dude, it’s a trick as old as time. It’s also the beginning stages of the cycle of abuse. Notice how he is “lovely” sometimes and “cold” the next. That’s how it starts. It always starts verbally too. https://www.shelterforhelpinemergency.org/get-help/cycle-violence | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 03:14 PM |
| 1 | When they hide it so well...The thing is, and why the best comes after, you become super keen to men’s shit. You’re able to hone in on the good ones while ignoring the bad. You’ll start noticing weird little things that don’t mean sex addiction on their own, but tend to correlate with it. One that I noticed after my ex, was men who comment on women’s appearances (good or bad). I found it’s a sign that they objectify women and normally that’s due to excessive porn usage. Little red flags like that. Another one I noticed, me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 02:53 PM |
| 8 | When they hide it so well...You’ll get there. I promise. You’ll meet someone better too. The best ones seem to come after the worst ones. How long ago did you leave? Is he going along with the divorce or is he trying to drag it out? What was his reaction? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 12:50 AM |
| 13 | When they hide it so well...Well, I had friends in the town where one of the side girls lived. A friend caught them together and called me immediately. I knew something was up when I bought a large box of condoms that was unopened, and it was gone the next time I visited. I asked and he said he used them to masterbate. I wanted to leave then. But he groomed my entire family and I felt I couldn’t leave without proof. I left after the side chick was caught. He tried to get me to go along with a polyamorous thing then, ridicu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 12:48 AM |
| 5 | Toxic ex sent me a “friendly” email to try to get in touch with me again. Don’t fall for it!Lol, either he wants you to be his counselor or side piece. Don’t respond. Just block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 12:33 AM |
| 12 | When you reject a NVM and his feelings are hurt, it shows.Got that dollar sweet tea energy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 12:31 AM |
| 32 | When they hide it so well...I had something similar happen to me. Appeared high value. Engaged within a year. Constant communication. Access to phones and social media. Turns out he was sleeping with hookers and had two side girlfriends in other towns. Broke it off immediately. Funny part is, 5 years later he came back saying he was moving back to the my area and was “ready to settle down”. You’ll get over it faster than you think you will. You’ll end up being more angry than hurt. And that resulting anger is what taught m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 12:18 AM |
| 25 | When they care more about their penises than they care about your wellbeing, RUN!I feel bad. But I laughed at “hold it in”. Like wtf that is so stupid. 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 06:37 PM |
| 12 | Form an orderly queue ladies... He’s a keeper (1. Is referring to fake tan)This guy does not have an IQ above 115. I can assure you that. 115 is a whole SD above the mean. Come on dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 05:49 PM |
| 13 | Husband (26) uses kink as an excuse to rape his wife(20) then attempts to gaslight herA wrong as rhyme. Beauty and the kink | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 01:29 AM |
| 30 | High school ex boyfriend hit me up last night at 2am and I haven’t seen him or talked to him in 8 years. He’s married with a kid. I 100% sent this screenshot to his wife who had pictures of in his profile and she was tagged. Idiot.Good on you OP. But, 9/10 in my experience the wife blames the woman somehow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 06:00 PM |
| 7 | Don’t date a porn addicted man, don’t be cool with porn. An HVM doesn’t jerk off to female exploitation & other women in general.Honestly, and I know it sounds shitty. I would just start dating other people. That behavior doesn’t even deserve a breakup. Id just casually let him know that he is now a roommate and he can sleep in another room. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 10:32 PM |
| 24 | I’m Fed-Up at How Dangerous Shared-Housing is for Women and How Society Gaslights Us About itI lived in a house with several males. Luckily, it was my bf and his brothers. Everything was fine besides the typical roommate chore shit. Then we moved in our friend. We knew him for years. We knew his friends and his family. Everything was great, until his girlfriend left him. He would get weird with me when ever we were the only two in the house (threaten, posture, yell) No one believed me because he was the “nicest guy”. Shit, if it didn’t happen to me, I wouldn’t believe it! He really was … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 02:58 AM |
| 3 | Has the Online Dating Fish Bowl gotten worse since Coronavirus?It’s a common fantasy for these guys. Fitness/gamer/ cool girl. They want a “cool girl” = low maintenance, a “fit girl” = works out religiously, and a “gamer”= a girl who also, wastes her time on stupid bullshit, instead of bettering herself. Straight 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 02:31 AM |
| 7 | Has the Online Dating Fish Bowl gotten worse since Coronavirus?Oh it’s a thing. This one dude was so overly direct. Wants a woman around his age who likes fitness and video games (of course), willing to move to TN and move in almost immediately, and wants to save as much possible for retirement so they can travel when they’re retired. Yeah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 12:21 AM |
| 23 | Has the Online Dating Fish Bowl gotten worse since Coronavirus?Well something I noticed, men who would otherwise be fuck boys, panicking and looking for an immediate wife. Probably because times are scary and they realize that having a woman in your life benefits men in a major way. Look at r/meetpeople and r/r4r. A lot of the posts are men between 25-35 who are ,all of a sudden, wanting a serious/live in girlfriend, NOW! And long paragraphs on all the boxes they want these women to check. More red flags than a soviet parade | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 10:01 PM |
| 24 | Saw this on r/r4r. His account is about a years worth of posts looking for an online affair. He’s married, ugh.It gets worse. All of his posts of this nature have almost no upvotes. Like take a hint, my dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 07:52 PM |
| 15 | Saw this on r/r4r. His account is about a years worth of posts looking for an online affair. He’s married, ugh.I cut off his screen name but it’s recent on that subreddit if you want to see his account history. It’s just post after post looking for a mistress, for close to a year. Some are on r/dirtykikpals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 07:36 PM |
| 87 | Man grooms a 17 year old for a year. Moves her in after she turns 18. Tries to get her pregnant by poking holes in condoms. Also is 11 years her senior.Yeah this is bad, bad. I didn’t get the whole post in the screen shot ,but it sounds like he is borderline raping her. He throws her on the bed and goes harder if she start crying. Im not sure if she meant she was crying because of the condom thing or because she doesn’t want to have sex. I’m going to try to reach out to her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 09:02 PM |
| 17 | Girl dating scrote 12 years her senior has him begging to fuck other girls while telling her he wants a monogamous relationship. She feels guilty for feeling uncomfortable 🙄What is up with women dating men 10+ years older. They’re single because people their own age don’t want them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 08:33 PM |
| 26 | Scroll to 0:50 for Elon Musk's new fiance (2nd wife) talking about him proposing after ten days, how she would have said yes to almost anyone, how her parents are traumatized by the whole experience, and how she often has the urge to escape.He engaged her 6 weeks after filing for divorce from his first wife. Justine’s description of their marriage really shows you how Elon views women. https://www.marieclaire.com/sex-love/a5380/millionaire-starter-wife/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 08:25 PM |
| 26 | Pedophilic scrote logicPersonally I’m against FWB. I’m sure it works for some people, but for the most part you’re giving a man the green light to use you. I also feel like it’s part of the “cool” girl trope. The “cool girl” trope is not actually being a “cool girl” (ie. shared interests, fun, emotionally stable), it’s about being low maintenance and expecting nothing from your partner. A one sided male fantasy wherein the male has the benefits of a relationship with no effort or commitment on his part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 07:51 PM |
| 55 | Man is upset for his sons friends hitting on his daughter, so he bans his son from having friends over.“You don’t look 14”. Classic grooming that older boys/men use on young women/girls. Like really dude? Soon it will be “yOUR So mATURE fOR yOUR aGE”. “You don’t want to do that? i tHOUGHT yOU wERE a cOOL gIRL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Is it a red flag when they’re laying on the cheesy pick up lines/ flattery early?Rule of Thumb- If you have to ask if it’s a redflag. It’s a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 04:58 PM |
| 32 | Am i the only one weirded out by grimes and Elon musks dating thing?He has no respect for women and constantly exchanges them for younger women. All of his relationships are just arrangements. One of his ex’s detailed how there was an agreement in the beginning that; she had to have blonde hair, she had to be friends with all of his ex’s even after their relationship, she had to start sleeping in bed with him immediately because he “never sleeps alone”, and she had to be available for him 24/7. I hate that he is idolized as real life Iron Man. He’s just a rich k… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 04:56 PM |
| 58 | Here for it! Level UP sis 👏👏👏It’s not about weight, ever! It’s about feeling and appreciating your self. Her whole demeanor in that photo screams, “ strong, independent, proud, accomplished, take no shit!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 04:00 AM |
| 28 | This is why you NEVER should send/post nudes. Scrotes will use it against you and ruin your life.And have more self respect to know that you don’t need the approval of strange men on the internet to feel good about yourself. I have a hard time believing that was a dare. I think she wanted validation. Which is how I was at 20. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 06:47 PM |
| 3 | A scrote proudly shaming women for having a period... wtf! Protect Yourselves Sisters 👯♀️This hurt me in the science. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 06:10 PM |
| 3 | Women has height preference on dating app. Man decides to shame her, tell her she is ugly, ginger, old and 'dosen't deserve a man'.“Not much going for you” Well he obviously matched with her if he was allowed to message her. 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 06:28 PM |
| 10 | Man astonished girlfriend wants to store things in her apartment; calls her fat and throws things awayThis is why I refuse to date any man over 5 years older than me. The power dynamic just shifts in their direction and they’re outright disrespectful. When I have dated men who were a year or two younger than me, it all changed. Besides, you have more in common with someone who is closer to your age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 06:00 PM |
| 4 | Myth: Beautiful Women Don’t Need A Dating StrategyIf anything looks attract the most predatory and shallow men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 12:13 AM |
| 48 | Forgot to unmatch after the first 'looking for company' comment, but then I would have missed this gem🙄He couldn’t even make himself presentable in his profile pic. Bye Felicia. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 08:55 PM |
| 11 | ThisMy SO isn’t into porn. But, and this is a big “but”, we’re both from absurdly religious families that teach you to believe that sex is actually satan. (Btw, we’re both atheists now, but the culture is still there) . We broke up for a short period of time years ago, and he still couldn’t get into it. He needed that intimacy component to achieve arousal, and still does. Otherwise, it’s just mechanics. I feel like that intimacy component is lost on a lot of men, because they’ve conditioned themselv… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 03:06 AM |
| 7 | LVM men have the nerve to cry over a woman “breaking their heart” and then turn around and do this.That’s 10x worse actually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 12:54 AM |
| 49 | LVM men have the nerve to cry over a woman “breaking their heart” and then turn around and do this.The chances of a woman reaching orgasm on a one night stand is very low. It has nothing to do with sex, it’s a validation thing. Also, a guy told me this is high school and it always stuck with me. “Some girls think, if he’s sleeps with me, that means I’m pretty. And if he cheats on his girlfriend, that means I’m prettier than her. When in reality we’ll fuck them whether they’re pretty or not.” Male depravity I know, but it taught me not to be easy very early on. That quick rush of validation is… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 07:36 PM |
| 31 | LVM men have the nerve to cry over a woman “breaking their heart” and then turn around and do this.Women who throw themselves at men are so cringe. Ugh. Have some goddamn self respect! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 07:29 PM |
| 15 | Kristen Bell's husband says "America's sweetheart has some character defects" in a live interview with her... thoughts?Girl needs to level up. She is too good looking and successful to stay with that piece of shit. Also, he is hideous. How is he on tv? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 07:13 PM |
| 8 | He should always make you FEEL like you are the most beautiful woman to him.I had an ex that did this. Would outright tell me I was ugly and inform me how much hotter my friends were. He did it intentionally to make me feel bad. Looking back, I was wayy to good for him across the board in every department. I only dated him because I was insecure and thought that he was the best I could get. He still hits me up every now and again, looking to “settle down”. Also, not sure if this is important, but he had a really small penis. Like around 4 inches, and thin enough that co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 10:43 PM |
| 5 | I want everything, I offer absolutely nothing.Can’t imagine why he hasn’t had a girlfriend in 10 years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 09:52 PM |
| 6 | What the meanest thing you’ve said to a guy who deserved it?Omg that happened to me once. He doxxed me so hardcore. He was asking about my friend that got killed in a drunk driving accident and everything. Then he would pepper in some “negs” here and there. Needless to say, my friend called with an “emergency”, and I had to leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 02:37 PM |
| 202 | Also, “I want a guy who is financially stable. I don’t wanna be some guys mom ” = Gold-digger🤨Btw, can we talk about how we’re supposed to look like instagram models, while our “appearance equal”, looks like a whole ass dumpster fire? There is no effort put into appearance for at least 80% of males. Then we spend thousands of dollars on; hair, makeup, gym memberships,and procedures. All of this to get a balding LVM. Who has a porn addiction, 8 fucking chins, and no income? Fuuuuuuck that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 05:27 AM |
| 23 | They ALWAYS come back👏Amen👏 Every guy I’ve dated, talked to,or even slightly expressed interest, came back. Even the ones that cheated and claimed they were “leveling-up” came crawling back. I took exactly 0 of them back. HVW shit! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 12:47 AM |
| 13 | I truly don’t understand all the hate this sub getsIt makes men look inward and have to confront themselves when they read fds. It’s like when people get shitty to vegetarians. It’s not that vegetarianism is evil. It’s that it makes the person insecure about their eating habits. (Not going on a vegetarian spiel, it’s just an analogy). It’s actual cognitive dissonance. They have to destroy it because it conflicts with their belief that every man is owed a beautiful woman, regardless of life style/choices. This belief has been constantly reinforce… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 11:56 PM |
| 40 | Men who string women along for sex are a special kind of evil.You're right. With social media, there is no excuse. They can literally get on Tinder and find someone to fuck on their lunch break. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 08:07 PM |
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