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| 2 | Why wait to hook up?No, not at all.. it’s just hurt people hurt people ya know??? Like you can do whatever you want and as long as you’re happy and ready for it and tge potential bullshit that accompanies it all then go right ahead.. don’t wait too long too but the rule of thumb is however your real relationship was that when it started meaning something special is usually how long it takes to work thru all the hurt and issues that came… that’s what I’ve had to understand and come to terms with.. and trust me, it’s… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/12/25 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Did she screw herself?Well number one. If she’s doing this shit to you then of course it’s going to count against her especially if you aren’t starting anything or doing anything antagonistic. Record record record. Write everything down from here on out, a notebook, times dates, what happened, what was said, and make sure you don’t get pulled into a fight if any type.. she is trying hard to get a rise from you to get the court on her side. Now, if she’s doing isn’t going to be able to be an adult and can’t communicat… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/11/25 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Dating after divorceLet that shit come at its own pace.. I’m in the exact same position and I’ve not had sex or physical contact with a woman in 5 years (part of the last two years of the relationship) and now on my own.. it sucks being alone sometimes but it’s better then stressing about if you’re good enough or if you an trust the girl won’t screw u over and you need to have your wits when out looking for love.. cause that shit will creep up on ya. So do you, take time for yourself and fall in love with making yo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/11/25 11:55 PM |
| 5 | Did anyone else experience a complete 180 like this before divorce?It can be sooo sooo SOO MUCH WORSE MAN, I thought that too.. I thought on the really bad days that “these are just the rough patches that all marriages go through and conquer when both sides each let go of the ego and anger..” 11 years of marriage, one daughter, three divorce filings (she would threaten me with divorce cause I would stand up for myself FINALLY on something, she’d leave take the baby, and file, then months down the road start the mind games to work every thing back into what she … | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/11/25 11:49 PM |
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