Who cares? If they have a problem with it they have to deal with it. Why do you care what someone else thinks about your love life? If you're happy with who you are with they shouldn't care how you met them.
"The single most important thing is to make him semi-attractive physically" That is the most disturbing thing I have heard someone say about a child. Make their personality attractive and thats pretty much all they need. If all they have going for them is looks, they will be very lonely.
I heard that she was asked by a local village to kill it because it was kicked out by its herd and was close to death so instead of letting it be eaten by wild animals they asked her to shoot it so they can eat it.