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| 1 | How to make a guy ask you out during his work?The reality is, as a woman, you have the social superiority. As bad as it may sound, as someone ordering food from them, you have social superiority as well. Like I did this weekend, after establishing myself, I flat out told a woman, "I think you are fantastic and rather attractive, why don't we turn our plans next week into an actual date.." You could do it. | /r/seduction | 03/11/15 04:21 PM |
| 2 | How to make a guy ask you out during his work?You are safe to flirt. Going out on a date with you represents a real issue for him if things go bad. i am sure there is a no dating customer policy. I never dated customers when I tended bar and waited tables, I did as a bouncer but only one night stands with out of towners (ID was from another state, etc) | /r/seduction | 02/11/15 08:35 PM |
| 2 | If looks don't matter, why does everyone tell me to go to the gym?I have struggled with this as well for a long time. Being an overweight lover, I approach with an immediate disadvantage. An interesting, confident woman, wants an interesting and confident man. You can spend your time working on your inner game, trying to accept your level of fitness. I have done this and it can work but it is tough. Working out is an easy way to develop a habit that can help you feel more confident. I also take martial arts, it isn't quite fitness based but I am way more aware… | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 02:44 PM |
| 1 | If looks don't matter, why does everyone tell me to go to the gym?Also changing your habits, can change your outlook. | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 02:37 PM |
| 1 | How do you flirt? I'm completely clueless, and don'te even know what "flirting" is. Help?All you need to know: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CiEjGtM6rnE Flirting is assisted by good banter. | /r/seduction | 03/09/15 04:29 PM |
| 3 | What should i do when i pick her up for a "first date?"Be you. If you are compelled to open the door, Open the door to the car. If you aren't don't. I am a bit old fashioned so I do that crap. There are rules I follow. Lady is first through a door, unless it is a revolving door. Guy walks on the side of the street on a sidewalk, A guy is last going up stairs, but first going down stairs, unless those stairs are big enough to walk together. Those are my rules though, they are part of who I am and what I am compelled to do. If you aren't genuine, they… | /r/seduction | 29/04/15 03:05 PM |
| 1 | How does a shy girl go about getting a one night stand?Allow yourself to smile..... and talk to them. You don't have to dress sexy exactly, but it does help (for my friend) to wear underwear that makes her feel sexy or powerful. You put those on and it doent matter if you are in a minidress or jeans, you will feel a little more confident. It also makes you think about others seeing you in just that. As I said before, smile, and talk to them. For a woman, being there is half the battle. | /r/seduction | 23/03/15 03:21 PM |
| 1 | At 26, is it too late for me to build a new network of friends?As a guy a few years further down the road. I will tell you that you will likely cycle friends out several times in your lifetime. You may not lose the others as you include new ones. | /r/seduction | 09/03/15 03:12 PM |
| 1 | I simply cannot fucking do it. Beating AA isn't happening for me.This is a day by day challenge that starts small and ends big. Try this. http://www.amazon.com/The-Stylelife-Challenge-Neil-Strauss/dp/B001E3BY5W | /r/seduction | 05/03/15 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Online Dating: Tinder has changed the game?Tinder is a shopping mall. My roommate gets a lot of dates but she has yet to have a satisfying date. | /r/seduction | 02/12/14 10:59 PM |
| 1 | How do I dance? (never been to a dance floor)Listen to dance-able music, all the time. When possible, dance. Move and even keep it simple. Practice dancing at the end of the beat or in the pocket of the beat. Move purposefully but relaxed, tension kills movement. Take a social dancing class, Swing, Soul, Blues, Tango. Swing/Blues/Jazz will give you a better basis for dancing in general as most modern movement in pop culture came from Blues swing and jazz dancing. Also social dancing will require you to meet a lot of women in one night as m… | /r/seduction | 23/10/14 04:29 PM |
| 8 | I'm 29 and got a girl's number....but she's only 18.Just be the same person she gave her number to. | /r/seduction | 07/10/14 03:36 PM |
| 2 | I'm constantly being berated by other "alpha" guys....and it's hilarious.In hindsight, if you want to cut him out in a situation like that "Wow yeah man you do have bigger arms than me, must be a lot of effort to get there.." You aren't disagreeing but you are framing the fact that he is the one trying hard between the two of you. Just a thought. | /r/seduction | 13/09/14 12:23 AM |
| 3 | I'm constantly being berated by other "alpha" guys....and it's hilarious.Yet you made a reference to his self pleasuring habits... you were trying to AMOG him at his own game. Seems like an attempt to laugh at his expense. | /r/seduction | 12/09/14 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Any tips on throwing house parties?It needs to be known, but not from you, that you run those parties. They will come to you. | /r/seduction | 09/09/14 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Starting a relatively small school (5k undergrad) next week. How do I game the first week but at the same time avoid being known as the creepy pick up guy?If her guy friend, who wants to date her as well, thinks you are cool, she will feel the same way. | /r/seduction | 19/08/14 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Starting a relatively small school (5k undergrad) next week. How do I game the first week but at the same time avoid being known as the creepy pick up guy?The friend zone is BS. It is rare that a woman will have a guy friend she finds attractive and worthy of dating and she won't. Hell if you tell her you are gay she will still hook up with you if she finds you attractive. Be the fun and interesting guy. Build a social circle, have good energy and hold cort at parties. The creepy guy on campus is the guy who fails to hook up. | /r/seduction | 18/08/14 05:53 PM |
| 1 | I place 95% of my self-worth on whether or not I can have sex with beautiful women. I have had two tinder dates in a row that just did not pan out into another date. My self-esteem is in the toilet. I once thought of myself as good at seduction but have lost all confidence recently. I'm stuck.You are in this for the wrong reasons. You need to work on some inner game and find new ways to define your value. | /r/seduction | 11/08/14 03:31 PM |
| 2 | What am I suppose to do on a date? Physically/etc.? Been with 5 girls so far on dates, want to make then one work. Help?Alcohol? Sounds a little rapey to me in the most frat boy of ways. I am all for having a good time but honestly it is almost like you are saying, "Bro if you get her drunk enough she might let you touch her bewbs man..." Alcohol to escalate is a crutch. Maybe I have higher expectations but I don't want my future girlfriend/wife telling people, "Yeah we went out one night, got wasted and ended up in bed together.." I want "By the end of the night, I had such a good time I wanted to jump him then,… | /r/seduction | 01/08/14 05:21 PM |
| 1 | What am I suppose to do on a date? Physically/etc.? Been with 5 girls so far on dates, want to make then one work. Help?Don't take her to a bar. Plan better. Take her to an activity. EVERYONE takes her to a bar/club/movie... Take her to a comedy show (so you can talk about the comedy show) take her to an activity, bowling, pool, indoor skydiving (so you can talk about the activity you are doing) Hell lead with that, take her to a quick art show early, then dinner, then you can talk about the activity you did before dinner to avoid the lul in conversation and also use the conversation as a segway into learning abo… | /r/seduction | 01/08/14 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Tinder and OkCupid have helped me meet many great women. Outside of these apps, my real world confidence, feelings of self worth, and motivation for self improvement have all plummeted. Seeking help from the wise minds in this sub.Chicago still seems to be the case, at least in some of the circles I run with. You are right about the screwing up part, but as my roommate once experienced, when she is on a mission to get laid, she is on a mission to get laid and when one guy showed up, probably high (contsantly biting his teeth, needing a viagra to work up, we called him Chompy after that) she still went through with it because she just wanted to screw her Ex away. Good stuff. | /r/seduction | 31/07/14 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Tinder and OkCupid have helped me meet many great women. Outside of these apps, my real world confidence, feelings of self worth, and motivation for self improvement have all plummeted. Seeking help from the wise minds in this sub.Tinder isn't online dating though. Tinder is online bootycalls. Tinder is a picture and an intention. You can talk all you want about how much game you spit out on something like tinder but from the women I know who use it, they don't care who you are, all they care about when they are trolling tinder: 1) do you fit the look they want 2) are you actually going to follow through with the hookup. OK Cupid, and the like are a little different as there are some who are looking for relationships or c… | /r/seduction | 31/07/14 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Tinder and OkCupid have helped me meet many great women. Outside of these apps, my real world confidence, feelings of self worth, and motivation for self improvement have all plummeted. Seeking help from the wise minds in this sub.Actually that is by your reasoning, which is sophomoric. Not to mention you certainly didn't have the ability to utilize the context of the rest of my post, maybe a paragraph and a half is beyond your TL:DR. So I will repeat it for you, in your context. If your sole purpose of being with your girlfriend is to just have sex, then yes. You don't have a girlfriend you have a fuck buddy at best protitute at worst. The PC argument doesn't hold, protitution requires the engagement of others to sexuall… | /r/seduction | 31/07/14 02:41 PM |
| -7 | Tinder and OkCupid have helped me meet many great women. Outside of these apps, my real world confidence, feelings of self worth, and motivation for self improvement have all plummeted. Seeking help from the wise minds in this sub.In some ways it is no different than prostitution. You aren't seducing them, you happen to be good enough to fill their needs that they are looking for and you know it. Do you have any hobbies, do you do anything other than pickup? 1) Hit the gym (something I have to do) 2) Take up a hobby (Might I suggest improv or a martial art) 3) Take up another hobby to make sure it is social 4) Work on your inner game, one thing I am looking at doing again is the stylelife challenge. 30 days of challenges … | /r/seduction | 30/07/14 09:33 PM |
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