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My wife and I got together at 25 and she was still a virgin, but she didn’t have any prior dating experience due to being in art school (female dominant) and an introvert. It can happen, but it’s just extremely rare
/r/TheRedPill28/07/26 10:19 PM
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I agree, I think that’s just natural biology though. IIRC there’s already large scale research out there saying that women are just naturally rated physically higher than men by both genders, sexual orientation, or cultures. I think they call it the “gender attractiveness gap”. IMO this is just natural selection at work. If you think about various animals, it’s quite common in nature for the biggest, toughest males to get all the females. Horses are the epitome of this where a single alpha male …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:33 PM
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> Even if 80% of women rate a man below average on a dating app, that still doesn’t establish an objective “true rating.” It establishes a statistical preference among a particular sample. I think you misunderstood the survey, the result is women in general rate 80% of men as below average in attractiveness; i.e if you put 100 photos of 100 different random men in front of a woman, she’ll say 80 of them are below average. This pattern was consistent across a few thousand women. So for a specific…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 03:11 PM
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Male for sure. My wife and I have good genes, and we want an athletic chad. We have a daughter and we’re really worried for her growing up in this world… Good looking women obviously get a lot of attention, and we’re worried she’s going to mix with the wrong crowd…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:11 AM
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I think you’re heavily overestimating the amount of men you swipe right on. The average woman swipes right only about 5~10% of the time, this will probably better illustrate where men are coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:32 PM
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How many times do you swipe left before you swiped right once? That’s what guys are referring to, at the end of the day, girls are going to reject the vast majority of guys due to looks. So whatever you’re saying here doesn’t matter to men, because men are looking at what’s the biggest determining factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 03:13 PM
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Why does it need distinction?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:23 PM
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Is the reverse not true too? The entire female population has to compete for the tiny number of men who put effort in themselves to be appealing to women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:53 PM
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So what? Why concern yourself with women like that? If you put in the work, you'll have plenty of options to choose who you want to be with. You can even go to a different country and be a passport bro too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:27 PM
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As someone who puts in a lot of effort to remain appealing to my wife, why is it torture? You should want to help yourself live a better life. A lot of the characteristics that women find attractive will drastically improve your overall quality of life, for example: career development, fitness, skin care, fashion, charisma, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 10:32 PM
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You might not think of them less as people, but you certainly thought they weren't good enough for you to give them a chance right? Now multiply that by 100... Imagine going out of your comfort zone and trying to approach 100 different women just to get rejected and given different excuses over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 05:34 PM
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You've been rejected once or only a few times, because let's be honest, most women RARELY if ever approach/pursue men. Even if they do, they still expect the man to take the lead after approaching. Whereas for most men, rejection is all that they know; they've experienced it their entire life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:45 PM
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People in their early 20s want to go out to party and “discover themselves”. Getting married young means you’re trying to start a family and once you have kids, it’s almost impossible to go out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:49 PM
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Haha okay, how about this one though? Link
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:14 PM
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Okay that one wasn’t the greatest example, but you can still tell that she was slightly looking down on him. Here’s a better example: link If you just do a simple search on YouTube, you’ll find so many examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:17 PM
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Here’s some video proof: clip from CUT There’s dating shows all over YouTube of women mocking men for being a virgin, and how they’ll NEVER date them or give them a chance etc. In my opinion, I think these women deep down feel contempt because they wish they weren’t as promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:41 PM
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My dude, two things. I preserved eggs a long time ago in case I ever wanted to have kids so if I wanted kids I already have that option. You might want to do a bit more research into this, from what I've heard online from people who've gone through this process, it's not a reliable method of conceiving whatsoever... There was one example of a woman who had roughly 8 eggs frozen, and 6 of them weren't even viable, and the last 2 failed. Two, my ovarian reserves are quite literally on the same lev…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:25 AM
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Having kids and being married isn’t all that I have to offer the world. I'm sorry, but if you're in your mid 40s and you're downplaying having kids, it just doesn't sound genuine at all, because that's not even a real option for you anymore. It's very easy to downplay something that you can't do, it just sounds like cope at this point. Having a stable, healthy marriage while raising healthy, mentally stable children is the greatest contribution to society any of us can offer to the world. The mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 03:13 AM
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Which part is red pill content?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:54 PM
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Having kids and being married isn’t all that I have to offer the world. Too bad this mindset isn't sustainable for society, and it's one of the biggest reasons that's causing the slow collapse of Western society. I always have to qualify with this statement. I am conventionally attractive and have not struggled in dating or even making friends. Give it some more years and as you reach your mid 30s-40s, and you'll start struggling and it'll be too late to do anything about it...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:57 PM
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Yes except many women didn't have the privelage to not work. Throughout women very much did work besides their dometic duties. What you are talking about is very much is a thing in American history, which is quite funny because the lack of work turned a lot of house hold women insane (housewife syndrome). For most of human history, most people were farmers, so both parents definitely had to put in a lot of hours on the farm. The heavier, more labor-intensive work were generally tasked to men whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 05:39 AM
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imbalance in financial stability Okay, let's talk about this... Is it not a privilege to not have to work and be able to spend your time at home with your family or kids? Yes, there's a downside of not having your own "financial stability", but the trade off for financial stability is having to slave away at a job... If you look online regarding this topic, there's actually a huge group of women who are complaining about having to work, and they wish had a man who would provide for them instead.…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 06:47 PM
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A good example of this would be that women weren't allowed to own a credit card without their father, brother or husband co-signing it. From what I recall, the women of that time was actually very approving of these policies. It was a privilege to not own credit cards, it meant that you couldn't be legally held accountable for debts. Not being able to own land and subsequently not able to be drafted meant that you weren't tasked with defending your land or country too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:41 PM
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You’re moving the goal post, first it’s ‘woman don’t like cold approaches from any man’, and now it’s ‘attractive men don’t need to approach’… Have you been in any male groups? What you’re saying is so far off from reality… If you’ve ever met any attractive fuck boy types, you’ll know that they would cold approach any girl that they find attractive, and have relatively good success rates… racking up body counts in the triple digits…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:51 PM
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Dude, if cold calling was a successful sales tactic it wouldn’t be grunt work assigned to the lowest of the low sales people. The reason it has a low success rate is because you’re disturbing busy people in the middle of their day to pitch a product they don’t give a fuck about. Your whole logic here is flawed, because you're assuming she has no interest to begin with, and would therefore feel disturbed when cold approached. However, there's obviously going to be a small percentage of men that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 08:03 PM
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LOL do you honestly believe that? Rules are only enforced for people that they don’t find attractive or only moderately attractive. Everyone, both male and female, break rules constantly for good looking people, and the better looking they are, the less boundaries people are willing to put up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 10:29 PM
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I would call 6%-7% small If you think about it, 6-7% isn't a small quantity of women at all. Let's assume since they're doing it frequently, that's about 3-4 dates a month, in this scenario, they'd easily waste the vast majority of available men's time within a few months... In addition to that, this doesn't even take consideration of the women who only do this occasionally... As more and more men's time get wasted, they're less likely invest more time, money and energy into dating and courting …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:13 AM
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You also get exclusivity unlike with sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:35 PM
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There's no way it's just natural... There's a reason why some men get an insane amount of attention from women and have almost never faced rejection in their life, while most men get close to no attention from women. There are some physical features that are clearly sought after by most women, i.e height, athletic build, strong jaw line, facial symmetry, etc. The fact that these features are judged means that there's some sort of cost-benefit analysis going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 11:26 PM
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It's normal to have a crush on someone and then try to start something. Right, so in order to develop a crush on someone in the first place, you'd need to find him attractive in some way right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 09:46 PM
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I don't think people don't believe it, they just don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:35 PM
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I think you're talking about sprinting before even knowing how to walk... A cost benefit analysis definitely happens well ahead of love in relationships; women definitely analyze men and what their 'package' includes, i.e 'is he financially successful, or at least has direction in life?', 'is he physically intimidating, do I feel protected with him?', 'is he socially adjusted?', etc. In my opinion, women only date men that they feel have passed their total package threshold. In addition, differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:17 PM
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I'd argue that this insecurity is hardwired in men and not something we can just "work on overcoming", just like how most people are hard wired to find obesity unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 11:57 PM
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Agreed, steamed broccoli is also an amazing option!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:43 PM
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LOL I didn’t know offering a different perspective is now a red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:40 PM
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Are you saying you have red flags or me?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:16 PM
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Kind of ironic that you’re doing the same thing 😆 Maybe you have a very dominant personality which is why you’re so against this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:12 PM
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That just sounds like they’re offering you a different perspective but they lack tact
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:04 PM
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If you boil broccoli for a decent amount of time (maybe 5+ minutes), it literally has the texture of mush. I usually just season it with soy sauce to cover the taste
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:01 PM
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Did you grow up in the ghetto or a developing country? I grew up in lower middle class Canada, and haven’t seen it heard of any domestic violence, rape, or dying from child birth…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 01:59 AM
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Scammed into thinking they’re talking to the content creator, but in reality, they’re talking to some minimal wage workers trained to pretend they’re the content creator. I’m sure there are more scams in the industry, such as getting “custom content” that wasn’t custom.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 08:01 PM
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Being a chad isn’t easy… If it were easy, we’d see a lot more chads around…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:46 AM
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Except by the time you're 30, all of the 'good men' have already found and locked down the good women... For the few 'good men' that are left, you're competing with girls in their 20s while in your 30s...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:19 PM
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I want a private jet and to live in a NYC penthouse but I understand that I don't get every little thing my heart desires. If more women thought like you, then we wouldn't have so many problems in the dating market... For example, one of the biggest gripes I see women complain online about is "men are trash, they all cheat!" Although I do agree there are definitely plenty of men that cheat, however I also think that a lot of women tend to pick the tall, attractive, fuckboys... Respectfully, do y…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 07:38 PM
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The fact that most women want men who make 6 figures (top ~20%)? I think you missed the whole point that women don’t want men with average financial circumstances…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:31 PM
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That sucks bro... I'm sorry to hear that. Women on average are definitely a lot better at picking up social cues. I believe it's an evolutionary trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:28 PM
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Sex is just sex. There’s nothing sacred about it. Yeah, when you've been with a plethora of partners it does become "just sex"; you've lost the ability to pair bond properly, but ask someone who's a virgin or has traditional values with only a small number of partners in long term relationships, and chances are sex isn't just sex to them. Iirc, we all release hormones that bond us to our sexual partners, women especially, so when you're ran through, you can kind of see where the problem lies... …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:04 PM
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He could NOT care less. Did you fully disclose that you were sleeping around? I'd highly doubt he doesn't care at all, most men that can get good options tend to choose good looking, non-promiscuous women with little to no past/trauma; especially for marriage. In addition, it still doesn't change what I said in the first half of the comment. It would only improve a woman's future relationship/marriage, if she choses to remain non-promiscuous. In my opinion, women advocating or promoting other wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:41 AM
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Agreed, I've read some posts on there, and it's actually disgusting to read... To put it simply, the posts that are celebrated are posts that talk about self improving so they can casually have sex with as many women as possible (i.e spinning plates), and then in the same breath, complain that women are not marriage material or have wifey characteristics... As if they had any intentions of being a husband in the first place... It feels very similar to how feminism has evolved into hating men ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:31 PM
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It's simple, you don't need to be ran through to have a healthy relationship; it's not a requirement nor does it help in anyway. In my opinion, women often use hoe phases instead of therapy to heal from their emotional trauma; you use it because it's easy to "fill the void" temporarily, but nothing in this world that comes that easily is generally good for you. I personally, had a small-ish hoe phase after my 1st ex and I split. For example, if you were to tell your husband that you slept around…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 12:14 AM
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I'd argue that you didn't need a hoe phase to eventually end up where you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:41 PM
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That study is not true and way overused on this forum. I think it's used because it's so true; how many times have you seen women online say something along the lines of: he wasn't my type at ALLLLL, but I gave him a chance, and now I'm sooooo in love with him and I find him attractive now. I don't think there's anything wrong with this mentality, I think it makes sense biologically. If you look at nature, the biggest males always gets to mate with all the females. We're still animals at the end…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:25 AM
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The problem here is that you're calling someone with all of those characteristics "NORMAL"... Look around you, the average person isn't very physically attractive. For you to find someone attractive, they'd have to be at least 70th percentile (I'm being generous here since you're saying they weren't ugly but decent). Studies show that women find 80% of men as "below average" in looks, so by limiting yourself to men that you find physically attractive, that's already aiming pretty high. The avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:58 AM
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I never wanted a top guy. I wanted a financially stable guy (not rich) that I was attracted to... that had decent character and a personality that meshed with mine. Translation: I didn't want a top guy, but I was looking for one. You're literally describing a top guy, while simultaneously saying you're not looking for one... You can't be serious with this level of delusion...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:08 PM
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there'd be a very small number because of the relative heights of men and women. I agree with this, however if you're going to claim that: but in reality, it rarely matters It really shouldn't be as rare as it is. you're not likely to notice that two people are the same height or close. I disagree because for me personally, seeing these types of couples are like seeing rare Pokemon out in the wild haha I'm in a relationship where the man is shorter Good on you! Your relationship is like a legend…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 07:35 PM
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but in reality, it rarely matters Really?... Think about when you're out in public, how often do you see couples where the man was shorter than the woman or even the same height? In terms of shorter, I have maybe seen less than 10 my entire life, whereas I have seen countless couples where the man was taller. In terms of the same height, it's definitely more common than shorter but still extremely rare; especially since a lot of women that like wearing heels. In terms of earning money, out of al…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:55 PM
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I agree that a lot of female dominant subreddits are filled with a lot of misandry. Like it or not, Reddit is part of mainstream media now, and IIRC there have been Reddit admin DM leaks where they talked about the double standards and not banning misandry related content.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:24 PM
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That isn't too big of a demand until you start asking more detailed questions, such as "do you prefer him to be taller? By how much? Do you prefer him to make more than you? By how much?" In addition, IIRC there are studies that show women rate 80% of men as below average in physical attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:37 PM
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There's wayyyyyy too many cases of women wayyyyyy valuing themselves. I don't think it's necessarily all their own fault though, society and upbringing definitely plays a huge part too: i.e social media (unlimited attention from men/simps), mainstream media (female empowerment: how many times have you heard women be blatantly misandry and are cheered for it?), movies and shows all pedestalizing women or the main female lead etc. A lot of women seem to have this perfect, imaginary man in their he…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:26 PM
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I think at all know what purity and feminism are huh? I am proud to say we disagree. What are you even proud of? You haven't said anything... She has obviously not researched that movement enough to understand what led to it and why it was a logical reaction. You clearly have no idea what you're talking about... LOL What is feminism needed for in the West today? Women have more rights than ever, even more so than men. In the past there was a case for feminism because women couldn't vote, but the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 07:14 PM
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that these topics wouldn’t be what he was posting; we can see his post history. So you're not even commenting based on what the post is saying... Assuming no one cheats, purity is what it is and stays the same I think you're confused, when men talk about purity, it refers to her past before a potential relationship. Essentially, men tend to avoid women who have a promiscuous past, because it generally leads to bad outcomes and I think it's just built into us biologically (which explains why the …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:02 PM
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Your comment just further illustrates what I was saying in my original reply... You're not even commenting based on what you read, you're commenting based on how it makes you feel, making your comments come off as extremely incoherent and quite frankly doesn't even make any sense. if his goal is to date more women, he might be making it harder for himself When did OP ever say anything that alludes to him wanting to date more women? The topic is about JustPearlyThings and how she's viewed by men …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:37 AM
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I disagree with everything you just said, and here are some of the issues I see: she was saying women are pure enough for men anymore... but as a woman, there are a lot of men who don’t hate us. I believe what you were referring to was the point that modern women want traditional outcomes (i.e high earning man who provides for the family so the woman doesn't necessarily have to work, she's able to choose), but she herself is not traditional (i.e virgin bride etc.). Notice how instead of listenin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:57 PM
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LOL as an Asian, it's usually joked in the Asian community that you can't ever date while in school, but as soon as you graduate, you're asked where is the husband/wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:31 PM
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From my anecdotal experience, it's not that women don't care about a man's feelings (assuming a serious relationship), but it's that most people are not very emotionally intelligent, which is why I think so many relationships have issues with communication. This comes off to people as "they don't care about me", but in reality they just don't know how their partner feels and their partner doesn't do a good enough job telling them too. In my opinion, men don't share their feelings enough in gener…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:01 AM
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I think that's fair, but I think you're getting a bit off topic. Your original concern was regarding whether or not a man's looks matters, and it clearly does, even by your own comment: so do most women who get used for sex without the emotional connection. The fact that they had sex without the emotional connection means that they were attracted to the genes and looks, they're just frustrated that they didn't get the emotional connection as well. This means that looks was the first test followe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:20 PM
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I'll bite: Women can get relationships and sex a lot easier than men, i.e they can open their legs for the man with a 6pack and get sex even if she isn't physically on her level. This explains why you don't see it in magazines, and why "average at best" women nowadays tend to have such humongous egos. What women really want is drama and affirmation, which is why you see nothing but drama, horoscopes, and the current trending positivity movement in magazines.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:25 AM
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As an attractive man (I've been complimented on my looks by strangers countless times), I don't think we're struggling... It might not work every time, but it certainly isn't hard. When I was seriously chasing girls, I've only been rejected once or twice in my adulthood. Granted I didn't cold approach much, I didn't need to. I think confidence and charm/game (i.e how well can you navigate a conversation?) plays a huge role though. Luckily I think I'm pretty emotionally intelligent, probably beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 02:11 AM
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You forget that they're referring to physically good looking guys that don't have their shit together. Not some random lossless virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:12 AM
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If you're interested, you should look up the history of Tinder, it's pretty interesting. It was literally made by some dudes from some college dorm that wanted an easy way to hook up with girls. It spread like wildfire in the college scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:05 AM
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Why would I insinuate that? There are definitely couples that result from Tinder, I know of one myself, but those are outliers. Let's be honest, Tinder isn't known or built for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:44 AM
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Why are you using Tinder, a notorious hookup app, as your example for dating apps? Why not base your experiences on actual dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 03:45 PM
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The most basic principle of nature is survival of the fittest, and you certainly don't sound fit at all. So yes, it is your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 08:41 PM
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Is it low T? I view it as mature, because I'm communicating exactly how I feel and what I want openly, and I try to reduce the pressure on them by telling them to take their time to consider it. For reference, my wife and ex were both rated at least an 8 or 9 by all of my friends, and they were both virgins in their 20s. In fact, my wife was an ex model, and had been scouted multiple times walking around downtown.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:13 PM
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No offense taken, you probably wouldn't be my type anyways if that's how you felt. My approach is very formal because when I was single, I only looked for serious, long-term relationships, and I was never on the market for long. I don't flirt unless I've already formally established that I'm interested in the person and they're still sticking around.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:02 PM
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Unless you're referring to getting more action from multiple women as a player/fuckboi, then I disagree, there are tactful ways to cross boundaries that don't involve forcing your way in like an AH. For example, if you're interested in a woman that you're close with and have been hanging out with often, you can simply tell her that you're interested, something along the lines of: Hey, it's been really fun spending time with you, and I've really enjoyed your companionship. I find myself becoming …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:37 PM
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Yes, contrary to the belief of 'nice guys', being polite and a gentleman is positively viewed by women. Although this doesn't mean that good looking AHs don't get any action.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 01:57 PM
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Ever been to the men's bathroom? Pay attention to how many people actually wash their hands, I mean like fully wet them, soap, and rub & rinse. I'd estimate about only < 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:50 AM
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There's an hierarchy to what's important, and looks is obviously at the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:15 PM
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I disagree, prior to the 21st century most marriages were arranged my the parents so the most important factor in my opinion is probably familial wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:11 PM
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Agreed, I don't think the original commenter put much thought into his/her idea, but was just trying to virtue signal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:20 AM
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You clearly don't watch his content, please stop making stuff up, and misrepresenting him by coming to your own conclusions. He has said on multiple occasions that men will have flings with overweight women, but their standards for a wife is obviously different. So if a woman is looking for a husband, she needs to make herself competitive by being at a normal weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 03:16 PM
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You're getting off topic, you're talking about individual relationships, whereas OP is talking about society as a whole. In an ideal world, we'd have a high amount of happy marriages with a sustainable birthrate. We have neither of those two factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 06:20 PM
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Although I agree that there are some women that put in a lot of effort to look pretty and presentable, the obesity rates in America is the second highest in the world. The vast majority of women are either overweight or could be considered chubby. There's barely any women that are even close to an actress's level of fitness or body fat percentage. This is why we see so many posts from women where as soon as they lose the weight, they're already way above average in terms of looks, and get a lot …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:33 PM
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every relationship like that seems like an opportunity and like a metric to measure your own appeal against. In my opinion, I think this is just a difference between how most men and women view relationships; as men, I would argue that we're sort of 'wired' to chase attractive mates to a certain extent, whereas most women will often take a much more passive approach to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 02:46 PM
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Think of modeling agencies the same as escort agencies who have a roster of women under them, they're essentially the "pimps" in these transactions. So with an agency in play, the transaction usually looks something like this: rich guy with connections sees some models he likes, then tells the agency that he has a gig for those models, but he wants to "meet" them first. The agency then goes to the girls and says "Hey I have a great opportunity for you guys! This [executive] from [company] wants …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:48 PM
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If their family isn't selling them then their family is probably wealthy themselves and have the connections. In order to get good gigs, you have to have connections; there are thousands of beautiful models out there, they're not exactly a rare commodity. Basically what I'm saying is that someone has to provide the connections that provide jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:02 PM
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The entire modeling industry is just high class escorting. You don't "make it" in the modeling industry without a sponsor(s).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 11:28 PM
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Isn't that the opposite of low value male? i.e having money, assets, and status?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 05:12 PM
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then why are you immediately asking if they were a doormat? Generally, the situation takes time to develop and is a collection of experiences instead of just one instance of being taken advantage of. There are generally early tells or signs that people ignore, and over time the boundary of what's acceptable just keeps getting pushed until it inevitably gets pushed too far. In my opinion, part of being more mature means that you're able to recognize shitty behavior early on, communicate your disc…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 04:50 AM
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I'm not excusing their behavior, in my case she was clearly messed up for doing something like that to me, but I also overlooked a lot of red flags due to inexperience. Essentially, I'm saying we have a responsibility to ourself to keep ourself safe from being taken advantage of. You can only be taken advantage of if you agree to something in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 03:34 AM
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What percentage do you think it's their fault for being toxic or your fault for being a doormat? When I was younger, the girl I lost my virginity to told me to keep our relationship a secret so she can date around behind my back. She eventually found someone and announced it to mutual friends who had no idea her and I had a thing. It was a sad experience... However, reflecting on the situation now that I'm older, I realized I was just being a doormat and agreeing to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 12:37 AM
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LOL bro take a deep breath and go touch some grass. You sound like you need and time off of Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 05:16 PM
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I think you're confused. Women want exactly what the manosphere thinks they want, which is what the orginal commenter said as well: an alpha who acts like a simp/beta for them specifically; having someone who's supposedly "high value" simp for them will boost their own egos. You've described exactly that in your post too, but I think you're getting confused because women do want alphas irl, but alphas will never simp for them like they do in these fictional novels.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 02:05 PM
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Then that's not an alpha at all That's why it's only a fantasy. Like you said in your post, a true Alpha isn't going to be a beta to some random basic b****. These books were written to appeal to the average woman, it's not representative of men's actual behavior. Billionaires are still going to have his pick of supermodels.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 01:51 PM
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Why do you think this type of behavior is unique to men? Women do this all the time too?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:22 PM
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What are you referring to? When men cat call in public?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 11:15 PM
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What's wrong with men announcing what we like? It's not like women don't have shallow preferences too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:59 PM
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I don't think the amount of effort required is that vastly different for men and women. If you're strictly talking about losing weight and getting toned, the majority of the work is diet based and not workout based. So with that being said, eating clean isn't that different between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 10:57 PM
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Let's say you meet a guy in his mid to late 20s with 0 relationship and sexual experience, you wouldn't think that's a bit weird? There's usually a reason why someone is perpetually single, and I feel like people are in general suspicious/curious by nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 02:47 PM
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Like I said, it's only hypergamy for me to decline a retail worker if I'm also one. I don't understand your logic here?... You declining a retail worker is practicing hypergamy irrespective of whether or not you're a retail worker yourself, no? Men also practice similar behavior as well but just with looks instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/21 02:19 AM
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And ruined by their generation's monetary policies. Life is much harder the later you're born. Jobs nowadays require far more qualifications, and cost of living is through the roof. Materialism is just a byproduct of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/21 12:41 PM
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Believe it or not, there are well adjusted, healthy women in the world, they just get picked quickly and stay in commited LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 07:39 PM
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This type of manipulative behavior only works on low self esteem, self worth or emotionally tramautized individuals that are most likely codependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 07:10 PM
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Bro... Who hurt you? 🙁 You good?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 07:01 PM
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LOL it seems like you're completely missing the point by a mile and you're stubbornly refusing to even consider another point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:34 PM
1

Ruined 2 as in you were the one with high n-count and they got turned off or the other way around? What do you consider high n-count?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 12:48 AM
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You know what they say, one man's trash is another man's treasure!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 01:06 PM
10

People pay for OnlyFans because they get to interact with the ethots, a lot of desperate, lonely men in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:20 PM
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Oh we did have premarital sex, I meant she was a virgin before dating me. I think sexual chemistry like many other things in life takes a lot of time and effort to create and maintain. Both parties has to be invested in the pleasure of the other party for this it to work. I'm East Asian, however I don't think it's the race that's the most important factor, imo I think it's mostly about family background. I guess Asians tend to have more traditional households but at the same time, it can also cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:47 PM
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No, neither of us are religious. We're just both from traditional households that promote serious relationships. I remember when I was single and still lived with my parents, I brought over different female friends occasionally and my mother talked to me about how this was bad. My wife is an introvert and was very 'onguard' when she was single. She gets hit on pretty often, but would always subtly reject them because they weren't her type or somewhat play hard to get (i.e needs someone to take c…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:59 PM
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Too true! I've noticed this trend too. The top comment nowadays is always someone trying to sound wise and sophisticated by saying a bunch of generic non-sense that doesn't answer any particular question or take a particular stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 05:21 PM
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As a guy who just recently married a "good girl" with no sexual past (virgin), I'm hoping to never end up on r/deadbedrooms. Currently, our sexual chemistry has been good throughout our entire relationship (just over 3 years), and I'd say her sex drive is slightly higher than mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 08:45 PM
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There's also another possibility that some people just aren't desperate for sex because there is no scarcity. When I was single, sex wasn't something that I prioritized because it wasn't hard to get. Instead, it's much harder to find a partner that has all of the ideal characteristics and personality traits that I'm looking for. For example, wanting to actively stay in good physical shape, happy go lucky attitude, introverted, low n-count, submissive, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 04:31 PM
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When I was single, I wouldn't say it's as extreme as wanting sex immediately, that just sounds like you're coming from a position of desperation and scarcity. Instead, I'd say that hanging out with more attractive people is just more enjoyable in general, even if it's just conversation. The baseline enjoyment is much higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 02:34 PM
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Wtf are you talking about? Clearly you know nothing about weight lifting. One of the greatest weightlifters of all time, arguably the goat, is Chinese and his name is Lu Xiaojun. Facially, he's handsome AF and body-wise he's pretty much unmatched aesthetically.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/21 08:18 PM
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In that case, its impossible for him to “love himself” because he has no reason to. This is where you're wrong. You don't need the validation from others to be able to love yourself, rather you can derive your confidence from yourself by being good at what you love to do. Whether that is a hobby or skill, if you're able to hone your craft to a level that is much higher than the average person, you'll slowly start to turn heads and get the validation that you're referring to. For example, if you …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 02:15 PM
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As an above average looking guy that never had any issues dating, it's always so sad to hear that average guys are having such trouble finding a partner. Part of me feels like maybe the average guy just isn't putting in that much effort into himself or his search, alternatively, they could just be putting effort in the wrong direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 09:03 PM
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3 is redundant because it's already covered in 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:17 PM
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No, it's not an improvement, it's basically going from 1 problem to the next. The whole "yesssss Queen!" mentality is harmful because it builds people's confidence on a foundation made of sand and mud. Personal fulfillment and self confidence needs to be derived from their own personal success and hard work. Simply calling oneself a queen to artificially boost their confidence makes people arrogant, and is akin to living inside of a glass house.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 01:01 AM
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That's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 12:29 AM
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You're missing the point about the question, it wasn't about exactly how much he can bench, the point of the question was to ask if OP is in shape and/or muscular enough. If you're lifting regularly, you're obviously going to have a muscular body that women are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:05 PM
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I've seen data for the age preference of both sexes and your claim isn't true at all. Men prefer women around their age until their early 20s and their preference remains at early 20s continuously. Women prefer men around their age their entire lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 12:49 PM
12

I'm probably gonna regret asking but what's a pXdX?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:50 PM
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I apologize for the harshness of this comment beforehand. The bitterness in this comment chain reeks of FDS. This sounds like the female version of r/niceguys; i.e "I'm so great (beautiful, great career, very educated etc.), these guys don't want me because they're just too intimidated/scared etc." vs "I'm such a nice guy, all these b**** only want chads/AHs". This is very true. The guys that I wanted to approach me never did, they were too afraid. Have you ever considered that maybe it's not ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 05:51 PM
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You clearly don't know the modeling industry. Models "make it" by being chosen and sleeping with very wealthy, affluent men. You just don't hear about it because it's the equivalent of hush money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 05:47 PM
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water is wet ... can you give a single reason why water is wet? Are you serious right now? Have you had any form of education at all? Water is not inherently wet; wet is an adjective used to describe a solid that is covered by a liquid(s). So water as a liquid cannot be described as wet. it is inherent in nature that every human beeing has the same value. its just how the world works... capitalism kinda skewed that. This is not how the world works currently with capitalism, nor has it ever been …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 03:51 PM
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Did you even read anything that I wrote? You don't make any sense and still haven't said anything of substance, after 3 or 4 replies now, you still haven't given a single reason as to why "no one is a better human being". This is why people like you are so ignorant of the damage you cause. You constantly say bs fluff that have zero substance to artificially boost people's egos based off of fluff instead of actual merit. If you want to help people, at least do some research. Logically speaking, y…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 01:29 PM
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I remember seeing your username a couple of times in this sub now, so I'm kind of curious about your situation. So here are some questions if you're willing to answer: What do you think is causing you to be unsuccessful with women? Do you pursue casual or serious relationships? Do you have any platonic female friends? Do you max out your stats physically?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 04:36 AM
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it doesnt make them a better human beeing. Why not? You haven't said anything of substance, just because you said the same thing 4 or 5 times in a row, doesn't mean it justifies itself. The problem with your logic is that you're using the term "better" which inherently means that you're comparing two items in some sort of category, but your chosen category is just existence which isn't a category. What does "they aren't better human beings" even supposed to mean? They were most likely better loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 04:25 AM
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How does someone getting better treatment not make them "better"? Everyone receives only what they have leverage for. What are you even talking about? What do you even mean when you say it doesn't make them "better"?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:29 PM
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As a man, I think this is probably by far the worst take I've read in this thread. The original thread you're commenting on literally contradicts what you'e saying. Maybe you're too young and haven't been out in the real world, because the real world isn't a happy utopia where everyone is treated equally and fair. Pretty/handsome privilege is absolutely a real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 09:09 PM
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Looks are forever too. You're literally choosing the genetics for your offspring, so what's wrong with maximizing the chances to have good looking kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 01:38 AM
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It's sad to think about how more than a third of all first marriages fail to last.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 09:27 AM
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i think usually men (and people in general actually) value sex too much to not want to improve or help their partners improve Unfortunately, there's no shortage of egotistical or selfish people in this world who only care about themselves; so yes, they will want to improve their sex lives but only really for themselves. It's very common to hear stories of men who only care to get themselves off and leave their partner frustrated. On a somewhat seperate note you might find interesting, here's why…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 09:25 AM
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There's also a statistic that more than half of all marriages end in divorce too unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 06:08 AM
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What?... Nobody asked, you simply stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 06:05 AM
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You sound really mature for a 19 yo. I hope you're able to keep true to yourself and navigate this crazy world without losing track of what you described. The only thing I'd add to your outlook is that sex can't always be improved; I think it's mostly dependent on if both you and your partner are willing to put in the effort to improve or not. There are plenty of people that are very stubborn or stuck in their ways. So proper vetting is very important.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 06:00 AM
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You guys realize you're talking about hypotheticals that you can't obtain right? Beggars can't be choosers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 05:39 AM
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She was probably hanging out with another guy(s) when she forgot/was busy. If she doesn't value you enough to miss two of your meetings, she's definitely not worth investing your energy into. Save yourself the heartache and games.
/r/seduction01/04/21 01:56 PM
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Thank you, I know and understand that communication is key, but in my case I never met any of my past and current relationships through online dating, so we were always platonic friends for a varying degree of time before dating. The process of how I became official with them were always similar; we'd already be platonic friends already, we start hanging out alone more often, I'd tell them I'm interested in becoming more than friends (at this point I consider it dating) to which they'd almost al…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 06:27 PM
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No, I don't but in general I don't have to because of the type of women I pursue. For my specific situation, I tend to only go for the introverted, reserved beauty types, and luckily for me, they tend to not have much sexual experience. My current and last relationships were both virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 05:53 PM
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the only men who have such rigid requirements are the ones those women would be utterly uninterested in in the first place I think part of it is a coping mechanism. I've had some guy friends in the past who weren't successful with women, but still have ridiculous standards for women. I think this helps them justify their shortcomings by having something other than themselves to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 02:33 PM
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From what I hear, this isn't true for a lot of women. For women, attraction can build over time as they get to know a dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 02:20 PM
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"don't hook up and have casual sex" advice. Don't hook up as in don't commit to a partner and have casual sex with multiple people? Am I understanding this right? Sounds like pretty terrible advice. You don't care to understand because you are too focused on demonizing it It's literally impossible to try to understand FDS as a man, because you know... They straight up ban all men... How are we supposed to "care to understand" it? I write 1 comment and I'm instantly perma-banned... it advocates f…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 01:39 PM
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Wait what are you talking about? Is it not a typical for women to suggest having multiple side dudes to have sex with while dating around for husband material? What is it that we're misunderstanding? You're explanation is extremely vague. I've personally read several posts and comments that detail exactly what I said above, and for men, we obviously don't have incentive to understand anything about FDS because they literally ban anyone who they deem to be a man. I don't understand how Reddit has…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 01:25 PM
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As a man who doesn't date casually (only looking for serious relationships), if I found out that my date was sleeping with other men while dating me, I'd end it immediately. I view it as a sign of respect and an indicator of if they're serious about me or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 01:16 PM
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What is he making up? Seems very stereotypical FDS to me?...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 01:07 PM
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No I'm not saying your friendships are wrong, rather I'm trying to give you a suggestion to try to share your feelings with people once in a while, because it seems to me that your masculine bravado is holding you back. If you're going through a hard time, try ranting to a friend or two, whether or not you actually do it is obviously up to you. Who are you to decide how I should conduct my friendships? I'm not telling you how to conduct your friendships, rather I'm telling you that your viewpoin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 08:19 PM
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In terms of specific details, I care about whether or not they're doing well in terms of their health, living conditions, finances, etc. If they're struggling with something in their lives, I try to help where I can by offering advice or simply by just listening to their rants.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 07:16 PM
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So, the only men you know are NiceGuys(TM)? No, I specifically referred to "men who see the 'futility of male & female friendships". I'm not a NiceGuy(TM). And no, you put in work in being an actual friend, and still do most of it. Has nothing to do with chasing pussy. For someone who claims he's not a nice guy, you sure do show a lot of nice guy tendencies, such as claiming to be friendzoned, "futility of male & female friendships", women not doing anything for you etc. For women it is. But tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 07:03 PM
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There are men who see the futility of male female "friendship" but also the value of a relationship with a woman. *Raises hand... Companionship with a woman I'm fucking is way different from "companionship" with a woman who already friendzoned me, or even a woman who genuinely offers real friendship (lol). The problem I commonly see with men who see the "futility of male & female friendships" is that the man never genuinely pursued a real friendship in the first place. They only pursued a friend…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 04:25 PM
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What?... Those are not just people, I wouldn't randomly just spend time with strangers, rather I choose to spend time with people that I care for and that care about me too; i.e there's mutual affection. The people that I'm talking with on the phone weren't just random numbers I dialed, we have each other's contact information stored because we care for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 03:38 PM
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There's a wide variety of relationships that can be considered friendships with varying degrees of 'clossnees'. The simplest way I can define it is just two people who spend time with eachother while enjoying each other's company. For example, I personally have some female friends that I talk to once in a while over the phone (less in person nowadays due to covid) just to catch up on each other's lives. With some other closer female friends, we would exchange homemade food occasionally and do ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 01:28 PM
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Just because you don't see value in something doesn't mean it doesn't exist. To each their own. No need to be willfully ignorant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 01:12 PM
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Must have hit a soft spot when I called you nothing but a fake fuck boy huh? It sucks to be reduced to something so simple & insignificant when you've tried so hard to put on such a strong front: Entrepreneur, board certified cosmetic surgeon, and health and fitness freak. I have worked hard to become semi retired, semi by choice because I love doing what I do but only on my terms. Financially independent before 35. Not married, no kids. Harem of women all over the world from Asia to Europe. You…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/21 11:22 PM
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I'm assuming you are a fellow medical colleague. No I'm not, but it's extremely easy to spot a narcissist in the wild; your quick, fake acknowledgement & gratitude of my criticism along with your immediate dismissal of it was telling enough, i.e why thank me, if you're claiming that my criticism was worthless? Again practice what you preach, if you're telling people to be honest, don't be as fake as the "worthless" women you seem to despise.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/21 09:39 PM
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Classic narcissistic response, well played
/r/TheRedPill21/03/21 08:45 PM
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I don't understand the purpose of this post. There's way too many hypocritical points for it to make any logical sense at all. It just seems like a bunch of bs humble brag, along with some non-sensical rants about female "worth". First of all, your ramblings about female worth is just plain hypocritical. The average woman in the west is totally worthless so if they don't give you the time of day or some incentive OTHER THAN PUSSY So let me get this straight, you're claiming/complaining that plat…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/21 07:24 PM
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I'm curious, are you in shape yourself or exercise often?
/r/seduction16/03/21 02:59 AM
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Aww I'm sorry to hear that... Do you open up easily to people? This is a common theme I see in friends that don't have much success in dating; they generally don't open up about themselves enough and don't inquire enough about their dates too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 09:20 PM
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Not even a small queue lol. Wow that's extremely surprising considering how you're on OLD. Do you have any kids or some obvious major red flag (it might be hard for you see it yourself though)? From my experience, people from smaller cities in Canada are often older and have families already or younger and lower quality, so that might affect your chances too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 06:57 PM
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Better to be single with a quality life than partnered with a low quality life. How is she going to have a quality life if her standards/wants aren't being met? At least with a low SMV partner, she'll have companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 06:49 PM
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It's terrible advice if the guy cares about how he is perceived by his family, friends, and the general public. LMAO if he's worried about this, chances are they already perceive him as low SMV, so there's no real difference anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 06:43 PM
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Because it's the right thing to do? her way of life is obviously not sustainable in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 06:41 PM
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From my experience, there are many things that can be good traits that back up a chad personality, for example athletics, academics, being extremely good at a hobby, being a good cook, etc. In my opinion, being a comedian definitely helps him break the ice, but his parent's wealth is what seals the deal. A wealthy dude can provide experiences for the girl that she'll never normally be able to experience, i.e traveling, riding in fancy cars, eating at fancy restaurants, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 06:38 PM
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Are you from a small city/town? I'm from Toronto and know of overweight women that still get some attention from unattractive men. However, I do agree with the other user that being thin and fit definitely makes you at least a 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 06:27 PM
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That's a good mindset to have! In my opinion, not enough women are practicing delayed gratification and are jumping into sex right away, only to feel used after i.e r/femaledatingstrategy. I get that men will do anything to get sex sometimes, including lying and manipulating, but part of the problem is their own lack of proper screening and standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 06:19 PM
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There are 2 things that stand out to me here: He's somehow able to break the ice. I assume he does this through OLD, where you can do a variety of things to appear better than you actually do in real life. I've personally been on dates with girls who I would rate about 5/10 that looked like a solid 8 online. So he's already bypassing a major roadblock somehow (if a person is already on a date, it's very unlikely they'll just get up and leave). In my opinion, having a "chad" personality only work…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 06:09 PM
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Looks are obviously not everything when considering a potential partner, but it is the first trait that either gets you through the door or be forever stuck outside. So it is EVERYTHING in the sense that, if you do not meet someone's physical standards when you first meet them, you'll never have a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 05:44 PM
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If what you want is pussy, this "ambition" doesn't mean shit if you're looking for a LTR I disagree with your sentiment. A man high n-count man is clearly doing something right, i.e a man doesn't get a high n-count if he's not desirable in some way (unless his n-count are from low quality women). So if you're assuming he's able have sex with a variety of women, he's obviously going to be able to find a LTR easily; it's just a matter of if he's willing to commit or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/21 05:11 PM
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This just isn't true at all. If you look at social/pack animals in nature, the alphas are always the most caring ones because they have to "take care" of the pack or else the pack dies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 06:38 PM
1

Did they ever have a "slut phase"? I think that's what most people are referring to as hookup culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 03:32 PM
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I think hookup culture is somewhat real but for most women I've known, it's been a phase for them; i.e they usually call it a "slut phase" where they would actively look for ONS and see what the buzz is about, but quickly realize that it isn't that fun to sleep with a stranger and stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 03:30 PM
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Hmm they're not as rare as you think... My current fiancee fits the bill completely and we started dating when we were 25. My ex also did too and I was 22 and she was 23 at the time. They obviously didn't lose their virginity young so they valued their virginity to a certain degree; this makes them somewhat more careful about who they chose. As people get older, we obviously get smarter and wiser too. They both had plenty of suitors, and men would constantly cold approach them in public. I had t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 03:07 PM
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I disagree. This only works if the guy is generally viewed as attractive, if not, the guy just comes off as creepy. Imagine a 4/10 guy being an aggressive savage...
/r/seduction03/12/20 01:50 PM
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You misunderstood my intent, but maybe I left out too many details too. When I said "everyone is suffering", what I meant to say was life was never meant to be easy. We all have problems of our own, and the only way to move forward is to accept it, be mentally tough, and face it head on. When you say something like this: My brothers are suffering and no one gives any kind of shit. Horrific. You are either consciously or subconsciously thinking that you, or people like you, DESERVE some kind of u…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 05:52 PM
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I didn't just say "get over it". I specifically told him to stop playing the victim, because that mentality is very unproductive and cyclical. Life was never meant to be easy, and everyone has problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 05:33 PM
1

Everyone is suffering bro. You need to stop playing the victim and get mentally tougher to face life's challenges. This is the only way to move forward and find happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 04:57 PM
-4

You sound like you lost the generic lottery... My condolences...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 03:55 AM
15

This right here is the answer. To be fair to the exes though, I think women have a much higher propensity to complain about their partners than men; men in general just don't talk about their personal lives as much. Also, there's a factor of broken telephone and an extremely narrow view of the relationship. If a guy hears about a girl complaining about her partner or ex, he's only getting about 1% of their entire relationship, but to the listener, it seems like 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 02:46 PM
1

Female strangers: I get told by older women (maybe 40+) that I'm good looking pretty often Male strangers: never Female friends: I've been told I'm good looking by close friends Male friends: I get compliments about looking buffer if I've been working out. Women I'm sleeping with/dating: all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/20 06:16 PM
1

Why are you so adamant on using OLD? It's painfully obvious that it's an extremely inefficient way to actually get a date or relationship (too much demand and not enough supply of female attention). I also recommend cold approaching women offline, or if you're very socially anxious, you can try contacting old acquaintances through social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 03:37 PM
3

God damn, someone came prepared... You don't see that very often on Reddit. However, does this not apply to men as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 05:21 PM
0

So how are you not an incel? You seem to have your definitions confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 01:32 PM
1

I'm glad you found your own unique happiness. However, it sounds like your "marriage" is only in name, and not what it's actually intended to describe: a happy, loving, and commited relationship. It sounds like you're creating a bubble around yourself to protect your own ego from judgement, maybe your fellow churchmates? Did you really find your own inner peace/way or did you only find your safe, little corner? MGTOW and red pill philosophy, in general, sounds like a defense mechanism developed …
/r/MGTOW205/05/20 09:41 PM
1

No one chooses the conditions and environments they're born in, we all have to face trials and tribulations in life. I don't have control over this shit as much as i wish i had. You have more control than you think, the problem as a whole may seem large and unfixable, but if you break it down into parts, it becomes much easier and manageable. Would you date a girl like that though? This is your anxiety speaking. Don't let it control you. Work on yourself and try to make small steps towards becom…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 06:52 PM
1

How do you deceit someone for sex? She says yes or no. Isn't this obvious? I thought the definition of being "played" means that the guy tricked the girl with a false sense of commitment, and as soon as the guy gets sex, he leaves and ghosts. Or do you believe a woman is vulnerable to coercion the second she's around a man with mean, or more "power"? I don't think it's coercion or power, rather I think women will give it up now easily to someone they find very physically attractive or has qualit…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 04:08 PM
1

Everybody has the right to be picky. We should be picky. Hooking up with anyone who graces our doorway is ludicrous. People have the exclusive rights to (a) their own standards and (b) what the terms of their romantic / sexual relationships will be. Now that said, some people are insanely fucking picky. The first part of this sounds very SJW-esque and kind of unnecessary tbh. I do agree that some people are extremely picky, and I've personally witnessed this a few times amongst friends over the …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 03:38 PM
2

As a man who's probably above average in attractiveness, I personally don't believe in sex before commitment. Sexual compatibility is extremely important to me, however, I've never been with a girl who's not sexually compatible with me; I guess I've been lucky that all of my past partners are willing to do whatever I ask for. In my opinion, I think it's really important to have a type and standards, instead of trying to have sex with anything that will let you. The relationship will feel so much…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 02:49 PM
5

My role as a woman will require me to give my man things he cannot give me biologically. This is an entirely different topic and point that has nothing to do with being a gold digger or not. I will not consider a man who won't pay for a first date because I will not squabble over a few dollars. So you're saying that you don't care about those few dollars, but if he doesn't pay those few dollars, there's going to be a problem? Do you know the definition of hypocrisy? I am not interested in people…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 06:05 PM
1

I am, 2+ years. I would never, ever consider a woman for LTR if they expected me to pay. Same boat as you, and it's surprising that someone would think this is a rare concept. p.s what's HVM? I'm new to this community and can't find it in the acronyms.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 05:15 PM
1

I had kindof an "awakening" so to speak where he just made me want to do....things lol. Congratulations! I'm happy for you! I feel like this is a huge sign of a healthy, happy relationship; that innate desire or lust for your partner that keeps the sexlife fresh and exciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 05:09 PM
2

I am not a gold digger for not wanting to date cheap men... Don't pay but don't complain about being looked over by men we find more attractive for female investment. You sound like a hypocrite. So correct me if I'm wrong, but you're saying something along the lines of "I'm not a gold-digger, but if you don't pay, I'm gonna find someone who will or is more attractive"? Isn't that the definition of a gold digger, i.e someone who's in a relationship for the money or in other words, money is the de…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 04:54 PM
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I think by a certain age and depending on context someone being a virgin or being very low N (assuming they were single a lot of that time) would probably lean towards more conservative views on sex, but that is an assumption. I've been with a few women that were virgins in their early 20s now, and this has been consistently true everytime. It's usually a mix of being conservative and having high standards/picky. We were all inexperienced once and I think if you genuinely like sex the “right guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 09:06 PM
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What's the point of a relationship if both parties DGAF about each other? Isn't it better just to be fwb at that point or NC?
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