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TeacherYankeeDoodle/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 01:13 AM
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I think her going to her gynecologist was a nice way to end the film. She’s a grown woman going to the gynecologist’s for the first time. Of course her new gal pals are proud of her. Made me smile. I agree though. Yeah, it’s not meant to be super deep or profound. All that came before.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 02:06 AM
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"It is literally impossible to be a woman. You are so beautiful, and so smart, and it kills me that you don't think you're good enough. Like, we have to always be extraordinary, but somehow we're always doing it wrong. You have to be thin, but not too thin. And you can never say you want to be thin. You have to say you want to be healthy, but also you have to be thin. You have to have money, but you can't ask for money because that's crass. You have to be a boss, but you can't be mean. You have …
/r/ExRedPill14/08/23 12:02 AM
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… you’ve never had a platonic friendship with someone hot? Why wouldn’t she?
/r/ExRedPill08/08/23 01:10 PM
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Wholesome Reddit moment 🥰
/r/ExRedPill08/08/23 01:09 PM
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Wholesome Reddit moment 🥰
/r/ExRedPill08/08/23 01:09 PM
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PragerU is already a trad-con outlet in many ways. I fail to see how PragerU (who strongly believes in marriage and fatherhood for men) openly rejecting RP is much progress. Which manosphere group would they side with? MGTOW? PUA?
/r/ExRedPill20/07/23 09:03 PM
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Of course it does. Think about all of the times you felt alienated from things you need and things you want because the barrier between you and those things were social in nature and required “masking.” Red pill is an easy answer to injured pride when, in fact, the true answer is to reject ABA and embrace your autism, to value yourself in all the ways you deserve whether some NT would do the same or not. Women are not the alienating force here. Neuro typical expectations are. The enlightened wor…
/r/ExRedPill18/07/23 08:20 PM
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Autistic men are easier targets for hate groups of all stripes because of feelings of social alienation. We’re not the only group that meets the criteria. It’s easy to feel unfairly rejected by women (sexual needs) and society (human need to belong) when inclusion and tolerance are buzzwords in a neurotypical-dominated world that punishes outliers, when the path toward achieving your needs (social interaction) is exceedingly difficult and reflecting frustrations onto those you see as rejecting y…
/r/ExRedPill18/07/23 08:06 PM
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They often don’t. 😂 There are a few subtle differences you might notice though. For instance, I have noticed that religious trad-cons are unlikely to recommend going to the Philippines 🇵🇭 to find a wife “uncorrupted by feminism” or some shit like that. RP Trad-cons say shit like that because they don’t believe in the power of religion to “overcome” what they see as women’s rebellion against nature. Fundamentally though, they both hold the same belief when it comes to women: women are redeemed th…
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 12:08 PM
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Trad-cons suck in most of the same ways groups like the IBLP do. You can even think of them as on the same team if you'd like, similarly to how PB and Neo-Nazis are essentially the same.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/23 05:22 PM
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Hahahah I think they call them "rallies." Yes, "trad-cons" are a section of the manosphere/rp. Here are some things I might expect to hear from a trad-con: -Prostitution dishonors women because female sexuality is "sacred" (insert metaphor to a resource like gold or silver) and should be "preserved" for a woman's husband. -Domestic housework and child-rearing are the rightful domains of women. *insert appeal to nature here.* -Western women are corrupted by feminism. Find an eastern woman/ a reli…
/r/ExRedPill14/07/23 05:09 PM
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Ewwww! trad-con bullshit! Take that shit to the church and keep it there!
/r/ExRedPill14/07/23 01:53 PM
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To save some of you the time: the article linked in the post above doesn't mention MGTOW or any of its prominent figures even once. This project seems to be more focused on trad-con mythology and PUAs. OP is free to correct me here if they'd like, of course. edit: I don't see any incel stuff either. So, this is more about the in-your-face side of the manosphere, I think. Double edit: I do want to compliment the author though. Not a badly chosen roster of influencers to zero-in on at all. The sec…
/r/ExRedPill06/07/23 07:53 PM
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Social alienation, a never ending torrent of wanna-be pathologist crap, almost every support route dominated by ABA cultists and their incessant infantilization, difficulty in social settings (particularly dating)… it’s not hard to see why high-functioning autistic men and young men would find comfort in some variety of that script flipping. RP is pre-packaged and offers an order to things to boot; it re-packages a need for stability inside the frustrations common to young adult aspies in ways o…
/r/ExRedPill28/06/23 01:38 PM
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Ohhh that’s definitely a common thread. Everything people do has to have some gendered explanation and a cigar never gets to be a cigar.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 07:52 PM
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Should I work to understand my emotional disorientation and confront my trauma with the genuine self-care and respect I deserve?… Nah, it’s women who don’t get it! In other words, I re-victimized myself. The male experience in North America can get really complicated, especially when you start confronting stuff. I still remember the first time I allowed myself to cry after many years. RP teaches you that this trauma is actually the essence of manliness, that it’s a maligned society which fails t…
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 06:30 PM
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So, firstly, "RP tactics on women" is a phrase that distinctly implies PUA. So, I don't know what the "even PUA" portion of that opening clause is for if that's one of your guesses. It was probably suppressing emotions, but not in the way you think. MGTOW encourages you to re-invent your shame and sit in it like its pride.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 05:53 PM
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Listen, if you want to ask good faith questions and make good faith speculation on comparative experiences between Autistic men and women, that's one thing, but in the same way I'm familiar with manosphere dog whistles, I'm familiar with the contextual use of the term "emotional labor" and you can take it somewhere else.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 04:03 PM
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This article on veterans in white power movements is more helpful than I can be.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 03:58 PM
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Same reason there are support groups for those adjacently impacted by addiction
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 02:59 PM
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Yeah, I looked at your profile. I think you actually already get the idea of this. “What about men” being injected into any conversation about issues women face at large at the hands of men isn’t explicitly a dog whistle, but it seeks to rally support from similarly- minded men or deflect the conversation without saying, “I don’t actually give a shit about women and resent the thought of having to pretend I do when I’m angry at them.”
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 11:55 AM
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The term literally finds its origins from dog whistles, which can be heard by dogs but not by us. When you think of it that way, it’s a lot less confusing, isn’t it? In a sense, you could say that in-group language expressed outwardly this way is also an expression of belonging, but dog whistling is particularly insidious because it seeks a position by dancing around language. I’ll give you some examples. -Republicans weren’t actually interested in “protecting the institution of marriage.” They …
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 11:36 AM
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I’ve never heard the term grooming used outside of an illegal and sexual context. As far as training somebody to have a particular mindset goes, I think that’s part of what makes veterans such an easy mark for white supremacists and autistic adults an easy mark for misogynistic hate groups: The frustration, anger, and division are probably already there. You don’t have to instilled in them. You just have to convince them to direct it the way you want them to.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 11:14 AM
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Sure, I’m open. That’s why I’m here. Shoot.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 11:12 AM
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Oh, I see, they're your options, those thieves. You know, it's funny that you blame part of your lack of success on women being more open-minded... why aren't they more open-minded to you? Is that also the fault of dating apps and the couples who are consistently more appealing to these women than you?
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:49 PM
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Life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness, bitch. 🦅🗽📜
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:46 PM
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And why DoubleList is welcoming them?
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:38 PM
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They should have consulted you before having sex with the woman you were interested in. How selfish of them! /s You know, it's telling that you compare the women in your bit with someone who cheats on you in order to explain your anger at these couples you so frequently seem to cross paths with who engage in threesomes with the person who catches your attention.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:37 PM
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And what, pray tell, is the metaphorical PED you won't engage in in your ....conundrum?
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:33 PM
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Meh. I’m having fun. 🤷‍♂️
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:26 PM
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Then you’re angry with the person you thought you were attracted to for just as much not choosing you over them, incel.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:24 PM
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And you resent being a bronze medalist at best, apparently.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:21 PM
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Speak for yourself
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:19 PM
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Oh, they’re selfish here. I see. My mistake. They should have considered you before engaging sexually. /s
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 04:16 PM
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They don’t. That’s an illusion. Those matches aren’t necessarily good matches and easy sex doesn’t mean easy dating. One wrong move and you can metaphorically end up on the side of a milk carton, which is also worth considering. Women don’t have an easy time dating. Women have an easy time having dating options. That doesn’t mean they’re good options.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 01:57 PM
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I’m sure you were wearing it for scientific purposes. Yes. For science.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 11:42 AM
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Yes. Yes, I did, but dunking on Sneako is kind of like pissing on a bug: you are comparatively powerful.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 11:38 PM
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Really? Penguinz0? Ya sure about that?
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 11:25 PM
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Joking aside, the manosphere definitely has a weird obsession with porn and when to use it, but I'd argue the weirdest part of RP's relationship with porn is shame, not addiction. Lotta closet cases find refuge in RP as a form of rebellion against the inevitable. I couldn't tell you about all the RP guys who really like sissies (men in panties with feminine dispositions), fem dom (Woman dominates submissive man, the anti-thesis of RP imagery), and other similarly unexpected stuff, but that's onl…
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 11:15 PM
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I came so far/ and got so hard / In the end, it doesn't even matter😔
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 11:08 PM
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Oh, good. You can’t see the porn. Phew
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 10:24 PM
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In fact, I’d go as far to say there’s a lot I don’t WANT explanations for, a lot of TMI shit in the world. The need to know everything and sense everything is exhausting. Are pregnant women ruder to me? It kind of seems that way. Can I accept that’s all in my head and move on without trying to explain it? I think I can.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 08:19 PM
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And all interactions with women become about them and their relationship with you and your masculinity. It’s very fragile masculinity that you train yourself to hold. There’s the façade of strength and little more. It’s quite stressful, but you have to lie to yourself about it.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 08:11 PM
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I fell into RP through the MRA hole from 17 or so during the peak days of Paul Elam’s YT channel and it lasted until I was about 23-24 or so.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 08:09 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pbzj0OUX36c <---- Self-improvement is about getting laid to them.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 05:06 PM
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I felt this HARD as I read it. You were sold a lie through moral authority, a logical and linear way of seeing the world and, when the order you were sold gave way to disorder in the form of reality contradicting it, you saw that as injustice (probably in part because of the Autism) and became angry at the perceived source of that injustice with righteous anger! That sounds a lot like me discovering the hollowness of "be yourself" and the limits of acceptance of neuro-diversity. The more I inter…
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 02:41 PM
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So, "canceled" is a term I dislike because it's often leveraged by people who bring disdain onto themselves to make that action seem passive. It wasn't that I performed the action of making the world worse for women by advocating for male-seperatism, no no no! I was on the receiving end of the action, the direct object of the exchange: I was canceled (by others because I'm not responsible for the consequences of my own actions.) The "coaches" are just actors. That's all. I'm glad they don't have…
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 02:29 PM
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You keep mentioning this boot camp in our correspondences and, admittedly, I can't help but be curious about what you mean by that. What sorta boot camp was this? What do you mean by "RP woman?" It's a side of RP I'm less familiar with, I suppose. RP is almost synonymous with manosphere to many people.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 02:20 PM
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🥹 I'm not crying! YOU'RE crying! Thank yous aside, I'll be here for the PUA, Andrew Tate, Gen Z manifestation of RP as they filter out of it. When they're ready, I am. I still believe there's hope for them. The incentive to grow out of it is happiness. I make posts like this because I know I'm not the last one. This post is a digital hand stretched out across a digital abyss. For the sake of our society and young men, let's hope you're wrong about stagnation in hate.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 02:13 PM
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AND neuro-divergent young men with social disorders (namely high-functioning Autistics) who already feel othered and alienated because they are; their disdain and frustrations are pre-made. These young men often have trouble when it comes to women, making them easy marks. At one point, I believed neurotypical ableism was really just gynocentric influence of women over men, that neurotypical men could mostly empathize with my experiences until women brainwashed them or "whipped" them into conform…
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 02:07 PM
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Thank you! I prided myself on the specifics and I remember them.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 01:40 PM
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That’s a tough question. I don’t think anything made me stop specifically. It was more disillusionment over time. I think interacting with other manosphere factions on the Internet over time made me sour on the ideals of MGTOW; over time, it seemed progressively contradictory and phony on its face. I also met some MGTOW irl over the un movement itself and realized that I had nothing in common with many of these men beyond MGTOW, that our anger and hatred of women (though I didn’t call it hatred …
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 05:09 AM
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Blatantly bad faith take. It’s literally a separatist counter-culture with “levels” of self-segregation from women categorized by degree overlaying a vaguely libertarian understanding of the relationship between women and the state in regards to men and “provider” status. It depends on the conceptualization of men as victims of “female nature” until a choice is actively made to disengage from what is understood as a gynocentric society distinctly defined by the ways women’s exploitative “nature”…
/r/ExRedPill16/06/23 04:32 AM
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Kink-shaming sucks, but I'm not sure how sexually open RP ever has been or was ever meant to be outside of PUAs.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/23 02:08 PM
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You're right. That's true! They are too easy to co-opt. "Cuck" is the best example of this, but "mangina" is another one. They're all drenched in sexual shame that isn't entirely uncommon among men as a group anyhow. I see what you're getting at. White supremacists have dog whistles that are significantly harder to re-purpose. Great point. I hadn't thought of it that way.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/23 01:22 PM
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How so? They serve the purpose pretty well.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/23 11:11 AM
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Well, OP does, and perfectly, I think. As they say, it’s a clear way of announcing you hate women without directly saying it. It’s a clear way of broadcasting to other red pillers what side you’re on.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/23 11:54 PM
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I don't understand what you don't get. You seem to get it. It's a dog whistle. What do you not understand?
/r/ExRedPill14/06/23 08:08 PM
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I think you’re misunderstanding the premise and if you rethink it, you’ll get it. RP isn’t really a proposed set of solutions for men’s issues. It’s a set of personal compensations. Think of the reasons why white supremacist movement in the United States target veterans of wars abroad: traumatization, isolation, alienation, etc. RP thrives on disaffected men who feel a great deal of unaddressed and suppressed rage. It gives them belonging, scape goats, and “solutions.” It’s hopium and despairium…
/r/ExRedPill14/06/23 12:04 AM
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You can be temporarily happy, sure, but all the problems that lead you to red pill stick around. You have to confront those problems. The bitterness, the me vs society attitude…. There’s a lot that has to be unpacked and many of us are still doing so years later. Edit: RP is a coping mechanism as much as it is a lifestyle. After you’re done coping, you still need to confront what you were coping over. That’s why.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 10:15 PM
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50 is kinda gross fr 😂
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 03:51 PM
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Well said. RP is distinctly dirty.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 03:43 PM
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How'd you get 7? 7 seems perfectly realistic if we don't include gay men, asexuals, etc. in the average (who would necessarily drag that down.) I'm just curious.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 03:41 PM
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Yeah, frankly, even having many one-nighters doesn't make you good at sex. It just makes you an easy lay.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 03:40 PM
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That doesn't make any sense at all. How many men have slept with so many women and still can't find the clitoris? Too many. What would I expect them to know of relationships?
/r/ExRedPill07/06/23 03:38 PM
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And this is our United States of whatever 🎶
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 02:46 AM
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Reasonable and sensibly explained. I snap my fingers in approval, beatnik.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 02:45 AM
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I can’t bring myself to care what women think of me now in terms of attraction and, paradoxically, attract their attention more. Seemingly because of it. Seems like it’s about confidence. So, I’m inclined to ambivalently disagree. TLDR: This is my United States of whatever
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 02:42 AM
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I see you have a more refined, multi-cultural Autism.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/23 12:36 AM
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I’m a lumberjack and I’m ok.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 07:28 PM
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Eyyyy aspies in the house (upstairs in our rooms while large crowds of people socialize downstairs because we'd rather be playing World of Warcraft or something.)
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 06:20 PM
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Honesty and openness differ from making your partner your unpaid therapist. It's hard to tell which of these said stories refer to.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 06:11 PM
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You don't get to claim to want to "heal the wounded" when you dismiss the wearing of those wounds as "random labels." And you don't get to decry punching down when you do it yourself and even to people you "technically" share a community with.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 03:19 PM
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The LGBT community holds its identity through its perseverance in the face of adversity. It's a common set of experiences, triumphs, and struggles and fits into the "to do" and not "to be" category through context. It is not simply "clinging to a label." Stop "encourag(ing) people to be themselves and less about their labels" when you what you mean is dropping that collective set of things the LGBT community does and has to do as a source of pride, as a "label." And, frankly, your right to absta…
/r/ExRedPill02/05/23 03:07 PM
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I think what you’re saying illustrates the darkest aspect of RP: at its core, RP sees consent as submissive and dirty. Everything you’re talking about is deeply rooted in valuing consent and individuals.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/23 12:47 PM
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That's actually quite a fair point I hadn't considered. As perverse as it may seem to secular outsiders, these young marriages rooted in actual, traditional philosophy lack the resentment of trad-con presenting redpillers. One of my neighbors from years ago adopted like 10 kids because his wife couldn't get pregnant and they simply believed in the lifestyle. My neighbor wasn't coercing or "training" his wife into anything. They were on the same page: "be fruitful and multip..... oh. Well, that's…
/r/ExRedPill01/05/23 12:40 PM
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Respectfully, you are partially mistaken. I do mean that respectfully. ​ The "trad-cons" are still around and MGTOW has varying opinions on sleeping around (ask them about "the levels of MGTOW.") You're definitely right about "the wall" (which gets grosser every time I think about it) idea being pervasive and, yeah, PUAs have garnered quite a bit more influence than they used to have. I think that the central key is control even at the expense of suffering. If you marry a woman, you are her mast…
/r/ExRedPill01/05/23 12:29 PM
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**MY** woman!? We fought a war over this, southerner. We'll go back down there. Your crops are as flammable as before. Oh, a way down south in the land of traitors.... Jokes aside, one thing we can always do better is talk to our partners about what we need and what we want openly and transparently rather than commenting our desires into the ether of Reddit and hoping they see it.
/r/ExRedPill01/05/23 12:19 PM
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It is telling that the male chauvinist's idealization of the men of the past only applies when subjugation and unilateral dependence is the meat of their understanding and never when collaboration is central in that thought. The cave men still depended on women. Across thousands of years, women have served a myriad of roles across cultures, including what we may refer to as "doctor" whether or not the term may have existed in the specific context we choose to bring up. It's all very selective, f…
/r/ExRedPill30/04/23 04:27 PM
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BINGO! You get it. You get 100% of it. If you were a student of mine, I'd give you an A+. It's hand-me-down pride just like white supremacy or hyper-nationalism. It's pride passed down because you lack any of your own you want to wear around and it looks tacky and cheap. I am proud of being an American, yes, but I'm proud of the experiences, triumphs, and tribulations I've been through as an American, not my inherited status as an American. My pride as an American, in that sense, is on something…
/r/ExRedPill30/04/23 04:00 PM
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It's like what I said in a separate comment: this is internalized inadequacy projected onto the world. It is as though he, as a man, however temporarily, has gifted the world to women by proxy and demands gratitude. If he was more proud of his own accomplishments, he would be satisfied enough with he and himself to give credit to women where it is due, but he curls into a fetal position to protect himself from the notion his chosen source of base pride is as inadequate or less adequate than the …
/r/ExRedPill30/04/23 03:47 PM
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Isn’t that ironic? Getting a karate trophy in high school is worth being proud of. That’s not easy. That’s a real accomplishment. Maybe, he speaks another language. Learning a language is difficult. That’s worth being proud of. The reason he’s clinging to base pride is not that he has nothing going for him which is actually worthy of pride. After all, he’s perfectly capable of doing things which are worthy of pride and he has accomplished things which are worthy of personal pride. The reason he …
/r/ExRedPill30/04/23 03:35 PM
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I refer to this sort of pride as "base pride" because it does not devolve further than that. When you have nothing to be proud of yourself or don't recognize what you should be proud of in yourself or even feel insufficiently proud of yourself, the levels of pride devolve into the most base levels if a need for pride survives. Your accomplishments Your abilities Your triumphs in the face of adversity (including as part of a group) Your contributions to society The ways you've helped others -----…
/r/ExRedPill30/04/23 03:24 PM
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People aren’t monolithic. There is no grand conspiracy.
/r/ExRedPill28/04/23 04:00 PM
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Well phrased. And, honestly, a big part of the MGTOW pipeline is that dissonance between the advice men receive and the reasons the advice is given. Snake or not, the tree’s apples are too rotten to be tempted. Whatever knowledge you miss out on by not watching this crap, it’s not worth it.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 10:38 PM
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It’s sort of hard to call yourself Ex red pill without disavowing the concept entirely.
/r/ExRedPill18/04/23 02:12 AM
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u/stealingsugar
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 03:47 PM
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Ya thinkin' about it too much, friend. There is no conspiracy afoot. There is the gaiety shared in their friends group. "What is the purpose?" Why do you do anything for fun? What's the purpose of interacting with each other? Any number of things, yes? There is no overarching secret. It's girls and women among themselves. This whole "33 secret" crap is just another tactic to make you fear. Like, yeah, you could plan a murder behind closed doors, but are you worried about closed doors? What's the…
/r/ExRedPill08/04/23 02:58 AM
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What do you mean? Frankly, in a red pill context, that reads more like performative strength.
/r/ExRedPill21/03/23 03:41 PM
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Is it ok? Sure. Is it cool? Only if you’re really good at painting.
/r/ExRedPill18/03/23 06:06 PM
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Why are you still watching Hamza?
/r/ExRedPill17/03/23 05:26 PM
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As individuals. Women are individuals. “Female nature” is a deliberately deceptive misnomer.
/r/ExRedPill14/03/23 04:16 PM
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But it seems more like you fell down the self-improvement or self-help rabbit holes than anything else. The entire industry is similarly toxic in that regard. It's a vicious cycle of seeking pieces of others to feel like the puzzle is solved. Red pill or not, that's toxic.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/23 02:49 PM
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I have no idea what you’re trying to ask.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 01:37 AM
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It’s way dehumanizing. Like, yeah, my mother is a female, but I wouldn’t describe her that way because my mother is a human. Anybody who believes in the wall needs to touch grass.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 01:34 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/ExRedPill25/01/23 06:38 PM
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I definitely notice that once I shaped up and women started paying attention to me, I slowly stopped feeling so strongly about it. I realized that I wasn't angry at women, really, but at the state of my unmet personal, sexual, and social needs and I projected that onto women. Yeah. Yeah, I know. It's pathetic.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/23 06:16 PM
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It's harder to look at retrospectively, yeah.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/23 06:13 PM
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Huh 🤔. Didn’t expect that, but it makes sense. What’s a more natural a way can one compensate for a lack of comfort in their assigned gender than to pretend harder?
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 09:23 PM
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For sure. If he just spends some time talking to women, I think he’ll find women actually explain themselves fairly well.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 06:11 PM
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Yeah, and, honestly, I wouldn’t even go as far as to call them dating philosophies. You’re really not missing anything.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 06:10 PM
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I think that’s the most insipid and predatory part about it: A small portion of it is true and the rest of it is just playing on the anxieties and fears that stem from that portion. The rest is snake oil. If you clip together videos of the worst women and take some shit out of context, you can convince lonely men of many things.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 06:08 PM
3

Clickbait Dhar Mann bullshit. I guess I can’t be too cynical about it. There’s a reason we’re here.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 02:26 AM
5

For sure! I think it's important to not feel bad for considering sex when you're thinking about relationships. You have needs. Listen to them. Be good to yourself. You deserve an understanding lover who can satisfy you sexually. Be ready to please and seek to be pleased. Marvin Gaye put it best: "We're all sensitive people with so much to give."
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 10:40 PM
13

That's the neat part! You don't! Lust is natural. Don't be ashamed of your sexuality. On the other hand, we can control our behavior. Maybe, your sexual desires disturb you or you are too horny too much of the time? Perhaps, a therapist would be better able to help you with this.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 08:43 PM
1

That's his point, his morally hollow point: If you can scam somebody, they were voluntarily scammed, so what of the consequences?
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 08:13 PM
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He's bragged about his crimes. You're not exhibiting the traits of legalism. You know what he did. He's rich, yeah. You think he may get out of it. What would that change about his crimes? Glorifying rapists and thieves.... You can choose: are you going to be a good person or are you going to be red pill? Fork in the road. Choose. Do you side with Rollo or do you side with your forefathers and civilization?
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 08:12 PM
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It'd be more like, "Well, sure, Hitler killed millions of people and destroyed so much, left so much destruction, that any Jew born in the mid-90s in America would have grown up going to shul with at least one elder who still has a number tattoed on their forearm... but he was also a good artist and a skilled speaker, so we should learn from that and appreciate that part of him. I'm a moderate appreciator of Adolf Hitler."
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 07:59 PM
13

I know 40 year olds. I know people who were poor and became wealthy (sometimes called "new money.") I know rappers. I know people who are still trying to crawl back to their teenage years, so to speak. I know people who are a bit too hungry for validation. ​ None of them, and I mean none of them, have run coercive, violent trafficking rings and rape caves with victims as young as 16. Criminality is one thing and making excuses for dirty paper work is another.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 07:50 PM
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ALL redpill identification, however moderately its presented, is hardcore. "Female nature" (or whatever the new term is) is central to redpill thought in almost all corners of the manosphere from MGTOW to incel to PUA. Andrew Tate's biggest flaw isn't that he talks too much about women. He also talks too much about his cars, his looks, his smarts, etc. too. No, dude, Andrew Tate is a failure of a person, a narcissistic RAPE FETISHIST AND RAPIST WHO TRAFFICS PEOPLE. He's sexual deviant and violen…
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 05:02 PM
4

You’re quite fashionable, you know that?
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 02:21 PM
7

I was gullible. I did it to myself. My life is back on track and I'm happy now. That loss was temporary. I'm angry for the next generation of men facing indoctrination from peddlers of misery like MGTOW was more of at its height. Fuck these assholes who prey on young, lonely, disgruntled men. And for what? And they fucked with YOU too! They fucked with your life. You lost relationships and valuable connections with men who were brainwashed. I call out this shit when I hear it in person now. I do…
/r/ExRedPill13/01/23 07:15 PM
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Probably trust. Red pill thought teaches us gender determinism as a rule and female nature as manipulative and parasitically Machiavellian. To distrust every woman and girl because they are a woman or a girl was mentally exhausting and incredibly isolating. A close 2nd place to self-esteem. When women demonstrated interest in me, I always took it as an attempt to glean something from me. It couldn't be that I'm attractive to somebody, no! I convinced myself that love is not real and that I was a…
/r/ExRedPill13/01/23 05:05 PM
7

Toxicity towards women. Life gets dark when half the world is your enemy.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/23 02:42 PM
2

This sounds a lot like what happened with Roosh V.
/r/ExRedPill30/12/22 11:24 PM
7

Wholesome ❤️
/r/ExRedPill27/12/22 10:01 PM
3

While I agree with you on everything else, what Sneako said about depression and medication is dumb in a familiar rather than an inventive way. It reeks of an ethos of suffering and adversarial thinking. Sneako is a poor representative for people who consider themselves (and those who are) more intelligent than him, but this attitude is hardly rare in the manosphere.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 07:51 PM
1

If you don't mind me asking, whaddaya doing on this page? Fascination? A desire to understand? Sticking your toe in the shallow end of the manosphere before exploring the more dark corners of it? ​ Edit: I just saw the part of the page that includes people who have been impacted by red pill bullshit. If that's you, allow me to express my empathy.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 07:47 PM
1

Taking the poison to watch your enemy die.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 07:41 PM
3

Right. You can learn destructive and self-destructive behavior and thinking. You can also re-learn constructive ways of interacting with the world and the women in it. Toxic masculinity is so pervasive that any man looking for advice or help has to wade through it, especially if he searches for advice particularly written for men (as opposed to general advice.) At one time, I was absolutely convinced that my desire to connect with others romantically (and even socially at times) was a symptom of…
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 07:40 PM
12

He probably uses "facts don't care about your feelings" as a catch-all middle finger with no awareness of the irony.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 02:21 AM
7

Absolutely. Taking a real inventory of my anger problems and making real apologies to people I've wronged because of my anger problems took a lot of inner-strength. It was my weakness that drove me towards solutions like "handling it" and my strength that drove me to say, "I need help."
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 01:52 AM
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Do you think men solve problems or do you think men avoid looking for easy solutions? Medicine is not a cop-out of a “solution.” Medicine is treatment and depression is a persistent obstacle in the way of other life matters. There is no amount of suffering that validates you as a man. It’s ok to take medication. It’s ok to ask for help from a doctor. That’s pragmatic. What’s less pragmatic and more emotional, what’s irrational and aesthetic is suffering for no prize.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 01:16 AM
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I think what I like most about the term is that one ingests toxins. One digests poison. It becomes part of you, but you have to eat it first. Maybe, it was fed to you and maybe you’ve fed it to yourself, but the toxicity is avoidable if you say no to it. Easier said than done.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/22 01:10 AM
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Things are definitely easier being white, yeah. There’s no real way to sugarcoat that. That doesn’t say anything about women though. That says something about the culture where you are and the culture where I am.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/22 12:56 AM
4

I’m flattered. Thank you ☺️.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/22 12:31 AM
4

No worries. A dodger dog is a kind of hot dog one can buy at dodger Stadium in Los Angeles. It’s not really a kind of hotdog, actually. It’s more like a cheesy name on a classic Stadium product. Farmer John was the manufacturer of these hotdogs and may still be. What I’m saying is that you can call the dodger dog a dodger dog, but only a fan decides if it meets that standard. It doesn’t matter how big your dodger dog is. The fans decide if they like it. It’s kind of like how you don’t say that y…
/r/ExRedPill20/10/22 10:14 PM
2

A big john on a farmer ain’t no Dodger Dog if it doesn’t please the fans.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/22 07:12 PM
5

Damn. That’s rough. I’m sorry that this MGTOW stuff came around to impact your life.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/22 05:15 PM
1

Dude, that's like HALF or more of the manosphere: all of the sins of women which make them unworthy of you. Single mothers are an easy villain and so are feminists, but it goes as far as when a women loses her virginity, tattoos, piercings, her fucking hair color, her race in combination with x y or z, her nationality, her ethnicity, the kind of music she listens to, and I could go on and on. It's so entrenched it's everywhere in some form. No, we've heard enough theories about which women shoul…
/r/ExRedPill08/09/22 12:39 AM
3

Why are you listening to Tate? Stop that.
/r/ExRedPill05/08/22 06:55 PM
2

I say, “Or you could treat women and their sex lives as more than a moralistic metaphor for the insecurities you aren’t strong enough to say out loud.”
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 11:20 PM
1

Because the modern, young, gay men in a gay club are involved in club culture. You’re more likely to score in a bar than a parking lot. You’re more likely to score on Grindr than you are on Tinder.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 08:06 PM
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I can’t imagine the thought making you feel any other way. Still, she likes you enough to be around you despite the hurt and the fighting. I bet she’ll be a lot more understanding after you open up to her. She’ll also be less confused and have the ability to do research on her own. In fact, after you open up to her, you may as well link her to this post. She could learn a lot from the page.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 02:50 PM
7

Have you considered telling her all of this? What could you lose with her by opening up and admitting that you were a part of an online hate movement that your actions aren’t already depriving you both of? You’re not running away from this. You may as well tell her the truth.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 02:29 PM
1

I’m not sure what alcoholism should count as.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 12:42 PM
4

My parents weren't sex-positive, per se, but they definitely were never anti-sex. They just tried to not mention it much and succeeded. Sex wasn't presented in a particular light to me because it wasn't really presented at all. I learned what I know about sex from, essentially, everybody but my parents. I don't mean to make it sound like I dislike their choice to not really talk about it. It is what it is.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/22 05:20 PM
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I have a better one for you: I fuck quite rarely and I’m not worried about it because sex and relationships aren’t even remotely close to the most interesting or fulfilling parts of the one mortal existence I’ll ever have. Also thank you
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 02:25 PM
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Hypergamy is an odd bit among bigots on the Internet. They simultaneously proclaim the death of the characteristics found in who they would consider the ideal woman and are angry at the supposedly inferior, less desirable, modern women for the way they choose anybody but them! Fuck you…. Get back here and submit to me as though you love me so I can feel whole with the affection of those I disparage! Here’s the truth. You’re not in competition with other men. There is not a scarcity. This is not …
/r/ExRedPill11/07/22 10:45 PM
2

Yeah. C-. Do better.
/r/ExRedPill11/07/22 08:49 PM
1

Honestly, I think you will need to spend time in the manosphere to get the understanding you want. Slide into my DMs.
/r/ExRedPill11/07/22 08:47 PM
3

We can hardly judge women who choose to be picky about who they date. This is not shallowness. Self-preservation is worthy of empathy. “Money doesn’t matter if there’s love” is a great fridge magnet, buuuuuutttt that seems less true or more true based on your address. What quality of life would you settle for in the name of love?
/r/ExRedPill08/07/22 10:35 PM
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Well, it could be pain over any number of things, really, but I wouldn’t assume as much. Powerlessness or the feeling of powerlessness is the vessel through which hate makes itself valuable. It places the bigot on high like Holden Caulfield in Catcher in the Rye when he says, “I kill people in this hat.” He doesn’t actually kill anybody in the hat. He places them beneath him from under the gaze of the hat and makes himself God despite his sense of helplessness. He gazes like a gun. He imagines h…
/r/ExRedPill03/07/22 02:44 AM
1

As for the political semantics, they’ve already chosen: both. For a party that takes no issue with referring to the third world as a shit hole, the Republicans have adopted and embraced the attitudes of the Filipino right with a particular degree of fervor.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/11/21 12:57 PM
1

As a gay man, I’m tired of pretending that there’s anything socially conservative about this party that slandered us for years and continues to slander us on the basis of our sexuality, an act they put men in the cross hairs for. Let’s not pretend they give a shit about family values. They just hate gay people.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/11/21 12:56 PM
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They don’t give a shit about the family. They kept gay couples from adopting children and forming families for decades and said it was to “defend marriage.” The cost of having children is higher than ever. They routinely and religiously oppose measures that would make having children easier, measures like affordable healthcare (let alone socialized), raising the minimum wage, universal college, etc. They have no values. They’re just hateful.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/11/21 12:55 PM
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Totally. It’s amazing that Pete Buttigieg taking parental leave was so controversial in the United States among conservatives who claim to value “the family unit” so highly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/11/21 05:12 PM
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While this is the case, as members of the left, we also have to acknowledge that this child tax can be shifted onto the state’s collective resources through taxation to the economic and demographic benefit of most nations.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/11/21 02:12 PM
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