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WHOLESOME CONTENTTeamWaddles/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 12:08 PM
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I hate not to remember the source, I once saw a type of documentary that took babies and put them in pink and blue clothes to record if they were treated different. In a shocking turn of events… gasps they were treated differently. Boys are expected to be careless, so they are allowed more freedom, and their chores then fall on the next girl that can fulfill them. I remember in school, boys were the minority in our class. They were always forgiven the same things we were scolded for: being loud,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/22 03:42 PM
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This is basically the whole plot of Promising young women: People basically allowing assault to happen, then giving no shit, until someone comes back to hold them accountable. A master movie. Opens your eyes on how shitty the world is with victims. Cassie’s story is one of someone that just wants her friend’s pain and memory to be acknowledged. It’s quite brutal to watch, a necessary mirror of what reality is so we don’t ignore it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 08:21 AM
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Absolutely. Here is the thing. Enforcing boundaries IS uncomfortable. Even upsetting. There’s also the need for a road map of what’s acceptable. That’s why grooming is, basically, gaslighting you into having blurred lines when it comes to boundaries, then your abuser does whatever they want. You need someone to guide you and empower you and show you how to do it. Indirect queues are also huge. Your mother/sister/grandma/aunt could be the most loving and cheering, but if all you see from them is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 04:24 PM
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You could also be spoiled by material standards, however, 100% emotionally neglected Or witnessed violence in your parents relationship, even when they didn’t direct that anger towards you. Maybe her very long past marriage groomed her to accept violence. We wouldn’t know. I hope she goes to a good and kind therapist. My circle is very therapy friendly, and a good chunk of advice we got from it is that no one is naturally addicted to drama and pain, it’s trauma showing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 02:27 PM
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It’s also quite a misconception that all her songs are about men. I can’t clarify the source as I red that interview a loooong time ago, but IIRC her song Hello it’s not to a lover but to her past self. I believe many others might have been the case. Anyway, if all of them were about exs… girl, you do you. I wish I could earn millions out of the heartbreak I had… I had to had for free! 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 02:27 PM
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That’s exactly what he did. And it was also the schrodringner’s cat of commitment: he didn’t wanted to get serious but I was a traitor for getting my chance with others. Scrotes will be scrotes. I didn’t see the red flags. I’ve left him years ago, I’m still repairing the damage. I’ll never make that mistake again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 08:09 PM
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My Ex didn’t want to go serious. I said: OK. Then get it on with whoever I wanted. Turned out, I had way more guys interested, and he couldn’t get any woman. He asked me to be his girlfriend a month later, after getting angry that I actually did what he proposed: no strings attached. It was really satisfying to see him throwing such a tantrum after being a huge ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 04:08 PM
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That’s why I used to take it as a total red flag, a sign to not date that person. A) if you are so defensive, there must be something you are hiding B) or if you don’t, you are gaslighting the shit out of me. I’m an adult and I have reasons for taking these precautions. C) if you recognize the risks, then you are just plainly not taking my feelings and my well-being into account, which I’m not up to be with someone so selfish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 03:22 PM
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Why would also be a such a thing? You can explain in like, 5 seconds why a special towel is needed. Even if there is no reason, it’s childish to mock someone’s habits when it’s not affecting you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 07:06 AM
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Absolutely. We talk waaay too much about self care and self love. Leaving someone that can do this to you IS SELF CARE AND SELF LOVE LADIES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 02:16 AM
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You are NOT at fault. He knew what awful shit he was doing. The part that enrages me the most is that these monsters hide under the social shield of misogyny and generalized ignorance about consent. You can’t consent if someone is manipulating or pressuring you or if they are abusive. I hope that in the years to come all women wake up to this. Is inaceptable. Every single one of us knows a sister that has gone through a situation like this (or have lived it ourselves) and society still gaslights…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 12:58 PM
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It’s actually scientifically studied. Women are better at picking non verbal cues, micro expressions in the face and subtle tone variations in the voice. Our “gut” and “instinct” it’s actually our brains being wired to identify this little details that can’t be suppressed by the conscious mind when someone is communicating. We are unfortunately socialized to ignore this really powerful asset of our brains. Girl, your brain knows before you do, it’s not your imagination. Listen to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 04:08 PM
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Id like to point out another side of the coin: LVM will abuse their spouses more if they see them vulnerable. If you let go of your education, skills or career you are making yourself vulnerable. If you wanna be a SAHM it’s ok, but it’s crucial to have a plan B if your partner ends up being an abusive ass, or some kind of tragedy hits your life and you lose him and need to work. We all go through rough patches in life, but make sure to achieve as much as you can. There is not just one way to mak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 05:24 PM
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The don’t even offer lube for Pap smears. Before you pinpoint the possibility of ruining of the sample: I’m skeptical of how a little bit of water base lube could alter the sample. My current gynecologist added lube the last time she took one from me, after I told her how traumatizing it was for me as it is very painful and my anxiety goes through the roof. I was so grateful, it was a 180 degree turn. “I’m a patient too, I want your exam to be painless, tell me and I’ll stop whenever you need” -…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 12:32 AM
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HOW DOES HE DARE TO DO THAT Honestly, just reading the heading of the article gave me immense violence impulses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 12:27 AM
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I’ve found that when relationships are healthy, usually the balance sets itself. I’ve had quite a few occasions when friends bring girlfriends/boyfriends and we had a blast, and the curious things is: the better they’ve adjusted to the original group, the less they appear again, basically giving their SO their own space. Whereas, those SOs who made the night a shitshow return or get dragged to the scene time and time again and it’s a pain in the ass. Anyway, those friends tend to get obsessed ov…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 02:04 AM
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I’d like to add something, as someone who’s suffered this: no, you are not crazy. You feel like shit after enduring this kind of treatment because there is a subtext behind it. Your abuser indirectly tells you: “you don’t matter enough to be comforted/taken into account” “you don’t deserve to handle X” “‘my needs are above you” Imagine if someone shouted all of the above to you, several times a day, you wouldn’t question yourself as if that was hurtful, right? however, by withholding it is so mu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 06:25 PM
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I literally always thought of this: how is being a mother a choice when we are ostracized if we don’t “chose” it? If I suddenly loose all of my value because of it? If I have to be so damn pressured into something, anything, it raises huge concerns, and motherhood is no different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 03:27 PM
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I needed this today. Thank you. I’m crying in a good, feel validated way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 12:59 AM
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Thank you for saying this. I’ve worked with doctors that deal with contraception and teenagers and you wouldn’t believe the amount of parents (and shitty doctors, nurses, etc) that refuse BC on teenagers. I must clarify, in my country, it’s legal for a minor to get BC and 100% confidential if they ask their doctor not to tell their parents. “Oh but her hormones!” Umm how about chosi g non hormonal BC? What about what a pregnancy could do to her? What about the fact that your claims are not suppo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:38 AM
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Awwww that’s beautiful! A wine tour is perfect 👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:48 PM
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You point out that society does most of the work freeing man away. I lived it on my own story. No one ever gave my dad a bad look for disappearing. But the MOMENT I put one feet in my parents hometown the gossip about me is ENDLESS. I’ve lost count on how many times I was told that it was my fault my father never wanted me. Honestly I just walk the other way. It’s a no brainer that he is the guilty one, not me. But hey! Let’s ostracize and shame this girl because her dad is an asshole because pa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:12 PM
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I don’t understand why is this a Crude thing to say? I wouldn’t financially stress my partner and I expect the same in return as it is a form of caring and loving. It’s not that difficult. Unless you want to exploit your partner’s financial stability which is Um... not a nice thing to do, so you disguise it putting the blame on others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:04 PM
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I share that experience with you! I felt like for the first time, somebody shouted to the world what I couldn’t find the words for. It is pain. But I don’t have to hide. And that makes me feel somehow like taking a step to reclaim the place We deserve as women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:44 PM
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What i love about this movie is that Cassie embodies what we should be doing as a society. You ARE an abuser, look at it, confront it. You ARE helping this people with your silence, with your power. She puts the light on perpetrators and make them pay to the extent she can. She makes them accountable. She doesn’t let them forget they are monsters. Contrast that with a society that will find a million excuses to liberate of guilt the men that commit this crimes, while also finding a million (not …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:35 PM
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My mother always warned me against this. She said to never ever ever stop if someone asks for help. Tell them you are busy and walk away. If you stop for any reason, take the most physical distance you can, and don’t let them take you anywhere to “help” them. My mother also always educated me to not give a shit about being nice, people can fuck off with their opinions. I think that’s the best she did as a mother, and saved me a lot of times. I’ve always been polite to men, but the moment they re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 03:04 PM
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In high school I had a pretty large group of girl friends. We were raised to be all kinds of sexist assholes to each other, but we would NEVER left a friend alone. With my group of friends I could be 100% sure that they would stick to me even if their Prince Charming came to rescue them. You NEVER left a drunk friend alone. You NEVER left a friend alone with a man unless she told you she was ok. This reminded me of how many times we took care of other girls as we saw them alone, drunk, and vulne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 05:10 PM
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THANK YOU THANK YOU THANKY YOU. I’ve realized reading this that everything I felt was wrong I couldn’t express it into words. Thank you for giving me and many others the gift of putting all of this into words. May I also add something? For me, and a few friends we had the courage to confide in each other, the threat of rape is a big thing for us. I had friends that had been coerced into sex by the insistence of a man, and our conclusion was they unconsciously feared saying no. They examined the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 12:37 AM
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it’s so frustrating, I can feel you 😔 It’s a slow process but I trust you’ll get it back💪🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 05:40 PM
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Thank you so much for your kind words, and thank you too for sharing your story too, it definitely helped me. I know I’m not alone. We are getting there and we learned for the mistakes! ♥️✨ PD: IMO getting two degrees is impressive on its own! You are awesome! 💪🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 05:39 PM
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Oh my. You got me with the degrees thing. The LVM I dated completely wrecked my emotional stability. I’m now crawling in academics, when I used to fly, trying to patch things up. It’s been 4 years since I left him. I’m getting there, but I feel terrible about slowing down so much. Im very slowly coming back. I have very dark days sometimes. It’s widely underestimated the damage this men can do. The gaslighting, the criticism, everything... it’s a huge process to come back. And I escaped 100% on …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 02:23 AM
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This. Every restaurant should have its own code for this system to work. If an abusive man knows this and watches his date order this... things are not going well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 12:56 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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