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214

If you want the sex then looks good? If you want more than that then a bit Yikes
/r/seduction28/03/22 01:30 PM
-53

Why are you so anti women ?
/r/seduction10/03/22 02:56 PM
5

r/murderedbywords
/r/seduction07/01/22 03:28 PM
15

It’s fine to start with platonic touch like arm over the shoulder, hugs etc and then the man should judge the lady’s reaction before escalating any further (which is the whole idea of seduction.. )
/r/seduction31/12/21 11:45 PM
10

Please link us your YouTube Channel and we can critique you
/r/seduction29/12/21 09:54 PM
3

This. You shouldn’t be flaking, you should be BUSY
/r/seduction29/12/21 09:19 AM
1

Reddit in a nutshell. Not a great place for advice unfortunately
/r/seduction25/12/21 06:27 PM
2

The fact you’ve double texted means it’s over
/r/seduction24/12/21 09:12 PM
1

Expensive ?
/r/seduction24/12/21 03:46 PM
2

Don’t say unless asked
/r/seduction10/12/21 10:30 AM
1

That’s fair. Can’t believe I was downvoted so much for a question and yet not one constructive reply until now. Thank you
/r/seduction03/12/21 09:18 AM
-19

Just asking a question bro. I would always assume a girl is single until she tells me otherwise. Asking her if she’s taken immediately reveals my intentions
/r/seduction02/12/21 11:30 AM
-30

Am I missing something? What’s smooth about it? You’re giving the girl the option to say ‘yes’ and then end the interaction immediately. Imo not a great line.
/r/seduction02/12/21 10:36 AM
8

How is this escalation? It went straight from 0-100. Whilst I’m happy for you I think your title and message is misleading…
/r/seduction24/11/21 10:11 PM
27

Yeah this was very detailed lol
/r/seduction11/11/21 11:03 AM
2

100%
/r/seduction09/11/21 01:53 PM
1

Do you realise theres so much more to foreplay? XD Those are not the only two options
/r/seduction09/11/21 08:59 AM
3

Start from the top. Girls need warming up first
/r/seduction08/11/21 09:12 PM
1

Sounds like you may already be friendzoned. Some of this advice is good but imo you need to change more than just how you touch her. You need to change your whole approach
/r/seduction05/11/21 11:14 PM
3

Very good post thank you! Agree or disagree on his choice of lifestyle, but there’s some solid advice here for dating in general.
/r/seduction03/11/21 05:35 PM
2

Amazing! Hope it goes well :)
/r/seduction02/11/21 07:27 PM
1

I agree with most of the comments here that 2 weeks is too long. You should be able to find 30mins-1hour for a quick coffee ? Otherwise how would it ever work? Second of all, it doesn’t actually matter. Since your mindset should be living your life- not focussing on an event in 2 weeks time with someone you’ve not met before. That shouldn’t be your top priority
/r/seduction02/11/21 04:41 PM
2

Advice on what to do with this girl? Do nothing. See other girls. Advice on what to do in the future? Don’t bring up the topic of exclusivity. Let her bring up that topic
/r/seduction02/11/21 03:13 PM
1

I think it’s a positive sign- a shit test. Quite an easy question for girls to ask to weed out the less confident guys
/r/seduction01/11/21 11:43 AM
-3

TIL people don’t use whatsapp or another service provider to communicate
/r/seduction29/10/21 09:10 AM
1

It’s not a shit test. She’s bat-shit cray cray my dude
/r/seduction27/10/21 02:05 PM
2

‘When are you free?’ can be quite pressuring for the girl. Just because someone is free doesn’t mean that they want to go somewhere with you
/r/seduction15/10/21 11:41 PM
2

‘Dating for about 6 weeks and are exclusive’ Did she explicitly say she wanted to be exclusive? Or did you assume ?
/r/seduction22/09/21 11:53 AM
1

She was clearly comfortable talking to the dude so what’s the issue for her ?
/r/seduction13/09/21 10:03 AM
1

You’re thinking with your penis, not your brain
/r/seduction05/09/21 07:27 PM
9

It sounds to me like the guy got quite nervous, didn’t have an actual conversation and instead ‘took his shot’ at a number. Maybe he or she didn’t have time to stand and chat and it’s why it was rushed. But who knows honestly
/r/seduction10/08/21 06:33 PM
8

Honestly I think it is a lot of pressure for you , because you know nothing about him other than his looks and his confidence. I wouldn’t be too harsh on yourself as I think if he talked to you a bit more maybe it would have felt more comfortable!
/r/seduction10/08/21 01:16 PM
20

As much as this is an interesting perspective, do you think the guy put you under too much pressure in the moment? Maybe if he was more relaxed and spent more time with you, you would have felt less shy?
/r/seduction10/08/21 09:44 AM
4

I think your wording of how this went down has confused everyone haha
/r/seduction07/08/21 09:08 PM
1

I think you need to keep your interactions with her as man-to-woman. Don’t reciprocate in a friend-way… but I would flirt in more obvious ways to not get sucked into the friend-zone
/r/seduction22/07/21 08:30 AM
1

So.. we shouldn’t listen to advice , but listen to you? That sounds a bit oxymoron. This sub is here to help people and there’s lots of good advice out there generally on YouTube too.
/r/seduction20/07/21 12:01 PM
1

I think this Twitter post might not even be about you? Anyways, ignoring the tweet, rescheduling last minute can be a test from her. Just keep cool and move on my dude
/r/seduction19/07/21 07:02 PM
27

Came here to say this. Am dancer and can confirm that you’ll stick out like a sore thumb. That being said, like the advice given further up, if you go for the friends-of-dancers and drop-outs then you’ll probably do better
/r/seduction16/07/21 08:29 PM
1

Is this only fans ?
/r/seduction16/07/21 11:21 AM
1

Hey mate, well done! Looks like you both had a great time. You say you thought the original bar was close to her but then it wasn’t? In future, I would try to plan a first location better that’s easy for BOTH you and the girl to get to/home from. Just in case she (or you) needs to escape, it’s courteous and also will just be easier and less for you to worry about. Just a tip but well done and great job
/r/seduction12/07/21 02:00 PM
3

How do you meet girls? What do you talk about with girls? Do you have hobbies / interests etc ?
/r/seduction10/07/21 11:14 AM
5

Yeah the story is likely better than the outcome could ever be with the number. But is an awesome story
/r/seduction29/06/21 09:19 PM
1

Lmao this has to be satire or you’re really sad
/r/seduction28/06/21 06:01 PM
-3

Then that’s a red flag….
/r/seduction25/06/21 12:47 PM
-10

Then don’t ask !
/r/seduction25/06/21 09:50 AM
5

If you ask them their body count, then you’re insecure
/r/seduction25/06/21 09:38 AM
3

This is really good and simple advice
/r/seduction23/06/21 10:22 AM
46

So basically, if you have a hobby - go to the place to do hobby with others, find girl who is also doing the hobby and talk about hobby whilst exchanging contact info. Yea of course
/r/seduction25/05/21 11:08 AM
11

Do you think she had low self esteem? The way you’re describing it.. she was receptive to you teller her she’s cute.. and then literally running after you. Maybe I’m reading too much into it but it sounded like so
/r/seduction08/04/21 08:33 AM
6

You could have fun by getting to know her too! E.g. maybe you find out she likes the same band as you - you could go to a concert together
/r/seduction15/03/21 08:29 AM
1

Yes
/r/seduction01/03/21 12:17 PM
124

My dude so many replies here are weird. A girl has literally taken a photograph of her naked body, for you. You need to validate it because that’s a very personal thing for her to do! Just keep it cool and simple. Damn girl you are 🔥🔥🔥 And then continue to flirting via text/call?
/r/seduction26/02/21 12:18 PM
28

This is the best way to phrase it
/r/seduction25/02/21 10:35 PM
3

You’re overthinking. The point of the post is that you shouldn’t just focus on the experience from one girl
/r/seduction22/02/21 12:17 AM
1

I agree.. girls are overwhelmed with compliments daily. They don’t need a man to pay them compliments
/r/seduction17/02/21 12:59 PM
0

Yeah it’s such a click-baity headline of a post that probably does more harm than good
/r/seduction10/02/21 12:44 AM
2

Sounds like she’s not interested - I would try to get better at reading the signs. Also try to detach from tinder. Your life isn’t going to skyrocket if you get a lay; so try not to put much emphasis on it
/r/seduction13/01/21 09:27 AM
-13

That’s the complete opposite of what he asked.. He said he looks older but girl asks him his age
/r/seduction01/01/21 02:36 PM
1

I think you sound like the one who’s too quick to respond? Honestly you should leave texting her for a day! Say you were busy! (Like a high value guy is meant to be...)
/r/seduction30/12/20 05:11 PM
1

Anonymous is pointless because then you’re not seducing him? He doesn’t know who it’s from... If your priority is to make him feel good about himself then yes, but to seduce no.
/r/seduction21/12/20 09:32 PM
6

You don’t need cheese pick up lines. Just be natural. But yes sometimes a comment about what the girl is wearing or doing (a playful tease) can strike a conversation
/r/seduction21/11/20 10:11 AM
3

Sounds like you need hobbies. And stop considering yourself to be only average
/r/seduction08/11/20 10:44 AM
1

Came here to say something similar.. as OP implies that you should go gym to be happy when in reality there are deeper issues you have to face and learn
/r/seduction27/10/20 12:53 PM
6

Yep it’s not about looks it’s about confidence. You could be a 3/10 looks but if you’re confident around a lady it makes a huge difference
/r/seduction14/10/20 10:08 PM
3

Honestly I wouldn’t overanalyse this. My female platonic friends would say things very similar to this... it just means they know you’re single.
/r/seduction11/10/20 01:29 PM
2

I know you’re downvoted but for what it’s worth I agree with your sentiment. Dude needs to move on. Or at least just not bother texting her for a few days....
/r/seduction09/10/20 09:22 AM
2

She agreed, not to hurt YOU, but to avoid saying NO. It’s easy to say ‘Yes sure that would be nice’ but then ignore you/make an excuse later when you’re not right in front of her face Some people say yes just to be left alone my dude
/r/seduction09/10/20 09:19 AM
2

Whilst I don’t own insta.. I think in this day and age you need ‘some’ social media profile, that holds good pictures of you and shows that you have a decent amount of friends. You don’t have to post on it, or use it.. but it’s good for social proof
/r/seduction09/10/20 09:07 AM
58

You have to give banter back to them! Sarcasm = shit tests. If you can’t handle it then they won’t be interested
/r/seduction03/10/20 04:20 PM
0

Then leave them on ‘read’ or don’t reply? Blocking someone because they didn’t reply to you is something a little girl would do.
/r/seduction15/09/20 02:36 PM
1

Brilliant advice I wish everyone would hear this
/r/seduction14/09/20 04:10 PM
2

No because once they find out you blocked them it makes you look sad and pathetic. Why are you phased by someone not talking to you?
/r/seduction14/09/20 04:09 PM
1

Yeah agree!
/r/seduction04/09/20 03:44 PM
13

This is a good post however I’m not sure I fully agree with ‘it’s how you make her feel’ and saying that looks, abs etc etc don’t matter. The most important thing is how you feel about yourself. This is noticed by women enormously. Yes of course you don’t need a flashy car or abs to feel good about yourself but for some guys that makes them feel good. The girls don’t care about those material things but if you as a man feel good about yourself then that’s gold to them. It doesn’t matter how you …
/r/seduction04/09/20 02:17 PM
5

Not sure why you are downvoted... reddit is obviously full of simps. 10s get validated on a daily basis. Someone who has the nerve to confidently tease a 10 conveys high value. Period
/r/seduction31/08/20 06:24 PM
0

If she’s not very talkative then she’s not interested (yet)
/r/seduction22/08/20 07:10 PM
2

‘No guy is better than me’ is the definition of arrogance. Of course there are guys better than him lol
/r/seduction20/08/20 04:00 PM
41

Agree. For the girl it needs to still have that ‘love story feeling’ like that she can justify to her friends after sex happens. The whole ‘well I met this guy and he said he wanted to get laid, so I hit that’ will have massive social repercussions for the girl and come off as slutty
/r/seduction09/08/20 10:56 AM
10

You need to escalate. You need to warm girls up... they are not like guys. We guys can get turned on and are ready to go in seconds. If you are talking for almost an hour and there’s no mention of the fact that this is a guy-girl conversation then it’s not going to lead to sex.
/r/seduction09/08/20 10:52 AM
2

Sure compliments are great but it’s very easy to compliment... and girls are flooded with validation constantly. It takes guts to tease a girl. Really you should have this mindset
/r/seduction26/07/20 12:02 AM
3

Ask
/r/seduction23/07/20 08:35 PM
82

Abundance mindset :) nice one
/r/seduction23/07/20 06:25 PM
2

Completely agree. I guess the sentiment of the post is ‘don’t worry about it’ But that’s level 1 thinking. Next-level thinking is the mindset of ‘they like me - but do I like them?’
/r/seduction20/07/20 12:29 PM
1

No no no no no It doesn’t matter!
/r/seduction11/07/20 10:19 PM
5

This is awful awful awful
/r/seduction10/07/20 06:10 PM
3

You shouldn’t jump to the kiss. Go slowly by leaning further forward and notice her responses
/r/seduction06/07/20 10:33 PM
-2

If you think someone is out of your league then you’ve already lost. Any girl should be privileged to hang out with YOU. Not the other way around. Imagine a girl overhearing that you like her, then she comes on to you and finds ANY excuse to hang out with you. That’s creepy af
/r/seduction14/06/20 10:55 AM
2

Dude he doesn’t know anything about her lol she could be a psychopath. Just because someone is into you doesn’t mean you should get on your knees and chase her. That’s simp city
/r/seduction14/06/20 10:34 AM
1

Get closer! You shouldnt be leaning across a bench for a first kiss. It needs to be a gradual process. Sit next to her, see how she responds to touch etc maybe hand on her arm and then drop to her hands. If she’s comfortable (and enjoying) touching your hands then you’re definitely on a one-stop service to makeout city
/r/seduction03/06/20 10:58 AM
8

Yes. Sounds very selfish
/r/seduction31/05/20 07:39 PM
1

You need r/askmen
/r/seduction30/05/20 11:51 AM
7

You spoke badly about a friend behind his back? Yeah you need to get out of that habit. That’s what little girls do
/r/seduction28/05/20 08:24 AM
3

‘High stakes?’ I stopped reading after you said that. No situation with a girl is high stakes and you’re deflecting your own self pressure into this sub - helpful much? Never put the girl on the pedestal
/r/seduction19/05/20 01:28 PM
1

I think this post would be better in r/dating_advice Sorry you just picked the wrong crowd lol
/r/seduction18/05/20 10:54 PM
1

Why does this matter? Focus on yourself not him.
/r/seduction13/05/20 10:56 AM
3

Why? You should have your own dreams and aspirations! Your own life! They shouldn’t involve getting laid! That’s just a bonus dude
/r/seduction13/05/20 06:04 AM
4

Oh my god thank you. Honestly some of the ‘I’ve got 15 lays under my belt’ shit was mildly terrifying
/r/seduction13/05/20 06:01 AM
1

Smile.
/r/seduction11/05/20 03:40 PM
4

Yep. Your girl should be able to tell when ‘it’s on’ without you having to say a damn thing. That’s the whole point here
/r/seduction05/05/20 12:31 PM
1

You and your own combination of qualities is unique to you. No one else. Not one person can be better than you in everything. E.g. yeah sure my friend is a better dancer than I am, but is he as thoughtful as I am? Thinking like this can help with jealousy too, if that’s ever an issue for you. The two topics are very similar.
/r/seduction30/04/20 09:31 AM
20

I think it’s finding out if you should like them
/r/seduction26/04/20 11:31 AM
1

You got this :)
/r/seduction20/04/20 11:27 PM
3

Then you say that you were busy! Being busy is 100% better than calling her all the time. If she asks you that then you need to remain unphased. If she can’t handle you occasionally being busy and living your purpose then why does she deserve to be your girlfriend?
/r/seduction20/04/20 11:05 PM
2

That is shit and I’m sorry for her on that! For me I’ve just waited until she reaches out to engage in conversation. We have a schedule right now.. but if she doesn’t call or text for some reason then I just try to carry on as normal until she does. I wouldn’t ask either if she didnt call or text for a while. The whole ‘why didn’t you call’ doesn’t sound great
/r/seduction20/04/20 09:09 PM
3

Yeah that’s true. I think ‘thoughtfulness’ though can be interpreted as ‘he’s overthinking/anxious/overbearing’ which can be tricky. I.e. something I struggle with is the idea of ‘checking-in’ on my SO. On one hand, I’m being thoughtful and wondering how she is. But if I’m texting her how she’s doing, really I’m just acting needy and wanting attention and the ‘thoughtfulness’ aspect is just a bullshitty justification for doing it. You can be thoughtful without being overbearing.
/r/seduction20/04/20 06:39 PM
3

I see what you’re saying and it’s an interesting topic of discussion. I guess confidence has to be proven though. And if these are random guys on the street she is judging well then they haven’t yet shown themselves to be confident.
/r/seduction20/04/20 05:07 PM
26

😂 But when shit goes wrong, girls need a guy that can stand up to the shit. Not go along with it. That’s why it’s hard for them to trust guys who put them on pedestals.
/r/seduction20/04/20 05:04 PM
7

Oh I see what you’re saying now! Apologies. It’s because when a girl says a guy is ‘attractive’ it’s not purely based on his looks. Even if she says it is, it’s not. It’s based on confidence.
/r/seduction20/04/20 04:47 PM
15

The easiest way for them to handle it is to reject the guy. Move on. She’ll find a guy who doesn’t put her on a pedestal
/r/seduction20/04/20 04:40 PM
83

Try being put on a pedestal for no reason other than your looks and you’ll probably see why
/r/seduction20/04/20 04:21 PM
100

And then you danced along the promenade and everyone started singing?
/r/seduction18/04/20 11:16 AM
1

Yes you shouldn’t be so hasty to reply by text. In your current dynamic- she is controlling the conversation between you both. You don’t ever seem ‘busy’ to her.. which will eventually bore her.
/r/seduction16/04/20 12:24 PM
-1

What kind of question is this? It’s like saying if I open my front door today- what’s going to happen?
/r/seduction03/04/20 04:15 PM
5

They shared a common setting. In this case it was their job. You have to share something in common first- like a hobby, job, place you both frequent often etc. Otherwise yeah you can’t exactly be friends first any other way...
/r/seduction03/04/20 09:34 AM
4

Yeah clearly he’s not quite over it.. a bit dramatic reaction if u ask me
/r/seduction08/03/20 09:51 PM
1

‘Just leave’ is really bad advice. In the first situation, you should playfully tease the girl on how she’s going to make it up to you for being late.
/r/seduction24/02/20 10:11 PM
8

That’s not responding to a shit test.. that’s just being a decent man lol If she has to leave at e.g. 10pm then respect her time.
/r/seduction24/02/20 10:08 PM
2

This is great advice
/r/seduction16/02/20 01:20 PM
27

And yet another post with the sentiment of ‘don’t listen to any advice’. Nice bro. Much helpful I think you meant to post your ‘wisdom’ in r/dating_advice? All the just be yourself stuff goes in there. This is seduction. Please learn the difference
/r/seduction05/02/20 12:21 AM
3

Nice one!
/r/seduction19/01/20 05:38 AM
36

It’s a validation post rather than advice
/r/seduction14/01/20 10:20 PM
1

So unhelpful- basically telling the guy to figure it out on his own
/r/seduction14/01/20 10:06 PM
2

It exists everywhere in Reddit. It’s also no different from social media in many ways... another outlet for people to seek validation
/r/seduction14/01/20 10:03 PM
4

In other words you recommend everyone figure everything out for themselves? Helpful much?
/r/seduction07/01/20 04:36 PM
3

It’s a bonus in today’s society. As, -to most people-, it’s another means of showing value. I’m not saying that you should be an active user but having your profile with some good pictures on there of yourself & friends can ONLY benefit you
/r/seduction06/01/20 02:53 PM
6

Find something unusual about them and tease them on it.
/r/seduction05/10/19 04:43 PM
1

Don’t play games with her you are way better than this. Bravo for what you did dude. You literally don’t need her bs
/r/seduction24/09/19 05:40 PM
9

This is the real attitude here. It’s not just about today, but tomorrow and the day after that etc etc. It doesn’t matter if things don’t work out here because you know they will in the future. Good for you mate
/r/seduction16/09/19 06:16 AM
1

Big mistakey
/r/seduction13/09/19 11:27 AM
3

Girls are attracted to confidence and that is exactly what this guy portrayed
/r/seduction11/09/19 10:54 PM
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