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TeapotTheDog/r/seduction24/03/19 03:17 AM
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LifestyleTeapotTheDog/r/seduction19/03/20 12:45 AM
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Everyone here will tell ya don't text back right away blah blah blah. Which is true. If you text too much then it comes off as you have nothing else better to do. That's why all of the texting game is here. My recommendation is put your phone down and find some interesting hobbies so you aren't faking it. Most definitely text back, check in etc. But do it on your time. You're busy? Don't drop everything to text her. Keep doing what you're doing and text back when you get a chance. Now is a reall…
/r/seduction29/03/20 12:48 AM
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Yeah, I know that a part of it. I know it's a numbers game. There have just been so many times where the first date went so well. We laugh, have stuff in common, seemingly excited for a second one. Then notta. Kinda figured my post first date game is lacking. That could also be the fresh rejection talking lol.
/r/seduction19/03/20 12:54 AM
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Another excellent point. Being in a relationship with someone that hasn't figured out their stuff (everyone has their thing) is like a ticking time bomb. Can't stress it enough, figure out your shit before trying for a relationship. For instance, went out with a pretty cool chick that talked about her ex that mistreated her on the 2nd date. This is about us, not him. Obviously it was still bothering her, otherwise she wouldn't have brought it up. Did I care that she was mistreated? Sure it sucke…
/r/seduction11/09/19 03:32 AM
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This guy just gets it. Every point is spot on. Girls don't want a dbag. Nor do they want a nice guy with no self respect. They want a nice, confident, sweet guy that has his shit together. Not some needy guy that she's the only thing going for him, or some cocky guy that just wants her as sex toy. Unfortunately many possible relationships are killed off too soon because someone gets over excited for the future instead of living in the now...
/r/seduction11/09/19 03:20 AM
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Agreed. Playing games and gaming chick are only really needed if you don't have yourself together. "Don't be needy, wait 3 days, don't text too much in the beginning." If you have a busy successful life that comes naturally. "Don't make yourself too available." You shouldn't be available all the time if your life is going well, you should have other hobbies and friends. "Don't take their bs." It's basically saying you should have self respect. And you should, they don't respect you then f em. Al…
/r/seduction23/05/19 12:35 AM
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Could be a million things. Could be your personality, hygiene, confidence, approach, etc. As an example, you could be the biggest catch out there, but if you have a horrible or no approach, you'll get nowhere. Give us some more info. How and where do you try to pick up chicks?
/r/seduction26/04/19 11:29 PM
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Congrats. Definitely not wrong in saying most girls won't come to you, it happens but rarely. Definitely need to take the bull by the horns. Just don't over do it.
/r/seduction16/04/19 12:58 AM
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Like moving your schedule around for them, texting all the time. Being their little puppy dog essentially that does everything for them, and spends all their free time chasing them. I could go on and on with examples. It comes off as needy and like you don't have a life, even if that's not the case. You pretty much lose value in their eyes, and no chick wants a dude that has no value. Like I said, there's definitely a line.
/r/seduction16/04/19 12:46 AM
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Yeah, but there's definitely a line. If you go after them too hard, that's off putting. Put in no effort you won't get any. The best thing is don't chase too hard, always know there's another one out there etc.
/r/seduction16/04/19 12:25 AM
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It absolutely isn't moving too fast. But I wouldn't throw in the towel either if everything else went well.
/r/seduction24/03/19 05:12 AM
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Depends on the girl. Some like to take it slow, others don't. I went in for a kiss on one chick on the first date, and got pushed away. That relationship lasted a year. It was a pretty good one tbh. She was just super nervous.
/r/seduction24/03/19 04:33 AM
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Well I was gonna joke and say they end up being a murderer, but that works too.
/r/seduction24/03/19 04:16 AM
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Go for it. Maybe she was nervous, doesn't like to kiss on the first date, or a million other things. Doesn't hurt to try.
/r/seduction24/03/19 03:19 AM
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Makes sense. I do remember her saying I'd just be disappointed. I kinda skipped a couple steps with her being friends friends. Oh well, live and learn.
/r/seduction22/03/19 02:08 AM
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Not always. Losing weight can be a nightmare for some people. Depending on job, stress, metabolism, even how much you can afford to spend on food. Still just have to make a lifestyle change. Gaining muscle, well you're speaking to the choir. I used to be 6'1" 135lbs. It was certainly a challenge, but at the end of the day was just a lifestyle change. Obviously easier said than done, but not impossible by any stretch.
/r/seduction25/02/19 02:45 AM
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True. It's more than just lifting some weights. You have to change your diet, routine, etc. It's definitely a lifestyle change. Although I'm sure it's a ton easier than losing weight.
/r/seduction25/02/19 02:23 AM
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Just go for it. In your life you are going to get rejected a lot. No need to reject yourself first. Once you graduate the flirting game gets a ton harder, so get some practice in now. You're a decent height and slim. That means any muscle you put on is gonna show. You already have a workout buddy that apparently knows his stuff. So you're already several steps up. Make time to stay fit. It's only going to get tougher as you get older to make time, so start now. Keep in mind you'll probably need …
/r/seduction25/02/19 02:18 AM
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First off, don't worry about what people think about you! You can do nothing but good in life but someone will always find something bad to say about you. As for not getting a clear answer. Ask a direct question with a clear answer. If she gives you an answer that isn't clear take it as a no and move on. We all get rejected. For various reasons. It doesn't matter who you are, we all get rejected. Don't take it personal and try it again. Eventually you'll learn and put yourself in situations wher…
/r/seduction17/02/19 07:36 PM
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It depends. I never confirm the day of unless it's a bit out of the way. If she give me a heads up with a good reason and a willingness to reschedule. No problem, things come up. If she says absolutely nothing and doesn't show, she's done, number deleted etc. It shows that she doesn't respect your time enough to even give you a heads up that things have changed.
/r/seduction17/02/19 03:08 PM
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I mean sure it happens. It's bound to happen occasionally. When you get rejected you have 2 choices. Neither of which should be considered being friend zoned. Either take it as a no forever and stay her friend (things could change, but probably not), or gtfo. Having another friend is great, occasionally people end up dating their friends. Staying someone's friend just so you may date then in the future is wrong for both of you. Personally if I'm into someone and they just want friends, I have pl…
/r/seduction17/02/19 02:45 PM
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As a guy that has been hit on while at work. It's great, amazing confidence boost. Nothing may happen, but as long as you don't go super overboard, worst case scenario you make them feel good about themselves.
/r/seduction08/01/19 11:04 PM
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Depends on the person obviously. I'm a 24 year old guy, and 21 is the lowest I'd go. Honestly though, age doesn't mean much. I've known people in their mid 20s that act more mature than a 40 year old. Just go for it. Worst case scenario she'll say no and you'll go on with your life. If you never ask you'll always wonder.
/r/seduction18/12/18 07:13 PM
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