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My wife absolutely refuses therapy as she says there's nothing wrong with her. Nope. Fuck that. You cannot deal with this if she is truly stuck at denial and will not progress and is not open to help in any capacity while simultaneously being horrible to be around in general. Its un-fixable without some outside help and you will drown with her and she will fuck up your kids if you do not take some action at some point. Its incredibly important to respect trauma and death and give the proper spac…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/18 01:07 AM
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What you need is some good ol fashioned outcome independence I left the gig early out of fear and I beat myself up about it. Like they would have fucked me. You big Faggot. Slog through the anxiety and talk to everyone next time. Dont care if you fuck it up, do it anyway. My brother is in a band and plays clubs in Sacramento and you and he sound the exact same even down to the bitching out and retreating out of fear. You have the premature ejaculation of approach anxiety. Just start with getting…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/18 12:30 AM
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Why do you feel this rule setting and talking with her is necessary and why are you not letting your lawyer do it? Seems like a huge risk and all it gets you is words out of her mouth that do not matter anyway to the end result. And do you honestly believe anybody in their right mind would stop a single mother from dating? Really? Especially when you know its already been happening for a year at least.
/r/askMRP10/11/18 05:39 PM
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weak&s is not a troll. I like to think of it as: if he can piss you off by calling you a delusional faggot and break your frame down to dust via internet text, what happens to you when your wife is going thotpocalypse on you? Probably a violation of rule 1. You would be well served to look through his post history. What you said was right except that I don't see how I can be a captain she doesn't trust if I haven't been a captain of a house with her before. Again, its a long and conscious proces…
/r/askMRP09/11/18 04:15 PM
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Get the fuck out of here faggot, the only good thing about you so far is that your name is on point.
/r/askMRP09/11/18 12:09 AM
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If you have been doing this for a year then you need to restart. 1) I made the plan because I am genuinely busy. 2 start up mini businesses and law school. Making a plan and ending up with your result is the same as not having a plan or even worse thinking you are in charge when in reality you never left her frame. 2) the plan we discussed was that I would do the heavy lifting literally while she did yet figuratively. She is clearly overwhelmed though. I am too. Moving is one of the most stressf…
/r/askMRP08/11/18 10:25 PM
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Ahoy there. If you gave her a plan to work around with reliable support while you worked then sure that is not bad. But you defaulted to letting her run the show because you want to be busy (and I bet you aren't and you are just fucking around) and the very predictable result of her feeling overwhelmed and in charge when she doesn't want to be is compounded by you being a fucking manchild who takes it personally and fails to add value in any way. Seeing the problem here yet? She had a LOT of shi…
/r/askMRP08/11/18 08:25 PM
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btw: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hJjPrYnYADU
/r/askMRP07/11/18 03:41 AM
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Good luck. Never done an open relationship but I have gleaned common wisdom from here that says it does not work long term, ever. https://therationalmale.com/2015/12/16/open-relationships/ and https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2u7nzg/mrp_thoughts_on_openpoly_marriages/ Now today, she said my 7 ONS's over the last year "happened at the right time in our relationship" and now she "feels closer to me than ever". Out of curiosity other than a few 3somes with your wife what do you hope…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/18 10:50 PM
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I've been thinking that I want to keep this together, but I waver now. I don't enjoy most of the time we spend together, but I'm not sure if it's just my ego investments causing cognitive dissonance in the face of my previous ideals and beliefs about the world and women. 14 days earlier you wrote: She stuck by me during some hard times. She has issues - but she's a good egg. Were you negotiating with yourself about her value or do you believe that? Does she make your life better or does she make…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/18 09:42 PM
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Good collection! Thanks for making. Already see a ton of these that I entirely missed!
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/18 03:13 PM
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Diet suffered this week. I'm going to do a five day water only fast starting on the 1st for general health and anti cancer properties, but should lose some weight as well. What is your current diet/macros? If nothing, go keto if you are going to struggle through a random ass fast. Best to use that time to your advantage rather than just hard fast and go back to whatever crappy diet you were eating.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/18 04:49 AM
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She counter is at 39. How is that an indicator of anything except that you are attacking this problem from her emotional perspective for her with her stress level as your reasoning. What about her response or this series of events made you think this wasn't basic bitch shit? I know that I'm crazy sometimes. I make a hard effort to be conscious about when I'm acting crazy and not. But even when I know I'm being crazy and totally absurd with how I'm feeling, I can't stop it and I just keep feeling…
/r/askMRP29/10/18 11:51 PM
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Why do you dread it? If its a flexibility/form concern then lets hear it.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/18 04:03 PM
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I learned in a power rack that was super easy to roll with so its just my habit. With the dump it seems like you create an imbalanced load being supported primarily on your shoulders and arms as it shifts and it is not in your control as it happens. Not much different to improper form causing injuries over time. Lot of the videos I just looked at show a lot of snapping/jerking to the opposite side once the weight is dumped which would cause problems in the shoulder, chest, and upper back. Beside…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/18 02:25 AM
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Seems dangerous.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/18 07:56 PM
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For sure! If he inspires you to do better then run with it. Before the pushing yourself to failure though, are you confident on the roll of shame and does the bench you use have fail bars? If not practice practice practice and find one that does. It is a good feeling knowing that you are prepared for the worst case even if you do not plan to fail. Might translate into more bench confidence.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/18 03:05 PM
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I honestly think I'm more afraid of looking like a fool by failing a rep than being hurt, which is stupid. it IS stupid. Stupid as shit in fact. How will you fix it?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/18 02:03 PM
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Give an update on how this plays out OP, I am curious. Would you walk away from her over this refusal to modify the prenup?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/18 12:08 AM
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Stay busy and productive as much as possible within the constraints of your primary goal being "heal my back as quickly and efficiently as possible". You cant fight her unconscious perception so if you are a temporary invalid rest assured she is silently judging you in your weakest most painful moments. Protip: that is okay. So four things: 1. Be attractive and don't be unattractive. 2. Prioritize healing. 3. Try to internalize that physical ability is a single puzzle piece on a very large puzzl…
/r/askMRP15/10/18 11:42 PM
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Progress pics show real difference, great job! What was your diet pre leangains? And give these a read as well as dancing monkey. Wife is sick and or tired a lot rejection Building boundaries during your transition Walking on eggshells
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 07:18 PM
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Ahhhh, I see said the blind man. The flair is a lie.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 05:01 PM
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And you are....? Do you even contribute anything to MRP in any way? How far are you through the sidebar? Do you post in OYS and if so where? Why dont you have any comments in MRP main or ASKmrp asking question or answering them? What do you do besides throw mud in PPD (flaired as a Redpill man mind you, not the unplugging swine you are.)
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 04:20 PM
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Guess your fucked then.
/r/askMRP02/10/18 08:33 PM
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Everything I do is for women. Why?
/r/askMRP02/10/18 06:26 PM
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Good reminder/refresher. I have called you all faggots, I have fucked some members in the ass, throat fucked others, but my time here is just about up. Hopefully you're just roided up and not actually leaving! We need a merciless shit kicker around here besides steeltoe Have you shaved your head yet?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/18 08:51 PM
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Whatever bitches, its Friday. Go get laid and quit worrying about stupid shit you cant control.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/18 10:05 PM
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No problem! More info from leangains about leptin specifically here.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/18 04:39 AM
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weighing myself daily, its too much. Going for weekly Initially i stepped on the scales daily and saw a creep of 0.2% BF per day and resisted freaking out. Settled back down to 19.4% using the book feed the fat burn the muscle to zig zag and will make adjustments next week depending on output of weigh in. For sure a good idea to limit the measuring. You are playing the long game and day to day your moods will shift and you will get what may seem like paradoxical results. Better to form a trend o…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/18 11:00 PM
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Ah thats lame. Here try this, its the same file converted to a .mobi for Amazon devices. May help or may not change anything but sometimes I do this and it fixes weird issues for me. https://drive.google.com/open?id=1RtWfOB4VVKU3w_DuEc9yiIWnmZL306Gz Original seems fine for me, but I am using moon reader on an Android tablet and Calibre for Windows desktop to read it which probably bypasses the issues you see.
/r/askMRP21/09/18 05:07 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/redpillbooks/comments/3rk5zk/the_red_pill_mega_book_collection_v20/ Its one of the ones included in the pack.
/r/askMRP21/09/18 04:59 AM
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Leangains is awesome! Give this a read and post an example of normal family meals as well as what carbohydrate foods you are eating that comprise that 33%. My gut reaction is you need to lower carbohydrate in your macro profile not increase it. For fat loss, Fat or protein should be highest and second highest with carbohydrate occupying 0-20 depending on your personal tolerance of zero/low carb. I prefer as close to zero as possible but not everyone can or wants to. too many carbs sometimes get …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/18 09:01 PM
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maybe I was dying That amazes me. Some people are so unused to spontaneous sex and feeling sexual/sexy that his reaction to an unsolicited blowjob was to think she had cancer.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/18 10:07 PM
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also i am stupid helpless faggot and make sure your answer does not offend me. also i fucking hate how some ppl dish out random insults to OPs whenever they post. if it”s targetted at specific issues i get it, but general insults are just annoying as hell. FTFY
/r/askMRP18/09/18 07:06 PM
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Stick around, you may learn something. Also if I understand you correctly your girlfriend is 25 and you are 37 and you have been married for 2 years and have 2 kids? If thats accurate then tell her to fuck off and open her own business and or apartment complex to make money to get upset about. And I get everyone bagging on you about the secret thing. But did you mean to imply that you didnt feel like it was information that was relevant or needed to be defended? I could understand how you can po…
/r/askMRP17/09/18 09:29 PM
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Hahaha that is great. Was she hot? Was it expensive? How did you find one? I've looked, but its sketchy as fuck in general. Jack10? Be the mayor not chad. We can say that's "beta" or seeking validation or whatever the fuck Maybe. At this point the why doesn't matter. I think you are in a pretty good place. Seems like the most recent 4-5 oys have been really on point where previously you would cycle back into woe is me mode.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 07:07 PM
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I am not currently trying to quit drinking. I get it that no alcohol would be better. What is the history there? I see from some of your history your wife is a big drinker and a child of an alcoholic so how can this decision possibly add value to you in any way? It sounds like both of you need to lay off the sauce.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/18 04:28 PM
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First of all, fuck you. Second of all, where are you on sidebar reading? You have fuckarounditis. Way too much "I need to..." from all of your oys in the past. What happened 4 months ago that gave everything a positive spin that is now is gone? How are you still possibly struggling with your alcohol consumption? 4 months of trying to do something and not making any progress is the same as failing (or you work for the government). From that link above: *Alcohol:* Went out with a friend and had a …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/18 07:38 PM
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I just need a few more inches here and there and 10-15# more of muscle Thats retarded, you would look great if you shaved now. Carve it off and don't look back. Aim for the joe rogan look.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/18 05:32 PM
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Did you smoke daily before?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/18 10:18 PM
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Fuck yeah, that is awesome! What made you decide to want to drop acid, especially over something like mushrooms or dmt? Was it a first for both of you?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/18 09:33 PM
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What are your macros? Few things to check: - Eating enough? Sleeping enough? Eating too early in the morning? I fast until dinner most days and find that after adjusting to that schedule if I eat before noon or an otherwise random time, I am ravenous and insatiable and it fucks with my mood. Caffeine in the morning kicks up fatty acid metabolism which will help especially if you are fasting often. Slam 8oz of water first time you feel it and make sure you're getting enough water in general. Suga…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/18 09:27 PM
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Think I went off on a bit of a tangent, but that was mostly my point. How that same scarcity mentality affects the workplace and causes employees to manipulate vs improve and managers to jump to whats easiest solution for them vs the actual problem like Johney tuned into.
/r/askMRP25/08/18 06:43 PM
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resisting the urge to just give in and tell her to move in. Dont grasp at smoke, faggot. Its already gone and over with. If you do break, fuck you. You deserve it. You dodged a bullet early and got some bitchin advice from Matrix and UEM in your original thread. Take that and run with it.
/r/askMRP25/08/18 02:35 AM
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For sure. Out of curiosity what is your business?
/r/askMRP25/08/18 01:21 AM
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I would urge caution in going at this with such a jaundiced eye as recommended by MCT. No need to view your superiors as the evil overlords, no need to view the system as The Hunger Game. No need to "game the system" because "dumb ass co workers" are stupid and the "only thing your bosses see" is "talking up in meetings." It really depends imo but the more common scenario is the exact opposite. You sound like a great manager/owner/boss which I feel is exceptionally rare. I work in IT with lots o…
/r/askMRP25/08/18 12:10 AM
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Sucks for peter. Think he would have been fucked either way. How quickly do you recover from amputation and getting fit for a prosthetic and learning to use it functionally vs them patching a hole in your foot and letting it heal? Did you bang jan?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/18 04:35 PM
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You sound like you are using sex for validation. The command initiation out of the blue seems very strange to me but I know from reading field reports here there are some women who prefer to be told when to fuck and cant/wont initiate to save their lives. If that is this then great, but make sure so you're not randomly doing weird ramboey shit that she is just working with because she still values you. I was rejected for sex on the weekend. Starting eight weeks ago, as long as I have said well i…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/18 11:23 PM
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As far as a general direction take: read MMSLP if you have not first thing, and create a MAP and start following it to the tune of your OYS posts. As far as what to do or how, its all up to you. Establishing your frame is high on that list. This early on I would just focus on absorbing as much information as possible while following the sidebar and posting here and /r/askmrp when you have reasonable questions. What do you hope to gain by not dealing with the other guy head on? Are you afraid? Ar…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/18 07:20 PM
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This guy just seems to gave a vortex around him. You know how these volunteer groups are. It's 99% retirees and stay at home moms and then this one guy who sort of drives the bus. That's him. Does she still go to this thing or did you just research him while snooping? Otherwise not a bad place to start. I would keep posting in OYS.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/18 03:36 AM
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Just a hunch. I'd be genuinely surprised if it stopped at validation. Its also funny how you say "she got caught in his net" like hes a predator pouncing on your helpless wife (who is probably anything but). Remember, its just your turn. If it did happen though, it probably went like this: You are in a shit marriage or having a shit year whichever is more palpable for you (maybe both?), and your spouse is along for the ride happy or not. Shes tired of your house, your kids, your bullshit, tired …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/18 02:28 AM
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Read the books pointed out above by MrChad. Sounds like your wife banged the shit out of this guy. Do you think she cheated on you? Does your game plan change at all if she did? Also how old is your son and what do you mean by strange medical ailments? The sort of IDGAF and abundance mentality that might work at a club isn’t quite the same when it’s someone you have to coordinate playdates with. What do you mean by this? Work is off limits. Keep it formal and friendly. For everything else don't …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/18 11:37 PM
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"Not too sure? I'll run it by the wife and see if we can make it". Mother what the fuck is that shit?!?! This and "happy wife happy life" piss me the god damned off. If I need to talk to your wife to get a straight answer we cant be friends.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/18 09:33 PM
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Dont make that mistake a lot of men make and go "Look Ive been with her for X years and we are doing this and nothing will change my mind" because that is exactly the kind of thing that 100% benefits her, strokes your ego in the wrong way and sets you up a for a strong state sponsored ass-fisting. Clearly you have some issues with validation and I doubt she respects you from what I am reading. If your game is less than fully dialed in and calibrated and she is not 100% committed to you as a firs…
/r/askMRP13/07/18 07:56 PM
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Excellent post, thank you for writing. This is my favorite: I have forgiven all of those who have wronged me and written them into my history, none are allowed in my future. If you can do that after everything that happened, you are a man. What is your relationship like with your mom now? Has she changed at all? Was any legal action taken against the cunts that abused/molested your family?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/18 07:30 PM
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You are trying to patched a cracked radiator with gorilla glue. Your wife is an alcoholic with deep seated issues and that takes priority above all else. REPEAT: Nothing you do MRP or otherwise will change her behavior for the better. Not dread, not plates, not lifting, not meditation etc. For your sanity and your daughters mental and physical health you need to act. There is no MRP solution here except preparing for the divorce and getting evidence of her behavior ready. She needs to want to st…
/r/askMRP02/07/18 05:24 PM
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She counter: 23
/r/askMRP29/06/18 03:32 PM
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I’m not sure what a real connection looks or feels like. Yeah sex 3 times in a year will do that to a man, but let me ask you: Do you like her? Are you attracted to her? If the answer to both of those is not a resounding yes, then maybe fixing you and staying with her are not where this show ends. Keep that in mind as you keep going with this. You are a drunk captain. Less spinning of the wheels and more action towards being the man who understands her emotions and the leader she so desperately …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/18 09:33 PM
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Hes a beta according to you, but he responded to his wife's she-boner for you by inviting just you (not your wife too?) out to hang out with them alone? That sounds like the setup for a cuck porn. Does he want to watch? I'm crushing it with my son, but not with daughters. Need to figure this out, I believe it's important. This is the second of your oys I have read this. What is there to figure out?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/18 07:10 PM
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Just in case you are entertaining the idea.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 09:29 PM
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anyone have advice on getting around this? Do you feel the need to hide your books from her? I’m deep in the anger phase, trying to get past it. You will. Just own it and keep going.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/18 11:40 PM
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Your biggest issue is that you are still learning, just keep going. Overall I would suggest less chess playing, less talking overall, and more leading. Pointing out flaws and not offering a solution including a plan from a to b is not leading. You had some good responses to her crap. The note thing was weak on her part, but even weaker on yours to respond via email. For you to be unable to contain your thoughts until the morning screams of you needing to heard specifically by her which makes me …
/r/askMRP11/06/18 11:15 PM
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Alpha flakes™ for when you need to feel good, but working on things is hard. What the fuck is this Vlad? I dont know why I remember your FR about your friends/wife drama, but how do you go from that to this bullshit? Did you get your validation tug and then regress to full retard? Unfuck this bullshit, start over. Telling her which direction to vacuum. Come on man. Read cut the shit sticky and post all the details. Re-read your ridiculous question and then do what steel often suggests and smack …
/r/askMRP08/06/18 03:33 PM
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I think thats pretty spot on. Theres probably something there to chase, but for now I am more than content to work on the things I can address directly. IANAP Could have fooled me.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/18 03:14 PM
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Absolutely yes. Saw the therapist yesterday. Therapist brought that up as well and its definitely tied in some way to my reaction to brother and his wife. I've been thinking about how I address this, and I think the most effective thing will be to practice mindfulness when dealing with family in the future to see if I react more emotionally when my family behaves in ways I silently deem inexcusable and additionally to attempt to notice when those thoughts/feeling occur. The correct reaction to m…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/18 08:34 PM
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The wife is a cunt. Treat her accordingly. Also - fuck your brother. Cut out shitty people. This is where my destination is currently set and one of the larger offences revealed by this event. I don't think there is much more to the equation that can change that at this point. Families are just groups of people and people can be cunts. If anything the fact that they are related to me is just another way to rationalize my own/their shitty behavior. The more I think this through the more I realize…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/18 05:17 PM
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I appreciate the breakdown, you've given me several angles to think from and it was refreshing writing and re-writing this reply as I chew on it. Are you upset that she violated your "no touch" boundary? A mix between indifference and annoyance regarding the specific boundary. Are you (understandably) afraid of attack from your blind side? Afraid is the wrong word is my gut reaction but there is something there, so maybe. If anything I think the uncertainty is what really still bothers me the mo…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/18 10:41 PM
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However, IF is my new norm. Weight isn't dropping off, I'm going to go to keto with IF. Yesterday was the first day of that. If that doesn't work, I don't know what will. IF is torture if your diet is based on carbohydrate. I have never seen a person with extra fat not lose fat on keto if they are tight about the diet. A lot of times habits are the problem. As of now start tracking your macros on something like the daily plate and consciously restricting the carbs per keto. She is better, but it…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/18 10:10 PM
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Got into a fight with my brother and his new wife that has been screwing with me since it happened last week. My sleep is off, and last night ltr told me I was grinding my teeth which is new. Quick backstory: Dad is bipolar and was a hard drug user and alcoholic for about 6 years while at the same time running a non-denominational Christian church as hnic. Mom is a holier than thou bible thumper to the core and works with dad. I was raised in an environment where my dad would go preach on Sunday…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/18 09:10 PM
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Seemed like an ok response to me. Key is " You need not engage."
/r/askMRP01/06/18 01:14 AM
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I don't defend or explain myself very often. Can you explain where I'm doing this that I don't realize? No, figure it out. Cholomite pointed out where you were deering when he quoted you. Your first sentence here was a qualifier, start there. Read the article. Examine your behaviors and recent interactions with your woman. I've taken the mantra of never buying on approaches/dates into this LTR and I guess it's too much push. That would seem obvious. It isn't about the money or pushing, its about…
/r/askMRP01/06/18 12:03 AM
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Look butthole, nobody is calling you a dumb useless faggot because we want to hurt your fee fees and feel better about ourselves. Everyone is calling it as they see it and you probably aren't ready to take a good look at yourself and admit you are at fault for 99% of this. Nobody here really cares about you if that makes it easier. These people are here for themselves and if you benefit from the shared experiences then more power to you and if you dont well theres 900 other faggots that will mak…
/r/askMRP31/05/18 06:03 AM
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Mindset - It wasn't the mind fuck I was looking for. Some kind of turmoil I get that, but you have not given it form. What were you thinking about/preoccupied with? Were you restless? Butthurt about the kids going? Just lonely? Lack of control? Could it be connected to your separation? Maybe you liked having her dysfunctional ass around. Ha. So I am separated now. Short story, she called me asked for $2K for her mom to pay her back property taxes. I said no. She went into orbit telling me how mu…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/18 08:38 PM
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Honestly I can't decide if your wife is psycho or YOU are. I know where my money is.
/r/askMRP29/05/18 07:42 PM
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Joe rogan experience for sure. The benefit of podcasts in my experience is keeping perspective when you feel overwhelmed with yourself and your shit. His guests include jordan peterson and jocko (author of extreme ownership). By far my favorite podcasts over anything educational or otherwise interesting like radiolab etc. On top of having excellent guests he is an MMA expert and unintentionally promoting positive masculinity.
/r/askMRP29/05/18 03:46 AM
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That doesn't make any sense. You have your answers. Not sure what this is anyway, no post history no flair no value add = im done.
/r/askMRP26/05/18 05:24 PM
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Firstly, cut the shit. You sound like a pussy with nothing close to the abundance that comes with laying 100 women or 5 for that matter. I have oneitis with my current LTR of 6 years. I know I do. This is the equivalent of walking into a room full of strangers and announcing you have shit yourself. Why should I or anyone else here clean up your shit? Sidebar over there ----> I suggest starting with No More Mr Nice guy.
/r/askMRP25/05/18 07:24 PM
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If it creates behavior modifications by setting the boundary, then it will also affect her respect. It is not the only basis of respect, but it is one. Thank you that is a better way saying it.
/r/askMRP25/05/18 05:52 PM
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I think I see where you are coming from, I just don't fully understand why you're breaking it down this way and requiring that a boundary solve the problem. Boundaries are a tool like I said above: you witness bad behavior you establish a boundary and defend it and the behavior improves or you leave. If the behavior is bad enough to you, you say something to effect of "Hey look at me, knock that the fuck off right now" and mean it and leave if she does not. If the problem is disrespect on the wh…
/r/askMRP25/05/18 04:40 PM
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The point of a boundary is to establish a defined line in front of what is and what is not acceptable behavior. They are tools you use in tandem with the other tools in the sidebar. Your example and scenarios are off. Law 9 Win through your Actions, Never through Argument Any momentary triumph you think gained through argument is really a Pyrrhic victory: The resentment and ill will you stir up is stronger and lasts longer than any momentary change of opinion. It is much more powerful to get oth…
/r/askMRP25/05/18 03:22 PM
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Man the fuck up, know that there are billions of fish in the sea, and let your girl live her life. Seems pretty clear to me. Read the sidebar.
/r/askMRP24/05/18 09:41 PM
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An overreaction imo, but also a reminder to her that your boundaries are iron clad and should be respected. You can play the second guess yourself game all day so dont bother, it doesnt matter. What does matter is that correct or not you erected a boundary and defended it (successfully it appears) so own it. To her and anyone reading it may seem like an overreaction or mate guarding or whatever, but thats irrelevant because you are saying "Our lives no longer include this person and that extends…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/18 09:38 PM
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Can you hold a grok squat right now this second? If not, I struggled with deep squatting at first as well which I attributed to many years being fat and sitting at a pc when I should have been getting laid and it was a mother bitch just to get into the squat position unweighted. Keep in mind you wont hurt yourself with bodyweight or just bar. Negative reps are 3x as useful as one rep in the smith machine so dont be afraid to dive in. Its when you are throwing around some weight you will fuck up …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/18 08:50 PM
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Maybe this isn't the right way to view it, but how I spent the first 12 years of our relationship seeking her love, by giving her mine irregardless, did nothing but give her the upper hand by living in her frame. Now that my love is a gift, she appreciates it so much more. That is spot on as far as I am concerned: conditional vs unconditional love. Its gets cluster fucky because of kids, but essentially I think the over the top selfless honeymoon period love isn't really some state you can exist…
/r/askMRP23/05/18 12:05 AM
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That is a crunchy tune.
/r/askMRP22/05/18 10:41 PM
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This OP, dont try to be clever or "RP" about this out of some misguided sense of revenge or whatever it is floating through your skull. Distance yourself as far away from this ex-wife as you can while still fulfilling your legal obligations. Alternatively buy your ex-wife a strap-on because she likes fucking you and apparently the her fingers aren't enough.
/r/askMRP20/05/18 05:32 PM
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You're killing me, smalls.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/18 08:09 PM
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You're missing the point, dumbass.
/r/askMRP18/05/18 08:04 PM
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hahaha, top comment "fuck you".
/r/askMRP18/05/18 02:58 PM
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tldr head negotiator lets wife's words affect him. Read this entire thread, specifically the jackten comment about manufactured drama
/r/askMRP15/05/18 07:25 PM
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Eh. I like to read your writing, and you have a mind for the interpersonal interactions and a lot of insight. There is a reason Rian just crossposted your other post to TRP main. I just could never figure out why the introspection stopped as soon as jesus gets involved.
/r/askMRP15/05/18 07:18 PM
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This is the kind of shit you should be making posts about in MRP main.
/r/askMRP15/05/18 06:22 PM
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/s
/r/askMRP14/05/18 06:51 PM
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Everybody calm down. It'll be fine. Get married bro. I dont see a single problem. Bunch of haters.
/r/askMRP14/05/18 04:06 PM
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Firstly, follow the god damned rules: If insecurity is your problem, then fix it: meditation and mindfulness practices, lifting, approaching, forcing yourself to be uncomfortable, and diving into uncomfortable situations with a "fuck it lets ride" mentality. While you are doing that, read NMMNG and WISNIFG. If you haven't started lifting already then go fuck yourself you're not serious you're just bitching. Schedule time with a therapist and tell them: Problem is myself. I have always suffered w…
/r/askMRP13/05/18 06:26 PM
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We had a nice evening one day this week, enjoying each other’s company. Lots of kino, slowly escalating over the evening with neutral to mildly positive response. Then things went off the rails. I started to initiate more directly, she physically pushed my hand away and I reacted straight out of my butthurt pre-RP playbook. Try easing more into it way more slowly and making the entire experience about fun/romance rather than as "an initiation for sex". Use push-pull, mess with her, put on some m…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/18 06:43 AM
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Dont know what thread you speak of, but go back a few days on mrp main and you may find it. Complaints=testing. Read this and this. In any case you dont want/need a script. You should be able to respond intuitively to anything and everything she says/does. To do that you need to read, understand, and internalize the core of what is being communicated by her to you when she is complaining and respond to that as it fits into your frame/map/relationship. Additonally, [verbal intercourse is optional…
/r/askMRP09/05/18 08:48 PM
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I cant find a whole lot of studies that are relevant to specifically testosterone and keto, however I did find this. I would agree with the reasoning that what would cause it is getting your daily vitamins/minerals, and consuming enough calories. The effect ketogenic dieting has on testosterone comes down to a few things, most likely: Are you eating enough food? Are you consuming testosterone-supporting nutrients like zinc, cholesterol, magnesium, saturated fat, and vitamin A? Are you noticing a…
/r/askMRP03/05/18 04:35 PM
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Faggot
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/18 03:16 AM
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well said.
/r/askMRP02/05/18 11:45 PM
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I am now just agreeing to everything and doing what I'm told because it is easier than arguing for half an hour and then doing it anyway because she walks away. Eg, feeding dogs, something that needs to be done. I dont remember who posted this, but is that the kind of guy you want to be? A slave to a woman with no self respect?
/r/askMRP02/05/18 06:14 PM
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A few days back, I ironed a bunch of them to eliminate convenience as an excuse. As a result, I spent the weekend looking a bit more polished than usual (button-down & jeans—a look I know she likes on me), with no reason for "dressing up". My wife didn't say a word, but definitely noticed. Weekend ended with her dressed in a for-my-eyes-only look she knows I like, and with her initiating one of our better recent sex sessions. Coincidence? Maybe—but I’ll take it, and keep working on this (DL5). R…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/18 05:48 PM
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Are you referring to my post on your oys here?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/18 10:53 PM
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Ah I see. So the real problem here is your wife has low libido, and you've known about it since the beginning. What is your expectation here? That you can MRP her out of it? Theres a very real possibility that she will never get on your level sexually. Can you do that for the rest of your days? As far as low enthusiasm vs starfish I should have worded better. Starfish meaning she knows to get the "good wife" label she needs to put out in spite of potentially despising sex or you, typically with …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/18 01:30 AM
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Sorry that happened. Its a trippy thing to wrap your head around. I know a young couple who both have genetic heart defects and both had open heart surgery within a year of each other. Before the surgeries neither had any idea their hearts could have gone at any moment before their attacks. Both are low 30s and thin. The absolutely last set of people you pick to have a heart attack in a room of randos. Knowledge of frame and power talk turned several interactions in the hospital and doctor's off…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/18 12:44 AM
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Alcohol top priority. Join aa or a non affiliated program if you cant look past the religion. Would be surprised if your job does not provide you with substance abuse counselling. If none of those are an option then schedule yourself time with an independent therapist. This is a good idea anyway. You are drinking for a reason ya big queer, figure out what it is so its easier to control. Meditation and mindfulness practices. Keep no alcohol in the house including wine/beer. Be the dd on bro night…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/18 12:31 AM
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Is this a lack of enthusiasm or starfish? I am less inclined to believe its the latter given everything else you wrote. When you had sex when you first started dating did you fuck like stoned test bunnies or is just about what you are getting now or close to it? Lack of enthusiasm can be fixed with a little application of sex god method, and creating your slut. I bought toys, lube, handcuffs, and a magic wand all of which I try to integrate into sexy time as much as possible. Want better sex? Cr…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/18 11:23 PM
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Kill the puppy first then go do your thing. Don't intellectualize it. I don't see anything in your post history indicating children or that your wife is worth all of this effort. It sounds like you have been unhappy with her for a while and have literally started NGAF about your marriage in general and are ready to move on and go bang some strange anyway so why make her existence any more chaotic than it needs to be? Thats a win-win, not some bullshit half thought out plan to have an open relati…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/18 09:08 PM
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Same faggot different day: I cannot understand your mishmash of shit. You get into counseling with a wife you are having problems with, she gets pregnant and she becomes cunty only to you. Well, excuse me as wipe the puke from my chin. You are weak and living a complete fiucking lie. Your stat boasting of well respected means shit. Shit. You know why ? Because you don’t respect her or yourself. Somewhere in this web of bullshit lies the truth. But, until you face the facts of your failures, good…
/r/askMRP24/04/18 04:50 PM
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Its the same movie
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/18 11:58 PM
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I think your program is solid. If you want more show muscles you need to work those muscles. I do 4x15 on biceps one exercise for short head and long head(ezbar curls, preacher curls) and triceps (skullcrushers/pulldowns). Alternate on squat/bench days. Results are very noticeable. Just make sure you are consistent, sleeping enough, and eating enough. Some guys get really good show muscles by proxy from doing the big 3 exercises. Some dont. As for showing chest/abs/back you only get visibility w…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/18 06:11 PM
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Try it one day for shits and giggles, itll help you sack up for when the real ride begins.
/r/askMRP23/04/18 04:55 PM
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There is no mystical unknown here. You can get past it. But you need to put in the work and reading. There can be other reasons, but generally resentment = failing to internalize the nature of women (hypergamy) + failing to communicate expectations properly + getting butthurt when your communicated expectations (covert contracts) are not satisfied. You are the problem. Read NMMNG/WISNIFG.
/r/askMRP20/04/18 09:50 PM
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hah, "you want to fight or fuck?". Awesome.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/18 06:13 PM
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Faggot/Troll.
/r/askMRP20/04/18 05:21 PM
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Probably didnt do the chores right but thats really weird. Usually works. Maybe try /r/DeadBedrooms
/r/askMRP20/04/18 03:25 PM
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Impostor syndrome meaning you don't feel like you deserve to have what you already have earned in spite of direct evidence to the contrary (wife/kids/house/money/friends), and are constantly afraid something will happen and result in everything falling apart and you being singled out as an asshole. Its based in a lack of self esteem which is obvious from your posts. I think I said it before to you already, but allowing people to speak to you in a way you both know is disrespectful without reperc…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/18 04:31 PM
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Source: Was chubby chaser. My nigga
/r/askMRP16/04/18 05:48 PM
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I think what he is saying is its obvious how inconsistent your words are with your actions and that you are a faggot. Seriously, think about some of this shit you wrote: Our dream had been to have a large family: Who's dream is this? If the answer isn't a confident "mine", then this is her dream and you are a faggot. Why the fuck is this your dream anyway right out of school? Fuck that, live a little. She was eventually laid off and after that we got more serious about having children, however a…
/r/askMRP11/04/18 12:14 AM
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I'm in a nutrition coaching program, and their mantra is that "It is all calorie restriction." No magic to any way of eating (or if there is, the effect is minor in all but the most advanced athletes, etc). This is why everyone warned you about your fitness "program" as well. These places are businesses unconcerned with your success, unaccountable to any metrics, and rely on authority and your inexperience. I've been through the dance with various medical/nutritional/exercise professionals. The …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/18 11:32 PM
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What are your macros and calories? Your cholesterol numbers don't look bad for someone eating health and exercising. How did they tag it and what do the tags say?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/18 11:10 PM
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Spot on! Logistics cant be an issue if you buy/cook/clean and keep in mind women need variety. Buy a charcoal grill and tool set and get good at preparing it for all different types of meats. I started grilling when I started MRP and I am glad I did. Recipe websites are your best friend and I regularly prepare new stuff for us to try that even a poptart mcawalt would eat happily. Compliance is the easy part imo. Finding the balance between being an an oppressive food nazi who pisses everyone off…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/18 09:35 PM
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Added. thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/18 05:24 PM
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I smell fuckarounditis. Stop smoking or quit posting about it, its been too long. Hows the skinny body coming? Sounds like you need to work on approaching and your social game. Meetup is cool but cold approaches will actually show you directly that rejection is ok and that you have significant power over them if you want it.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/18 05:44 PM
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Fix the root problem, not symptoms. This boils down to self-sabotage for ego protection, because being broken up emotionally about her lack of attraction to you is simply about your ego's dependence on her validation. Fix the root problem, rather than symptom refief. And then shortly before that I suggested therapy because of the fucked up shit your wife was saying to you and you went to the first session on the 13th right? How did the other sessions go? What did they say? How did you feel about…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/18 11:29 PM
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Good work, that was a decent read. I believe I finally passed one. Definitely. Just a reminder: Usually you get lots of complaints of the "I'm confused" variety when your actions are in fact confusing in relation to your marriage. If you spent the entirety of said marriage being a pushover chumpy little bitch and then one day you are dipping to go to the gym randomly and totally changing the game plan like whether or not you have a 4th kid, the natural reaction for most people is going to be hos…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/18 05:01 PM
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go to the beach wearing a swimsuit (F) go clubbing and dancing (F) Has insecurity ever been a problem for her?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/18 11:22 PM
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Does she look like a 20 year old instagram supermodel? If not, not a 10. A 10 doesnt put up with bullshit. So either shes your bitch or you are hers. Which is it?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/18 06:33 PM
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10s are supermodels. You are not married to a ten.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/18 05:44 PM
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Whatever advice I tried to give him it is explained away by him with excuses Thats going to be how it is unfortunately. People dont like being told they suck at everything and everything they have ever thought/done has been misguided. Best you can do is give him a sidebar book and point him here. If your plan goes any further than that then you are insane but alas awalt. Also women arent allowed here without posting pics of their tits.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/18 12:49 AM
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Doesn't sound like a shit test. Remember focus on you with a bad attitude = shit test, focus on her or her feelings = comfort test. I would say if you kept her in the dark the entire time she is justifiably stressing about it. Not to say it isn't ok to do whatever the hell you want, but dont forget about your first mate and crew. Are you owning your shit at home? Does she have the tools and resources she needs to succeed? Is she used to being codependant on you for taking care of the kids? The e…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/18 09:04 PM
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Assuming OP is owning his shit and getting laid regularly, how does your advice change?
/r/askMRP26/03/18 08:28 PM
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Unsure why shitstorm but it makes sense to me albeit with a lot of extra theory words added. TRP fosters ST-AF framework relationships whereas MRP fosters LTR-BB relationships with varying levels of BB behaviors. TRP is limited generally to AF-ST when switching from AFST framework to LTRBB framework and the reverse is true for MRP. So basically, its all about balance and what you want and also if you care you can debate theory until the end of time which is ok if you're into that. Ignore the peo…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/18 11:33 PM
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Clearly he has some valid points.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/18 11:47 PM
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Do you feel like you wasted time, or that it was just part of the process?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/18 09:42 PM
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Its a balance. Endorsed or not if you treat DT like Red Curious treats the bible then there is a problem on your end. Do what works, discard what doesn't.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/18 08:17 PM
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Mind posting your numbers? Higher total cholesterol and elevated ldl on keto is pretty normal. Doctors tend to highlight it as a crisis because any and all cholesterol is still associated with cardiovascular disease and diabeetus and statins are lucrative. Any other issues or did you just notice the test numbers?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/18 08:17 PM
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First things first: Still working to breaking the status quo, by initiating and being less mentally checked out. How exactly? Detail here what you did this week that was different than last week because you wrote the same thing. Unless you look like this something is wrong with your diet. It took you two months to get to a 105lb bench press? Why is your upper body so weak. Please post your diet and macros. Just remember: The bottom line is that by following the MRP program, you are making a comm…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/18 12:01 AM
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Big focus on calories in calories out and finding your magic number to eat every day. Lets start there. Calories in calories out is wrong. Go keto. Surprised you are using IF while not on a ketogenic diet. Is your current diet pretty low in simple carbohydrate? Id be curious to see your food log if you dont mind posting a day or two. If I eat at a calorie surplus, will the lifting program eventually cause my "pot belly" to go away, or will it get bigger as my muscles do? No and it depends on you…
/r/askMRP12/03/18 07:57 PM
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Pretty close. I hadn't pooped in six days or so and then had 4 bowel movements in one day. Your argument is literal shit. Your diet is working so well that it causes constipation reliably and badly enough for you to conclusively say the shit you lost is the reason for breaking through a plateau? But it works by tricking your body into thinking you're starving. And there are consequences for that. No it does no such thing, and you saying so is why I called your musings on diet and health retarded…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/18 05:50 PM
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Solo therapy is your best bet. Once a professional helps you work through how toxic her behavior is and gives you some strategies for breaking away from her domineering is when you will finally be able to grasp the smoke from the other comments. If you do not, its going to be difficult to get the poison out of your thoughts when you get a fresh dose daily. Also I am sure you have read this since you've been around a bit, but there is a very likely chance that she will not be receptive or deserve…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/18 09:14 PM
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Good demonstration of controlled anger too.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/18 09:01 PM
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I've finally broken through my old plateau. Judging from the sudden drop in weight, I seem to have been storing unnecessary weight in my bowels. Who knew poop could weigh so much? Time to start hiking up my fiber intake. Broccoli's back on the menu boys! That being said, given that my plateau did in fact break, I'm going to stick with my current diet for now, and drop calories as necessary. I don't plan on switching to keto unless I have too. I've got a good routine going that I like and it's ea…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/18 08:51 PM
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Is this an alt for /u/redpillrobby?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/18 08:19 PM
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Due to popular demand, I'm going to really let loose on this post and not edit myself so much you cheeky bitch. but I doubt that how I feel now is a good indicator of how I'll feel a month from now. True of us all. Do you have the sack to divorce her? Also I thought this was funny but I just re-read your first post and you edited it a year ago saying: UPDATE: Well, that didn't turn out as planned. You can say that again!
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/18 12:04 AM
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Sounds like its just fee fees bro, let it out and then reign it in. Keep doing the oys. How is everything else going? Quiet your own emotions for a moment and take stock of everything as it is. Are you having more or less high quality sex than when you started? Are you healthier? More fit? Have direction and goals? Wife happier in general? I'm struggling trying to transition to the 3rd stage Deida talks about in The Way of the Superior Man. Whats the rush? Going to be longer than 4-5 months befo…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/18 11:45 PM
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If I had come home and started apologizing, how depressing that would be for everybody. Interesting example of defusing your hamster and getting out of your own way. Also for sure you are making progress phsyically. Week 25 Now
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/18 06:54 PM
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This is a white woman diet not a lifting man diet. Needs to be fixed. Go keto, reduce carbs, eat more animal protein. Macros should be fat > protein > carbs. Benchmark yourself at the gym. Grab a spotter, calculate your 1rm on bench as an example and see how you feel. I wouldn't be surprised if you 1rm at 165-175 and can do 4 more. I logged your food into daily plate to get an idea of your day: 2022 calories (if my guesstimate of which brands/products and servings is accurate) 57% carbohydrate -…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/18 06:16 PM
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Fuck yeah! Was thinking of MRP when I listened to this last week. Goggins is a great example of mental toughness, frame, and the 40% rule. After H.U.R.T., Goggins began training for Badwater in earnest. Because he was working full-time for the Navy, he trained from midnight until 4 a.m. for several months. This schedule wasn’t without its costs, however. To suppress the pain from his broken bones, shin splints and tendonitis, Aleeza resorted to wrapping his feet with casting tape, which meant he…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/18 05:24 AM
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How old are you? Its always 50+ guys I see doing this. Makes me think feet on the bench was cool 10-20 years back.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 05:12 PM
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A woman without libido is a broken woman. I've been through the low libido due to ssri shitshow with my current ltr over two years ago. Its hard to describe, but its basically like their sexuality and sexual signals are muted. She would not respond to kino/push-pull in the way a woman not on an ssri would. Orgasms for her were all but impossible. The shitshow ended when at my urging and with my support she got off the medication entirely and sought out behavioral therapy to address the root caus…
/r/askMRP02/03/18 11:59 PM
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Whats my next move? As expected, she been Ice Queen for the past 24 hours. Live your life and enforce your new boundary. Pretend she does not exist unless she is being pleasant. Your mission remains unchanged. If you fail to defend your new boundary, you would be better off killing the puppy and divorcing her. Keep going with oys/map/lifting. Her blowing off your declaration is because she does not respect you or fear that you have better options most likely after years of you reinforcing that y…
/r/askMRP02/03/18 11:39 PM
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Same shit different day. Leaving needs to be an option at all times. First thing: Boundaries. It also sounds like you are still not fully committing to fix the bullshit or divorce because of oneitis. From your OYS she definitely needs to have your boundaries clarified to her. Losing your shit at dad in front of kids is a big no no and you should isolate her and inform her that your wife will not lose her shit in front of the kids or be disrespectful to you in front of the kids for any reason. Th…
/r/askMRP02/03/18 09:26 PM
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From your last thread where the leading advice was to run: Red flags everywhere. She doesn’t respect you. She told you right to your face. She said you don’t fit in with her friends but he does (with her actions). Work on yourself: Sidebar Lift Dread I’d probably next her. It sounds like she’s setting it up to next you anyway. Way too many red flags. And here you are so far up her ass that you need other people to tell you how fucked up it is for your fiancee to sexually pleasure someone else WH…
/r/askMRP27/02/18 12:54 AM
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Should I be accelerating the weights faster? Yes unless you have a condition or advice from a doctor. If you're really uneasy just keep doing your current program but adding more weight at each increment to save time. I' think its fair to say that an entirely out of shape untrained average loser male can walk into a gym one day and squat 135 and bench 145 with halfway decent form. Not going to hurt you much if you go super slow, but why be doing meh if you could be pushing yourself into tangible…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/18 05:26 AM
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So, Saturday comes and my son... Then, she goes back to the bedroom. Kiddo decides he needs to pee. I was ok with it... How are you calling this progress? You were a passenger in that entire situation and you let your wife and child dictate how events play out instead of the other way around. Read up on and maybe ask /u/BluePillProfessor since he has way more experience with red pill parenting. You're on keto right? IF everyday and supplement with caffeine during fasted hours, keep daily calorie…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/18 12:57 AM
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Getting your wife to acknowledge and agree that her weight is an issue in your relationship and that you will not accept her low effort at maintaining her body any longer is difficult in your current position. But it doesn't change the fact that she has to earn those vacations, big house, and spending money by being valuable to you. Per Persaeus, focus on fixing your nice guy problem first. Dread is most effective followed by leading by example for the weight thing. No ultimatums or talking abou…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/18 09:03 PM
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You do not need thoughts and opinions on leadership. You have the same problem you did when you posted your first oys as you do when you posted your 9th. Whatever the reason, you are playing keep the wife happy instead of doing whatever the fuck it is that you really want. Whether you think you are being mean, lack self confidence, or whatever, you need to fix that first. Your example is just the latest in a long list your relationship with your wife has produced. you said this a few months back…
/r/askMRP16/02/18 10:45 PM
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Any other tricks from your practice that you feel have benefited you along the way?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/18 11:48 PM
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Captain save a bro does not work. Much like addicts, people you want to help need to hit rock bottom and realize the problem and solution on their own. If you really want to try, you are better off leading him with questions that let him highlight to himself what he needs the most help with. At that point you can drop techniques you've learned and then when he goes "Bro how did you learn stuff like this?", thats when you drop the mrp referral. Trying to fix people does not work. Focus on what yo…
/r/askMRP30/01/18 10:56 PM
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Welcome back. A whole lot less victim-y this time around. This all just made me realize that my wife is barely even the issue at this point. Yes! Anyway. We're going back to therapy, but really all I want to do is 1.) clearly state my vision for what I want our sex life to look like, 2.) get a clear expectation for how we can both decide if things are working or not. No! What? Why? How much more evidence of failure do you need before realize that fixing this problem is not going to be a conversa…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/18 05:26 PM
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Jordan is obviously a pro and shut her down without seeming incompetent or nervous. But this whole video is frustrating to watch because of the platform. The man literally treats people and talks about psychology all day every day and shes wasting a majority of their time trying to get him to somehow admit he is marginalizing women and that the pay gap exists for the wrong reasons. Its such a fucking waste of time.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/18 09:33 PM
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Keep going and resisting the cravings. Falling back into the comfortable habit that got you fat is deceptively easy if you slip up. Diet looks ok. Read through the keto faq in /r/keto if you have not already. Maybe swap the roasted peanuts for almonds or almond butter as a snack and get off the low carb bars/shakes but they are really good as crutches for transitioning away from a previously shit diet while you internalize what foods are worth eating and those that act as fillers. Low carb adapt…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/18 08:58 PM
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Curious to see the paternity test results. Wonder if the feeling really is just insecurity/hamster or if its coming from deeper. What have you actually done as far as looking for work goes? Any leads? Do yourself a favor and just throw all your booze out and dont buy more for 3 months. Edit: just read your previous oys, do you smoke weed too? Shut that down shit hard. No smoking for 3 months either. Like I said. Briffault's Law in full effect. Something completely innocuous turns into a humongou…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/18 07:47 PM
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Sucks, but hopefully you were preparing for this being one of the possibilities from day one. Try to bang some twenty somethings. Also re-read Matrix advice from your last thread. Probably the best thing for you.
/r/askMRP21/01/18 07:00 PM
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Yes it is. So when you are complacent in your routine or while following your map, a concept like this can help you realize that.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/18 12:23 AM
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This post seemed to me to be more about complacency rather than building your behavior around it sort of like hysterical mentioned above. When you think are done, do a little more anyway. Applies to simple shit and maps. Sort of like the 40% rule. Noobs and vets can benefit from it.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/18 10:21 PM
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It takes time. You cannot undue a ten year marriage full of failure in 9 months unless you're doing it right and even then it doesn't always fix marriages. You need to read. Hit that mrp sidebar. Read up on the types of dysfunctional captains, shit tests and comfort tests, acta non verba, owning your shit, and the 1000ft rope. Her marriage question was probably a comfort test that you failed. Resentment and anger is you being angry with yourself always.
/r/askMRP19/01/18 08:20 AM
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Your focus on this singular interaction and needing to respond to her with the right phrasing and not on your incongruity is your biggest problem. Your second mistake is with vetting for sure. Why is a 30 year old woman in a ltr going to a party presumably with alcohol and other men without you late at night? Ignore this for a second though. Theres a post by Stoney I think about how a lot of new guys (or guys lying to themselves) biggest mistake is treating RP as a response to problem mentality …
/r/askMRP19/01/18 07:53 AM
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Smells like nice guy/covert contracts. What did she do that offended your fee fees? Honestly, i am not butthurt in any way, BUT i don't want to let such behaviors without consequence. How do i handle this? This means you are butthurt. And she noticed your behavior change which kind of confirms butthurt.
/r/askMRP19/01/18 06:21 AM
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Write more.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/18 01:03 AM
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What else are you doing besides lifting regularly to get in her in tow? Who shops? Who cooks? Do you enable her shitty diet choices? Do you feed the kids garbage? She will embrace what you want more easily if you create and maintain an environment that compliments your desires. Also I read thread a couple of your more recent OYS. What happened with her cheating on you?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/18 12:18 AM
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I don't know what happened to me, but I'm always overeating and I'm afraid I'm gonna lose the momentum. I need to stop being a fucking faggot and pig. Whats happening with me? The Great IF + Lift is just turning into lifting. I need to step this shit up and I have 0 excuses not to. Such a victim. You realize that this is exactly one of your major problems right? This mental ineptitude. So how can you sit there in a thread about owning your shit complaining that you just cant help yourself and bl…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/18 12:06 AM
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Keep going fatty, hate is good. You can lose 100 in less than a year at your weight easy. IF religiously, keep a 14 hour eating window. I would say throw in some sprints after you lose a bit more weight to rapidly accelerate your fat loss. If you're still at 60g/day drop to 20 or try to go zero. No cheat days until you're down another 50, and that includes holidays, fatty. Is your wife fat, and what was the context of the cheating? How did you find out? Have you read this? What are your 5x5 numb…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/18 06:42 AM
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That was a shit test, not a comfort test. Comfort test would be if she was crying about it, or feeling overwhelmed and needing you to stabilize her. Sounds to me like shes just pissed because you're not owning your shit and when called upon it you demonstrated no planning or logistical awareness and failed to convince her otherwise. Also keep in mind if you're new to RP that responses like "The same way it always gets done" is just going to confirm to her your failure to lead because shes probab…
/r/askMRP22/12/17 05:07 PM
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Beautifully put.
/r/askMRP18/12/17 10:11 PM
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SHORT: Needed to express some pent up fee fees so I created some drama for no reason by roleplaying as a woman and acting like a little bitch and embarrassing myself in front of my wife and a bunch of strangers on the internet. Also I am alpha AF FTFY Seriously dude. Women keep old pictures of fun times including the dicks that came with them. I have yet to see one that does not have an old picture of a boyfriend somewhere. Extra true the hotter the woman. Its usually not an idolization thing an…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/17 05:43 PM
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If I take everything personally, I take this as a rejection, get hurt, and back off. I’m looking for a passionate reaction, don’t get it, and feel bad about myself. This time around, I just inwardly said “Look - it’s obvious from therapy that she has major sexual hang ups. It’s extremely difficult for her to access her own sexuality or feel sexy - that’s why she’s awkward. It’s up to you to lead her through it.” So I did that - instead of getting hurt, I smiled, kept kissing her, laid her down g…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/17 05:24 PM
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Jesus fuck me sideways christ. Just stop. The first thing you NEED to do is stop messaging, thinking, analyzing, fucking talking to people you do not know about her like a creepy fuck. This is oneitis and anything and everything you do will hurt you regardless of what you think. Stop. You fucked this up. The last message i sent her was a few paragraphs (i know) saying i cant be just friends, and im gonna give her space until shes ready to respond (cos she was trying to go back to just normal mes…
/r/askTRP05/12/17 06:10 PM
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What the fuck?
/r/askMRP02/12/17 12:32 AM
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Do it, what better way is there to becoming a masculine man with purpose than to get married because your girlfriend told you to and youre afraid of losing her. This isn't yahoo answers. Read some of the books in the main subs sidebar and start learning why your post is annoying as fuck in every way.
/r/askMRP24/11/17 09:36 AM
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Got an “Urgent” text from the ex to call her, so I caved and called her. She has a sore throat and has self-diagnosed herself with throat cancer, sigh. Told her to go and get it looked at, it was just a virus of course. This seemed off to me. Whats your relationship with her like now? Not that it is a huge issue that shes still running to you for help, but why not tell her to piss off in a nice way and set a boundary? I'd be annoyed if someone sent me an urgent message and then I called to find …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/17 08:48 PM
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Are you this guy? You've got the same simple problem as everyone. Your wife is not attracted to you and you're not a leader. You have no abundance and value her and her feelings to the point of repulsing her sexuality. I dont know how it can be more clear between all the comments and your threads thus far. You focus too much on the minutiae and everyone's feelings and not enough on being attractive and not being unattractive, irrational self confidence, and dread Why all this god damned talking …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/17 06:04 PM
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Hahaha. I just saw elliptical guy and "our bicep curls will blot out the sun" guy yesterday. Also, you need your flair changed to "red pill endorsed shit poster".
/r/askMRP13/11/17 06:11 PM
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Next time hold frame and do not negotiate a blowjob or sex after maybe passing the test. She will blow you if shes attracted to you, but the same behavior when things are rocky will backfire so I would not call it good. Read up on the tests so you can better identify them in the moment. Dont let her drag you out of your frame because you are uncomfortable with making her uncomfortable. You placated her with your first answers which was probably because you were caught off guard but ended on a so…
/r/askMRP10/11/17 08:35 AM
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God damn man, that was beautiful.
/r/askMRP08/11/17 12:57 AM
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Sex is still fairly low frequency/quality; I've guessed that's a lack of game on my part. Most definitely. I would focus on that. Sex should not be your goal, but it is always a side effect of being a confident attractive man and is a good measure of your general progress. She will not follow you if she does not want to fuck you so focusing on just leadership and decision making without the attractiveness will get you nowhere. Also the 1000ft rope concept. I've thought I'm improving in general, …
/r/askMRP07/11/17 12:20 AM
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Sure. It feels like analysis paralysis coming from your end. Lots of ownership and information, but still very heavy handed (Rambo) on the application of the things you learn which seems like very slow progress after 5 months of consistent work and where I would guess a lot of your problems stem from. I would say most people struggle with Rambo and stfu within the first 1-3 months. How are your interactions with your wife in general? Are spats like these a regular occurrence? Do you feel like th…
/r/askMRP06/11/17 10:59 PM
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Maybe I am missing something, but we are in askmrp so autism and people way off base are to be expected. My gut reaction wouldn't be to call you a dumb useless faggot even though there are a few huge mistakes. Went through your post history and you seem to be trying to put in the work (albeit extra slowly, whats that about) and you seem slightly self aware. However I would read up on Rambo and Stfu as those seem to be your trouble spots based on this puke.
/r/askMRP06/11/17 10:04 PM
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Good luck, sounds like you are done with this one. Just be extra sure you are not overlooking some huge flaw. Definitely be mindful about your adversarial thought processes and make sure if its a problem, that you start working on it sooner rather than right before the next marriage ends if you decide you still want to get married ever. Give this JackTen post a read. Life is not "you vs. your wife." It's not you vs. your job, or even your kids. It's you vs. you. So I repeat, the only thing that …
/r/askMRP06/11/17 09:32 PM
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I think you are setting yourself up as a victim and are a child with dynamite and have been this entire time. This whole situation reeks of being a big covert contract for you to get the sex you think you deserve. Follow everyone's advice and proceed ahead with the divorce preparations. However, I like to point out that any negative behaviors your significant other exhibits are projections of your own behaviors and I think based on your post history you have misdiagnosed your wife and yourself a…
/r/askMRP06/11/17 07:56 PM
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Delegate with a purpose, do not just let shit happen to you. You're not a yes or no guy, that is an excuse. Are you just going to defer to your wife for every time/date always? Fuck that shit. You need a calendar. Owning your shit = owning all of it, including the planning and logistics. I got a dry erase whiteboard and hung it next to my front door that I draw in the calendar/events for the month. Its easy and takes 5 minutes a month to do. I also use Siri notes and my cell phone calendar which…
/r/askMRP27/10/17 07:07 PM
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The chrome plated balls on these fucking guys, I swear. What need is there to separate except to dilute the information further behind another layer of shit. Your feelings? Cause its not fair? Who fucking cares. The guy that started the sub is like 6 days into RP strategy. I mean look at this dog shit: Lead Level 9. Thermonuclear. Tell your wife and kids that you love them. And show it. Lead Level 10. Read Jordan Peterson Lead Level 11. Coach a little league team. Lead Level 12. Adopt a child.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 03:32 PM
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Im not trying to mate guard: Proceeds to mate guard. Snapchat/insta these days is a given with almost all women. Its a very small minority that does not use these things daily. Why worry? Presumably you just got done having sex, hopefully. Why does this bother you unless you already suspect cheating or are super insecure. If you are not ok with it then you need to establish a boundary and enforce it.
/r/askMRP15/10/17 09:04 PM
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This whole process took me about 3 months with my wife You are killing me smalls. You started three months ago with MRP in total. Maybe some of the guys here who are paralyzing themselves thinking too much can apply this, but this shift toward more sex and positive response in your woman is going to happen naturally within 3-6 months if you follow the sidebar. Become a muscley alpha that generates tingles. 88 summarized my thoughts well. A combination of being attractive, not being unattractive,…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/17 06:44 AM
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Low libido, lack of energy/motivation, feeling like a baby that life is too hard for. Easy to confuse with just acting like a bitch but in some cases you may actually not have enough flowing through you in which case a doctor may prescribe a supplement to correct your low levels. Naturally, lifting and performing difficult physical tasks can slowly increase your levels or unfuck someone on the lower end of the normal but if you have a deficit most people report a complete positive turnaround aft…
/r/askMRP12/10/17 06:45 PM
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Its all good baby. There are all kinds of flavors to the posts and replies and I fail to see a broad shift toward negativity and or failure. Why does it bother you that guys are going through shit because of decisions they made or soapboxing about how all women are hypergamous cunts who can never be trusted? Roll through it. Doesn't matter if you disagree, what matters is what you do and how successful you are doing what you are doing. For me personally, I started here because I hated myself and…
/r/askMRP12/10/17 06:20 PM
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Agree with JD. Dont overthink it. Your responses to her were on point. What areas is she slacking in that she knows about that you would like to improve?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/17 11:54 PM
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You're not two years in if this kind of shit confuses you and I very seriously doubt this is the first time you frame has been shattered. You are faking and you are being outclassed by your woman. Where are you on the sidebar and reading? Are you practicing dread? Sounds to me like you are just coasting and used some RP tricks to get to a point and then just started chilling. Take more ownership and work harder. You want better kinkier sex from your wife? It starts and ends with your behavior. S…
/r/askMRP11/10/17 12:16 AM
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Here you go little boy, here are the pats you so desire: pat pat. Kill your fucked up marriage, get in shape, focus on you. She probably had a side boy lined up and he stopped responding so she called off you moving out
/r/askMRP10/10/17 11:57 PM
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Your OPSEC is retarded, though you either know that, or you wanted her to find them, somewhere in that lizard brain. Its hard to see past this. You have been spinning plates for over a year and just when you decide you are going to end it all, your wife finds out on a technicality like imessage syncing? That doesn't sound like happenstance. The other thing that seems to be missing is your mission. What is your mission? Whats your long term map? Is your wife a part of that? This all feels like a …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/17 03:53 PM
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You are handsome motherfucker. Looking forward to the video and that was an excellent writeup. Were you nervous about speaking?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/17 06:21 PM
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You're confusing results with creating tension and negative feelings which is what everyone else is getting on you about.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/17 04:21 PM
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When your life is a shitshow and you learn that you were the showrunner the whole time (which I feel is one of the first things you internalize) I think a natural reaction is shame and embarrassment and if your journey happens in that order your ego and frame are not ready for that kind of ownership so naturally you hide your mistakes to protect how you perceive yourself or how you feel others perceive you. The archive lives on though. Every once in a while I'll find a new jackten or other depar…
/r/askMRP06/10/17 04:17 PM
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Dont think photo dread is going to get you results.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/17 10:28 PM
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Fine and dandy but why are they so special? Reeks of a lack of an abundance mentality.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/17 06:09 PM
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Dude fuck yeah. This oys is all you and your shit not so much your wife and her shit. Seminar sounds interesting and that you got a lot for your money. If you do not mind sharing, what was name of the leader? Weird that he called you out like that but your response was interesting. What were you talking about before he stopped you? And given that you self admittedly overthink and talk when you're nervous do you agree that is what was happening? Or were you just trying to get the room going and h…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/17 10:48 PM
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Ha. These are dirty old man jokes.
/r/askMRP03/10/17 11:17 PM
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All I see is a lack of ownership, leadership, and boundaries resulting in a an out of control woman who you are letting drag you through the mud who clearly has already cheated on you once. Sidebar, and stop getting married.
/r/askMRP03/10/17 11:15 PM
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I'm more grateful for this shift than I am for any type of change with my wife or women I interact with. I give all the credit to the work I've done since coming here. Reading stuff like this always gets me pumped up. Thats an excellent observation about yourself. What was the award for exactly?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/17 03:31 PM
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You have oneitis for two women and need to figure out what you want and then do it. Theres no angle or sweet advice someone is going to point out that changes the facts. Just keep in mind there is no grand morality to be judged by and tons of people do what you are doing right now with varying levels of success. You just have to reconcile it with your beliefs and make it work. Figure out which one you want more and then be with her or keep them both going for as long as possible. There is no out…
/r/askMRP02/10/17 08:10 PM
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Faggot, read the sidebar. You are reactive and do not know basic sidebar shit.
/r/askMRP28/09/17 06:46 PM
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Don't do that to me husband. Don't judge your life by my opinion." Wisdom
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/17 10:48 PM
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This is what resonates with me the most and Dentyn hits on it in the top comment. None of that other shit matters, you do you. Going full on tucker max has a short ceiling and is not a long term strategy if family/marriage is one of your goals. Are you strong, stoic, playful, motivated, disciplined, quick-whitted, and emotionally unaffected by dumb shit and happy? If not try harder, if yes keep doing it. The rest is semantics including what word you choose to summarize your traits. It seems like…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/17 04:51 PM
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Your focus is too sighted on her and her reactions. I count you saying "she...." 73 times in your two posts above. I am glad you feel like you are moving forward and all said and done, thats all that really matters. However, your post is written very much like a noob with analysis paralysis (is writing long form like this a way to help you decompress?). It may be just the way you are or have conditioned yourself to be, but from your past OYS and especially this one, you and she seem to be your o…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/17 06:22 PM
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Then let her thinking/feeling pass you like the wind and do not DEER. The point of you having a frame is that it does not buckle under pressure or flow like water through the path of least resistance, it is just your iron will incarnate. Your wife may or may not respond well and thats ok, thats the whole point. Your indifference to her chaos is what will attract her to you and your leadership when internally she feels like shit is falling apart. The important takeaway from your exchange with you…
/r/askMRP19/09/17 03:21 PM
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per /u/cholomite from your other thread: Stop making "quick advice" posts, you lazy fuck. Maybe if you had been putting in effort all along, your wife wouldn't cringe at the thought of having your dick near her. What are you doing with your life? All I see here is a lazy man baby who wants to do minimal effort, but that's not how it works. Until you accept that you need to put in actual work, and create a strategy to get that work done, stop posting for quick tips and other lazy bullshit. This i…
/r/askMRP15/09/17 08:56 PM
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Asking for others to make decisions for you is an autistic way to run your life. Figure out what you want and accept the consequences of the decision you make. All of your wifes positive and negative traits are a direct reflection of your frame and progress. Lack of sex is almost always a lack of attraction to you and the way you run your life. The emotional affair and cheating issue is about boundaries and confidence. She will cheat if she wants to, and if shes smart it will be very difficult t…
/r/askMRP15/09/17 05:32 PM
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The one mistake that will ruin his life.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/17 05:31 PM
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No, I wouldn't touch that trainwreck and you even have some inside info from the friend saying shes fucked up. You have oneitis and are way over analyzing this situation.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 05:18 PM
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Sidebar, start from the beginning. Your story is shitty but it does not change what you should be doing or that it is your fault in entirety. Stop thinking about what she did or does or does not do including not getting teaching credentials and stop making huge decisions about your marriage and family while you are self destructing. You need to truly understand that everything is your fault and then slowly take steps to fix it, not just type it while you fish for someone to tell you your wife is…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/17 06:50 PM
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Actions not words. How has your sex life been the past few months? If you were to think about it, is the sex good or bad? Improving? Frequency? Does it feel like duty sex? In any case that is some shitty stuff to say because of hamstering but it may have just been her reaching for any and all daggers. Your woman sounds like a huge pain in the ass by the way. I had suggested we both take solo trips last year, and she was way into it Can you elaborate more on the solo trips? Whats the deal? You pa…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/17 11:42 PM
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Keto diet will end up backfiring and sending your BMI back up. Evidence for that huge generalization?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/17 08:05 PM
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The truth shall set you free: Thanks Rollo. I didn’t enjoy being made an example of, but it definitely did get my attention. And your absolutely right about the reason for my resistance. I did not want to have to deal (and still don’t) with what that implies for my life. More accurately, I’m afraid.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/17 11:42 PM
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From the new thread on Esther Vilar, might be more relevant to you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=py2b1g73bt4 Its chalk full of the shitty virtue signalling host throwing personal attacks and a whole lot of Esther Vilar chuckling at her and destroying her points neutrally. Theres even a part about half an hour in where the host calls her a fascist and a sexist directly.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/17 09:37 PM
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You weren't kidding, this chick fucks. edit: just finished the interview. One of the first things Alice the cunt tried to do was paint a picture of greed being the motivation for the ideas. I just learned that Alice the cunt was charged with tax fraud. You cant make this shit up.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/17 09:01 PM
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This it? Subs are kind of hard to follow, but it might just take a second to get used to.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/17 08:44 PM
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That was a good fr.
/r/askMRP24/08/17 07:38 PM
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You mean the one I found both a kindle and audio book of on amazon in about four seconds after reading this thread? Dont be a lazy faggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/17 10:45 PM
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Lol.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/17 01:36 AM
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Maybe it can, but I do not think that is the rule and not an exception. I dont want to get into specifics about your wife and scenario because from what I know of you, your situation is unique in that you are religious and married a religious woman and have children together. Nothing wrong with that, but I feel that affects your personal outcomes with RP strategy. That is why you have a christian RP sub because the dynamics in marriage with religion as a part of the framework changes significant…
/r/askMRP18/08/17 12:19 AM
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Thats ok if you do not learn from books efficiently, but its an excuse like the rest of your comment as well as /u/floppylobstermrp 's recent topic on the subject. It makes sense if you have some kind of disability that makes reading really difficult or uncomfortable, and if that is the case being you would get more results and maybe more help. If not, nobody is stopping you from getting the information you want except yourself. Its a google search away. Get the audiobook, find the cliffnotes. D…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/17 08:18 PM
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Of course. He just seemed on top of it, posting in OYS and receiving other advice pretty well. His behavior here is odd.
/r/askMRP17/08/17 03:25 PM
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Read this OP, and this before you go monk mode if you are considering it. I used to recommend it often as well, however it is not the solution to this problem. If you are currently married how do you expect monk mode to work? The point of MRP is to improve over time while being in a couple. Cannot be the captain if the captain is meditating in his room. Besides, your root issue sounds like a problem with calibration and not one that just abstaining will even help with.
/r/askMRP17/08/17 03:16 PM
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perma?
/r/askMRP17/08/17 03:09 PM
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Savage. Looks like Pika rage quit or is taking a break after that shitshow.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/17 09:19 PM
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Its broken?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/17 08:16 PM
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Ignore this, meant to post a reply to thread not to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/17 08:16 PM
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Hard to describe. Its like being turned into the "on" positon immediately instead of ramping up to it after an hour or two after you wake up and start working. No fucking around, no wallowing in slowness or easing into your workload, just immediately filled with tons of energy and ready to kick some ass which translated readily into my mornings which then changed the course of my days. Couple that with metabolic benefits, faster recovery and less doms from lifting or hiking, less creaky and worn…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 09:53 PM
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You are not ready. Too many problems with your post. Do not do it. Not sure if u/bluepillprofessor/ has changed his mind, but I bookmarked this post from a while back and still dwell on it. Maybe you should do the same.
/r/askMRP15/08/17 05:22 AM
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Theres a ton of research about how commonly perceived intolerable environments are actually incredibly beneficial for your body as well as discipline and mental fortitude. Dr. Rhonda Patrick has a lot of good heavy science info about the benefits specifically of cold showers. Wim hof has a lot on the topic and his first book is a worthwhile read and also has mental exercises along with breathing and meditation you can do. Daily 5 minute cold showers changed my mentality. Thats the easiest thing …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 01:04 AM
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No alpha, just paper.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/17 11:46 PM
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Awalt is a way to describe commonly exhibited behaviors by most women. Not a way to interpret every aspect of their personality and value and it isn't a law. What do her accomplishments matter to you anyway? You sound like you have oneitis and are looking for an excuse to dive into her her frame. Do you think all women are sluts as you put it? What would be your interpretation of more effort than you would on a normal slut? You're talking in generalizations so i ask again what does her cooking, …
/r/askMRP13/08/17 03:27 PM
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Hahahah That was great. This is the answer OP. No response necessary. Paying attention to what women say is like trying to guess the meaning of words in a language you do not speak. Watch what she does instead: There have been plenty of posts lately where people have fucked up their progress by talking. Remember the Maxim for MRP - "Acta Non Verba" this means "Actions not Words."
/r/askMRP12/08/17 09:04 PM
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That didnt seem like Rambo even though it was still an excellent field report. When I see faggots going Rambo its shit like "I discovered MRP two days ago, got three pages into MMSLP and looked at the covers of the rest of the books. Wife asked me to take out the trash and I told her to go fuck herself cause my smv is so much higher than hers I shouldn't be taking out the trash now she wont talk to me what do?". This seems like stirring shit up because you realized things were plateauing. So whi…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/17 05:26 PM
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You had me with the Grandmaster hook, but your message is an odd one and about 14 years late for an internet community mostly made up of power users. That being said, optimizing your searches is a worthwhile skill that will only benefit you. Try these: Search operators & Advanced searching
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/17 06:04 AM
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Didnt know you were a reddit user until you posted this. Have I ever responded to you before? I have no doubt about that. You've already shown you can't handle conversing with someone who doesn't roll over and agree with you. Lazy ass pussies who don't have an argument to stand on will always try crying about an opponent's tone, and if possible, silence them rather than showing onlookers how they're wrong--because they can't, because they know they're wrong but don't want to admit it. Deer. "Its…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/17 04:11 AM
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Boom baby, theres the belly.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/17 03:30 AM
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This guy fucks (or will soon enough). Welcome.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/17 02:58 AM
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Most of your replies are dripping in this weird better than attitude, and instead of having reasonable conversations you start to take moral high ground and just imply you are still right without continuing the discussion in a reasonable way. I would have banned you too. What is this post but validation seeking? Just take your ban and dont cry about it. Example: You mean I'm making use of one. Fair enough. But it works. It got you all riled up an emotional, didn't it? ;) Example 2: I would hate …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/17 02:47 AM
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Gboard is a swype keyboard replacement on Iphone and Android and integrates swype and a gif search engine directly into your keyboard and is free if you don't want a secondary app. I have had a similar experience to yours OP and ltr made it a point to say she was loving the use of said gifs. Sometimes I know what I want to communicate, but lack the proper words or unwittingly take bait. Gifs help you seem less serious and have a huge ceiling for entertainment. It is doubly effective if you and y…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/17 09:40 PM
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You sound like a dick with too high of expectations. Super fit girls live that lifestyle for a reason, and that reason is getting married. Also keep in mind diminishing returns.This isn't going to happen. Shes at a pretty high point if you're not lying. Dont try and tell me you cant get over your hot wife not being hotter. If that's the life you need you should have thought of it before getting married. And what happens to your dealbreaker when you both get older and cannot maintain supermodel f…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/17 07:56 AM
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A silver lining, but it could just as easily be an attempt to maintain harmony and help him to save face. Possibly. Another possibility would be wife invited husband in to rescue the situation from shitty friend, and it seems more consistent with her behavior from beginning to end. I see value in your idea even if I do not agree, it just seems like you are putting the ability to navigate "womanese" on too high a pedestal and losing the forest for the trees.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/17 05:07 AM
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Why does this person matter? Why should he alter his behavior for her? Wife in the scenario obviously did not care and took the husbands side when she was presented an opportunity on a platter to voice her discontent if there was any. Should he have read the subtext as you did in the friends words and then placated to her emotions? That she should have steered the conversation somewhere else? Neither of those things are wrong, but they are not obviously better than. Its like you are making an ar…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/17 12:15 AM
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What? Who gives a shit. I don't fault original OP for participating. He didn't go full autism and stomp out of his office and sputter failure where it was not wanted and then spin out of control. He was invited to the interaction by the females and he stated his opinion on what he was hearing. The end result just happened to magnify the shitty friends shortcomings and caused an emotional reaction in her only after the fact which is the important point. Wife didnt think anything of it and neither…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/17 11:56 PM
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I think you are overplaying the white knight aspect. He did not jump down their throats over a perceived slight already assuming his snowflake could do no wrong. He witnessed the shitty behavior himself, and not just that he waited to confirm that it was shitty behavior and not a misunderstanding. They both shut down the shitty behavior together, the shitty autistic ex friends showed their bellys and how much they suck. OP got lots of sex, a great story, and a huge demonstration of value at a so…
/r/askMRP03/08/17 09:55 PM
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Fuckin A. I am sure she will be telling that story for years. Good job for thinking about it and making a decision to not tolerate your shitty ex friends.
/r/askMRP03/08/17 09:50 PM
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Yes.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/17 12:56 AM
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No.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/17 12:33 AM
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Where did this guy go?. Why do you need help? What situation? This reads like a noob, not a guy who is RP. This was a few hours ago, and I'll be talking to her again soon. Am I handling this fine? Her not replying to my text is a little weird, and I sense she's trying to pull me into a drama frame using this illness as an excuse. At the same time there is a massive comfort test brewing underneath for sure.... I don't know what to do over the phone or over skype for her... she has said multiple t…
/r/askMRP02/08/17 05:30 PM
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Good on you for following through with what you said you would do in your post. This is it right here, just keep taking imitative and making shit happen and you will find yourself in a new place emotionally soon enough. Was very self conscious Fake it, you will make it. I have been going to the gym consistently for about 9 months now and remember feeling reaaaally self conscious and apprehensive of trying certain lifts. Nobody cares, internalize this. If you really pay attention, usually at all …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/17 04:42 PM
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The answer is very clear when she's your girlfriend, you let her go and sternly, ONCE, say "don't do anything stupid, or I WILL leave you" and follow through when she does. When she's your wife and possibly the mother of your kids and you have financial implications as well as family in the mix, the answer is never as clear. You can't control her and tell her she can't go out, ever. I don't know if you can impose a "no alcohol" rule on her. In my experience, alcohol and girls alone never mix. Do…
/r/askMRP02/08/17 05:46 AM
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Joe Rogan experience is on my daily listen list. Terrence Pop is how I found MRP but I get the feeling hes a little too invested in MGTOW.
/r/askMRP01/08/17 11:00 PM
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Stfu and lift. What months of work? Your first submit was in relationshits and your next 3 mrp topics were a month ago and you got the same advice I am giving you now. This is day one noob shit. How far are you through the sidebar? She cannot care about your emotional needs the way you want her to and if you ask her to it will dry her up. This one just happens to be mature enough to directly tell you. In spite of your brothers overdose (or whatever it was), she needs a rock in the storm and not …
/r/askMRP01/08/17 10:55 PM
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Hahahaha, Preach! And you thought Faggot was losing its touch. OP Just stfu for a while and quit submitting unless its in OYS. Finish all the god damned books if you have not and prioritize your new 5x5 workout because you sound like a weak pussy with no testosterone. Just live your god damned life for a few months without crying to Reddit whenever your weak ass brain cant figure itself out. We all have feelers and I am sure a great majority of us still deal with bitch thoughts that betray our m…
/r/askMRP01/08/17 10:28 PM
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Come on mr smarty pants, you know the answer. You are just lying to yourself. Dont try and tell me after 20 years of dealing with her bullshit and lack of affection that the "fuck this shit" mentality never creeped in. But hey, if you want to be all defensive and "deep" waxing on about the duality of existence with your snowflake instead of facing the music then enjoy the rest of your sexless birthdays. Protip: It was my birthday recently and I specifically planned and executed an awesome trip m…
/r/askMRP31/07/17 04:31 PM
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I would go see a therapist like sexyshoulderdevil suggested and make it a priority to separate yourself and children from her asap. If RP could fix this you are not the champion needed. Also per your previous threads: You married crazy and it sounds like your hellbent on staying despite multiple instances of physical abuse and god knows what else. Stop making excuses. This post, and your life, is filled with them. and The right fucking direction is out the door... right now. Close your browser a…
/r/askMRP30/07/17 06:16 AM
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Your wife is fucked up. Your marriage is fucked up. You are fucked up. Of those 3 fucked up things, which ONE can you UN-FUCK? That is gold. Start here faggot op. Matrix you are doing so much better from three weeks ago, how ya feeling? I started noticing like a week ago whenever you post its really on point.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/17 03:50 AM
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hah, you wish bitch
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/17 07:32 PM
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This is about you, and everything you describe here is a reflection on your behaviors. You sound like someone who has deployed a few cheap RP tricks without any real effort to change and own their own ego and shitty behaviors. How much sidebar material have you read? Do you lift? Have a map? Lately I feel there has been some tension between us, as I have surpassed her in attractiveness (there is really no nicer way to say this, but I wouldn't say it to her face) because of my increasing value an…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/17 07:30 PM
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What do you want to do? It sounds like you are extremely on the fence about getting involved and are correctly more concerned with your own damn life. Also keep in mind the last thing you want to do is get involved right before a messy divorce which it sounds like is coming. You can lead a horse to water. RP strategy is a big uncomfortable pill to swallow and specifically forces you to admit your own failings as well as acknowledge most of what you know of how men and woman interact is wrong. I …
/r/askMRP28/07/17 04:11 PM
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According to your recent post here you may be earlier in your journey than you thought. Have you really been at this six months? How much/how many of the books have you read cover to cover? Is your anger still coming out to her in any way? Are you acting passive aggressively or justifying your actions out of a sense of entitlement (covert contract).? All in all, I would guess that you are still in her frame and resenting her for various things including her not just getting better with your own …
/r/askMRP18/07/17 02:14 AM
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For the uninitiated about captaincringeworthy. Was a shitposter who faked it and never made it or was a troll https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/62gsyj/mod_notice_we_remove_your_shit_if_you_suck/ Dude posts everyday talking about frame, confidence etc. at first glance it seems like good advice. After a week seeing him posts, its just advice you find anywhere. after a few weeks, people start digging up his history and its obvious he >is suffering from some form of depression, mostly due…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/17 11:05 PM
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Thats great actually, as long as you are not lying to yourself. Too many people try to stranglehold their diet and activities and forget to live. But keto/if are powerful when used correctly and if your cycles only last a week then the only thing changing is water weight anyway. What is your bmi out of curiosity? What is your plan for fixing the social aspect?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/17 05:16 PM
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Can you elaborate more? Why do you think these things are happening? Are you getting complacent?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/17 08:15 AM
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What does that mean exactly? Sounds like a rationalization and a way to make yourself feel better without actually doing anything. Correcting shitty behavior does not have to be a shitshow or an aggressive show of force. That is part of having healthy communication skills. The situation, logistics, whatever you want to use as a shield is just that. The root of the problem is you need to directly address it which as mentioned above you have not with your friends. Overt communication vs Covert com…
/r/askMRP14/07/17 04:13 PM
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You vs Faggot You would have had nothing to worry about.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/17 04:39 AM
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Weak bitches are going to act like weak bitches and they use the points system to pad their hurt feelings when their shit filled brains fail to produce instant gratification to the same low effort behavior they have used to skate through life as unfulfilled faggots. You know this already. You are a net positive to this community and I hope your style and posting habits remain the same. I bookmarked your FR about your wife because it is a reminder to myself not to be complacent or learn a couple …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/17 09:54 AM
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I did not realize this was a thing, and it is awesome. Edit: His blog is on there as well with some interesting articles. Did he tell you what arechetype you were in when you started and did he encourage you to stick to that based on it or to branch out and balance them? He lists them in a post: Rugged – men who exert their influence over the world physically Refined – men who exert their influence over the world financially or socially Rakish – men who exert their influence over the world throu…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/17 04:59 AM
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There is truth to this, but it cannot be ruled out that biologically the brain and the personality are simply a chemical bath. A delicate one. This is the important takeaway. The disorders exist and they can and do cause the people that have them to act in erratic ways inconsistent with rp strategy or any strategy. The problem with it for most people is access to too much information without fundamental training like a psychologist or therapist would have who then decide their opinions are based…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/17 10:29 PM
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I think stone has you pegged here linux, go light a dick on fire and put it out with your asshole.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/17 09:54 PM
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When a woman makes you wait for sex you are not her highest priority. Sexuality is spontaneous chemical reaction between two parties, not a process of negotiation. Thems the breaks OP, read the article. I think UEMcGill is spot on.
/r/askMRP12/07/17 02:49 PM
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I would be lying if her attitude didn't piss me off a little. I think this is the root of your whole post and most of your other posts. Faking it til you make it is useful when you are in progress of fixing a problem, but just not internalizing the small changes quickly enough to shift your subconscious opinion. If you do not fix the actual issue, it turns into just faking it, which leads to resentment which leads to more anger and divorce. Why do you feel angry at your wife for her attitude? Do…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/17 03:08 AM
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How did they change?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/17 02:09 AM
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You should post more, your perspective is awesome. This did not occur to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/17 01:59 AM
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I am going to paraphrase the top reply in your very first thread from a month ago: Go fuck yourself with her dick you weak pussy of a man. You only reply to people who you already agree with or suggest a solution you want to hear, have not put in the work, have not participated in the community, have not done any significant reading, and are still letting this woman make you her bitch and every time it happens you come crying here making the same mistakes over and over. Not unlike a drug addict,…
/r/askMRP11/07/17 08:35 PM
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Another word of advice for you /u/hktrp, the flaired people here and even some of the non flaired people have been around a while and know their shit. You would be best served reading and re-reading and internalizing everything they say.
/r/askMRP11/07/17 08:32 PM
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This. You know the answer to your problem, you just want to be told its ok to be a weak bitch and need validation from your wife. Deal with it not being ok and fix it. Firstly, stop texting her, calling her, fucking disappear. Ignore her first two-three attempts at initiating contact and when you do answer her phone call, not her text, make up some shit about what you have been doing. Extra points if you actually come out with a manly project and started doing it. Your male hamster is a fucking …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/17 07:16 PM
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Its interesting to read at least. One of their FAQ stickys has a line that made me chuckle: The problem I've seen with female-based sexual strategy forums is that they inevitably focus on what's politically correct. They focus on tempering the message so as not to offend. Because ladies, like it or not, our entire culture currently revolves around not offending you. Seriously. That's today's culture. Some self awareness is better than none and there is some wisdom there somewhere. However, it se…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/17 06:03 AM
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Also just for some followup reading and this bitchin quote by /u/ScurveMuch When you realize that all anger is truly anger at yourself, youre going to have one heck of a mindfuck day.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/17 08:07 PM
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That is amazingly clever.
/r/askMRP10/07/17 08:00 PM
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Shes tired of your reactive mentality and not being able to rely on you to make decisions. Be a man and make decisions. You suggesting shit is just another symptom of problem 1, You do not suggest shit. You make plans and execute them and she is invited to participate or not and her reactions do not matter. She was probably feeling out if you were just being a reactive bitch again and only taking her out because she threw a hissy fit. Your characterizing her outbursts and complete miss on AWALT …
/r/askMRP10/07/17 08:04 AM
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Your arrogance astounds me, and I can be an arrogant piece of shit sometimes. Arrogance is fine. Being a bullshit artist is fine. I am both and they are things that developed from me not being honest with myself and propping up my ego which I am slowly getting better at managing. Most men need way more work than you? Explain to me how you arrived at that conclusion and how exactly that is not an ego driven statement? Where is your introspection and humility? You do not know shit, and you are com…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/17 09:12 PM
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Wait, hold the fuck up. Red Curious why are you writing essays like Rollo, The Family Alpha or any of the other experienced flaired guys when you have been here less than a month and are clearly stuck in a shitty situation you will not fix because of your religion, job, or ego? Children with dynamite sir. Edit: Dude this post is ten days old.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/17 05:20 AM
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Too late, hes already not listening to you. Come to think of it, so am I. Enjoy your night pussy.
/r/askMRP08/07/17 05:14 AM
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All avenues should be explored? What the fuck does that mean? You are missing the point, again. You taking offense to perceived disrespect in a situation where you were not present and no actual harm was done is a form of control you are exerting out of fear or discomfort hence ego. The reason I rightly called you a bitch is because a flaired user like /u/Scurvemuch knows what he is talking about and clearly hit the nail right on fucking target and your response to that is the fucking man code? …
/r/askMRP08/07/17 03:28 AM
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So what would be your plan then? Rush over to the bar like a fuckboy and demand that some shitty lame asshole who is in a dysfunctional relationship never speak that way to your snowflake ever again? Why? What does that accomplish in your eyes other than stoking the wildfire that is your ego? Hit the sidebar, bitch.
/r/askMRP07/07/17 11:11 PM
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I think this is a little too over the top analytical. Probabilistic stage setting just sounds like an unnecessarily complicated way to say frame. Outcome independence to me is making a decision and subconsciously being okay with the fact that you made a decision and it needs to be owned regardless of said outcome creating negative feedback from whomever it affects. If I love my wife, my desired outcome is also aligned with her best interests Is this your opinion or a quote or am I misreading? RP…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/17 10:20 PM
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I have had an active outdoor job for 27 years so when I start lifting, other people notice within 2 weeks. The pump is primed. What the fuck does this have anything to do with weight loss or lifting? Ignore what other people think and you wont even see noticeable physical changes for months at minimum especially with as high your body fat is. You are on step 1 of a 1000 step journey so quit jerking yourself off with whatever that sentence was suppose to imply. Its going to get harder from here a…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/17 11:49 PM
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Woman are emotional beings and are at their best and horniest when basting in emotion be it positive or negative and specifically thrive on conflict. Shit needs to get crazy every once in a while and for the vast majority of modern humans a short potent fight ticks all the boxes. The advanced rpers understand this and use it as a tool to keep the hamster running and juices flowing when everything is getting too predictable. The reason they suggest not using until you're ready is because most peo…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/17 07:33 AM
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Good. I was a fattie fat fattie fat fat for most of my life and am down about a hundred pounds so far so if you want some tips from a fattie fat fattie who is pretty sexy now then lemme know.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/17 02:23 AM
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No Your wife does not owe you shit specifically because of how hard you work, nobody does. Your first sentence is a classic nice guy vomit. Women are not logical and cannot do what you expect them to do and do not love you the way you expect them to. Expecting things from women that have not been directly communicated and agreed upon is communicating covertly and establishes a covert contract and is a fast way to start resenting your woman, and it sounds like you already do. Its a way nice guys …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/17 01:39 AM
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Nobody cares. You are not unique and neither is your wife. She is probably not a 9.5 or even an 8. If she cheated, exit gracefully and protect yourself, but exit. You sound like you have no self esteem and are extremely insecure about one or many things and are probably fat. Follow the sidebar and start posting in the weekly OYS threads. This thread will probably get locked. If you need some comfort, realize how predictable you are behaving and go through the past three weeks in this subreddit a…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/17 07:00 PM
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Good for you, you are on the correct path but I get the sense your head still isn't fully in the right place emotionally. I didn't read your other thread so I may be missing pieces. Are there kids other than the recent pregnancy and abortion? Any other legal strings left dangling? If not, wash your hands and your head of her and anything else related to her. Why do you want to blackmail her or defend yourself in whatever shitshow is coming. Ignore all that, focus on you, and respond to any inqui…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/17 10:06 PM
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Im subbing there, so far from what I have read its a great community. Its really amazing to see how people can be so on point with the overall message in spite of not being involved trp . This person is really emotionally mature. I mean I know its a self improvement sub, but to cut through all the bullshit and say something this takes some chrome plated gonads. It seems odd to apply logic to all this without all the hanging on emotional attatchments. This isn't the place I expected to be by the …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/17 04:54 PM
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Be selective, go slow, protect yourself and keep lifting.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/17 05:40 AM
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Gotcha. All I know offhand about bipolar is that my dad has it and he can be a real pain in the ass to be around sometimes. Would not say he is not happy or successful though. Do you know more about it?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/17 06:38 PM
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Why do you say that?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/17 06:21 PM
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The fact that complaining seems to come so natural to women is something we kind of take for granted, in fact so much so that we will make jokes about it and think nothing of it. This stuck out to me as an excellent observation and I am extremely guilty of it as of yesterday. However, is the role of a complaining woman in that capacity a result of technology or culture more so than psychological firmware or the sexual strategies Rollo describes above? I am not well versed in history or evolution…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/17 09:12 PM
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Close this thread and ban this asshole please. He isnt going to do shit until he kills himself or hits rock bottom.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/17 04:50 PM
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Damn thats deep. Thank you.
/r/askMRP30/06/17 04:01 PM
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I just went through this stage about two months ago so this may benefit you. I kept losing control of my emotions and had a real internal struggle about leaving my job because I felt overworked and overstressed, and then one day as I was sending out resumes it hit me: "Why am I being such a faggot?". All of the shit I was upset about was just because I was accustomed to going to work at a certain time and leaving a certain time and having my evening ritual of relaxation (comfort) and then bed an…
/r/askMRP30/06/17 03:55 PM
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I should be able to be on Reddit when I get a chance and feel like it without having to explain, no? This is a form of DEER and you're also overthinking it. The issue is congruence in your decision making. Do you want to do the laundry? Yes or no direct answer. If no you do not need a reason, but you also need to be able to hold your frame against the storm that you created by making that decision. The "correct" thing to do would be to already have all household tasks and chores done before you …
/r/askMRP29/06/17 09:19 PM
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You are right, I misread it.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/17 07:33 PM
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Wait what? The whole point of RP is rejecting societal and cultural pressure to do what you feel you should be doing. I would have said the exact same damn thing. Why the fuck is there some implied respect expected (aka covert contract) just because the cuck in question is related to to the woman you are with.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/17 04:20 PM
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Its really interesting that women generally want you to succeed and be the man they want to fuck maybe to confirm their own beliefs about their ability to choose good mates maybe because theyre cool people. Every other new guy writes a story and mentions their wife/ltr/plate whatever sometimes find a way to communicate to the cuck the behavior that they are attracted to and want to see without acting like total cunts while doing it, and until said new person calms the fuck down and stops ramboin…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/17 11:48 PM
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Holy shit, point 3. My dad did this incorrectly and inconsistently and it still helped set the tone for the duration of my childhood that he is the boss of all matters even if I did not always respect him. I would not classify my dad as RP in any other way, still to this day. Also, I am going to buy a replica longsword.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/17 11:38 PM
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The first time I saw her, she ripped my cock out and and bent over in front me. She literally said "I've been wanting to have sex with you since you said the words 'I'll handle it'". Awesome. This is my reality...you WILL accept it or you will simply not exist in it. If you can abstract all RP to a sentence, this should be it.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/17 11:35 PM
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AWALT
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/17 08:03 PM
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Get a divorce.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/17 04:28 AM
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Great field report, thank you for sharing. Keep it up and start posting in the own your shit weekly threads if you have not already. Also, I used to be a little heavier than you when I first started (~320 to 220 now). Try r/keto and /r/ketogains if you need more specific tailored low carb/zero carb advice while lifting. Its a slow process, and you will find that the weight literally falls off of you daily until you get down to around 240 depending on your height. Is your wife fit or fat? Also ne…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/17 11:05 PM
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Its been ten days homie. So your most recent RP journey so far has been what, 17-21 days not including your bullshit lurking time? And so far you have gone into and out of monk mode and accomplished what exactly? Have you been diagnosed with depression or are you just empowering your feelings of sadness by wallowing in it? My guess is paralysis by analysis and a real lack of of a purpose and hobbies. And go to a doctor you fuck to find out if you actually have a problem.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/17 03:39 PM
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Agree with stone, you are internalizing your thoughts too much and living in your head. Most likely nothing is wrong with you and you are psyching yourself out. Either way, those are just bullshit feelings that you are in control of anyway. Dont tell your friends and others about Monk Mode, thats just more stuff to complicate your interaction. What do you want? A long term relationship? Why? What about having a long term relationship makes you decide you want it? Do you want phsyical comfort onl…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/17 08:35 PM
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Insecurity was the root of it for my own passive behavior pre self improvement goals. I remember really wanting to roll my Windows down and blast music (or dance, or sing, or do whatever I wanted) when I was much younger and still a fat loser, but I would hamster and convince myself that people would judge me and how just the idea of facing any kind of resistance in the form of being judged was too harsh for my reality so I would just coast and live life like I thought how everyone wanted me to.…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/17 11:05 PM
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Damn that is extremely relevant and a great read. I mean jesus christ talk about some awesome truth. I understood and implemented the correct behavior without truly understanding the actual reason for it or the transaction in their brains. This is the core premise of the Shitty Comfort Tests. If you draw a hard boundary and tell her to go fuck herself, she'll hate you for that, since clearly your aggressive response means you think her emotions are so out of line that she shouldn't have them. Do…
/r/askMRP07/06/17 07:52 PM
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Saving this post just to remind myself to draw on that line when the situation arises. That is a mother fucker of a well crafted savage response. Nice Job. Great report. On a side note, it sounds like your gains in the gym are incredible. I also started lifting in November, but you started bench at 225? What plan are you following if any, and what do your diet macros look like if you dont mind?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/17 04:20 PM
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Elsesser cites examples of men who have been dragged in by their HR departments for simply opening a door for a female colleague or complimenting her on a new suit. “Stories like these spread around workplaces, instilling a fear that innocent remarks will be misinterpreted,” she says. That is a really interesting. Men are ironically so aware and afraid of the sjw/cultural change that they cannot embrace it the way its proponents want them to. Instead of creating an environment of freedom and equ…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/17 04:02 PM
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Teach me, Master.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 11:28 PM
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Retard.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 10:46 PM
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As soul grinding as it may be, you are a person with boundaries and who should be spoken to with respect in any and all situations. Good leaders know this, bad ones dont get it or dont care. Male/female doesn't really matter in this particular instance. Keep notes of the behavior you think is actually toxic. Leave out any and all RP and keep it strictly facts and professionalism. Keep times and dates of each infraction. Approach your mutual boss after a couple of weeks, sit them down and say thi…
/r/askTRP02/06/17 10:45 PM
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I love reading your analysis of things instead of just you shitting directly into peoples throats.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/17 03:58 PM
1

Google.
/r/askTRP29/05/17 04:48 PM
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If you think about it, it isn't really their fault and its very, very common. Most parents instill covert contracts and nice guy behavior into your subconscious at such an early age that you cant help but conform. Thats exactly how it went for me at least and the diagnostic anger was there just aching to be analyzed and not acted upon. When I was younger and lost my virginity to my first girlfriend (who I knew in my core I was better than and who treated me like shit), I went hardcore faggot try…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/17 10:35 PM
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The other two threads you made already gave you the answer you need. You are moving too fast and this sudden shift in behavior is confusing the shit out of your wife and she does not like it. You are going too fast even if you handled this interaction in an ok way. This is your third thread in less than a week where your actions directly led to a shitstorm. Slow down.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/17 11:46 PM
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Yeah man was just about to comment. Excellent points, helped me as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/17 06:49 PM
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I would say calling it "alpha music" is a disservice, but the core concept makes sense. I love oldies, but god damned if Otis Redding and Sam Cooke didn't sound like total chumps when you take a step back from appreciating how amazing the music is.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/17 06:46 PM
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Instrumental heavy metal video game soundtrack from Killing Floor 2. I am really picky with my music taste and I have only been able to make/find a few playlists myself that I can actually tolerate after more than a couple workouts but this whole album is high energy high intensity and it works perfectly for me. I have the individual mp3s if anyone wants them. I am going to go through your list reddjive but so far I like what I hear with Kick Ass - Egypt Central. Thats going on my playlist for s…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/17 06:41 PM
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Did you make an imdb page for yourself?
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 11:52 PM
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You seem to be the only one here against helping brown guys.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 11:19 PM
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Not really that surprising. Brains are fuckey and you really can convince yourself of anything and do something completely different. Cognitive dissonance exists for a lot of people in a lot of ways which you wouldnt even consider red or blue pill because that shit runs deep. The blue pill pendulum swings both ways too. Men are expected to act a certain way and feel entitled and women face huge pressures to settle down and reproduce before they're off the cc or attracted to a guy because well th…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/17 06:29 PM
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And this is the winning side of AWALT. She brings value to my life even when it's only a smile. I enjoy her company and...I've been with enough women to know that any of them can become the most beautiful girl in the world to me, when her eyes light up while I'm inside her. literally Fucking (hah) best way I have ever seen someone describe that.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/17 06:17 PM
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Go read no more nice guy. To them you are producing or not, and if you're not you get let go and I am 99% sure that most of those higher level guys do not think about problems like you and I do. If your story is accurate and you can present your explanation of the facts and how you took initiative because it appeared to you at that time that if you did nothing and played it safe your company could have lost someones salary for a year in one month and potentially multiple months in a row. I have …
/r/askTRP19/05/17 06:13 PM
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Never hired one so I wouldn't know, but if the issue is specific then you need to work on that thing. Cant bring a woman to orgasm? I've read and watched documentaries where porn stars and prostitutes explain how they unconsciously compartmentalize their clients and romantic partners who can reach orgasm into two separate categories so you might be wasting your time. If your issue is taking control or a general lack of backbone then a prostitute would be perfect because you have the security tha…
/r/askTRP19/05/17 04:40 PM
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I prefer daygame myself because nightclubs are for younger people and I consider myself more introverted. However, when I first started I forced myself to approach every single time I saw someone attractive. It sucked at first, but to be honest i don't even remember most of the interactions especially the ones that didn't go well because they're not important and super common. Daygame and cold approach need to be front and center priority. Tinder, pof, okcupid, and all those can be good as a sup…
/r/askTRP14/05/17 11:44 PM
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I need to buy and read your books now because some of the stuff you wrote resonated. Did not know the moralist was a thing, and the quote at the bottom is brilliant. Thank you. For the Red Pill Moralist, proper application of the Red Pill is to use that knowledge to vet women for a marriage suitability and a prospective family. With full knowledge of the inherent downsides and liability risks of modern marriage, the moralist takes it as his masculine duty now for the future to still assume the “…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/17 11:30 PM
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You are describing the totally normal reaction to being introduced to a totally foreign concept and lifestyle and your discomfort and insecurity are pretty normal. After I discovered game/trp it took me 3-4 months of living and thinking in my head before I broke through my own insecurity about it and started practicing with 1-2 pickup attempts per day. Then I got addicted as all hell and "got it", and that started a much longer self improvement journey that I am still on today. Only thing I woul…
/r/askTRP12/05/17 04:24 PM
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This is a legal matter. Do not try to intertwine trp or anything else into it. Handle every interaction with anyone involved in this entire process including your ex with respect, courtesy, and professionalism. Do not attempt to manipulate anything. Your new game is being captain obvious above board paper pusher. This will save your ass if all else fails, always maintain your cool no matter what is happening. Take all advice with a grain of salt unless speaking with a verified lawyer and serious…
/r/askTRP10/05/17 07:42 PM
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This first.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/17 05:23 PM
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Read this And go very slowly and deliberately. The second you lose your temper you fucked up and need to reset the situation. It sounds like from the way you are saying what you are saying that you have a lot of work to do on yourself emotionally and I am also willing to bet that you both have some big issues that are not getting dealt with in a healthy way within the marriage already. Also do not forget this because it is important: If your wife suffered through a traumatic experience and or yo…
/r/askTRP10/05/17 05:04 PM
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Jesus tittyfucking christ op. Relationships require different strategies. Obviously the core concepts are the same, but how you apply them is drastically different and I swear to god it boggles my mind that these threads are so common. You have been dating a woman for over a year building a foundation together, bonding, whatever you want to call it (thats what it is, dont fool yourself), and then one day you not only say the rug is coming out from under both of you but that you specifically, her…
/r/askTRP08/05/17 06:19 PM
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Stop. This is all bullshit. You clearly did not read the FAQ or other sidebar content and are making this post out of desperation and emotion (aka like a woman) Read this. Read everything else in the sidebar and stop trying to "fix" this situation. You cant see it now but youre acting like a pussy and need to get your inner game worked out before you date anybody.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 05:50 PM
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Came here to say this.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 05:36 PM
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More people = more of each category as well. Like I said all types, but I can tell you that I can walk down the street right now and see my new "hottest girl I have ever seen". It just happened at a bar I was just at for one of my clients.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 08:35 PM
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I am not entirely convinced its always about the numbers unless you are talking about an actual small town with no turnover and nothing to do. Places like that suck and you should bounce of that shithole anyway without even bringing women into the equation. California near Sacramento, its an all you can eat buffet and you can and will find all types. I was lucky to be born here.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 07:23 PM
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fuck off.
/r/askTRP03/05/17 07:12 PM
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They're out there. The big issue with those types and trp is that generally the environments we pick up on women in are devoid of those types of people as mentioned by someone else above. Loyal people (and I am speaking in generalizations based on my own experience) generally have that instilled in them by an authority figure or parents early on (I feel like this applies to me), and they are extremely difficult to find simply because they create a self fulfilling prophecy just by existing. If hb…
/r/askTRP03/05/17 07:11 PM
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Fuck off
/r/askTRP03/05/17 06:51 PM
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First problem: Abundance mentality, get it. Realistically the only thing you should be doing is answering the question do I want to fuck them with a yes or no and swipe accordingly. None of these women are shit to you but a fantasy so don't start attaching value to their looks or their careers or whatever dumb shit is in their profile. None of that shit matters to you at this stage anyway. And Not really. However, once you have gamed a girl sufficiently, she should give you her attention. If you…
/r/askTRP01/05/17 09:22 PM
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That might be a little out of touch with younger women. Girls my age (am 26, date 20-30) definitely live at home. I would say it gets less true as you age, and women don't date down in terms of finances once they themselves are established.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 08:41 PM
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Lots of similar reddit communities have issues where a minority of qualified individuals are providing the majority of useful content for the rest to consume and you can never balance that because more new people cycle in and out of reddit specifically very frequently. This then has a great snowballing effect of burning out the minority contributors who stick around long term until they cant even summon the will to direct a oneitis ranter to the sidebar. Dont think theres a great fix other than …
/r/askTRP01/05/17 07:42 PM
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That is life, deal with it. But also choose how you deal with it. Giving up and saying you wont find the right girl so why try is being an emotional pussy. Giving up on attaching an outcome to every woman you meet is the correct way to proceed. Go do shit man. If you are as good as you say you are then the women will follow you because you are attractive to them irrelevant of them and they want that. Go pursue your passion. Start a business, learn to fly helicopters. It doesn't matter. Fuck the …
/r/askTRP01/05/17 07:35 PM
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I am just making some assumptions here so some may not apply. Stop masturbating and looking at porn if you do. Its good practice anyway to avoid over stimulation when masturbating specifically so stuff like this cant be attributed to you. Look for a book called "2 girls teach sex" by Shawna Lenee I think is her name. I have a digital copy of it somewhere, can probably host it somewhere if you like. Dive into phone and text game as a tool for building sexual tension. And get to a doctor and figur…
/r/askTRP01/05/17 07:26 PM
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Hey Friend, you are talking a lot of nonsense and its probably coming from you having your feelings jerked around. Its fine and normal, but the reason everyone is bitching at you is because you came at everyone openly like you have the whole thing figured out when in reality just the phrasing of your words betrays a lot of problems with your inner game. G_Petronius advice is the most solid. Go out right now and start picking up on other girls. If you're lying to yourself and us it will give you …
/r/askTRP01/05/17 07:11 PM
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Priorities man, build your foundation first and focus on women second or not until youre finances are dialed in. It seems to have become a lot less weird these days to live at home. Most college aged kids and recent graduates (20-30) are broke and mooch off mom and dad in a big way. Shit, I am going from this post to take an hour lunch and drive to my parents to eat all the food they worked hard to buy. You could always lie and say you live in with them because of their medical issues and mainta…
/r/askTRP01/05/17 07:00 PM
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This is not a thing a line can fix. You have a few things to worry about here. 1. This is a red flag if she cannot let it go after being told multiple times directly or otherwise (dont care if your bffs and you know her better than your own mom). 2. She likes you and probably wants to proceed to a relationship and not knowing who else you are banging is tearing her up and this behavior is her attempt and fixing that. 3. She saw through your facade and is just trying to get you to admit it or som…
/r/askTRP01/05/17 06:41 PM
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The hallmark of the beta woman, insecurity. Dealing with it like you have been is the best way to go about forcing that person to change their shitty behavior and act as an adult. However, I would suggest also applying your alpha trp principles in these situations and handle it in a more positive and successful way regardless especially with family. You are the literal pack leader if you want to be, and you don't want to piss everyone off on the way to the top. That way lies ruin.
/r/askTRP01/05/17 06:29 PM
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The question is flawed. It does not matter why and any answer you get from her or us will probably be inaccurate anyway. The grass is always greener, she misses you, shes having a bad day, its wednesday, her new fling stopped responding, shes horny etc. See the pattern? She doesn't know, she just acts because she already feels how she feels and wants to be focused on. Its not logical, so dont try to analyze it. The best thing you can do at this point is dive right the fuck in and start absorbing…
/r/askTRP28/04/17 09:13 PM
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Because its something you have internalized over years of behaving the same comfortable way you did since you first developed the anxiety over the unknown. Its ok to be where you are and this first hump is where a lot of people have trouble. You can, the answer is literally there every time you have thought about approaching and bitched out. Just do it next time and roll with the girls that respond positively and literally walk away from the ones giving you shit. Find an opener you like and drop…
/r/askTRP27/04/17 11:20 PM
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This is all conjecture. You cannot know any of this based on what OP said and I suspect its all couch expert advice anyway.
/r/askTRP27/04/17 10:56 PM
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Youre a retard for having unprotected sex with some skank you just met. Who cares, you just met and fucked this girl. Literally you achieved the goal of everyone here (except for the condom you dolt). You have aids. Ill parrot everyone else, you did not do anything wrong (except not use a condom, see points 1,3,4). You made her feel like a slut and women dont like to feel like sluts, even the actual sluts. So the fuck up is in her head on her end and you cant do anything about it most likely unl…
/r/askTRP27/04/17 10:51 PM
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Good to hear my friend. I'm glad it worked out for you.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 06:07 PM
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I disagree with the consensus so far. Your biggest issue is investing too much into this person with no real guarantee for a payoff. If you wanted to have sex right now, I bet you could find hundreds of hotter women within ten miles of you to hit on in any number of environments and the experience in attempting to do so would be way more valuable than this situation. You dont need this girl which shows everyone reading that you do not have an abundance mentality and that combined with how overse…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 08:51 PM
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Don't over analyze. All you can do in a situation like that is go for it and you did. Now do it 1000 more times. Also, if you're body language is wrong and you're nervous and/or not faking well she is going to know which might account for her odd smile and behavior.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 11:50 PM
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