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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | Thinking about divorce | Technical-Bid4948 | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/23 07:34 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Thinking about divorceYeah, definitely not the same. My 401k is bigger than his, and same amount in savings. I actually dont have student loans and he does. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/23 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Thinking about divorceAppreciate it. Good luck to you too. I have brought it up to him btw, a few times. He seems to understand my point and recognizes my arguments, but then nothing changes. I have gone to therapy, cut out bad friends, stopped going to any group activities so I woildnt meet other men sincr he hets jealous, etc. I’ve compromised and had gone above and beyond to fix any little thing he disliked about me, but I still get the silence treatment most of the day, and worse, he wont work on any of the thing… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/23 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Thinking about divorceIm pretty sure if one stops loving and listening the other that is also breaking your vows, which he has. Why should I stay in a relationship where I know I am not loved and appreciated, nor fulfilled physically or emotionally? Just because what? The fear of going to hell? | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/23 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Thinking about divorceI mean, if the person leaving has absolutely no reason but a change of hearts, I agree with you. However, if there is a clear disconnect, or cheating involved, or you distant yourself and expect me to continue to be there only when you want me, then absolutely I am going to leave. It goes both ways. Im sure if your wife did any or three three things I mentioned above you would also leave. Plus, I make great money, have my shit together in life, nd big dreams, so its not like I don’t contribute t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/23 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Thinking about divorceI never said he was terrible. My comment was more geared towards my fear of when we left I would be alone. And I specifically did not want to discuss all the “negative” things about him bc its not about that. I am just not in love anymore and it’s obvious he isn’t either. High level, though, i am from another country and english isnt my native tongue. In the beginning of the relationship he started learning it and we used to spend a lot of time bonding over me teaching him about my culture, lang… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/23 06:54 PM |
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