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DiscussionTechnical_End9162/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:58 PM
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It would help if people actually told the real truth about what they are attracted to instead of just virtue signaling, until then people have to make half good guesses
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 04:36 PM
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Yes and scary too, becuase making the law follow OPs definition was actually seriously debated in my country
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 10:07 AM
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Great for you, I am actually happy that men like you exist so these women can have someone For me and a lot of men it’s just not physically attractive for a relationship, no logic is really necessary, it’s an instinct that you can’t get rid off, insecurity plays a part into it SOMETIMES but fundamentally it’s that instinct that I mentioned It’s hard to explain but she’s still as attractive for a casual relationship you just loose all attraction and that leads to anger if you find out that she li…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:55 PM
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It’s also IN THE MOMENT, fuckboys are not rapists either, even if the woman regrets it a lot, he’s an immoral asshole though that’s for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:21 PM
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you couldn’t have said anything better than that to prove that the modern consent debate (especially where modern feminism is involved) is crazy Your definition would make like 50% of women rapists, this coupled with the “believe all victims trope”…. Good lord
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:18 PM
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See this is why modern feminism is crazy, you couldn’t have said anything better than that to prove that point Your definition would make like 50% of women rapists, this coupled with the “believe all victims trope”…. Good lord
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:15 PM
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Yeah I know but I thought you’d have some insight
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 06:09 PM
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I just think this type of behavior where you have a problem with the other gender and you’re unfair to them and refuse to think for yourself is something that both men and women do to a massive degree nowadays What I said applies to the western world though, it’s gonna be different in other places I mean you can’t even have perfectly normal average male sexuality (like preferring less body hair) with out being called a pedo by feminists, people are just not using their brains and they are not me…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:43 PM
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It’s a 100% genuine. However guys want other things to, but that is 100% a genuine preference
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 05:15 PM
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I don’t think I’ve ever felt real love for a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 09:14 PM
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Thats what I lean towards too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 11:26 AM
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The situation that I described in my post, the one that you said you wouldn’t leave
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 10:00 PM
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Okay great
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 09:57 PM
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If you were in that situation, how would you keep the relationship alive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 06:11 PM
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Ah I get you, makes sense Hey were you the one that downvoted my comments, I didn’t mean anything negative/bad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 06:08 PM
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All woman must accept 12cm sparse beard that looks like seaweed or they are creeps !1!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 06:02 PM
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That’s interesting, this is exactly the morality I’m struggling with
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 01:35 PM
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That’s interesting, thanks, But why do you have “slut” in your tag then lmao, you used to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 01:27 PM
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Y’all are lucky to have each other, thanks for your response I would say tho that this scenario plays out when you are both around let’s say 24-30, of course it would be insanely foolish to leave your life partner because they got wrinkly and developed other flaws that you have yourself because of old age, that’s very obvious in my view of life, but in this scenario you will remain you and attractive and your partner is also themselves but lost their attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:55 AM
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That’s sounds realistic thank you for your reply
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:52 AM
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Thank you for your reply, it’s interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:50 AM
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Nahh he still has a great personality like always in the scenario, thank you for the response it’s interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:49 AM
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That’s interesting thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:48 AM
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Nono I’m not trying to prove anything I’m just curious and I’ve been thinking about this for some time so I just want other perspectives
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:47 AM
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Thank you, would you consider some type of open relationship dynamic for you or just skip that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:46 AM
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Thank you that’s interesting, what would you do in your relationship if you decide to stay?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:45 AM
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Thanks, how would you deal with the situation if you decide to stay?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:45 AM
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Maybe it’s a bad slogan because it’s useless, sounds bad and is socially retarded Maybe we don’t need more text than that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:41 PM
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”if men were as disgusted by SA as they are by periods” ah post. Your view of men is very narrow minded
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:20 PM
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Jesus Just like men women can find other people outside of a relationship attractive. But just like loyal men don’t care about it that much and don’t talk/act about it, out of respect, there are women like that too. Also why sext? stop wasting your time It’s not about jealousy or insecurity, it’s about respect for a partner, I would toss that woman but maybe you’re perfect for each other…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 12:20 PM
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That’s actually great, I’m happy for you guys, it seems like a great idea, I’m actually just starting med school, so we probably have similar ideas
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:15 PM
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Thanks 👍👍🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:13 PM
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Thanks alot, even more data ❤️👍👍 A follow up question. Does this get better when you have something meaningful to work on outside of your relationship? I’m thinking if you have a meaningful job like a surgeon, you won’t be as bored in your relationship because you are not relying on it “shocking” you into appreciating it, you already have stimulation from doing something meaningful that can go wrong and can go right, so you appreciate the stability of your relationship rather than get bored by i…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:11 PM
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Very interesting, thanks, I was leaning towards the whole “attachment style” talk being overblown modern bs but I should give it another look
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:36 AM
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If a woman can’t be happy with a guy who is only bothering to be in a relationship with her so he can get sex, and he’s happy with that - she doesn’t want a relationship - she wants something to soothe her insecurities
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 12:06 AM
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I got a question if that’s okay about the childhood trauma and being attracted to bad people, when you say this, do you mean that you were attracted as in “drawn to them” or so you mean attracted as in physically aroused? And normal people didn’t make you aroused like that? And now that you’ve healed, is it the other way around? Like the people that remind you of trauma are a turn-off and normal people are a turn on? Sorry if it’s intrusive but this specific info will actually help me a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 08:47 PM
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ITS THAT EASY TO DATE THE OPPITE GENDER AND NOT GET DRUGGED OR KILLED HUH?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 05:11 PM
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You sound like a reverse feminist, same talking points, “look at this particular point where you are so privileged!”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 07:01 AM
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Hell yeah. “women get paid 0,00000005 Zimbabwean dollars for every 1 billion dollars a man earns 🥲” Every time I hear that fake garbage I get mad becuase it’s been debunked so many times and keeping it in your movement leads to women getting hurt since you work against fake issues and not reals ones, you also fck over your credibility and drive people away from activism for women which could be such a positive cause
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 07:15 PM
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The trick is to approach woman when they feel safe and not approach them like a potential partner, just like any other individual have some low pressure slow talk and then you might see some signals and then you can escalate a little bit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:26 PM
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Meet a lot of people = very low risk that not even 1/1000 people will want to be with you intimately = you’ll loose the v card One thing you’ll see is even if you’re a “chad” if you don’t meet a lot of people you won’t get anything, even cold approaching is unrealistic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 11:41 AM
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Generally I think they biggest issue is that you’ve gotta be seen by a lot of people, you’ll loose it if you want to. What’s the risk that not even 1/1000 people won’t find you attractive enough to sleep with
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 08:53 PM
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What have you done in order to feel that ashamed, before realizing that god loves sinners?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 04:10 PM
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Yes exactly and that’s a part of the problem. I would argue that you can’t have a good society without having some type of underlying collective culture. And then there will of course be some variation and influence from other cultures. For example a good society would ban forced marriages, and ban marriages with someone underage, but still allow people to practice the parts that are ok from whichever religion they want. But if they’re going to live in that society they have to follow the norm o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 12:58 PM
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Yeah, it’s not the easiest thing being a man and sexually initiating, because there’s no cultural standard way that you can do it so it becomes clear that you have good intentions There’s massive pressure for perfect consent, and at the same time a substantial amount of women will call a man too timid/unattractive if he’s asking for consent all the time and being very careful They way I solved this is I almost always guide the girl on top of me when I sleep with her for the first time, and not h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 11:38 AM
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There needs to be rules to some degree in a culture about what’s ok and what’s creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:21 PM
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The key is to hint towards it in a clear way without being so forward and overly clear “I’m not really looking to date seriously right now” She listens and keeps going with you = she’s ok with casual dating/sex I agree that saying “I’m just looking for you to be my fuck buddy” is not good advice, because it’s just too forward and socially incompetent and will make her uncomfortable But you can hint clearly towards your intentions in a smooth way so you’re not deciving her
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:37 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 10:32 PM
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But what pushed you into thinking that you might be wrong? Was it just randomly brought up in therapy or did something else make you question the brainwashing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 10:10 PM
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Oh becuase if you ignore problems and just avoid them by “just setting boundaries” for people who will accept them. You don’t make society better so you can get more options
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 08:19 PM
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Becuase when you’re speaking to a lot of women, you’re not speaking to “them” you’re speaking to modern day activist’s brainwashing, that they repeat. Same can be said about men and the red pill, you’re not speaking to him, you’re speaking to redpill content on YouTube’s brainwashing So just ignoring how brainwashed people are and then “just not being with them” is not good, because they could potentially become a real person who thinks for themselves that you could love
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 07:29 PM
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Dumb fcks just downvoting and won’t even leave a short response explaining why they think they’re right Maybe they’re just wrong Research what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 06:27 PM
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Hear-> don’t question/think -> repeat -> feel good because you receive a “reward” because you were politically correct
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 04:32 PM
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MOST of the time, It’s just biological attraction to the most fertile age 20-25 where babies are most likely to not have birth defects and survive and the mother is lite likely to survive. It’s just evolution. The whole “POwEr” thing is mostly untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 04:30 PM
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20 olds might not have that much experience to be competent at everything all the time but they are for sure not babies, I’d like people to avoid that kind of language for someone who is an adult and sexually mature
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 04:29 PM
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Biologically women are drawn to having the husband in the leadership role in the relationship in order to investigate his competence. And the competence is physically attractive. The dynamic just feels good for women. Then the “leading” will look different in each healthy relationship. Resources are a sign of competence and that’s why women are attracted to resources. This can look different too in different relationships. Maybe she’s more disagreeable so she likes handling some things herself a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 02:30 PM
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I used to have a problem with prescription opioids. I like how genuine love from a woman is even stronger than that, and makes me not even think about all that. Even the smallest low effort sweet thing from a genuine woman makes me whole and present. The care and femininity from a woman is really that strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 11:13 PM
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If you want a successful hookup you can really ask for a hookup Asking “wanna hook up” is a question that just sounds bad. You have to lead there using your actions and make it obvious. Like mentioning that you’re only into casual dating/ not into anything serious, for now. And then if she has sex with you then she knows what’s up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:50 PM
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Lol that’s perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 10:48 AM
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If you’re a man and you lie and say you’re not a virgin, and you turn out to be good with women and good at sex, I don’t think she would have much of a negative reaction to finding out you were really a virgin If you lied about sleeping with 500 women before her and she found out, I think she would be upset, loose attraction And for men it’s even worse because our brain just work differently, it’s not insecurity a lot of the time, it’s just ruining attracting for a relationship And btw I’m not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 11:02 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 07:05 PM
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Because everyone tried to convince us and told us it was not that way when we grew up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:22 PM
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Its worth adding that a man can be attractive but not like casual sex and cheating, and seeing a lot of straying from certain women and seeing hookup culture, will still contribute to his potential misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 11:23 AM
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They do all the time they are just really discreet
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:43 PM
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Hmm thanks but that’s like saying to a young woman: “just sexually initiate with the guy and if he has sex with you he likes you”, he could just be using you Same thing with the woman, she could just be using you for her emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 04:43 PM
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It always gives me anxiety when a woman is very comfortable with flirting and is very confident with me for this reason, I start questioning if she really likes me, Of course the exception could be if she has lots of positive emotion and she’s a naturally very confident and social person Got any short input/advice on how to tell which girl is which and if she really likes you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:38 PM
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I would say it’s morally wrong if you’re staring and making her scared and uncomfortable Remember women are biologically psychologically adapted to the fact that sex leads to them being pregnancy for 9 months. Therefor they are very very instinctually scared of signs that usually end up being nothing but could be signs of abnormal violent sexuality And for men people are always looking inbetween your legs trying to find out if you have a small or big penis, especially if you’re handsome and some…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:27 PM
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Funny thing is, there’s nothing abnormal or morally wrong with quickly looking at a woman’s butt for example. As long as your not staring and making it obvious so she gets uncomfortable or scared It’s normal human behavior, you think your girlfriend didn’t check out your discreetly bulge before you started dating? Lmao This wasn’t a response to you, it was a response to the weird culture we have today
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 08:04 PM
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What? Literally every red pill coach like “stephiscold” and others say that “just wait bro” “they all cheat”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:03 PM
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We have been avoiding the truth as a society, the science of how men and women and women actually work That’s the cause of all of this The mainstream world has been lying to men their entire life, saying women are like angels biologically and in terms of personality, Then when they go through life and figure out that’s wrong, it’s easy to go down the rabbit hole and go extreme in the other direction, watching too much “red pill” content and believing women are the devil. While both are not scien…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 10:21 AM
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You have a point BUT you’re exaggerating to a huge degree that it’s insane
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:26 PM
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Ah I see yeah that makes a lot of sense Makes it great for a first date too because you know the person isn’t a catastrophe
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 10:54 PM
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Side not I can’t imagine being friends with a woman for some time, watching her go from guy to guy and dating and smashing, and then I’m going to magically have a relationship with her? It seems so alien to me lmao would never do it. When I’m dating I always take the girl from stranger straight to dating
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 10:50 PM
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I don’t like to hookup of FwB for the most part But I’ll just say I’m not currently looking for a serious relationship Many times women make it impossible to be 100% honest and clear although I want to. Saying “ I just want to f*** you casually and nothing more” probably wouldn’t go over well even when it’s exactly what she wants In my experience you have to be a bit indirect But I think it’s really shitty to be unclear on purpose and use a woman who clearly likes you and wants to date you, for …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 09:48 PM
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Why do they prefer the lower n counts in your view? And keep in mind modern studies show women prefer lower n counts in men too. And they are very judgmental about the guys being with another man in his past
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:26 PM
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That’s completely fine I respect that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 10:33 PM
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It’s biological disgust that developed to protect men from being cucked during our evolution. Even confident non insecure men feel this way. It has nothing to do with insecurity for many men, I don’t care if she’s been with more attractive men than me for example. It’s the excessive promiscuity that’s unattractive for a relationship. Is it insecurity if you care if a man has previously spent 200 000$ on onlyfans and paid to have sex with 100 ladyboys and didn’t wash himself after? No I’d just sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 10:22 PM
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I think the high bodycount is unsexy for a relationship. So you can see the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 10:19 PM
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Alright, but it’s a pretty normal conversation and all women I’ve ever been in a relationship with, have asked me that first, not the other way around IMO If you actually have a low n-count, it would be best to say that because it doesn’t matter what the man’s opinion is, his biology likes it, it works to your advantage. Doesn’t mean he’s judgmental at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 09:14 PM
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I don’t ask about bodycount I just say mine (3) and tell her my boundary is for a woman to have below 11
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 07:33 PM
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Men don’t realize that women have a preference against high n-counts because they don’t say that they do, they say the complete opposite in order to defend high n-count people If women said, “I prefer a man with a bodycount below 10” then most men wouldn’t instantly say “YOU’RE INSECURE!!1!”, because they understand the biology I think this is a thing where the majority of women are just quiet about their innate preferences Btw I wasn’t trying to debunk your take that the majority of women have …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 04:28 PM
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No Look into actual science and stop talking and start thinking Calling pair bonding a made up concept is wild Do you even know how vasopressin impacts bonding and sexual behavior in humans and other animals for example
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:54 PM
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No It’s because people have an instinct for monogamy and an instinct for promiscuity, and they vary in how strong their instincts for either is, some poeple just have natural instinct for long term relationships, but if your first instinct was to be super promiscuous, then you usually don’t have a good instinct for monogamy, especially if you are a female You can be more attractive, taller, more muscle, richer, bigger in all ways, you’re the most attractive guy and the world, but if she doesn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:45 PM
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No not because you don’t measure up to her previous partners It’s uncertainty on whether or not she can even bond and be faithful to any man, even the most attractive man in the world, some people just won’t be faithful to anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:30 PM
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Yeah great points I would say though that a significant amount of women don’t understand the real reason why men prefer normal or low n-counts, so that tells me at least those women don’t have that biology, because if they did they would understand straight away and wouldn’t be arguing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 03:21 PM
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Disgust and insecurity is different The person that’s disgusted and upset is not insecure as a person because he knows his value and that he doesn’t deserve to get cucked, and he knows he doesn’t deserve to be with a woman that makes that likely And even if it was insecurity, why do people assume that this automatically disqualifies it as a legit preference? If a man has had a gambling addiction for 20 years and for one year he’s stopped, and now he wants to be your financial advisor, maybe he i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 02:18 PM
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Yeah sure but that’s not what I mean I mean stuff like “my bodycount is 43 and if a guy has a problem with that he’s InSEcUrE”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 01:48 PM
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Many times the reaction to excessively high n-counts is instinctual disgust, not insecurity, and evolved to reduce the chances of the man getting cucked So it doesn’t matter much what’s logically true, a large % of men, maybe 65%, will still have a strong preference against it, so there’s really no point in arguing about it If you keep telling women that they are InSEcUrE for wanting a man that’s taller than them, because we have guns to protect ourselves now, so we don’t need height, body size,…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 01:07 PM
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They are just immature in the same way that modern feminists have been (last 10 years) You should treat accusations seriously and try to find evidence and the truth, and have everyone be innocent until proven guilty You shouldn’t instantly believe anybody
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 12:16 PM
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Where I’m at in my life at the moment with my philosophy and worldview, I don’t think you should be the “desperate nice guy” or the “hard to get bad boy” because women are attracted to competence and the types of women that view either of those as competent are exactly the types of women you don’t want to attract, and those relationships tend to not last long Instead I would say that you should seem like a competent man, you don’t instantly love her when dating for a short time, because you don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 08:27 PM
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Yes sure but laws can change with time And men couldn’t vote then either if they were working class
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 08:22 PM
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What I’m arguing is that that doesn’t matter, The voters, both male and female, elect those representatives
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 05:57 PM
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It’s a rule made by people who vote, and the representatives follow what the voters want, women vote, so women have a lot of power here I wouldn’t call it “matriarchal oppression” though The gender of the rulers does not matter that much, only their decisions, a female can vote for a man that is unfair towards men and visa versa If there’s a female president who says “every women with a bodycount above 3 will be executed” then that woman is oppressing other women regardless of her gender
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 05:43 PM
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Until they realize that a lot of the toxic parts of the Manosphere came from the same reasoning that modern toxic feminists use for men and women, it’s just reversed, then this problem won’t be solved well The toxic content that’s marketed to men is very similar to that marketed towards women, only that the male content is more clear about the extreme words and hate, and the female content is less harsh and more covert, but they have similar effects “That gender (women) is super privileged becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 04:50 PM
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Yeah sure I agree with most of that but Men ADMIT to cheating more in some studies Other studies show that men and women cheat roughly equally
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 03:55 PM
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Of course she would be aware of it before lol I wouldn’t just sneak attack Sometimes I get random long hairs on my mostly hairless back, looks really weird but it’s hard to notice, I’d be thankful if she removed them the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 10:04 AM
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Well I don’t naturally have a unibrow at least, only two three hairs that I shave off But here’s the deal, men SHOULD groom their eyebrows, and women’s preference for that is OKAY It’s also not only okay to respectfully communicate your preference to your boyfriend so he knows, it’s actually the most moral option And that goes for every preference And the genders can be reversed here no problem If my girl had some body hair I didn’t like I’d just routinely give her a massage and shave the body h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:31 AM
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Well at 18% you’re more around “bear mode”, you won’t see abs clearly but you’ll look strong, so a power lifter can definitely be at that range, and be ideally healthy But some of the crazy extreme weightlifters that only care about PRs are not that long term healthy and don’t live very long It’s like saying “a man who has good visible abs is healthy and does just fine” that’s very true but a man at 5% body fat long term is not going to feel that great and probably not be ideally healthy if you …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 02:31 PM
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This depends on the study because the fat distribution is really important If it’s around the legs and buttocks and hips it’s completely different from visceral fat around the organs and the sides of the waist
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:00 PM
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It’s the biggest misconception that all men want a slim woman About 1/3 if men want a thin, slim, woman, and about a 1/3 of men want a curvy thicker woman, 1/3 like somewhere in-between This is because women can be healthy at a larger body fat % because they are biologically different from men and have different hormones and give birth and shit, women can be healthy at 18-32% body fat depending on how it’s distributed Men can only be ideally healthy around 10-18% body fat So I genuinely am the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:31 AM
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Women have to love men with unibrows and say nothing or you are evil sexists who are intimidated and insecure God forbid you as a woman would ever have the preference for you to help shave your boyfriends unibrow, it’s not allowed Realize how ridiculous this sounds? This is what we as men have to hear every time we have a preference, so I wouldn’t really say that male preferences are given the much respect
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:09 AM
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Think it’s the other way around, out of filed reports 10% are false and 90% are real But around 90% of rapes are not reported to the police That’s especially true when it comes to male victims and male victims during childhood
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:50 AM
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Yeah, it’s like asking someone “would you murder someone if you could 100% get away with it?” Like who are we talking about here? Murdering Hitler to save many other people? Or murdering Joe from down the street who is a great/decent person who works in IT who helps your grandma sometimes? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 11:19 PM
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Well I can’t access to the full study so I can’t speak on it with certainty But I also believe they didn’t say who the victim is, is she a person who has killed and tortured 100000 children, is she the female version of hitler? Is she a pedo who tortures kids? Rape is still massively against my values so I wouldn’t do it and wouldn’t support it even to such a terrible person. But I can see how someone would say a pedo should have what they did against someone, done to them, although I don’t agre…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 11:11 PM
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Well it’s interesting because it says something about what people could do if there were no laws protecting against this stuff Like in a room full of witnesses vast majority of sick people aren’t going to do any harsher crimes, because they know they’ll get stopped or caught, but in the event that an opportunity to do it without getting punished arises, they might act These two studies were really bad though for the reasons I mentioned before but also because it was almost trying to “fool” the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 10:52 PM
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Good question, I have lots of bad experiences and some bad trauma in my life, and it has for sure damaged me, but I handle it as well as I can But I have really strong moral values, so people thinking I did something like that, that I never would do, would damage me to a huge degree and break me So I would say that in that hypothetical, it depends on the level of torture and maiming, if it’s like Ramsey and Theon from game of thrones, then it’s for sure worse than being falsely convicted of rape…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:58 PM
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Well I meant if same woman wanted to hurt me she would do more damage to me mentally if she falsely accused and it was taken seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:21 PM
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This is what happens when you only look at the perceived “privileges” of the other gender, and not any of their disadvantages
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:36 PM
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I as a man would 100% rather have a women have unconsentual intercourse with me when I was unconscious or something, than be accused and falsely convicted of rape myself, which my country makes possible through loopholes in the law And that’s not to put don’t the trauma of sexual violence at all, just to raise the trauma of being falsely accused and convicted because people don’t seem to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 03:10 PM
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Be careful with studies like this It seems like this college is a very biased sample, it’s only around 250 people And also I tried to download the pdf of the male study, but it doesn’t work, and it’s a “micro study”, how many people are even that? It could be a very biased and small sample size I would imagine it would be something like 5% of men and 5% of women, based on estimates on cluster b personality disorders like ASPD AND MBPD It might sound too small, but that’s 1/20 people, one or two …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 02:59 PM
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I agree with this to a 100% I just don’t think modern day feminism helps this I think especially young women and girls have been manipulated because of their fear and trauma into thinking that modern feminism is helping them, then you look at the results and it’s doubtful at best. It’s very similar to guys who struggle in dating, and then they think incels and red/black pillars are going to save them, but they are just going to make things worse
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 11:42 AM
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“Men are so judgmental and insecure of a woman’s past and women are not” … “A 2016 Glamour survey revealed that 63% of women wouldn’t date a man who has had sex with another man” Ayylmao Biology is biologying Women are more judgemental about some things in a man’s past, and men are more judgmental of other things in a woman’s past
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:22 PM
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I’d replace “social proof” with “signs of social competence” according to my worldview
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:50 PM
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Great question I only set that cutoff point because that’s when I know I won’t have a problem with it, maybe I could tolerate 12 or 13 but I set the cutoff point lower because then I can guarantee that I won’t have a problem with it in the future It’s like a woman who prioritizes height a lot and is very attracted to that, saying “I want a guy who is 6ft or above”, it’s not like she would instantly not be attracted to a guy who is 5’11”, but since height is a priority for her she sets the cutoff…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:32 PM
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Real simple, women are attracted to a man’s competence the same way men are women are attracted to each other’s appearance So if when you’re being vulnerable and talking about emotions and mental health, and she interprets it as you being incompetent and weak, she will loose sexual feelings for you However if she interprets it as you being confident in your ability and handling your emotions competently, she might actually gain attraction at how competently you handle emotions since everyone has…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 10:08 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 08:13 PM
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Everyone approaches n-counts from a logical perspective, but neglect that it doesn’t really change anything, males throughout evolution have developed an instinctive disgust against certain actions in their partners sexual past, to protect them from getting cuckolded I actually women have this instinct as well especially if their brain has more of a tendency towards monogamy, although it’s not as strong as the male disgust And it often isn’t insecurity either, since I would loose feelings if I f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 06:14 PM
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I would say it can be a power play A lot of times the results of arguments in average relationships and disputes depend on who will submit because they are subconsciously afraid of the partner being able to find someone else or cheat, if the person doubts their ability to find someone new unlike their partner That’s why the woman will often wear down the man in a marriage to the point that shes dog walking him, he just doesn’t want to stay lonely and sexless and without a woman for years before …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 05:16 PM
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Feminists usually do not disavow women who call themselves feminists and say shitty things that don’t align with the proposed definition, that’s one reason why modern feminism has no real respect I just do advocacy for women in my own way and avoid the feminist label
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 01:04 PM
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Respectfully I don’t have time to respond to all of that right now, we have both made out claims and our comments are here, people can google and make up their own mind, there are standards sources for the % claims I made about personality disorders The analogy about a 1000 cuts was philosophical about how men and women tend to hurt each other and wasn’t about actual physical cuts, for example it can be about women pushing men into suicide by making their life hell, and getting away with it, in …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:52 PM
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As an example the lack of intimacy, it starts out great because the two women know a woman’s body ofc, but then it gets “repetitive and boring” and they both just stop putting in effort and receiving effort back. Also lack of communication, immature communication, higher rates of domestic violence although not as severe as male domestic violence tends to be I’m trying to make lesbian relationships out to be terrible, I’m just trying to say that they have their own problems, it’s not easier datin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:58 AM
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Nah, look at the statistics for Lesbian relationships, they have lots of problems, many times more than gay relationships straight couples A substantial portion of women seem really great when you meet them socially, but they are manipulative and it’s not fun to be in a relationship with them Neither men or women are better partners generally imo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 11:20 AM
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I do think there is a point to this even though I don’t fully agree Women will say “I want a man who earns more than me” and then when men try hard to do that, and end up earning more, you get to hear “men earn more than women and that’s bad because it’s a sign of the patriarchy” when in reality it’s just men conforming to women’s sexual preferences, women pushed them to do that, and that’s the biggest factor in the unequal outcome
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 05:30 PM
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Hurt my feelings? It won’t lmao, just say what you have to say And everyone has a bias, doesn’t mean that you’re wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:39 PM
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Complete opposite, I’m a way above average in terms of handsomeness and have had women try to cheat with me That really fucked up my ability to trust because those women seemed really “innocent” And with how prevalent cheating is, it’s not too strange to have it be in the back of your head and be slightly concerned, even with someone you trust more than anyone I don’t like to be close to the edge of a cliff with anyone, I don’t really trust anyone anyone that much, I’d probably trust my mom and …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:34 PM
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Well sure but they are different and that’s my point Theres a huge difference between thinking “omg my CEO is a woman I can’t handle this I feel like less of a man” and “statistically women tend to prefer men who out-earn them so now that she started earning more than me, should I be concerned that she’ll leave me? Idk I’m feeling some negative emotion about this, I wonder what’s true” If there was a man earning 1m$ a year and his wife started earning 100k up from 60k, and he felt fear then, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:37 PM
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Women have a strong sexual preference for a man at her level of competence or above, in this case it’s about career competence So it does matter quite a bit here And just because person is concerned that their partner might cheat on them, then that doesn’t mean that they are insecure about their value A 5/10 man can cheat on a 9/10 woman just because he’s a greedy idiot, just because she could be concerned about that potentially happening in her situation, then that doesn’t mean that she doesn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:02 PM
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Which standards do you mean? And how do those help a woman avoid this? I don’t think anyone reasonable is complaining about women wanting a public place for a first date, wanting to vet more before they to go to a man’s apartment, wanting something type of proof that he isn’t catfishing her, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:19 PM
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The problem to me is that about 40% women are pretty to me in my age range in my environment, so I have no problem finding women who are attracted to me and I’m attracted to them, if I’m socializing enough which I don’t But it’s so unclear which woman has a good personality, because a lot of them put on the “innocent girl” act like they wouldn’t hurt a fly, then you have to vet and find out her real personality
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:52 PM
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Vast majority of the time It’s fear of her cheating or being disingenuous in some way Not fear of her being a girlboss
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:44 PM
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Well not all woman will do it of course And Elon musk is not a good example because he’s not the either package, he’s socially incompetent and not very masculine Take a younger Leonardo DiCaprio after he had built a lot of wealth as an example There are for sure loyal women out there, just like there are loyal men out there, but it’s not a small “niche”,of women who would become unfaithful in some way if given the chance, and also men who would do the equivalent on the male side, it’s not as com…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:43 PM
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What? It’s not lol It’s like having a 8/10 girlfriend and leaving her for a 9,5/10 woman, people get greedy and stupid and start thinking that the grass is greener somewhere else
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:48 AM
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Yeah I don’t blame them for having a preference for guys with money and I don’t think it’s shallow But what I’m talking about here is beyond stability, I mean that you have good money and can guarantee a good future, but she leaves you for a richer man
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:23 AM
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My view on this issue is that: It’s because women tend to prefer men who earn more than them because it’s a sign of competence, and women are attracted to the competence It’s not being “intimidated” like she’s more of an alpha male then you, it’s experiencing negative emotion since you think she might not like you the way you like her, and that she’s using you in order to have a partner but she’s keeping her options open and her eyes open for more attractive men It’s more like women have been sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 12:50 AM
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Modern day feminism does not help women and drives hate towards men, and drives men and women apart, so no they aren’t my allies
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 06:48 PM
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Women don’t get paid less for the same job There is no glass ceiling Individual acts of violence happen to both men and women, even though it’s not the same things, and many women and men don’t get justice The majority of women voted against abortion in southern states, more so than men The majority of women voted for a man to be president instead of a woman Men earn more money because women asked us to and we tried hard, because you said you wanted a man richer than you If you want to get invol…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 06:04 PM
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Severe domestic violence, can even be lethal Non sexual violence Honorary killings and parts of the culture surrounding it Genital mutilation Trafficking, although not as common in the western world Lack of access to abortion since doctors are afraid to preform the procedure even when there is a threat to the woman’s life, since the laws are written in a weird way Revenge porn Loneliness, even though I would say male loneliness is more severe, people often forget about female loneliness, since i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 03:53 PM
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Here’s the problem the way I see it There are many severe problems that women face such as sexual crimes But modern day feminism (last 10 years) has done nothing good to actually help women, and it has done a lot of damage to the relationship between men and women, and it’s told a bunch of lies that people believe, that do damage For example in my country there is a problem with sexual crimes just like anywhere else, but instead of creating a clear definition and raising the sentences through th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 12:35 PM
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Some women are just the types to take you for granted so being nice to them doesn’t work, they will treat you terribly and leave/cheat, but “shocking” them like you’re going to leave and with dreadgame makes them fall in love more So that’s where it does work But that’s a fucked up woman that you do not want in your life And all the good women will avoid you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:03 PM
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Women with personality disorders that will fuck up your life also, red pill PuA tactics tend to work on them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:31 PM
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That a man finds a womenderfull woman who’s not a hoe, but is traumatized by watching to much red pill content, starts dreadgaming or something, so she leaves him Then some time later the only types of women he attracts with the red pill stuff are exactly the types of women that you don’t want to attract, and then he realizes what an idiot he’s been I’m purple pill because I think the red pill has some half-truths but they’re often exaggerated, so I believe in a healthy mix between blue pill and…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:06 AM
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Only problem is if you are attractive and good at sex women have a tendency to get attached to and emotional, so that’s one reason why women who like you might avoid FwB and go after a regular relationship instead
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:02 AM
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Can’t tell you how many times I’ve seen that, and that’s why I’m purple pill
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:55 AM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:08 PM
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So you’re telling me you would not care/try to find out if your future gf had slept with 1000 people in total Look I get that people make mistakes and change, but a person with a 7 bodycount and a person with a 1000 bodycount are two different people and will always be, why wouldn’t you want to find out about that if you can
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:53 PM
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If she lies to me she’ll have to spend them entire relationship paranoid that I might find out about her real past somehow, and leave her, so it’s not pointless She’s be able to convincingly lie about her bodycount being 3 if it’s really 9. But if she says her bodycount is 3 and it really is 43, the odds are a lot of people know
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:55 AM
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They were allowed to own bank accounts, they just had to open one with their fathers, male relatives or husbands permission This was because of the laws around coverture, which meant that the man was responsible for the woman’s debt Also it was hard but there were sometimes exceptions “Women who were widowed or divorced could, in many cases, open a bank account independently because their legal status had changed. Some banks allowed these women to open accounts without a male co-signer.” If they…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:52 AM
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Women in the 1950s faced strong pressure to marry due to limited job opportunities and financial restrictions, but they weren’t forced to marry. Some worked, lived with family, or found alternative housing, though independence was difficult They weren’t slaves And men weren’t slaves because they worked to provide for a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:40 PM
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This is like saying men at that time were slaves because they worked and provided for the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:30 PM
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I just tell her that we’re not compatible and I can’t trust her if she consensually slept with more than 10 people (im 23 years old) or if she consensually got spitroasted or gang banged, and then the ball is her court If she wants to be paranoid and desperately cover up her past, fearing that one day I might find out and leave her, then she can do that I’ll never lie about my sexual past because it says a lot about my biology and values and I also don’t want to walk around being paranoid that s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:26 PM
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I disagree, when you date you deserve to know about your partners sexual past, because it says a lot about their biology When I started getting sexually active, my first thought was “I want a long term relationship, so I can stop dating and stay with one girl forever and build”, it was not wanting to sleep with as many girls as possible and gangbanging them with my friends and spending 200000$ on a girls onlyfans That says a lot about me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:22 PM
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It’s not impossible at all lol, but it’s not about the likelihood, it’s about the principle If my girl is the 2nd hottest girl in the world, and I imply that I would cheat with the hottest girl in the world, it’s not likely that that’s going to happen, but it’s wrong as a principle Also people’s wife’s and gfs have been called up on the stage when they’re favorite crush singer is performing, and they did sexual things with them, embarrassing their boyfriend in public, so it’s not a trivial probl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:24 PM
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That’s only true sometimes Imagine if your boyfriend asks you to act out some really harsh and violent BDSM fantasy in the bedroom, idk about you but I would be hesitant about that fantasy, and start wondering if this person is really what I think they are, because I know that people can be good actors, what will he do if given the chance? It’s not “insecurity”, it’s realizing that this person might not be who you think they are because of their fantasies, and if the woman doesn’t want to take t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:09 PM
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I agree that it’s normal to find other people attractive while in a relationship, but if it starts to become too excessive, it becomes disrespectful If I say to you that this white table “is green” you might laugh and say “no it’s white wtf are you joking” but if I keep saying “no it’s green” it eventually becomes strange, because you can’t prove to 100% what I subjectively see, because there are people that would see a white table as green, In the same way, if you’re obsessing about a celebrity…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:59 PM
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It’s refreshing to hear this from a woman I think obsessing over a celebrity or instagram model or telling your partner about how hot your celebrity crush is without them asking, is just plain disrespect And it’s also not “insecure” to react to it, it’s actually secure, because it’s realizing that a person could not appreciate you or cheat on you, even though you don’t deserve it, and a secure person will call that out On the other hand though I think it’s normal to be attracted to other people …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:30 PM
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In my opinion that’s a romanticization of MeToo It had many negative consequences And was driven by a political ideology that has caused a lot of damage to women and men, and their relationship, both before and after And my biggest problem with that political ideology/feminism, is that in The last 10 years, it has claimed to help women, but it doesn’t, it just uses their trauma and fear and makes them think that feminism is the savior that is going to solve everything, and drags them into a stra…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 12:21 PM
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“I want a rich man!” then men try hard and become rich to impress women “If men earn more money than women it’s the patriarchy and that’s bad!”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 06:49 PM
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Criminality
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:32 AM
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If appearance doesn’t matter then why are there gay or straight people? Everyone would be bisexual if it was truly the case that appearance doesn’t matter The truth is, if you are a straight person and you try to have sex with the same gender, you won’t bond to them, you’ll only bond to someone that looks like the opposite gender, that has those traits, so it’s good if you have some level of attractive physical appearance for the strength of the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:32 PM
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Then say that, clearly What she missed was the word “just” to make her sentence work “You aren’t just good enough to hook up with, you’re the type of guy I would want to hook up with but I would want to keep you after”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:33 PM
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I mean a guy could mean that Most of the times I’ve seen that used they mean that the woman seems like a good person who is loyal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:31 PM
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If you only date guys that look very attractive in your 20s and go crazy for them, then you date a guy that looks like a bag of trash in your 30s but he has a good personality and is stable, but you keep being shitty to him after marrying him and rejecting him sexually, it seems pretty clear to us what you are doing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:09 PM
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It sounds like you’re going to keep him around so you don’t feel lonely, and cheat on him
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:58 PM
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To me this is like saying Some men aren’t dishonest fuckboys that lie to get sex, because most men would value a long term relationship over casual sex It can even be the case that a man values casual sex more in his 20s and is a fuckboy, and then he values a long term relationship when he realizes he might get lonely forever in his 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:48 PM
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They don’t say that, and we don’t want that They say: “every single women In the world can’t date a 7ft guy with the best body you’ve ever seen whose also a billionaire and has a private plane” And then you take it as “we want women to be dishonest and lie about appearance not mattering and settle for ugly ass dudes and make them think they’re attractive” I think men should date a woman they’re physically attracted to, but if their porn addiction has led to them having extremely high standards a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:32 PM
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How about honesty? A lot of women say appearance doesn’t matter, and then they get surprised when men don’t do anything for their appearance If you were just honest about what you’re ACTUALLY attracted to, guys would do that and you wouldn’t be settling for someone that’s not attractive But instead many women just lie and say something like “only the personality matters 👍”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:27 PM
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it’s not common sense, because of how dishonestly a substantial amount of women have used that word When guys say “girlfriend material” they’re 100% honest and are saying that she’s pretty and does wife things and is trustworthy When women say “husband material” it has so many meanings and dishonesty in it, that it’s hard for us to judge what she even means
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:19 PM
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If I was the type of guy to like hookups, I would 100% BOTH hook up with the woman that’s my wife and make her my wife When the genders exploit a partner, they do it differently: Men lie and make the woman think he loves her to get sex Women lie and make the guy think that she’s attracted to him, in order to get a relationship and not feel lonely That’s why women and men will never be judged the same in this regard, and women should stop projecting things onto us and trying to force us to have c…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:04 PM
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Just say that definition or just use better and more precise language
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:53 PM
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I remember that thread, she didn’t say he was husband material, She said: “you’re not the type of man I would hook up or have a one night stand with, you’re the type of man I would make my husband” How can you be such a big idiot to say that and not accept that there something wrong with it? It’s like saying “you’re the type of girl I’m with for her personality, not her appearance” Her statement implies 2 things: 1: she’s the type of women to have one night stands 2: when you have a one night st…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:50 PM
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Because we don’t have that biology It would be equivalent for a man to date a woman who is at his level of physical appearance or above Also if you are dating a woman that’s above your level of competence, that means she’s less attracted to you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:24 PM
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If you do this you’ll attract the wrong type of woman It does work sometimes, but on exactly the type of women you want to avoid Better women will want clear monogamy, and won’t take that as a sign that she’s “got you” and get bored, instead they’ll know that even though you’re together now, if she isn’t treating you well, you’ll leave Your method sounds like a recipe for getting a damaged girl that loves “the chase” and will cheat on you out of insecurity that she’s not good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 08:19 PM
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Nah I was speaking in general terms
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 11:31 PM
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Sex dolls make sense lol But what about a flashlight or something lmao And no, I don’t think you have to justify your preference, I have a similar thing for women who like to get gang banged, I just can’t do it, the only people I have a problem with are those that keep their preferences secret and hurt others because of it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:40 PM
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Lmao the free use thing was funny, it’s really that much of a turn off lol? Scenario: what if the guy was very well endowed like the people on r/bigdickproblems and he was unable to have sex with most women because they can’t take his size, and so he uses a sex toy for practice so he’s not bad at his stroke game when he finds a woman that can take him?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:36 PM
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Finally a woman admits to women having politically incorrect preferences I think if you are a bisexual man you should decide which gender you are the most attracted to and go for that only, and never reveal your bisexuality to a woman you’re interested in, precisely because of this, at least in order to attract the maximum amount of women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:32 PM
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Why do you assume that the man always would rather have hookups than “solve” his problem himself? Going out and looking for hookups everyday is time wasting, and women who you are FwB with get attached, and you can’t always find a women with a compatible personality for a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:30 PM
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It’s not sexist to note that men and women are different However I don’t agree with the woman’s point
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:28 PM
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My view of a high bodycount is that it’s a bad sign when men have it and a somewhat worse sign when women have it That being said it’s possible for both men and women to be faithful after a high bodycount, but it’s statistically more rare My view is that since men’s pair bonding is heavily influenced by vasopressin, men bond to women they are interested in for a long term relationship and view as faithful, and at the same time have and easier time not bonding when casual with a girl that they kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:58 AM
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I 100% do prefer women who dress modestly Many times men are dishonest to get easy sex so they pretend to like promiscuous women, but they wouldn’t have a monogamous relationship with them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:30 PM
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EVERYONE HAS TO WORSHIP ME BEFORE THEY EVEN KNOW ME or they are sexist pigs!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:36 PM
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Well “being with another person sexually” then
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:26 PM
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You’re so unclear about what you want, just write one sentence explaining what your ideal setup looks like If you found an amazing man today, would you want to stay with him for the rest of your life? Or do you want something new anyways, eventually breaking up, even though the relationship is good? that’s what I’m trying to get to
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 11:07 PM
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Most monogamous people date with the intention of staying with the person for like, so that’s the most common setup You wanting someone new is different
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 10:55 PM
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Okay but being in a monogamous relationship, then breaking up and being single for a bit, then another relationship? What do you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 10:46 PM
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So you mean jumping from one man to another? Like serial monogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 10:44 PM
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So you’d prefer only being with one man for the rest of your life? That’s how I feel about a girlfriend at least Side note, the idea that men always want more women and can’t stay faithful is so stupid, plenty of men have evolved to bond way more with vasopressin which is typical in pair bonding monogamous animals
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 10:05 PM
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Because the tremendous disgust and emotional damage I know infidelity would cause to me, if the woman is like most women and want me to be monogamus then I’ll be it 100%, because I don’t want to hurt her like that Reason 2 is that you probably won’t bond ideally with someone if you run off and have sex with another person, during each argument or rough period with your main partner Reason 3 is that I don’t like casual sex because I don’t like the talking phase and constantly looking for new part…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 10:04 PM
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But the ideal mate would be have the best of both worlds, a man who is a good nice person and brave/capable of violence? That’s the way I see women’s preferences From what I know women tend to have more attraction towards men who engage in empathetic childcare as an example
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:54 PM
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Yeah I agree, but if leaving isn’t a good option I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 11:28 PM
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I think when you are younger (teenager, 20s and 30s) it’s always morally wrong to cheat and you should always try to leave instead, I really dislike it and mentally treat it like a crime honestly But when you get older you can be trapped in a relationship with no good options, and if your partner is constantly refusing you for no reason, and won’t listen to your communication, and is still requiring you to be monogamous, it’s like they’re trying to ban you from having sex, and I understand if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 10:19 PM
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The higher self esteem I get, the more I think this way Because I see myself as deserving of being sexually treated reasonably well, and I want to do the same to my girl, so I would view it as disrespectful if I didn’t do that for my girl
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 10:07 PM
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Because what they’re doing is morally wrong unless there is a clear reason for it like they were recently pregnant or their partner is unhygienic and doesn’t take care of their appearance and health, or they have some type of health concern that they’re taking care of Let’s say I have erectile dysfunction, I would fix the problem lmao, not tell my wife “wow, guess you gotta never have sex for 20 years, you could also leave me but then our kids have to grow up with separated parents” If I was 37 …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:41 PM
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At my age there’s no valid reason to cheat, I hate people who cheat on good/decent/ok people and traumatize them for no reason But when you get to a certain age it’s hard to start over because you’ve have established a life with someone, if that person then magically stops putting any effort at all to satisfy you, and refuses sex, even though you try to communicate it over and over, year after year, they just don’t care, then I understand cheating It would be better to just leave if you can, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:59 PM
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Almost every way Innocent voice, fight avoidant, no interest in masculine things, high interest in feminine things, prefers to be the follower in a relationship, wants to be provided for, wears makeup, is incapable of being dominant during sex, moodswingy, emotional, does not take the lead when presented with threats And so many other ways I can’t think of right now A personality like this only works in dating if you are a woman or gay
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 10:16 PM
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It’s not “cool” for straight men to act like women because women have a sexual preference against that. Stop trying to blame everything on the “patriarchy” (which isn’t even real in the western world)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:29 PM
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If I knew a girl was smashing 2 different people while dating me and holding off on sex with me I would reject her instantly and if I found out about that later on I would break up, so there definitely is a moral need to tell them I wouldn’t break up with her for having FwB in the past but there’s something about her seeing the FwB while dating me Idk about y’all but this is a big deal for most men, since it leads to emotional disgust, and you can’t know for sure what those men would have though…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:34 PM
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We have been pair bonding more and more throughout our evolution
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:31 PM
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You are absolutely right I agree that because of evolutionary biology the only thing that could even possibly be respectable and work would be one man and more than one woman. If there are several men in a relationship and one women and you don’t even know who the father is, it’s vile, and that’s why people biologically don’t respect it/feel disgust/think it’s weird But that doesn’t mean that most modern women would enjoy polyamory which is my point Throughout more recent evolutionary history, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:55 PM
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My opinion is that a lot of people try to use evolutionary biology to justify arguments but completely neglect more “recent” evolutionary biology A typical example would be that prehistoric humans and our ancestors where polyamorous, but though our evolution we have biologically adapted to being monogamous, so humans aren’t naturally polyamorous or monogamous, they’re somewhere inbetween. But red pillers will say stuff like “women should be monogamous but they should accept that the husband has …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 10:17 PM
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Also women who get bored easy, they are most attracted to men who are constantly “shocking” them in the relationship, or they get bored and leave This is why learning a lot of PUA techniques will lead you to attracting a specific type of woman, that you really don’t want to be with
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 02:01 PM
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Most modern (last 10 years) feminist ideas and advocacy do not make things better for men or women, and do not solve female issues In my goddamn home country a man gets like 4years for SA and the feminists are still yapping about a bunch of inflammatory bs and misinterpreted statistics, and writing laws about consent that no one can understand fully, not even judges, but at the same time the actual punishments for real actual terrible people are small as hell, wouldn’t that be the first place to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:13 PM
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Notice how all these men are downvoting I am a man and to me this is just inflammatory You could gender swap it and it would fit perfectly on FemaleDatingStrategy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:32 PM
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If those women had a masculinized biology they would be acting in the same way, since they clearly don’t have a problem with the behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:52 PM
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You need a certain level of appearance to fall in love, otherwise there would be no straight or gay people I’m not saying they have to look like an instagram model though, but appearance definitely matters for how much you bond to your partner
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 11:25 AM
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Interesting studies, good point I’ll look into it It really adds to the “delusion” of these alpha males if women really do judge men as harshly I’ll just say according to my personal bias and experience women don’t as large of a emotional reaction as men And you point about individual women and men was good, that my point at least applies there I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:24 PM
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Hypergamy (the tendency for women to date men at the level or above) is caused by women’s sexual attraction to a man’s competence, when you look it that way, it all gets easier It doesn’t mean that she will cheat on you Just like when you see a hotter girl than your girlfriend you don’t instantly cheat, if your powerfully bonded, satisfied and a good person
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 10:15 PM
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Funny how lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:08 PM
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Well I don’t care about anyone finding my woman unattractive at least, I’ve heard a lot of male friends say that also, but I would care if people were calling her ugly, because that’s unnecessary and disrespectful I meant that the social competence of being able to attract many women is attractive, and there is a tendency for women to view a guy who is in a relationship with a pretty woman, or can pull a lot of women, as more attractive This was my experience when I became more attractive, once …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:06 AM
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Yes exactly, this is why I never participated in this, it goes against my values, I don’t view it as a positive action I view it as degrading Regardless if it’s right or wrong people have instincts and my point is that men are going to have a lot of trouble not feeling a strong “ick” when in a monogamous relationship with her now
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:59 AM
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Oh I meant that women generally tend to have a preference for men that can get women Men have no equivalent preference, we don’t care if other men find a woman attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:57 AM
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That’s good to hear I don’t trust gossip so I can only tell you about one girl I know for sure did this I know one girl who I talked to at a party, I know for a fact she enjoyed sleeping with 8 men in a Gangbang, and also sleeps with several men in a month. When I met her she seemed SUPER innocent, it kinda fucked with my head when I found out I honestly feel bad for her, she though all these people were “sex positive” and then she found out one of the guys had gossiped about her and called her …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:51 AM
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Hmm, if I was a woman looking to date, I might view FFM threesomes as somewhat of a red flag, but I would not say they are degrading, throughout evolution humans had a tendency and draw towards monogamy but also towards polyamorous relations with multiple females and one man. (Becuase more men died in combat, and several other reasons). On a large scale, the opposite, (several men and one female) pretty much never worked and the men just killed each other. Because of that strong instinct to secu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:39 AM
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Oh I mean for the instinct of male disgust, that doesn’t matter. It’s like getting afraid of heights if you are on top of a balcony far up in the air, it doesn’t matter that you know logically that the balcony’s structure and is safe, human emotions are still stuck in the savanna. Anything that’s excessively promiscuous will make the male brain subconsciously think that his future child might not be his, and that gives you the disgust response, like a strong “ick”, you’re not consciously thinkin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:30 AM
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They can be unattractive, attractive, or horrible looking, it doesn’t matter Unfortunately it’s a strong form of disgust and I just feel bad for her. I would find it repulsive to participate in a threesome where two men have sex with one girl. I’ve been invited to things like that and I have NEVER participated The disgust comes from the idea that in nature, she could get pregnant and she wouldn’t even know who the father is, and she’s fine with that, even though there is birth control now, our i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 01:11 AM
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Yeah but people like freshandfit would disgust most modest women, they’re open about the number and brag about it regularly, that’s who I had in mind when I typed at first
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 12:08 AM
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Unfortunately, If I found out that my gf had done that (consensually and didn’t regret) it would disgust me and I would loose feelings, so yea it’s worse than if she had a somewhat higher bodycount, for me at least About the specific question, id probably prefer the woman with a 20 bodycount, rather than the woman who likes to get spit roasted. But they are close It’s more about past sexual behavior that makes you appear untrustworthy, than a very specific count, but the count is a rough marker
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 09:55 PM
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Women and men don’t have to have the same preferences. If a man that has a high n count wants to be with a woman that has a low n count, and she doesn’t care about his n count, that’s fine If it was hypocrisy to want something in a partner that you don’t have, then women and men would have to look the same, and act the same in every way, there could be no masculine and feminine However, I think a lot of high n count men are delusional, many low n count women do care and will reject you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 09:52 PM
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Good relationships are made not found
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 09:29 PM
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It is a problem in the relationship if one person has a problem with it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 07:31 PM
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I never said that the other person is obligated to change I just mean that people refuse to try to fix problems nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 06:42 PM
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Imagine this scenario, a guy keeps wearing grey sweatpants because he thinks that’s what gives him high status and that it’s good and cool and sexy, even at work Then he meets a girl that loves everything about him except the fact that he always wears grey sweatpants, should she just instantly leave? Or should she communicate why she doesn’t like it? In his head he was thinking that he’s super sexy and all, but he might just look like a bum, wearing them all the time, and it sometimes looks like…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 06:12 PM
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If you look for perfect, you’ll look forever. You have to be able to communicate and solve problems, if she doesn’t want to then fine find someone else. Maybe if you explained that dressing that way doesn’t have the effect she thinks it does then she might reconsider? You never know if you refuse to be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 05:39 PM
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I’m taking more about the behavior being a red flag that your partner sees you as the safe option
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 01:23 AM
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Yes i don’t disagree with that, but would you blame a woman for feeling some type of way of her boyfriend gave all his previous GFs full body massages, and now he magically does not want to do it with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:06 PM
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When citing statistics from dating apps, don’t forget that men outnumber women by a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 12:49 AM
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I only gave that example to show that there are levels to what you’re asking for Let’s change it to whole body massages for the sake of argument It’s very different from saying “you have to give anal because you did it before even though you didn’t enjoy it” which would pretty much be the male equivalent to the whole ”you have to get pegged” thing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 02:29 PM
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Its a funny gotcha that will make people think, but It was never about forcing (for the normal people in the discussion), just that it’s strange and a red flag if a woman was very sexual with previous partners and now all of a sudden she doesn’t want you in the same way If a man has given oral to all his girlfriends but refuses to give it ever to his current gf or wife, would she be wrong to be concerned about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:08 AM
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Temperamental conscientiousness correlates with fidelity, conscientious people are statistically less likely to cheat Conservatives and traditional people are statistically more likely to be temperamentally conscientious
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 10:25 PM
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The likelihood is a different topic and you should definitely be suspicious But a certain amount of allegations is not definitive proof that someone is guilty
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:26 PM
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I don’t know enough about Weinstein and Cosby, I thought it was proven they did it? So I won’t comment on it, I don’t have enough knowledge there But as a response to your point, it’s possible that other women can make up false stories to “support” the first woman who made an allegation, because she believes that the first woman telling the truth, it has been noted and proven to be real during metoo in Sweden. Most women would never do this, but when you have a country of millions of people they…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:16 PM
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Women and men bond differently, that’s the biggest reason it’s different
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 02:49 AM
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So you have also rejected women but you don’t think men can have the selector role at times? That’s proof that you were a selector at that time Also women don’t sleep around as much as some people think, many times they know most men are bad in bed so they just think that they won’t win anything from a casual encounter, even if the guy is attractive. It varies from woman to woman but most women don’t have an extreme bodycount
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 07:25 PM
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Because the man was responsible for all her debt, the husband had to pay all the debt the wife had
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:42 AM
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Ive personally rejected 15 women directly and slept with 4 and I’m turning 24 in a few months I value long term relationships the most and I don’t want women to view me as a fuckboy, because I really don’t want to date a hoe, And also casual sex with women is a headache that I’d rather avoid, they get attached and angry
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 04:36 PM
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Yes it’s a flawed way of looking at it, a guy who’s truly 10/10 will filter out and reject a lot of women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:06 PM
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Women definitely say it too A man will never reject you because your bodycount is too low, a significant portion of women will
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 01:34 AM
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Can you tell more about this? Never heard about it at all, Clintons connection to it I mean, seems interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 12:21 PM
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Testosterone and other androgens do not make you violent the way people think “Roid rage” is connected to androgens but is caused mainly by other factors such as inflammation in the brain and heavy activation of the sympathetic nervous system as an example, steroids made for cows and horses at extreme levels are different from testosterone at a natural high level In fact, low testosterone is quite connected to lower empathy, and a moody temperament, and the lack of confidence makes you more like…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:56 AM
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That’s so weird lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 01:16 PM
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I Would refer you back to the “avoiding men who look like me” part of my first comment But to answer your question Yea I find many types of women attractive, but I have a preferred type, my type is a shorter thicker brunette/black haired woman. That’s how all my GFs have looked and that’s the porn I like to watch. Sure I can look at a blonde sometimes, but if I was in a relationship with a thick brunette and my porn history was only super skinny blondes and no curvy brunettes at all, I wouldn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 02:16 AM
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It’s a red flag A bad sign That she doesn’t have me as her type, but instead I’m the safe option, and there are other men that she actually finds attractive, and I’m not one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:27 PM
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Yeah good points But Wtf children under 14 can not be home alone? Lmao Never heard about this, it’s ridiculous if it’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:26 PM
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People with too much empathy and agreeableness sometimes get exploited, until they figure out how people can be, and then they might switch in the other direction and become exceedingly pessimistic about human morality They started of believing that people are angles, and now they are extreme in the other direction It’s typical of guys who grew up believing that women are angels, once that illusion shatters they sometimes become extreme in the other direction, and become a part of the more toxic…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:08 PM
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Women have more temperamental empathy and agreeableness, generally. But that’s a very fragile thing to rely on, people are very empathetic to the squirrel but hate rats (disgust sensitivity, activation of disgust lowers empathy). The mother bear is very empathetic to her cubs, but if she perceives you as a threat to those cubs she’s ruthless
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 06:44 PM
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Yeah, 10 over 8 years is not at all the same as 10 in two months
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:49 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:31 PM
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You accidentally asked the Dothraki from game of thrones lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 12:11 AM
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They have that for other biological reasons It does not mean that they want to be raped in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 12:11 AM
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I would only be with a woman who understands that she wants to get with a man who has the ideal parts from both, a masculine attractive man who’s also trustworthy and loyal long term I don’t think you captured the two types really well, but to answer you question, I would rather be the highly masculine guy that she doesn’t fully trust, and has a more difficult relationship with, than the non masculine guy that she’s sees as too weak to get with any other woman and views as a safe option
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 12:10 AM
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N count per year would be a better measurement
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 11:30 PM
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I don’t mind as long as it doesn’t impact our sex life or long term commitment negatively I would think of it as a red flag if she was consistently watching men that were wildly different looking from me, and avoiding men that look like me, when she was watching porn
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 11:29 PM
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My point: It’s not unreasonable to have porn as a dealbreaker, but if you try to find a guy who never watches porn you’ll almost never find them, it’s unlikely If you find a guy who watches it moderately and communicate that it hurts you and the relationship when he watches it, and maybe send him some material of yourself or see him often, it’s not unlikely at all that you can find a boyfriend that works with you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:51 PM
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That’s what I said, you explain to them why they should change and they change themselves. You can’t change them but you can make them realize why they should change
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:48 PM
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When you have already communicated and tried to fix the problem? Then I definitely agree with leaving
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:44 PM
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Oh yeah as long as you’ve communicated what you are thinking, I think what you said is good advice
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:42 PM
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You can make them understand why they should change, and they willingly change themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:41 PM
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I never said they had to be perfect, just good enough for you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:39 PM
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Yes put simple I was imagining being with her, not something else, I wouldn’t consider it to be controlling if she asked me to stop but it would present some problems I definitely understand why women have a general problem with porn though, some guys are in the bathroom watching porn while their pretty gf is in their house waiting to be satisfied, and their brains are so fried by extreme porn that the can’t even satisfy her, that’s so alien to me, very different from what I’ve done or would do
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:37 PM
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People never try to make something work anymore, that’s what I meant, they just run from commitment Relationships and people have ups and downs, and no one is perfect You should at least try to communicate before you leave the person I agree with you in the sense that if the person is not listening or fixing, and what your asking for is very very important to you, then you should leave and find someone new
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:18 PM
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Which rule? Are you agreeing with me or disagreeing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:06 PM
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You definitely have a point But for a sizable portion of men, imagination is just a bit “cloudy” and somewhat unsatisfactory, also for me my adhd makes random things pop up in my head lmao, I think that’s a big part of why porn appealed to men so much and not as much to women It’s like porn isn’t “necessary”, but just an easy way to get your sexuality out of the way so that you can think about other things A lot of men, especially masculine men want to get off so that they aren’t so goddamn dist…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 04:04 PM
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I’m sorry I might have miss understood your comment but There is a difference between a problem that can be fixed and a deal breaker
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:50 PM
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Because if you are looking for someone who is perfect before your meet them you’ll be looking forever Edit: I never meant that you should change your partner until they’re “perfect”, just that you should communicate so that they understand what you want and can willingly change themselves until they are good enough for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:46 PM
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Like 99% of men, and many women, watch porn Maybe he could stop, but he just doesn’t know that it hurts you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:31 PM
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The whole “just leave and find someone else who will” Is one of the reasons why dating is so fucked in the modern age Most of the time you see a problem with your partner or relationship you should communicate it so that you can repair. Your partner may just not understand how important it is to you or how much it hurts you It’s not good to leave those things unsaid and letting them grow
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:28 PM
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I don’t disagree with you but I just want to add this If your girlfriend is away, and you can’t see her, and you need to satisfy your own needs, it sometimes doesn’t work well to not have something visual, imagination isn’t that great, so you might watch porn of women that look like your girlfriend, so that you don’t have to ask her for nudes so that you get a strange power over her
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 03:24 PM
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I agree with a lot of what you said but The problem is you expect some guy to be a woman’s court jester so that she doesn’t euthanize yourself There’s a limit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 11:57 AM
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This is so wild lmao That some people don’t even do this, I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:21 PM
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5x30 5 min/day
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:52 PM
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Yeah great perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:44 PM
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I agree with the dating app method that you mentioned But what is an example a way that a man could clearly communicate, with social skill, that he’s only looking for casual things My idea would be to mention during the first date that “you’re not really looking for relationships right now, just casual things” But even that has its problems
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:20 PM
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I agree that honesty is good but If men says it that bluntly honest, a lot of women will reject them, even if those women were open to having hookups with them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:12 PM
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”Submissive male”, hard left wing and “make women hairy again” Jesus Excellent work showing the correlation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:01 AM
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Yeah you hit the spot on ptsd I don’t have all the symptoms of ptsd, I don’t have nightmares and stuff like that, but I am very hyper vigilant and can’t get away from it It’s not exactly only negative, I can handle negative dangerous situations well, but only because I’ve seen things go wrong 1000 different ways at all times, It has its advantages but gets very exhausting One thing I want women to understand is that many men actually like protecting their girl and see it as their responsibility …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 12:07 AM
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Yes I disagree with some of the things you said but it’s an interesting perspective I think when you don’t have a state that handles the violence, people get more animalistic and deliver their own justice In bad neighborhoods people will look at you like you’re dinner if you don’t stand up for yourself and prove yourself, so violence becomes natural, you have to, I believe this might be a mix of toxic culture but also a part of the natural human state, the more you allow people to be free and le…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:53 PM
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Everyone misses male issues like getting shot, robbed, humiliated, growing up around criminality, having to break the law to keep your dignity and yourself and those you care about safe, having to carry weapons to school as young man because you know that in your school there are bullies just like in any other area but here they have weapons and do criminal acts and the police or school won’t help you when you’re walking home from school, bad job opportunities, etc This is how you turn a good ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:30 PM
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lol then But what about other women? Do they see it as a chore or do they actually enjoy it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:08 PM
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I gotta question, Why don’t more women use tretenoin instead of foundation, for flawless natural skin, And hair dye (like “just for men) for darker eyebrows (like 0,01 dollars per application), and creams for eyelash growth, isn’t it exhausting to apply a lot of makeup every day? Or do you enjoy it? Like women are savvy with this stuff, how come they don’t do it? I’d like to think I would do the method I described if I was a woman (I already do minoxidil for beard and eyebrows and tretenoin for …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:03 PM
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I think men prefer as an ideal: highly attractive natural looking women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:39 PM
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You gotta give a real life example of something a guy has said or done
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:28 PM
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I meant “ordered from the court” “court supplied”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:23 PM
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This is speculation, I don’t know about the law in USA: I don’t know anything about this but the court ordered test might be one where you include the woman. And the self test can be one where you don’t need the woman’s dna. Both work but the court ordered one would need the woman’s consent and if she is denying you you’re stuck in this case, even if you have clear proof from the dna test you did yourself, the court won’t accept that test Nonetheless even if that’s not right he might be thinking…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:54 AM
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I think it should be its own crime in its own category, and have an actual fair punishment
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 10:50 AM
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Low iq woman We are so tired of women that are all over the place and stress us out, mood swings are okay, she is a woman after all, but genuinely annoying and stress inducing behavior that she chooses to do for some stupid reason is not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:16 PM
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Oh you mean like it was only rumors and gossip? That’s an important perspective that people shouldn’t forget, people can make up lies to drag a woman down But in this case it was proven by sexual messages that she sent to members of my “friend” group in the last year of high school (that were shown in person to me), I myself didn’t participate which I am proud of
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:49 PM
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Yea and don’t think I’ll only judge her, the guys who participated need some type of serious mental help as well, I as a man would never do that, or contribute to that, beyond strange
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:44 PM
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Well I’ve seen it happen irl with girls that look and act very innocent, but exactly like you said it’s not that common and is exaggerated by different movements like TRP, black pill and incels. But that doesn’t mean it’s propaganda, exaggerated I would say it’s the better word
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:42 PM
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Well no one used the word “body count” but a large portion people especially men, have always cared Usually men who try to act super progressive and say they never judge a girl for her bodycount (no matter what it is) when looking for a girlfriend, are really just trying to talk their way into casual sex, or they don’t want to upset women that are possible casual sex partners, even women tend to care quite a bit about bodycount I will agree that some guys are too judgmental if you’re just going …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:19 PM
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But did she say that? The only reason I heard her give is that she had a camera stuck in her face at that “emotional” moment
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:44 PM
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Yeah good point, I think most people will avoid partners who don’t share their sexual values, so you’re right about that But in some cases they have convinced themselves that they “want to settle down now” and that “it doesn’t matter” so they hide it Maybe they think they “regret” it and that it was wrong, but if you break up with them they’re gonna be with 5 people within the first month single Keep in mind I’m talking about people who love to sleep around and go from partner to partner new one…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:43 PM
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Any evidence at all for that? She clearly looked upset
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:08 PM
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Well it may be overstated how much it happens, it may happen way less than people think, but that doesn’t mean it’s only propaganda And not remembering people you have had sex with is wild to me. I don’t remember their exact faces but I’d highly likely recognize them, and I’d definitely know their name
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:07 PM
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Well typical is the wrong word “Clear example” is better
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:18 PM
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The typical example of this is lily phillips, who convinces herself that she enjoys what she’s doing but couldn’t hide her tears from the camera
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:03 PM
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Another problem is that people hide their current/past promiscuity when dating for monogamy, then when the person finds out you that they’ve been lied to it’s bad
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:02 PM
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Yea this is a problem that I don’t like, younger women really don’t have an option for a more covering swimsuit as an example, because some will find it weird and especially some other women will think and gossip about shit like “it’s because she has a bad body and needs to hide it” But I think the fashion designers have noticed that a large portion of women tend to buy more revealing bikinis in modern times and have adjusted to that, I mean look at all these women on TikTok dancing in their sma…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 02:37 PM
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It’s getting more mainstream but that isn’t a good thing, it’s like when toxic modern feminism went mainstream in my generation The purple pill going mainstream would be good though, since it’s a discussion (not “the truth”) and the purple pill is close to the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:28 PM
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Yes true But she could have a job that she plans to ditch when she meets her provider husband “I’ve been fired within a month from every job” can be a red flag I mean lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 12:52 PM
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I thought you were only being ironic and belittling because of the whole “counting pennies” comment? Like expecting the woman to do a kind investing action is counting pennies? I meant that it’s not wrong, but women might expect more than 5 coffee dates in a row? But yea I agree a simple cheap date like that is great to vet and get to know someone, many men get pissed because they spend way too much on a first date
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:38 AM
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Read the last part of my first comment
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:07 PM
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What do you mean, can you elaborate pls
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:24 PM
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Men are not biologically sexually attracted by a woman’s competence But women are attracted to a man’s competence in that way (resources are an indication of competence) However it can be a green flag for a relationship if a woman can be smart in an occupation, maybe she can manage her relationship with you better So when man say they don’t care they just mean that they don’t care like women do
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:27 PM
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The whole point was that unjust domestic labor distribution is one factor and that there are many others And that story is somewhat common here in Scandinavia where I live, since going 50/50 is pretty much the norm And if people divert from that norm it usually because the man is paying more/all of the bills and stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 02:32 AM
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No I meant that they had been going 50/50 with house labor for the entire relationship and now he does more than her
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 02:26 AM
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What no I meant: women don’t say “fuckboy” and similar words OUT LOUD that much but they THINK and FEEL them, and vet guys accordingly, which is similar to what a large portion of women commonly do with all their preferences, that’s why men are generally so oblivious to what women actually like and dislike about them Women tend to hide their truth to be “nice” in the short term, but that will end up hurting people in the long term. Men tend to spew their truth recklessly and loud and that can hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 02:24 AM
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No I meant that they do extra, so they start doing more than her They’re just desperately trying to get the wife to like them and they don’t know what women like so they just do a bunch of extra work for the wife to impress them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:52 AM
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This sub, especially the more extreme parts aren’t representative of the real western world And I don’t think most men are against women going after sexual attraction, I just believe men can get emotional and overreact since they have been lied to and told “women don’t care about your appearance” their entire life, when that illusion shatters some guys overreact
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:52 AM
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Many times men will hear this perspective and they’ll do a bunch of extra house labor in order to seduce their wife, when they are in a dead bedroom household, and it won’t work because there are more factors to this problem than unjust house labor division I’m not denying that it’s not great at all for the woman to have to do unjust amounts of house labor, and that it’s a real problem and a real factor, it’s just not the only factor, and jumping to the conclusion shows strong bias
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:46 AM
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I was talking about average people in the western world I thought that was obvious since were talking about lesbian divorce and stuff But yes women are judged more harshly for their promiscuity I won’t deny that Men not having a lot of insults besides “fuckboy” when they are promiscuous heavily comes from the fact that women rarely state their preferences for men, or reveal how they judge men. They think it but they don’t say it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:40 AM
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Normal people don’t shame women that much or high five men who are promiscuous, women also care quite a bit about bodycount although they aren’t as judgmental Only men who can’t get sex adore other men who are promiscuous, women who want relationships definitely don’t like it Most of the time normal people just prefer man and women to have a reasonable not too high bodycount for their age, not much more than 1 new per year over their mature lifetime, online it’s very different, you only see extr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:27 AM
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No that’s a factor too I just mean that in my view negative emotion plays the biggest role
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:14 AM
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You think women are way more faithful than they are, they cheat as much as men The real biggest factor as to why lesbian relationships statistically fail more often is that women have more trait neuroticism, negative emotion, so they get dissatisfied, negative, bored easier and also fight more, when you have a relationship with two women this tends to get very excessive, since both tend to find problems with their relationship easier, unfortunately also tend to have great intimacy at first but l…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:12 AM
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Bingo! In reality it’s trait neuroticism, negative emotion And also the house labor like she mentioned and a whole slew of other factors But the whole “it’s because men aren’t helping” thing is an oversimplification, it’s true in some cases
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:02 AM
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Oversimplification It’s like saying, men only cheat because their wife isn’t having sex with them
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:01 AM
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5 dinner dates isn’t pennies for young adults But It’s not about the amount of money, it’s about not giving back, imagine that you have a friend that has paid for both your and their stuff at the same time in convenience stores, 4 separate times, and you have never offered to pay, do you understand how weird that looks? It’s not big numbers, but you look like penny pincher here. It’s not about the amount of money, it’s the respect, and image you put forward, to make someone feel competent and co…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 11:26 PM
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Yeah it’s just a stupid argument You can make the same argument for nazis lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:59 PM
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The simmilarity is both are immoral regardless if they’re legal or not Let’s change it to making my wife do all the house labor without giving her anything back, she keeps doing it because she’s getting older and feels like no one wants her, so I don’t want to give up my advantage so I keep doing it Is that something that should continue? Is it not something that should be discouraged and changed because it can be changed?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:21 PM
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Not no reason, the reason is to be a good, fair and moral person I as a big man could dominate her and take her resources, but I will NEVER because it’s not moral and fair
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:13 PM
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Yea it’s great when men force their wife to do all the house labor and give them nothing back!! Because they can, when the woman gets older and is more desperate! That’s why you shouldn’t expect anyone to do better! It should continue! So that they can gain a mediocre advantage in the short term
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:11 PM
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The problem was never that women wanted men to pay on dates The problem arises when they don’t give anything back and men are exploited. I’m not talking about sex or intimacy, because you’re not supposed to pay for those things when dating for a relationship. How about you as a woman suggest a place and pay for the next date? How about you buy him a t shirt or something? Or a sweatshirt? Or maybe help him some other way that is of similar value? Anything really. Just show that you’re investing i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:06 PM
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Let’s listen to what the robots have to say, this is chatGPTs summary “Your perspective is more accurate because it considers the complexity of women’s experiences, both historically and in modern times. Historically, many women didn’t want to work due to harsh labor conditions, particularly among middle- and upper-class women who valued staying at home as a sign of status. Even today, while many women want to work, factors like caregiving responsibilities, societal expectations, and biological …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:24 PM
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Oh yeah I’m sorry if it sounded like a implied you did
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:12 PM
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That’s an important perspective Yes especially in todays conditions, mostly not in the conditions of the early and mid 1900s But in todays time plenty of women want to work, but even now it’s common for a woman to work less than men, and the man pays more bills, and the woman does more house labor. A possible factor in my view is that women have periods, cramps and pms which make it hell to go to a public workplace and being forced to look happy and interact with people
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:45 PM
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You didn’t disprove my points really, like my point wasn’t that lower class women and women throughout history never had to work, my point was that a lot of women wanted to be stay at home wives, many times it wasn’t men forcing them, do you disagree that a lot of women didn’t agree with the suffragettes? I can make a comment about 1000 things that were worse for men and make it look like men were the ones in the worst position, But the truth is that most men and women were oppressed and women w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:39 PM
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I have not seen any reliable stats that show women cheat more often, it seems that they cheat about as much as men, it’s a hard thing to study though But you are 100% right about women initiating divorce way more often
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:31 PM
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A lot of men don’t cheat because they are not attractive enough to have women throw themselves at them, if he became a famous artist or actor, sometimes he would switch up himself and just get greedy and go after numbers of women, just like how a sizable portion of modern women get delusional and greedy and bored because they can have hundreds of men tossing themselves at them if they download a dating app etc Being faithful just because you have the best sexual partner you can get or because yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:23 PM
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I agree with you point about misandry being a counter reaction to misandry many times, and that misogyny has been prevalent in history of course misogyny existed through history and does exist, but I wasn’t the main reason for men and women’s doing different things and having different lives, it wasn’t the case that most men were evil misogynists that wanted to enslave women and feminists freed them For the most part, men and women loved each other and cooperated, a lot of women wanted to be sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:10 PM
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Men with the Freshandfit ideology don’t understand they’re making themselves MORE likely to be cucked, not less lmao One Reason I don’t like them is that they don’t understand that when women hear “men are supposed to have multiple partners and cheat, women are not” they think women will go “oh yea I’ll allow my man to cheat and I’ll be a trad wife” in reality a big portion of the women will think that they might as well cheat themselves, since men cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 12:46 PM
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I can guarantee that not all masculine men have this strong compulsion to cheat In the male brain, bonding with vasopressin will make you feel a strong sense of duty towards your partner, if you know that cheating will hurt her, he will feel a strong duty to not cheat But both men and women have instincts to cheat and instincts to stay faithful, so which will win depend on the situation, there are definitely women and men that want to stay faithful to the partner
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 12:37 PM
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Funny thing is, both men and women have developed instincts to cheat and to stay faithful long term In a masculinized brain, vasopressin will make you feel a strong sense of duty towards a partner, and it will make you want to protect her, so if men know cheating will hurt their girlfriend, they will have a strong sense against cheating Ina feminized brain, she will experience more negative emotion and this can lead to boredom long term, but the massively increased bonding and deeper emotional s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 12:33 PM
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The whole “men want to spread their seed” is not true “Women want to monkey branch until they get to the highest status most attractive man” is not true They’re only partly true, because of human social evolution, both men and women have instincts to stay faithful, and instincts to cheat Some have a stronger instinct to stay faithful than others But one thing that makes men very faithful to a woman they feel they can trust is, vasopressin, it will make you feel a strong duty towards your partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 12:22 PM
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Fat distribution, where it is on the body is irrelevant? Wtf It plays a huge difference for long term health, and feminizing hormones will make it way more likely to be placed as gynoid fat on the hips and buttocks A 30% body fat women will look curvy, not obese I mentioned biological attraction because humans are generally attracted to health and fertility. That’s why anorexic and obese people aren’t attractive to the general population. So almost all cultures finding both curvy and skinny wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:19 PM
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Agree to disagree then I agree that Bebe Rexha is overweight now, but before she was healthy curvy and attractive to many men, not some type of fetish, agree to disagree on that one too I talked about metabolism because a healthy level of body fat in women is a negative risk factor for diabetes, When blood sugar enters the bloodstream it will be used up rather quickly by women with higher metabolisms, but women with slower metabolisms can benefit from some body fat as the body converts the blood…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:40 PM
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You’re visualizing 30% body fat women to be way more fat then they actually are, many attractive celebs fall within this range like how Bebe Rexha looked a few years ago, now she has passed the healthy limit and is a bit overweight, but before she was very attractive It depends massively if it’s visceral or subcutaneous fat, the woman’s fat distribution, endocrine system, metabolism and way many more factors, some women are definitely not healthy at 30%, others are healthy at 30%, that’s why it’…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:05 PM
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Other recommendations are more liberal, and it can never be the same for each woman, since women with some metabolisms will be healthier more curvy and women with other metabolism will be healthier thinner. It will also depend on how she stores the fat, is it in a feminine distribution with more fat around the legs and butt, or is it all around the organs? It’s way different. Around the legs is way healthier
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:44 PM
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It depends on where the fat is stored, if it’s in a feminine distribution around the legs and butt that’s way different than excess fat around organs, a 30% body fat healthy woman would just look curvy, female body fat works differently with the rest of the body and endocrine system But a woman who stores all her fat in the waist, around organs would not be healthy at 32% body fat, no 18-32% is a pretty standard recommendation in medicine But it depends on a whole slew of factors, a woman with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:37 PM
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Yes normal men and women do not find obesity attractive, so there your point stands But about the “obsession” that I have over men and women being different and having different preferences: What if you woke up one day and your male partner had grown wide, fertile hips? And he could revert back to masculine hips if you asked If men and women are the same We as men like them, so you’re not allowed to not like them as a woman because you have to be exactly the same as a man!! 🫵🚫
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:23 PM
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No I meant the “hard work” is different from men and women So what you said applies if they are both obese, becuase normal people do not find obesity attractive But I want to a be low body fat, muscular healthy man myself. But I want my girl to be a Curvy thicker healthy woman. So her loosing weight would be counter productive in this case. If she was obese it would be good for her to loose weight though so in that case what you said applies
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:07 PM
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It’s worth noting that men and women are not the same biologically. Women can be healthy at 18-32% body fat, and men can be healthy at 10-18% body fat. That’s why about a 1/3 of men like skinny thin women, and about 1/3 of men want thicker curvy women (me). So I would 100% okay with loosing weight to get abs etc if I ever got overweight, even when my woman is at a curvy feminine body fat level. Because we are different. I personally would be less physically attracted to her if she had very visib…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:09 PM
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It socially looks like she’s telling you, “do something sexual with me” if she literally enters your home and takes her clothes off, I’m not saying it means that’s what she wants exactly, but if you do that it’s so common that you’re trying to give non verbal concent for something sexual, that it can easily be missunderstood If you start kissing and doing secondary sexual things and she’s moaning and it looks like she’s enjoying it then logically the next step is some type of sex, the man gives …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:05 PM
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He meant game, as in pick up art game, I’m pretty sure Gaming skills would be funny asf though, like yeah you’re a Chad but you suck at Fortnite so it’s a no
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:45 AM
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If she’s a cheater I’d say you have to worry about both And I disagree, I think the actor will be more attractive to her That’s my worldview at least
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 11:36 AM
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They’re attracted to Competence, not social status Social status and money is a marker of competence, but they’re not the same, this is why women can be attracted to a guy with potential and ambition An idiotic guy who wins the lottery or inherits a lot of wealth is not going to be more sexually attractive to women, but a man who rises towards the top because of his own competence is going to be more sexually attractive to women That’s what JBP says women are attracted to, besides looks, and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 11:34 AM
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I think it’s disrespectful, if your wife satisfies you sexually, is a great person, and is faithfull Then I think it’s disrespectful for you as a man to not satisfy her back and give her great sexual pleasure And it goes both ways of course, women should do the same and satisfy their men I understand 100% if a man doesn’t feel motivated to sexually satisfy his wife is she’s not satisfying him, that’s not what I’m talking about I think it’s like a “scam” when you fool a great partner into getting…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 02:15 AM
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Wtf read what I said again Downplaying something in your head, is not the same as blaming the victim If a person only views something as cultural, they tend to downplay it in importance, if a person views something as having biological roots they tend to take it more seriously By its nature something would be more serious if it was biologically sexual + culturally sexual. Compared to if it was just culturally sexual
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 08:07 PM
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I really dislike men who don’t satisfy their wife’s sexually And I really dislike women who create a dead bedroom or have shitty sex with their partner, that isn’t satisfying Of course there can be problems like your partners hygiene, attractiveness and sexual performance, as well as big distractions in life. But if these problems don’t exist, why would you not take great pride in satisfying your partner, and do it? I’ll never get it And even if these problems exist, you have to solve them, peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:57 PM
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Yea, but should it be sexual assault or just assault, that was my question My view is that the “culture says it’s sexual so it’s sexual” is not a strong legal and societal defense that can protect women from sexual crimes, and it might make people take them less seriously My worldview would be that the woman would be more hurt by touching the breasts than if someone convinced her that hands or something were sexual, in my view there is a big biological sexual component to breasts that people sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:35 PM
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Just to be clear, I think a man showing his V really far down is biologically sexual as well, its not all about women Just because you are allowed to show breasts without backlash or judgement, does not mean that they are not biologically sexual On one of those beaches/areas/countries where it’s ok to be topless, do you think it should be a sexual crime for a man to touch a woman on the breast, or just regular assault?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:23 PM
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I never said it’s always wrong and a big deal for a woman to be topless, I just said that “free the nipple”(=male nipples and female nipples are exactly the same and are not sexual), makes no sense Men have been selecting women partly based on breast shape as a sign of sexual dimorphism for ages, the sexual reaction is ingrained deeply biologically, that’s why I think it’s a sex crime if a man touches a woman’s breast without concent, because it’s biologically different from touching someone on …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:13 PM
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You can do something not sexual with a sexual organ Peeing is not sexual Breastfeeding is not sexual But it is sexual assault for a man to walk up to a girl and touch her on the breast without concent, or do you deny that? Or maybe you would say it’s still sexual assault because you think it’s culturally sexual? I just think that’s a weak argument, it minimizes victims in my view Breasts are in my view biologically different from a shoulder let’s say, in terms of how sexual they are I’m from eu …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:01 PM
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Free the nipple will never make sense because women’s breasts are biologically sexual But that doesn’t mean I want it to be a crime for them to show them though, that could make women scared to breastfeed in public etc
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:33 PM
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Miss
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 01:44 PM
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Buy my droppshipping course because I’m a millionaire
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:50 PM
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You need the advanced course Click the link to buy bro let’s lock in, the course is 3999,99$
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:45 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:23 PM
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No, by “male competence” I meant a man that is competent in every part of life, including things that don’t benefit the woman And it does make sense that even women with high level of intelligence want to be led because they have different preferences psychologically
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:10 PM
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Look into women’s sexual attraction to male competence It increases vaginal blood flow potently for the vast majority of women, it’s not really a deniable piece of evidence It’s partly, but not really the resources that women are attracted to, it’s the competence that it took to acquire the resources and keep them A skilled doctor who is very competent and helps a lot of people is way more sexually attractive to women than an idiot who won the lottery Being a competent man who has his life in or…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:09 PM
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Women who have genuine romantic interest in you want you to lead as a man, so that they can investigate how competent you are, so that their brain can determine how attracted they are supposed to be to you Of course they don’t think this consciously, but their subconscious brain thinks this, and that’s why it feels good for them to follow you when you plan things Learn to tell the difference between this that I just described, and gold diggers who use this culture to exploit you, sometimes it ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:42 AM
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I think you are 100% justified to That’s interesting to hear, what made you save yourself until marriage, is it only a religious thing, or are there other reasons besides religion? I personally do not like hookup culture and hedonistic casual sex, but I have been FwB with in total 2 girls, 3 failed relationships/dating, but less than 1 sexual partner per year since I became active. But what I dislike about some parts of modern culture is heavily that some people think it’s a goal to constantly g…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 07:12 PM
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It’s highly interesting that irl women also care about a man’s sexual past quite a bit I don’t think it’s hypocrisy for a person to want something from the other gender and not be that thing themselves. A woman wanting a good fighter boyfriend when she can’t fight herself, a man wanting a low bodycount women when he doesn’t have a low bodycount, etc. HOWEVER some men are delusional about what women want, most low bodycount women might not care about it exactly as much as men, but they definitely…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:21 PM
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Yeah I agree that women might not sleep around as much as red pill type content and confirmation bias makes men believe A lot of women know that many men are garbage at sex and see no point in sleeping with a bunch of men that are going to give them nothing I feel negatively towards the culture that led lily to do this though, it’s clearly not not very beneficial for her, judging by the crying afterwards, todays culture has convinced women that sleeping around is harmless and great and fun. In r…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:56 PM
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Interesting I’d really unironically love to see the equivalent list for women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:02 AM
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Don’t forget faithful, if it’s not to obvious I would argue that most respectable men, if they found a woman that they like and trust this much, they would have plenty of vasopressin mediated bonding, and are likely to provide for her so that she doesn’t have to work if she is doing all the house chores, I’m not so sure they would like to exploit her, unless she is some type of unicorn that loves to do chores, then my point is invalid Also brunettes and black haired women are easily my favorite,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:11 PM
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I disagree with this. Both men and women can be loyal, and both men and women cheat (hunt) at similar rates For woman it’s monkey branching to better mates when they are dissatisfied and bored or greedy and for men it’s polyamory and numbers when they are dissatisfied and bored or greedy. I think the whole thing about women being naturally more faithful is wrong, they just have stronger instinct to bond with one mate Both men and women have strong instincts to stay faithful to their partner and …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:22 PM
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that’s refreshing to hear, there’s too much doom posting on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:01 PM
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That’s just not something that people doubt, barely anyone ever says attachment theory doesn’t matter I don’t have anyone to argue with on that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 11:41 PM
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You said I would be single if I had this view, or did I misunderstand you? “Keep finding a reason to stay single” I don’t mind if a woman has a couple failed relationships and some hookups, but I don’t want a woman with 30-40 bodies that gets gangbanged that’s all, I don’t think that’s too unreasonable My bc is 6 and I’m 23 I wouldn’t be put off if a women the same age as me had a bc of 7
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:49 PM
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That’s not true scientifically Many women agree with me Not everyone wants to sleep around like crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:39 PM
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There are things I judge men more for As an example I judge two men who have sex with one woman at the same time way more than I judge two women who have sex with one man Do you think a woman is allowed to want a man who can defend her, but she won’t be good at defending him? Men and women are different I will 100% say though that some men like freshandfit take this way to far, like expecting a woman to be super low bodycount, meanwhile they themselves have a super high bodycount from escorts an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:34 PM
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They don’t have to be virgins at all lol Just that you make risk assessment based on how many they’ve been with, even a woman who’s been with 7 is for me not that bad at 23 years old, I’ve been with 6 and I’m a modest guy that doesn’t like to sleep around But there is a huge difference between that and 80 I actually enjoy the faithfulness of a relationship, i don’t view it as “settling down” I view it as achieving my main goal when it comes to my relation to the other gender
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:56 PM
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No I’d be worried about both, because both matter I’m not a super judgmental guy btw but I have a limit Not all people raised in a bad household will be unable to have good long term relationships Not all people with high body counts will be unable to have good long term relationships But the 🚩 exists for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:16 PM
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That’s fine but to a lot of people, looking at the evidence you would be at a higher risk, it’s just a risk assessment
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 06:02 PM
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All the science disagrees with that, that’s so dishonest, I even think it’s very true for men, although not as powerfully Why is it not “insecure” for my girlfriend to want monogamy on my end? Why should I not be able to sleep with many other women while in my relationship? Is she “insecure” that I like them more than her? Why is she so judgemental? Or maybe shes 100% justified to judge because just wants to follow the evidence and science on what builds a successful relationship Rules exist for…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:58 PM
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It’s not an insecurity, it’s risk assessment, and picking a girl who bonds well and actually likes relationships more than sleeping around The hottest, richest, most handsome and smart guy in the world would do it. Because he wants a successful relationship, not a woman who thinks she wants a relationship because everyone else is doing it, but then after 7 years she’s “bored” I will say that some men are too judgmental though, and that some of the men that judge too harshly are insecure, but it’…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:49 PM
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Would you care if your husband slept with 1000 women prior to you? Would you not see it as a negative sign that he’s just settling down when in reality she doesn’t bond well and enjoys sleeping around more than a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:48 PM
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It’s not an insecurity, it’s risk assessment, and picking a girl who bonds well and actually likes relationships more than sleeping around The hottest, richest, most handsome and smart guy in the world would do it. Because he wants a successful relationship, not a woman who thinks she wants a relationship because everyone else is doing it, but then after 7 years she’s “bored” I will say that some men are too judgmental though And I’ll also say that a woman should judge a man in this way as well,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:44 PM
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Lool 100% It has so hilarious when fresh and fit mentioned that they don’t care about satisfying women in bed, and that it’s only for the man’s pleasure and making the woman pregnant Yeah I can see why their women are unhappy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:18 PM
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100% It’s shitty if the woman’s idea of “happy wife happy life” is you buying her a bunch of things when she isn’t giving anything back, or she’ll freak out And it’s shitty when a man’s idea of “be my peace” is that she’s supposed to ignore all his negative behaviors and not say anything
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:15 PM
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There is a difference between communicating that something is wrong and being overall shitty The first one is great for the relationship and it’s peaceful The second one is finding stuff to be mad about and starting an argument for no reason, not appreciating what he does for you, making him doubt you, making his day worse by just being shitty towards him when he comes home after a long working day Even moods swings are completely fine imo, in a sense it’s a part of a normal woman(not all). Ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:13 PM
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