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| 1 | The stigma around financially-providing relationshipsYeah it was really rough. But he framed it like” oh baby don’t worry about work and stress, I’ll take care of the bills and you take care of me and the house”. And that was her dream, she thought she found the one. So again I guess this lifestyle is glamorized online- but not the risks. I would never get into it UNLESS like you I had a strong financial background. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 06:03 PM |
| 1 | The stigma around financially-providing relationshipsRight- again you come from a place of financial privilege. I’ve see a friend who was in an arrangement like this for years and when she was dumped she was left with nothing. She hadn’t worked on her career (her BF told her she didn’t need to work, that her job was looking after him), had no credit, the cars were in his name etc. she had to start over again like an 18 year old at the age of 32. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 05:48 PM |
| 6 | The stigma around financially-providing relationshipsOk so you are an exception in the sense that you come from a comfortable background and are not financially dependent on your partner if you break up. But promoting this can be dangerous because 1. You are just a girlfriend and have no legal protection to assets or joint accounts. 2. The provider can become abusive financially because there is a power dynamic (not in your case- most important) There are plenty of women who are stay at home wives or moms who don’t face this stigma. But I don’t th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 02:12 PM |
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