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I think cold approaching isn’t inherently problematic, but RP tends to approach everything from a problematic angle with little regard for the other person. I would suggest honestly asking yourself, is it just a dopamine hit akin to addiction? Are they just an objective, or goal that fuels your self esteem? or are you actually seeing the person? If you’re still in the mentality where you treat them like a number or object then it can be problematic to continue. Are you able to maintain this appr…
/r/ExRedPill31/03/26 10:13 AM
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Ah yes, because of oxytocin, the hormone responsible for love and bonding. Do you believe that love is a finite resource?
/r/ExRedPill16/04/25 07:06 AM
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"Be respectful and nice" "listen and build connection". Yeah sure. As if all these lonely people out there have never tried that. This is a foundation, not what will get you the objective, or relationship. It is a basic standard. There are people who behave in this manner with all of their interactions in life because it’s who they are. Most interactions do not lead to a relationship, and whether or not they do, or have the potential to, will not change who this person is and the integrity they …
/r/ExRedPill11/04/25 08:10 PM
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In my opinion the most genuine relationship is the one where the other person doesn’t need you but chooses you every day.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/25 12:18 AM
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Are you really surprised tho? Most of the “data” presented seems to follow this pattern.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/25 05:01 AM
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Was this study based on first impressions of pictures shown to women on dating apps? I think this kind of data doesn’t do justice to the fact that women’s attraction takes time to build and is heavily psychological while men’s can often be indiscriminatory, instantaneous and heavily visual. I think these graphs are presenting the way they do because you are taking a male driven model of attraction and applying female data to it. I believe the data would look very different in a study where the s…
/r/ExRedPill21/01/25 03:13 AM
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It’s going to look very different for everyone. The three items I mentioned have the commonality that they are based on the experience of the other person. Flirting can be a way to build tension or anticipation between you and the other person. It can look like making banal everyday interactions suggestive in sophisticatedly subtle ways. It can look like banter or light teasing. It’s also going to look different depending on your goals for the interaction and the receptivity of the other person/…
/r/ExRedPill19/01/25 12:53 PM
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There is nothing wrong with approaching this way if you genuinely would like having them as friends regardless of the outcome- whether or not something more comes of it. It is however unethical to approach this way if that is not the case, and this is where you would have to be honest with yourself. If you have no desire for friendship and see it as a “consolation prize” then I would suggest learn to develop your flirting skills/intrigue/charm instead so you can make an impression while leading …
/r/ExRedPill19/01/25 12:34 AM
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If someone was not upfront about their intentions, and approached someone as a “friend” (possibly with the intention of transitioning to a different type of relationship) then they can’t be upset at receiving exactly what they presented as- friendship. If the idea of friendship with the opposite gender is of zero interest/value to someone, that receiving it instead of a romantic/sexual relationship would be upsetting, then they need to be upfront about their intentions, instead of wasting all in…
/r/ExRedPill19/01/25 12:09 AM
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You keep asking this question but it seems like the only response you are willing to take into consideration is the conclusion you have already come to. Why then the compulsion to keep asking? What you are addressing is a very much studied psychological phenomenon— and a human phenomenon, not just one that affects women— it is referred to as repetition compulsion. What this means is that we as humans repeat the unresolved patterns of our childhood, and for those who experienced trauma, this mean…
/r/ExRedPill14/01/25 05:04 AM
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You’re still not understanding. But you’re very patronizing, it was a hypothetical question, it didn’t need a response from the original poster, and obviously got a response from others. It doesn’t sound like this discussion is for you, and I would reconsider the way you engage with people, your combativeness is unbecoming and comes off as very petty.
/r/ExRedPill01/01/25 09:14 PM
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Also side note- no one who seeks or relies on external validation is in control, ever. Applies to both RP men and women.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/24 07:17 AM
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Did you just tell me I was wrong then proceed to paraphrase what I wrote as if it was new information?
/r/ExRedPill31/12/24 07:15 AM
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This is an interesting take, that their femininity is fragile and unstable as it’s based on the external validation of men. Wouldn’t you say this is similar to what is happening to RP men, if you were to switch the genders in your statement? It seems a lot of their masculinity is based on their preconceived success or control of women.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/24 08:11 AM
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It’s based on the Jungian school of thought. I wouldn’t say it’s outdated just not as common anymore to hear it discussed. His approach was almost spiritual. Still relevant, especially in this topic, if you think dating as a journey of individuation, it could be argued that you are meant to explore people who are wrong for you so you can understand and appreciate what is right.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/24 08:05 AM
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These are really strange comparisons that I think are detracting from your argument because they are too irrelevant to follow. Let’s try to clean this up. Per your statement: During oral sex the act of giving pleasure to the other party is inherently submissive. The submissive partner gets their pleasure from having their effect on the other person and their ability to create a reaction of pleasure. The person receiving the pleasure is dominant because it’s about their pleasure and that is the g…
/r/ExRedPill10/12/24 11:26 PM
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If the act of giving is submissive and the act of receiving is dominant, how does that fit in with your previous comment saying that the act of men giving sex to a woman is dominant and woman receiving it is submissive?
/r/ExRedPill10/12/24 08:23 PM
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I am trying to understand your analogies but they seem inconsistent to me. In this situation, is the active act of giving a blowjob submissive and the passive act of receiving dominant?
/r/ExRedPill10/12/24 06:27 AM
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Why is it important to you to classify men as better than women? Would your life by changed in any way whatsoever if you were to let go of the need to classify people as lesser than/better than?
/r/ExRedPill09/12/24 06:19 PM
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Disagreeing with someone on Reddit does not make you part of a cult, that is quite a jump and misrepresentation of my original argument. You are not respecting the rules of this community by peddling RP beliefs in your previous post. My question is why? Why is this so important to you that you will break the rules of the sub to attempt to pull OP back to your beliefs? His post did not conclude that men and women are the same, so that really can’t be what is upsetting you is it?
/r/ExRedPill09/12/24 03:57 PM
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It’s funny I was just talking about the “crabs in a bucket metaphor” in another post. It’s interesting how RP operates much like a cult, here you have someone spending time in this forum trying to pull someone who got out back in.
/r/ExRedPill09/12/24 08:35 AM
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Thank you for sharing your thoughts. You seem very perceptive and it shows a lot of growth to have been in that space and gotten out realizing there was more to reality at such a young age. It didn’t seem to me like you were generalizing but rather calling out the hypocrisy you would see by turning the accusations back on the attackers. I have noticed that there seems to be a lot of projection in that space and I often wonder if it’s a form of DARVO/blame shifting. I think as time goes on and yo…
/r/ExRedPill09/12/24 08:31 AM
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Egalitarianism in relationships is important to me and my standard, so I approach dating in that manner from the beginning, as it’s how I want the dynamic in our future relationship to be. In dating, I prefer to split the bill, as it sets up the framework for the future and always removes the unspoken negative connotations/entitlement/expectation: For the person paying- they run the risk of being taken advantage of my someone who is just looking to have experiences paid for without a genuine int…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 03:36 AM
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What we see as a whole is made up of the individual choices of many.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 07:40 PM
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“That’s rightfully ours” I don’t think you really have any place calling women entitled after making a statement like that. It seems like you’re projecting. You believe you have a divine right to force women to date you and to accept a role, behaving in the way you have decided and laid out for them. Women are saying they have a right to not have to date anyone they don’t want to and to not be forced to play a role if it’s not what they want. You say it’s cyclical but real growth comes from remo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:03 AM
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Lead by example, help other men who are struggling with the same path turn a new leaf. You now have a special skill set, your empathy-you were once them, they will not feel so judged and may be more open to be vulnerable with you and listen. Stand up against misogyny to other men in front of other men. This is important, because there may be other men who are uncomfortable with the same misogyny and are afraid to speak up out of fear of being ostracized or belittled. Your bravery here will help …
/r/ExRedPill04/11/24 08:16 AM
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From my observations, people who have more of a balance of traits- both feminine and masculine traits, often tend to seek out other balanced people and are often more independent/self-sufficient and comfortable being alone. Those who are more on the hyper-feminine and hyper masculine side often tend to seek someone with the opposite hyper trait to balance them and may often feel they need that other half to be complete. These individuals will often take on more of a role-based approach and will …
/r/ExRedPill09/10/24 06:27 AM
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Although I disagree with giving behaviors gender characteristics (feminine/masculine), I think this is overall solid advice. Being stoic/non-reactive shows strength of character and using that to your advantage rather than pretending to be someone you are not is the way to go. Also agree that women are not turned off by niceness, I would argue that the women you actually would want as a partner will value kindness in a mate. They can however be turned off by “passive” behavior, such as being a p…
/r/seduction17/07/24 04:15 AM
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