TeensyTea Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	We live in a culture of systemic misandry and the society is going to shit Oh no! Not Iceland! I'd hate to live in a country like Iceland where the quality of life is ranked within the top 10 globally, and consistently ranks in the top 3 on the happiness index (often 1st place). Truly a feminist dystopia...	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 09:58 AM
25	Many women have been socially programmed to be self-centered and narcissistic. i mean it sort of feels like you're avoiding addressing the ambiguity of your own statement. like, what are 'deep' topics?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/26 03:19 PM
9	Men dating younger women may be the only option left. idk, it seems unlikely to me. age-gap relationships are well on the decline — as in, the frequency of age-gap relationships is the lowest it's ever been, but also the gap/difference in age itself is the lowest it's ever been. it just sort of feels like the false red pill argument of: 'young women want older, established men,' despite the statistics showing young women are dating young men — and at that, mostly penniless grads and undergrads.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/26 04:08 PM
–	There’s a gap between “safe advice” and what actually drives reptilian, instinctive reaction/attraction in practice, and it’s a lesson many men have to learn the hard way. is there any source or study for that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/26 11:02 AM
–	Rules for real sigma men me when the sigma male is waiting 3 completely arbitrary seconds before responding to anything	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/26 11:09 AM
5	Do you think women's aversion of helping men in the dating/sexual context is biological or societal? I don't think there is an aversion to helping men — I see just as many women giving advice as men online, and equally I see both men and women being unhelpful too. I think the problem with this argument in particular is with the scenario; the quiet, shy, virgin girl who doesn't know she's beautiful is a pretty well-established fantasy/trope. On the other hand, I wouldn't reckon many women care much about it at all. So I wouldn't say it's an 'aversion' to help, so much as the hypothetical you pro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/04/26 09:08 AM
7	Women are more sexual than men all women do is twerk, eat hot chip, and listen to sex music	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/03/26 04:22 PM
3	People belive Men have not done everything to justify hating on them yep, as a 17 rear year old former-apprentice my first instinct should have been marrying a wealthy guy and becoming a stay-at-home wife 🙄	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/26 05:30 PM
8	People belive Men have not done everything to justify hating on them divest yourself of responsibility to care you should have directed him to his pastor damned if you do; damned if you don't.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/26 11:27 AM
8	People belive Men have not done everything to justify hating on them you're not actually giving any examples — it's all just hypothetical. as someone whose apprenticeship programme got shut down halfway through it, leaving me in a spot with no job or education simultaneously, it sucks whether you're male or female — there really isn't a fabled institution that just hands out free careers to unlucky women...	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/26 11:18 AM
3	What is your strongest Pro Blue Pill Argument? literally. i've thought this for a long time about guys unsuccess in dating; literally almost every guy thinks he's gonna get with a hot girl. like, we live in a time where a 7/10 woman gets called 'mid' because guys act like the entire first half of the attractiveness scale, and the women in it, just don't exist.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/26 11:29 AM
–	Common dating advice straight up doesn’t work for the average guy struggling with dating working on social skills is particularly relevant imo — like i read an article a while back about how the current generation of young men are the most solitary generation ever. i think it was something like 1/5 of men admitted to having no friends at all, like 1/2 avoiding social plans, etc. — and there was a bunch about how guys prefer working from home and hate socialising with colleagues, or choosing almost exclusively solitary hobbies, or only talking to online friends... my point is, so man…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/26 09:43 AM
–	Why do women get annoyed when told it's easy for them to be attractive but it's not for men? because when you spend a lot of time, effort and money on something — in this case, appearance — and someone dismisses it as 'easy' it's generally frustrating..?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/26 02:39 AM
11	Dating older men (like 10 plus years older) is simply a bad deal for most women yep because older guys are going for young women for their personalities. 🙄 it's as transactional for the men as it is the women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/02/26 10:27 AM
3	Women love therapy culture until they actually have to practice what they preach. No, if course I still have a bit of anxiety, but it's very much improved; I'm no longer having frequent panic attacks in public and my social life — and thus my quality of life — has improved significantly. To suggest that those massive improvements are 'inefficient' or pointless on the grounds that it's not an instant cure (which probably doesn't even exist), is frankly ridiculous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/26 06:04 AM
4	Women love therapy culture until they actually have to practice what they preach. I think it just feels like a very vague association — like, 'some women that have therapy are also toxic.' I'm struggling to see the causation. And I think the argument is fundamentally flawed in the sense of what therapy actually is. There's many, many different types of therapy; there's not a universal 'therapy' that I think can be put in a box and used to accurately justify a point like this. Like, I had cognitive behavioural therapy to help deal with my crippling social anxiety, and it helpe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/26 09:36 PM
5	Young Men's Perception Of What Responsible Masculinity Looks Like, And Women's Perception Of Men In General Are Distorted. 71% of surveyed women in my country admitted to being sexually harassed — I'm not sure I'd call that 'outlier events'...	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/26 11:10 AM
12	Young Men's Perception Of What Responsible Masculinity Looks Like, And Women's Perception Of Men In General Are Distorted. would you criticise those guys for fearing/avoiding women after that? would you tell them that 'not all women are bad..?'	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/26 06:22 AM
6	Feminists would rather have two competing groups working towards gender equality than working together with men on the subject elaborate..?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/26 06:47 PM
4	The “brain being fully developed” argument is not relevant in the age gap discussion what is this sub's deal with age-gap relationships anyway? the relationship age-gap is smaller than is ever been, the frequency of age-gap relationships is at an all time low and still declining, and the relationships keeping age-gap stats alive are between older couples — not today's young people. but like 1 in 3 posts here is still mentioning age gaps...	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/26 08:21 PM
1	Sending Wifey Back to School is a TRAP!! DO NOT DO IT! yeh that sounded worse than i meant it too — like i mean i would definitely voice my concerns if i was the partner, but i don't think i'd say no outright.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 02:40 PM
11	Sending Wifey Back to School is a TRAP!! DO NOT DO IT! i think personally it would depend — like if i was genuinely unhappy with my career and situation, and felt the only way to change it was to go to university, then for sure i'd be willing to strain a relationship for it. if i was content with work in a relationship that is otherwise fine, then i probably wouldn't risk damaging or ending it for something unnecessary. but as a partner, i certainly can't imagine actively trying to prevent my partner from getting an education...	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/01/26 12:06 PM
–	When women say they “don’t like muscular men,” they are often lying, consciously or unconsciously. you're looking at two pictures of a guy with objectively bigger arms, pecs, abs and shoulders and claiming they're the same — even after the guy in the picture literally said outright that he'd gained significant muscle mass — and im ignorant?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 11:34 PM
–	When women say they “don’t like muscular men,” they are often lying, consciously or unconsciously. you're actually just talking shite now considering the picture on the left is from an article quoting him on the muscle mass he gained to play thor... and its not like your example at all; it's more akin to a guy saying he prefers a more petite physique compared to somebody's like ice spice, and me accusing him of lying and arguing that big hips and bust are universally attractive to everyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 11:11 PM
–	When women say they “don’t like muscular men,” they are often lying, consciously or unconsciously. <image> the difference between those two photos isn't just a bit of 'water weight'... and i feel like physiques like the one on the right really aren't that uncommon? at least not in my experience...	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 10:52 PM
–	When women say they “don’t like muscular men,” they are often lying, consciously or unconsciously. because i can't date chris hemsworth im not allowed an opinion on what i find attractive..? and outside of movie roles that require him to be, hemsworth usally isnt completely ripped. like in this picture he's got toned arms and pecs, but not ripped, and its a perfect example of what i find more attractive, and im clearly not the only one since this is even being debated. <image>	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 10:30 PM
–	When women say they “don’t like muscular men,” they are often lying, consciously or unconsciously. i think there's just very much a middle-ground that most women find attractive. like you said, bodybuilders physiques often aren't attractive to women, and on the other side i think a lot of women find 'shredded' guys with super low body fat kinda unattractive too. so like inherently 'muscular' physiques aren't that attractive to women. but that's not to say muscles aren't attractive — like healthy/average body weight but toned is most attractive to me personally, but i wouldn't necessarily say …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 10:07 PM
–	Women are wonderful because they are incompetent Usually when I'm being incompetent I get anything but praise...	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/25 02:54 PM
–	Women are wonderful because they are incompetent This is a lot of waffle that boils down to, "Personally I think women are stupid." Like when does this complete lack of competency become apparent? I can't see how my early working life would be much different if I had a penis; get an education, find a job, start earning promotions...	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/25 06:38 AM
46	Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach. Personally I just don't really think I've ever thought of approaching someone for a relationship on a whim. Like, the guys I want relationships are already people I know and have spoken to, so approaching them isn't really necessary. Like, I see guys I find attractive quite often, but I don't feel a desire to date them and so have little reason to approach them. Whereas I feel guys often crush on women without having spoken to them, and thus are more likely to approach and introduce themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/25 02:46 PM
3	According to one study most of what a woman finds attractive in a man is beyond his looks - ladies do you agree? yeah, to add to this, there was an okcupid study (I know — not the most reliable but it gets quoted here a lot) that when women match with guys, they're much more likely to converse with a number of them and then pursue the one they got along with most. This, compared to men, whom basically just all messaged their hottest match every time. it's why i find it so frustrating when guys on here just flat-out deny that personality matters. like maybe not for you but... 👀	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/25 03:56 PM
6	Men shouldn't expect women to settle for them in their prime (20's) because men themselves don't have a prime they can give women. Yeah like in the real world it's literally a combination of whether someone is physically attracted to them, and whether they enjoy spending time together. And this whole "prime" age thing is such nonsense — statistically in western countries the average age gap in relationships is literally like 2 years, with the frequency of relationships with age gaps steadily declining over time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/25 01:03 PM
10	Female intrasexual competition is the reason why women tend to have few or no close friends literally stumbled on this sub just now and thought it could be interesting. first post I see is a bunch of guys confidently proclaiming women have no friends in the face of completely contradictory evidence... yeah nah im out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/25 10:27 AM
–	Women are so quick to ask for money i dont think its a 'macho culture' thing necessarily but i do think to an extent that some guys would find it emasculating to be paid for. meanwhile for women who, in the grand scheme of things, have only had financial independence for a short time, it's still viewed societally as just treating/spoiling her. and of course a lot of the comments here are denying that this happens but I think it still does— although i do think its on the decline. most women have careers and provide for themselves n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/25 11:00 AM
–	Today's gender war is a natural consequence of the philosophy of "anything goes", and maybe that's ok. i mean, that doesn't answer for why guys aren't socialising at all. you don't have to be attractive to make plans with your friends. plus i really never understand the "women's attractiveness standards for men are too high" argument when every time an academic study comes out on the topic, it's men who prioritise their partner's looks more...	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 04:07 PM
–	Today's gender war is a natural consequence of the philosophy of "anything goes", and maybe that's ok. of course, but general male lonliness seems to be neglected way more than the fact that a lot of young men arent having sex. like, i saw a study that said like ~40% (but dont quote it) of genZ men barely make plans or socialise at all, and 15% of young men admit to having no friends.. like, how are you ever gonna start a relationship when people never see you because you never go out? my point being, current young men are the least social they've pretty much ever been, but the fact they're not h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/25 02:42 PM
–	Vast Majority of Women are Landing Men Who Were In Romantic Exile, and They Know It i think for me it was mostly that my dad took me out pretty much every saturday growing up - whether it was going for a walk, getting something to eat, visiting some one, etc. and i think when i hit like 16-17 and got a bit more independence, i still had the urge to go out and do stuff and be around people, as opposed to just staying at home like a lot of my generation seem to...	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 06:13 PM
–	Vast Majority of Women are Landing Men Who Were In Romantic Exile, and They Know It definitely still happens. i have a mixed friend group who go out all the time and it's pretty much the same as you described; all my friends are in university too and it's the same for them as well. i think that's why i struggle with a lot of this gender war rubbish, because in my circles i not only dont see it, i see the exact opposite. but the last few generations have just been a lot less social, and especially guys. i saw a report recently where like many 16-24 age guys basically dont social…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/25 05:28 PM
–	Guys here seem to want to berate women to choose better but then coddle undesirable men. the source also backs up a lot of what ive said. in fact a lot of the data contradicts itself being that its not a proper study. edit: i looked through some of your other comments and you are clearly very biased and intentionally so, going so far as to call sexual harassment 'romantic attention'. it appears all of your arguments boil down to "men are infallible and women are always wrong" – im not gonna waste time in a 'debate' on that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 09:37 AM
–	Guys here seem to want to berate women to choose better but then coddle undesirable men. im not convinced a dating site graph and an academic study are exactly comparable but whatever— and at that, a graph made for the purpose of advertising their dating service. okcupid is supposed to be a dating site thats not based on looks (like tinder, hinge) so of course its in their interest to convince men that they wont find success with the competition.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 09:25 AM
–	Guys here seem to want to berate women to choose better but then coddle undesirable men. why does everyone on this sub act like women are the only ones who value looks? every time I've looked into studies on this topic, its been the opposite. and, especially online, ive noticed the 'average guy' and 'average girl' are very far apart. the average guy will be, well, an average guy. average girls however, will be like a pretty 6-7/10...	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 12:47 AM
2	being a bear in the woods i mean, women's attitudes haven't suddenly changed, and i dont even think the bear question is supposed to be taken literally. like of course women dont want to be in the woods with a random man..? idk why that has upset so many people...	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/24 08:14 AM
-25	Time for #MenToo (Prof. Vaknin) You objectively aren't going to get charged with sexual assault for speaking to/asking women on a date. False accusations do exist, yes— but not out of proportion to any other crime. If false accusations didn't exist at all, neither would the court of law. The rest of that was fluff, and using 'MenToo' for anything other than male rape victims seems insensitive.	/r/MensRights	24/11/23 01:54 PM
0	Hi everyone, I’m a 5’10” guy (179cm morning 178cm evening) and I’ve dated a few women all 5’4”-5’7” who mocked me for being short( and It’s taken a toll on my self esteem 😭 Why is your TrueRateMe photo a completely different guy than this post?	/r/AllPillDebate	14/11/23 10:33 AM
-1	Hypergamy 101 Lots of people make things up on the internet— I hadn't accused you of it.	/r/AllPillDebate	14/11/23 10:23 AM
1	Hypergamy 101 I feel like it should be obligatory to link the comment, or at least screenshot it.	/r/AllPillDebate	14/11/23 10:02 AM
1	here we go again Sorry if I'm being completely stupid, but what's stopping guys from having wingmen?	/r/AllPillDebate	13/11/23 11:31 PM
1	here we go again I mean, the top advice on there isn't bad. Meeting people who have similar interests as you is a good way to get things off the ground. Like, I met my boyfriend at an audio electronics gathering— if I'd have met him somewhere where we didn't have anything to talk about, or I didn't know we were similar, I'd probably not have ever spoken to him.	/r/AllPillDebate	13/11/23 09:00 PM
0	The real blackpill is that sex is the biological mechanism through which ALL suffering on this earth stems from. By that logic, everything good also comes from sex, therefore anti-natalism is simultaneously the worst thing ever.	/r/AllPillDebate	13/11/23 12:37 PM
1	When woman show fatherless behaviour Is this a gooning account? 🤨	/r/AllPillDebate	13/11/23 12:29 PM
0	It is late Saturday night and anyone reading this is an incel You just decided they were incels by looking at them..? And if course there's more dudes at a UFC event – MMA fans are like >90% guys. Also, lets gooo Aspinall!!	/r/AllPillDebate	12/11/23 02:10 PM
2	Too many black pillers believe what they do matters to women I am an engineer myself, and pay for my own stuff. Globally, women make up 48% percent of the workforce.	/r/AllPillDebate	12/11/23 12:00 AM
0	Too many black pillers believe what they do matters to women Where are these 'worker-drones' and how do I get their money?	/r/AllPillDebate	11/11/23 10:19 PM
5	Women's dissimulation is why men suffer so greatly today. And just claiming your opinion is true is better? A survey asking is people are liars or not? Lie-detectors may not be 100% true, but the sample sizes in this expiment were large, and tests were run multiple times. It's pretty safe to say that what was recorded wasn't an 'inconsistency'.	/r/AllPillDebate	11/11/23 05:17 PM
5	“Assortative mating” will never return as long as society acknowledges the existence of female desire. I think going back to that seems like a bit of an overreaction. Like, the virginity stats that the CDC released this year show that ~15% of 18-24 year old men have never had sex. For women its ~12%. After 25+ it's around 5% for both. So it seems pretty outragous to decide 'only men matter in sex' when the discrepancy is so low...	/r/AllPillDebate	11/11/23 01:42 PM
1	Women's dissimulation is why men suffer so greatly today. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8982912/ I read this one, which was done using a couple of different lie-detector tests. This one has some references early on to other similar research, and they show much of the same. Also, I wouldn't take anything the Guardian says too seriously. Here in the UK they are considered to be pretty shitty...	/r/AllPillDebate	11/11/23 12:51 PM
-1	Women's dissimulation is why men suffer so greatly today. Except this has been tested thoroughly many times, and every time it has been men who both lie more and are more successful in decieving people...	/r/AllPillDebate	11/11/23 12:17 PM
-1	It's better to be an incel than a normie No, my nickname's just always been 'Teensy' cuz I'm short...	/r/AllPillDebate	11/11/23 02:07 AM
-1	It's better to be an incel than a normie You still don't seem to understand that relationships aren't just a sex-contract.	/r/AllPillDebate	10/11/23 09:50 PM
1	can someone give me an honest take on the way i look please I would be happy to give you an opinion if you still want one.	/r/AllPillDebate	10/11/23 09:46 PM
1	Jesus Fucking Christ If I didn't think their looks were suitible, I wouldn't have matched them.	/r/AllPillDebate	10/11/23 06:30 PM
-2	Jesus Fucking Christ A dude immediately asking for sex or sending dick-pics or something is creepy whether they're attractive or not. I wouldn't have matched them if I didn't find them physically attractive.	/r/AllPillDebate	10/11/23 06:29 PM
0	Jesus Fucking Christ Well, since most women aren't using dating apps, just go out more. Whether it's a club, or just something you're interested in where you might meet someone. And in terms of active personal stuff, stay in shape, stay well-groomed/cared for, dress well...	/r/AllPillDebate	10/11/23 06:28 PM
-6	Jesus Fucking Christ But the messages are often creepy or weird though. I used Tinder once and, although I didn't get hundreds of matches (becauase most women don't get that kind of attention), a lot of the ones I did get were just creeps. I think that's why there's so few women use dating services– and of course, the less women that use them the more competitive it becomes for men.	/r/AllPillDebate	10/11/23 11:45 AM
1	Why are people so mean to guys like us? Same response could be used against you. Either generalisations and stereotypes are a problem, or they're not. You can't say "my generalisations are okay, but when you do it it's wrong."	/r/AllPillDebate	10/11/23 11:31 AM
0	Why are people so mean to guys like us? I mean, that happens here too though. How many posts on here claim to be about 'all women', or 'all normies', etc. Different groups get judged by whoever shouts the loudest— and generally that's the unsavouy types...	/r/AllPillDebate	10/11/23 03:16 AM
10	How can an incel get revenge ? Well if this isn't the saddest wet-dream I ever read...	/r/AllPillDebate	09/11/23 08:02 PM
2	GTA 6 trailer will be released early December Online was always my favourite part, and that's not gonna be good for ages after release.	/r/AllPillDebate	08/11/23 02:38 PM
1	The undying trust in intellectuality My entire comment was based on the perceptions of incels, not what is objectively true. But how incels are percieved is as much their fault as it is the media's. Incels recieve no help because they make themselves nearly un-helpable.	/r/AllPillDebate	08/11/23 11:51 AM
1	The undying trust in intellectuality How can you act like you have a vast understanding of suffering and depression, but in the same comment claim women's is 'superficial'? And I think your reply might almost answer your own question, 'why has the media tried so hard to demonise inkwells as woman hating psychopaths?' Because that's how people genuinely percieve most incels. Whether or not it's true is moot— incels more or less lump anyone who isn't them into categories and make vast (usually unpleasant) generalisations about them. …	/r/AllPillDebate	08/11/23 11:28 AM
1	Mothers are the most selfish people in the world and the root of the incel problem My reason for bringing that up was that most people are happy to exist, so saying things like 'child-bearing is selfish' doesn't really carry any substance. It's like on the anti-natalism subs, people will claim having children is selfish, but then if you ask them if they'd forfeit their own life for that belief, the answer is usually 'no'.	/r/AllPillDebate	07/11/23 02:31 PM
1	Mothers are the most selfish people in the world and the root of the incel problem No, because you can separate a person from the beliefs they hold; a person is still a person at the end of the day.	/r/AllPillDebate	07/11/23 02:24 PM
2	Mothers are the most selfish people in the world and the root of the incel problem Like I said, I don't hate men at all – I just disagree incel/blackpill-style beliefs.	/r/AllPillDebate	07/11/23 01:21 PM
1	Mothers are the most selfish people in the world and the root of the incel problem If you were content in life, would you still resent your parents for creating you? Whether you think childbearing is selfish or selfless is a matter of perspective. Personally I think sacrificing your body, money and time to give someone else a life is pretty selfless, and I love my parents and appreciate the things they do for me. And sure, I don't agree with the blackpill at all, but I'm certainly not 'anti-male', so why would I want males aborted..?	/r/AllPillDebate	07/11/23 12:58 PM
2	Mothers are the most selfish people in the world and the root of the incel problem Okay, what do you think your mother didn't provide you? What could she provide you now to ensure your life is good?	/r/AllPillDebate	07/11/23 10:34 AM
2	Mothers are the most selfish people in the world and the root of the incel problem You do know how babies are made, right..? Yet you – for what I can only assume is due to you hating women – are only blaming mothers... And how do you force women to ensure their kid has a good life..? And how is it the 'root of the incel problem'? Once you grow up you lead your own life, like everybody else...	/r/AllPillDebate	07/11/23 03:17 AM
1	Should mods here stop approving ropeorcopes comments? And we were getting along so well :'-(	/r/AllPillDebate	06/11/23 05:26 PM
4	Should mods here stop approving ropeorcopes comments? I'm getting close. Soon my vast wisdom and contributions will be lost. 🫡	/r/AllPillDebate	06/11/23 03:30 PM
3	Should mods here stop approving ropeorcopes comments? How do you see community karma, because I'm surprised I haven't got -100 as well...	/r/AllPillDebate	06/11/23 03:24 PM
4	Should mods here stop approving ropeorcopes comments? 'All pill debate' but everything except blackpill is bad...? 🙄	/r/AllPillDebate	06/11/23 03:08 PM
2	I knOw a GuY WhO'S 4'11 baLdInG inDiAn WhO gEts GiRlS But if I said, "I know a bunch of short guys who are dating", is my experience any more valid than yours..?	/r/AllPillDebate	04/11/23 01:09 PM
-7	I knOw a GuY WhO'S 4'11 baLdInG inDiAn WhO gEts GiRlS You've convinced me. Blackpill is undeniable because these guys played a worse version of Trumps. 🫡	/r/AllPillDebate	04/11/23 12:28 PM
-9	I knOw a GuY WhO'S 4'11 baLdInG inDiAn WhO gEts GiRlS Most the references on the 'scientific blackpill' site aren't even actual journal articles or anything. Which means, scientifically, they carry virtually no weight... Edit: And if I'm remembering correctly, like half of the articles I read on there has references from the 80s, 90s, 00s, etc. How is that reliable information to use for an ideology concerning modern dating?	/r/AllPillDebate	04/11/23 11:42 AM
-9	I knOw a GuY WhO'S 4'11 baLdInG inDiAn WhO gEts GiRlS Are you acting like 99% of the guys here don't base their opinions on anecdotal evidence too? Sometimes not even that, because they don't socialise at all..?	/r/AllPillDebate	04/11/23 11:35 AM
-4	Personality only matters when selecting a betabuxxer not for true attraction or desire I think looks certainly matter in terms of initial attraction (including hookups and stuff), but personality keeps people around. And most complaints about women here are literally about their personalities and habits. But as soon as a woman suggests mens' personalities matter, everyone in this sub is like, "actually, heights more important" etc. ...	/r/AllPillDebate	04/11/23 12:14 AM
-5	Personality only matters when selecting a betabuxxer not for true attraction or desire If you're going for a committed relationship, you don't choose somebody who you don't like being around...	/r/AllPillDebate	03/11/23 06:51 PM
1	Educationmaxxing is not for weak men It depends if you find something you enjoy or not. Like, I'm studying for my degree whilst working in the industry and it's the happiest I've been in a while, even though I have barely any time...	/r/AllPillDebate	03/11/23 04:00 PM
1	The “Higher-Testosterone Men Like Thicker Women” meme is based on literally nothing The 'dad-bod' thing is pushed a lot, and a lot of women seem to like it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/23 10:46 AM
0	"Grindset" is the biggest cope. Do NOT focus on yourself. (unhinged rant + genuine advice) I guess it depends on what you label 'self-improvement'. For me, I would class something as simple as being social, or improving your general mindset as self-improvement. And stuff like going to the gym (which is the obvious one) can do both. If you don't value yourself, how can you expect anyone else to? I think that's one of the biggest problems with blackpill.	/r/AllPillDebate	02/11/23 07:16 PM
1	So if you bet it all on your personality, what happens when you have an argument with your significant other? I don't get that— opposite gender friends are only impossible if you sexualise everyone you meet...	/r/AllPillDebate	01/11/23 09:44 PM
2	So if you bet it all on your personality, what happens when you have an argument with your significant other? Having an argument doesn't immediately cause you to permanently resent the person you're arguing with...	/r/AllPillDebate	01/11/23 04:00 PM
1	Is there an app or browser plug-in that blocks all images of women? You seem completely reasonable. I just can't figure out how you ever ended up in an incel sub...	/r/AllPillDebate	01/11/23 06:06 AM
-2	i hate how people pretend there's some "disconnect" between men and women Incels when a study doesn't prove that all women are sex-tyrants who have banged 300 'chads': 😨😨😡😡🤬👎 But then they will post the most obscure, trivial 'study' and be like, "iM sCiEnCe-piLLeD". Honestly, I'm fucking done trying to understand these people...	/r/AllPillDebate	01/11/23 05:57 AM
1	when your wife is not attracted to you Every time you reply to me, I get a waft of body odor.	/r/AllPillDebate	01/11/23 05:12 AM
1	Their is no difference approaching irl and using a dating app I'm pretty sure it's like 30+	/r/AllPillDebate	01/11/23 05:11 AM
-2	Their is no difference approaching irl and using a dating app I mean, the stats show there's more single young men, but more single older women. So do you blame younger women for dating older men, or older men for dating younger women. Or just blame neither because everyone has the right to choose who they date...	/r/AllPillDebate	31/10/23 01:27 PM
2	when your wife is not attracted to you I mean, with a child it's more complicated than just leaving for a number of reasons...	/r/AllPillDebate	31/10/23 12:44 PM
-3	Their is no difference approaching irl and using a dating app It's still a lot closer than dating apps that have like 4 times as many men as women.	/r/AllPillDebate	31/10/23 12:41 PM
1	Might just escortmaxx next month Love, companionship, having someone who cares about you and your needs— with sex being one of them. I'm not saying sex isn't an important part, but I just don't see it as the most important.	/r/AllPillDebate	31/10/23 12:37 PM
1	Might just escortmaxx next month I wouldn't say sex is the main component at all. If thag was the case, why would anyone persue a relationship?	/r/AllPillDebate	31/10/23 11:49 AM
-3	Their is no difference approaching irl and using a dating app Except there's a massive discrepancy in male/female users on dating services, with men massively outnumbering women. That isn't the case in the real world. The outcome of this is that only some men will actually find matches, which is just going to be the better looking guys. Plus, the amount you can convey about your personality, or learn about your match over text is very limited. In person, it's much less nuanced.	/r/AllPillDebate	31/10/23 11:40 AM
1	Might just escortmaxx next month You've missed the point which I brought up in the original comment. To most people a relationship isn't just a means by which to fuck...	/r/AllPillDebate	31/10/23 11:29 AM
0	when your wife is not attracted to you Reading through the posts and commdnts on that account, her husband was/is abusive and also a cheater. It also seems like she was the one trying to make it work. I don't think this is just 'she's not attracted to him' ...	/r/AllPillDebate	31/10/23 11:25 AM
1	Might just escortmaxx next month Most of the time, when I see relationships spoken about here, it's more along the lines of, "guys only get in relationships when they can't get loads of hookups and aren't a chad," and stuff along those lines...	/r/AllPillDebate	31/10/23 11:20 AM
1	Thoughts on this post about male misogyny? What does it mean for dating? I think it can apply to other stuff too. A guy who's comfortable in his station – somebody who's successful, or confident, or just generally content – is not going to feel the need to try and drag anyone else down. Meanwhile, someone who's not happy with where they are (in this case, bottom of the halo leaderboard), will use whatever ammunition is available against those above them. Which against women, usually tends to be misogyny.	/r/AllPillDebate	31/10/23 12:48 AM
-3	Might just escortmaxx next month I mean, if you've definitely set your mind on it, go for it. "When in Rome"... (or Amsterdam.) But I feel like losing your virginity is given vastly more importance in these kind of communities/subs than it needs. Like, just banging someone once who you have no feelings for, or connection to isn't going to suddenly 'fill the void', so to speak. Actual companionship is barely ever spoken about in these subs, which is more important than just fucking once... My advice: just enjoy your trip with yo…	/r/AllPillDebate	31/10/23 12:35 AM
-2	Don't pay escorts. 400000 Americans are considered to be victims of slavery— 80% are women and children. And I think it's something like half of all sex workers are being forced. 40% were forced when underaged.	/r/AllPillDebate	30/10/23 02:44 PM
-1	Don't pay escorts. Yes, human trafficking, modern day slavery, forced prostitution, etc. happen in the USA. This isn't a trivial statement...	/r/AllPillDebate	30/10/23 02:38 PM
-2	Don't pay escorts. Actually that's exactly the case for a lot of sex workers...	/r/AllPillDebate	30/10/23 02:19 PM
1	Don't pay escorts. ...said the guy who posts multiple rants a day.	/r/AllPillDebate	30/10/23 12:41 PM
-8	Don't pay escorts. Boo hoo to you too. You're the one who's only options are sex workers or exploitation.	/r/AllPillDebate	30/10/23 12:35 PM
-6	Don't pay escorts. If someone is sleeping with you to escape poverty, they probably don't want it.	/r/AllPillDebate	30/10/23 12:32 PM
-4	Don't pay escorts. Blackpillers when women have consensual sex: 🤬🤬🤬 Blackpillers coercing refugees/migrants into unwanted sex: 😊😊👍	/r/AllPillDebate	30/10/23 12:29 PM
3	Why are they so unfunny? humour is subjective	/r/AllPillDebate	30/10/23 12:08 PM
3	Catfishing really works! I GOT LAID!!! This didn't happen, did it? No woman is going on a date and forgetting what her fucking date looks like while on the way to meet them...	/r/AllPillDebate	30/10/23 11:19 AM
1	One of the popular dating subreddits had to pin a comment about how blackpill/inceldom is not allowed in there space. Okay but the fact that the subbreddit had to write a PINNED post about it shows how popular it is. Because that's where you guys draw the line, right? 🙄	/r/AllPillDebate	30/10/23 11:14 AM
-2	Tired of normie gaslighting I, and most girls I know, will just block people who randomly message them on social media. Unless I already know them in person...	/r/AllPillDebate	30/10/23 11:13 AM
-5	Tired of normie gaslighting Aren't most dating apps like 9 males to 1 female in terms of users? At least from the people I know, more couples meet in person than on dating services... Plus, I really don't think height is as big a deal as it's framed to be in this sub. I mean, is height attractive? Yes, sure– but it's certainly not the biggest factor by a longshot...	/r/AllPillDebate	30/10/23 03:41 AM
-1	One of the popular dating subreddits had to pin a comment about how blackpill/inceldom is not allowed in there space. Okay but the fact that the subbreddit had to write a PINNED post about it shows how popular it is. Like I said, I see it online but I don't think I've ever heard it in person. Like, with the guys I'm friends with, I've probably heard one of them bring up redpill like once and it was ironically.	/r/AllPillDebate	29/10/23 05:28 PM
-8	One of the popular dating subreddits had to pin a comment about how blackpill/inceldom is not allowed in there space. Okay but the fact that the subbreddit had to write a PINNED post about it shows how popular it is. But many blackpill views are just openly misogynistic, so they wouldn't be wrong..?	/r/AllPillDebate	29/10/23 05:24 PM
-13	One of the popular dating subreddits had to pin a comment about how blackpill/inceldom is not allowed in there space. Okay but the fact that the subbreddit had to write a PINNED post about it shows how popular it is. If these views were as popular as you think, publicizing them wouldn't be social suicide..?	/r/AllPillDebate	29/10/23 05:16 PM
-13	One of the popular dating subreddits had to pin a comment about how blackpill/inceldom is not allowed in there space. Okay but the fact that the subbreddit had to write a PINNED post about it shows how popular it is. I think inceldom/blackpill stuff is very much over-represented online, especially on stuff like Reddit. In the real world, I am yet to meet anyone who actually expresses the same views...	/r/AllPillDebate	29/10/23 05:07 PM
-4	Fuck bluepillers and blackpillers cap Don't listen to the shit-heads trying to knock you down. If you put yourself out there and had a good time, don't let their own bitterness take away from it. :-)	/r/AllPillDebate	26/10/23 08:08 PM
6	Is anyone else disgusted by the cowardly of normies? Maybe I am not the string :(	/r/AllPillDebate	26/10/23 11:55 AM
3	Is anyone else disgusted by the cowardly of normies? If you're living a happy life, why wouldn't you want to prolong it..?	/r/AllPillDebate	26/10/23 11:17 AM
1	Becoming a Passport Bro (Part 3): Mental Diet -Having standards and freedom of choice isn't 'entitlement'. -OnlyFans is no more exploitation of men than soda is an exploitation of the thirsty. -The number is 70%. And again, choice isn't entitlement. And actually, married men are more likely to cheat and much more likely to remarry after divorce. So statistically women aren't the ones 'getting bored' and moving on... -And men and women probably get shit on and insulted equally..?	/r/AllPillDebate	25/10/23 12:42 PM
1	Becoming a Passport Bro (Part 3): Mental Diet Maybe if I knew how women in the west are exploiting men I could better acknowledge it.	/r/AllPillDebate	25/10/23 10:24 AM
2	Becoming a Passport Bro (Part 3): Mental Diet You give a nothingness reply, you get a nothingness response.	/r/AllPillDebate	25/10/23 10:17 AM
2	Becoming a Passport Bro (Part 3): Mental Diet But dating sucks for all but Chads in the West, remember? Darn feminists and their darn consent!!	/r/AllPillDebate	25/10/23 10:13 AM
2	Becoming a Passport Bro (Part 3): Mental Diet Average 'successful' passport bro: https://youtu.be/3IJfvUZ_W7g?si=XGAwLpwJG8mqJXZ-	/r/AllPillDebate	25/10/23 09:57 AM
-6	Are white women the most privileged demographic? You're disproportionately more likely to be raped than to be falsely accused.	/r/AllPillDebate	25/10/23 09:52 AM
1	I need women’s take on something I can give you my perspective, but it's probably not going to be 'blackpilled'... 🤷🏼‍♀️	/r/AllPillDebate	24/10/23 10:43 PM
0	Tried chadfishing yesterday If someone looks too good to be true on a dating platform, one reverse search will reveal that it's not a genuine account. (Plus I don't really get 'fishing' at all. Like, at best it's unhealthy, and it's literally illegal...)	/r/AllPillDebate	24/10/23 10:41 PM
0	Do normies lack self awareness? Would you spend your time living with someone you resented just to get your dick wet? No..? Then personality matters.	/r/AllPillDebate	22/10/23 08:29 PM
-4	Do normies lack self awareness? The only one you're hurting with that opinion is yourself.	/r/AllPillDebate	22/10/23 06:17 PM
-5	Do normies lack self awareness? I don't think incels have quite grasped companionship yet. Women are just objects after all... 🙄	/r/AllPillDebate	22/10/23 03:55 PM
1	Do normies lack self awareness? Yeah, I came to this sub to try and understand their POV and maybe even have some reasonable debates, but it's just not the case. To these guys, everything is womens' fault, and any fact, statistic, experience, etc. contrary to this is immediately ignored or refuted.	/r/AllPillDebate	22/10/23 12:51 PM
-1	Do normies lack self awareness? Because I do honestly think that social inadequacy (or just lack of social interaction) is a bigger factor than appearance when it comes to dating. Like, I have a pretty big friend circle, and we're all average-ish looking, yet 9 out of the 12 of us are in relationships. And I think that's because we have multiple plans per week and are constantly socializing with new people, opposed to any of us being overwhelmingly attractive. Tinder dating, on the other hand, is solely based on appearance, bu…	/r/AllPillDebate	22/10/23 12:31 PM
-6	Do normies lack self awareness? Except you guys act like these 'Chads' are just going around banging every woman they see. The vast majority of people – good-looking or not – want the same thing, and that's a steady relationship.	/r/AllPillDebate	22/10/23 11:52 AM
19	45% of women expected to be single by 2030 "So, many women are single — that is, unmarried..." Sooo, not single at all— just not married...	/r/AllPillDebate	22/10/23 11:46 AM
-11	Do normies lack self awareness? Cheating stats are about the same for men and women; Chads don't exist - he's the handsome boogeyman you guys use to justify your insecurities; 'Normies' is a term you coin from your basement to try and portray people who aren't social rejects negatively. So no, functional members of society don't lack awareness, but there's certainly a deficit of social awareness on your side...	/r/AllPillDebate	22/10/23 11:43 AM
-5	This economy is too difficult for a single man You are refering to the 'Pew' study which is wildly taken out of context. Here is an analysis of the actual results:	/r/AllPillDebate	21/10/23 01:43 PM
1	This economy is too difficult for a single man You're literally ignoring what I'm saying and repeating yourself. So my response to this is the same as my first reply.	/r/AllPillDebate	21/10/23 12:45 PM
0	This economy is too difficult for a single man I just don't see it. And besides, like 99% of girls think it's weird when middle aged guys are dating barely legal teenagers. To suggest every girl is relying on a sugar daddy is naive at best, and just obstinate at worst.	/r/AllPillDebate	21/10/23 12:33 PM
-5	This economy is too difficult for a single man I have literally never met a girl at university who is a 'sugar baby'— it's really not as common as you think.	/r/AllPillDebate	21/10/23 12:25 PM
-15	This economy is too difficult for a single man Most people find/move in with their partner when they're young/in college/before a proper career etc. So usually stone-cold broke. The notion that 'women don't date poors' is just a way for you to dodge accountability and blame everyone else for your loneliness. The same way 'women only date tall guys', or 'women only want the top 1% of men' and so on... 🙄	/r/AllPillDebate	21/10/23 11:23 AM
2	What % of w*men do you think are cheating in their relationships/marriage? Yeah, that seems realistic - this sub just sucks. Like, "☝️🤓 actually, 100% of women cheat because 9ft tall, hung, omnipotent 'Chad' has slept with every female twice!!"	/r/AllPillDebate	19/10/23 09:24 AM
0	If you keep getting friend zoned by women it’s probably because you’re ugly No, they can't. None of these guys have enough social experience to prove you wrong, or prove themselves right...	/r/AllPillDebate	17/10/23 09:25 AM
0	If you keep getting friend zoned by women it’s probably because you’re ugly Let me guess, you have no success with women? And 'resisting physical contact at first meeting..?' You sound like a nonce, mate. No women are trying to start relationships or friendships with you.	/r/AllPillDebate	17/10/23 09:23 AM
1	Because boys are starting to drop out of society. That's interesting. I remember reading something similar about boys' discipline being lower due to people being more permissive with them. Like, the old 'boys will be boys' mindset. And yeah, this sub sucks. It's not an 'all pill debate' at all; it's literally just an incel/blackpill shit-storm...	/r/AllPillDebate	17/10/23 09:04 AM
0	Because boys are starting to drop out of society. Except none of those statements have the same answers you guys are giving. For example, as to why girls are doing better in school, the studies I have seen suggest things like, girls put more focus on school that hobbies; girls are more likely to pursue extra-curricular activities; young girls are much more likely to be readers than boys; boys are more likely to be troublemakers at school, etc. Another one, 'why do you think milennial and gen Z women own more housing than men'? For this, I've ne…	/r/AllPillDebate	16/10/23 09:09 PM
-2	Because boys are starting to drop out of society. From the research I've seen, most of the discrepancy in male/female results was due to girls generally engaging more in studies. And this stacks up in countries that have anonymous marking for exams, with girls still taking a slight majority in high marks. It was a genuine ask... (So I don't know why your response was immediately accusatory— I've been following this sub for a few days to try and understand, and do you pill-guys ever wonder if maybe the fact you're cunts to everyone is why nobody…	/r/AllPillDebate	16/10/23 06:31 PM
-9	Women absolutely going crazy over AI being popularized The point is, most women don't really care about AI; it'll be the same response women have to the 'MGTOW' guys, which is just "bye 👍". And for normal guys, it won't really change anything either. It's like anything else with a knock-off imitation – you only choose it if you can't get the real deal.	/r/AllPillDebate	16/10/23 09:44 AM
-10	Women absolutely going crazy over AI being popularized The only people interested in AI relationships are the kind of people that weren't ever going to have a real one.	/r/AllPillDebate	16/10/23 09:30 AM
-12	Because boys are starting to drop out of society. How exactly are teachers biased against boys?	/r/AllPillDebate	16/10/23 09:22 AM
3	Women absolutely going crazy over AI being popularized The vast majority of the response from women that I've seen is more along the lines of: "Finally, the incels can fuck off and leave us alone..."	/r/AllPillDebate	16/10/23 09:16 AM
-7	The gaslighting from women is insane Because getting relationship pointers from TikTok thots is absolutely fool-proof.	/r/AllPillDebate	13/10/23 11:20 AM
-14	The gaslighting from women is insane It's just not true, dude— you guys fixate on height waay more than any girl I've met. Height is attractive, but to suggest it's the single deciding factor is just dumb.	/r/AllPillDebate	13/10/23 11:05 AM
1	How long can people live in delusion and pretend that everything is fine? But how does that solve any of the problems listed?	/r/AllPillDebate	13/10/23 10:07 AM
2	How long can people live in delusion and pretend that everything is fine? But what do you realistically propose to fix those things..?	/r/AllPillDebate	13/10/23 02:51 AM
-3	Have you ever called out a girl for rejecting you? And what am I reaping and/or sowing? That I never have to live with one of you sad misogynists?	/r/AllPillDebate	12/10/23 01:34 PM
-2	Have you ever called out a girl for rejecting you? Why would you 'call out' anyone for rejecting you? Nobody is obliged to date you...	/r/AllPillDebate	12/10/23 07:18 AM
-12	It's impossible to socialize and enjoy it if you're blackpilled ̶I̶t̶'̶s̶ ̶i̶m̶p̶o̶s̶s̶i̶b̶l̶e̶ ̶t̶o̶ ̶s̶o̶c̶i̶a̶l̶i̶z̶e̶ ̶a̶n̶d̶ ̶e̶n̶j̶o̶y̶ ̶i̶t̶ ̶i̶f̶ ̶y̶o̶u̶'̶r̶e̶ ̶b̶l̶a̶c̶k̶p̶i̶l̶l̶e̶d̶.̶ "I am socially inept."	/r/AllPillDebate	12/10/23 07:15 AM
1	Why are women unlikeable? Certainly not the guy who thinks all women are unlikable. But it's no surprise you think this— you're a full time misogynist. You posted ~70 separate comments hating on women in 24 hours yesterday. You don't exactly seem like a beacon of social wisdom.	/r/AllPillDebate	11/10/23 09:40 AM
-2	Why are women unlikeable? Dude, go outside. The only men who are universally disliked are all you 'pill' gimps, who sit around being sexist all day and then get mad that women don't like you.	/r/AllPillDebate	10/10/23 09:13 AM