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TeenyWeenyQueeny/r/RedPillWomen19/05/22 04:37 PM
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I mean, I’m obese and never had issues attracting men. I’m married to a man that loves me dearly and prefers bigger women. He’s a 6 figure earner too so doesn’t fit the broke man stereotype. I wouldn’t pay attention to stats etc Sure, being slim gives you more options etc but doesn’t guarantee a loving relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/25 04:01 PM
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It takes time. It’s not easy. That’s why it’s important to find fulfilment in other areas of your life because nothing is guaranteed ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/25 09:42 PM
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Well, you have options. You either try naturally with medical support or you go down the IVF route. If those options don’t work, then there’s adoption for those open to it, otherwise, radical acceptance that motherhood may not be on the cards is the only option 💕
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/25 07:49 PM
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Watch this video! Hopefully it will give you some hope ❤️ https://youtu.be/0Ct36DlJUNM?si=vyRyEAECvpO5Y9oy
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/25 08:17 PM
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You’re being used. Your parents are right. Listen to them. Trust me when I tell you, a man who loves you and can afford to buy a $1m home cash, would not have you paying $1000 a month. Make sure your name is on any paperwork if you move forward with this.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/24 07:39 AM
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Don’t listen to what men have to say about you. Reclaim your power and autonomy first by admitting that promiscuity isn’t what you want for yourself, and seek therapy to review how you’ve come to where you are so you can move forward. There’s no point in living your life with regret if it won’t propel you in the direction you wish to go. I got sucked into the male red pill content and although it was informative, it destroyed my self esteem and disconnected me from my womanhood. Focus on connect…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 11:49 AM
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I wouldn’t bring them in unless I received them there, personally.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/22 10:35 PM
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Thankfully I’m a woman who loses interest very quickly so that wouldn’t work on me lol! Sorry for the women who do fall into that trap.
/r/seduction08/07/22 05:03 PM
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We live together now ☺️
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/22 02:18 PM
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Thanks Marcel. I do think he’s feeling insecure about it cos he mentions needing to feel like I want it as much as he does. He won’t ever tell me he’s feeling insecure but I think it’s pretty obvious. Thanks for your advice.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/22 03:57 PM
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I understand. I definitely think my boyfriend is on the avoidant side, but so I am in some ways. I have a FA/DA attachment style, but my avoidant behaviour triggers him and vice versa. When I’m anxious I become distant which caused issue at the start of our relationship because I wasn’t very emotionally expressive. That’s all changed now though. We’ve grown a lot as a couple. His introversion doesn’t bother me, so long as we make time for each other, I’m all good. He sees the importance of weekl…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/22 01:11 PM
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I like these suggestions. This will definitely work better when we are living together. He lives in a house share so lots of restrictions unfortunately! I like the heavy petting in public! Thank you ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/22 01:06 PM
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Well,he told me he has no issue with initiating most of the time, but he does like there to be some balance. A woman initiating sex makes him feel desired - I have scrolled through a few online forums and it seems men, even men who are dominant, like when a woman initiates from time to time. He’s very dominant in bed and has said many times that’s his preferred position. He wouldn’t let me dominate him unless it’s riding him. He’s not into being spanked, buttplay etc. Anyway, we shall see how th…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/22 01:02 PM
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Hello! Thanks for your response. Thankfully I can say you’re wrong 😅 I’m enthusiastic in bed and he has no issue with my performance. He loves it (so he says) which makes him more frustrated about my lack of initiation. I’ll admit that I am not as flirtatious as I could be, but I am physically affection, I do caress him and kiss him, but he doesn’t see that as sexual initiation because I do that when we are in public too. I’m constantly touching him, which he enjoys but he likes more direct sexu…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/22 09:35 AM
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Yeah, I think he definitely prioritises sexual/physical intimacy as it increases emotional intimacy for him. Physical touch and words of affirmation are his primary love languages. Mine are Quality time and words of affirmation but physical touch is up there too. When I completed the test, there was only a 1-2% difference between the three. Judging by what I’ve read, that’s fairly typical for men. He’s not the adventurous type so doesn’t leave his house unless he has to, but I’ve definitely spar…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/22 08:17 PM
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I definitely look forward to experiencing the same in my relationship. Thanks so much for responding x
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/22 06:49 PM
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This was a very reassuring response. Thank you. My boyfriend and I are speaking as I type, and he agrees with you. I am looking forward to our understanding of gender differences growing and aiding in the development of our relationship. ​ Thanks again <3
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/22 06:17 PM
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I agree! Neither of us want a transactional relationship <3
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/22 06:06 PM
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Thank you for your response. That's been helpful <3
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/22 06:05 PM
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He is worth it - I like a lot of private time too. I love my own company, so that won't be an issue once we move in. I have plans to pick up a range of hobbies too. I am just looking forward to that spark and natural desire to initiate being more frequent. ​ Thanks for your response.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/22 06:05 PM
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Thanks for your response. Tbh I 100% agree with you, and I have expressed this to him. Ironically, even though moving in together is a mutual decision, he seems more focused on the seriousness of our relationship (The overall commitment and everything that comes with it), rather than the fun things. We have done fun things together, but other than going to the movie theater and occassional restaurant, he doesn't care to leave home unless it's going to a sports bar with his guy friends. I'll init…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/22 06:00 PM
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Fantastic answer. Described my ex-boyfriend to the T. All the women in his family (mother and sister) spoke to him like a child and he'd never put his foot down. I eventually felt repulsed by him because like you said, he expected me to make all the decisions and wouldn't speak up for himself, even if his desires went against mine.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/22 05:46 PM
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This is so true.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/22 04:56 PM
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My stable job, loving level headed family and my friends ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/20 08:18 AM
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Female co-sign 😉
/r/seduction17/04/20 01:04 AM
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The same reason why a fly constantly buzzing around your ear is annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 04:35 PM
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He worshipped my body and always wanted me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 08:23 AM
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Dinkle hahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 08:23 AM
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My reasons were sheer convenience and it’s difficult to find men that share my hobbies/tastes in the environment I’m from. Also, the men who approach me in person, are men I NEVER have interest in. Ironically, my SO and I ended up being closely connected in some ways (our parents went to the same secondary school - different classes).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 01:44 PM
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I feel sorry for anyone who sacrifices themselves and their sanity for the attention of someone who clearly doesn’t care as much as they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 12:03 PM
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I’m not turned on, I just want them to do it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:31 AM
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Oops.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 10:50 PM
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That’s understandable. Honestly speaking, the only time I’ve been content going Dutch is when I’ve been in a relationship or didn’t like the guy very much lol I am quite traditional across the board, so I do gravitate towards men who enjoy courting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 09:41 PM
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Absolutely. Most of the women I know have no issues going Dutch and also, many men where I am from expect this, especially in my age bracket (under 30). I would say, for the most part, that this is a cultural thing. I have dated a lot of foreign born men from different parts of Africa, Southern Europe and the Middle East. I have noticed that in a lot of those cultures, women are not expect to provide for a man financially AT ALL! So I find second generation born men from those cultures tend to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 09:22 PM
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I would if I had children, but I don’t, so no. Not because there’s anything wrong with single fathers, but honestly I don’t have the emotional maturity to deal with a man who has to commit himself to little human that’s not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 09:24 AM
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Happens all the time. My Aunty left her ex for her current husband. They’ve been married for 20+ years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 09:12 AM
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We can reject who we want, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 09:40 AM
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Honestly, my “unrealistic expectation” came from the fact that my first boyfriend was “blessed” in that department and I hadn’t seen many penises apart from ones in biology diagrams so presumed he was average lol A few years down the line I found out this was not the case at all.....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 09:54 PM
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Yup clicked em all
/r/seduction12/04/20 12:03 PM
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You look fine. Don’t sweat it ☺️
/r/seduction12/04/20 11:56 AM
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No you look average
/r/seduction12/04/20 11:52 AM
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Okay - wrong use of language. “I know plenty of men who want to form deeper connections beyond the sexual”. Apologies if my words offended you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 11:12 AM
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I respect people, period. That goes without saying. To make myself clear, I respect anyone I am intimate with, but being high sexually attractive isn’t enough for me to be committed romantically to a man. That’s all I’m saying. And unfortunately, a lot of the men I have been very sexually attracted to, have had qualities that would make me feel insecure in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 10:57 AM
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I find attention more validating than sex. I’d choose sexual attention and being desired over the act of sex. I love sex but can go a while without it. I can’t go ages male admiration especially in a relationship. I think I’ve had more intense orgasms masturbating over sexual fantasies and phone sex. Weird? Maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 10:51 AM
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Money and attention but I’d say attention first. I know too many broke dudes getting Punnany.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 10:42 AM
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Perhaps. Can’t say I am one of those women. There’s nothing wrong with finding someone sexually appealing so long as boundaries aren’t crossed and harm isn’t being done to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 10:34 AM
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Yes, and I will respect and desire the man I marry. It seems like my original comment has been misunderstood. Who I choose to pursue romantically isn’t men I find sexually unappealing. They hold qualities that casual flings don’t. That’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 09:28 AM
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I’m addressing the comment about women not being that interested in having sex with the average man. I don’t believe that to be true at all. Using your car analogy - yes, you may drive passed a McLaren Car dealership in your Toyota Prius and think “damn, that would be nice” but that doesn’t mean you don’t enjoy driving your Prius.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 02:45 PM
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This is a myth. Top tier men only make up a small percentage of society and even though a lot of women compete to date those men, very few succeed and if they do, they’re the top tier female equivalent. Most men are average and so are most women. People are having sex and reproducing with each other, no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 01:03 PM
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Late 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 12:51 PM
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I would say most of the women I know value luxuries more than men. Women will choose nicer hotels, nicer than restaurants, nicer clothes and accessories, whereas I feel men, regardless of their income, are a lot happier with the bare necessities so long as it works well for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 12:50 PM
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I would say I love sex when it’s good and I’d say my drive is high but not generally speaking. My drive is high for a particular man and when stimulates by that man I want to have sex with him. I can achieve orgasm through masturbation so I prefer virtual sex (video calls, phone sex and sexting) over the real thing sometimes. I find men hate this and see it as teasing. Sure, some women use sex to manipulate men the same way some men use their resources to manipulate women. Can’t say I’ve ever do…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 11:05 AM
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I’ve been attracted to men 10+ years older than me but they’ve all had a “young personality” if that makes sense? They had the wisdom and knowledge that care with being older, but I wouldn’t regard them as father figures at all because they were just as fun (if not more fun) than men in my age group.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 10:23 AM
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Agree
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 10:21 AM
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I disagree. ATTENTION is to women, what sex is to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 10:19 AM
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Tipsy, cool. Intoxicated? Never a good idea.
/r/seduction08/04/20 04:50 PM
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No that’s predatory. I think people who approach intoxicated people for that reason are disgusting tbh
/r/seduction08/04/20 04:38 PM
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No if you plan on moving to their location shortly.
/r/seduction08/04/20 08:47 AM
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Physically - they were tall (all over 5ft10), athletic/built (gym goers or involved in a sport), handsome faces (all had beards and visited the barbers regularly), smelt good, dress sense was average etc Personality - very confident (the type to approach a group of 5 women and gain all of their attention), bit of a womaniser, great sense of humour, most were go-getters and positive about themselves for the most part, very arrogant and somewhat argumentative, selfish... Mentally/emotionally - all…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:48 AM
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It’s funny, because a lot of the women I grew up with that had ridiculously long requirements in a partner (mainly very shallow ones at that), ended up having babies with subpar men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 03:21 PM
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I don’t agree with this. Perhaps the expectation for women to be stay at home wives isn’t prevalent in modern society BUT most, (if not all) working women across many cultures, with or without children end up doing most of the house work. In fact, there’s studies that show that women are working outside the home and inside the home.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 03:19 PM
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Well I’ve met plenty men that don’t want to be used for their penis alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:22 PM
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I don’t wholly agree. I do agree that in general, getting sex is pretty easy for women, but that’s not to say they’ll attract the type of men they’re sexually attracted to, which means they probably won’t be having sex as regularly as you think. When women are pursuing men sexually, I have noticed standards are a lot higher in the looks department (at least for me - body definitely). Women only really “settle” on the physical when pursuing something serious. I find some men are somewhat opposite…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 01:07 PM
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This is 100% true in my case. I’ve never desired a über attractive boyfriend - sounds like too much work but when I want to bone, that’s all I look for. Tall, Built, Handsome with a nice sized dong. A 26 year old woman
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 11:00 AM
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100% I don’t want to be in a relationship with a man who’s with me based on personality alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:50 AM
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I would say this is true to a certain extent. It depends on how she’s shaped - I find pear shaped/hour glass shaped “plumpers” have more success and also how she carries herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:42 AM
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I get called cute because I’m short and chubby. It’s annoying at times because I feel I’m not taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:23 AM
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I tend to be attracted to men 5ft10-6ft2 I’m 5ft2
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:22 AM
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I must say the men I’ve been extremely sexually attracted to, are men I’d probably never pursue romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 09:33 AM
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Maybe they’re more confident in approaching you?
/r/seduction07/04/20 09:15 AM
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Bingo!
/r/seduction03/04/20 04:45 PM
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Constantly calling, constantly texting and getting irritated if that person doesn’t text you right away. Being frustrated that others are able to occupy themselves with other activities and people other than you. Constantly bending backwards for others in hopes that they will reciprocate. Attention seeking behaviour online in hopes that someone you like will see and contact you etc There’s absolutely nothing wrong with liking the attention and company of others, but I think it’s very unhealthy t…
/r/seduction01/04/20 11:24 AM
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Can women comment on this post? Absolutely there is such thing. I know men who women gravitate towards with very little effort put in on his part. To be fair, this one particular guy is very handsome and confident in who he is (at least that’s how he presents himself). He holds great conversation and has great banter. Women want to be around him and follow him around (either knowingly or unknowingly) whenever I see him at gatherings and parties. He is a sales man too.... so “winning people over”…
/r/seduction01/04/20 11:21 AM
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Respect yourself and set boundaries
/r/seduction30/03/20 07:59 AM
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I tend to be very skeptical of posts about seduction but this is pretty spot on. Very good write up indeed ☺️
/r/seduction27/03/20 05:11 AM
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