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Worked out three days this week Read 4 days this week for about an hour each day and studied for the GRE (I'm trying to get into a good grad school) Went out solo both Friday and Saturday and on Saturday I danced with and number closed one of the hottest girls I've seen in my life she was half Swedish and half Ethiopian. They number probably won't go anywhere, but at least for the time we hung out she was quite into me.
/r/seduction23/06/13 02:10 PM
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Your friend is awesome! That girls advice was pretty good as well. You had a straight clinic that night! You will go fucking FAR with that dude!
/r/seduction23/06/13 01:12 AM
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I feel ya. I'm in constant battle with my ego and sometimes I win and sometimes I lose. I've was always a secretly angry person and through the work I've done, I've been able to build a more relaxed demeanor. It hasn't gotten me women yet, but it's not really about them anyway. Cheers, dude!
/r/seduction05/06/13 11:20 PM
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Cincinnati, represent, represent!
/r/seduction02/06/13 09:17 PM
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It is believed by a certain percentage of the community that fapping and watching porn is negatively affecting the male sex drive in that we no longer find "normal" women attractive enough to pursue. There are a lot more scientific explanations that you can research but the above is the gist of the argument. For me personally, not fapping has had a positive effect on my mental state and how I interact with the world. I'm not going to be a "no fap" evangelist and tell you that fapping/porn is evi…
/r/seduction02/06/13 05:50 PM
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Tell them to look for a lean, Nigerian American male that 5 11.
/r/seduction02/06/13 05:28 PM
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I feel ya, man. I feel as though I'm in a similar state. All we can do is put our faith in the process as Tyler says and keep pushing. Best of luck sir. We do not do this in vain.
/r/seduction02/06/13 05:24 PM
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First, Thank you for your detailed response. I want to explain myself a bit. Last night I wrote this in a fit of fury. I was mad, I was fired up, but most of all I was hurt. So, I wrote what I wrote, thinking that writing it on the internet would force some action in me. Then, I spent the rest of the night watching anime and getting drunk off cheap vodka. I have no excuses for the last year. My wing and I started off strong last summer and then it fisseled out during the school year. Now, I am t…
/r/seduction02/06/13 02:45 PM
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I own a very Nigerian sounding name and most girls seem to think its cool or unique and ask the origin. I think a unique name is a great conversation point if you leverage it correctly.
/r/seduction23/05/13 08:48 PM
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Continue doing well at my internship, do more approaches, and become like water.
/r/seduction16/05/13 02:49 AM
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I want to find a gf ... or develop the strength be remain alone.
/r/seduction27/02/13 05:25 AM
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Center yourself. I have hit a dry patch and I have just started to actively steer my mind away from negative, bitter thoughts. I'm not doing this in the hopes of attracting women, I'm doing this to maintain my sanity. Stay strong, gentlemen.
/r/seduction27/02/13 05:14 AM
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In Louisville with some friends getting hammed. Reflecting back on this year, I have had more action this year than I have had in my entire life because of the principles I have learned from seddit and similar places. Even lost my V-card (not through any seduction though).
/r/seduction29/12/12 06:20 AM
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I say take the Owen Cook (Tyler Durden) approach if you are a beginner: It doesn't matter the time of day or the reason in your head, just fucking approach! You can worry about all 'reaction seeking' shit and all the theoretical shit once you can approach with minimal fear and decent confidence.
/r/seduction29/08/12 01:59 AM
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I didn't think this was too aggressive. This is immaculate work, and I think this should be the par for what we do in both text game and actual conversation. You shouldn't be repeating yourself, you should not back down from what you meant to say and you should not give the woman too much validation. He was confident, funny, calm and most importantly, he stood his ground. We fucking done, sir. Bravo!
/r/seduction18/08/12 07:47 PM
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Logically, it makes perfect sense why women shit test. However, I still have yet to come to grips with it emotionally.
/r/seduction18/08/12 02:27 AM
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Interesting points. The caveat is to "be attractive", which to me means be fit, be confident, and have your body language and tonality down pat. I don't think anyone should try this if they are just starting out. Or maybe they should for the fuck of it?
/r/seduction15/08/12 10:23 PM
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Basically, what he is saying is if you think positively and do positive things, the results of the positive things you do will cause you to think more positive thoughts which produce more positive actions, creating a more positive and happy life.
/r/seduction15/08/12 02:37 PM
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If you want to slow down your liquor consumption then either stick to beer or limit your consumption of any jungle juice or other liquor provided, because that shit will catch up with you faster than you think. Good on you for starting early. I didn't go to a real college party till my sophomore year.
/r/seduction15/08/12 02:04 PM
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That is the point. To you it isn't important, but to billions of other men it is very important. If you are asking the more existential question, why it is important in the grand scheme of things then I would have to say I don't know.
/r/seduction10/08/12 04:14 AM
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Competency with women is not only important to me but also to most men. Just because you don't see the significance doesn't mean it isn't there. Sure, there are many men who don't need it because they do fine on there own. However, for the millions of us who for one reason or another lack the confidence or experience to be good with women, places like seddit are a godsend.
/r/seduction10/08/12 04:05 AM
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Its important because I am a 21 year old virgin who hasn't had a date in two years. PUA, seddit and the like have helped me progress farther sexually and improved my confidence in women and myself.
/r/seduction10/08/12 04:00 AM
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Girls with nice feet. -Girls with tattoos and piercings. -Nerdy girls with the two aforementioned attributes.
/r/seduction05/08/12 01:02 AM
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I completely agree. Somethings need to be experienced, they cannot be taught.
/r/seduction27/07/12 10:18 PM
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After a week of failure in the female department my self-esteem was crippled. However, I was able to work up the courage to go bar hopping with a friend on Saturday night and do more approaches. I started the night with one ok set which was a group of Irish girls.The girls were friendly but I didn't really isolate or escalate any girl in the group. The rest of the night was filled with a bunch of mediocre and awkward sets with the exception of the last set were I both number closed and kiss clos…
/r/seduction25/06/12 02:39 PM
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I completely agree. You should only worry about what you can control. Everything else is fuck all. This is a lesson I'm continuously trying to internalize.
/r/seduction30/05/12 09:37 PM
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Pick up is not an underground concept anymore. It is within the public consciousness and is a well know, maybe infamous, practice. "In the first phase, people withdraw from their current status and prepare to move from one place or status to another. "The first phase (of separation) comprises symbolic behaviour signifying the detachment of the individual or group ... from an earlier fixed point in the social structure."[4] There is often a detachment or "cutting away" from the former self in thi…
/r/seduction22/05/12 03:02 AM
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It seems to me that the person writing this thinks non-geeks are incapable of complex thought and have no appreciation for insightful conversation. This article not only gives bad advice, but also insults the intelligence of geeks and non-geeks alike.
/r/seduction21/05/12 01:23 AM
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Don't give up, motherfucker! I just went out with my south asian friend tonight and we approached so many sets. There was one in particular that I knew through looking at the girl's face and observing her expressions (she was playing with her hair and intently listening to my friend's words) that he could have closed. Race is just an excuse. Any girl who would shut you down purely because of your race doesn't deserve your time. Period.
/r/seduction19/05/12 07:01 AM
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Thank you. I am tired of the " sex is not important" advice. It is clearly important to him and telling him that it is not is not going to change his outlook. Also, notice how all the people who say "sex is not important", already had sex. You can't give someone that type of revelation. They are going to have to learn it themselves. The best seddit can do is tell this guy what he needs to do to get laid (as some already have in this thread).
/r/seduction03/05/12 11:36 AM
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Shit, you might be right. Oh well.
/r/seduction17/04/12 11:04 AM
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For those curious about "the reject" Dance move. It is basically a move involved in "the jerk" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6M8ib2B5m5Q
/r/seduction17/04/12 01:57 AM
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Good job man!!!
/r/seduction17/04/12 01:20 AM
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I am having the exact same problem. My small way of trying to rectify this is to go out not with the expectation of closing but to make sure I at least give value to the interaction by affected the girls intellect, emotions, or her vagina (or all three).
/r/seduction27/03/12 04:21 AM
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I don't know why you are mad at him. Now, if he was talking shit behind your back to this girl then that is one thing. But to come up to you and ask you to stop is not a crime. Now, you could have said no and gone on about your business. You don't owe him anything in the realm of romance. What you could do is try and point in another direction and tell him how to attract women and let him know that confessing your feelings to a girl goes nowhere.
/r/seduction27/03/12 01:40 AM
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I learned that AA is crippling my day game. I saw so many girls I wanted to approach while at school, but I couldn't bring myself to do it for one reason or another (all of them excuses). However, I did accomplish my goal this weekend to have fun and not fall into self pity mode when my friends talk about their sexual experiences and when I don't pick up that night. Also, I feel that I am slowly developing an abundance mentality despite the fact that I currently suck with women and get zero acti…
/r/seduction25/03/12 10:37 PM
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I really enjoyed this. It was very enlightening. That failure rate is fucked up though.
/r/seduction21/03/12 11:01 PM
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Don't go to a party desperate. I was the definition of a desperate Motherfu*ker at a party yesterday and I feel some of the women could smell it on me. I talked to about 6 girls during the night. One of them passed out before I could run any real game on her, another may have been semi interested, but I couldn't tell. The rest were not interested. However, the worst part of the night, was the fact that I lost my cool after we left the party. I bitched to my friends about be lonely, being a virgi…
/r/seduction19/03/12 12:58 AM
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Attitude fucking matters. When you go out with the purpose of interacting with women and getting laid, chances are you will fail and will be frustrated and upset because of it. However, if you go out with the purpose of having fun and being social, you will be much more relaxed and attractive to women. I have learned and relearned this multiple times.
/r/seduction20/02/12 04:16 AM
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