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I agree with the male friend part sometimes it is really situational but approaching women in public in the right settings isnt hard and i grew up overly sheltered not being allowed to go outside on the weekends and got picked by groups quite a bit growing up. When men say they can’t approach women its so hard for me to imagine how they got that way. Like it will always be uncomfortable but its not what a lot of men are saying. I encourage any guy here who is having issues just to get acquainted…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:08 PM
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I had a few hookups which im not really into. I had a decent number of dates and I was seeing some girl for a while and thought we had something but she couldn’t stop being a hoe unfortunately. I recently started talking to a new girl and im pretty excited to see where it goes. Like i said i have some issues to resolve but im still trying to piece it together. I’ve experienced some women make faces at me and walk off or in the case of approaching some east asian girls I’ve literally had them run…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:02 AM
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Tbh bro i think we’re close in age. I never had any success dating as a teenager and then as an adult I never had much success meeting women I actually liked and just basically isolated myself. I’ve turned that around in the past few months to some extent with cold approach. I still have some issues I have to resolve but I would suggest just learning how to do daytime approaches. Even if you dont get any dates with women you’ll even find yourself making friends with women who can give you pointe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:51 PM
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Im not sure if i have an answer because everyone is different but have you tried talking to your parents about it? I know its hard to be positive with no positive reference points but its hard to say exactly what you can do if I haven’t spoken to you. Theres lots of physically unattractive people with partners and some even have attractive partners. In the case of men in particular some are even downright butt ugly and still find a way to find someone. I think you should look at other aspects of…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:38 PM
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I would support the hair transplant but the rhinoplasty is almost certainly too much. It always looks worse afterwards unless you’ve had some sort of serious accident. If you feel the need to get nose surgery and surgeries to be taller then your mindset is the largest problem in this area of your life. Women have way better intuition than men and all these insecurities around basic things probably come out in your behavior. Not to be rude but your just going to make things worse for yourself by …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:29 PM
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Pretty normal. I think there’s plenty of guys like this out there but they’re not allowed to come out and say this out loud due to stigma and shaming from friends or the fact that the girls who are potentially interested in them may lose interest when finding out how inexperienced they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 04:22 AM
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How is your moms friend still married to her husband? Jeez, I hope this is an exaggeration
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 06:21 PM
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I’ve met a few guys discussing looksmaxxing on one of the language learning apps I use. Im a little awkward sometimes but a lot of these guys are quite worse than I am. I think its good to take care of yourself and your appearance if thats what you want but if you’re still not able to interact with women in a way that they like then you won’t find any success. These guys haven’t found that out yet
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 02:47 AM
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With all due respect, I feel like you’re kind of asking me to read mind’s in a way though . All this stuff goes against common sense for me like trying to talk to the girls who ignores me while not making a move on the girl who is open and friendly. I understand if she approaches me as a friend but I literally go and tell them they’re beautiful as a stranger and ask for their number and say explicitly I want to take them on a date and they still try to make me into a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 10:58 AM
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Well I do try to. One time I approached a girl and asked for her number and then I would see her around campus and walk with her to her classes and flirt with her and I asked her on a date and she said when she’s not busy she’ll let me know. The semester ended and we didn’t talk for a while.. she reached out to me a few months later and asked to call me then talked for two hours and asked if I wanted to go to see a movie. I assumed it was a date and I know that I should’ve payed attention to her…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 10:38 AM
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I never pretend. In the past I’ve gotten girls numbers after telling them I think they’re beautiful and then they try to make me into a friend and act all surprised when it’s not what I’m there for. Its not most of the cases but it feels awkward just to spell out everything for them. I sound like an ass if i go “hey look I’m really not here to be your friend”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 10:03 AM
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I dont think its just American women per say but just the dating culture in the west tipped over the edge gradually. The first thing was sexual revolution several decades ago and all cultural decay since then. The second thing was social media and the final nail in the coffin being dating apps. I’d really like to marry an American girl who shares my values but it seems like women here are drifting more and more towards radical leftism, radical feminism, and progressive nonsense every year. It’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 08:36 AM
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I’m half latino and short so it doesn’t work to my advantage when abroad. In my experience its not just latin America but even when I was in Morocco. It’s a lot easier to get into a relationship with a moroccan or arab girl who’s considered 7/10 here than it is to get with 5/10 American girls. The only thing that prevents it from going anywhere serious is always her family and religion. And girls from everywhere outside the west basically seem a lot more receptive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:14 AM
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Everyone in here is saying foreign women only want men for their money but I dont have shit and I can still pull when I travel a lot more easily than in the USA. The type of women who give me attention when traveling or when I meet girls online learning languages in general are way better looking than American girls who are into me. Maybe some are into you for your citizenship or money but in general I think they just have more realistic standards. It’s not hard to tell when someone is into you …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:55 AM
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First one. I hate cleaning but I love cooking and as long as shes not a slob or dresses like a complete bum dont care if she is a little basic as long as she is naturally pretty or cute. Some tomboys are sexy to me as are really feminine women but what really matters is her attitude not how she pretties herself up. I’ve met girls who put so much effort into their appearance and what they wear and their makeup and everything and act like girly girls in public but when you get to know them you fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:38 AM
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A lot of self proclaimed liberals in the younger generation I noticed don’t even hold liberal beliefs or values. Most of them are too far left to even be classed as liberals. A lot of them don’t even believe in certain liberal pillars of our society that both the left and the right are supposed to agree upon such as free speech. Your average conservative in the west is more of liberal in the actual sense of the word than your average “liberal” now..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:26 AM
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Honestly i think its a higher percentage
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 10:10 PM
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I normally try to go 50/50 if I dont know her well because I’ve gotten used for a free meal before and ignored afterwards and another time i paid for two movies tickets and dinner for two because she said she forgot her wallet and the girl said she didn’t know it was a date even though thats what i originally said and got freaked out when i tried to escalate then never spoke to me again even though she had been my friend for a while. She claimed she would pay me back then just ghosted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:22 PM
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He’s a great writer actually
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:58 AM
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Lmao what did i read
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:46 AM
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I think you’re still welcome to give your personal opinion and it won’t get taken down as long as you don’t ascribe it to any “pill”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 06:16 AM
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I’m still in my 20s but the thing I don’t understand and continues to baffle me is that I’ve seen fit handsome hardworking guys who don’t have success with women while I’ve seen bad boy loser types who smoke weed and drink lean all day who are broke and live in a shitty house and can’t even string together a coherent sentence without dropping the n bomb every other word who have new girls every week. They have no ambition and they’re not smart, well spoken, handsome or fit.. they can’t hold deep…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:53 AM
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The first one. It’s not ideal because I don’t have kids but I would think she is still better relationship material than the second because she had the children while married at least. Seems she would be the one to value stability more
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:38 AM
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If I’m not wrong the the study that keeps getting cited says 1 in 3 men from 18-30 haven’t had sex in the past year or are virgins. I don’t know how large their sample was and I can’t think of any motive for men to lie on an anonymous poll. I just suspect it’s not accurate and the actual percentage is quite a bit higher than around 33% where the study says it is at. Maybe it sounds outlandish but i think it might even be surpassing 50% if you took every man in the US aged 18-30 and got them to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 05:10 AM
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I’m not sure about this but some Russian guys I know complain that if you’re 24 that it’s pretty difficult to date 24 year old women as they’re looking to date men 8-10 years older usually. While learning Russian I’ve made friends with a lot of girls in the 19-21 age range dating men in their 30s. Seems women in the West still prefer older but not as old.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:57 AM
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I think you’re confusing celibacy with being a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:45 AM
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Once every? If I had sex once five years ago then haven’t been able to find it since then in that case I’m not sexually active
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 02:03 AM
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I’m not sure. My experiences are anecdotal like I said. I’d probably hear vastly different experiences if I was surrounded by men from different age groups or settings. I just posted my comment because I’m suspecting that it’s a lot higher than people realize because most men are too ashamed to say publicly that they can’t get laid or are virgins. I think most guys will even straight up lie if unless you make them feel as though you’re not judging them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:59 AM
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I mean if you the vast majority of men have sex in their lives but between go years between relationships and cant find another relationship for years and maybe some of them very rarely find a hookup. They would be incels even though they’ve had sex? I’m just saying that this is what I’m observe
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:52 AM
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The last time I had a sexual encounter was like back in September. I don’t know if i would be categorized as an incel because it’s not like I haven’t been trying. How often do you have to have sex to be counted as sexually active?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:49 AM
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Is being an incel becoming the norm for men? Before I get into it, I just want to clarify that I mean in the literal sense but not any ideological sense (someone who labels themselves an incel).. It seems several years ago it was a lot easier for me to get dates with cold approaches but after recently starting again it just seems impossible. Additionally, A LOT (emphasis on a lot) of normal seeming and pretty cool guys through college who I happen to speak to or guys in my language exchange who …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:32 AM
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White, black, hispanic. I don’t know how social they are outside of class but they talk quite a bit so def not shy or introverted. Some of them who I only know online from various countries like the US, UK, Russia, parts of Africa and China.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:47 AM
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They told me it’s not voluntary..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:41 AM
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In my opinion, I think that the men who are going to forums and complaining or identifying themselves as incels will tend to have more extreme and misogynistic opinions than those who are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:40 AM
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Why so?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:32 AM
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Is being an incel becoming the norm for men? Before I get into it, I just want to clarify that I mean in the literal sense but not any ideological sense (someone who labels themselves an incel).. It seems several years ago it was a lot easier for me to get dates with cold approaches but after recently starting again it just seems impossible. Additionally, A LOT (emphasis on a lot) of normal seeming and pretty cool guys through college who I happen to speak to or guys in my language exchange who …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 12:12 AM
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It’s funny how women claim judging a woman for having a high n count is wrong or insecure while they judge men for having too low of an n count or not having sexual experience and throw around the word incel as an insult. Is there just no self awareness? I don’t understand
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:24 PM
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